2 Categories of PEOPLE ALLAH Never Forgive 🥺 || Sheikh Assim Al-Hakeem

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  • @kehfilwara1692
    @kehfilwara1692 3 місяці тому +22

    Rabbir hamhuma kama rabbayani sageera

    • @Teach_Me_Islam
      @Teach_Me_Islam  3 місяці тому +7

      Rabbi rhamhumaa kama rahimakuma 🤲

  • @chrism3975
    @chrism3975 3 місяці тому +31

    One sign of end of time is that the mother give birth to her master, this is what Prophet said, so we are in those times right now, children have become the master of their parents...

    • @buttman12954
      @buttman12954 3 місяці тому +2

      thats not what the hadith meant, it meant that a slave mother will give birth to a free daughter as the mother is a slave to the man but the daughter is born free because his father is free.

    • @buttman12954
      @buttman12954 3 місяці тому +5

      also akhi, our end time is when we die so dont be scared of end times but work hard before your death comes, your end is when you die and that can be anytime we dont know
      so dont be scared and keep doing your best for Allah swt, fear that He is always watching and fear that He might put us in jahannam but also He is indeed Most Merciful so be hopeful. keep it balanced and read quran more and read and research hadith more.
      jazakAllahu khairan

    • @tabassumfatimaahmad1251
      @tabassumfatimaahmad1251 3 місяці тому

      I think it's all about serrogesi mother

    • @NormalMuslim7
      @NormalMuslim7 3 місяці тому

      ​@@buttman12954write the full version not SWT

    • @PlotTwistzy
      @PlotTwistzy 3 місяці тому

      @@buttman12954 a very good response brother/sister ❤

  • @coolguy-lc3tw
    @coolguy-lc3tw 3 місяці тому +1

    alhamdulilah for this video ❤

  • @omairbinenam6337
    @omairbinenam6337 3 місяці тому +1

    The title and the message are quite interesting and good to acknowledge.

  • @MK-tb7wr
    @MK-tb7wr 3 місяці тому +10

    ALHUMDULILLAH ALLAH (SWT) is 70000 times more merciful and forgiving than our own parents…….
    Muslim Parents also have the same amount of responsibility’s towards their children…….in ISLAM……….they must be good role models for their kids and always try to put their kids first before anyone else and anything else……..and such parents will definitely have kids that remember this and will always return the favour.
    ALHUMDULILLAH in ISLAM we still need to respect our parents and look after them regardless of the type of parents they are……and one important thing in Islam is that it’s not about who is older or younger but it’s about fairness, honesty and truthfulness…..
    ALLAH (SWT) is always with the honest and genuine believer……and May ALLAH (SWT) give all the parents in ISLAM shifa and true guidance to always be on the straight path of ISLAM……

    • @nadianodi7965
      @nadianodi7965 3 місяці тому

      Look.. my mother and father both of them sacrificed so much for me and my sibling.. but how come my sibling doesn’t return the favour

    • @MK-tb7wr
      @MK-tb7wr 3 місяці тому

      @@nadianodi7965 maybe because your siblings are not practicing ISLAM ☪️

    • @NormalMuslim7
      @NormalMuslim7 3 місяці тому

      Write the full version not SWT

    • @samtulip7392
      @samtulip7392 3 місяці тому

      Ameen

    • @samtulip7392
      @samtulip7392 3 місяці тому

      Yes Allah SWT is the Most Merciful and forgiving and loving to His slaves. Ameen. He knows everything who is doing what and why. Who is suffering in silence or even sometimes in anger, He knows who is doing wrong, why is he or she doing so. May Allah SWT guide us all to the right path forever and save us from being sinful. Ameen Ya Rabb

  • @null8295
    @null8295 3 місяці тому +9

    what if you have a toxic parent?
    EDIT:
    actually I found out he answers this question in the following UA-cam video: "My Parent is verbally abusive, how do I control myself from losing my temper? - Assim al hakeem"

    • @h8mrym
      @h8mrym 3 місяці тому +7

      You still have a duty to obey and be kind to them on this earth and if you do, allah will gift you with patient and he will hold them accountable for their actions in the hereafter.

