مجھے تو اتنا پتہ ہے جیسی عادت بچوں کو ڈال دیں وہ اسی پہ مضبوط ہو جاتے ہیں الحمد للہ میرے بچے صرف پیار کی بات سنتے ہیں غصہ کر کے صرف اپنا دماغ خراب کرتی ہوں ۔ ❤
Ek bat pochna chahti ho meri beti 7 saal ki ho Chuki hy Lekin Kuch time se ma note kr rahi ho k us k point of view mere bary ma nagitive hy means agr ma Kuch kam krti ho ya some time koi bat krti ho to wo jo bat kr rahi hoti hy k jaise mai koi galt bat kr rahi ho opposite bat krti hy I don’t understand why but I am so worried that how to treat her
2 bety b hy wo dono chotty hy is se Lekin wo pura din usy tang krte hy to agr sometime ma usy smjhny ki koshish krti ho to us ki phasing bat yeh hoti hy k mai ap se ni bolo gi ap mere se pyar ni krti ap un se pyar krti ho j
My daughter 7 year old sir when I told her about ur this vedio she answer me with sprinkles eyes mama ye uncle to bht achy hn yehi baten to apko smj nai atin...unhon ne bilkul thek kaha... I just got tears in my eyes n feel my mistakes badly😢
Aoa Asif Sab ap k lectures ma Shaa Allah excellent hote Hain. Ab hum ne bahir Jane ka 1 plan banaya for visit 3 Bache agree Hain or 1 NAHI. Kis Tara us ko razi karain
Apki ek ek video ko school or parents meeting me dikhai jani chahye sir... 100℅ true information di he aap ne... Mashallah mene apny bache pe apply ki hen apki Baaten. 2 month lagy muje. Alhamdulillah bache ne pick karna start kar dia.. Thank you so much sir.
Sir mujhe Aisa lagta hai koi hame itni achi malumat de rahe hai tu us ki respect karna chahiye or ap toh parenting k hawle s hamari itni madad karte hai shukriya sir itni achi tarah barki se ap bacchon k bare me batate hai u deserve respect thanks 👍
Dr sahib AP ki logo ni galian di bhut dokh hoa Dil ko taklif hoi jb ki AP hemry Bachu k liy hi mihenat krty hen hamey bhut Kuch sikhaty hen .AP APNA Kam kijiy logo ki adat Hoti hi ASE bolni ki.Allah AP ki hifazat frmay.Allah apko kameyabio SE nawzu❤
Ye btayn bachon k baap ki battamizi kese khatam krein???? Wo toh suntay hi Kuch nhn, bs battamizi pe battamizi keay ja ry hn, aur bachy baap se darny lg gy hn, koi hal hy is masly ka??????
Mera ek sawaal hai Mera bacha pora diin sirf khelna kodna chahta hai hr kaam osko krne de bolta hai.ose wo kaam nhi krne diye to bht rota hai.ek jagah khamosh baitho bole to 5 mnt bhi nhi baithta.abhi 3 years complete hone 1 mnth baaki hai bache ko.isko konsi activity sikhao jisse wo busy rahe . physically mentally
Kasm sy brother ap ki video dekh k mera sara depression khtam ho jata hy me buht tns me thi apni betti ki tarbiyt kesy karun buht koch sekhny ko milta ap sy❤
Aksar bchy bap ka rwya mann k Sath Bora dykhty hyn to bdy ho kr wo apni Mann ki dhal to bn jaty hyn lakin apni bewyon k Sath bohat Bora rwya rkhty hyn jysa on k Walid ka rwya tha ,lakin smjhany pr wo apny Walid k bary me Koch sun nai paty aisa kuon?
Ap ka pehla chennel esa dekha jo itny achy or asan treeqy se samjhaty hn ap to sawab smait rhy hn hmary bachy to ab bry ho gy ab kia fyda lailmi mn bohot ghaltian kr bethy lakin chlain bachon k bachon ki tarbiat to achi kr hi sakty hn InshaAllah
Asalmalikum aap ki advice boh9 achi hai parents ko bilkul is par Amal karna bacho ki parwaresh ka daromadar to perents per hi hota hai is per zaroor Amal kare
I have a 5y daughter ...i have been shouting at her for years ...now she does not listen to my sound n my advices until I repeat 10 times or more ... can she be polite n obediant if I practice your training guidlines ?? Pls be kind to respond ...
