yep, and they commit the most mass murders and shoot up schools at way higher rate than any other group and have a propensity for murdering their entire family kids and all, not to mention all the white collar crimes, so what's the hysteria about?
@@blacklyfe6881 A slave CANNOT give consent due to the power imbalance…it’s the same rule that applies to a child. In addition, She was significantly under aged…a mere child.
Right it's TRUE the grass isn't always greener. But why is it when its blk men willing to die to be with a wyt woman and they go to her in droves and the BEEN doing it so ce forever, no one says "watch out she might be r@cist" or "shes just using you for s*x" etc
Other races of Men need to be an option to BW. It's not working just dealing with BM. Most of them are so full of self hate and colorist so the best option is for BW to go where you are celebrated embraced love instead or just tolerated and hated on by BM. BW and WM is the power couple everyone is really scared of.
Truth!! And the fear is the obvious power dynamic. The world already knows how 'ride or die' BW are, period. Now pair that with the men who are at the top of the 'food chain' in society and it's really scary for most. Not only that but what they really won't say is the passing on and down of financially gain/inheritance once it's all done. It's perfectly fine for WW to walk away with the millions BM leave them that will go to their communities...but the other way around? It makes some folk 🤬
@@wildwaning9427 I totally agree with all of this! I predicted this year's ago that the WM BW couple can be a serious force together. Yes BW deserve to have an inheritance for their children as well so with BM how often is this happening?? Not often at all. It's a shame but reality. Time for BW to explore all of their options and go for the most financially stable and wealthy men in society ie White and Asian men.
@@imo.124 Name one interracial couple that’s empowering the black community economically. And let’s not forget show me your family members still live in a black community and are struggling. There are plenty of black men with wealth guess what they don’t want you because they are with white women. You don’t understand history so let me break in down for you. We didn't come here as a people; we came here as many ethnicities, not all of which were friendly; some were from ethnicities that had captured one another's people in war and sold them. But when we found ourselves here, we became one people out of necessity and circumstance. Some of the fracture may still persist from the old ethnic divisions, and now no one alive remembers them and or the reasons -- all we remember is the fracturing. That was also due to our fa.ilies being broken up and members sold down the river. So when you take all that into consideration, especially the break-up of families and the selling of men from their wives and children, or children sold away from their parents, yes; Black women learned to hate their men. Last but not least, there was the production farms that created "free slaves" for the owners by bagging everyone's heads and forcing them to sexually engage for the sole purpose of impregnating the women. In these production farms, the burlap bags kept anyone from knowing who they were being mated with. That's how the term "mother fckr" originated. Mothers and sons; fathers and daughters; brothers and sisters.💔😔
@@JCR888 Your Comments Made Me Shake My Head In Agreement With You. How Do We Know What The Truth Is About Our Ancestry? I Will Put A Couple Of Your Statements In Quotes Because For Me They Are Thought Provoking. Quote #1 "We didn't come here as a people; we came here as many ethnicities, not all of which were friendly; some were from ethnicities that had captured one another's people in war and sold them." If Karma Truly Exists, Is This One Of The Reasons For The Male Versus Female Rift. Some Of The Slave Catchers May Have Abused The Women And Girls That They Abducted. Why Are Certain So-Called Black Men So Dismissive Of Certain So-Called Black Women? As You Stated, We Are Dealing With Different Tribal Groups Who May Have Been Adversaries. Quote #2 "But when we found ourselves here, we became one people out of necessity and circumstance." This Quote Has Me Thinking About The Comments That Lady Boule Said In Other Videos About The Distrust Between So-Called Black Men. Are We Still Fighting With Some Karmic Remnants Of Betrayal? The Comment About Necessity And Circumstance Is Interesting. For Some Folks Wealth Eliminates The Circumstantial Necessity Of Having To Live With Each Other(Black Flight). For Others When Faced With The Reality Of Living With Certain People Because Of Economic Necessity, May Cause Some Of Those People To Lash Out In Anger(Inner Cities). I Certainly Do Not Have The Answers, But Your Comments Are Something To Think About.
It’s definitely growing. I have two friends bw with wm! Very loving, the men allow their women to stay home if they want to, and very legacy minded. Remarkably different than my friends in monoracial relationships
I'm happy for your friend, I wish more BW explore their options. BM do not deserve loyalty, they belong to low tier Becks. I hope Becky continue to take them, they are made for each other.
@@markparhamI agree as they should. I do see BW opening up their options more as it regards to dating/marrying non BM. It’s not at the same rate as BM but it’s happening. I don’t see anything wrong with BM and BW who choose to do so. Love is love.
@@ichellexcel So why do BW aggressively bash, hate, criticize and are the only race of women with huge social media communities that bash their own race of men for dating out? No other race of women do this anywhere on earth! Non black women aren’t all over the media complaining about BW now taking their men at growing rates! etc 👀🔥👀
Not every black man wants a white woman. It's a mixed bag of both. We have been duped n2 believing that they are better than us and more beautiful than we are . Those people have used their media machines to help brainwash us n2 believing that. But black women are beautiful and comes in many colors and styles. Where brand X only comes in 2 colors white and extra white.. and just 1 style.
You see just as many commercials featuring BM/WW, as well as movies and real life! BM have been open and upfront with their preference of WW and other Non BW! So, the BW and non BM scenarios are light years behind!
I disagree with your comment..In the media it's almost always WM BW and I take exception to it because IRL it's much more likely for you to see BM and WW ..I think that they should also be shown in the media because they are the more common IR couples
Exactly, the BW / WM push is way behind BM / WW. They're increasing their representation of white men with black women in media, but it's still *much* more common to see white women with black men in commercials and such. I suppose it might also depend where you live? But that's what I see more of (bm/ww), both in real life and in media.
I don't believe anyone has the right to talk negative about BW/WM. They have been the only ones passing laws to make sure we are okay when BM leave. The WM already know what the BM is going to do, and that is NOT take care of his Black family. They don't have to market. BW need options.
@@akinazara That's great! But open up all options. You might meet ONE BM that MIGHT be some good. My mom told me to keep all options on the table and just listen to what ALL of them are talking about. Many BW pass up their blessings because they're only dealing with one racial group. Whereas, the BM have taught us for 70+ years now to stop doing that and keep them options and preferences a variety. I have done what I seen the BM have done and have been happier as well. One BM told back 20 years ago to open up my options more and start accepting dates outside my own race. I listened.
I'm white man who actually love black women. I have many read many books written by Angela Davis and I can not ignore the history, the white men have terrible past wen it coms to black women ore black man. Les never forget the history.
WH!+E men owes ⚫ maIes NOTHING. 👨🏿👨🏿 they SOLD ⚫ women & kids to 🙍🙍🙍. Why the hell would ANYONE with a 🧠 be loyal to a species that sell their own mothers, daughters, and sisters. The ONLY oppressor of 💁🏿♀️💁🏿♀️💁🏿♀️ are 👨🏿👨🏿👨🏿. Thats historical FACTS.
Thank you for this video, I agree with most of what was said. I used to think that BM telling BW that they don't want them was a mean thing to say, now I think it is a blessing in disguise, If anyone tells you I don't like you and I don't want you around, they have just done you a huge favor. When I understood that we as blk people are extremely different from each other and It could be that the only thing we have in common is our shared experience with racism and the history of slavery in this country. But the idea that BW are the ones in the blk community that should try to hold it together is crazy. Interracial couples are not responsible to do anything to benefit any community period and BW should go find love and peace elsewhere. When I thought about getting married and raising a family, I very quickly learned that BM would not be a good choice for me, in addition it was very easy to meet and date WM because there are more of them that are available and they want to get married and have families. In the future as BW start to realize they can date whoever they want, you will start to see more BW/WM couples.
I strongly encourage the young women in my family to date other races of men, black men have made it very clear through their actions and words that they do not want black women. I don’t think black women should be encouraged in any way to stay loyal to a group of men that are not loyal to them. It is not fair to expect black women to go unloved and unmarried waiting around for a black man Black man, most of them do not even marry their preferences and they definitely aren’t marrying blk women so it’s time for black women to wake up and move on
Seems like your ignoring all the attitude and dismissive behavior that pushed BM away that started this massive divide in the first place. Neither side seems to think their complaints are being heard and that's worsening the problem. But I get it.....Do what you gotta do.
@@calvinlandry03 Black women have every right to be dismissive and push BM away, BM are a failed group of men that aren’t even man enough to admit to your degenerate behaviors, lack of leadership, provision, resources or protection that deemed BM useless, then throw in Blk males ignorance, poverty mindset, and violent tendencies, what the hell do you expect. The days of excepting a group of males that don’t serve any purpose is over and black men bought this on themselves. BM were the first ones to take to social media to start degrading black women (Tommy Sotomayor), their hair, features, skin color, femininity, attitude, and weight, so after we got over the sting of that betrayal , we returned the favor by speaking on BM deficits, and it just happened that yours are much much bigger than ours, BM suck as men, BW were just staying quiet about it until BM decided to publicly degrade and berate BW, so deal with it🤷🏽♀️
@@hsny76h4l9 Perhaps BECAUSE she's pro black. If you're PRO something/somebody, you want what's best for them or at the least what they think is best for themselves.
