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  • @muhammadnaufalw1822
    @muhammadnaufalw1822 6 років тому +1718

    "This is not living. You're just existing"
    Wow what a quote

    • @Arbitrageur
      @Arbitrageur 6 років тому

      Muhammad Naufal W fr fr

    • @MashiroShiina
      @MashiroShiina 6 років тому

      Ikr

    • @ydschools9745
      @ydschools9745 5 років тому +3

      My Mom says that

    • @jessicalt4121
      @jessicalt4121 5 років тому +7

      Muhammad Naufal W people who work constantly and only work and pay bills feel the same way but of course it’s better to not be homeless.

    • @jffry24
      @jffry24 5 років тому +5

      Muhammad Naufal W I’ve literally heard that exact quote many many times

  • @MyCarllee
    @MyCarllee 6 років тому +2555

    He should write down his story. People will be inspired. He's pretty good with words, too, and he has a great philosophical mind.

    • @Kujam88
      @Kujam88 6 років тому +144

      Carl Lee his command of english is much better than some of my friends in uni! The gov should send him 2 school!

    • @sitinazariah9097
      @sitinazariah9097 6 років тому +12

      yes, agree.

    • @maithilym4717
      @maithilym4717 6 років тому +24

      Yeah! he should actually start writing!!

    • @vlad1110
      @vlad1110 6 років тому +6

      this all are scripted.

    • @loveme
      @loveme 6 років тому +8

      Lol it’s all scripted guys. In a place like Singapore , he and the production house will get into trouble if this was the actual scenario

  • @lalakuma9
    @lalakuma9 6 років тому +1108

    I'm amazed that he managed to get a diploma while homeless and dealing with depression. I hope he's found a better job and not have to sleep in public places anymore.

    • @eddy-currents
      @eddy-currents 6 років тому +31

      Pretty amazing given that a lot of his day is spent just on trying to get by - working, keeping clean and finding a place to rest

    • @smileychica202
      @smileychica202 6 років тому +1

      Lala Is

    • @NicholasMarkovich
      @NicholasMarkovich 6 років тому +16

      there was an old guy in Australia who completed a university degree while homeless, went on to complete honours and PhD and is now a lecturer at university - Gregory Smith ua-cam.com/video/9fnm_xFD3cQ/v-deo.html
      it's a bit easier in Australia though because the government pays for half of our tuition fees and lets us put the other half on an automatically guaranteed loan that we don't have to pay back until we start paying tax on earnings above a certain threshold

    • @genericscout5408
      @genericscout5408 6 років тому +3

      @@NicholasMarkovich If the USA was like that we'd have more PH D's

    • @artmanrom
      @artmanrom 5 років тому +1

      @@NicholasMarkovich :) Nothing beats a piece of paper.

  • @whereeveritgoes
    @whereeveritgoes 7 років тому +3291

    Damn, his command of the English language is phenomenal.

    • @japanlovely8177
      @japanlovely8177 7 років тому +88

      learning a lot from his story of life, great singaporean

    • @ronny71980
      @ronny71980 7 років тому +22

      Same sentiments!

    • @vitoscaletta3202
      @vitoscaletta3202 7 років тому +228

      he was born in a well-to-do family apparently. So probably grew up speaking English.

    • @Japan_C1
      @Japan_C1 6 років тому +31

      Awang Budiman Agreed - for a low life bum, he speaks quite well

    • @ecko_lmtd
      @ecko_lmtd 6 років тому +31

      same, he's like well educated can speak like that.

  • @EGGMANHA
    @EGGMANHA 7 років тому +1606

    He speaks really well.

    • @Absent_keebs
      @Absent_keebs 6 років тому

      Black Shark nice cestrel

    • @pyschannel30
      @pyschannel30 6 років тому

      yea

    • @alexlun4464
      @alexlun4464 6 років тому +18

      Singapore's main language is English, so you can expect a Chinese homeless to speak it well.

    • @irfan123100
      @irfan123100 6 років тому

      yes

    • @anepamzah
      @anepamzah 6 років тому +1

      That from the street knowledge my friend.

  • @sitoudien9816
    @sitoudien9816 6 років тому +1333

    Update: The link above with the full interview. According to a commenter, with the help of a kind woman, Ben has found a place to stay and a stable job in December. All it took was 8 years and Ben's charismatic eloquence. The difference is Ben didn't let himself go. Many homeless are mentally ill, addicted, trafficked, let themselves go. One down, many more to go. I'm glad there are still good people out there.

    • @DavidDavid-yz2sh
      @DavidDavid-yz2sh 6 років тому +4

      Sitou Dien, I don't understand, why was help given to him?

    • @revelbangtanexo2642
      @revelbangtanexo2642 6 років тому +101

      @@DavidDavid-yz2sh he needed help to support him making a change in his life ?? instead of staying homeless for the rest of his life

    • @DavidDavid-yz2sh
      @DavidDavid-yz2sh 6 років тому +4

      @@revelbangtanexo2642, it's nice of them to help, but I don't think he deserves it. Frankly speaking.