Child is completely individual person Respect kids. always each other special parents (spouse). Kids perceive practice not lecture so keep good environment. Ever time is not taught kids, present example yourself.
Mera bacha misbehave bht kerta hai main or mere hus main esi koi bat nhi hai phir b Mera bacha sbko marta hai bilawaja dhkka dedeta hai her trf se uski shikaytain sun sun k thak gae hun please help me main use kese thek krun wo nhi sunta her jaga yehi behavior hota hai
صحیح بخاری، کتاب العلم.، باب من جعل لاھل العلم ایاما معلومۃ حدیث:70 حضرت ابو وائل سے روایت ہے کہ حضرت عبد اللّٰہ بن مسعود ہر جمعرات کے دن وعظ فرمایا کرتے تھے ایک شخص نے ان سے کہا " اے ابو عبد الرحمن ہماری تمنا ہے کہ آپ روزانہ ہمیں وعظ سنایا کریں" تو آپ نے فرمایا:"جو چیز مجھے روکتی ہے وہ یہ ہے کہ میں تمہیں تنگی میں نہیں ڈالنا چاہتا اور تمہاری فرصت کا خیال رکھتا ہوں جیسے نبی کریم خاتم النبیین صلی اللّٰہ علیہ والہ وسلم وعظ سنانے میں ہماری فرصت کا خیال رکھتے تھے اس خوف سے کہ ہم اکتا نہ جائیں"
اس کے علاوہ بہت سی احادیث ہیں مطالعہ کرنا چاہیں تو فیضانِ ریاض الصالحین جلد 6 میں باب وعظ کرنے اور اس میں میانہ روی اختیار کرنے کا بیان پڑھ لیجیے اس میں اس ٹاپک کی احادیث جمع کی گئی ہیں اور ان کے حوالہ جات بھی موجود ہیں
Assalamualaikum bhai..aaj me ne pehli bar aapki video dekhi me fan ho gai aapki baate sun kar..meri beti bhi bahot badtameezi karti hai mere saath ab mujhe andaza ho raha hai k wo kyun aisa ho gai hai..kahin na kahin wo apne abba ae yeh cheez seekhi hai and 2 months se wo school jane se bhi mana kar deti hai hum bahot pareshan bhi hain...
Hello sir, all your videos are very useful. Point to point and easy way to implement. Thank u so much. My request is that if possible plz give some suggestions for working mom. I am working mom and I have 8 years kid.
asif bhai plz mere mesg ka reply krnaa bhai meraa beta 3 yers ka h.or wo 2 sal se chota thaa to uski tbyt khrab thi jb hum hospital se ghr to laad men mene isko k nh royee mod dedi har waqt mob har waqt mob ab mera bachaa kise bt pr itna focus nh krta wese mashAllah bhot aqlmand hai lekin men koi bt bolun k aese nh kro wese nh kro to eyes contact nh krta men bolte rahte hun ye idhar idhr dekhtaaa rahta h .... or dosree bt is men yea jb koi chez bolta h mujhi lekr do yani juices wagera to bolte hen han lekr dete hen phr b yea bar bar repet karta rahtaa h rotaa rahtaa plz khudaraa reply krnaa men bhot preshn hun
Mujhe janna h k mai bachchon me ek rahnuma banne ki khubi kaise paida karun k wo kisi ko aage badhte na dekhen to wo v aage na badhe ruke rahe balke koi aage aaye ya na aaye wo haq me hmesha aage rahen k wo manfi mahol ko musbat mahol me tabdil krne ki khubi rakhen
Aoa sir aap hmesha se mere help krte ae hn,n aj mera masla ye hai k mera bacha 3 n half years ka ho gya,bht zaida phone use krta coz m working women,mother is ill,she hardly take care of her,most of the times, mobile k zariye hi wo ise bed p apne pas control rakhten,ghr me us se bara koi bacha b ni jise dekh k ise parhe ka shok hota,ab main use parhana start krte ya koi b or to wo bore show krta ya tawaju deta hi ni hai bilkol b,iska dehan kese parhae k side laya jae,main to pareshan ho gae use zara shok ni
Sir mere bachy animals se darty hn kurbane k lia Bakra lia h wo UN se bat darty hn mere ghr walo ko ye but bura lgta h k bachy breave ni hn 3 or 4 year k hn 2 bety mery to Kya bary ho k wo breave ho jaye ge ic bary me b batae k Kya bacho ka breave hona bachpan se he zarore h?