    • @Strandlights
      @Strandlights 3 місяці тому

      @user-db2ob2jc2f the answer is the child has to give in and strive to understand the parent. This requires independent healing and unconditional love for parents

    • @Strandlights
      @Strandlights 3 місяці тому

      @user-db2ob2jc2f I hope you heal and find a most rewarding relationship with your parents

    • @user-ff4zd7lh3q
      @user-ff4zd7lh3q 3 місяці тому

      @@Strandlightstoxic/narcissistic parents can’t be helped. No matter what you do for them they will destroy you, your relationships with others (spouse, children)
      My husbands mother (and sisters) is a narcissist, they drove away his first wife. They are trying to do the same to me. He does every thing for his parents, should he obey his mum and kick me and his disabled child out? Because that’s what his mum wants.

    • @iaynaushr3166
      @iaynaushr3166 3 місяці тому +5

      Silent about it. I have my parents they go above and beyond to stop my progress and destroy anything good coming in my way. I gave up on them. For children like us, born as exception to General rule, May Allah set us free from abuse and torture of our own parents.

  • @Hicham-Djibrina-RyanOUIMINGA
    @Hicham-Djibrina-RyanOUIMINGA 2 місяці тому

    Don't forget to repeat sayyidul Istighfar each morning and evening and have a good behaviour and do not abandon the salah

  • @raedosman6260
    @raedosman6260 3 місяці тому +7

    If the prophet peace be upon him never said it i dont believe it why would i get punished if i did what i was supposed to do?

    • @LabelOnline2
      @LabelOnline2 3 місяці тому +1

      He just explained it

    • @LabelOnline2
      @LabelOnline2 3 місяці тому +1

      @@omairbinenam6337 I'm srry I didn't understand what u mean

    • @omairbinenam6337
      @omairbinenam6337 3 місяці тому

      @@LabelOnline2 sorry i deleted it,

    • @alisalimkumarrimo1833
      @alisalimkumarrimo1833 3 місяці тому

      No,you must love and obey and respect you're parent,especially when they get older.
      Do you're best to make you're parent smile and comfortable and loving to you,since they took care us when we are younge.

    • @javed.minhazxin9sebastian737
      @javed.minhazxin9sebastian737 3 місяці тому

      How you should treat your parents are dependant on how the sahabah treated their parents. How they viewed things as sinful. Read their stories and you will understand. If you don't read the books of righteous predecessors

  • @toolate6971
    @toolate6971 2 місяці тому

    This is awful! Being kind does not mean "make happy." The he goes on to say that the second category will be punished?! Many of these callers don't have the slightest clue about real life! I know many people whose parents forced them to take loans from banks to pay for their siblings, for their homes, and for the high life in Dubai! They relented because of this explanation. Being kind does not mean to make someone happy, if that were the case most people would go to hell because they cannot keep up with the Jones'. 😢

  • @birds3xl863
    @birds3xl863 2 місяці тому

    Are the childreen supposed to do everything, because they are a family. But, if these children one time in life are ill, have no money, ha ve problems. Are they bad childreen if they have no money, but very good manners, very good words, with parents!?!!

  • @saidisumbwa181
    @saidisumbwa181 3 місяці тому +1

    Assalam alaikum warahmatullah wabarakat is assimalhakeem videos copyrighted free??

  • @letsunnahgoforth
    @letsunnahgoforth 3 місяці тому +1

    where is the evidence from quran and sunnah especially for the second one . Respecting is an obligation in Islam but is there a like a three categories hadith that I am missing

  • @Tullex2
    @Tullex2 3 місяці тому +3

    what about missing salah, isnt it the second major sin after associating others with Allah?

    • @A1M2099
      @A1M2099 3 місяці тому +2

      He said one of the most heinous sins. Not second or first major sin.

    • @Tullex2
      @Tullex2 3 місяці тому

      ​@@A1M2099 2:59

  • @hakeemed
    @hakeemed 3 місяці тому

    Allah alghafoor altawab alrahman alraheem.