    • @revelbangtanexo2642
      @revelbangtanexo2642 6 років тому +130

      @@DavidDavid-yz2sh no offence but why do you think so ?? every person in that kind of situation in general needs to be helped in order to live a better life

    • @DavidDavid-yz2sh
      @DavidDavid-yz2sh 6 років тому +5

      @@revelbangtanexo2642, firstly he came from a rich family, he choose to leave, who is he that his dad has to ask him for permission to married another women? Sometimes in life, one must know where we stand. Nobody own us anything, I hv know a girl under 30, her parents don't even bother about her since a child, imagine how they grow up, today she is flying all over Asia for biz negotiations, still under 30, a female some more, she work very hard. That's why I hv said this guy is a bum.

  • @judithmarianne
    @judithmarianne 7 років тому +751

    He's very articulate.

    • @alexlun4464
      @alexlun4464 6 років тому +7

      homeless people in Singapore speak English fluently because the main language is English

    • @irfan123100
      @irfan123100 6 років тому +1

      yes

    • @joniresdi1938
      @joniresdi1938 5 років тому

      U r so sweet judith...😍😍😍👍

    • @anchored555
      @anchored555 Рік тому

      @@alexlun4464 Depends on age and background. He came from a well to do family and his father was a professional. That probably explains why he speaks better than the average Singaporean on the street.

  • @anselm9791
    @anselm9791 7 років тому +1234

    Such great vocabulary!

    • @alexlun4464
      @alexlun4464 6 років тому +27

      anselm zhu
      singapore's main language is English, most Singaporean's can't even speak mandarin right... no, most of them don't even speak any language right

    • @irfan123100
      @irfan123100 6 років тому

      yes

    • @diegoperez2090
      @diegoperez2090 6 років тому +2

      @@alexlun4464 I met a lot of people who couldn't speak English in Singapore, especially at Hawkers Markets.

    • @alexlun4464
      @alexlun4464 6 років тому +5

      @@diegoperez2090
      don't get misled, English is Singapore's main language, broken, but main

    • @contentdeleted4987
      @contentdeleted4987 5 років тому +1

      It's broken English lah..

  • @weihantan291
    @weihantan291 5 років тому +439

    This dude's English is better than at least 90% of Singaporeans

    • @charliemomo6532
      @charliemomo6532 4 роки тому +1

      Dont think its him speaking lol

    • @ElloBruh69
      @ElloBruh69 3 роки тому +7

      @@charliemomo6532 it is definitely him

    • @ElloBruh69
      @ElloBruh69 3 роки тому +2

      yeah better than mine XD

    • @dendi1076
      @dendi1076 3 роки тому +2

      nah it's his deep grounded voice that makes his english sounds good. a lot of sg people speak english but with high pitch and rushed accents that make them sound incompetent at speaking english

    • @hendramahadina329
      @hendramahadina329 3 роки тому +6

      Remember when He was a child. He had a good education. That's why his English is good.

  • @aaronhan1107
    @aaronhan1107 7 років тому +522

    He is too good to be homeless! Pray he will have better days to come.

    • @morgengabe1
      @morgengabe1 6 років тому +18

      Nobody is, unless they can afford not to be. Watch out.

    • @DavidDavid-yz2sh
      @DavidDavid-yz2sh 6 років тому +5

      Aaron Han, too good??? In Wat way oh?

    • @michaelryan2562
      @michaelryan2562 6 років тому +17

      All humans deserve somewhere to live, so everyone is to good to be homeless.

    • @edvin9758
      @edvin9758 6 років тому +1

      Life dosn't work that way.

    • @lindc1070
      @lindc1070 Рік тому +1

      Just because he speaks well and sounds educated , doesnt mean he is more deserving than those who dont. Actually he could have just given tuition or found something part time. I wonder why he didnt. It could have paid for a room .

  • @ernestkj
    @ernestkj 7 років тому +541

    despite all the difficulties, he's trying to change things!

    • @kuroyukikazekanade7557
      @kuroyukikazekanade7557 6 років тому

      Oh look hi a guy with the same name as me😂

    • @GoodBoy-wn9sd
      @GoodBoy-wn9sd 6 років тому +3

      That the beauty behind all the frustration. If i were a woman, i would marry him. What he need is a chance to live better and attention. Perhaps love

    • @MrOdaddy2011
      @MrOdaddy2011 5 років тому

      @@GoodBoy-wn9sd no you wouldnt bitch

    • @mayamagar9234
      @mayamagar9234 5 років тому

      TheGodofBlack 😂😂😂😂

  • @eugeneng1768
    @eugeneng1768 6 років тому +118

    He care about personal hygiene more than my camp mates who usually sleep without showering :/ and he speaks really well too, sincerely hoping that you’ll be able to get a job soon

  • @kenhw947
    @kenhw947 6 років тому +194

    I am reading this now 2018 and I am wondering how Ben is doing? I am really impressed by his command of English and his personal hygiene. You can tell right away there is a good side of Ben somewhere inside him. We all get ourselves into troubles somehow or other in our lives and Ben's petty crimes is something we can all understand especially under such circumstances. Ben, I wish you well and hope you have a more stable live now.

