I love your Faith and confidence.I wished to have that.My husband is with another woman,he left us eith our 7yrs old son and been 6months now.I fought hard but I stopped.
You are so welcome I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
For me i find the Mix the best of what you teach and what marriage Helper teaches. In the one Side its about this Spiritual Standing For your marriage and Trust in gods working and in the other Hand learn to become the best Version that you can be, learn smart contact With your spouse. For me both Sides very important🙏❤️
Thank you for this. I needed all of it as a reninder. I actually did give my husband scripture about why he was wrong....but it was in reference to him sending me an email about why I was wrong. He accused me of something that was untrue to justify his decision, so I responded to that lie. Do I regret it? No. In my email I responded in love, but gave him God's Truth. I realized in this journey of resisting the destruction of our marriage, I won't be perfect. Sometimes I wonder of Standers are looked on as to be perfectly like Christ when pain is present almost every day or there is the reminder that things aren't in order everyday you wake up and spouse is gone. We'll make mistakes, but I believe God's mercy is so great that He sees our hearts when we cry out to Him...no matter our mistakes trying to fight. It is a learning process of acquiring God's strength, but we will hurt. If our spouses are daily sowing seeds in darkness without seeking God, surely God will give us grace and mercy when we respond emotionally. He'll come for us and help guide us into His Truth.
I did this in the beginning of her affair, too. But its a push- behaviour Like all Others: Begging, wining, judging... Its a real Challenge to give your spouse the space that she want, to give all Others in gods hands and let him working IT Out. In my Case: My wife is in Limerence With this other Person and this is so a emotional Connection, that i cannot convince her with Logic. Because in Limerence so many people Change their Values and believe- system. I need to wait Till Limerence fade and IT Always ends. And than they begin to come to there senses and begin to realize what they did. So i pray that god let this Limerence Episode ends faster and lead circumstances that she will come to her senses and her true believe - System.
I deal with an issue of I know and believe God can but I struggle with will he do it for me. I struggle with knowing he can but will he. So many marriages aren’t restored and why does he restore some but not all. And what if my marriage is one that it’s not his will to restore or that he won’t deal or convict with my husband of his affair and him come back
We both have restraining orders on each other: things went way too far but I know God’s hand is on this. I can feel that I don’t want my restraining order anymore but not sure where he stands. We legally cannot communicate with each other, but I don’t feel like this is right. How do I do this!
QUESTION, I'm a pastor and my wife has left for a pagan, I know I need to pray for the Lord to soften her heart and bring conviction and chastisement to turn her back to him but I've also been praying that the Lord would destroy the adulterous relationship to get her out of this sin, what should I pray exactly?
I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
I have a question about the remarried question, what is your view on the second marriage covenant, does the first marriage supersede the second? What if the second spouse chooses to stand?
I'm sorry I missed this. I hope I can still ask a question. My husband and I went on a walk. He was asking me about how do you know if someone really loves you? or if they are just using you. He has had a hard time believing that I love him. He also said I give in to easy to his demands. We were recently intimate. He said he was having some feelings about reconsidering working on us until last night when we got intimate. The other women is still in the picture, but there is a lot of drama with her 11year old son and her ex husband. He's not sure what he wants to do. He has been praying a lot asking god to show him the right path. I just zip my lips and listen. He likes that the other women is calm and understanding when he brings up issues he might be having about her or himself. He also like that she will correct him when needed. I've been working very hard on my self for the past year, and I think he is finally noticing. I think that's why he was reconsidering us until I messed up last night. I don't want all that progress lost because of one mistake. I would love some advice.
Jennifer, I just wanted to throw my two cents in here….you didn’t mess up, so to speak. Remember, our spouses are being deceived and walking in darkness. You can’t listen to what they say right now because they’re not in their right minds. Your husband can’t see anything clearly right now, so don’t let his words discourage you. You put your trust in God, not your husband. When God moves, there is no mistake, no wrong words, no wrong actions on our part that can stop His word from coming to pass! When we over-analyze our actions or our spouses actions we are allowing the enemy to come in and whisper discouragement and doubt into our stand. DONT listen to your husband. You keep your eyes on God and let Him continue to heal and grow you. Pray for wisdom and discernment and He will guide your steps. If we make a mistake, it’s alright. God already knew where we might stumble. It doesn’t change His plans for us. Also, remember that the most important thing here is not restoration of our marriage, but for our spouses to turn their life over to God, to repent, and have Godly sorrow. If your husband is still involved with another person he has obviously not repented. So he’s walking around in darkness and rebellion, that’s why you can’t take anything he’s says to heart. Keep standing and let God work on both of your hearts!