  • @abdul_RAhman1111
    @abdul_RAhman1111 3 місяці тому +1

    Would ignoring someone because they ignore you be considered as one of the major sins

    • @حارثسہی
      @حارثسہی 3 місяці тому +1

      Do not take my word for it, I'm no scholar, but I'm pretty sure in most cases this is completely fine. When someone wrongs you, you're allowed to do the same thing back at them but no more.
      Don't take my answer and find a proper scholarly fatwa on this issue

    • @Teach_Me_Islam
      @Teach_Me_Islam  3 місяці тому +5

      @@abdul_RAhman1111 In Islam, ignoring someone because they ignored you is not considered a major sin. However, it's important to handle the situation with empathy and kindness.
      The Quran teaches us to:
      - "Repel evil with what is better" (Q41:34)
      - "Be patient and forgive" (Q24:22)
      - "Turn away from the ignorant" (Q7:199)
      However, Instead of ignoring them, consider:
      - Forgiving and moving forward
      - Addressing the issue with kindness and understanding
      - Praying for guidance and patience
      This answer is based on the Qur'an and Sunnah. I hope this answers your question and Allah ﷻ knows best.

    • @shafinrahman2199
      @shafinrahman2199 3 місяці тому

      I'm curious from what angle can someone possibly think this will anger Allah....

    • @حارثسہی
      @حارثسہی 3 місяці тому

      @@shafinrahman2199 He's just seeking knowledge, nothing wrong with that

    • @naztariq7490
      @naztariq7490 2 місяці тому

      No ignoring someone is not a major sin.

  • @shairabhanusk9292
    @shairabhanusk9292 3 місяці тому

    Assalamualaikum. But how can i be peaceful when my parents are muslims from birth and believes all myths as a hindu and also some time thinks hindu god is the real ones and not doing 5 times prayers , just offering dhuhr prayer on friday . Recently i argued with my parents to remove curtains of cartoons (pooh bear) because that's not permissible in islam( but those curtains are not new and those are continuing from my childhood days , I don't know it's not permissible then but i did knew now , so i won't allow to hang them anymore) and my mom said " curtains are not in the direction u pray , Your heart has to be clean for prayer not the curtains ". And then she also said " who disobeys and argues with parents their prayers won't be successful 😢" . The next day i removed those curtains and hanged the curtains which are made from old sarees . But she didn't like it . After a week she said u hanged those curtains and we both became ill 🤒 due to them , and it's their sentiment . And she removed for a week . Our house is totally without curtains for a week . Then after a week she again hanged the cartoon curtains . And again i argued and removed .
    Its not only in the matter of curtains . If i tell anything good to them , they simply rejects me and always thinks they only know the all because they are elders and we are born from them .😢😢😢
    Can anyone tell me how to deal with these kinds of situation? 😢
    Jajakalla khair ❤

    • @SODIQTIJANI-w3l
      @SODIQTIJANI-w3l 2 місяці тому +1

      Keep persuading them to the light of Islam and always pray to Allah for guidance
      Don't be harsh or rude on them
      May Allah see us through

  • @RovionRovion
    @RovionRovion 3 місяці тому +2

    What about the parents that are narcissist and a narcissist evil mother who is obsessed on doing all kinds of evil and sorcery on you for years to ruin your life cos she is jealous of her own daughter and don't want her own daughter to go forward in life and have anything and then play victim and innocent

    • @YousefTube
      @YousefTube 3 місяці тому +1

      Treat them the way you want to be treated it otherwise you just wanna make excuses just to hate your parents

    • @tkhanom9076
      @tkhanom9076 3 місяці тому +3

      Parents as such do exist unfortunately, it’s not excuses but reality which scholars do not address

  • @fksknsnskjdjjd9696
    @fksknsnskjdjjd9696 3 місяці тому +1

    What about parent that do shirk and you did everything you can to put them in the rightfull way but they dont want so you said bad thing to them so they can wake up ?

  • @AnonymousAnonymous-dy5of
    @AnonymousAnonymous-dy5of 3 місяці тому +2

    One ruling that confuses me is that children should be treated equally. How equal should children be treated? Equal in the sense where if my father gives his son on $10, does the father have to give all his other children $10 as well. Coz what if that son passed well in school n the rest didn't pass so that $10 was maybe that son's reward....

