If Narcissists BETRAYED Your Trust, WATCH THIS! | JESUS CHRIST Did Not Trust Them

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  • @marilynschmidt6400
    @marilynschmidt6400 2 роки тому +269

    My sister told me I was too trusting and now I live a lonely life which I believe is a blessing in disguise

    • @walkingwithheather
      @walkingwithheather 2 роки тому +52

      Me too. Learning to be comfortable with ourselves and staying close to the Lord, is the journey.

    • @stephenrandall484
      @stephenrandall484 2 роки тому +46

      Alone in the world,but all together in God. Could it possibly get any better than this.

    • @marshamcdonald1475
      @marshamcdonald1475 2 роки тому +14

      Amen sister!!

    • @maggiemcdonald3185
      @maggiemcdonald3185 2 роки тому +8

      Yes me 2 🙌 i absolutley love it 🙏

    • @donnafoley2167
      @donnafoley2167 2 роки тому +8

      AMEN.

  • @corporaterobotslave400
    @corporaterobotslave400 2 роки тому +54

    When you give your trust to a narcissist all they see is a weak victim willing to do their bidding.

  • @VoxJoxx
    @VoxJoxx Рік тому +13

    There are plenty of people in the Christian church who have the Iscariot spirit, they are there to do exactly the same Iscariot did to Jesus to you. Be aware of these backstabbers, they are everywhere. I only trust God now, he is all you need. God has taught me how to close doors to darkness and not look back. Good Christian advice ty 🙏🏻

  • @jeannedouglas9912
    @jeannedouglas9912 Рік тому +6

    Horizontal trust could reflect Christ's words..."Have no fear I have overcome the world!"

  • @mandycote5662
    @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +196

    Trust is to be earned
    Respect is to be mutual

    • @bendowney5822
      @bendowney5822 2 роки тому +4

      I'm not even a fan of the idea that I should respect someone and they'll respect me or something like that. I'm more like the last line in No Country For Old Men "I'll be polite"

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      Christian brainwashing makes you a slimy freak in a creepy cult, with a cult handbook with zero credibility, Cupcake. May the 200,000 raped altar boys' tiny little bleeding and ruptured anuses spew all over you and your loved ones. I'm sure they'll remember this thrill. Normal people simply type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Mandy.

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @@bendowney5822 Give Holy Water enemas to the spiritually constipated and altar boy chastity belts to the tiny working tykes! Christians are victims of 20 centuries of intense Christian brainwashing and keep the Christian hustlers happy, rich and slimy. Normal people type merely Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Ben.

    • @cymandybro9519
      @cymandybro9519 2 роки тому +3

      Amen! I have been feeling I dont trust people. I felt there is something wrong with me. Thank you for the clarification. I trust my kids.

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @@cymandybro9519 Christian paranoia is great! Everyone should be a Christian paranoid with invisible enemies and everyone is evil, including your relatives, neighbours and friends, Rube. Creepy cults like Christianity always make paranoia a top sensational priority for each and every sucker, rube and brainwashed freak, Cupcake!!! You must be very proud............. Normal people type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Mandy.

  • @jswjanjan
    @jswjanjan 2 роки тому +14

    I have been teaching yoga for 25 years and the New Age Forgiveness/non-judgemental/positive vibes only nonsense allows predatory narcs to roam free and flourish.

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +2

      Yes Janjan

    • @carolyn4423
      @carolyn4423 4 місяці тому +2

      here are other words for it, my sister harpooned at me . . . 'you should give me the benefit of the doubt'. I'd been there/done that for 62 years with her!

  • @jennburton4222
    @jennburton4222 2 роки тому +192

    Amazing message, I was in a 15 year narcissistic marriage and cut off from everyone. When I got out and reunited with old "friends" I saw them through a completely different lens. For years I prayed for wisdom. God made it clear. The motives of others and convicted me of exactly what I'm doing to invite it into my life. A month ago I told a friend, I know you, I live in reality, you can lie to yourself but your not lying to me and I cut all ties. I wasn't about to sit around and wait for the next time they were going to hurt me because it's inevitable and it will only get worse. I don't need it.

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      Normal people type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction.

    • @kathk3203
      @kathk3203 2 роки тому +10

      Similar story

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @@kathk3203 NORMAL people type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Cupcake. You suffer from Christian paranoia and delusions of invisible enemies. Your husband thought you were brainwashed and freaky, Rube!

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @@LookUpYourRedemptionDrawsNigh NORMAL people type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Cupcake. How stupid are you?

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @@LookUpYourRedemptionDrawsNigh Only true paranoids ignore medical advice during an emergency. You glow with death and you love to be a bottom feeder!!! As long as you remain pathetic, you AND Eric Clapton will spread revulsion and ignorance. You must be very proud. Keep baring your testicles and show how a real adult wallows in disease, Cupcake!

  • @karenmininni4962
    @karenmininni4962 2 роки тому +175

    Super powerful when you point out that Jesus already knew that he would be betrayed for money. Thats the power of God. When we are betrayed, stuck in a trauma bond, unable to emotionally attach with those intending to hurt us, our trust in God must be greater than our denial of reality with those who are abusers. We must attach to a loving God not a bullying tyrant.

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken 2 роки тому +13

      That's what I love about Jesus.
      He knew that if we made an effort to build & nurture a relationship with God it would protect us from the scoundrels that confront us in our physical , emotional & spiritual life

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @@carpathianken 200,000 raped altar boys agree! When they called to the Lord for help, he was a) Sleeping b) Drunk? c) Deaf? d) Playing computer games? The ancient Hebrews created Moses AND Jehovah in 950 BCE. Normal people type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Cupcake.

