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WE ALREADY OUR OWN DOWNFALL!!! AFRICANS LITERALLY SOLD THEY BROTHERS AND SISTERS INTO SLAVERY, causing them to lose they whole sense of IDENTITY. And then turn around generations later and make fun and look down on the descendants of those said people. And then turn around and come to said land, take resources back to the motherland because they can’t reap the HARVEST OF THEY OWN LAND. gtfoh
Yelp... Really eye opening~! Great post Ndagire... Knowledge is Power~!!!! Unite, Defend and Free Africa Now~! Keep up the good work my Sista.... 1love.... Byeeeeeee lol....
I am South African and I am for African unity. However, I have to add that here in SA as well, we have had other brothers and sisters form the diaspora insulting South Africans. Things like "we take your jobs because you South Africans are lazy you do not want to work". When our own Africans do not realise that the capitalist white system hires them more because they use them to run away from adhering to basic Conditions of Employment Act, Labour Act and so on that encourage fair labour practices where workers benefits and rights are protected.
As a Black American, I've never had an African here express such things to my face. My experiences have generally been positive. However, on the Internet I have seen the other side. I have seen the comments and the slurs.
I'm British but Southern African born, as far as black on black discrimination from either other Africans/tribes or diaspora groups like Jamaicans, it's never been direct. It's been a subtle vibe of "i don't want you near me" type looks or w.e. But it's the same with racism and other discriminations in the UK. A lot of it is toned down, i think because we are men. Perhaps subconciously, the mind thinks confrontations with men tend to escalate quickly into potentially deadly violence (I've had my fair share). Overall with discrimination, my experiences are far less confrontational than those i've heard from my female relatives or partner. It depends whose doing it too.
Now I can see that the only one who can bring The two Nations together is TMH. Israel and Judah are going to be at odds in this world until they find out who they are. ISRAELITES
@@Changamira we make only 3% of the uk population and 12 % of USA population therefore to know real black on black discrimination and violence you have to go to the African continent if we want to see the real issues that’s crippling black people, now we have seen the murder of Nigerian’s and other Africans moving to South African being killed for taking job opportunities some stoned to death or burnt alive or chopped up to death 💀 we have seen the millions of men women and children and babies being killed in Rwanda by there own because of tribal discrimination , we seen millions of Somali people killing there own Muslim brothers and sisters for the last 30 years due to tribal discrimination, we have also seen discrimination from Somalis towards west Africans or anyone with Afro type hair , we have seen Nigerians discriminating against other tribes and giving favouritism to there own tribe , we seen albino people being murdered for witchcraft and there body parts used or sold , there’s millions of child killed throughout Africa for being accused of being a witch , the list goes on , so in future if you really want to know who hate who look at how Africans treat each other and there history for the last 70 years , police brutality in Africa is 50 times than American police brutality rape is worse in Africa than USA 🇺🇸 unfair dismissal is worse in Africa , leaders of Africa look after the white western world 🌍 and would kill and watch there own suffer
As an african am tired of youtubers putting this kind of videos instead of putting out the positivity between africans and african americans. It's always the same thing.
I think your assessment of this situation was very fair and informative! The extensive cost that it takes to get to America makes Africans very goal oriented. I admire that!
Imagine if we went to your country, looked down on you, called you names in public, mocked your children and culture, and sided with your former colonizer or recent one… and told you we disrespected you because of “the media”. we all know what would happen and it wouldn’t be pretty. Tribalism is a failed system. The civil rights movement worked because WE all were willing to work together for a common goal. We thought that by advocating for you all that you would return the favor. Africans are some of the smartest people ever so the excuse of not knowing is unacceptable when you can literally google. The same goes for us. We know that not every person on the continent is a warlord or starving. Those are ignorant tropes.
Hello young lady I like your podcast normally however your sense of African Americans particularly African American women. I believe she was right about African men they are not different than African American men! I did date a Nigerian man he acted like the young lady described. He was angry at the USA 🇺🇸 and media propaganda he and his family chose to believe! He was from a prominent family in Nigeria 🇳🇬 He wanted to come to America so his family paid the USA 🇺🇸 for a visa because in Nigeria he was a doctor . That was not the case in America. The USA 🇺🇸 said his education equals a nursing aide position! Wow I did feel bad for him. I think later he had trouble with his family falling out of power in Nigeria. He proceeded to express his anger with me emotionally not physically. I believe African men are angry with African American women because we are very independent. They don’t understand women not even their own women because they don’t listen they give orders! I have come to the conclusion that this is the innate character flaw in men macho issues. No matter what color creed or nationality, men tend to have male dominance concerns! Both parties would need to communicate things clearly can work out between African American women and African men!!!1🇿🇦🇺🇸
To generalize a WHOLE CONTINENT based on her own experience with a solitary man from 1 of 54 countries (with mostly different cultures) is crazy. I live in the American South and I've seen many cases where black people here don't get along with other African American Northerners because of CULTURAL differences. Within Africa, some Africans don't get along with other Africans, even in their own country because of tribalism so what makes you so special? I now understand why it was so easy for Europeans to colonize us because we waste too much time and energy focusing on our differences and tearing each other down.
@@JK-jt8so I am a gen z African and we don't recognize tribes, religion or anything that divides us. And there are only two tribes in Africa the rich and the poor.
No such thing as geographical beef between black Americans we have family all over and gang beef is only a subset of the entire black American community. All Black Americans are not gang members but ALL AFRICANS belong to a TRIBE
@@sikakckcc_Chene you are lying. And you know it. What country in particular. Because there are several countries across the continent having tribal conflicts.