جزاک اللہ خیرا وبارک فیکم
Zabardast mashahallah superb good job 👍
بعض اوقات بچے آرام اور پیارے سے مزید بدتمیزی کرنے لگ جاتے ہیں
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کبھی سختی بھی کرنی پڑتی ہے لیکن اس کی بھی حد ہوتی ہے
مجھے تو اتنا پتہ ہے جیسی عادت بچوں کو ڈال دیں وہ اسی پہ مضبوط ہو جاتے ہیں الحمد للہ میرے بچے صرف پیار کی بات سنتے ہیں غصہ کر کے صرف اپنا دماغ خراب کرتی ہوں ۔ ❤
👌 👍
اللّٰہ پاک آپ سے راضی ہو اور آپ کے دنیا و آخرت کے معاملات میں آپ کیلئے آسانیاں فرمائے آمین ثم آمین
Give respect to child
Make a healthy relationship with spouse.
Sikhana ke bajaye dikhiye..
Live with integrity
Jazak Allah
Boht achchi bat btai bilkool theek kaha AP ne
Sir pls talk about Lazy syndrome in child..
یہ ویڈیو پوسٹ زبردست اور بہت طاقتور ہے۔
آپ کی گفتگو ہمارے لیے آئینہ ہے بہت سی غلطیوں کی اصلاح کرنے کا موقع ملا الحمد للّٰہ
اور ان شاء اللّٰہ مزید بہتر والدین بننے کی کوشش کریں گے
Jazakallah all points are valid but the last one is just like the gold
I teach one thing in one day.sometimes one thing for few days till I see him absorbing it.if not I keep it on law pace continuously.
السلام علیکم ورحمۃ اللہ وبرکاتہ اصف بھائی طلباء کو کلاس میں کیسے کنٹرول کیا جائے
Ek bat pochna chahti ho meri beti 7 saal ki ho Chuki hy Lekin Kuch time se ma note kr rahi ho k us k point of view mere bary ma nagitive hy means agr ma Kuch kam krti ho ya some time koi bat krti ho to wo jo bat kr rahi hoti hy k jaise mai koi galt bat kr rahi ho opposite bat krti hy I don’t understand why but I am so worried that how to treat her
2 bety b hy wo dono chotty hy is se Lekin wo pura din usy tang krte hy to agr sometime ma usy smjhny ki koshish krti ho to us ki phasing bat yeh hoti hy k mai ap se ni bolo gi ap mere se pyar ni krti ap un se pyar krti ho j
My daughter 7 year old sir when I told her about ur this vedio she answer me with sprinkles eyes mama ye uncle to bht achy hn yehi baten to apko smj nai atin...unhon ne bilkul thek kaha...
I just got tears in my eyes n feel my mistakes badly😢
Aoa Asif Sab ap k lectures ma Shaa Allah excellent hote Hain. Ab hum ne bahir Jane ka 1 plan banaya for visit 3 Bache agree Hain or 1 NAHI. Kis Tara us ko razi karain
آپ سے سوال کیسے کیاجا سکتا ہے؟
All points are valid....
100% true
I must try to follow
Assalamualikum sir bachon ki kahani ki kuch books likhde
Allah جزا dy apko nice talk
Apki ek ek video ko school or parents meeting me dikhai jani chahye sir... 100℅ true information di he aap ne... Mashallah mene apny bache pe apply ki hen apki Baaten. 2 month lagy muje. Alhamdulillah bache ne pick karna start kar dia.. Thank you so much sir.
Thank you so much for feedback
بالکل ایسا ہے دل کرتا ہے کہ ہر ہر والدین اور ہر ہر ٹیچر کو دکھائیں شاید قوم بہتری کی طرف گامزن ہو
Sir mujhe Aisa lagta hai koi hame itni achi malumat de rahe hai tu us ki respect karna chahiye or ap toh parenting k hawle s hamari itni madad karte hai shukriya sir itni achi tarah barki se ap bacchon k bare me batate hai u deserve respect thanks 👍
Jazak Allah o khair sister
It's ok 😊 sir hame ap k aur video k intezar rahega.
