Thank You Ajit. I work with boundaries with all my clients right upfront when agreeing to a contract. In the Heads of Agreement I Introduce a Topic Called Managing Expextations - Theirs and Mine. The 2nd one I call it Rules of Engagement and I find it works very well especially when agreed upfront in the Contractual Agreement. Thanks for a great video🙏🙏🙏
Ajit, as always, great training and perfect timing. Yesterday, I worked with a coachee that has had problems setting boundaries with a family member to the point that it was creating resentments and anxiety in their relationship. We acknowledged that the coachee's sibling is reacting out of fear since the coachee recently recovered from a long-term hospital stay due to multiple medical complicating including being in a six-month coma. Since the coachee now understands that the sibling is operating from fear with the constant phone calls and warnings not to go out due to COVID is, in fact, coming from a place of love. However, the coachee is still feeling trapped and has had several conversations to express his desires for him to operate in his life. From this training, I am able to continue to work with this coachee not only on setting boundaries but to also have consequences once those boundaries are set. Thank you so much for this video.
Amazing insights, Pamela! It's a challenging situation but you're on the right track! We're so happy this came at the right time for you. Thanks for sharing and keep up the good work ❤
Ajit, thanks, another terrific training. I'm learning from your coaching quests to set boundaries with clients from the start, which is so helpful. My biggest challenge with family & colleagues is having uncomfortable conversations once boundaries have already been crossed. Instead, I keep allowing it to happen & build resentment over time. I recognize that's my own fault but would love more training or recommendations for training to resolve conflict & re-establish healthy boundaries. Thank you!
Thanks for your honest sharing, Tara! It is indeed difficult to start an uncomfortable conversation with loved ones, but that is exactly why it's so important to ensure they know what your boundaries are and the consequences of crossing them. We believe this video can be very useful for you: ua-cam.com/video/d6LmlWpW-AQ/v-deo.html ❤
What do you do when you try to claim your boundary with informed consent, and say no, but social media outlets will delete your account, democratically elected governments worldwide retaliate to take away jobs, insurance, loans, apartments, passports, transportation, the ability to eat or obtain food?
I want my right to refuse consent, including freedom to speak about my right to refuse, without fear of retalliations, sanctions, protected and upheld by the federal government, as guaranteed by the constitution of the USA, the bill of rights, the ammendments, the hippocratic oath, civil rights laws, and international human rights laws. I respect other's rights to make choices for themselves, and I will take any reasonable precautions to ensure their safety and comfort. But I will not be bullied, manipulated, coerced, intimidated, threatened, or otherwised forced by authoritarian regimes or mobs around the world to surrender my consent because I will never give it. If these actions persist, I will use lawsuits, language, or actions to defend myself, including but not limited to seeking refuge in foreign nations that still remember what liberty means.
What type of personal boundaries do you find most challenging to set? Share it in the comments below!
Thank You Ajit. I work with boundaries with all my clients right upfront when agreeing to a contract. In the Heads of Agreement I Introduce a Topic Called Managing Expextations - Theirs and Mine. The 2nd one I call it Rules of Engagement and I find it works very well especially when agreed upfront in the Contractual Agreement. Thanks for a great video🙏🙏🙏
@@boniswapezisa8044 Amazing session planner, Boniswa! Those are so important to set with every client from the get-go. Thanks for sharing ❤
Ajit, as always, great training and perfect timing. Yesterday, I worked with a coachee that has had problems setting boundaries with a family member to the point that it was creating resentments and anxiety in their relationship. We acknowledged that the coachee's sibling is reacting out of fear since the coachee recently recovered from a long-term hospital stay due to multiple medical complicating including being in a six-month coma. Since the coachee now understands that the sibling is operating from fear with the constant phone calls and warnings not to go out due to COVID is, in fact, coming from a place of love. However, the coachee is still feeling trapped and has had several conversations to express his desires for him to operate in his life. From this training, I am able to continue to work with this coachee not only on setting boundaries but to also have consequences once those boundaries are set. Thank you so much for this video.
Amazing insights, Pamela! It's a challenging situation but you're on the right track! We're so happy this came at the right time for you. Thanks for sharing and keep up the good work ❤
Ajit, thanks, another terrific training. I'm learning from your coaching quests to set boundaries with clients from the start, which is so helpful. My biggest challenge with family & colleagues is having uncomfortable conversations once boundaries have already been crossed. Instead, I keep allowing it to happen & build resentment over time. I recognize that's my own fault but would love more training or recommendations for training to resolve conflict & re-establish healthy boundaries. Thank you!
Thanks for your honest sharing, Tara! It is indeed difficult to start an uncomfortable conversation with loved ones, but that is exactly why it's so important to ensure they know what your boundaries are and the consequences of crossing them. We believe this video can be very useful for you: ua-cam.com/video/d6LmlWpW-AQ/v-deo.html ❤
I have been setting them the the old way (walk away) now I just leant a toward strat. Thank you Ajit
So glad you found this helpful! Thanks for sharing 💜
Thank you especially the boss setting boundaries...it beats being upset. Thanks again
100%, Josephine. Clear boundaries can be so life-changing ❤
It’s not easy to put boundaries but it’s doable thank you so much for sharing
100%, Sahar! Thanks for sharing ❤
This came right on time
We're so happy to read that, Liam! Thanks so much for sharing ❤
Great video, thanks 😊
So glad you enjoyed it, Kat! Thanks for sharing ❤
What do you do when you try to claim your boundary with informed consent, and say no, but social media outlets will delete your account, democratically elected governments worldwide retaliate to take away jobs, insurance, loans, apartments, passports, transportation, the ability to eat or obtain food?
I want my right to refuse consent, including freedom to speak about my right to refuse, without fear of retalliations, sanctions, protected and upheld by the federal government, as guaranteed by the constitution of the USA, the bill of rights, the ammendments, the hippocratic oath, civil rights laws, and international human rights laws. I respect other's rights to make choices for themselves, and I will take any reasonable precautions to ensure their safety and comfort. But I will not be bullied, manipulated, coerced, intimidated, threatened, or otherwised forced by authoritarian regimes or mobs around the world to surrender my consent because I will never give it. If these actions persist, I will use lawsuits, language, or actions to defend myself, including but not limited to seeking refuge in foreign nations that still remember what liberty means.