I have traveled many places in the world, especially Africa, and I think there are issues on both sides. Most Black Americans have not traveled abroad particularly to the continent of Africa. They are subject to certain misconceptions such as “Not skin folk are kin folk.” There must be understanding and appreciation of African culture. On the other hand, many Africans, lucky enough to come to America, emigrate here to to get the “best” it has to offer. That may include believing negative stereotypes of Black Americans. I have been able to know many Africans from various countries and in turn have accepted their invitations to visit their home countries. I’ve even learned a little of some languages, which goes a long way.
In the day of the internet willful ignorance is no excuse. Example: before I went to Kenya the first time I did a deep dive into the history of Kenya. But not just Kenya a lot of African Americans, FBA,ADOS know about many things that happened in Africa. Also most of us here in America can trace our family history to the 1600 and got the names of said people. The reason why most don’t know tribes, clan, ect is because they were taking children between the ages of 10-21 and sometimes younger. People who won’t remember or even too young to know said information.
Ndagaire, I love your channel. Sadly, most people don't even know that over 12 MILLION Africans died during the Trans-Atlanic slave trade and the ones who survived, were forever displaced and stripped of their identies. That's even more tragic than the Jewish Holocaust. As you mentioned Africans make huge sacrifices to come to the States to enjoy the benefits here. As a Black American, we sacrifice a lot just to stay here. We live, bearing a great weight on our shoulders since birth, trying to survive in a Country that was built by us but not for us. We are permanently displaced without our a culture, tradition or language to ground or truly identify us. Anyone who travels to another country has an obligation to research and understand its history, culture(s), challenges and successes.
Why do you claim africans? And please stop saying you were stolen. Europeans were never smart enough to take anyone from their land. They follow everything black americanns do. We have no connections to Africans.
People need a disclaimer dvd/streaming package or something on each others cultures & hietories before interacting lol. Because at this point, we have no time honestly we need to unite.
The generalisation, she states 'l just want to say to all Africans, why do y'll come to America and date Americans, when deep down inside y'all really do not like us?' She sounds ignorant - not every African is going to America and Africans who do go to America don't all think or behave the same way. Whatever issue she has with the father of her child and his family has nothing to do with all Africans, the same as if it had been a Black American man and his family that she a bad experience with, she can't blame all Black Americans. This is just perpetuating the BS of the supposed 'diaspora wars.'
Actually no, I used my baby daddy as one example for a certain type of experience. I generalized ALL AFRICANS when I discussed the treatment. Snooty attitudes, snide remarks, and feeling entitled and above everyone else simultaneously, YET NOT BEING ABLE TO GET WHAT THEY NEED FROM THEY OWN COUNTRY. However outsourcing another country and exploiting the culture for monetary gain. She didn’t even show the entire video. She took a snippet and created a discourse around it. So you can’t even get the full gist of what I was saying. So you sound just as IGNORANT AS YOU THINK I SOUND.
@@goddessmentality3118 l stand by my comment! l doubt if she had played the video in its entirety that it would have been any better, given that you're still generalising Africans with your response, yet justifying it by stating 'l generalised all Africans when l discussed my treatment,' as if somehow that makes it right. Just remember also, as well as some Africans who choose to go and reside in the country you reside in, there are people from other countries also residing there, so l suppose, they are also, as you state: 'not being able to get what they need from their own country.' You probably did the video for it to go viral, which l doubt has happened. Remember sometimes the outcomes we get are due to the choices we make. It's that simple!
Ndgaire, if you didn't know about black Americans and the freedom they fought for before, then you also don't know about the freedoms black caribbeans including Virgin Islanders fought for and we all are fighting for everyday. I tried to explain this several weeks ago on another african platform and someone proceeded to drag me telling me that Africans/Igbo never was there and he was very nasty. It's all about opening your mind and getting educated about how Vast or wide the trans atlantic slave trade were.
They will tell you to our faces they dont like us. How did they treat Jamaica. How many of us were asked to leave while they laughed? Our Elders for Tulsa still fight over African Zion Episcopal or Methodist. One of them is tied to Zion. Africa had had British Rule,1697
Get where our beloved American sister is coming from due to her experience As an African myself kinda get where some Africans are coming from based on my own experience To cut story short and not to play the blame games because there's faults on both sides Its wrong to say Africans don't like Americans because Africans love Americans but Africans are not prefect Likewise Africans can't judge all American to be the same because not all Americans are prefect. Within the Africans we have sibling rivalries issues, tribalism issues, colourism issues, political issues, xenophobia issues and all the other issues Likewise for our beloved American family and all the other families One is African and one experience hate within own family but that don't mean that all Africans are hating Same with our beloved American family some have issues within their own families too That don't meaning we are all hating We have to sort ourselves out 1st or love on ourselves before saying who loves who Some are saying Africans love or don't love Black Americans Black Americans love or don't love Africans Meanwhile we are all loving our white families that inflicted the trauma of separation 🤨
Hey Ndagire always watch your videos, love the content and comentary. As an African American i undersrand where she is coming from. Her referencing the "Akata" word tells me she is clearly speaking about Nigerians. From the way it was explained to me "Akata" is an Untrained cat. They call us that because they say we dont k ow our true culture and homeland. That being said, tooo many of us have such a romanticized veiw or africans and africa and just arent in touch with reality regarding our distant brothers/sisters. As someone who visits africa frequently and who studied quite a bit before i started my visits, i was still thoroughly shocked at the reality of african life and people. Africans Complain about African Americans when honestly all we do is treat them how we treat each other. Also, i find African Americans complain About africans when they are treating us how they treat each other. We need to learn to work together, is all. 🌍
West Africans should definitely know about African Americans because we are made to read their literature as non African sub genre for WAEC examinations. Stuff like The Black Boy, The Native Son, Fences, Invisible, Caged Bird, etc. You'll get it if you're an art student.