I agree there's a marketing strategy going on to promote interracial relationships, i've been saying this for a long time now yet a lot of our brothers and sisters aren't seeing it that way, that's why it's effectively working today to the point where our people thinks being a passport bro and sis is the thing to be...SMH ... They fully understand that for their race to survive in the future they need to reproduce with us and that's the main reason why they've been pushing this agenda, just seeing the way some of our brothers and sisters treat and think about each other is heartbreaking..SMH ... Mom i love that you touch on this topic but you need to be completely honest about this, if you're going to wake up our people then you need to wake them both up, because it's both men and women that are on board with this not just the men, please be an elder for them both and not just one-sided...🌹💞
This divide has been manufactured to foment hatred within the black community. It has been very effectively executed and is just further manipulation of US on a grand scale. This latest tactic WILL change the face of The Black Community FOREVER.
nah.. they always gonna be one-sided.. the annunaki been took over.. we done for! the hueman race is eating itself inside out.. man becomes woman.. woman becomes man.. child becomes an abomination.. the nuclear family is now frowned upon.. pedophiles are supported by their fans because they are mostly our greatest entertainers, not even our laws are safe, our food is GMO, our water is flouridated, our schools telling lies and this is allover planet earth.. 95 percent of the planet is on board with thing, they all complain online to get veiws and attention but they really all agree with the current way the world is.. us blacks are just the scapegoat for all this and we sold eachother out long before your comment 11 months ago.. as you can see since those 11 months, life on earth for the human race and exspecially the black culture people of the human race is looking hopeless in terms of progression intellectually.. to become an advanced species is now a myth and no longer a plausable idea.. this current group of humans that exist cannot advance.. we are in the GREAT REGRESSION.. our behavior has become more primitive.. it started in 2020.. i wonder why
Exactly and it's amazing because you have these racist insecure Whites, and angry Black people complaining "THEY ALWAYS SHOW BLACK MEN/WHITE WOMEN" but you show them that BLACK WOMEN/WHITE MEN are shown way more, they somehow have their Stevie Wonder Glasses on. B.S.
It's important for American Black women to consider dating and marrying interracially to expand their options. There are many great men of all races who appreciate and value them. A Pew Research Center study showed that Black American men and White American women were the top two groups interested in interracial dating. It's time to break down these barriers and not limit oneself. If you possess qualities such as kindness, intelligence, sweetness, and fun, you will attract men of all races who are interested in you. Don't hold onto the idea of having the "perfect Black American Family" as it's not a reality for many of us. It's time to explore and embrace the possibilities.
most non white men and women prefer to date and marry non black people i'm sorry to disappoint you white men want offspring that look like them they don't value integration like we do in society
I disagree preserve the black American race, can’t mix with everyone. What you want a white washed mixed race with no more dark black American people. Get out of here with your logic. What is really your agenda 🤔.
Your data is wrong. Back in 2017, the data said that Asian women and black men were the most involved in interracial marriage. But recently, the 2020 census revealed black women date more interracially than black men. You know what the difference is? White supremacy celebrates white men black women couples because it reinforces white men as the masters and black women as allies to the master. But white supremacy hates white women black men couples because white supremacy has always demonized black men and white women sexuality. There are countless examples in history when racial riots started with black men being connected to sexuality with white women. But we have never seen a riot for the opposite. The movie that resucitated the kkk, birth of a nation, the main plot is about black men raping white women. What I find so sad is how black women are being brainwashed into thinking that white men are their allies and black men are their enemies, and how somehow they do not even realize that this is a white supremacy plot. I also really despise all these people in interracial relationships who think that promoting interracial relationships help the black community. You are all disciples of the white supremacy religion promoting racial whitening. You are super colonized.
Thank you for your video. As a BW who has been married to a WM since 1985, I'm not so sure the media has been marketing WM to BW. I think it has been an evolution of awareness that BW are 1) desirable, and 2) we are now embracing our options. In general, I encourage BW to love whoever is good, kind, supportive and loving to them regardless of race. Life is short. With regard to Thomas Jefferson one little known fact is that Sally Hemmings was the half-sister of Martha, Jefferson's late wife. The age difference aside, Jefferson's attraction to Hemmings may have been that she reminded him physically of his late wife. The full story of the relationship between Jefferson and Hemming goes back a generation to Martha's father who was the father of Sally Hemmings. Sally came to Monticello with her mother as a wedding gift from Martha's parents.
B.s.. it's Satan and Eve being marked against the Bible and BM and God and his judgement of BP. Causing WW to breed with BM since slavey. And almighty God is using WP to delete BW 4 a new AFRICAN Mother POPULATION trippleing in population by 2052. WP will be a minority in America by then and WP need to SWIRLING with BW and secretly breeing with WM since slavey 4 materialistic value and preference and wealth against GOD and his commandments BW will be deleted and replaced . Because BW is secretly brain washed by WM since slavey to be WM master SLAVE WIFE relationship since slavey and BW is stupid enough to go for it and THIS IS what WP know. To market BW to SATAN WM since slavey together to breed white baby's 4 WM value system called racism together since slavey anyway right BW.
The fact that you said maybe she loved Jefferson and he love her shows just how delusional and irrational many black women are. He loved her so much he kept her property until death. Black women provided to 12-year-old white boys to teach them sex.
I’m with a BW, and have never been happier. My experience with WW has been awful, they are entitled, controlling, and manipulative. Im an Italian American and I think maybe my Latin values and upbringing maybe responsible for that.
Black lesbians are 3% of Black America. They are not the majority. So, posting "there are a lot of black women, who are lesbians married to white women" is really a stretch. Keep reaching hater.
@@ctruth6185 I didn't say there the majority my point is even the black men who are gay and is with white men have no loyalty to the black community there gay first
@@anthonysmith4649 😆😆😆 You say anything just to be commenting, don’t you. 60% - what poll was that? And yes, it’s “POLL” not “POLE”. BTW - “alot” is not a word - it’s “a lot”. You’re welcome.
@@ladyboule We didn't come here as a people; we came here as many ethnicities, not all of which were friendly; some were from ethnicities that had captured one another's people in war and sold them. But when we found ourselves here, we became one people out of necessity and circumstance. Some of the fracture may still persist from the old ethnic divisions, and now no one alive remembers them and or the reasons -- all we remember is the fracturing. That was also due to our fa.ilies being broken up and members sold down the river. So when you take all that into consideration, especially the break-up of families and the selling of men from their wives and children, or children sold away from their parents, yes; Black women learned to hate their men. Last but not least, there was the production farms that created "free slaves" for the owners by bagging everyone's heads and forcing them to sexually engage for the sole purpose of impregnating the women. In these production farms, the burlap bags kept anyone from knowing who they were being mated with. That's how the term "mother fckr" originated. Mothers and sons; fathers and daughters; brothers and sisters.💔😔 They conditioned us to be against each other you had plenty of wealthy black men in Black Wall Street what did the white people come to burn it down. Anytime blacks have a thriving and successful wealthy community the whites came and burned it down.
@@JCR888 "Black women learned to hate their men" 🤣🤣🤣 The research statistics and the cultural proliferation of patriarchy within the Black community do NOT support your claim!
I’ve been stationed all around the world, and have been exposed to all races of women in those places. I was never attracted to non black women. I never could discard my mother and father’s influences in my life. They definitely impacted me with whom I would marry. Therefore, my only love was and is for an American Black woman. For me, it would be stressful to adjust or discard my culture or my way of life for another culture. Maybe, my mother and sister’s’ physical beauty had a lot to do with how I measured beauty in the real world of non black women. My black beautiful wife for 37 years was the best decision I made for a soulmate for life. We have been successful with our marriage and material wealth. My dad and mom were married for over 64 years. I do not curse people who find love in other races that include my three sons. I will always love my black wife until death. The sad thing, many blacks don’t know what a big decision they’re making that could affect them and their children for the rest of their life. Nothing stays the same including interracial marriages.
"Maybe, my mother and sister’s’ physical beauty had a lot to do with how I measured beauty in the real world of non black women." I highlight your statement because I too believe the most beautiful women (no need to preface black) look like my mother. I am not going to compare my favorite or preference to any other race. My question, and you don't have to answer it here...why did your son's choose non-black spouses. I would think if any black male was raised to stick to their own race, yours's would have been. Take care.
I'm sure if your wife had been acting like you see these American black women acting out these days, you would have looked the other way. I looked the other way, that's way my black wife is an educated lady from Western Africa. I couldn't find an American black female who had the same values as mine, who didn't have at least one kid.
@psychnurse964 That's not true. Why don't BW hear when BM tell you it's the guys that YOU are choosing. That seems to be your preference and you literally ignore men like this brother sharing his story. BW have a preference for Pookies and Rayrays BW seem to skate by that completely eventime it's brought up. Why is that ??? What's with that preference ???
On this one, i think people should just marry whomever they fall in love with - as long as that person is off sound mind and over 18, it's all good with me...
Let me say this. Nature takes the path of least resistance. If you have to spend BILLIONS of dollars to market something to any group of people, the question that needs to be asked is *why.* I'm not against any union as long as it's beneficial for both but WHY is it being marketed? After all that we've been through, after all the disrespect and social conditioning, why now? I already know the answer but will not say it on the internet. This is for the rest of us to ponder. Excellent content, by the way.
"If you have to spend BILLIONS of dollars to market something to any group of people" No one has to. There was already a lot of BW who expressed attraction to WM and liked to see WM/BW couples on TV and in movies in the 1990s, and so people in the entertainment industry took advantage of that.
@@siriusjones956 The IR unions increased after the marketing in my opinion. I think it is a survival of the fittest thing--where after so many years of research on Black people, the whites realized they need us to live. I say that because they are dying off in droves in white on white countries. The best way to thwart your recessive traits is to get with a Black person of the opposite sex. Some IR relationships are not about love but about survival. You just never really KNOW for sure WHY a white man (or woman) wants to get involved with you. which 4-letter word is it? Is it LOVE or NEED?
This is my first time watching this episode. Thank you Lady Boule, it was very informative. African American women are very sought after by Caucasian men. I can attest to that fact. I am approached more by them than any other men. I think they have become more relaxed and less intimidated by black men. I've subscribed and look forward to all that you bring to the table. Peace.
African American women are sought after by white men? Not according to statistics. White men only marry BW at a rate of 3%. White men mainly marry their own women, and when they do marry interracially, they marry Asian or Hispanic women, not BW. White men will occasionally marry BW, but it is not the norm. You also stated that WM did not approach BW because they were "intimidated" by BM, You make sound as if BM are an obstacle standing between BW and WM. BM have never tried to stop BW and WM from getting together. White men will NEVER marry BW en masse or abandon their own women for BW.