    • @LabelOnline2
      @LabelOnline2 3 місяці тому +1

      Imagine u have a son d daughter and you are getting old
      U will give them your house and cars etc but u can't give both of them equally like saying this house is both of yours
      What u will do I give ur daughter the wealth and some properties if u have and the son the house and cars
      Another thing is make sure they are happy,if the daughter is not happy with ur wealth and properties then give her something else that she is happy with and same for the son

    • @zak901
      @zak901 3 місяці тому

      @@AnonymousAnonymous-dy5of treating them equally in your example is that he gives you $10 because you did well in school alhumdulillah. They did not do well in school so he didn’t give them $10 BUT if they were to do so they would give them that. That is fair. If he gave them the money without them doing anything that would be unfair to you because you put in effort for those good grades but they would get the same reward without doing the work. Now in terms of treatment with responsibilities in the house and treating all children equally kindly and not favoring one over the other is the ruling that your parents have to abide by same as how us as their children have to honor them. Giving $10 to everyone would be favoring everyone who didn’t do the work over the one who did the work. It would be better to just give them other opportunities to also earn $10 because not everyone is good at school but everyone deserves to be rewarded for the good they do.
      Also DONT COMMENT ON UA-cam ASK A SCHOLAR OR SHEIKH IF YOU HAVE A QUESTION

    • @eerie-000
      @eerie-000 2 місяці тому

      Did Allah mention in Qur'an that give gifts to your high performing kids?

    • @LabelOnline2
      @LabelOnline2 2 місяці тому

      @@eerie-000 nope only fair

    • @eerie-000
      @eerie-000 2 місяці тому

      @@LabelOnline2 humans have an erroneous sense of fairness and that is why Qur'an is revealed. Who are we to decide what is fair?

  • @salahuddin4685
    @salahuddin4685 3 місяці тому +11

    Nowdays many parents treat their childs like garbage bcz of ppl like this person, How many childs lifes are destroyed bcz of one sided lectures like this.
    'sheikh', Responsibility starts with parents, children follow what parents do, If parents are bad ppl still children must try to please them but bcz of ppl like you nowdays pleasing parents is next to impossible. In QURAN, ALLAH said major sins are, shirk then killing ppl and then committing zina. You did not mention that.
    If parents destroy their chidrens life bcz of your lecture then you are also responsible...

    • @Quantum-1157
      @Quantum-1157 3 місяці тому +2

      Get a life

    • @shwanmirza9306
      @shwanmirza9306 3 місяці тому +4

      Blaming the Sheikh? Think again

    • @Quantum-1157
      @Quantum-1157 3 місяці тому +3

      @@shwanmirza9306 he probably can’t think about these things. He is playing the blame game. He looks like the victim of an alien culture. It is very clear in Islam that there is no obedience to a creation that violates Allah’s laws. So if parents are pushing children to do haram things, the parents are being sinful.

    • @ahmedaghadi8281
      @ahmedaghadi8281 3 місяці тому +3

      Do you think this is whole video? He have mentioned other side too in many of his videos. Please don't let your emotions overcome your reasoning.

    • @turkeyleg72
      @turkeyleg72 3 місяці тому +1

      Brother you got it wrong, this video isn't talking about sins that are worse than Zina it is talking about sins that lead to punishment of the Grave. The Title is clickbait

  • @hoopoe3093
    @hoopoe3093 3 місяці тому +1

    Don't judge me I'm not a book❗📚😊

  • @Trinity.A
    @Trinity.A 3 місяці тому +1

    Interesting how there are more warnings for parents in islam than there are to children, yet the children are told to be dutiful and not the parent.

    • @zak901
      @zak901 3 місяці тому

      @@Trinity.A
      The parent has sacrificed so much more and done so much more for the child than the child has done for them so it is only right that the children at least listen to their parents when they tell them to do chores and go to school and other halal things etc.

    • @zak901
      @zak901 3 місяці тому

      The Prophet (saw) said:
      “Your children have the right of receiving equal treatment, as you have the right that they should honor you.” (Abu Dawoud).

    • @Trinity.A
      @Trinity.A 3 місяці тому

      @@zak901 even more interesting as no one would quote the Qur'an but some hadeeth when asked for justification

    • @Trinity.A
      @Trinity.A 3 місяці тому

      @@zak901 someone clearly has no idea how humans work

    • @sugoi9680
      @sugoi9680 3 місяці тому

      There are warnings for the parent not to abuse the child but as a general rule it's children that are more heedless I suppose. Not everyone has toxic or abusive parents after all.