Excellent vlog, Ndagire! You are absolutely right. We need to come together and learn more about one another. Your vlog is a very important step in that direction. God keep you strong.
As an African immigrant I truly appreciate what the African Americans fought for and are still fighting for justice and equality, having learnt the history I can't fathom to wonder how many immigrants all over the world appreciate the cushion of civil rights that was fought for every immigrant who steps into this country.
@@macym57: My brother, there is a difference between appreciating what AA have been through to allow that narrative to belittle you as a person. First of all the black Americans who exist in America today are our ancestors who were enslaved. Secondly, we were colonised and exploited. Our own history is also filled with atrocities that continue to this day.
Oh really? I met an FBA once ….. he was homeless, into drugs, a feckless father, jobless but loved music and sports …… do you see how this works? PS: All of the above are absolutely true. His name was Danny and I knew him in the Uk.
What about Americans who are living all over Africa. Some have been living there before U were born! What about African Americans who have been married to Africans for many years even before U were born? If we were to ask the man that U were married to, how would he describe U as a wife and life partner? Why is the divorce rate amongst African Americans the highest in the USA? Must a man or a woman be yoked for the rest of their life with a partner who does not fulfill them? We're only hearing from U. Am sure that ur baby daddy too will definitely have a lot to say. Why is it that African American men are now going to South America, Asia, Africa and even Europe to look for compatible partners?
There's a lot o African Americans that worked and continue work for the liberation of the continent. I wish I knew exact tribe and location were my people's history. She didn't do her research on modern Africa. Diaspora 🤎
Yelp... Really eye opening~! Great post Ndagire... Knowledge is Power~!!!! Unite, Defend and Free Africa Now~! Keep up the good work my Sista.... 1love.... Byeeeeeee lol....
IT'S PART OF THERE CULTURE 😮..THAT'S WHY I BELIEVE THE MOST HIGH MEANT FOR US TO STAY SEPARATE FROM THEM...WE'RE THE ONLY GROUP THAT LOOKS AT EVERYONE WHO LOOKS LIKE US AS OUR PEOPLE, AND THOSE PEOPLE (AFRICANS AND CARRIBBEANS) KEEP SHOWING US "ALL SKINFOLKS AIN'T KINFOLKS"❤
😂😂😂 GIRL NOT YOU MADE A UA-cam VIDEO ABOUT MY RANT. Lmaoo this is my personal experience over a period of time. My African baby daddy was just the STRAW THAT BROKE THE CAMELS BACK. If you really want to have a conversation about my PEROSNAL EXPERIENCES WITH AFRICANS THEN WE CAN DO JUST THAT. I’ve been dating Africans since I was 19. I have stories for days about how they pursue you and then be have weird motives. I can also tell you about my experiences with African women as well. It was a rant for crying out loud. And it was triggered by a Twitter thread I saw of AFRICANS calling Americans derogatory terms and then cosplaying the same culture that was being made fun of! So yea you have your insights and I have mine, but don’t try to invalidate MY EXPERIENCES just because you don’t AGREE.
There is Married African men here who has baby mommas at home in Africa...while theyre here in America marrying women here, They're here with a whole family in Africa..We'll just call them baby mommas if theyre not there raising their children
Not all of us are the same blood. There's a difference in attributes, features, and psyche. There's a difference between us blacks and (they) africans. We're Israelites!
We must vet a person and their family before creating life with someone. Specifically when you’re dating outside of your culture. Basically slow down and vet properly. Not all are like this but it is definitely something to watch out for.
I haven't any bad experience with people from Africa..I think she were upset with the guy.They does the same things here they get mad with family. I have all boys and believe I been though it .😅
I'm sorry for what she has experienced and i hope she doesn't take this as a picture of what all Africans from 54+ countries are like. I hope she comes out of this strong and doing great. Diaspora differences are honestly a mess due to perceptions and a few badly behaved people from both ends of the spectrum. This same thing has happened to native Africans living in America, i've heard of some who have been bullied and looked down on by SOME AAs. So basically, the sword cuts on both ends coz besides skin colour, we are all different people from different culutres with different mentalities and much more. I for one have seen bad stuff portrayed about AAs in the media and also heard from other people's experiences. However, i refuse to ever generalise AAs as terrible entittled people because i know, one badly behaved AA does not represent every AA person. As for the slavery comment, baby, Africans who stayed on the continet experienced slavery!!! You in America have just not been taught about it. You are taught about the slavery that happened in America. They have not taught you of the attricities that happened in many African countries. We had women and children raped, villages burnt down, people's limbs cut off and people burnt alive. People did work on plantations belonging to the British and many other colonial countries. So it's a whole misconception that Africans did not experience slavery. Our ancestors did juts that it happened right on our land.
I agree with all you wrote except for the last part. The magnitude of the trans Atlantic slave trade or trafficking cannot in any way be compared to the slave in Africa. Slave trafficking has always been practiced in Europe, among Europeans , arabs etc . The Slavs got their name because they were used by the romans,the Venetian republic,Genoa kingdom. The barbarism and cruelty applied on those slaves cannot be compared to the one meted in our ancestors
Its doesnt matter that youre from a tribe or not, to be sustainable is not possible there no matter what you know. I think Africa can be better if they knew better..Somebody there in these last 100 years aint that smart, intelligent, or genious...Something the people shouldnt come here like theyre smarter or brighter..The grass over here aint greener. Africa is far more greater than America
I think the word you are looking for is opportunistic or opportunists. Ex: they are opportunists. They are opportunistic. Either is fine. But i can see why its easy to get confused! Love the video!