Like I said before Lady Boule I can't agree with you on the interracial stuff. You black women see these wm, bw movies as sweet and loving protectors of bw. So that's all the wm has to do to get you BW to accept him for relationships. Then when it doesn't work out, what are we suppose to be waiting for our turn. What if you get pregnant? You want us to mine a white man's baby. How would you feel about a black man with no pride.
@@ladyboule if you're going stand up for the black family you can't be putting it out there that you support these interracial advertisements targeting black women. Do you black women realize what you sound like saying, at least he was kind showed love, and protected black women in their movies. I realize that black men, and women will never see eye to eye on interracial relationship. I guess because we only see how it affects us as black men, and women, but there is no way you are going to convince me that black men are the bigger problem. The real numbers will shock you if you want to be real about it.
White men has had sexual access to black women for over 400years and white men choose black women the least A black woman in Virginia sued to marry a white man Loving vs Virginia don't forget to mention all the white men in America who kill black women they are in a relationship with I no black women will defend white zaddy at all cost
In Something New she wasn't simply picky (imo), she actually had standards. Also, interestingly Shonda Rhymes said she would deal head on with the subject of Sally and Thomas Jefferson...it was one of the best scenes written and acted to perfection by Kerry and Tony.
I agree it is marketed everywhere. Even the stock photographs that come with picture frames are of IR couples. I wouldn't do it but I am older and not in the market. I think it is an easier move for young women to make because they are divorced from our history, don't have living relatives who were adults pre-1965 and many young men have already jumped the fence like Le Bron's son for example . I think I am the only person who has not watched Scandal. It just didn't appeal to me.
Amazing how open minded and polyanish black women can be when it comes to dating a white man. When a black man does this,his black card is pulled. BTW, my wife is black (42yrs).
Well get ready to start seeing Brad coming to your door for your daughter s.. It's happening at my young kids high school.. Young white boys asking young black girls to go to Prom and dances etc. It's a shift taking place with the younger generation who have been raised with diversity..My young daughter is dating a white boy now and I have supported it because he happens to be a nice young man who is treating her properly..
One fact people don’t know is Sally would not move back to the US unless Jefferson promised their children would not be slaves, he agreed. Weather you don’t like the relationship or not, he did love her. She is the is the Queen of hegemony.
I love this topic. My opinion is that yes black women should date white men just as well as black men should date white women because at thee end of the day it is no ones business who is in your bedroom. I mean this topic has been going on in the black community for years and we act like we so pro black but date out. Wm and bw have been dating since slavery as well as bm and ww. There is nothin new bp are every where all over the continent and have survived through the worse. This interracial push for wp and bp is just a cover up for the hatred they have for us and the white man is no savior he literally buried a bw image to the world as below all women groups. All in all the history still stands till this day no matter how they try to glamourize it wt interracial love like Netflix Bridgerton or Queen Charlotte or even How to get away wt murder ect. Interracial relationships are everywhere its no secret its in the media as well in the commercials and you would think that america has ended racism and put up laws to protect bp. But divesting is a big issue in the black community cause we were never invited to the white table where every other minority was able to benefit from it and on top of that u have white washing of america where certain stereotypes are being pushed about black Americans. I can go on and on about the history of bp and wp but long story short date who or whom makes u feel comfortable but please dont despairingly bring the black community down cause u feel as though its better on the otherside because iam going to tell as a black person that your still a slave and interracial marriages and children do not change laws or end racism. You can never escape who u are and the world we live in is gonna remind u of that till the day u die. But that's to show u we as black people got alot of work to do.👀☕☕☕
Scandal was the second t time i liked that male character. I first saw him in the movie with Whoopi Goldberg ... GHOST. IN THAT MOVIE he was the villain. In Scandal, he was the lover. Lol
There aren’t enough WM to go around to fully support this strategy though. Generally speaking, BW who are pleasant, physical fit and feminine don’t have problems finding a good man of any color.
This is not true. The higher the education a black man has the more likely he is to have a ww. Having a ww is success symbol for alot of black men. Just look at the NBA and the NFL. You telling me none of those men could find a good bw?
@@ladyboule Good luck with that…. All I’ve seen is BW chasing WM that clearly don’t want them for marriage, e.g., EKW, Rachel Lindsey, Kayla Nicole , etc.
@@ladyboule Good luck with that. Ask EKW, Lindsey Rachel, Kayla Nichole, Lupita N, etc. They were all dropped by WM who really didn’t want to be married to a BW. I don’t know what happened to the days when BW were natural, fit and friendly and were content with a good BM. An eligible WM has his pick of the litter of women of all races, he’s just not going to realistically stand in line for a BW as he has way too many options. That’s just reality. Things really have not changed over the years just because IR marriages are less taboo. Appreciate it if you wouldn’t delete my comment as it’s important for realistic reasoning prevail on this topic.
The thing I note off the cuff about women in mind is Romantic Love. Without resources to protect, I believe, as a black man, I cannot marry whom I like, especially since I'm the provider and the protector. It's best to focus on the practical. People can adjust to one another over time should they make the effort. I don't believe much in Romantic Love because it's driven by expectations that may or may not be met. As for marrying white people, I believe that the population of whites as a whole is against it. And since we live in a society wherein the children are vulnerable, we must consider whom we marry. The world does not belong to us. Our choices, for the most part, because economics are limited. The older I get, the more I am convinced that Romantic Love may not be the way to go for men. Above all, I consider relationships and finances as practical matters overall. On the chart of love, Romantic Love is not at the top of the list for me. In the past, thinking this way worked (or didn't, according to your politics), but nowadays, Romantic Love is a fantasy.
You forgot the movie A Bronx Tale. Here is the thing that is just my opinion. Statistics show WM/BF marriages are the most successful. My opinion is that while it is much more acceptable today, there is still some taboos. If a couple can fall in love and overcome those together, they become a stronger couple. As for the marketing? I think it’s not being marketed to destroy the black family, I think it’s more about the fact that since the Gen x generation, interracial marriages have become more acceptable and they are trying to them. My theory is within 100 years, Both the US and Canada will see so many interracial marriages that they will become a new racial group that will become the majority.
What people forget is that big business is always looking for new markets..So that's why you will see gay or trans or Interracial couples in advertising because they are always trying to expand the market but ignorant people lash out and claim it's a conspiracy or a plot of some kind..No they just are always looking to expand the market and make more money
Well Now, You did a fantastic job summarizing something I've noticed over the years, My sister (Black) has been married to a white man for 44 years, I a black woman married a white man who passed away, then married my first love also white from 34 years ago, His white parents encouraged the break up I wasn't white enough to be married to him apparently. However we've been married for 2 very happy years going on forever. Thank you for your point of view.
I also have a family which has women who have dated white men.. First my mother always dated both Black and White men and was engaged to marry a white man but they broke up and she eventually married my father who is was black.. Currently I have 3 relatives in my family who are married to white men...
Interesting perspective. I’m sure how the media markets WM to BW plays a large role in perception no doubt but the reason there’s so few WM w/BW is because BW are the least marketable women and WM are the most marketable men. This isn’t gatekeeping by BW doing this, it’s on WM to open their hearts more.
Well, that's only part of the story. Black women were taught against any kind of romance with WM for hundreds of years. So, BW in the past haven't been interested in WM and still wouldn't be if BM were higher achievers. WM are not and have never been BW first choice for a mate for a number of reasons. I stand by what I said.
@@ladybouleHaha history proves otherwise. Most bw live white master to say otherwise is not true. Bw have never belonged to us blk men. Never! Stop telling lies. Bw are the fist to jump ship for white man. Your show has fully documented that
@@joepatrick3092 What's really telling it BW are not BM first choice so I say BW should make themselves available to the man who will put her first it's not about the race
@@richardbyfield1918you Sound Delusional...You are talking about the Lovings and they created all kinds of Hell when they married..Lmao..You sound Crazy...
Omgoodness. Not sure if like your new music. As for mixing for BW and WM can't get away from it especially BmWw have no issues for themselves. BW grab your Own happiness because most BM don't want us. Put you 1st.❤🎉
I don’t think most black women can keep up with growing old with any partner different than black. This is apart from theories of black men cheating as it would be in some of their systems due to slavery. The older a couple get, the more confronting the differences might get. Thats what I noticed observing
Wow from reading these comments, I gather WM are the perfect partner and the the holy grail of dating. Hopefully BW can find one being they are in such high demand
@@Heyu7her3 Yep, some people will never get it. The racists always try to come across as superior and hate black people but want to sleep with their women for more feelings of power and superiority and fetishizing the BW vagina and b@*%y. Yet some BW fall for it, most are just a fetish and sex object. Some are used to make the WM or family mad because of some issue within the family or to try to prove a point that they will go out with a BW. It's all insane, the implications from slavery have not been healed and so most of these relationships are a continuation of the brutality of slavery. So of course they have to market WM to BM, they have an image problem that they created by their racist ways, and they don't really want to be equals with BM, so again, they use the BW as a get at, or a get back at BM. Luckily most BW do not fall into the trap of being used, racism is in everything, including sex and relationships.
Haha, I never can get enough of bw and am looking stupid. Ww couldn't vote and were held in abusive relationship while am fucked bw. Bw to this day romanticise this as if they had a choice. Hajahahaha. You where a hole for slave ownership
@2:18 if bm would be fully transparent they would also tell you that there were Bm in america as sl@ve owners.. and they were very successful at it. Like William Ellison of SC. So based on their reasoning we shouldn't be with them either based off what they did to our grandmmama
Good Afternoon. I hope that you are not serious about what you have stated. When women get pregnant, they have NO control of the sex of the child, or children.
