This is probably my favorite song of theirs. There is something so incredibly intimate about it, like how you can hear him breathe in between singing the lines and parts of the song are almost whispered.
I love this song so much! Its probably my favorite song by them. Its just so deep and the way that he sings it makes me love it 10x more. I can relate to this song so much its insane.
This song makes me want to cry every time I hear it. I know a guy who thinks just like this, and every day I want to tell him "you are amazing, I wouldn't have to pretend you were" and every day, I know it would just chase him away.
We are always our own worst enemies and critics. My brain is a horrible traitor most of the time but I've learned to ignore it. Whatever it tells me, I tell myself the opposite. If it says I'm not good enough I tell myself that I am good enough. When it speaks of shame I think of all the good things I do and when it brings back every misdeed from my past I show it my present. When it tries to convince me that everyone knows and I'm not fooling anyone then I tell it good, I don't have to be normal and I would hope that everyone would see how it's changed me into the better person that I've become. I don't know if it will ever work normally and be kind to me, if not then I'll just keep showing it the reality of things and not the warped overblown version of events it wants to convince me that are real.
It's what I always listend to at one time its like they are talking to you when you are head over heals for some one but to them your just a nother grain of dirt on the ground and all you want to be is center of their world just for one day
He is so perfect on paper, and just a wonderful human being. I do care for this guy,and i miss him... but, I know in my heart I could never fall in love with him. Its something you just know :/ This song makes me so sad.
Thanks for your kind words :) Even though I know he still has feelings for me, he is ok with being friends. He says he is, and that has to be good enough, it has to be. Dating is a weird thing. 1 person usually ends up falling harder than the other. Its a scary thing, and I dont want to be on the other end of it. But I guess we take our chances with our hearts and jump in. I usually just dip a toe in first, try to be smart about things. Doesnt always work out ;) But heres to hoping.....
Aw thats sad, But you cant help it if your heart isnt feeling the same way and 3 months is fast to fall inlove with someone i hope things worked out for you 2 :)
I feel like a terrible human being. I am on the other side of this equation. Yesterday, I broke someones heart. We were dating for 3 and a half months, sort of long distance,2 and a half hrs away. He told me he was falling in love with me yesterday, but Im not falling for him. I can feel his pain in this song, and it hurts me. I wish...I wish that I could control...chose is a better word i think, who we fell in love with, i really do. I cant change my heart, thats what I told him.
@MyLordPariah fine,sorry,i was out of line. and while i do think love is frail,i still don't think that people should tell other people to never fall in love,because its "their" expierience to have,whether they rise or fall is theirs to expieience.and by,"no reason to give up," i meant that there are more fish in the sea,always darkest before the dawn,that kind of thing,i don't know who hurt you,but why should you have to dwell on it,how is that fair to you?
@lclbruddah808 i don't know what you expierienced to make you think like that,but do well to keep it to yourself,because there are some people who never expierienced love for themselves,and such comments like this one may make some people doubt that there is love in this world.sure,your entitled to your opinion, but who are you to take that away from them? real love is a rare thing,don't ruin that.
sent someone here. i pretty much accept that i will never be able to be with this person. it is just the way it is probably. someone that have been in my head and heart for a long time. my heart more than my head. what do you do when she is all you thought about but knew it was not there. i hope and hold out though and now i will longer. i hope that one day i can say that i wrote this and we can read it together so you can see what you mean to me and what i want to mean to you.
@MyLordPariah i see,sorry if i ridiculed you,i did have someone to guide me, and i've always had an uncanny ability to switch off my heart.and its unfair of me to expect others to act the same way i would, but good luck!:)
This just reminds me of my girlfriend and I. Her feelings for me changed into those of a best friend rather than a lover. And I still love her to death and I want her to fall in love with me but well... I feel almost like I made her and wanted so much out of her... this song just... yeah... so painful...
@MyLordPariah interesting input,spoken like a true,broken down,and melodramatic,and almost pathetic soul.its true that the "real" fairytail love love does not exist in any sense of the word,and anyone who ever believed it is both naive and stupid,and most people do decieve,and even lie.and i agree that love is the most bittersweet of all human expieriences.and for the record,"life" itself is mainly a shattered,overrated dream,that's no reason to give up!! so stop whining and live on,!!!!
sent someone here. i pretty much accept that i will never be able to be with this person. it is just the way it is probably. someone that have been in my head and heart for a long time. my heart more than my head. what do you do when she is all you thought about but knew it was not there. i hope and hold out though and now i will longer. i hope that one day i can say that i wrote this and we can read it together so you can see what you mean to me and what i want to mean to you.
This is probably my favorite song of theirs. There is something so incredibly intimate about it, like how you can hear him breathe in between singing the lines and parts of the song are almost whispered.
i love the way he says "so have i found your secret weak spot baby" just the harmonies sound amazing on that line.
I love this song so much! Its probably my favorite song by them. Its just so deep and the way that he sings it makes me love it 10x more. I can relate to this song so much its insane.
My favorite song !!!!!!!! The pain of trying to make someone love you
Just Beautiful......
This song makes me want to cry every time I hear it. I know a guy who thinks just like this, and every day I want to tell him "you are amazing, I wouldn't have to pretend you were" and every day, I know it would just chase him away.
with every song he approaches you with a different kind of love !!
this is my all time favorite song. beautiful.