What have they done Madam? You see ! She couldn't come up anything, oh they think they're better than us blah blah,(we hear that often from you) when did they ever said that?
And also they come up with slur names specifically made for black Americans. For example the word akata that's a derogatory term specifically aimed towards black Americans it is the equivalent of saying the n word. And they keep saying that black Americans don't have culture when everyone on this planet is imitating Hip Hop black American culture. I think the whole thing what's going on is very sad. Palm color people love to see blacks divided.
@@robdi4585 it's very true that African Americans have very little culture since a lot was stripped from them during slavery. Yes you guys have rap but it has it's roots in African songs. We have, as a Kenyan, evidence of Africans who rapped long before it became a hit and it was passed down to the generations. It's not widely known but it's there. African Americans are also continuing the culture and heritage their ancestors left them subcousously. They cannot erase it since it in their blood
@@robdi4585 mind you we get called the n word too. The palm colored people you keep talking about aren't sparing the use of that word on us Africans since we are black till date. I heard an argument that we as Africans shouldn't use the n word because it's different. But if it's different from the one used before doesn't that also mean that white people can use it? Just asking a question
@@BumbleBee-wi3cf Obviously, you don't know the definition of the word culture. Black Americans created a new culture which everyone on this planet emulates, and that is hip hop and R&B plus the Fashions and hairstyles and language that come from it. Even Caribbean people who are descendants of slaves also created a new culture. With your logic, then one can argue that Africans don't have a culture because white Europeans created your culture by mixing other tribes. Even the very countries that Africans reside today are not a product of African culture. These countries were made by Europeans. But am I going to say that Africans don't have a culture just because they were colonized and speak non-African languages? The answer is no. That would be silly because I understand the definition of culture. The thing I can't stand the most is that people like you are trying to redefine the definition of what culture is. And with that logic, then that means you don't have a culture either. Right? Make it make sense!
With all respect and consideration, my Sistah, please don’t compare Black American men to African men in Baby “Mamaing” Black American women. The situations and factors are different. It sounds like you are attempting to justify or soften the offense of the African when you do this. You are a bystander. Thank you.
The Bible says the heart of mankind is desperate and wicked ,people in the Caribbean ,south America, Africa and other countries they are all following the bad patterns of America
Ndagire you need an African man point of view to fully give an impartial opinion. Plus I would love to see a joint interview between you and an African about any topic. Make it make sense 😊
Your elders should have informed or educated you about the state of affairs in America. With a population of 1 billion people on the continent, it's crucial to stand up, fight, and prevent Western countries from taking over your resources. etc. It is truly how most Africans who come to the US think of Black Americans. We are not like Africans and are not African. We are a new breed of people.
'Fight and prevent western countries from taking your resources,' l wonder what you propose, given that the west (the country you reside in is a huge culprit) ensures that the systems it has put in place to enable the pillaging of resources and destabilising the economies of African countries, makes it extremely difficult for this to happen. Find out what they did to some of the African leaders who tried to fight these systems. You stating 'we are not like Africans and we are not African.' It is not Africans who started referring to Black Americans as African Americans. Go and take up that issue up with the people responsible for that and leave Africans the F alone!
Black Americans also have pride like any other blacks around the world,please a lot of worthless blacks are everywhere,so whatever u say about UT brothers and sisters ur saying it about urself
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@@Ndagire We as a people who are characterize by our skin tone as a negative and see ourselves as less than has nowhere else to go but down.
WE ALREADY OUR OWN DOWNFALL!!! AFRICANS LITERALLY SOLD THEY BROTHERS AND SISTERS INTO SLAVERY, causing them to lose they whole sense of IDENTITY. And then turn around generations later and make fun and look down on the descendants of those said people. And then turn around and come to said land, take resources back to the motherland because they can’t reap the HARVEST OF THEY OWN LAND. gtfoh
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I am South African and I am for African unity. However, I have to add that here in SA as well, we have had other brothers and sisters form the diaspora insulting South Africans. Things like "we take your jobs because you South Africans are lazy you do not want to work". When our own Africans do not realise that the capitalist white system hires them more because they use them to run away from adhering to basic Conditions of Employment Act, Labour Act and so on that encourage fair labour practices where workers benefits and rights are protected.
As a Black American, I've never had an African here express such things to my face. My experiences have generally been positive. However, on the Internet I have seen the other side. I have seen the comments and the slurs.
Africans treat Africans bad
I'm British but Southern African born, as far as black on black discrimination from either other Africans/tribes or diaspora groups like Jamaicans, it's never been direct. It's been a subtle vibe of "i don't want you near me" type looks or w.e. But it's the same with racism and other discriminations in the UK. A lot of it is toned down, i think because we are men. Perhaps subconciously, the mind thinks confrontations with men tend to escalate quickly into potentially deadly violence (I've had my fair share). Overall with discrimination, my experiences are far less confrontational than those i've heard from my female relatives or partner. It depends whose doing it too.
Now I can see that the only one who can bring The two Nations together is TMH. Israel and Judah are going to be at odds in this world until they find out who they are. ISRAELITES
@@Changamira we make only 3% of the uk population and 12 % of USA population therefore to know real black on black discrimination and violence you have to go to the African continent if we want to see the real issues that’s crippling black people, now we have seen the murder of Nigerian’s and other Africans moving to South African being killed for taking job opportunities some stoned to death or burnt alive or chopped up to death 💀 we have seen the millions of men women and children and babies being killed in Rwanda by there own because of tribal discrimination , we seen millions of Somali people killing there own Muslim brothers and sisters for the last 30 years due to tribal discrimination, we have also seen discrimination from Somalis towards west Africans or anyone with Afro type hair , we have seen Nigerians discriminating against other tribes and giving favouritism to there own tribe , we seen albino people being murdered for witchcraft and there body parts used or sold , there’s millions of child killed throughout Africa for being accused of being a witch , the list goes on , so in future if you really want to know who hate who look at how Africans treat each other and there history for the last 70 years , police brutality in Africa is 50 times than American police brutality rape is worse in Africa than USA 🇺🇸 unfair dismissal is worse in Africa , leaders of Africa look after the white western world 🌍 and would kill and watch there own suffer
As an african am tired of youtubers putting this kind of videos instead of putting out the positivity between africans and african americans. It's always the same thing.