  • @thecuriousbeing254
    @thecuriousbeing254 6 років тому +373

    Thanks for showing this CNA. This will provide a platform for Singaporeans to learn about people who have no place to live in or has no family.
    Applause him for his great command of English and resiliency. God is great. Keep persevering and striving Ben! Do what makes you happy, do you. Know that you are a very strong person and I applause you for your determination in saving up for and completing your Diploma.
    Everyone has their own battle, let’s be nice and minimise pre-judgement on those who had it bad than us.

  • @nikhilsukumar23
    @nikhilsukumar23 7 років тому +612

    I really can't understand this story. This person can easily become a content writer. Every office in the world needs a content writer. His English billion times better than mine. What's he doing in the streets. Maybe his past records trouble him. He must do freelance writer jobs. He can win in a years struggle. Hope you rise above. You are a hero. You didn't have anyone to help you. That's the only reason people become homeless.

    • @weiantan5098
      @weiantan5098 6 років тому +141

      Nikhil Sukumar because singapore cares more on the qualifications and any jail records on a person rather than talent.

    • @satanthesavior279
      @satanthesavior279 6 років тому +12

      Tan WeiAn freelance is not professional. People that hire you just want your english not your past

    • @duraath
      @duraath 6 років тому +25

      well Singapore doesn't work that way in most fields and companies. plus they need to compete with their fellow Singaporeans who are many like him and foreign talents, to secure themselves a job.

    • @Ustazgay
      @Ustazgay 6 років тому +5

      agreed.. he can just tell his story in a fiction novel without needing to spend much energy on plot.

    • @sopimazlan
      @sopimazlan 6 років тому +14

      Sol Usman i was thinking the same. With great life experience n so many obstacles that he ever underwent he can do something with that.. plus his english is quite good. I was so touched with his sentence “i would rather die cuz this is not living, this is existing”. 😢

  • @MrTentakul
    @MrTentakul 6 років тому +90

    He is super strong despite his condition. He fight the depression and people prejudices, and yet he still manages to has self esteem. Many people may have took their live. And what the most important is that he live his life not just to be exist, he has a plan and goal even though he know it's twice as hard to reach compared to people that has never been in his state.

  • @peckerwood9383
    @peckerwood9383 6 років тому +23

    Being destitute for a while myself, I know exactly what he is going through. Everybody has a story, take heed in your own lives that you don't end up like him!!!Thank God for your blessings.

    • @weiyawphuah8987
      @weiyawphuah8987 Рік тому

      I am also destitute since my low income never allow my to have savings just like any employed people

  • @MsRockzz
    @MsRockzz 6 років тому +25

    Thank you. Finally a good video that sheds a real light on Singapore’s social issues that isnt sugar coated

  • @EustaquioSantimano
    @EustaquioSantimano 3 роки тому +9

    Thank CNA for a well produced and directed interview. I salute Ben for his determination to up skill himself and work towards a better life. He could be the voice of the destitute.

  • @liro_mngbt
    @liro_mngbt 6 років тому +18

    This guy is amazing! Smart as heck and his will is just made of iron. Makes me ashamed of myself at times when I just give up easily. Great guy. Hope everything's working out for him now. 💪

  • @Food-is_Life
    @Food-is_Life 3 роки тому +13

    Dang, I wish you the best Ben. You sound very educated and a good person. I hope someone will see the positive in you and give you a chance at life because I believe you never really had a shot after you lost your mama. May peace and love be with you and lots of prosperity Ben. Bless your heart.

  • @Yazooz830
    @Yazooz830 6 років тому +102

    Wow, you Spoke fluently in English, do not give up Ben, try to apply for WSG for a degree program. I believe you will become a profession in one of the areas.

    • @gymnastalexliang
      @gymnastalexliang 6 років тому +5

      And how is he going to pay for that degree program when he can't even pay for a roof over his head? $$$$$

    • @reeseyme9613
      @reeseyme9613 6 років тому +2

      $500 not enough even for one semester

    • @smokegames1179
      @smokegames1179 9 місяців тому

      Or apply for. Customer service I guess I'm just a hs grad working with customer service for years now from multiple companies

  • @SparkzMxzXZ
    @SparkzMxzXZ 6 років тому +602

    Does anyone know how to contact him? It must be so incredibly hard.. in Singapore, everything is so expensive and unforgiving.
    And to answer his question-yes, he has many problems in life. But his determination and optimism and general fighting spirit are very attractive traits. Not to mention that he’s eloquent and seems like a bright person. Hoping that he is doing better now, both in his financial situation and mental state.

    • @SparkzMxzXZ
      @SparkzMxzXZ 6 років тому +88

      that's a very serious allegation and is quite uncalled for.

    • @norhaslamabdulmalik8941
      @norhaslamabdulmalik8941 6 років тому +11

      SparkzMxzXZ Ma'am.. Why not you try contacting CNA.... I think there's chance to keep in touch with the person.