    • @franksimmons9242
      @franksimmons9242 2 роки тому +6

      @@carpathianken Very clear. Rarely does a person achieve such an understanding. I left organized religion and found deeper peace with God. Hyper religiosity has nothing to do with God.

    • @franksimmons9242
      @franksimmons9242 2 роки тому +5

      How can you make it any plainer? Organized religions remind me of mouse traps.

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @@franksimmons9242 The Amazing Keskin shut down most American Faith Healers by exposing their frauds on national tv. African Christian hustlers are experts in fleecing the suckers and earn billions of dollars. Organized religions like the Roman Catholic Church were taken over by organized crime and the Vatican Bank is a good example. The head banker was found hanging from Blackfriars Bridge. After 20 centuries of brainwashing the suckers, Christian hustlers are now into sensationalism, paranoia and creepy delusions. The suckers love it!!!!!!

  • @gospelreign3611
    @gospelreign3611 2 роки тому +129

    In Jeremiah it says if you fully trust someone they become a curse

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +16

      Truth!

    • @tinaf600
      @tinaf600 2 роки тому +6

      Where? Thanks

    • @gospelreign3611
      @gospelreign3611 2 роки тому +13

      @@tinaf600 Jeremiah 17:5 Isaiah2:22** edited** Psalm 118:8-9 Philippian 3:3

    • @tinaf600
      @tinaf600 2 роки тому +2

      @@gospelreign3611 thank you so much. I highlighted them, except for Isaiah 22:2-
      You who are full of noise, A tumultuous city, a joyous city? Your slain men are not slain with the sword, Nor dead in battle.
      Let me know what it was suppose be. Thanks and God bless ♥️

    • @gospelreign3611
      @gospelreign3611 2 роки тому +11

      @@tinaf600 🤔😆Excuse my mistake it's bedtime for me 🥱 it's Isaiah 2:22 not Isaiah 22:2, that's so awesome God's Word is always the Way, the Truth, the Life! It's wonderful you did that, keep the faith. Praise the Living God. Take care, be blessed and rest well...smiles.

  • @nicholashudson1283
    @nicholashudson1283 2 роки тому +53

    You can't trust an adult child to control their emotions. You can forgive their inability to emotionally develop, but this is where not forgetting and maintaining boundaries is of utmost importance.

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +3

      Yes Nicholas

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      Most folks don't give a shit about your feelings, Karen. Normal folks type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Rube.

    • @angecynthia347
      @angecynthia347 2 роки тому +3

      Thanks for the wisdom...this is my mother..I Am in a different country,,I will make sure never ever to allow the dynamic that happened while I was busy trusting and being a child to her,,when clearly she is a 3 year old bitter,envious,jealous in a woman's body...she had me thinking and looking at her all powerful, and wise...looking back she has none of these...she destroyed her own life by leaving father,devaluing him,and in line devaluing herself with men...the bad heart she has from decisions she made for her life..ahahaha

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +1

      According to God no one is classified as an adult while continuing to be unstable within his/ her soul - mind- will and emotion which the body comes into subjection to thus becoming its object which creates an undivided issue
      Man says to claim by his made up law a person is an adult at 18 which varies depending where one lives - globally
      Here in 🇨🇦 you’re an adult at 18- can drink in a bar at 19 - Saskatchewan and drive at 16 - can quit ‘school’ at 16 without ‘parents’ permission and are classified as a ‘minor ‘ up to 18
      The hypocrisy is not just in man made laws when God has already give His law which is actually singular - but there is an extended hypocrisy just for the fact this is not the SAME number and varies THEN depending on the province this too varies
      God does not give a mixture what so ever 😎

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +3

      Age is the amount of time counted that we’ve been allowed to be on this earth
      Maturity comes by way of being governed under God renewing our mind will and emotion according to Him- it’s becoming sober in ALL things
      Christ does not become one with an immature child spiritually speaking anymore that we are to remain immature while remaining in our body

  • @tinaf600
    @tinaf600 2 роки тому +85

    Wow so true 😭 if we are trusting it's because we don't know and if we are knowing then we don't have to trust. It makes so much sense. Especially how you break down how Jesus knows our heart. So he knows who to trust from who not to trust. We need to pay more attention to people's actions so we can be in the "knowing" so we don't have to trust them. They're showing every reason why we should not. The Bible is very clear that we will know them by their fruit. Don't ignore that simple teaching that can save us so much heartache and pain.

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +5

      Yes

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      When 200,000 altar boys called unto the Lord when they were being raped by Holy men, they trusted God Almighty and were confused by the violence, their tiny little bleeding, ruptured anuses and lifetimes of nightmares. Trusting Christian hustlers to be honest about the happy myths of Abraham, Moses and Jehovah is fun, but all normal people simply type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Cupcake.

    • @maranatha8148
      @maranatha8148 2 роки тому +3

      Amen!!!

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @@maranatha8148 You suffer from a common Christian problem, you suffer from Christian Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Normal people type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction. Rube. One billion people are completely willing to die for their faith, but never read the fine print on the Christian indoctrination ticket, Cupcake. THAT'S A SUCCESSFUL CULT!!!!!!

    • @patriciacole8773
      @patriciacole8773 Рік тому

      Remember the fourth commandment KJV is reminding us of Genesis 2:2&3

  • @riabombia
    @riabombia 2 роки тому +120

    Loved this talk Kevin. Bless you for tackling the tough issues.
    People are fallible. The right and only place to put our trust and dependence is on God.