The lady is telling nothing but, the truth!!!!
She most definitely is 👍🏾
@@Thepassporttraveler: Which lady?
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I think your assessment of this situation was very fair and informative! The extensive cost that it takes to get to America makes Africans very goal oriented. I admire that!
Imagine if we went to your country, looked down on you, called you names in public, mocked your children and culture, and sided with your former colonizer or recent one… and told you we disrespected you because of “the media”. we all know what would happen and it wouldn’t be pretty. Tribalism is a failed system. The civil rights movement worked because WE all were willing to work together for a common goal. We thought that by advocating for you all that you would return the favor. Africans are some of the smartest people ever so the excuse of not knowing is unacceptable when you can literally google. The same goes for us. We know that not every person on the continent is a warlord or starving. Those are ignorant tropes.
Hello young lady I like your podcast normally however your sense of African Americans particularly African American women. I believe she was right about African men they are not different than African American men! I did date a Nigerian man he acted like the young lady described. He was angry at the USA 🇺🇸 and media propaganda he and his family chose to believe! He was from a prominent family in Nigeria 🇳🇬 He wanted to come to America so his family paid the USA 🇺🇸 for a visa because in Nigeria he was a doctor . That was not the case in America. The USA 🇺🇸 said his education equals a nursing aide position! Wow I did feel bad for him. I think later he had trouble with his family falling out of power in Nigeria. He proceeded to express his anger with me emotionally not physically. I believe African men are angry with African American women because we are very independent. They don’t understand women not even their own women because they don’t listen they give orders! I have come to the conclusion that this is the innate character flaw in men macho issues. No matter what color creed or nationality, men tend to have male dominance concerns! Both parties would need to communicate things clearly can work out between African American women and African men!!!1🇿🇦🇺🇸
To generalize a WHOLE CONTINENT based on her own experience with a solitary man from 1 of 54 countries (with mostly different cultures) is crazy. I live in the American South and I've seen many cases where black people here don't get along with other African American Northerners because of CULTURAL differences. Within Africa, some Africans don't get along with other Africans, even in their own country because of tribalism so what makes you so special? I now understand why it was so easy for Europeans to colonize us because we waste too much time and energy focusing on our differences and tearing each other down.
It’s our version of tribalism, gangs, and geographic beefs. It’s a flaw that the children of Africa share in common.
@@JK-jt8so I am a gen z African and we don't recognize tribes, religion or anything that divides us. And there are only two tribes in Africa the rich and the poor.
No such thing as geographical beef between black Americans we have family all over and gang beef is only a subset of the entire black American community. All Black Americans are not gang members but ALL AFRICANS belong to a TRIBE
All black Americans are not gang members that’s a small subset of the community and even they unite under blackness!!
@@sikakckcc_Chene you are lying. And you know it. What country in particular. Because there are several countries across the continent having tribal conflicts.
Mmmmh is Africa a country? Or a continent, it's good to be specific which country unless she was dating men from all African countries.
I have traveled many places in the world, especially Africa, and I think there are issues on both sides. Most Black Americans have not traveled abroad particularly to the continent of Africa. They are subject to certain misconceptions such as “Not skin folk are kin folk.” There must be understanding and appreciation of African culture. On the other hand, many Africans, lucky enough to come to America, emigrate here to to get the “best” it has to offer. That may include believing negative stereotypes of Black Americans. I have been able to know many Africans from various countries and in turn have accepted their invitations to visit their home countries. I’ve even learned a little of some languages, which goes a long way.
LOL. Most Africans have not traveled the globe.
both groups have misconceptions about each other
Most Africans haven't left their country. So what are you saying?
In the day of the internet willful ignorance is no excuse. Example: before I went to Kenya the first time I did a deep dive into the history of Kenya. But not just Kenya a lot of African Americans, FBA,ADOS know about many things that happened in Africa.
Also most of us here in America can trace our family history to the 1600 and got the names of said people. The reason why most don’t know tribes, clan, ect is because they were taking children between the ages of 10-21 and sometimes younger. People who won’t remember or even too young to know said information.
Ndagaire, I love your channel. Sadly, most people don't even know that over 12 MILLION Africans died during the Trans-Atlanic slave trade and the ones who survived, were forever displaced and stripped of their identies. That's even more tragic than the Jewish Holocaust. As you mentioned Africans make huge sacrifices to come to the States to enjoy the benefits here. As a Black American, we sacrifice a lot just to stay here. We live, bearing a great weight on our shoulders since birth, trying to survive in a Country that was built by us but not for us. We are permanently displaced without our a culture, tradition or language to ground or truly identify us. Anyone who travels to another country has an obligation to research and understand its history, culture(s), challenges and successes.
And that's just the Atlantic slave trade..
@@MelanieGraceTV HEAVY ON THE BUILT BY US BUT NOT FOR US!!!
@@goddessmentality3118 yeah...😭
Why do you claim africans? And please stop saying you were stolen. Europeans were never smart enough to take anyone from their land. They follow everything black americanns do. We have no connections to Africans.
Most Black people were here already for thousands of years and not from the slave trade.