@@Genny148 thank you so much for your reply. In my logical mind I know this, but it's really nice to have reassurance from other people. So thank you for that. At this point I know for sure my husband has one foot in with God and one foot out in the flesh. I think eventually he will have to pick which side he's going to go with unless his conscience has become seared and he truly just stays in his delusional state.
@@jenniferalshouse8254 I can totally relate. My (ex) husband swings back and forth seemingly on an hourly basis. I think he wants to do the right thing, the Godly thing, but right now the life of sin is still satisfying him. But I know God had His own ways of bringing our spouses to repentance. It may take time, and we may have to watch them learn a lot of hard lessons, but our Lord is patient. I told my husband once that if he was the one swallowed by a fish we would find him months from now having turned that whales belly into a man cave. That’s how hard headed he can be. But God won’t stop pursing him and eventually my husband will turn his life over to Christ….so will yours! Stay in faith.
@@Genny148 that sounds exactly like how my husband is right now. He says he's praying to God all the time about what is the right decision. But his sin is so deep in him unfortunately. The flesh is a very hard battle to fight against.
@@jenniferalshouse8254 mine says the same thing! He says he’s praying, reading his Bible and he does still go to church every week. That’s one thing I appreciate so much about these ministries and groups…we standers get to see that so many of us are dealing with the same issues! We know the enemy has been using the same tactics forever, and as strange as it sounds, it’s almost comforting to know that our situation isn’t unique. And what God has done for so many others, He’ll do for us! Praise God!
Watching this video two years later LOL! Well my wife was a Christian our entire marriage. But right now there’s no evidence she’s still a Christian. At least her comments plus her actions and lack of actions from 440 miles away show zero Jesus in her life.
My husband married another woman. I’m still believing God can perform a miracle🙏🏾 I’m his covenant spouse.
I wonder too
I love your Faith and confidence.I wished to have that.My husband is with another woman,he left us eith our 7yrs old son and been 6months now.I fought hard but I stopped.
You are preaching! Supernatural is rarely taught. Calling those things that are not as thought they are ... Romans 4:17
It's so good to see a man stander! Thank you. I truly loved the virus analogy and the prayer when communicating! God bless you.
You are so welcome I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
7:50 my husband close friend told him God put this other women in his life to help him through his issues. The devil will USE ANYTHING BY AND ANYONE.
For me i find the Mix the best of what you teach and what marriage Helper teaches. In the one Side its about this Spiritual Standing For your marriage and Trust in gods working and in the other Hand learn to become the best Version that you can be, learn smart contact With your spouse. For me both Sides very important🙏❤️
Thank you for this. I needed all of it as a reninder. I actually did give my husband scripture about why he was wrong....but it was in reference to him sending me an email about why I was wrong. He accused me of something that was untrue to justify his decision, so I responded to that lie. Do I regret it? No. In my email I responded in love, but gave him God's Truth. I realized in this journey of resisting the destruction of our marriage, I won't be perfect. Sometimes I wonder of Standers are looked on as to be perfectly like Christ when pain is present almost every day or there is the reminder that things aren't in order everyday you wake up and spouse is gone. We'll make mistakes, but I believe God's mercy is so great that He sees our hearts when we cry out to Him...no matter our mistakes trying to fight. It is a learning process of acquiring God's strength, but we will hurt. If our spouses are daily sowing seeds in darkness without seeking God, surely God will give us grace and mercy when we respond emotionally. He'll come for us and help guide us into His Truth.
I did this in the beginning of her affair, too. But its a push- behaviour Like all Others: Begging, wining, judging... Its a real Challenge to give your spouse the space that she want, to give all Others in gods hands and let him working IT Out. In my Case: My wife is in Limerence With this other Person and this is so a emotional Connection, that i cannot convince her with Logic. Because in Limerence so many people Change their Values and believe- system. I need to wait Till Limerence fade and IT Always ends. And than they begin to come to there senses and begin to realize what they did. So i pray that god let this Limerence Episode ends faster and lead circumstances that she will come to her senses and her true believe - System.
Thank you!!!
Questions are Very helpful! 😊
This is some good messages. Thank you!!
I deal with an issue of I know and believe God can but I struggle with will he do it for me. I struggle with knowing he can but will he. So many marriages aren’t restored and why does he restore some but not all. And what if my marriage is one that it’s not his will to restore or that he won’t deal or convict with my husband of his affair and him come back
Jason, I REALLY enjoyed this. God bless you, your family and your ministry!
Thank you, Keep Standing Supernaturally, we are right here with you!