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +6

      Yes Ria

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +5

      Yes - but first one must actually meet the Real One
      When only ‘8’ was saved on the ark and is a physical depiction of the spiritual true- it should be concerning
      It’s not a free for all
      We too must die
      to the self in us 💖👑

    • @LR-yu3mx
      @LR-yu3mx 2 роки тому +4

      Amen. Trust God alone. Thanks Ria

    • @joshuaanzalone2060
      @joshuaanzalone2060 2 роки тому +4

      Amen I trust in no man,only jesus

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @@joshuaanzalone2060 200,000 raped altar boys trusted Jesus Christ the Savior of Mankind and got raped by Christian Holy Men!!! HALLELUJAH!!! How stupid are you, Josh? Normal people simply type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Rube.

  • @thesecretplacerevelations
    @thesecretplacerevelations 2 роки тому +2

    Yeah. I 'know' how narcissistic bullies are. That's why I don't 'trust' them. They can go ahead all the way they want with their bullying. They are not going to change my stand with God.

  • @jodycasey6936
    @jodycasey6936 2 роки тому +59

    Wow I love how you differentiated between trust and knowing.

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +2

      Yes Jody

    • @ShoutItFromTheHousetops
      @ShoutItFromTheHousetops 2 роки тому +7

      Me too! A blanket of trust that has blinded me has now been lifted. Thank God and thank you @TheRoyalWe 🎉

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      Trust Christian hustlers for brainwashing! Normal people type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Jody.

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 2 роки тому +34

    This is the most IMPORTANT message you have sent out there Kevin, in my opinion. Trust and faith belong vertically to the Higher Power and not horizontally to other people - we have senses and reason to learn and know what we are dealing with and should make our decisions on the basis of facts and observation of true reality. I agree that the idea of implementing trust vertically as a very good thing is one of the biggest lies of the enemy as it opens doors to people being betrayed and often irreversibly damaged in the process which will never happen when we trust Our Higher Power. Moreover Trust is a great marketing tool which in turn produces Pathways for manipulation and deception and plays on greed, jealousy, urge for power, domination and control. This is a revelatory video for me. Thank you Kevin. God bless you.

  • @suzanneburgess216
    @suzanneburgess216 Рік тому +1

    I have no doubts God has shown me this video right now for strength n a sign he's with me. I'm shattered n wounded by the enemy I'm fighting hard so this is of great value to me Thankyou PRAISE God

  • @mandycote5662
    @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +28

    Yes because He KNEW what was in man
    spiritual discernment

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +1

      True Mandy

    • @breepp9972
      @breepp9972 11 місяців тому

      It wasn't just that He was discerning it was because He knew their hearts. He is God. He knew even their thoughts. He knows our thoughts. This scripture is much more than Jesus protecting Himself. He knew Peter would deny Him three times. Did He protect Himself from that? He knew Judas would betray Him but He did not try to get out of being killed unjustly. It was His plan so that He could die for guilty sinners in their place. He did not try to escape, and He easily could have. That scripture shows that He was and is God and He knews each and everyone of our hearts.

  • @Yayas_World29
    @Yayas_World29 2 роки тому +1

    I can’t live in a world without real connection and trust. No man is an island. However, I’ve found that in other countries, families are more intact and trustworthy

  • @zepgirl6495
    @zepgirl6495 Рік тому +1

    To the point when you said, when we trust another, we really do not know them!

  • @elainebmack
    @elainebmack 2 роки тому +3

    I like the silence in this video. No background noise, wind, traffic, etc. Your messages are stronger when given in silence.

  • @GenerationX1984
    @GenerationX1984 2 роки тому +27

    My motto since I was a teenager has been Trust No One.

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +3

      Hear that Chris

    • @LR-yu3mx
      @LR-yu3mx 2 роки тому +5

      Mine too. Psychologist sait to my utterance"I trust nobody"
      He said:"If you cannot trust your own mother... How can you trust anybody?"
      But I trust God alone.

    • @nicholashudson1283
      @nicholashudson1283 2 роки тому +5

      Sometimes some people can't even trust themselves, for example if someone is recovering from an alcohol addiction. They couldn't trust themselves to be in a room by themselves with a liquor bottle. So of course we don't need to extend trust to others, especially when our own trust in our own actions can be difficult at times.

  • @janmcsween7079
    @janmcsween7079 Рік тому +2

    My life is so decimated it’s unreal. I was once a faithful Catholic who loved his faith. I loved Church. I find it hard to believe in a good God, a loving God, who would allow what happened to my late brother at the hands of my mother.

    • @kimberlyfowler5748
      @kimberlyfowler5748 10 місяців тому +1

      🙏

    • @Mountainhippiedude
      @Mountainhippiedude 9 місяців тому

      Prayers my brother. Indeed it is a fallen world, Satan’s domain. However, because of His love for us and the sacrifice of His Son, Jesus Christ, this world and the suffering within it is only temporary.

  • @shadowdancer1358
    @shadowdancer1358 2 роки тому +18

    Wow did I ever screw up my life not knowing the difference between these two definitions. Your right...I don’t trust a living human.