    • @Joybearer
      @Joybearer 6 років тому +5

      Are you willing to date him and spend the rest of your life with him knowing that he has these issues and a criminal record to boot? I highly doubt so. He is indeed strong. I'll guess much stronger than most professionals I know who whine for the littlest of things. But the professionals are those getting the dough and are attractive to the girls.

    • @yaosqrd
      @yaosqrd 6 років тому +62

      you’re emphatetic and compassionate, something rare in people nowadays. reading comments like yours really brightens up the toxic youtube community tbh

    • @phuntsokhyolmo4886
      @phuntsokhyolmo4886 6 років тому +1

      yao facts

  • @gigirocky
    @gigirocky 5 років тому +4

    this guy is so strong. i hope things are looking up for him after he moves into the joint single rental room. stay strong bro, always have high hopes

  • @adavann7115
    @adavann7115 6 років тому +4

    This is so heartbreaking! To see someone with so much potential and articulate be in this situation. I hope he gets help soon! Whoever is filming this. Please help him.

  • @pt4822
    @pt4822 4 місяці тому +1

    I watch this every year on my brother's birthday. Ben reminds me a lot of my brother who's still missing. Hope Ben finds closure after all these years.

    • @astrot711
      @astrot711 4 місяці тому

      What happened to your brother?

  • @kngsm
    @kngsm 6 років тому +63

    Hey Ben, you have very good command in English. I am sure you can find a better job with higher salary than cleaner. All the best to you, don't give up and always think positively.

  • @MontaguStudios
    @MontaguStudios 2 роки тому +10

    For someone who's homeless, he speaks well and his vocabulary is top notch. Such a shame what happened to him

  • @lyhthegreat
    @lyhthegreat 6 років тому +191

    the thieves are human scums...i mean robbing a homeless man..just how low can you get??

    • @revelbangtanexo2642
      @revelbangtanexo2642 6 років тому +16

      Ikr !!! exactly ,, but then when you think again , probably the thieves who stole his belongings were probably homeless ppl themaeves lmao but then again it's not an excuse to steal others' stuffa

    • @ttsing
      @ttsing 6 років тому +4

      They were probably poorer and hungrier homeless people

    • @lyhthegreat
      @lyhthegreat 5 років тому +1

      @epocs that's what u said..so you're the idiot..i didn't said anything like that...in fact nobody should be robbing anyone at all..

    • @zhin13
      @zhin13 5 років тому

      Wut? This comment makes no sense. Do you know what a thief is?

    • @justagirl8757
      @justagirl8757 5 років тому

      Need makes you do a lot of things

  • @yeahzerosoul
    @yeahzerosoul 6 років тому +181

    He sounds like an intelligent person..

    • @hindugoat2302
      @hindugoat2302 6 років тому +13

      its not lack of intelligence that got him there, its mental health

    • @reeseyme9613
      @reeseyme9613 6 років тому +6

      and criminal record

    • @pakouyang8389
      @pakouyang8389 6 років тому

      More like a decent human being

    • @fierywolverine5044
      @fierywolverine5044 5 років тому

      @@surayyaibrahim180 You're braindead.

  • @sicboi
    @sicboi 6 років тому +5

    Dude is articulate and well spoken and put together with regards his self awareness and sense of the world around him and the relativity of his situation. Kudos on him for rising above and making things happen for himself with regards his improved housing situation. I have a feeling he has a sense of fear about his potential mental illness history ruining things for him, but hopefully he will come to control it and make it work for him instead as a driver to keep going and getting better. Good luck my brother, I hope you never have to sleep rough again in the future.

  • @mysoulisalwayslookingforth3948
    @mysoulisalwayslookingforth3948 5 років тому +7

    God bless him and i pray that he will protect him and give him a better future he deserve it so much 🙏🙏🙏🤲🤲🤲

  • @VasReds
    @VasReds 5 років тому +3

    Highly determined, eloquent and rational. He deserves the best in life!

  • @adl6302
    @adl6302 6 років тому +2

    Inspiration , touching! He has spirit! Living homeless 17 years, half of his life, extraordinary.

  • @asher28
    @asher28 7 років тому +41

    I seriously hope his situation gets alot better

  • @pinkpastelhearts
    @pinkpastelhearts Рік тому

    i really hope life has gotten better for him, prayers and high hopes that everything will be ok, he is truly a survivor

  • @vongsothea413
    @vongsothea413 6 років тому +3

    this is the first time I ever felt so proud like a miracle !! A homeless man who won't gave up and stand tall...what could be more supernatural power than that ? That is also a miracle !

  • @black-nv8fm
    @black-nv8fm 5 років тому +1

    You already did change this world with yr story bro. you are awesome because you alive and still can manage yr life very well even in this situation . keep doing and work whatever job ,it will gain ppl trust on you as work experiences .

  • @avocado5960
    @avocado5960 6 років тому +10

    CNA please make a go fund me for every poor people that you have interview. Don’t ever think that we Singaporean are to stingy to donate our money to them. because honestly I’ll donate some money to him . It’s part of the human charm.