I know yyou can find a lot of videos on. Line of wyt cops and wyt men beating the hell out of black women with their fist. I think they still see them as part animal.
Sistah!!! You lost me when you said, “…because black men are already on board (with that.)” With that meaning destroying the black family agenda? Sistah, tell me I heard you wrong! If not, then what black man hurt you like this?! Where are these black men at?! Cause I’m surrounded by plentiful, bountiful black men that value and cherish our black women, kids and families! WE ARE HERE!!! Don’t be fooled!
I don't necessarily agree with you about the White man being seen as the great protector of Black women, My Dad a Black American worked two jobs so Mom didn't have to work so she'd be there at home when we came home after school. I know a lot of Black women who married a White man for love and nothing else, some exclusively after being messed over by Black men. As a retired senior military officer I've seen a lot of military couples in mixed marriages Black women with White men and beautiful children. A minister friend of mine was a dark skinned Black man married to a White woman because the young Black women of his day said he was too dark for them. Well he met a beautiful White woman who could've had any White man but she loved him and they celebrated 55 years of marriage until his death leaving behind a widow and four beautiful middle age adult children and 13 grandchildren.
Life is nuanced, even the life of a slave, it’s entirely possible that she loved Jefferson, it’s entirely possible that he loved her and they are the only ones who truly knew the dynamics of their relationship…love has a funny way of breaking social norms and tradition. The problem with relationships for all people is the fact that most have forgotten what real love is and they give too much thought to the “options” they have rather than focusing on keeping what they’ve already got.
@@mtf62 so my grandmother, who married my grandfather at the age of 14, is somehow a victim and my grandfather is now what? A criminal? A predator? A pedofile? What was considered acceptable even 100 years ago is vastly different and will be different 100 years from now. We wouldn’t want to be demonized and vilified for how we conduct ourselves considering we’re following the current social guidelines for behavior. When life expectancy is 35-40 years old, one can be forgiven for starting adulthood earlier than we do today. Living past 80 wasn’t a normal occurrence in the 1700’s and Jefferson had a much better quality of life than 95-99% of the rest of America. It would have no doubt been a favorable experience/arrangement for most teenage girls at the time. They didn’t enjoy the benefits and luxuries we take for granted today. Which brings me back to my point: we don’t and can not know the hearts of people who lived 200+ years ago, nor can we hold them to the standards we set for ourselves today. I highly doubt anyone would want themselves to be judged many years after their death with no possibility to explain, provide context, or even accept responsibility and accountability for their actions.
If I see one more BW WM coupling in a commercial...I'm going to try and get audio versions of movies. Thanks for the confirmation. I knew I wasn't going crazy. Kevin Costner...handsome? I gotta check my eyeglass medication.
I Really Enjoyed This Video And Want To See More. I Believe That Life Would Be Better If We As People That Love God Would Stop Holding On To What Happened In Slavery Years, Yes It Did Happened And It Was Not Right. But Go On With Your Life Learn How To Love People As God Want Everyone To Do. I Refuse To Live Back Years Ago And Miss My Every Day Blessings. Please Let Hate, Racist, Prejudiced, Slavery. Go And Put Love In Your Heart. My Prayer To God That Black Men's Married A White Woman And White Men's Married A Black Woman This World Would Be Better. Love Will Change People Life. Yes I Love People That I Have Never Met Before Because Of The Word Of God. And If God Bless Me With A White Man I Will Be Greatiful. A Heart Of Love Means So Much. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Though black men marry out more than women, black women do date outside of their ethnicity or lineage. There are endless examples, into the millions, where black women are having babies for Caribbean and African men. Many of these arrangements are far more destructive to FBA lineage.
Good observations. Still, you seem bitter toward black men. We do not necessarily get “on board“ with the interracial dating phenomenon. Often, it is because we have to contend with bad attitudes encouraged by the flattery you receive from white supremacy. I’m not saying it is always justified, but we have to reckon with all of the facts. All of them. we must consider the survival of our family units. That is survival in itself. Gender sniping is childish.
Ok so here is my take. I think beautiful black women should be loved and happy. But the answer is not always in a white man. I myself have been charmed by the gentleman persona of a white man. Its so nice to be treated with gentleness and nice to have someone to share interests that some black folks make fun of. But just because a white guy is quiet you dont know whats trulynin his heart look at Lacey peterson. Pray to God for the right spouse. And then to what about mating with the descendants of slave owners do u really want your children cursed? They got to pay for that evil per GOD
But what both relationships have whether it's a black man with a white woman or vice versa it's a slave master relationship the black man messes up once with that white women while you see what happened in the media with that Marvel Comics Superstar the court is against you
Jefferson and Hemmings didn't become "involved".
He R-A-P-E-D her.
Exactly.
Thank you
📌
I wish the world see that a white man is just a man stop. Making him as this special man this society has done
yep, and they commit the most mass murders and shoot up schools at way higher rate than any other group and have a propensity for murdering their entire family kids and all, not to mention all the white collar crimes, so what's the hysteria about?
@@alntr2872 Who birth them in the world? Seems like nobody wants to get to the root of the problem.
@@bobbyjefferson1973,
Brothas don't pay attention to that. They stayed chasing Becky
White men are special.......They are Evil.....it's Documented through OUR history and interaction with them.
That’s the brain washing you can do when you colonize the world for centuries
Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemings were not a couple. He was a slave owner and she was his slave.
No you bastard he is a pedophile get it right
@@Stillunbothered37no he
Wasn't fool!
@@blacklyfe6881 yes he was idiot
@@blacklyfe6881 A slave CANNOT give consent due to the power imbalance…it’s the same rule that applies to a child. In addition, She was significantly under aged…a mere child.
@sherwoodla6535 but a child isn't a slave it's a human being
The grass is not always greener and people really need to be careful.
Exacly, I can't be more agree with you. Many black men are many times great guys.
All men is dangerous , better for women not deal with men and create daughters.
@@magnusmatthiasson7409thanks dude same too you
No one ever says this to the men who date out 3 times as much as we do
Right it's TRUE the grass isn't always greener. But why is it when its blk men willing to die to be with a wyt woman and they go to her in droves and the BEEN doing it so ce forever, no one says "watch out she might be r@cist" or "shes just using you for s*x" etc
Other races of Men need to be an option to BW. It's not working just dealing with BM. Most of them are so full of self hate and colorist so the best option is for BW to go where you are celebrated embraced love instead or just tolerated and hated on by BM. BW and WM is the power couple everyone is really scared of.
Truth!! And the fear is the obvious power dynamic. The world already knows how 'ride or die' BW are, period. Now pair that with the men who are at the top of the 'food chain' in society and it's really scary for most. Not only that but what they really won't say is the passing on and down of financially gain/inheritance once it's all done. It's perfectly fine for WW to walk away with the millions BM leave them that will go to their communities...but the other way around? It makes some folk 🤬
@@wildwaning9427 I totally agree with all of this! I predicted this year's ago that the WM BW couple can be a serious force together. Yes BW deserve to have an inheritance for their children as well so with BM how often is this happening?? Not often at all. It's a shame but reality. Time for BW to explore all of their options and go for the most financially stable and wealthy men in society ie White and Asian men.
@@imo.124 Name one interracial couple that’s empowering the black community economically. And let’s not forget show me your family members still live in a black community and are struggling. There are plenty of black men with wealth guess what they don’t want you because they are with white women. You don’t understand history so let me break in down for you.
We didn't come here as a people; we came here as many ethnicities, not all of which were friendly; some were from ethnicities that had captured one another's people in war and sold them.
But when we found ourselves here, we became one people out of necessity and circumstance.
Some of the fracture may still persist from the old ethnic divisions, and now no one alive remembers them and or the reasons -- all we remember is the fracturing. That was also due to our fa.ilies being broken up and members sold down the river.
So when you take all that into consideration, especially the break-up of families and the selling of men from their wives and children, or children sold away from their parents, yes; Black women learned to hate their men.
Last but not least, there was the production farms that created "free slaves" for the owners by bagging everyone's heads and forcing them to sexually engage for the sole purpose of impregnating the women.
In these production farms, the burlap bags kept anyone from knowing who they were being mated with. That's how the term "mother fckr" originated.
Mothers and sons; fathers and daughters; brothers and sisters.💔😔
@@JCR888 Your Comments Made Me Shake My Head In Agreement With You. How Do We Know What The Truth Is About Our Ancestry? I Will Put A Couple Of Your Statements In Quotes Because For Me They Are Thought Provoking. Quote #1 "We didn't come here as a people; we came here as many ethnicities, not all of which were friendly; some were from ethnicities that had captured one another's people in war and sold them." If Karma Truly Exists, Is This One Of The Reasons For The Male Versus Female Rift. Some Of The Slave Catchers May Have Abused The Women And Girls That They Abducted. Why Are Certain So-Called Black Men So Dismissive Of Certain So-Called Black Women? As You Stated, We Are Dealing With Different Tribal Groups Who May Have Been Adversaries. Quote #2 "But when we found ourselves here, we became one people out of necessity and circumstance." This Quote Has Me Thinking About The Comments That Lady Boule Said In Other Videos About The Distrust Between So-Called Black Men. Are We Still Fighting With Some Karmic Remnants Of Betrayal? The Comment About Necessity And Circumstance Is Interesting. For Some Folks Wealth Eliminates The Circumstantial Necessity Of Having To Live With Each Other(Black Flight). For Others When Faced With The Reality Of Living With Certain People Because Of Economic Necessity, May Cause Some Of Those People To Lash Out In Anger(Inner Cities). I Certainly Do Not Have The Answers, But Your Comments Are Something To Think About.
You'll never hear how white men speak on y'all dumbasses 😂😂😂😂
From the looks of the comments, anti-blackness and the lure of white supremacy are the driving force between these relationships.
THANK YOU
I DATABASE THESE PPL!