  • @Saboubou
    @Saboubou Рік тому +1

    Very good❤ in was surrounded by narcissists for more than 33 years, now that i read the bible i can commit that the whole bible is about to warn for narcissists. I think the whole world is full of that evil beings

  • @mnicol2020
    @mnicol2020 2 роки тому +37

    Kevin, your video really hit home with me today. Thank you especially for putting Jesus and scripture into the understanding of support to those victimized by narcissists. After 70 plus years (I admit that I am a very slow learner) of abuse by a narcissistic father, a husband with diagnosed NPD, and, most recently, a toxic relationship with an acquaintance, I recognize that I have deep seated trust issues and am now taking the time to know a person. I trust no one but the Lord. He has been with me all along this journey. My hope is that younger followers take your message to heart and not spend nearly a life time in a very dark and empty place.

    • @loribauer5359
      @loribauer5359 2 роки тому +3

      I’m so sorry . This was eye opening. I’m later in life and have suffered my whole life w trust at the same time thought I was following God. I’m isolated now I can not trust anyone. It’s too scary. ugh! I feel like i’m too old to get a point where i can make “trust worthy” friends.

  • @dianaprince9311
    @dianaprince9311 2 роки тому +35

    He could see inside their hearts and minds that’s why.❤

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +11

      So can we if we take the time to get to know others

    • @nicholashudson1283
      @nicholashudson1283 2 роки тому +8

      @@TheRoyalWe Yes we get to know others by their actions, from observing. Unfortunately it isn't always easy like when dealing with a Covert Narcissist. They withhold showing their true identity until they rage. That's how I found out about NPD

    • @pallasathena1369
      @pallasathena1369 2 роки тому +4

      Back in January I was hoovered, I remember saying that he would forget me in June. No, not psychic..it was the narc cycle, summer he was out and about but wanting supply for dark winter evenings .. Jesus observed behaviour patterns and how people treated each other when they wanted something.

    • @nicholashudson1283
      @nicholashudson1283 2 роки тому +4

      @@pallasathena1369 Narcs need supply 24/7 They are quick to secure a new primary supply once they discard or are discarded

    • @pallasathena1369
      @pallasathena1369 2 роки тому +1

      @@nicholashudson1283 from what I experienced, I don't think they find primary supply easy to get, so the hidden new supply is just a monkey branch for the thrill of cheating. I was shocked when I saw the woman, I don't like the term downgrade but I don't know how else it would be described.

  • @positiveendtimes
    @positiveendtimes 2 роки тому +27

    Man this hit me hard. I was raised in the Jehovah’s Witness high control group and they lean in hard with the abuse of trust

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +7

      Glad you saw this Alex

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +4

      Religiosity of man- the cultural religions of man and the cults of man will do that
      We are commanded to be born again by the spirit of God who is the only Witness to it for He is the only one who can accomplish this within us

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому

      Man has absolutely nothing to do with it EXCEPT to be obedient to it!
      Ok people - I keep being stirred!

    • @hugmc
      @hugmc Рік тому

      Most religions are the same I grew up Catholic Church and dismiss it when I was younger but I do believe in a loving God

    • @rw8303
      @rw8303 Рік тому

      I grew up in that same religion and 100% agree.

  • @ShoutItFromTheHousetops
    @ShoutItFromTheHousetops 2 роки тому +16

    I’m in a situation with my 24 yr old dtr where she has abused my kindness and support of temporarily watching her baby (my precious grandbaby❤) every weekend (10 hrs ea day) since June 1st until she can find childcare…So yesterday I told her for the 3rd week in a row that I’m not doing it anymore due to the stress. I’m 66 and single so no husband to help me. I’ve told her this for the last 3 weekends that it was getting too hard for me. The first time she got in her car and with the windows shut when I heard her screaming over and over again. Then the next weekend I brought it up again and she called me a child because I questioned her attitude towards me by not being thankful then packed up her stuff and the baby said “bye” and walked out the door. Yesterday I actually took the baby to our drop off point because she couldn’t stop crying all day. I told her I can’t do this coming weekend and I’m done. She gave me a flat look, took the baby and drove away without a word. I stood there shaking.
    Tonight she texted asking me “since you don’t want to watch her anymore, “are you free to watch her on Oct 15 for a concert I’m going to?” I said I’m not ready to make any decision yet. I could feel my stomach in knots almost as if it were my boss telling me I need to come into work on my day off after working OT for a month. A physical reaction to that text is never good.
    This is only one day after I said I can’t do this. I’ve been too trusting and I get crushed every time. I know that God is directing me away from this and I am so grateful to have had your video pop up on my feed. I have been a subscriber for awhile but have never commented until now.

    • @southernbellerising
      @southernbellerising 2 роки тому +3

      Good job standing up for your needs! Boundaries are necessary sometimes to maintain our well-being. I know it’s hard, but just remember…your well-being matters just as much as hers!

    • @ShoutItFromTheHousetops
      @ShoutItFromTheHousetops 2 роки тому +2

      @@southernbellerising Thank you!!! ♥️

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому

      I’m glad your here

    • @ShoutItFromTheHousetops
      @ShoutItFromTheHousetops 2 роки тому

      @@TheRoyalWe Thank you. I’m glad to be here. Sorry for the “book” comment for my first one. Pent up desperation. Some helpful comments.

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +2

      No need to be sorry for needing to express yourself - since when do you answer to us?
      Apologizing is a symptom of what you are experiencing with your daughter- we all need to unlearn - narcissism comes in different degrees- it’s about the self and we all have one
      Welcome to the channel
      I’m fairly new myself but to me - that shouldn’t matter- I too can speak like a book - it’s called ‘ detail’ 🙂
      Details are needed too - or what would ever be completed? 🤓

  • @agaobi573
    @agaobi573 Рік тому +1

    Trust opens door to narcissists - Exactly!
    That's why churches tell you to base your life on trust - 'cause they want to abuse you
    And when they preach to trust God/Jesus, they always add that God comes by other people (and they mean themselves of course)

  • @Grgiana071
    @Grgiana071 Рік тому +1

    I need this, 100%
    That’s why devils in form of humans very easy to tricked me.