  • @Noeman2009
    @Noeman2009 6 років тому +30

    He is actually a smart man, I know from the way he talked about his experince and his world view. Just a series of unfortunate events happened to him and made him slipped. Like he said, if he knew he would have lived like this for the rest of his life, he would have choosed to be dead right now. He still have hope. HOPE is the most precious thing in life. I wish someone would reach out to him and give him a chance.

  • @OrdinaryAviator
    @OrdinaryAviator 5 років тому +5

    Seems like well-educated man. Praying for a good turnaround. Hang in there man.

  • @EyzaBaby06
    @EyzaBaby06 6 років тому +51

    Poor man. Even his father doesn't help him till him went to jail. That's not a father. I think after he went to jail his life is destroyed. With no friends or family he was all alone. No one to share to talk. Hope he find a place call home and family one day.

    • @dl5066
      @dl5066 5 років тому +4

      Erh he ran from home ... not sure what you expected his father to be doing. Sure domineering parents sucks but rebellious children aren't that much better... takes 2 hands to clap...

    • @dl5066
      @dl5066 5 років тому +1

      @Randy Barat Again you're mixing up (i) parents who abandon their children intentionally; and (ii) children who run away. No one is trying to say the father is right, but that both parties involved have not done the right thing.

  • @rishacrow99
    @rishacrow99 6 років тому +31

    Be strong Ben......ur English is fantastic

  • @Beepassingby
    @Beepassingby 5 років тому +7

    He is so clean. Good thing. Goodluck Ben. I think you decent. We all make mistakes.

  • @rafiq6521
    @rafiq6521 7 років тому +510

    Cant help but wonder... places of worship are a good place for people to sleepover and seek help right

    • @thankyou8806
      @thankyou8806 6 років тому +7

      Rafiq ya exactly they can sleep at places of worships wat

    • @marcooseee4067
      @marcooseee4067 6 років тому +12

      omg yea never thought of that

    • @utubit22
      @utubit22 6 років тому +40

      like most things in life, it depends.
      in my experience, sounds nice but no. it doesn't apply to everyone.

    • @alexvith
      @alexvith 6 років тому +13

      It depends but I'm not that keen believing they'd let you sleep in a church or any other worship place in the west

    • @OkieJames
      @OkieJames 6 років тому +21

      Yes.. almost all the shelters and poor services are run by Christian groups and churches where I live.. So it depends.. I know here in America most everyone who is helping the homeless are overwelmed with people needing help.. Proverty is 15% but honestly more like 25% of Americans are on the edge of loosing everything..

  • @danielsoosay1772
    @danielsoosay1772 5 років тому

    This guy is phenomenal. He has a very good clarity and views. Hopes he reach his goals soon

  • @abdrahmanabdullah3113
    @abdrahmanabdullah3113 5 років тому +3

    Wished you have better life bro one day am pretty sure.
    Salute your courage bro.

  • @RohitSingh-yo2yl
    @RohitSingh-yo2yl 4 роки тому

    Hatts off to cna insider they never fail to amaze!! more power to people like ben!

  • @murderinkable
    @murderinkable 7 років тому +441

    With his eloquent expression in the language, he could have easily gotten at least a teaching job can't he? Dont have the qualifications? Its never too late!

    • @malaysianinukfoofoo4763
      @malaysianinukfoofoo4763 7 років тому +57

      Bolshoi I used to teach in Singapore and believe me the whole process of doing Teachers training is really really tough!!

    • @SeniSeis
      @SeniSeis 7 років тому +115

      he wouldn't be able to get a job in the gov sector due to his past.

    • @sheen9769
      @sheen9769 7 років тому

      Bolshoi 8

    • @Daud72
      @Daud72 7 років тому +58

      I don't think any schools would hire a person with criminal record

    • @henrietta9206
      @henrietta9206 7 років тому +32

      Bolshoi teaching? Cmon, discrimination is all time high on this sunny island....without Resume u can forget about even 5mins with HR.
      Its not going to change.
      Caliber is always going to be less important than CV, thats how Singapore intends to 'progress'.

  • @leeangu7059
    @leeangu7059 4 роки тому +2

    His choice of words are amazing.

  • @captaintang1
    @captaintang1 6 років тому +11

    This dude is inspiration in the purest form. Everything stacked against him and yet he can still get a diploma. Meanwhile international students at my school with nothing to worry about except studying, still fail out first year. Wtf is wrong with the world

  • @AO-up2ez
    @AO-up2ez Рік тому

    he speaks very well...
    you definitely can make a contribution to this world. please don't give up

  • @vincentivantanaya5115
    @vincentivantanaya5115 6 років тому +20

    he is fluent in english, has a diploma in tourism, positive-thinking, smart and considerate judging from how he figured his own ways to survive.
    all these traits yet he can't find any jobs, even the lightest work??
    back where I'm from he would probably be employed by a large travel company in a secure position.