اسلام و علیکم ورحمہ اللہ وبرکاتہ آپ کی بات مجھے بہت اچھی لگتی ہے آپکو سن کر بہت خوشی ہوتی ہے اللہ تعالٰی آپکو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے
Jazak Allah o khair
Dr sahib AP ki logo ni galian di bhut dokh hoa Dil ko taklif hoi jb ki AP hemry Bachu k liy hi mihenat krty hen hamey bhut Kuch sikhaty hen .AP APNA Kam kijiy logo ki adat Hoti hi ASE bolni ki.Allah AP ki hifazat frmay.Allah apko kameyabio SE nawzu❤
Bahut qoob lecture hai apka her parents ke lea bahut achchi seekh hai keu k parents ke beach understanding reh toh hi bachchou ka future sahi hoga
Ye btayn bachon k baap ki battamizi kese khatam krein???? Wo toh suntay hi Kuch nhn, bs battamizi pe battamizi keay ja ry hn, aur bachy baap se darny lg gy hn, koi hal hy is masly ka??????
Agar bacha khata peta thek ni or Roz uska b.p low hojata ho to us ko kesi hendel Karen J's ke Umar 7 ya 8 sal ho plz rply me
how to deal with stubborn child of 7years
Meri byti bht samajdar hy but kuch ghaltiya mj say hue plz personal num tag kr day
Buhat achi malomat he aap ke videos me
Mera ek sawaal hai Mera bacha pora diin sirf khelna kodna chahta hai hr kaam osko krne de bolta hai.ose wo kaam nhi krne diye to bht rota hai.ek jagah khamosh baitho bole to 5 mnt bhi nhi baithta.abhi 3 years complete hone 1 mnth baaki hai bache ko.isko konsi activity sikhao jisse wo busy rahe . physically mentally
Kasm sy brother ap ki video dekh k mera sara depression khtam ho jata hy me buht tns me thi apni betti ki tarbiyt kesy karun buht koch sekhny ko milta ap sy❤
Great advices for parents
Thanks
Aksar bchy bap ka rwya mann k Sath Bora dykhty hyn to bdy ho kr wo apni Mann ki dhal to bn jaty hyn lakin apni bewyon k Sath bohat Bora rwya rkhty hyn jysa on k Walid ka rwya tha ,lakin smjhany pr wo apny Walid k bary me Koch sun nai paty aisa kuon?
Assalamwalaikum, aapki rahnumai ke liye allah aapko bahtareen badla nasib farmaye, ek sawal aapse puchna hai, kya bachon ko hostel me dalna sahi hai,
Aoa bhae u r graet teacher I follow urs teaching and now my daugher has been attached with me ar koi batmeezi nae krti i m happy stay blessed
🙏
Aoa bhae I missing URS new lectures
Absolutely 😢 but mery bchy mar kha kha k deeth ho gay hen.pleace is ka koe hal btay .i am so sad 😢
اک رم. ھس مسال. ھ
Assalamualaikum myra bacha bht bht zidi hy kuch tareeka bta dain
Aik aur bat yahan krna hai k hm to respect dyn lykin ghr k baqi log nahi samjhty dadi dada etc
Unka kya kiya jye
Mashallah very nice tips brother
U r 💯 right sir...😔😔😔 we r responsible our children's, .such as good or bad.....😢😢
Pls 2 ya 3 sal k beche k bare b bat kren or toilet training k bare b or ye k kese deal kiya jaye
Plz mujhe apna phone no dedain aap se consult karna he.
Mera bacha sarart karta hai Kaya karu Gumta hai Bahar kuch bataye
Sir plzzzz joint fmly prblms ko discuss karain
sir bacho se mobile ki adad kaisy chudaya ?