  • @taratriolo7712
    @taratriolo7712 Рік тому +2

    This has been one of the most profound messages I have ever experienced. Beautifully executed and explained and backed with scripture. Extremely proud of you and following the holy spirits guidance in manifesting this creation.

  • @uncleobvious3282
    @uncleobvious3282 2 роки тому +44

    Such a beautiful teaching thank you!! King David did not trust people either, it's part of our abuse we experienced since we were very young, we were trained to be our parents parents since we were little. Bless you buddy.

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +4

      Thank you

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      200,000 raped altar boys trusted God and Jesus Christ and were raped by Christian holy men. You must be proud of how God helped save them from ants, cockroaches and slimy criminals, Cupcake. Normal people type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Unc.

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      Still brainwashed?

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому

      King David trusted himself when he had Bathsheba brought to him and had her husband murdered

  • @proverbs3530
    @proverbs3530 2 роки тому +43

    I really need to hear this today of all days. This blew my mind. I never thought of it like this before but it makes so much sense of why I have been so damaged in my narcissistic relationship of 37 years.

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +7

      Glad this video reached you today

    • @vaishali8170
      @vaishali8170 2 роки тому +2

      Time to get out.....have come to this realization after 22 years of marriage to a narcissist.
      Love the videos, please have them keep coming. A new Light has been put on me because of Royal We:))

    • @estherann7407
      @estherann7407 2 роки тому +2

      That's a long time to be in a narc relationship, mine was 34 years. It was always extremely challenging to say the least but, when he found out I carried power & authority in the name of Jesus he served me with divorce papers. I would bind up a spirit of pride that operated through him and loose a spirit of humility on him. Funny not funny but, the look on his face when he found out I had power over him was worth using the keys of the kingdom.
      I wish you all the best Proverbs as you discover the precious child of God you were created to be. Let your light shine!

  • @donnafoley2167
    @donnafoley2167 2 роки тому +1

    I've never fit in anywhere. It would always hurt my heart. As humans we are persistent on living our will. When you really, truly seek GOD'S will and live it..... You will walk a very lonely, isolated life. Just like JESUS did. The great news is that we are not alone. JESUS said. He would never leave us nor forsake us. 🥰

  • @hollowman1
    @hollowman1 Рік тому

    Here's the great advice my saint of a mother gave me as a child: "Trust people until they give you a reason not to trust them." Thanks for nothing mom.

  • @SoniaSonia-qw1zo
    @SoniaSonia-qw1zo 11 місяців тому +2

    My situation could not of been different, I lacked awareness and my parents were emotionally immature.

  • @pamaylward
    @pamaylward 2 роки тому +34

    I love this message! I've always asked myself, "What would Jesus do?" As an empath, it's served me very well. Thank you Kevin

  • @mands962
    @mands962 2 роки тому +8

    I think that because narcissists put us in a lower position and demand to be treated as If they were god, we end up forgeting that we are in fact equals. the only thing that holds these relationships together is faith.

  • @susanservin1949
    @susanservin1949 2 роки тому +19

    Trusting too much sure hasn't done me much good. This was a very insightful message! Thank you Kevin!

  • @myunpopularopinion4818
    @myunpopularopinion4818 2 роки тому +1

    I do not trust anyone anymore until they earn it. Trust is to be earned over time through evidence

  • @bw2442
    @bw2442 2 роки тому +3

    I’m from the government and I’m here to help, trust me.

  • @caur739
    @caur739 2 роки тому +6

    When i questioned this man with this disorder i questioned him and he said 'well that is where trust comes in' and so i asked him can i trust you ? should i trust you? and he said 'yes you should' and later of course i discovered he was cheating on me for months.....

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому

      disorder? 🤔

    • @maureenperry1169
      @maureenperry1169 2 роки тому +1

      Always be wary of anyone that says you can trust me....trust yourself and the lord only..

  • @janeyramseyer5964
    @janeyramseyer5964 Рік тому

    Keep your friends close.....if you have just one......and your enemies even closer......that is a Truth

  • @joshuaanzalone2060
    @joshuaanzalone2060 2 роки тому +2

    Test the spirits and use your discernment

  • @triptisoni5838
    @triptisoni5838 10 місяців тому +1

    One of the most important message I heard to get out of narcissistic relation.

  • @zion367
    @zion367 2 роки тому +1

    Its also written in proverbs:
    "CURSED IS THE MAN WHO TRUSTS IN MAN"
    And that is the truth.
    Also... even tho you might think you know someone, that knowing will not prevent you from being hurt. Its another illusion of control. Therefor, trust no man but only God and let others do what they want to do. Just make sure you have strong boundaries and validate yourself. Be your own cheerleader and support system. We can enjoy other peoples company, yet still we need to remeber that sin lives as much in them as in all human beings.

  • @rascallyrabbit
    @rascallyrabbit 2 роки тому +1

    he's onto something here. I really like this idea. it gives substance to the biblical imperative to trust no man for the heart is deceitful wicked beyond all you could think or imagine

  • @heidyrivero5807
    @heidyrivero5807 Рік тому +1

    I also allowed trust over knowing.. and I got burned!