PLZ LOOK UP THE UNITED NATIONS INTERNATIONAL GENOCIDE LAWS
Exactly ❤ these black people like hispanics and asians think proximity to whiteness makes them special!
It’s definitely growing. I have two friends bw with wm! Very loving, the men allow their women to stay home if they want to, and very legacy minded. Remarkably different than my friends in monoracial relationships
most non black people are married to and date non black people the white community still values their whiteness at the end of the day
I'm happy for your friend, I wish more BW explore their options. BM do not deserve loyalty, they belong to low tier Becks. I hope Becky continue to take them, they are made for each other.
@@markparhamI agree as they should. I do see BW opening up their options more as it regards to dating/marrying non BM. It’s not at the same rate as BM but it’s happening. I don’t see anything wrong with BM and BW who choose to do so. Love is love.
@@ichellexcel
So why do BW aggressively bash, hate, criticize and are the only race of women with huge social media communities that bash their own race of men for dating out?
No other race of women do this anywhere on earth!
Non black women aren’t all over the media complaining about BW now taking their men at growing rates! etc 👀🔥👀
@@ichellexcel So how is BW producing more babies than black men and every other group of ppl ??
Not every black man wants a white woman. It's a mixed bag of both.
We have been duped n2 believing that they are better than us and more beautiful than we are .
Those people have used their media machines to help brainwash us n2 believing that. But black women are beautiful and comes in many colors and styles. Where brand X only comes in 2 colors white and extra white.. and just 1 style.
I know that I've all about black women and have been married to one for 23 years.
"Extra white" 🤣
yeah. but bw looks aren't the problem
*_That part_* 🤣@@mtf62
Lol
You see just as many commercials featuring BM/WW, as well as movies and real life! BM have been open and upfront with their preference of WW and other Non BW! So, the BW and non BM scenarios are light years behind!
No I'm seeing white men black women
I disagree with your comment..In the media it's almost always WM BW and I take exception to it because IRL it's much more likely for you to see BM and WW ..I think that they should also be shown in the media because they are the more common IR couples
Exactly, the BW / WM push is way behind BM / WW. They're increasing their representation of white men with black women in media, but it's still *much* more common to see white women with black men in commercials and such. I suppose it might also depend where you live? But that's what I see more of (bm/ww), both in real life and in media.
I don't believe anyone has the right to talk negative about BW/WM. They have been the only ones passing laws to make sure we are okay when BM leave. The WM already know what the BM is going to do, and that is NOT take care of his Black family. They don't have to market. BW need options.
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U know all bm u piece of 💩💩💩💩 🤣😂💯 most bw choose the worst bm to procreate with then you blame all bm gtfoh u piece of 💩💩💩
Ain't no rich white man marrying bw in mass 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 most Bw get the trailer 🗑️🗑️🗑️
@@akinazara That's great! But open up all options. You might meet ONE BM that MIGHT be some good. My mom told me to keep all options on the table and just listen to what ALL of them are talking about.
Many BW pass up their blessings because they're only dealing with one racial group. Whereas, the BM have taught us for 70+ years now to stop doing that and keep them options and preferences a variety. I have done what I seen the BM have done and have been happier as well. One BM told back 20 years ago to open up my options more and start accepting dates outside my own race. I listened.
I'm white man who actually love black women. I have many read many books written by Angela Davis and I can not ignore the history, the white men have terrible past wen it coms to black women ore black man. Les never forget the history.
O where we go white master has a story to tell.
Your u9ly self should stay tf away from bw. Go be with own women
@@Rubrick23.The FACT that you said "master" shows how CONQUERED & USELESS ⚫ MEN are.
👨🏿👨🏿👨🏿 afraid of competition because they know their are L0$ers.
WH!+E men owes ⚫ maIes NOTHING. 👨🏿👨🏿 they SOLD ⚫ women & kids to 🙍🙍🙍. Why the hell would ANYONE with a 🧠 be loyal to a species that sell their own mothers, daughters, and sisters.
The ONLY oppressor of 💁🏿♀️💁🏿♀️💁🏿♀️ are 👨🏿👨🏿👨🏿. Thats historical FACTS.
That's amazing
Thank you for this video, I agree with most of what was said. I used to think that BM telling BW that they don't want them was a mean thing to say, now I think it is a blessing in disguise, If anyone tells you I don't like you and I don't want you around, they have just done you a huge favor. When I understood that we as blk people are extremely different from each other and It could be that the only thing we have in common is our shared experience with racism and the history of slavery in this country. But the idea that BW are the ones in the blk community that should try to hold it together is crazy. Interracial couples are not responsible to do anything to benefit any community period and BW should go find love and peace elsewhere. When I thought about getting married and raising a family, I very quickly learned that BM would not be a good choice for me, in addition it was very easy to meet and date WM because there are more of them that are available and they want to get married and have families. In the future as BW start to realize they can date whoever they want, you will start to see more BW/WM couples.
It's both ways, both men and women are pushing each other away and to sit here and act like it's only the brothers fault is what's crazy...SMH
Well said!
I strongly encourage the young women in my family to date other races of men, black men have made it very clear through their actions and words that they do not want black women. I don’t think black women should be encouraged in any way to stay loyal to a group of men that are not loyal to them. It is not fair to expect black women to go unloved and unmarried waiting around for a black man Black man, most of them do not even marry their preferences and they definitely aren’t marrying blk women so it’s time for black women to wake up and move on
Seems like your ignoring all the attitude and dismissive behavior that pushed BM away that started this massive divide in the first place.
Neither side seems to think their complaints are being heard and that's worsening the problem.
But I get it.....Do what you gotta do.
@@calvinlandry03 Black women have every right to be dismissive and push BM away, BM are a failed group of men that aren’t even man enough to admit to your degenerate behaviors, lack of leadership, provision, resources or protection that deemed BM useless, then throw in Blk males ignorance, poverty mindset, and violent tendencies, what the hell do you expect. The days of excepting a group of males that don’t serve any purpose is over and black men bought this on themselves. BM were the first ones to take to social media to start degrading black women (Tommy Sotomayor), their hair, features, skin color, femininity, attitude, and weight, so after we got over the sting of that betrayal , we returned the favor by speaking on BM deficits, and it just happened that yours are much much bigger than ours, BM suck as men, BW were just staying quiet about it until BM decided to publicly degrade and berate BW, so deal with it🤷🏽♀️
Date whomever you want to date or marry as long as they meet your standards in life. Have a wonderful,blessed day!🤗
Love that!
@@ladyboule lady boule u seem to be pro black ,so why are u backing this up?
@@hsny76h4l9 Perhaps BECAUSE she's pro black. If you're PRO something/somebody, you want what's best for them or at the least what they think is best for themselves.
@@scottmitchell1974 perfectly said, i love that.
Look up blanquemento
I agree there's a marketing strategy going on to promote interracial relationships, i've been saying this for a long time now yet a lot of our brothers and sisters aren't seeing it that way, that's why it's effectively working today to the point where our people thinks being a passport bro and sis is the thing to be...SMH ... They fully understand that for their race to survive in the future they need to reproduce with us and that's the main reason why they've been pushing this agenda, just seeing the way some of our brothers and sisters treat and think about each other is heartbreaking..SMH ... Mom i love that you touch on this topic but you need to be completely honest about this, if you're going to wake up our people then you need to wake them both up, because it's both men and women that are on board with this not just the men, please be an elder for them both and not just one-sided...🌹💞
This divide has been manufactured to foment hatred within the black community. It has been very effectively executed and is just further manipulation of US on a grand scale.
This latest tactic WILL change the face of The Black Community FOREVER.
nah.. they always gonna be one-sided.. the annunaki been took over.. we done for! the hueman race is eating itself inside out.. man becomes woman.. woman becomes man.. child becomes an abomination.. the nuclear family is now frowned upon.. pedophiles are supported by their fans because they are mostly our greatest entertainers, not even our laws are safe, our food is GMO, our water is flouridated, our schools telling lies and this is allover planet earth.. 95 percent of the planet is on board with thing, they all complain online to get veiws and attention but they really all agree with the current way the world is.. us blacks are just the scapegoat for all this and we sold eachother out long before your comment 11 months ago.. as you can see since those 11 months, life on earth for the human race and exspecially the black culture people of the human race is looking hopeless in terms of progression intellectually.. to become an advanced species is now a myth and no longer a plausable idea.. this current group of humans that exist cannot advance.. we are in the GREAT REGRESSION.. our behavior has become more primitive.. it started in 2020.. i wonder why
It is mostly black men on board on the interracial train though, and for a lot longer, too.
If you worship your enemy, you are defeated, if you adopt your enemies religion, you are enslaved, if you breed with your enemy, You Are Destroyed.
I agree.
You are right about it..
White people aren’t your enemy.
@@ladyboule Are you sure you agree because you seem to agree with this delusional Kink in Curls. 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
@@akinazara hopefully you find a Chad wheeler 😂😂
Yes, they do, most advertisements are white male, black female.
Everywhere!!!!
Exactly and it's amazing because you have these racist insecure Whites, and angry Black people complaining "THEY ALWAYS SHOW BLACK MEN/WHITE WOMEN" but you show them that BLACK WOMEN/WHITE MEN are shown way more, they somehow have their Stevie Wonder Glasses on. B.S.
It's important for American Black women to consider dating and marrying interracially to expand their options. There are many great men of all races who appreciate and value them. A Pew Research Center study showed that Black American men and White American women were the top two groups interested in interracial dating. It's time to break down these barriers and not limit oneself. If you possess qualities such as kindness, intelligence, sweetness, and fun, you will attract men of all races who are interested in you. Don't hold onto the idea of having the "perfect Black American Family" as it's not a reality for many of us. It's time to explore and embrace the possibilities.
most non white men and women prefer to date and marry non black people i'm sorry to disappoint you white men want offspring that look like them they don't value integration like we do in society
I disagree preserve the black American race, can’t mix with everyone. What you want a white washed mixed race with no more dark black American people. Get out of here with your logic. What is really your agenda 🤔.