  • @howardmercury2242
    @howardmercury2242 3 місяці тому

    If they're abusing me and scream and yelling me unfairly, if they're hurting me I hurt them back

    • @zak901
      @zak901 3 місяці тому

      Yelling back will only make them yell at you more its a vicious cycle of pride

    • @howardmercury2242
      @howardmercury2242 3 місяці тому

      @@zak901 I don't give a hell about nothing I didn't ask them to give a life for me I broke this cycle by finishing them, I don't fear nothing if I go by truth and justice

    • @zak901
      @zak901 3 місяці тому

      @@howardmercury2242 first what do mean when you say that you “finished them” and also it seems that you know that truth is islam and through islam you get justice. If your parents treat you harshly as you say 1. You parents yelling and screaming at you could be because they care about you and want you to change for the better they may not be right in 100% of things but just know at the root of it all it could be their love for you. They still feed you and clothe you (i hope) but their inexperience and culture could just make their frustration 10x worse than it seems, try to sit down speak to them on a human to human level talking about issues between each other not trying to defend yourself or create more issues but actively trying to resolve those issues. Wars that go on forever just lead to more deaths. 2. If they are unfair and are truly abusing you, and you truly believe islam is the truth, then be good to them and listen to what they do, but, if they tell you to do anything haram don’t do it, and if its something hard for you please just try your best, if you can’t do it, instead of giving up and not doing anything and just making them angry with you, communicate the issues you are having with them. A lack of communication ruins more relationships than you think and a lot of times just talking it out can fix your problems. Keep in mind on the day of judgment, your parents will be held accountable for any wrongdoing they do to you but also you will be held accountable for and wrong you do to them. And, as the video states, doing wrong to them is a major sin up there with shirk that could lead to you having a worse punishment than them. I don’t know your situation at all but Allah does and through His book and through the words of His messenger (SAW) you can find comfort in the things that may be hard for you to do like to sit down and talk to them and to obey their commands (reasonably and within halal things).
      About being born. It wasn’t them that brought you to life but it was Allah swt. It’s not them that keeps you alive but it is Allah swt. And the fact that you are still alive proves that He(swt) wants you to keep on living and that YOU want to keep on living. If life was so horrible then why go through it? Because within life there is goodness and beauty and that is more often than not worth the trials and suffering. Saying that you wish you had not been born is being rebellious against the will of Allah and that will not do anything. What has happened is what has passed and all that matters is what you have done and what you will end up doing (inshallah good).
      Be patient and be kind and inshallah Allah will reward you for that by giving you ease and not leaving your efforts in vain.
      Allah azzawajal knows best

    • @Zual-Kifl
      @Zual-Kifl 2 місяці тому

      @@howardmercury2242 This is not correct, you show them kindness and treat them with respect, if they keep hurting you then distance yourself until they want to reconcile.

    • @howardmercury2242
      @howardmercury2242 2 місяці тому

      @@Zual-Kifl Oh God, then what the hell am i talking about, That's what i talking about its over they are not Changing, they are always, abusing, swearing and critisizing me and i should say oh Thank you for hurting my feelings you are not different than people who hurt me, How must i Explain you, Don't push me, If you didn't live my life, then Shut the hell up!!!, Narcissistic people never reconcile because they think they are perfect and make themselves as victim if i stand for myself, In my future life they will not exist for me that's it and i don't give hell about nothing, you got it!!!

  • @antichamcha6544
    @antichamcha6544 3 місяці тому

    Being a Madkhali is a great sin as well

    • @SeekerOfKnowledge613
      @SeekerOfKnowledge613 3 місяці тому

      Do you know what is the meaning of madkhali?

    • @antichamcha6544
      @antichamcha6544 3 місяці тому +1

      @@SeekerOfKnowledge613 I don't care about its literal meaning. In practice, a Madkhali is a person who is loyal to west-annointed rulers in the Muslim world. Basically, a person whose goal is to tell Muslims to stay quiet when their leader is harming the broader Islamic ummah.

    • @SeekerOfKnowledge613
      @SeekerOfKnowledge613 3 місяці тому

      @@antichamcha6544 Wrong, Madkhali is the name of a tribe.

    • @antichamcha6544
      @antichamcha6544 3 місяці тому +1

      @@SeekerOfKnowledge613 Seriously, is that the best response you had after I told you I don't care about the literal meaning? Next, you will say Wahabi means someone who loves Allah Wahab. I am talking about Madkhalism as a school of thought, and the damage it is causing, you are fixated on your tribes.

    • @SeekerOfKnowledge613
      @SeekerOfKnowledge613 3 місяці тому

      @@antichamcha6544 Wrong, I asked you a question, and you gave me the wrong answer, so I corrected you.

  • @pr9601
    @pr9601 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks