How to Stop Children From Telling Lies | Salman Asif Siddiqui
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- Опубліковано 16 бер 2020
- The words we say to our children can impact their lives immensely. In this clip, Salman Asif Siddiqui talks about how parents and teachers can correct children when they make mistakes or tell lies.
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اسلام وعلیکم ورحمتہ اللّٰہ وبرکاتہ
سمجھانے کا طریقہ بہترین ہے جزاکم اللّٰہ
مشااللہ آ پنے بہت اچھے انداز میں سمجھایا
اللہ ہم کو عمل کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین
Sir I tried this strategy many times with my students and always found amazing results. They are all so crystal clear with me and it creates a special trustworthy bond. Thanks a lot for educating us. JazakAllah Kher! :)
What exactly did u do sister because I'm facing issues with a child who lies a lot
Mashallah, very well guidance, Allah aap ko Jaza-e-khair ata fermai, bohat achi rahnamai ki hy aap ny.
اللہ رب العزت آپکو ڈھیروں جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے ۔ ایک بات کا افسوس ہے کہ آپ کے لیکچر بہت دیر سے سننے کو ملے اور اب کافی سارا پانی پلوں کے نیچے سے گزر چکا ہے۔ 😢
Masha allah
Ap ne acchi baten
acche andaz me
bayan ki
Behtareen.
Aap ki videos me mashallah urdu me angrezi ki aamezish khasi kam hoti hy. Mazeed jari rakhiye. Bohot eham hy. Qaumo ka bada asasa hy.
سلام علیکم و رحمةالله و برکاته.
التماس دعا
هم سب کو ﷲ بہترین تربیت کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین یا رب العالمین
MashaAllah. You are such a blessing, Salman bhai. May Allah protect you and help you and all of us to keep doing the good work.May Allah increase your knowledge and elevate your levels in Dunya and Aakhirah. Ameen. Jazak Allahu khairan kaseera.
ماشاءاللہ
umda tareen sir !! 🌟🌟
Wow... I also do the same to my kid and even dont realise that I do wrong.. but thanks to you today. I in sha Allah take care from next time again thanks
Asa
Beautiful Sir
Excellent attitude you revised.
And definitely it's the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet SAW
اسلام علیکم ورحمتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ
Sir Allah Aap ko humesha khush rakhy Ameen
Allah Aap k ilm o amal or Aap ki umar main barakat ata farmay. Ameen sir Aap sy duaon ki darkuast hy JazakAllah khair.
Salman Bhai Bohot Badhiya Allah Aapko Behtrin Jaza Ata Farmanyn Aameen
Sir! Mere bete ne last year 100 rupe mere purs me se chura lie the😢
He was 12 years old than and due to a strong influence of bad company he did that first time.
Congrats me Sir! with my high patience and great wisdom i safe my child personality to be ruined.I gave him a lot of confidence and encouraged him to confess himself about theft.When he confessed i hugged him tightly and wept at his shoulder and told him Oh My beloved son it was not really you who did it. It was yours company which led you to the wrong path.I said "My son Being a mother I always felt proud to have such super talented son and i believe you can't make me asahmed ever now.
Alhumdullilah summa Alhumllilah after that day he never made me ashamed and left his friend with his own will.
Masha Allah,mabrook.I hope and pray all mothers have such high wisdom and all children have such heart to accept and implement what their loved ones are advising them.
Sir Apne to ik yad taza kardi school life ki jab teacher se spelling galat hoti thi board par to maze wali feeling ati thi us feeling ka aj pata laga asa q hota tha. Wo is bat ki khushi hoti thi ke hume hi galat khete rehte hain teacher ab maza aya inhone galat Kya. Aur unhe tokne me maza ata tha. Kuch periods ase hote the jinke lie hum dua karte the ye teacher aj na aye
Sahi farmaya aap ne humain kisi ki bhi intention pr shubah nahi krna chahye ,neeyat ka guman sirf Allah Taala ko hai
Jazak Allah Khair
I don't know what to say.. wierd feeling. Don't know why tears came to my eyes. Golden words.
Zaberdast bht Acha breif kiyh apny sir.
Very very good point for kids
I just loved this info
Excellent
@Siddiqui Sb. This is the first time I watched your vlog. And fell in love with your simple yet very articulate way of explaining complexities of human interaction in a very comprehensible manner. Please continue to educate me and many like me who can benefit from your acumen.
Allah pak aap ko jaza e khair ata farmain ameen sum ameen. 👍👍👍
Masha Allah boht zabardast 100% right
Sir exactly what I try to do
May ALLAH PAK be happy with you sir...jazaak ALLAH
Its a great talk regarding child pschology and islam as well
Bohot bohot zyada informative talk....
Very detailed and specific communication. Great learning for me. Jazak Allah
Great Sir. Well said .your videos are a course for parenting. God bless you.
It's really a motivational speech if we follow these instructions we can change our life
jazaka Allah brother
MashaALLAH bht kch sekhaa 😊
Thanks again a great lesson. Inshallah I will keep these points in mind and apply these in daily life.
Thanks sir
Wonderful lecture.
Thank u much sir
Bht acha samjaya ❤
Bhut khoobbbbbb👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
God bless you sir
Amazing
Masha Allah. Sir looking fresh. In it.
Well done sir.may u live long with peace and iman
nice point i will apply in my life
Outstanding
V nice
Good explanation
Well-done sir
Thanks for great lesson 😊
Great SiR... ❤❤👍👍👍
ماشاءاللہ استاد محترم اللہ تعالی اپکو سلامت رکھیں
😍 speechless with the fehm
Best advice
Amazing sir
Excellent kitni achi baat share ki hai Sir aap ne ,ma sha Allah behad achi suggestion di hai aap ne ye humare lye bhi beneficial hai thank you
very important for parents
V positive message
Fantastic
MashAllah
Great
Same aaj Mai ne aisay he samjhaya tha apni beti ko.. k ap ne Jaan bojh Kar to Nahi giraya to darna kesa , chopao Nahi bs bata dena tha. She covered it with a ruf cloth ...
Right sir
Nice lecture
More important question is how to stop the elders from lying n justifiying or not accepting lying.
Bht khoob sir ziada ter families mai ye hi hota he jis ki wajah se bachon ka character barbad hota hai or wo ghr se bahar apna dost dhondty hain or parents se door hojaty hain., 😢😢
Wow nice
Assalamualaikum. I am an Indian and I just completed my MSW i.e. Master of Social Work. I watch your videos regularly. I wish to be a trainer like you. In fact, our community needs many more trainers like you. Can we launch an online training system for this so we can learn distantly from you?
w/s. Brother, people from around the world join us in our online sessions. You are welcome to visit our website to know more & join our live online programs. erdconline.org/certificate-course/
Mashallah
ماشاءاللہ
very informative video, teenagers nmaz k lye jhoot bolte hn k parh li , kindly is p detailed video den thanku
I have been doing such shits for so long...now understood what to do
Very nice
good very good👌👏👍
A near relative, who is a psychologist, always start a talk by putting blame on others. You did so. It’s your fault. By starting a conversation on making others degraded, doubtful about themselves, even an adult can’t stand such attitude. Harsh also at the same time.
Have bear a lot by the unkind, harsh and rude attitudes. Being not left with any potential to bear such things, I try to avoid and keep contact to the minimum with such people.
I never subscribed any channel, but i did this one just bcuz of u respected sir, the way u are elaborating the current issues of both children and parents is admirable... may ALLAH bless u and ur entire team...keep educate us...JAZAK ALLAH O KHAIRAN KASEERA...