    • @privateeye7559
      @privateeye7559 4 роки тому

      It is because he has record and the society we are living are unforgiving.he should go abroad instead of wasting time here

  • @ariel3112
    @ariel3112 5 років тому

    What a well spoken man... I wish him all the best in his future..!

  • @suo6581
    @suo6581 6 років тому +39

    This was uploaded almost a year ago. I wonder how he is doing now.

    • @VViv37
      @VViv37 5 років тому

      Suo Zheng Yes! Hope to get an update about him, hope all is better for him 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @nickfriend3629
      @nickfriend3629 5 років тому +1

      ...it's 2 years now, i wonder too.

  • @lovelleliam4635
    @lovelleliam4635 6 років тому

    He honestly speaks really well... I definitely hope for th best for him!

  • @sasigaranarumugum5788
    @sasigaranarumugum5788 5 років тому +16

    He's probably reading most of the time when he was alone to stay sane. This was so painful to watch. Hope he's alright :)

  • @mikesmith8278
    @mikesmith8278 6 років тому

    One swirched on guy and I relate to his issue with people and life, cheers I wish you all the best buddy

  • @pankourlaut
    @pankourlaut 7 років тому +62

    I would help him if I was in a position to do so. Reminds me of the man with the golden voice.

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 7 років тому +7

      Pankour Laut Rather watch this than stories about rich snobby people.

  • @alfianbon9885
    @alfianbon9885 Рік тому +1

    This video is 5 years ago, so "Ben" is now 40 yrs old. Hope everything is better. If you are out there, "Ben", stay strong bro

  • @nochnel
    @nochnel 6 років тому +16

    Ben, you'd make a great writer.

    • @sitoudien9816
      @sitoudien9816 6 років тому

      Cornellia Widiastuti Journalism is dead. It's all freelance. Nobody pays.

  • @aanazmi7478
    @aanazmi7478 3 роки тому

    Hope u are well sir and may u thrive in whatever u are doing right now.. god bless u

  • @choymeilye4103
    @choymeilye4103 3 роки тому +4

    I remembered many years ago a middle age man jumped to his death when he saw a MRT approaching the station. When the reporter interviewed the man' wife, she said the whole family only left with $5. The man's wife said he had to do it as it will raise the public attention and give some donation to his family. I felt so, so, so very sad and grief for his wife and 2 teenage sons. I believed his sons grown up with great pain and shame till now.

  • @divania
    @divania 6 років тому

    I watched this before and chanced upon it again. Wherever you are Ben, I hope that you have settled into your 'home' and the life is looking up these days. Hope you keep on fighting, dear unsung hero.

  • @usagimaud
    @usagimaud 6 років тому +6

    I wish him the best

  • @57Pinky_Promise65
    @57Pinky_Promise65 5 років тому

    I hope the best for Ben and he finds a home and live out his dream. I would be very proud to met him. May God watch over you Ben. 💕

  • @GierlangBhaktiPutra
    @GierlangBhaktiPutra 4 роки тому +3

    Man his choice of words are amazing. He sure knows how to get around with words.

  • @peterlhs18
    @peterlhs18 5 років тому

    Thanks for sharing your story Ben . Hope for the best for you.

  • @angelxtasy
    @angelxtasy 4 роки тому +3

    He has better hygiene then most of us with a home. I hope this guy gets help, and gets back in the right place.

  • @Jeszreel
    @Jeszreel 6 років тому

    He's very Eloquent. There's something in him that is pure yet tarnished. I pray that he make his way someday 🙏🏻

  • @notgaea5834
    @notgaea5834 6 років тому +116

    i dont understand why we need subtitles, i can understand this guy more than english movies

    • @lynnsartncrafts
      @lynnsartncrafts 6 років тому +59

      Fendi Roon For the deaf community. They can't hear at all. 😂 please be considerate

    • @doityourselfpb8614
      @doityourselfpb8614 6 років тому +4

      you're not the only viewer.lol entitled much

    • @notgaea5834
      @notgaea5834 6 років тому +2

      Then all english speaking videos need to have subtitles, for everyone, apparently not every video has eng subs or even auto subs

    • @lynnsartncrafts
      @lynnsartncrafts 6 років тому +7

      By right, every video posted on media must have subtitles to cater to the deaf community. At least according to some countries. I'm not too sure about SG yet

    • @MathadiKassim
      @MathadiKassim 6 років тому +7

      And also to foreigners who can't understand our slang. We're not the only ones living in this world and everybody around the world have access to this video. So think before you speak next time.

  • @tallmikbcroft6937
    @tallmikbcroft6937 6 років тому

    Reading the comments, I am pleased to see compassion. It gives me hope for humanity.

  • @shan1enti1
    @shan1enti1 6 років тому +50

    Hello CNA. Our company is always looking out for blue collar jobs. He seems to have potential to become a Supervisor. How do we reach him for interview? Is he still looking for a higher pay job?

    • @cassandralaw2810
      @cassandralaw2810 6 років тому +7

      It's literally my first time replying to people's comments on YT. I do see the reporter's name in the article which is linked in the description box.
      Hope you can get to him soon :)!