  • @KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal
    @KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal 2 роки тому +1

    An interesting proposition

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому

      It gets the conversation started

  • @banderson6470
    @banderson6470 2 роки тому +1

    Trust vs Knowing brilliant! Big difference

  • @PrettyIndependent1
    @PrettyIndependent1 2 роки тому +2

    This is so POWERFUL Kevin! As a Christian I find the most important aspect of looking at narcissism is when you come from a biblical perspective. Narcissism comes from the devil himself. Figuring out how to go about it comes best from wisdom from God.

  • @MP-po6fj
    @MP-po6fj 2 роки тому +1

    Wish i knew this as i gave a sociopathic narc a chance and they burned me super bad.
    Demonic horrible beings.
    Jezebel spirited attached they truly are.
    Enjoy seeing your suffer in emotional pain.

  • @milagrosplaza7650
    @milagrosplaza7650 2 роки тому +2

    Common sense! Yet we forgot!

  • @scourneene
    @scourneene 2 роки тому +1

    Bang on Kevin! So true! He trully didn't trust mankind...

  • @Lalalexylou
    @Lalalexylou 2 роки тому +30

    This is disgustingly revealing… and I’m grateful for your wisdom. Thank you. It’s been something I’ve been contemplating lately (that I know I can’t “trust” anyone) yet I allow some freedoms with one or two individuals I “know”

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому

      Yes Lexi

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      Never trust your friends or your family. Only trust the Christian cult and the sleazy Christian paranoia that keeps you firmly in the Christian cult. Lexi, normal people simply type Bible Criticism onlone and then discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Cupcake.

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @Anna Normal people type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Cupcake. Kids, never ever sit on a Christian Holy Man's lap. OK?

  • @k2tal38
    @k2tal38 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! I wondered what was wrong with me because I don’t trust hardly anyone because I know them. 😯

  • @17truthbetold
    @17truthbetold Рік тому +1

    This is the most important message to the world right now. Thank you ❤

  • @jornfox3545
    @jornfox3545 2 роки тому +2

    Trust in God, Christ, Guru, only, outside of that be very careful. But also everyone has the ability to be trusted, because we are made in God's image.

  • @PrettyIndependent1
    @PrettyIndependent1 2 роки тому +8

    This is so POWERFUL Kevin! As a Christian I find the most important aspect of looking at narcissism is when you come from a biblical perspective. Narcissism comes from the devil himself. Figuring out how to go about it comes best from wisdom from God, since narcissists have always been around and until Jesus returns we will have to continue to have them live among us.

  • @katarinacarolyn3873
    @katarinacarolyn3873 2 роки тому +2

    Trust must be earned and maintained in any relationship 💯

  • @HDZ.1222
    @HDZ.1222 2 роки тому +1

    I trust no one other than God after the evil I've seen with people including family and what they are capable of. I know about someone the minute I meet them even just in a phone call because I'm an empath. I have the gift of discernment too. That's not to say that I haven't dealt with narcissists...3 as of this year. They are out of my life now. 🙏✝️

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 10 місяців тому +2

    My narc husband said your too trusting lol 😂 yeah thanks not anymore

  • @terrim9885
    @terrim9885 2 роки тому +26

    Thank you, Kevin. Appreciate your hard-earned insights. It is so easy to project our own ability to be trusted onto others who aren't WORTHY of it, at least until we learn the hard way to exercise much caution and restraint....and wisdom with people. Is this a form of throwing pearls to pigs? We give our "treasures" to some only to have them turn around and attack us....betray us? What can be so trying for us Believers is that too much of this kind of thing happens among professing Christians. Take care! Thank you, again.

    • @terrim9885
      @terrim9885 2 роки тому +2

      PS Gorgeous church. I grew up Lutheran.

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you Terri

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому

      ANYone can call him/ herself a Christian and they do
      Not just anyone can BE born again for it requires the Holy Spirit to be a witness to it

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +1

      a ‘so- called’ does not make the called
      man versus God
      religions of man versus personal relationship with God

  • @heavenlyties9560
    @heavenlyties9560 Рік тому

    Thanks Kevin. So powerful. I love that you are inside Gods house teaching, not preaching. We need this type of teaching. I’m 66 years old and was never taught any lessons like this. You are so right that our churches are not serving us. They are allowing the wolves in sheep’s clothing to cause toxic turmoil. Many are in the pulpit. It seems like we only get half the story because we can’t offend anyone she says sarcastically. I’ve been abused by so many wolves that claimed to be Christians. I finally have the armor of God and I will not trust horizontally again. Blessing to you as you continue this teaching ministry.🙏🏻

  • @StillAwakeAwareDiscerning
    @StillAwakeAwareDiscerning 2 роки тому +11

    Awesome observation about the lie of trusting instead of knowing. RW Gold once again! Stop trusting, stop smoking that Hopium!