Salaam jazakalkaha khair, sir what up satuts ko upload kerney ka jo trend h us ko kese handle kerye plz sir
Nice
Assalamualikum Sir
Mai aap ki videos dekhti hoon AlhamdulillAllah aap ka lecture bahut achcha hota hai mera sawal ye hai k aager koi walid he aulad ko bar bar uss ki maa kay baray may bora kahay to iss situation may maa bachon ko kaise samjhay kay aap kay Abbu ghalat kehrahay hai pls meri help ki jie iss waqt mai bahot pareshan hoon meray shoher ne dusri shadi kerli aur meray bachon ka khayal nahi rakhta iss ka meray bachon per bht bura aser pad raha hai mai apnay bachon ko kaisay samjhaon. Pis meray bachon kay liye doa kariye kay wo meray farmabardar banay.
Agher childhood main hum is behave face kya ho apni family ki wajha sa or young age main wo chaza ap mantily desterbd ho raha ho to kya kara.
Love u
Good
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Allah Maon ko Hadiat de, .majority parents khud jhoot bolte hein.#draliaofficial
Assalam o Alaikum Sir
Im following your videos for few months im really want myself yo learn ways to improve myself in parenting as my oldest one will be 5 this july.. please help me please
i don't want to ruin my akhirat by not fulfilling their responsibilities..
My son is very very intelligent boy my main issue is he watches tv for longer period as i was not gibe him proper time please b4 he turn 7 i want to work on myself how i can act to help him n myself in this matter please.. how can i discuss this matter
Walekum assalam. You can watch the following lectures by Sir Salman for more clarity. We hope they will benefit you, InShaAllah:
Screen Addiction & Its Solution: ua-cam.com/video/UUpWEEWScyA/v-deo.html
Framework for the Tarbiyah of Children: ua-cam.com/video/WQp_9BiLRW8/v-deo.html
😭😭😭😭😭I did it 😥😥😥😞😞😞😞
7 thumbs down 🤔 why???
Ur body language
I love it ..I wanna want that body language 💓💓
Nafisay louvama.ka sath butu ga tu sunay ga.❤🎉😂
If an elder is scolded on any mistake in front of youngers then the younger ones will take lesson from it also.
1:20 full lecture?
Sir how can i contact you?sir aapka num mill sakta hai?
Sir mjy aapsa bht zaruri baat discuss krni hai
Sir mery bache meri bat jaldi nai sunte bar bar bolna parta kya karre
You can check out Sir Salman's talk, 'Why Children Don't Listen' which will address your question, InShaAllah:
Why Children Don't Listen: ua-cam.com/video/7DHZtUSKqUE/v-deo.html
Myra byta her br pora glass b dihan ni krta gira dta ak 2 br bht mara myy
Assalamu alaikum sir Meri beti Sade char sal ki magar har baat mein majak karti hai jabki jabki main kabhi ghar mein jhooth Nahin bolati mujhe samajh mein nahin aata
بعض اوقات اس طرح کرنے سے بچے میں زیادہ خود اعتمادی پیدا ہوجاتی ہے اور وہ زیادہ اعتماد کے ساتھ جھوٹ بولنے لگتا ہے کہ کوئی ہے جو اس کے جھوٹ کو سنبھالے گا اور پوری دنیا کہ بانسبت صرف ایک شخص کے سامنے رسوا ہونا پڑےگا۔
I also do some councelling of my student and friends but need more guide line for the specific issues if you kindly send me your mail so it will be easy for me
you can consult emails from erdc website sir
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Too much length video.All mix in video.more examples becoming boring
Conclusion should be in short point.
جنہیں اصلاح کرنی چاہیے وہ تو خود بچوں کو جھوٹ سکھاتے ہیں۔ جھوٹ بول کر اور سچ بولنے پر سزا دے کر ۔
Mera beta to jan boj k gira deta 2 years ka h.feedr pite pite ulta kr deta.
Sister, pl. Patience his age is just 2
Ap ka bacha jan bhooj kar karta hai no doubt,but he does not know that he is doing something wrong.keep telling him gently and he will understand soon.he is too young at the moment to understand