Super advice 🇮🇳 mashallah
Fazool Baten ziada... Kam ki bat km 😂
Sab kuchh kar le baccha nahin sundarta
Ap ka pehla chennel esa dekha jo itny achy or asan treeqy se samjhaty hn ap to sawab smait rhy hn hmary bachy to ab bry ho gy ab kia fyda lailmi mn bohot ghaltian kr bethy lakin chlain bachon k bachon ki tarbiat to achi kr hi sakty hn InshaAllah
Jazak Allah o khair.
Allah SWT is jiddo jehed ko qubool farmai.
Thank you so much sir
AA.jo bachy bigr gy hn on ko kaisy thek kr skty hn
اسلام عليكم ورحمة وبركاته.
Your all videos are really informative
May Allah bless you
From Canada 😊
Thank you so much for feedback.
Asalmalikum aap ki advice boh9 achi hai parents ko bilkul is par Amal karna bacho ki parwaresh ka daromadar to perents per hi hota hai is per zaroor Amal kare
Very nice explanations of how to teach respect children
😊😊😂😊😊😊😊😊😂😊😊
I have a 5y daughter ...i have been shouting at her for years ...now she does not listen to my sound n my advices until I repeat 10 times or more ... can she be polite n obediant if I practice your training guidlines ?? Pls be kind to respond ...
The problem is this ;my 5y daughter is spoiling my 2y son behavior ... he copies her 100%
I am becoming hopeless in training my kids better way due to their disobedience in earlt age
Very good knowledge sir
Bht bht acha lga sun k hum follow krain gain inshallah
Good languages
Ss
MashAllah our best teacher u are
Great knowledge he has
Jazak Allah Sir
Child is completely individual person
Respect kids.
always each other special parents (spouse).
Kids perceive practice not lecture so keep good environment.
Ever time is not taught kids, present example yourself.
Good adviced
Mera bacha misbehave bht kerta hai main or mere hus main esi koi bat nhi hai phir b Mera bacha sbko marta hai bilawaja dhkka dedeta hai her trf se uski shikaytain sun sun k thak gae hun please help me main use kese thek krun wo nhi sunta her jaga yehi behavior hota hai
Jazak Allah. Nice thoughts.
May Allah bless you
ایک دن کے فرق سے تبلیغ کرنے والی حدیث کا حوالہ ارشاد فرما دیں
صحیح بخاری، کتاب العلم.، باب من جعل لاھل العلم ایاما معلومۃ حدیث:70
حضرت ابو وائل سے روایت ہے کہ حضرت عبد اللّٰہ بن مسعود ہر جمعرات کے دن وعظ فرمایا کرتے تھے ایک شخص نے ان سے کہا " اے ابو عبد الرحمن ہماری تمنا ہے کہ آپ روزانہ ہمیں وعظ سنایا کریں" تو آپ نے فرمایا:"جو چیز مجھے روکتی ہے وہ یہ ہے کہ میں تمہیں تنگی میں نہیں ڈالنا چاہتا اور تمہاری فرصت کا خیال رکھتا ہوں جیسے نبی کریم خاتم النبیین صلی اللّٰہ علیہ والہ وسلم وعظ سنانے میں ہماری فرصت کا خیال رکھتے تھے اس خوف سے کہ ہم اکتا نہ جائیں"
اس کے علاوہ بہت سی احادیث ہیں مطالعہ کرنا چاہیں تو فیضانِ ریاض الصالحین جلد 6 میں باب
وعظ کرنے اور اس میں میانہ روی اختیار کرنے کا بیان پڑھ لیجیے اس میں اس ٹاپک کی احادیث جمع کی گئی ہیں اور ان کے حوالہ جات بھی موجود ہیں
Sir pls talk about singal mother's problems. Because malaika Abdul basit is very sensitive child. I m vored about them
السلام علیکم ورحمتہ اللہ
بچوں میں گالی دینے کی عادت کو کیسے چھوڑا یا جائے
Bacho ke hero great person جزاک اللّہ
I HV question that a husband not given respect his wife so what should do for kid
❤
Thanks a lot for your valuable information sir
Jazak Allah for feedback
ماشاءاللہ عزوجل
MRI SB say bdi beti bachi Bani rhti ha who Apne choty 3 sal k bhai say muqabla krti ha
Barakallahu feek
Assalamualaikum bhai..aaj me ne pehli bar aapki video dekhi me fan ho gai aapki baate sun kar..meri beti bhi bahot badtameezi karti hai mere saath ab mujhe andaza ho raha hai k wo kyun aisa ho gai hai..kahin na kahin wo apne abba ae yeh cheez seekhi hai and 2 months se wo school jane se bhi mana kar deti hai hum bahot pareshan bhi hain...