We both have restraining orders on each other: things went way too far but I know God’s hand is on this. I can feel that I don’t want my restraining order anymore but not sure where he stands. We legally cannot communicate with each other, but I don’t feel like this is right. How do I do this!
19:59 ❤❤❤
Does your ministry apply to those who are married to unbelievers as well? 8:16
QUESTION, I'm a pastor and my wife has left for a pagan, I know I need to pray for the Lord to soften her heart and bring conviction and chastisement to turn her back to him but I've also been praying that the Lord would destroy the adulterous relationship to get her out of this sin, what should I pray exactly?
I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
I have a question about the remarried question, what is your view on the second marriage covenant, does the first marriage supersede the second? What if the second spouse chooses to stand?
In gods eyes the Second covenant is No covenant. Its adultery. So there is only the First covernant in gods eyes, Till some of them will die.
Should I go no contact with my spouse? I have people tell me it's necessary
Where can I watch this free will?
I'm sorry I missed this. I hope I can still ask a question. My husband and I went on a walk. He was asking me about how do you know if someone really loves you? or if they are just using you. He has had a hard time believing that I love him. He also said I give in to easy to his demands. We were recently intimate. He said he was having some feelings about reconsidering working on us until last night when we got intimate. The other women is still in the picture, but there is a lot of drama with her 11year old son and her ex husband. He's not sure what he wants to do. He has been praying a lot asking god to show him the right path. I just zip my lips and listen. He likes that the other women is calm and understanding when he brings up issues he might be having about her or himself. He also like that she will correct him when needed. I've been working very hard on my self for the past year, and I think he is finally noticing. I think that's why he was reconsidering us until I messed up last night. I don't want all that progress lost because of one mistake. I would love some advice.
Jennifer, I just wanted to throw my two cents in here….you didn’t mess up, so to speak. Remember, our spouses are being deceived and walking in darkness. You can’t listen to what they say right now because they’re not in their right minds. Your husband can’t see anything clearly right now, so don’t let his words discourage you. You put your trust in God, not your husband. When God moves, there is no mistake, no wrong words, no wrong actions on our part that can stop His word from coming to pass! When we over-analyze our actions or our spouses actions we are allowing the enemy to come in and whisper discouragement and doubt into our stand. DONT listen to your husband. You keep your eyes on God and let Him continue to heal and grow you. Pray for wisdom and discernment and He will guide your steps. If we make a mistake, it’s alright. God already knew where we might stumble. It doesn’t change His plans for us. Also, remember that the most important thing here is not restoration of our marriage, but for our spouses to turn their life over to God, to repent, and have Godly sorrow. If your husband is still involved with another person he has obviously not repented. So he’s walking around in darkness and rebellion, that’s why you can’t take anything he’s says to heart. Keep standing and let God work on both of your hearts!
@@Genny148 thank you so much for your reply. In my logical mind I know this, but it's really nice to have reassurance from other people. So thank you for that. At this point I know for sure my husband has one foot in with God and one foot out in the flesh. I think eventually he will have to pick which side he's going to go with unless his conscience has become seared and he truly just stays in his delusional state.
@@jenniferalshouse8254 I can totally relate. My (ex) husband swings back and forth seemingly on an hourly basis. I think he wants to do the right thing, the Godly thing, but right now the life of sin is still satisfying him. But I know God had His own ways of bringing our spouses to repentance. It may take time, and we may have to watch them learn a lot of hard lessons, but our Lord is patient. I told my husband once that if he was the one swallowed by a fish we would find him months from now having turned that whales belly into a man cave. That’s how hard headed he can be. But God won’t stop pursing him and eventually my husband will turn his life over to Christ….so will yours! Stay in faith.
@@Genny148 that sounds exactly like how my husband is right now. He says he's praying to God all the time about what is the right decision. But his sin is so deep in him unfortunately. The flesh is a very hard battle to fight against.
@@jenniferalshouse8254 mine says the same thing! He says he’s praying, reading his Bible and he does still go to church every week. That’s one thing I appreciate so much about these ministries and groups…we standers get to see that so many of us are dealing with the same issues! We know the enemy has been using the same tactics forever, and as strange as it sounds, it’s almost comforting to know that our situation isn’t unique. And what God has done for so many others, He’ll do for us! Praise God!
Watching this video two years later LOL! Well my wife was a Christian our entire marriage. But right now there’s no evidence she’s still a Christian. At least her comments plus her actions and lack of actions from 440 miles away show zero Jesus in her life.
Two more weeks my divorce will be final for a year no communication whatsoever I would say it’s dead