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 6 років тому +2

      Shannon Ong If what you are saying is true, hope you can hire him.

  • @NekoRocket
    @NekoRocket 6 років тому

    Ben sounds well spoken and educated. I have respect for you. Best of luck, Ben.

  • @winnieyeo5841
    @winnieyeo5841 6 років тому +32

    Ben should get some professional counselling and guidance for a full time job to turn his life around. He should not be treated like any other destitute.
    People like the CNA interviewers and those who help him to get a rental flat are in a good podition to do him that favour.
    Most importantly, Ben must have the confidence that nature has given him what's needed to lead a normal life. It is up to him to help himself before he ages

  • @usharanijs
    @usharanijs 3 роки тому

    He can truly be a motivational speaker...
    His sense of hygiene n well-grooming nature has not disappeared among all the challenges he faced...
    He deserves a very decent job to support himself n to establish a beautiful family, in all positive ways..
    Ben... Hats off n all the very best...

  • @umarmars47
    @umarmars47 6 років тому +40

    And they say we are lazy...

  • @kilozjin3761
    @kilozjin3761 6 років тому

    Bro take care never give up life is precious, stay strong, all the best in everything you do,god bless you

  • @nikhilpanikkar
    @nikhilpanikkar 6 років тому +4

    I will pray for you Ben. May you get out of this soon.

  • @jaydeedy9756
    @jaydeedy9756 6 років тому

    Wow!! I didn't know this thing now exists in Singapore.. God Bless you all !!

  • @malaysianinukfoofoo4763
    @malaysianinukfoofoo4763 7 років тому +157

    Can someone please tell me how to help this man?

    • @allmyfriendsareheathens5071
      @allmyfriendsareheathens5071 6 років тому +7

      Malaysian in uk foofoo Easiest way is Contact CNA insider, and through them you would be able to help him.

    • @kyupified2440
      @kyupified2440 6 років тому +5

      I cant help him but I hope that someone is helping this man right now..

    • @Joybearer
      @Joybearer 6 років тому

      It all comes down to money.

    • @ksisu1324
      @ksisu1324 5 років тому

      I would say help people like him. Donate to your local rehabs, shelters or training programs that help support homeless people.

  • @Raj0684rg
    @Raj0684rg 5 років тому +1

    I hope he is doing better and is happy.

  • @Anna_ep
    @Anna_ep 6 років тому +7

    One thing I've proven again and again and again. People don't care. Even if they knew your situation, most people will just stay away from you like a plague. They will just watch you suffer. Better yet, forget about you. People who hype that they want to help mostly just do it so that they would look good on social media. They don't know that if you give real help, the ones that suffered the most or went through the lowest and degrading experiences in life, are the ones who can really contribute a lot to society...because they know what it feels like to suffer. They have more empathy. Problem is, most die forgotten. Only a few get real help. Those who are spoilt and don't really need any help are the ones that are getting help, because of their appearances and status in life. I don't think there will be any changes. It's hard to force people to be open-minded and compassionate. It's also human nature to stay away as far as possible to anything ugly, suffering, and beneath them. Even if you have higher intellect or education. Even if you have no criminal record or a good person. Once you go down in life, rare are the ones who actually get the real help that they need. Most would just want to get you locked up in a mental institution or force you to take medicines for your "mental health"... discounting the fact that 'most' are the ones who caused your sufferings in the first place. The consequences of their actions. Such as when you get bullied all your life. Then strangers just keep on adding and adding to the suffering. It takes special kinds of people who actually help out and sometimes, these are the people who have been through so much in life too.
    I hope that you find your way. You just have to make the most of what you have. For instance, you can finally get a room. Most people in other countries will never be able to afford it. No matter how educated they are, once they fall into the life of a destitute.

  • @hariztaja7
    @hariztaja7 Рік тому

    I dropped my manly tears. Bro, I understand you so much because my mother left as well when I was 8. I want to hug you so bad. I hope you are doing better in life. I hope you will achieve your dream

  • @bbokgomu5422
    @bbokgomu5422 6 років тому +93

    You can tell he is Singaporean when he says "la" at the end

    • @MrNarak
      @MrNarak 6 років тому +2

      Sokka's Wife in hongkong too

    • @abigailtovar2278
      @abigailtovar2278 6 років тому +1

      I noticed that. what is the lah supposed to mean?

    • @tonygin5942
      @tonygin5942 6 років тому +1

      I believe Singaporean also speaks Chinese and so they got mixed between the two languages (accent)

    • @alsokooniiee4797
      @alsokooniiee4797 6 років тому

      Abigail Tovar it means nothing :/ LAH

    • @abrahamdsl
      @abrahamdsl 5 років тому

      @@abigailtovar2278 More of just an emphasis on what has been said. An extreme view would be, "You dummy".