I'm Montessori teacher u r saying perfact always respect child and speak soft way parents are model
Hello sir, all your videos are very useful. Point to point and easy way to implement. Thank u so much. My request is that if possible plz give some suggestions for working mom. I am working mom and I have 8 years kid.
asif bhai plz mere mesg ka reply krnaa
bhai meraa beta 3 yers ka h.or wo 2 sal se chota thaa to uski tbyt khrab thi jb hum hospital se ghr to laad men mene isko k nh royee mod dedi har waqt mob har waqt mob ab mera bachaa kise bt pr itna focus nh krta wese mashAllah bhot aqlmand hai lekin men koi bt bolun k aese nh kro wese nh kro to eyes contact nh krta men bolte rahte hun ye idhar idhr dekhtaaa rahta h ....
or dosree bt is men yea jb koi chez bolta h mujhi lekr do yani juices wagera to bolte hen han lekr dete hen phr b yea bar bar repet karta rahtaa h rotaa rahtaa
plz khudaraa reply krnaa men bhot preshn hun
Mujhe janna h k mai bachchon me ek rahnuma banne ki khubi kaise paida karun k wo kisi ko aage badhte na dekhen to wo v aage na badhe ruke rahe balke koi aage aaye ya na aaye wo haq me hmesha aage rahen k wo manfi mahol ko musbat mahol me tabdil krne ki khubi rakhen
Aoa sir aap hmesha se mere help krte ae hn,n aj mera masla ye hai k mera bacha 3 n half years ka ho gya,bht zaida phone use krta coz m working women,mother is ill,she hardly take care of her,most of the times, mobile k zariye hi wo ise bed p apne pas control rakhten,ghr me us se bara koi bacha b ni jise dekh k ise parhe ka shok hota,ab main use parhana start krte ya koi b or to wo bore show krta ya tawaju deta hi ni hai bilkol b,iska dehan kese parhae k side laya jae,main to pareshan ho gae use zara shok ni
Bhai Jo Kuch apny Bola bilkul ESA hi Hy thanks for vedios apki sari baat achi lagi
What a nice counseling
Thanks sir stay bleesed
best parenting trainer ever....i heartly respect u sir...i,d seen u on iqdam then i found u....
Sir mere bachy animals se darty hn kurbane k lia Bakra lia h wo UN se bat darty hn mere ghr walo ko ye but bura lgta h k bachy breave ni hn 3 or 4 year k hn 2 bety mery to Kya bary ho k wo breave ho jaye ge ic bary me b batae k Kya bacho ka breave hona bachpan se he zarore h?
Bcho ki bhot ziada bolna ki adat kasa km ki jy too much bolna ki adat ha
Ziada bolna sa bcho ka ky nuksan hota explain kr dan next video ma
Jazakallah g please down syndrome k lea btaye k kia krna chaye
Bht bahtreen sir ALLAH PAAK aapko jazaye khair ata farmaye ALLAH PAAK k karam se aapne meri mushkilen hal kar di aur mujhe ek baat puchni thi aapse
Thanks alot Asif Bhai
You welcome
Bilkul sir bache pyar ki zuban samajhte hen.
Sir Mera meta bhut Bhar jata h or mobile dekhta h bat NH sunta h
Zabrdast jzakAllah
jazakallaha sir how can contact with you
Bacha shararat karta ho har waqt badon par hath uthata ho ise kaise control kare
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Thanku sir ap na bilkol thek kha aj he muja mra osdat ny yhe smjya ha m be bhot tanti the ap ki vedio dkh k muja asas ho gya
Joint fmily main parents izzat dain b to baqi log zaleel kerke rakhdete hain or bare hon to kuch keh b ni sakte
MashaAllah bht acha guide kiya h asif bhai apny.thanks good sharing
Bohot shukriya sir Allah aap se razi ho
Aoa sir hmari buchi bhot zyada question krti the ab ni bolti. Nd mri bat ni sunti plz guide me k mje kia krna chaiye .