Your data is wrong. Back in 2017, the data said that Asian women and black men were the most involved in interracial marriage. But recently, the 2020 census revealed black women date more interracially than black men. You know what the difference is? White supremacy celebrates white men black women couples because it reinforces white men as the masters and black women as allies to the master. But white supremacy hates white women black men couples because white supremacy has always demonized black men and white women sexuality. There are countless examples in history when racial riots started with black men being connected to sexuality with white women. But we have never seen a riot for the opposite. The movie that resucitated the kkk, birth of a nation, the main plot is about black men raping white women. What I find so sad is how black women are being brainwashed into thinking that white men are their allies and black men are their enemies, and how somehow they do not even realize that this is a white supremacy plot. I also really despise all these people in interracial relationships who think that promoting interracial relationships help the black community. You are all disciples of the white supremacy religion promoting racial whitening. You are super colonized.
yet black ppl make up 44 million of the US population and 19.1 million black men are married to black women. Somebody lying!
I've noticed this agenda as well, in commercial, movies and reality shows etc.
B1
its not working because most white people value whiteness at the end of the day
I don't think it's an agenda. I think media is reflecting the times we are in. More BW are open to IR dating and media is reflecting that.
Thank you for your video. As a BW who has been married to a WM since 1985, I'm not so sure the media has been marketing WM to BW. I think it has been an evolution of awareness that BW are 1) desirable, and 2) we are now embracing our options. In general, I encourage BW to love whoever is good, kind, supportive and loving to them regardless of race. Life is short.
With regard to Thomas Jefferson one little known fact is that Sally Hemmings was the half-sister of Martha, Jefferson's late wife. The age difference aside, Jefferson's attraction to Hemmings may have been that she reminded him physically of his late wife. The full story of the relationship between Jefferson and Hemming goes back a generation to Martha's father who was the father of Sally Hemmings. Sally came to Monticello with her mother as a wedding gift from Martha's parents.
Thank you for your comments.
Just go on Instagram you will be flooded with interracial couples mostly BW/WM
B.s.. it's Satan and Eve being marked against the Bible and BM and God and his judgement of BP. Causing WW to breed with BM since slavey. And almighty God is using WP to delete BW 4 a new AFRICAN Mother POPULATION trippleing in population by 2052. WP will be a minority in America by then and WP need to SWIRLING with BW and secretly breeing with WM since slavey 4 materialistic value and preference and wealth against GOD and his commandments BW will be deleted and replaced . Because BW is secretly brain washed by WM since slavey to be WM master SLAVE WIFE relationship since slavey and BW is stupid enough to go for it and THIS IS what WP know. To market BW to SATAN WM since slavey together to breed white baby's 4 WM value system called racism together since slavey anyway right BW.
@@BLACKMAGICK816 😮
The fact that you said maybe she loved Jefferson and he love her shows just how delusional and irrational many black women are. He loved her so much he kept her property until death. Black women provided to 12-year-old white boys to teach them sex.
I’m with a BW, and have never been happier. My experience with WW has been awful, they are entitled, controlling, and manipulative. Im an Italian American and I think maybe my Latin values and upbringing maybe responsible for that.
Let's not forget there are a lot of black women who are lesbians married to white women Robin Roberts Wanda Sykes to name a few
There are also a lot of gay black men married to white women.
Black lesbians are 3% of Black America. They are not the majority. So, posting "there are a lot of black women, who are lesbians married to white women" is really a stretch. Keep reaching hater.
Alot of black women identify a bisexual according to a recent pole like 60percent
@@ctruth6185 I didn't say there the majority my point is even the black men who are gay and is with white men have no loyalty to the black community there gay first
@@anthonysmith4649 😆😆😆 You say anything just to be commenting, don’t you. 60% - what poll was that? And yes, it’s “POLL” not “POLE”. BTW - “alot” is not a word - it’s “a lot”. You’re welcome.
To each it's own, as for me I never believe in sleeping with the enemy..just my opinion..Peace
I know what you mean. Thanks for your comments.
The enemy are the elites not other races.
@@ladyboule So why did Halle Berry‘s white husband call her kid the N word ?@
@@ladyboule We didn't come here as a people; we came here as many ethnicities, not all of which were friendly; some were from ethnicities that had captured one another's people in war and sold them.
But when we found ourselves here, we became one people out of necessity and circumstance.
Some of the fracture may still persist from the old ethnic divisions, and now no one alive remembers them and or the reasons -- all we remember is the fracturing. That was also due to our fa.ilies being broken up and members sold down the river.
So when you take all that into consideration, especially the break-up of families and the selling of men from their wives and children, or children sold away from their parents, yes; Black women learned to hate their men.
Last but not least, there was the production farms that created "free slaves" for the owners by bagging everyone's heads and forcing them to sexually engage for the sole purpose of impregnating the women.
In these production farms, the burlap bags kept anyone from knowing who they were being mated with. That's how the term "mother fckr" originated.
Mothers and sons; fathers and daughters; brothers and sisters.💔😔 They conditioned us to be against each other you had plenty of wealthy black men in Black Wall Street what did the white people come to burn it down. Anytime blacks have a thriving and successful wealthy community the whites came and burned it down.
@@JCR888 "Black women learned to hate their men" 🤣🤣🤣 The research statistics and the cultural proliferation of patriarchy within the Black community do NOT support your claim!
True love doesn't look at ethnicity, skin color or culture. Just be who you are
Amen!!!
Truth
can't sleep white and talk black ?
I’ve been stationed all around the world, and have been exposed to all races of women in those places. I was never attracted to non black women. I never could discard my mother and father’s influences in my life. They definitely impacted me with whom I would marry. Therefore, my only love was and is for an American Black woman. For me, it would be stressful to adjust or discard my culture or my way of life for another culture. Maybe, my mother and sister’s’ physical beauty had a lot to do with how I measured beauty in the real world of non black women. My black beautiful wife for 37 years was the best decision I made for a soulmate for life. We have been successful with our marriage and material wealth. My dad and mom were married for over 64 years. I do not curse people who find love in other races that include my three sons. I will always love my black wife until death. The sad thing, many blacks don’t know what a big decision they’re making that could affect them and their children for the rest of their life. Nothing stays the same including interracial marriages.
"Maybe, my mother and sister’s’ physical beauty had a lot to do with how I measured beauty in the real world of non black women." I highlight your statement because I too believe the most beautiful women (no need to preface black) look like my mother. I am not going to compare my favorite or preference to any other race. My question, and you don't have to answer it here...why did your son's choose non-black spouses. I would think if any black male was raised to stick to their own race, yours's would have been. Take care.
I'm sure if your wife had been acting like you see these American black women acting out these days, you would have looked the other way. I looked the other way, that's way my black wife is an educated lady from Western Africa. I couldn't find an American black female who had the same values as mine, who didn't have at least one kid.
Thank you for sharing your story! May God continue to bless your marriage 🙏
Thank you for sharing your story and for your obvious respect for your relationship with your wife; but you are one in a million among Black men.
@psychnurse964
That's not true.
Why don't BW hear when BM tell you it's the guys that YOU are choosing.
That seems to be your preference and you literally ignore men like this brother sharing his story.
BW have a preference for Pookies and Rayrays
BW seem to skate by that completely eventime it's brought up.
Why is that ???
What's with that preference ???
Very interesting topic. And it's also safer to promote the whiteman/black woman combination.
Don't want nothing but my people
I enjoyed watching your video and thanks for sharing!🤗
Thanks for watching!
On this one, i think people should just marry whomever they fall in love with - as long as that person is off sound mind and over 18, it's all good with me...
RACIAL BLANQUEAMIENTO IS A REAL PROBLEM
Look up blanquemento
Im white. My girl is black. Ive loved black women since i was a baby. Singing along to Whitney, Tina. Etc. My girl said she was never into black men
We have a Bed Buck & Bed Wench problem in Black society nowadays. Historically its never been to our benefit.
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Bed Wench Problem!
It's definitely to the black woman's benefit. We thrive when we marry out. Facts and data Trump emotions
@@StraightTruth-lx7ko I doubt your Black but if so you're a disgrace to all our beautiful Black Women ancestors.
@@StraightTruth-lx7koSojourner Truth. Harriet Tubman. Ida B Wells. Correta Scott King. Francis Cress Welsing. Etc; You make them wanna vomit.
Let me say this. Nature takes the path of least resistance. If you have to spend BILLIONS of dollars to market something to any group of people, the question that needs to be asked is *why.*
I'm not against any union as long as it's beneficial for both but WHY is it being marketed? After all that we've been through, after all the disrespect and social conditioning, why now?
I already know the answer but will not say it on the internet. This is for the rest of us to ponder. Excellent content, by the way.
They are marketing possibly due to the increase in IR unions between them. I wondered the same.
And the fact that they are still financing movements and policies against us. So why would they be so concerned now?
"If you have to spend BILLIONS of dollars to market something to any group of people"
No one has to. There was already a lot of BW who expressed attraction to WM and liked to see WM/BW couples on TV and in movies in the 1990s, and so people in the entertainment industry took advantage of that.
I so wish you would have said your answer...I am eager to know if it is the same as what I think...😁
@@siriusjones956 The IR unions increased after the marketing in my opinion. I think it is a survival of the fittest thing--where after so many years of research on Black people, the whites realized they need us to live. I say that because they are dying off in droves in white on white countries. The best way to thwart your recessive traits is to get with a Black person of the opposite sex. Some IR relationships are not about love but about survival. You just never really KNOW for sure WHY a white man (or woman) wants to get involved with you. which 4-letter word is it? Is it LOVE or NEED?