People need a disclaimer dvd/streaming package or something on each others cultures & hietories before interacting lol. Because at this point, we have no time honestly we need to unite.
She had a baby with this dude without marriage???
she's also a stripper lol
Its obvious you wasn't listening. However, how dare a woman to do something like that! OMG what would jesus do?!!! BaBy! its 2024, it happens
$100 bucks say he's Nigerian
That means he did too
@@sm-pw4yu He probably married her to get the green card. Stop bringing somebody to the US.
The generalisation, she states 'l just want to say to all Africans, why do y'll come to America and date Americans, when deep down inside y'all really do not like us?' She sounds ignorant - not every African is going to America and Africans who do go to America don't all think or behave the same way. Whatever issue she has with the father of her child and his family has nothing to do with all Africans, the same as if it had been a Black American man and his family that she a bad experience with, she can't blame all Black Americans. This is just perpetuating the BS of the supposed 'diaspora wars.'
Actually no, I used my baby daddy as one example for a certain type of experience. I generalized ALL AFRICANS when I discussed the treatment. Snooty attitudes, snide remarks, and feeling entitled and above everyone else simultaneously, YET NOT BEING ABLE TO GET WHAT THEY NEED FROM THEY OWN COUNTRY. However outsourcing another country and exploiting the culture for monetary gain. She didn’t even show the entire video. She took a snippet and created a discourse around it. So you can’t even get the full gist of what I was saying. So you sound just as IGNORANT AS YOU THINK I SOUND.
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@@goddessmentality3118is your baby daddy Nigerian? Y'all should know those bakers aren't to be trusted sorry dear.
@@goddessmentality3118 l stand by my comment! l doubt if she had played the video in its entirety that it would have been any better, given that you're still generalising Africans with your response, yet justifying it by stating 'l generalised all Africans when l discussed my treatment,' as if somehow that makes it right. Just remember also, as well as some Africans who choose to go and reside in the country you reside in, there are people from other countries also residing there, so l suppose, they are also, as you state: 'not being able to get what they need from their own country.' You probably did the video for it to go viral, which l doubt has happened. Remember sometimes the outcomes we get are due to the choices we make. It's that simple!
She's telling the truth
Ndgaire, if you didn't know about black Americans and the freedom they fought for before, then you also don't know about the freedoms black caribbeans including Virgin Islanders fought for and we all are fighting for everyday. I tried to explain this several weeks ago on another african platform and someone proceeded to drag me telling me that Africans/Igbo never was there and he was very nasty. It's all about opening your mind and getting educated about how Vast or wide the trans atlantic slave trade were.
They will tell you to our faces they dont like us. How did they treat Jamaica. How many of us were asked to leave while they laughed? Our Elders for Tulsa still fight over African Zion Episcopal or Methodist. One of them is tied to Zion. Africa had had British Rule,1697
Get where our beloved American sister is coming from due to her experience
As an African myself kinda get where some Africans are coming from based on my own experience
To cut story short and not to play the blame games because there's faults on both sides
Its wrong to say Africans don't like Americans because Africans love Americans but Africans are not prefect
Likewise Africans can't judge all American to be the same because not all Americans are prefect.
Within the Africans we have sibling rivalries issues, tribalism issues, colourism issues, political issues, xenophobia issues and all the other issues
Likewise for our beloved American family and all the other families
One is African and one experience hate within own family but that don't mean that all Africans are hating
Same with our beloved American family some have issues within their own families too
That don't meaning we are all hating
We have to sort ourselves out 1st or love on ourselves before saying who loves who
Some are saying Africans love or don't love Black Americans
Black Americans love or don't love Africans
Meanwhile we are all loving our white families that inflicted the trauma of separation 🤨
I dated a African woman in the United States I didn't know which country she was from but she was nice !
Dated yet didn't care enough to know which country she comes from?
@@banyana6515 That was my question too seeing this comment.... 😒😒
Typical American ignorance. Carry on.
@@BeninMamiWata Haters gone Hate !
@@BeninMamiWata Typical playa hater ! No game just shame
Hey Ndagire always watch your videos, love the content and comentary.
As an African American i undersrand where she is coming from. Her referencing the "Akata" word tells me she is clearly speaking about Nigerians. From the way it was explained to me "Akata" is an Untrained cat. They call us that because they say we dont k ow our true culture and homeland.
That being said, tooo many of us have such a romanticized veiw or africans and africa and just arent in touch with reality regarding our distant brothers/sisters.
As someone who visits africa frequently and who studied quite a bit before i started my visits, i was still thoroughly shocked at the reality of african life and people.
Africans Complain about African Americans when honestly all we do is treat them how we treat each other. Also, i find African Americans complain About africans when they are treating us how they treat each other.
We need to learn to work together, is all. 🌍
That sis has some soul searching to do,
She sounds hurt from her relationship not working so now she’s generalising
I’m not African, I’m Melanesian and she’s telling the truth. Maybe she should name the country not the continent.
She telling the whole truth
I really appreciate your channel. You're like a translator between the black cultures across the globe. Bravo!
West Africans should definitely know about African Americans because we are made to read their literature as non African sub genre for WAEC examinations. Stuff like The Black Boy, The Native Son, Fences, Invisible, Caged Bird, etc. You'll get it if you're an art student.
Excellent vlog, Ndagire! You are absolutely right. We need to come together and learn more about one another. Your vlog is a very important step in that direction. God keep you strong.
So far I don't see any negativity in Africa 🌍 I'm still down with Uganda and Kenya and Nigeria and Tanzania and Burkina Faso
Me too
Thank you, Sister, for that breakdown. As a Black American.