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +2

      Those who are born again spiritually- according to God’s standard ARE the Church
      It is not a go- to place
      It’s having fellowship one with another thru Holy Spirit
      Just as Jesus went to the people
      So too Holy Spirit comes to those
      She comes without observation because it is spiritual in nature
      Only Holy Spirit brings the Unity of the Faith
      This so called Church is going to be destroyed just as the Temple was in Old Testament 💖👑♥️🙂🇨🇦

  • @maryfisher7046
    @maryfisher7046 Рік тому +1

    This is exactly what I needed today! Thank you, Kevin, for guiding me on this wild healing journey

  • @joe_mama1120
    @joe_mama1120 Рік тому +1

    Wow I just now understand why.... I have lived my life in not trusting and letting people and family show me who they are. And they are the people that came at me the hardest because they would say something is wrong with you. And now I get it, you have made it make sense. Thank you so much

  • @jeffcollom7945
    @jeffcollom7945 2 роки тому +11

    He knows the heart of everybody I do think he knows his real friends

  • @annamariaricci2146
    @annamariaricci2146 2 роки тому

    The betrayal is especially cruel when it comes from your own family!! That your own flesh and blood would destroy your hopes and dreams!! The educations says trust no strangers but trust your family!! But for us it is exactly the contrary!! And then outside we end up with the same kind of people that seem to know us better than ourselves ( at least until we wake up) and betray us again!! 🌻

  • @joannalopez5447
    @joannalopez5447 2 роки тому

    I've always been a person NOT to trust people and has been given crap for it. I've been told " you have to learn how to trust someone" " that's not a way to live". I always questioned everything and everyone you can see right through people and there bullshit; sometimes you can smell it from afar. There's many rotten and dark disgusting people out there than there is Good!

  • @World-Sojourner.22
    @World-Sojourner.22 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! I did trust too much. Only it was my narc fam I should not have trusted. 62 and still learning!

  • @maranatha8148
    @maranatha8148 2 роки тому +3

    This is so needed in this time. I truly believe narcissists are the tares of this world... they're going to be humbled very hard and fast soon.
    This message is BRILLIANT. Thank you. 🙏❤

  • @capanetube
    @capanetube 2 роки тому +7

    Trust is denial . Wow , that hit me.
    Our deeper inner self already knows.
    But we deny to know because of our own unresolved conflicts.
    So we would rather trust than being true.
    This cognitive dissonance is the pathway we allow for the narcissist to enter.
    And then finally we experience the cycle of our own unresolved conflicts.

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +1

      Glad you connected with that point Carlos

  • @mandycote5662
    @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +9

    That’s a good analogy between faith - vertical and trust horizontal
    True faith is obedience - it’s not a mind- set it’s an action
    Trusting people is natural/ physical
    Faith in God is not- it’s spiritual 🙂
    There’s always so much the More
    God only built on His word- Eternal

  • @milagrosplaza7650
    @milagrosplaza7650 2 роки тому +3

    Deep!

  • @clareblanchard7452
    @clareblanchard7452 2 роки тому +2

    This really helped me. Had a narcissistic mum

  • @Kathy-vt3eo
    @Kathy-vt3eo Рік тому

    So true! Once you are freed and healed from narcissistic abuse, you learn to see people for who they really are and out of the protection for yourself, you are able to observe, spot and say "no" to future hurts and toxic people that come across your path. You just CANNOT TRUST PEOPLE!
    ROMANS 3:4
    Not at all! Let God be true, and every human being a liar. As it is written: “So that you may be proved right when you speak and prevail when you judge.”
    AMEN
    God Bless you All

  • @sonyacorder8408
    @sonyacorder8408 Рік тому

    Was with my husband for 31 years. "trusted" things would get better. We divorced in 2015. Remarried in 2017 with his promises of change. Here it is 2013 He admitted to an ongoing affair. Going through a divorce AGAIN.. Your videos have been very helpful in breaking my trauma bonds.

  • @Luke747gal
    @Luke747gal Рік тому +1

    Tough reality but deep truth!! Thank you

  • @elise8561
    @elise8561 2 роки тому +1

    Above all things guard your heart

  • @jahpuggie5
    @jahpuggie5 Рік тому +2

    You would be an amazing high school teacher or college professor! 😊

  • @thelmita123
    @thelmita123 Рік тому

    Trusting is a Marketing tool. Knowledge is what we need to move on. Blessed be brother.

  • @kathleenramsingh2965
    @kathleenramsingh2965 Рік тому +1

    I never thought of it like that. This is rocking me to my core. Almost an existential crisis. But it’s also liberating. I thought trust was what was supposed to be done. I would trust people for no reason, get betrayed and then repeat the process with other people.

  • @milagrosplaza7650
    @milagrosplaza7650 2 роки тому +2

    Yep yep yep

  • @DivineSublime22
    @DivineSublime22 2 роки тому

    Radical acceptance and I'm only a minute in. 💯

  • @zsuzso7
    @zsuzso7 2 роки тому +12

    Sometimes I have a feeling that this crisis we experience now in the whole world can obviously not be only an economic crisis on a material level, but we have to start to question all the values and virtues on a spiritual level, too, because maybe we were wrong all the time about some of them. Or in other words, just because we didn't know the real meaning of them, now we are in this huge crisis, but storm has to sweep the dry leaves away
    Thanks Kevin

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому

      Thank you

    • @thegameoflife2131
      @thegameoflife2131 2 роки тому +1

      Crisis is from the Lord . Human beings as it says became lovers of the self .
      We live in a narcissistic soceity .
      We feel entitled and lack gratitude 🙏
      Now everything will be taken away leaving us to rely on our true nature for strength
      True strength of character is when walk in the Lord on the righteous path and deny the desires of the flesh and wear the armour of God we are protected
      The time has come either u are with God or you are not

  • @jesusmalverde5064
    @jesusmalverde5064 2 роки тому +2

    John 2:24 is a difficult concept. Betrayal is how it usually goes down.