Ohh now they were "a couple" 😂😂
This is my first time watching this episode. Thank you Lady Boule, it was very informative. African American women are very sought after by Caucasian men. I can attest to that fact. I am approached more by them than any other men. I think they have become more relaxed and less intimidated by black men. I've subscribed and look forward to all that you bring to the table. Peace.
Lol how's the numbers looking like tho?
Respectfully disagree. No doubt there are WM who are interested in and even prefer BW. But far far more prefer Asian and Latin women. Sorry.
For marriage or sex ?
African American women are sought after by white men? Not according to statistics. White men only marry BW at a rate of 3%. White men mainly marry their own women, and when they do marry interracially, they marry Asian or Hispanic women, not BW. White men will occasionally marry BW, but it is not the norm. You also stated that WM did not approach BW because they were "intimidated" by BM, You make sound as if BM are an obstacle standing between BW and WM. BM have never tried to stop BW and WM from getting together. White men will NEVER marry BW en masse or abandon their own women for BW.
Read the book the dating divide and stop your delusion lol
BWWM Marriages have the highest success rate out of all couples.
Like I said before Lady Boule I can't agree with you on the interracial stuff. You black women see these wm, bw movies as sweet and loving protectors of bw. So that's all the wm has to do to get you BW to accept him for relationships. Then when it doesn't work out, what are we suppose to be waiting for our turn. What if you get pregnant? You want us to mine a white man's baby. How would you feel about a black man with no pride.
I'm and advocate for the BLACK FAMILY! A Black family consists of a black man, a black woman and black children.
@@ladyboule if you're going stand up for the black family you can't be putting it out there that you support these interracial advertisements targeting black women. Do you black women realize what you sound like saying, at least he was kind showed love, and protected black women in their movies. I realize that black men, and women will never see eye to eye on interracial relationship. I guess because we only see how it affects us as black men, and women, but there is no way you are going to convince me that black men are the bigger problem. The real numbers will shock you if you want to be real about it.
@@morrisgreen6863 well said.
@@morrisgreen6863 we need more of these brainwashed divestors to leave our communities.
White men has had sexual access to black women for over 400years and white men choose black women the least A black woman in Virginia sued to marry a white man Loving vs Virginia don't forget to mention all the white men in America who kill black women they are in a relationship with I no black women will defend white zaddy at all cost
In Something New she wasn't simply picky (imo), she actually had standards. Also, interestingly Shonda Rhymes said she would deal head on with the subject of Sally and Thomas Jefferson...it was one of the best scenes written and acted to perfection by Kerry and Tony.
I remember that scene when Olivia said it I was like ok shonda
I agree it is marketed everywhere. Even the stock photographs that come with picture frames are of IR couples. I wouldn't do it but I am older and not in the market. I think it is an easier move for young women to make because they are divorced from our history, don't have living relatives who were adults pre-1965 and many young men have already jumped the fence like Le Bron's son for example .
I think I am the only person who has not watched Scandal. It just didn't appeal to me.
We must market single mothers and women live in all female families.
@@marinaolsson259Weak trolling, do better.
Amazing how open minded and polyanish black women can be when it comes to dating a white man. When a black man does this,his black card is pulled. BTW, my wife is black (42yrs).
@@theodissmith6153 I am not defending this at all. I see the post1965 educational system has failed us as well.
Well get ready to start seeing Brad coming to your door for your daughter s.. It's happening at my young kids high school.. Young white boys asking young black girls to go to Prom and dances etc. It's a shift taking place with the younger generation who have been raised with diversity..My young daughter is dating a white boy now and I have supported it because he happens to be a nice young man who is treating her properly..
What wall? BW should date men who will provide/protect and love them
Marry who you love and who makes you feel alive
One fact people don’t know is Sally would not move back to the US unless Jefferson promised their children would not be slaves, he agreed.
Weather you don’t like the relationship or not, he did love her. She is the is the Queen of hegemony.
You see It in movies these days, black women marrying white men
The Holy Scriptures HaveThe Answers!!!
It is prohibited
Which ones? There's lots of holy scriptures in the world.
@@jemts5586 ALL OF THEM!!!
Kerry Washington is actually married to a BM in real life.
Fascinating and eye-opening. Isn't this a predicament. Good thing i enjoy a challenge. Thank you, Lady Boule
I love this topic. My opinion is that yes black women should date white men just as well as black men should date white women because at thee end of the day it is no ones business who is in your bedroom. I mean this topic has been going on in the black community for years and we act like we so pro black but date out. Wm and bw have been dating since slavery as well as bm and ww. There is nothin new bp are every where all over the continent and have survived through the worse. This interracial push for wp and bp is just a cover up for the hatred they have for us and the white man is no savior he literally buried a bw image to the world as below all women groups. All in all the history still stands till this day no matter how they try to glamourize it wt interracial love like Netflix Bridgerton or Queen Charlotte or even How to get away wt murder ect. Interracial relationships are everywhere its no secret its in the media as well in the commercials and you would think that america has ended racism and put up laws to protect bp. But divesting is a big issue in the black community cause we were never invited to the white table where every other minority was able to benefit from it and on top of that u have white washing of america where certain stereotypes are being pushed about black Americans. I can go on and on about the history of bp and wp but long story short date who or whom makes u feel comfortable but please dont despairingly bring the black community down cause u feel as though its better on the otherside because iam going to tell as a black person that your still a slave and interracial marriages and children do not change laws or end racism. You can never escape who u are and the world we live in is gonna remind u of that till the day u die. But that's to show u we as black people got alot of work to do.👀☕☕☕
Scandal was the second t time i liked that male character. I first saw him in the movie with Whoopi Goldberg ... GHOST.
IN THAT MOVIE he was the villain. In Scandal, he was the lover. Lol
Tony Goldwyn played a lover to Lynn Whitfield in a movie before Scandal.
There aren’t enough WM to go around to fully support this strategy though. Generally speaking, BW who are pleasant, physical fit and feminine don’t have problems finding a good man of any color.
There are enough for the BW that want them. Lol.
This is not true. The higher the education a black man has the more likely he is to have a ww. Having a ww is success symbol for alot of black men. Just look at the NBA and the NFL. You telling me none of those men could find a good bw?
@@ladyboule Good luck with that…. All I’ve seen is BW chasing WM that clearly don’t want them for marriage, e.g., EKW, Rachel Lindsey, Kayla Nicole , etc.
@@ladyboule Good luck with that. Ask EKW, Lindsey Rachel, Kayla Nichole, Lupita N, etc. They were all dropped by WM who really didn’t want to be married to a BW. I don’t know what happened to the days when BW were natural, fit and friendly and were content with a good BM. An eligible WM has his pick of the litter of women of all races, he’s just not going to realistically stand in line for a BW as he has way too many options. That’s just reality. Things really have not changed over the years just because IR marriages are less taboo. Appreciate it if you wouldn’t delete my comment as it’s important for realistic reasoning prevail on this topic.
WM are pimping out his WM to BM and it’s all by design!
What about the slave master's wife's that had relations with the male slaves when their husband's were away?
The thing I note off the cuff about women in mind is Romantic Love. Without resources to protect, I believe, as a black man, I cannot marry whom I like, especially since I'm the provider and the protector. It's best to focus on the practical. People can adjust to one another over time should they make the effort. I don't believe much in Romantic Love because it's driven by expectations that may or may not be met.
As for marrying white people, I believe that the population of whites as a whole is against it. And since we live in a society wherein the children are vulnerable, we must consider whom we marry. The world does not belong to us. Our choices, for the most part, because economics are limited. The older I get, the more I am convinced that Romantic Love may not be the way to go for men. Above all, I consider relationships and finances as practical matters overall.
On the chart of love, Romantic Love is not at the top of the list for me. In the past, thinking this way worked (or didn't, according to your politics), but nowadays, Romantic Love is a fantasy.
Looking at television for the last couple of years shows the agenda, I'm just amazed how individuals fall for it.
It not new tho, we consistently get manipulated and it fails to result in a meaningful unification of the community.
funny there's no agenda when it comes to becky and tyrone though........hmm
You forgot the movie A Bronx Tale. Here is the thing that is just my opinion. Statistics show WM/BF marriages are the most successful. My opinion is that while it is much more acceptable today, there is still some taboos. If a couple can fall in love and overcome those together, they become a stronger couple. As for the marketing? I think it’s not being marketed to destroy the black family, I think it’s more about the fact that since the Gen x generation, interracial marriages have become more acceptable and they are trying to them. My theory is within 100 years, Both the US and Canada will see so many interracial marriages that they will become a new racial group that will become the majority.
What people forget is that big business is always looking for new markets..So that's why you will see gay or trans or Interracial couples in advertising because they are always trying to expand the market but ignorant people lash out and claim it's a conspiracy or a plot of some kind..No they just are always looking to expand the market and make more money
There is nothing wrong with your new theme song but this one is my favorite.
Well Now, You did a fantastic job summarizing something I've noticed over the years, My sister (Black) has been married to a white man for 44 years, I a black woman married a white man who passed away, then married my first love also white from 34 years ago, His white parents encouraged the break up I wasn't white enough to be married to him apparently. However we've been married for 2 very happy years going on forever. Thank you for your point of view.
My cousin has always dated white men. She was married to a white man for over 20 years. they divorced now but they are still the best of friends.
I also have a family which has women who have dated white men.. First my mother always dated both Black and White men and was engaged to marry a white man but they broke up and she eventually married my father who is was black.. Currently I have 3 relatives in my family who are married to white men...
He raped her! It's so so sad. I can only imagine how he brutalized and traumatized that defenseless girl.
Interesting perspective. I’m sure how the media markets WM to BW plays a large role in perception no doubt but the reason there’s so few WM w/BW is because BW are the least marketable women and WM are the most marketable men. This isn’t gatekeeping by BW doing this, it’s on WM to open their hearts more.
Well, that's only part of the story. Black women were taught against any kind of romance with WM for hundreds of years. So, BW in the past haven't been interested in WM and still wouldn't be if BM were higher achievers. WM are not and have never been BW first choice for a mate for a number of reasons. I stand by what I said.