We are always our own worst enemies and critics. My brain is a horrible traitor most of the time but I've learned to ignore it. Whatever it tells me, I tell myself the opposite. If it says I'm not good enough I tell myself that I am good enough. When it speaks of shame I think of all the good things I do and when it brings back every misdeed from my past I show it my present. When it tries to convince me that everyone knows and I'm not fooling anyone then I tell it good, I don't have to be normal and I would hope that everyone would see how it's changed me into the better person that I've become. I don't know if it will ever work normally and be kind to me, if not then I'll just keep showing it the reality of things and not the warped overblown version of events it wants to convince me that are real.
0:00-5:11 is the best part
simply beautiful!!
I just heard this song for the first time
i dont need to pretend, these guys are amazing already!! XD
I loved it that song is so amazing :) and thanks for the lyrics buddy
It's what I always listend to at one time its like they are talking to you when you are head over heals for some one but to them your just a nother grain of dirt on the ground and all you want to be is center of their world just for one day
such a beautiful song!
this would be a beautiful male/female duet
He is so perfect on paper, and just a wonderful human being. I do care for this guy,and i miss him... but, I know in my heart I could never fall in love with him. Its something you just know :/ This song makes me so sad.
Thanks for your kind words :) Even though I know he still has feelings for me, he is ok with being friends. He says he is, and that has to be good enough, it has to be. Dating is a weird thing. 1 person usually ends up falling harder than the other. Its a scary thing, and I dont want to be on the other end of it. But I guess we take our chances with our hearts and jump in. I usually just dip a toe in first, try to be smart about things. Doesnt always work out ;) But heres to hoping.....
no one knows how much this song means to me
craig morrissey I do.
You guys are not alone...
craig morrissey totally get it.
I do
This brang backs some Memo's
yup. its soo goood
Your not terrible, the heart wants what the heart wants, you two just weren't meant to be, besides, I'm sure he'll learn to love again.
scapegoat..... but an awesome song yet again from Blue October.
Aw thats sad, But you cant help it if your heart isnt feeling the same way and 3 months is fast to fall inlove with someone i hope things worked out for you 2 :)
usually we lose the right person...
Anybody who's listening to this right now (at this time of the year) should press the snowflake near the annotations. Wow.
Well thats good that you guys are friends, Its better then nothing lol, Good luck! :)
the likes vs. dislikes.......TOTAL LIKES WIN!!! :) i love this song -clicks like 10 billion times-
I feel like a terrible human being. I am on the other side of this equation. Yesterday, I broke someones heart. We were dating for 3 and a half months, sort of long distance,2 and a half hrs away. He told me he was falling in love with me yesterday, but Im not falling for him. I can feel his pain in this song, and it hurts me. I wish...I wish that I could control...chose is a better word i think, who we fell in love with, i really do. I cant change my heart, thats what I told him.
@MyLordPariah fine,sorry,i was out of line. and while i do think love is frail,i still don't think that people should tell other people to never fall in love,because its "their" expierience to have,whether they rise or fall is theirs to expieience.and by,"no reason to give up," i meant that there are more fish in the sea,always darkest before the dawn,that kind of thing,i don't know who hurt you,but why should you have to dwell on it,how is that fair to you?
^^ & NOW OUR HISTORY IS FOR SALE^^ thats the name of the album right???
i love how that sound..OUR HISTORY IS FOR SALE...sound romantic..
10 years later. I first heard this song a week ago
@lclbruddah808 i don't know what you expierienced to make you think like that,but do well to keep it to yourself,because there are some people who never expierienced love for themselves,and such comments like this one may make some people doubt that there is love in this world.sure,your entitled to your opinion, but who are you to take that away from them? real love is a rare thing,don't ruin that.
sent someone here. i pretty much accept that i will never be able to be with this person. it is just the way it is probably. someone that have been in my head and heart for a long time. my heart more than my head. what do you do when she is all you thought about but knew it was not there. i hope and hold out though and now i will longer. i hope that one day i can say that i wrote this and we can read it together so you can see what you mean to me and what i want to mean to you.
i have all his cds
@MyLordPariah i'm not one for hugs,but thanks!:)
@14imperfectangel it's about his heroin addiction
@MyLordPariah i see,sorry if i ridiculed you,i did have someone to guide me, and i've always had an uncanny ability to switch off my heart.and its unfair of me to expect others to act the same way i would, but good luck!:)
My sweet ghost.... =/
or about someone who left one.
um could someone please explain the song to me?
Do you mean romantically, or physically?
This just reminds me of my girlfriend and I. Her feelings for me changed into those of a best friend rather than a lover. And I still love her to death and I want her to fall in love with me but well... I feel almost like I made her and wanted so much out of her... this song just... yeah... so painful...
AxelRye Well you didn't make her, unless you're her dad
I can pretend
Then their just not worth your love.
lol, escape goat... OR scapegoat?
@ashleighhyde33 why?
@april6676 yea tell me about that I know a girl that i feel the same way about
@MyLordPariah interesting input,spoken like a true,broken down,and melodramatic,and almost pathetic soul.its true that the "real" fairytail love love does not exist in any sense of the word,and anyone who ever believed it is both naive and stupid,and most people do decieve,and even lie.and i agree that love is the most bittersweet of all human expieriences.and for the record,"life" itself is mainly a shattered,overrated dream,that's no reason to give up!! so stop whining and live on,!!!!
sent someone here. i pretty much accept that i will never be able to be with this person. it is just the way it is probably. someone that have been in my head and heart for a long time. my heart more than my head. what do you do when she is all you thought about but knew it was not there. i hope and hold out though and now i will longer. i hope that one day i can say that i wrote this and we can read it together so you can see what you mean to me and what i want to mean to you.