As an African immigrant I truly appreciate what the African Americans fought for and are still fighting for justice and equality, having learnt the history I can't fathom to wonder how many immigrants all over the world appreciate the cushion of civil rights that was fought for every immigrant who steps into this country.
What is a Black American? If you call yourself that term they can claim you and put you back in slavery
@@macym57: My brother, there is a difference between appreciating what AA have been through to allow that narrative to belittle you as a person.
First of all the black Americans who exist in America today are our ancestors who were enslaved. Secondly, we were colonised and exploited. Our own history is also filled with atrocities that continue to this day.
She is telling the truth I met some and this is the attitude of most
Oh really? I met an FBA once ….. he was homeless, into drugs, a feckless father, jobless but loved music and sports …… do you see how this works?
PS: All of the above are absolutely true. His name was Danny and I knew him in the Uk.
Yelp.. Always watching U Beautiful..... Kisses... Say hi to your mom for me... Thank you Ndagire... for being U...
An African Brother broke her heart.
What about Americans who are living all over Africa. Some have been living there before U were born! What about African Americans who have been married to Africans for many years even before U were born? If we were to ask the man that U were married to, how would he describe U as a wife and life partner? Why is the divorce rate amongst African Americans the highest in the USA? Must a man or a woman be yoked for the rest of their life with a partner who does not fulfill them? We're only hearing from U. Am sure that ur baby daddy too will definitely have a lot to say. Why is it that African American men are now going to South America, Asia, Africa and even Europe to look for compatible partners?
There's a lot o African Americans that worked and continue work for the liberation of the continent.
I wish I knew exact tribe and location were my people's history.
She didn't do her research on modern Africa.
Diaspora 🤎
Yelp... Really eye opening~! Great post Ndagire... Knowledge is Power~!!!! Unite, Defend and Free Africa Now~! Keep up the good work my Sista.... 1love.... Byeeeeeee lol....
IT'S PART OF THERE CULTURE 😮..THAT'S WHY I BELIEVE THE MOST HIGH MEANT FOR US TO STAY SEPARATE FROM THEM...WE'RE THE ONLY GROUP THAT LOOKS AT EVERYONE WHO LOOKS LIKE US AS OUR PEOPLE, AND THOSE PEOPLE (AFRICANS AND CARRIBBEANS) KEEP SHOWING US "ALL SKINFOLKS AIN'T KINFOLKS"❤
🔥She really spitting facts!! Acataa?
Exactly they all delulu tbh. Swear they don’t see the error in they ways.
Exactly
She aint lying. Some african boys are guilty of this, not all.
CIVIL RIGHTS
😂😂😂 GIRL NOT YOU MADE A UA-cam VIDEO ABOUT MY RANT. Lmaoo this is my personal experience over a period of time. My African baby daddy was just the STRAW THAT BROKE THE CAMELS BACK. If you really want to have a conversation about my PEROSNAL EXPERIENCES WITH AFRICANS THEN WE CAN DO JUST THAT. I’ve been dating Africans since I was 19. I have stories for days about how they pursue you and then be have weird motives. I can also tell you about my experiences with African women as well. It was a rant for crying out loud. And it was triggered by a Twitter thread I saw of AFRICANS calling Americans derogatory terms and then cosplaying the same culture that was being made fun of! So yea you have your insights and I have mine, but don’t try to invalidate MY EXPERIENCES just because you don’t AGREE.
Why are you having babies outside of Marriage, like what is the matter with you people.
Relax each African is different. West Africans minus Burkina Faso. The men can be trash.
Bingo
@Ndagire
@@femz6438 how about you worry about your own yoni and not mine
WORD
She has a problem
You Africans are the problem
100%
There is Married African men here who has baby mommas at home in Africa...while theyre here in America marrying women here, They're here with a whole family in Africa..We'll just call them baby mommas if theyre not there raising their children
Not all of us are the same blood. There's a difference in attributes, features, and psyche. There's a difference between us blacks and (they) africans. We're Israelites!
Brilliant Brilliant lady ! Love you lots ! Where can I find you when in Uganda ?❤❤
We must vet a person and their family before creating life with someone. Specifically when you’re dating outside of your culture. Basically slow down and vet properly. Not all are like this but it is definitely something to watch out for.
You must be specific Africa is a continent with 54 countries, dont blame the whole continent for your misfortunes
I haven't any bad experience with people from Africa..I think she were upset with the guy.They does the same things here they get mad with family. I have all boys and believe I been though it .😅
Internet the best equalizer (internet has opened up the reality of racism to Africans)The black American lady was just unlucky.
Racism/xenophobia to Africans the new emerging frontier …… it’s only going to get worse.
I REALLY RESPECT THIS RESPONSE
I'm sorry for what she has experienced and i hope she doesn't take this as a picture of what all Africans from 54+ countries are like. I hope she comes out of this strong and doing great. Diaspora differences are honestly a mess due to perceptions and a few badly behaved people from both ends of the spectrum. This same thing has happened to native Africans living in America, i've heard of some who have been bullied and looked down on by SOME AAs. So basically, the sword cuts on both ends coz besides skin colour, we are all different people from different culutres with different mentalities and much more. I for one have seen bad stuff portrayed about AAs in the media and also heard from other people's experiences. However, i refuse to ever generalise AAs as terrible entittled people because i know, one badly behaved AA does not represent every AA person. As for the slavery comment, baby, Africans who stayed on the continet experienced slavery!!! You in America have just not been taught about it. You are taught about the slavery that happened in America. They have not taught you of the attricities that happened in many African countries. We had women and children raped, villages burnt down, people's limbs cut off and people burnt alive. People did work on plantations belonging to the British and many other colonial countries. So it's a whole misconception that Africans did not experience slavery. Our ancestors did juts that it happened right on our land.