  • @nhanhduong4641
    @nhanhduong4641 5 років тому

    I really appreciate this video.
    Thank you for sharing this

  • @jehanc
    @jehanc 6 років тому +6

    I am inspired by how this person survived. I have been in Singapore before and I know how this person would have felt. My mates that works with me jump off to the 11th floor just like that. It is so easy to commit suicide because you have no place to turn to for help because the society do not accept that social welfare system of the west. If you're so hungry and don't have any money you for sure will steal or rob. So someone post this same question to me when I at first found it distasteful for some one to accept Dole or welfare payment. I now understand that social welfare is a must to elevate social justice. There might be some who taken for granted but is necessary.

    • @fion3943
      @fion3943 6 років тому +1

      jehan c agree completely, there's hardly any welfare here in Singapore, except for subsidies and small payouts that come with lots of red tape. People have the right to live in dignity and it's the state and society that should provide for the basic needs of its people.

    • @kenbibi7631
      @kenbibi7631 6 років тому

      jehan and Fion, well said!

  • @wedotalkaboutwhatarmystand4796
    @wedotalkaboutwhatarmystand4796 6 років тому

    He is a fighter.
    And succed many "downward" that many might lost to.
    He is strong.
    I hope he can get a better life, and home.

  • @alexlun4464
    @alexlun4464 6 років тому +7

    Singapore is a very competitive place. A guy like him don't belong there. Being homeless is stressful enough, but being homeless in Singapore? that's a nightmare. Go find a place in malaysia or anywhere else, you know a diploma in Singapore won't do it...

  • @AmazingVideos-qf5ed
    @AmazingVideos-qf5ed 5 років тому

    What a resillient person you are. Never give up.

  • @notsomuchhere1387
    @notsomuchhere1387 7 років тому +134

    Ben if you're reading,go to a mosque and ask for help.
    Muslims view charity as an obligation and don't fear them trying to convert you or anything
    I really do hope your situation gets better

    • @berryquick6224
      @berryquick6224 6 років тому +1

      Thony kind u wot m8

    • @sandechoir
      @sandechoir 6 років тому +11

      thats bullshit , mostly islam country very poor you cant compare with singapore.

    • @teluromelette3151
      @teluromelette3151 6 років тому +9

      Thony kind may Allah Forgive your sins and guide you Ameen

    • @sandechoir
      @sandechoir 6 років тому +3

      and jesus bless you ameen

    • @redred2
      @redred2 6 років тому +11

      Thony kind jizyah? sure thing! in a Muslim country, Muslims men are obligated to pay zakat (charity) for a percentage of their earnings as well as fight for their country in times of war, non-muslims living in Muslim countries however are NOT obligated to pay charity and fight for the country, therefore, jizyah (which is a form of tax) is imposed on them, in return, they can live freely among the country and not obligated to fight when the country needs them! oh and I almost forgot! jizyah is a much lesser percentage than what Muslims pay for zakat! hope this helps!

  • @octopusdragon1
    @octopusdragon1 5 років тому

    Clearly a very intelligent guy. All the best! We all work hard to make a future for ourselves no matter where our starting point is.

  • @alvinterence
    @alvinterence 3 роки тому +3

    His command of language is good. He has lots of potential.

  • @doylepro
    @doylepro 2 роки тому +1

    He has good attitude & discipline despite mammoth challenges he's facing everyday. I am sure he will rebound .

  • @Fate025
    @Fate025 6 років тому +5

    I’m watching this in 2019 and have to say this is really inspiring.
    Hope Ben is living a better life now and pursues his dream of sharing his life with a wolf dog.
    If Ben, who went to jail at 18 due to hunger, came out of it homeless at 22. Recognised himself that he had mental issues.
    Slept on the streets, worked any job he could land as the whole society was prejudiced against him due to his criminal record.
    Seeked mental help and took regular medication.
    Respected himself, did not blame society or god. He never gave up and is still working to achieve his dreams......
    Why can’t we do the same?......
    If we are to compare ourselves to him, i’m sure our problems will pale in comparison.
    The next time if the idea of giving up pops up, think of Ben and I hope you will be just as inspired by him as he inspired me.

  • @MS-cg1mj
    @MS-cg1mj 5 років тому

    All the best Ben. I hope that you are living a better life now. You sound like a great guy. Someone should give you a chance to prove yourself.

  • @janetvang6898
    @janetvang6898 7 років тому +3

    Things will get better think positive.

  • @nicoles8152
    @nicoles8152 5 років тому

    Ben I wish you the best. Don’t give up. It’s never too late. “you are never giving a wish without also giving the power to make it come true, you may have to work for it, however”. Rich Bach, but it was giving to my from a very special someone when I was young. (R Meyer Jr. ).

  • @bobsee8226
    @bobsee8226 6 років тому +5

    He just needs guidance and some confidence. Be patient, be brave and be ready to climb mountains.
    Think about it. Having a place to stay, even with a roommate is better than staying in the streets. Just be patient and humble . you will get along fine with roommate.
    Still young and healthy. Intelligent and eloquent. Look around , there are a lot more unfortunate and disabled people around. Believe in yourself, love yourself and make a commitment to treat yourself better to make a better future for yourself.

  • @OreoSpears
    @OreoSpears 6 років тому +1

    God bless you sir. You seem very smart and charming, I hope you are doing good now.