@@ladybouleHaha history proves otherwise. Most bw live white master to say otherwise is not true. Bw have never belonged to us blk men. Never! Stop telling lies. Bw are the fist to jump ship for white man. Your show has fully documented that
@@ladyboule*black women aren’t white men first choice “
@@joepatrick3092 What's really telling it BW are not BM first choice so I say BW should make themselves available to the man who will put her first it's not about the race
Always on point.
Videos documenting your visits to plantations may be interesting.
I agree. What a great concept to explore!
WM/BW relationships is nothing Taboo. Its always been accepted
No, it hasn't. I don't know where you're from, but you're wrong.
@@ladyboule yes it has in fact the first interracial marriage which was fought for by black women themselves was with the white man.
@@richardbyfield1918you Sound Delusional...You are talking about the Lovings and they created all kinds of Hell when they married..Lmao..You sound Crazy...
Yes, facts
@@ladyboulehow, first interracial marriage was an and bw. First tv show bw. So... stop with😢the nonsense bw have never belonged to us.
I'm not racist but I've never been attracted to white men when i dated many years ago. So nobody could ever market a white man to me.
How? They are the most attractive men on earth and they behave better than black men
I dated a white dude and black dude, both were narcissist, I look at all men with a side eye now
all men are the same sis, dont matter the colour@@jesuswilljudge7296
Omgoodness. Not sure if like your new music. As for mixing for BW and WM can't get away from it especially BmWw have no issues for themselves. BW grab your Own happiness because most BM don't want us. Put you 1st.❤🎉
This is an older video. I've gone back to the original theme music.
Lady Boulé
I truly appreciate you for speaking on this topic.
"Damn I never realized it was marketing. Thank You Madame 👍🏾
What is needed to be market more is single mothers family ith only daughters bc this is the best combination.
I don’t think most black women can keep up with growing old with any partner different than black. This is apart from theories of black men cheating as it would be in some of their systems due to slavery.
The older a couple get, the more confronting the differences might get. Thats what I noticed observing
Wow from reading these comments, I gather WM are the perfect partner and the the holy grail of dating. Hopefully BW can find one being they are in such high demand
You have a comprehension problem.
Im trying to figure out what is the underlying reason to making this video?
Also, black women that date white men are often African and Caribbean.
2:55 / 7:09 The Bodyguard / 12:50 Something new / 13:45 Scandal
BLACK WOMEN FOR WHITE MALE LEADERSHIP 😘
They've been leading us for the past 400 years. How well had that worked out?
@@Heyu7her3 Yep, some people will never get it. The racists always try to come across as superior and hate black people but want to sleep with their women for more feelings of power and superiority and fetishizing the BW vagina and b@*%y. Yet some BW fall for it, most are just a fetish and sex object. Some are used to make the WM or family mad because of some issue within the family or to try to prove a point that they will go out with a BW. It's all insane, the implications from slavery have not been healed and so most of these relationships are a continuation of the brutality of slavery. So of course they have to market WM to BM, they have an image problem that they created by their racist ways, and they don't really want to be equals with BM, so again, they use the BW as a get at, or a get back at BM. Luckily most BW do not fall into the trap of being used, racism is in everything, including sex and relationships.
I have been on those plantation tours too.
Haha, I never can get enough of bw and am looking stupid. Ww couldn't vote and were held in abusive relationship while am fucked bw. Bw to this day romanticise this as if they had a choice. Hajahahaha. You where a hole for slave ownership
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Can't erase history! Even current history to date.
@2:18 if bm would be fully transparent they would also tell you that there were Bm in america as sl@ve owners.. and they were very successful at it. Like William Ellison of SC. So based on their reasoning we shouldn't be with them either based off what they did to our grandmmama
The most important is to increase rate of women so we get better mental health. Women need to create more girls.
Good Afternoon. I hope that you are not serious about what you have stated. When women get pregnant, they have NO control of the sex of the child, or children.
Whether Black Men, or White Men
I know yyou can find a lot of videos on. Line of wyt cops and wyt men beating the hell out of black women with their fist. I think they still see them as part animal.
Sistah!!! You lost me when you said, “…because black men are already on board (with that.)” With that meaning destroying the black family agenda? Sistah, tell me I heard you wrong! If not, then what black man hurt you like this?! Where are these black men at?! Cause I’m surrounded by plentiful, bountiful black men that value and cherish our black women, kids and families! WE ARE HERE!!! Don’t be fooled!
Let them get a white man, and save a brother. Yeeehaa!!!
Bm are 100% ruined once bw leave bm alone. You'll see.
That's all I see on TV
Lady boule, can you do a poll on how many black and mexican men donald trump will put in his cabinet?
I don't necessarily agree with you about the White man being seen as the great protector of Black women, My Dad a Black American worked two jobs so Mom didn't have to work so she'd be there at home when we came home after school. I know a lot of Black women who married a White man for love and nothing else, some exclusively after being messed over by Black men. As a retired senior military officer I've seen a lot of military couples in mixed marriages Black women with White men and beautiful children. A minister friend of mine was a dark skinned Black man married to a White woman because the young Black women of his day said he was too dark for them. Well he met a beautiful White woman who could've had any White man but she loved him and they celebrated 55 years of marriage until his death leaving behind a widow and four beautiful middle age adult children and 13 grandchildren.
Excellent information is very informative and accurate again I would say it was excellent information that was given
I was born 40 years too late, but........
If a race war broke out today I wonder what would happen within interracial relationships
How does this apply to a black French and white French. This matters are limited to western history not applicable to all. Thats sad. Blessings 💜
Life is nuanced, even the life of a slave, it’s entirely possible that she loved Jefferson, it’s entirely possible that he loved her and they are the only ones who truly knew the dynamics of their relationship…love has a funny way of breaking social norms and tradition. The problem with relationships for all people is the fact that most have forgotten what real love is and they give too much thought to the “options” they have rather than focusing on keeping what they’ve already got.
Wtf?
No, just no, the man was a pedophile.
A 14-year-old knows nothing about loving a grown man...actually she shouldn't even be put in that position.
@@mtf62 so my grandmother, who married my grandfather at the age of 14, is somehow a victim and my grandfather is now what? A criminal? A predator? A pedofile?
What was considered acceptable even 100 years ago is vastly different and will be different 100 years from now. We wouldn’t want to be demonized and vilified for how we conduct ourselves considering we’re following the current social guidelines for behavior.
When life expectancy is 35-40 years old, one can be forgiven for starting adulthood earlier than we do today. Living past 80 wasn’t a normal occurrence in the 1700’s and Jefferson had a much better quality of life than 95-99% of the rest of America. It would have no doubt been a favorable experience/arrangement for most teenage girls at the time. They didn’t enjoy the benefits and luxuries we take for granted today.
Which brings me back to my point: we don’t and can not know the hearts of people who lived 200+ years ago, nor can we hold them to the standards we set for ourselves today. I highly doubt anyone would want themselves to be judged many years after their death with no possibility to explain, provide context, or even accept responsibility and accountability for their actions.
@@nathanmcdowell4731 Stop putting words in my mouth...you made those statements about your grandparents, I didn't.
If I see one more BW WM coupling in a commercial...I'm going to try and get audio versions of movies.
Thanks for the confirmation. I knew I wasn't going crazy.
Kevin Costner...handsome? I gotta check my eyeglass medication.
Everything that you are talking about you are absolutely right and I have to say you're doing a great job keep it up
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I Really Enjoyed This Video And Want To See More. I Believe That Life Would Be Better If We As People That Love God Would Stop Holding On To What Happened In Slavery Years, Yes It Did Happened And It Was Not Right. But Go On With Your Life Learn How To Love People As God Want Everyone To Do. I Refuse To Live Back Years Ago And Miss My Every Day Blessings. Please Let Hate, Racist, Prejudiced, Slavery. Go And Put Love In Your Heart. My Prayer To God That Black Men's Married A White Woman And White Men's Married A Black Woman This World Would Be Better. Love Will Change People Life. Yes I Love People That I Have Never Met Before Because Of The Word Of God. And If God Bless Me With A White Man I Will Be Greatiful. A Heart Of Love Means So Much. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Can't believe what I'm hearing 🤢
Then open your eyes, and observe what you're seeing.
Though black men marry out more than women, black women do date outside of their ethnicity or lineage. There are endless examples, into the millions, where black women are having babies for Caribbean and African men. Many of these arrangements are far more destructive to FBA lineage.
Good observations.
Still, you seem bitter toward black men. We do not necessarily get “on board“ with the interracial dating phenomenon. Often, it is because we have to contend with bad attitudes encouraged by the flattery you receive from white supremacy. I’m not saying it is always justified, but we have to reckon with all of the facts. All of them. we must consider the survival of our family units. That is survival in itself. Gender sniping is childish.
I refuse to believe the hype
Ok so here is my take. I think beautiful black women should be loved and happy. But the answer is not always in a white man. I myself have been charmed by the gentleman persona of a white man. Its so nice to be treated with gentleness and nice to have someone to share interests that some black folks make fun of. But just because a white guy is quiet you dont know whats trulynin his heart look at Lacey peterson. Pray to God for the right spouse. And then to what about mating with the descendants of slave owners do u really want your children cursed? They got to pay for that evil per GOD
Ridiculous! Absolutely ridiculous!
Wow! It is always about marketing!!!
Black men don’t care.
Evidently you do.
I have been to Monticello as well. Nice house! I think it is haunted though.
u should go to the mines in Africa where wp were enslaved and talk about bringing that back to alot of us that's also a good idea.
Yeah honestly
But what both relationships have whether it's a black man with a white woman or vice versa it's a slave master relationship the black man messes up once with that white women while you see what happened in the media with that Marvel Comics Superstar the court is against you
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