I agree with all you wrote except for the last part. The magnitude of the trans Atlantic slave trade or trafficking cannot in any way be compared to the slave in Africa.
Slave trafficking has always been practiced in Europe, among Europeans , arabs etc . The Slavs got their name because they were used by the romans,the Venetian republic,Genoa kingdom. The barbarism and cruelty applied on those slaves cannot be compared to the one meted in our ancestors
Its doesnt matter that youre from a tribe or not, to be sustainable is not possible there no matter what you know. I think Africa can be better if they knew better..Somebody there in these last 100 years aint that smart, intelligent, or genious...Something the people shouldnt come here like theyre smarter or brighter..The grass over here aint greener. Africa is far more greater than America
Leaving America isn't easy either
+@Ndagire : It's pronounced opportunist.....lol 😅😂🤣😅😆😁 my Hebrew Yashar'alite Sista Queen 👑 of Zion Yashar'al..........!!! 💋💞❤️🔥🥰👑🕎👑😍💝💕👄
She's a teenager and not open minded.
Why they show you their true colors over here in America especially on the job
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I think the word you are looking for is opportunistic or opportunists.
Ex: they are opportunists. They are opportunistic.
Either is fine. But i can see why its easy to get confused! Love the video!
I don't like it here in the u.s is hard to find a job they are very picky about it
Goin on a rant!? Nah beautiful speak, we listenin.
Read history. Pray for change. Part of the problem is your leaders.
What have they done Madam? You see ! She couldn't come up anything, oh they think they're better than us blah blah,(we hear that often from you) when did they ever said that?
ON TWITTER!
And also they come up with slur names specifically made for black Americans. For example the word akata that's a derogatory term specifically aimed towards black Americans it is the equivalent of saying the n word. And they keep saying that black Americans don't have culture when everyone on this planet is imitating Hip Hop black American culture. I think the whole thing what's going on is very sad. Palm color people love to see blacks divided.
@@robdi4585 it's very true that African Americans have very little culture since a lot was stripped from them during slavery. Yes you guys have rap but it has it's roots in African songs. We have, as a Kenyan, evidence of Africans who rapped long before it became a hit and it was passed down to the generations. It's not widely known but it's there. African Americans are also continuing the culture and heritage their ancestors left them subcousously. They cannot erase it since it in their blood
@@robdi4585 mind you we get called the n word too. The palm colored people you keep talking about aren't sparing the use of that word on us Africans since we are black till date. I heard an argument that we as Africans shouldn't use the n word because it's different. But if it's different from the one used before doesn't that also mean that white people can use it? Just asking a question
@@BumbleBee-wi3cf Obviously, you don't know the definition of the word culture. Black Americans created a new culture which everyone on this planet emulates, and that is hip hop and R&B plus the Fashions and hairstyles and language that come from it. Even Caribbean people who are descendants of slaves also created a new culture. With your logic, then one can argue that Africans don't have a culture because white Europeans created your culture by mixing other tribes. Even the very countries that Africans reside today are not a product of African culture. These countries were made by Europeans. But am I going to say that Africans don't have a culture just because they were colonized and speak non-African languages? The answer is no. That would be silly because I understand the definition of culture. The thing I can't stand the most is that people like you are trying to redefine the definition of what culture is. And with that logic, then that means you don't have a culture either. Right? Make it make sense!
I've just typed 2 other comments, i guarantee it's all true. Can't see them? I can. Do you want a screenshot?
They not like us fba baby
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With all respect and consideration, my Sistah, please don’t compare Black American men to African men in Baby “Mamaing” Black American women. The situations and factors are different. It sounds like you are attempting to justify or soften the offense of the African when you do this. You are a bystander. Thank you.
I can't hear what she saying
The Bible says the heart of mankind is desperate and wicked ,people in the Caribbean ,south America, Africa and other countries they are all following the bad patterns of America
I have to say you are 100% on target with your comments and I enjoy your videos.
Black people unite! Embrace your brothers and sisters! Period!
Ndagire you need an African man point of view to fully give an impartial opinion. Plus I would love to see a joint interview between you and an African about any topic. Make it make sense 😊
🤣 soon. I will definitely make it make sense
Her opinion is valid..
@@Ndagireyou make clear sense right now. You not lying about these men
@@hassanas.benjamin3818 it's still one sided.
Your elders should have informed or educated you about the state of affairs in America. With a population of 1 billion people on the continent, it's crucial to stand up, fight, and prevent Western countries from taking over your resources. etc. It is truly how most Africans who come to the US think of Black Americans. We are not like Africans and are not African. We are a new breed of people.
'Fight and prevent western countries from taking your resources,' l wonder what you propose, given that the west (the country you reside in is a huge culprit) ensures that the systems it has put in place to enable the pillaging of resources and destabilising the economies of African countries, makes it extremely difficult for this to happen. Find out what they did to some of the African leaders who tried to fight these systems. You stating 'we are not like Africans and we are not African.' It is not Africans who started referring to Black Americans as African Americans. Go and take up that issue up with the people responsible for that and leave Africans the F alone!
Amen
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She started to talk about Jamaicans??? Jamaicans have pride, Africans have pride, what do you American woman have ????
Black Americans also have pride like any other blacks around the world,please a lot of worthless blacks are everywhere,so whatever u say about UT brothers and sisters ur saying it about urself
Pride is staying in your homeland and not kissing wp behinds....😅
Pride ain’t got shit to do with how you treat others
Think before you talk, I'm Jamaican and you can't get emotional over one bitter woman. Let the haters hate and embrace those who rock with you.
@@goddessmentality3118man I seen you in like 3 different replies you pressed or somethin😂??