  • @sandyberger-r9j
    @sandyberger-r9j 2 роки тому +1

    Very true! I thought if I truly love my husband, I need to trust him- big mistake. I thought trusting him lovingly made me a good wife- no, it made me a fool. I put my trust in the Lord, but in nobody else.

  • @salonsavy6476
    @salonsavy6476 2 роки тому +4

    PROFOUND !!!,, Awesome Kevin !!👏👏👏

  • @lee9357
    @lee9357 2 роки тому +2

    A lesson I learned very late in life, also my "90% rule"...if you find yourself (or someone else you might be trying to help) in a somewhat tough situation and you ask others, family, friends even fellow christian to "pitch in" and help nine out of ten will turn tail and run...seen it time after time..so don't get upset...look for the one out of ten you can count on.

  • @christineribone9351
    @christineribone9351 2 роки тому

    TRUST NO ONE, NOT EVEN YOURSELF!! --- Christine Ribone

  • @trishiegirl311
    @trishiegirl311 Рік тому

    I already commented, but I have to reiterate, this is simply BRILLIANT. Thank you for pointing this out! Jesus didn't trust because he knew the hearts of man. This doesn't mean to hide under a rock, but just be smart. Keep up the great work, Kevin! God bless you.

  • @sabrinapetersen5358
    @sabrinapetersen5358 Рік тому

    Yes this is me! I need to learn not trust people who have never grown up!🤥😔

  • @bettycarmella1127
    @bettycarmella1127 2 роки тому

    God is the ONLY one safe to enter the Holy of Holies of our heart 🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @cjh5950
    @cjh5950 2 роки тому +6

    Very interesting teaching, never heard anything of this nature before. Thank you. It certainly gives me a lot to reflect on. ❤ I remember, while I was with my abusive ex, I always thought that ‘Since I’m suffering now, my reward will be greater. If I stick it out, God will bless this relationship and bless me.’ I told myself that for years, each time my ex physically or emotionally harmed me. I remember beginning to hear a soft, knowing voice, begin to internally tell me, ‘Those blessings only work if the other partner is willing to change, and he isn’t.’ It was so hard for me to realize that. I’d begun to plan and prepare to leave around that time of hearing that gentle knowing, but it still took me years. I am thankful I am out.

  • @briannall6232
    @briannall6232 2 роки тому

    Trust needs to be earned.
    Not freely given.

  • @christinerogers7127
    @christinerogers7127 2 роки тому +2

    I hope you don’t mind me sharing. God showed me to trust Him and Him alone. Yesterday afternoon a semi truck cut me off on the freeway.
    The only option I had was to pull to the left shoulder lane,since there was one because of construction,to prevent hitting the semi. It took me about 400feet to gain control of my car. I ended up hitting the cement divider and my window airbags deployed. Funny, it wasn’t the accident that upset me, it was the fact that nobody, in a spand of 20 minutes, nobody called 911 nor stopped to check to see if me or my autistic son were ok. I ended up calling 911 myself and I couldn’t get through right away. Boy, God really showed me to trust in Him and Him alone. He alone got me through this. Talk about Jesus taking the wheel. If I had lost control of my car, it would have spun in the other lane, possibly hurting other people.Talk about a miracle. My son and I sustained no injuries. I am so grateful and blessed. The CHP cut my airbags and allowed me to drive my car home.
    I had no injuries.

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому

      WHO would know your son is autistic under this circumstance? 🧐

  • @gratefultobehere
    @gratefultobehere 2 роки тому +3

    After this particular message, I'm revisiting my understanding held of 1 Corinthians 13:7 (Love always trusts...love always hopes...) - wow.

  • @lalaacosta4818
    @lalaacosta4818 2 роки тому +20

    I'll be the first to admit that I am not very religious, however this has been one of the most original and beautiful messages I've ever come across. It does give me some great food for thought, and I know this one is gonna stick with me 😊❤️

    • @TheRoyalWe
      @TheRoyalWe  2 роки тому +3

      Glad this video found you Lala

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      Come on! How about a nice Holy Water enema? Tempting eh? How about a pretty altar boy who loves anal sex with Holy Men? Tempting eh? Normal people type Bible Criticism online and discover the Holy Bible is fiction, Cupcake. But think about it. Being in the creepy Christian cult and being brainwashed to believe that invisible enemies are to be blamed for your social negligence - is pretty slick, eh, Cupcake?

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +2

      God is not about a religion It’s about a relationship with Him
      That is the only requirement of His towards us

    • @theinnerworkclub6060
      @theinnerworkclub6060 2 роки тому

      I’m in the same boat and I’m pretty shocked by the Bible, I said “oh wow this really is a GOOD book”. I think it’s referred to as the good book lol. Turns out the Bible is not owned by religion! It is it’s own thing and it’s full of helpful stuff

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 2 роки тому

      @@theinnerworkclub6060 Sober people type Bible Criticism online and discover that the Holy Bible is complete fiction. Hebrew myths are plentiful. Do you also believe in Greek myths, Rube?

  • @carospereman3537
    @carospereman3537 2 роки тому +1

    Your message and that church is beautiful. Eckhart Tolle always teaches about presence and Jesus Christ. I am not a religious person, it's just that Jesus totally lived in the present moment, which I believe is the kingdom of peace and happiness.

    • @rturney6376
      @rturney6376 Рік тому

      Dig deeper. Eckhart should have written the book Beyond the Effing Now. Jesus said “I am not of this world “. Check out A Course in Miracles. We are all Starseeds 💫. It’s what they don’t want us to know. They are trying to keep us small.
      Check out Andrew Bartzis