DAY IN THE LIFE | aggressive day with Nan’s dementia, autumn morning routine, skincare
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- Опубліковано 12 жов 2024
- Hey everyone!
Welcome back to another video… today has been a very hard hitting day for us on this dementia journey.
These days make it so difficult to keep strong, and be present in the moment… as the high emotions take over.
As always, I just wanted to highlight that I am no medical expert… and the advice I share is all from our experience on this journey.
Thank you!
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Aww Jess, I've looked after the elderly with dementia for years pleaae don't take it to heart what your nan says, she doesn't know what she's saying, if she didn't have dementia she wouldnt be talking to you like that.
Give my love to your nan x
I worked in the nhs with dementia patients and the nicest of patients can turn in the drop of a hat ! Is best not to continue the conversations spouses would stop visiting purely because it would became upsetting even if you changed subject it would still revert to the anger swearing pinching biting and saying horrible things it's better to leave on good terms it's totally out of character and upsetting you just don't have to take it personally tomorrow is another day although these outbursts may became more regular your very good Jess with your nan you've a great relationship sometimes patients can pick up on things the carers conversations have had and usually tv programmes etc X
Oh Jess 😢 what a tough day for you dear girl. You are doing a stellar job of walking this road with your lovely Nan. Sometimes this disease really throws us doesnt it. I recall a day like this with my Dad when he was palliative with Vascular Dementia where he suddenly went from being really kind and sweet (something I'd never known from him growing up) to suddenly being very verbally aggressive with me too and it was awful, like suddenly we were back to how he used to be at his most difficult. I'd gotten used to the way in which his dementia had stripped away the "Meanness" and it made it easier for me to help care for him, so when this happened it really threw me. At least with your Nan you know it's simply the disease and not who she ever was as she seems so loving and sweet with you. Sending you lots of strength for the days ahead and hopefully tomorrow will be a better day for you and Nan ❤
You are so sweet Jess and so loving and understanding. Your Nan is truly blessed to have you!
Your nan is so sweet...sure wish all nans could be like that or for that matter...all people❤
The way she says i love you😂❤
You're going to prison Jess 😄Aww bless, you know she doesn't mean it, It's the illness talking. Have a good Sunday Jess ❤❤🤗🤗
We have days like this with my mum thankfully not all the time but they are the most difficult emotionally bless you and your Gran Jess your are amazing with your gran ❤️ 🏴
Before my mum had dementia she never swore ,but afterwards she came out with a few good one's. Your nan doesn't mean what she's saying. 😊 xx
You are so gorgeous with your Nan!
Thank you honestly so much!
For the last few months before my Gran died she got really violent and was lashing out physically and mentally. It's so sad to see and hear 😢 Stay blessed ❤
That’s truly heartbreaking. I’m so sorry that happened to you 💔
Your Amazing with her and your going to be a awesome mummy one day I can see how u really so love and care for ur nan.
Really breaks my heart my nanna was the same but passed before it got to bad god bless her its a sad time your a good grandaughter jess my heart is with you 😢😢😢😢😢❤
This life we live is so so cruel and unfair 😢
😢 the angels will see you through this you are such a sweet granddaughter bless you sweet pea❤
That's very inteteresting. Thanks for sharing it 👍🫠🥰❤️.
So sad, I always worried about my mom and dad I don't think I can handle it them not knowing who I was . You are so good with your Nan . My mom and dad passed a few years ago they passed within months of each other I miss them so much. Till next time Susan in Ohio USA😊❤
Oh Jess love, you know it isn’t you, it’s the evil that is dementia. You’re beautiful with her xx
Oh my mom went thru that...its terrible😢
Trying to work it out is futile, really, but totally understandable. And I think it's the understanding of it which is the key....and that is dementia.
You handle it so well, though, whatever your musings of it may be because your solutions are to tell her you love her and give her a drink etc and she still responds to that positively.
Every day is a learning day. And the things you learned today may not be relevant tomorrow.
Sending you and your family lots of love and your dear Nan must be so proud of you.
Honestly thank you so much for this comment, I really appreciate it!
God bless her 😢
Life is very cruel at times,especially your nana dose not know what she's been saying, because you said that nobody in the family is involved with the police or prison, so it seems that it's the tv or radio, she is just having a bad day today, so I'll pray that she will be ok and a better day for tomorrow, god bless nana and happiness is the best place 😊
Sorry to see Nan like this with you.I'am sure it breaks your heart.😔
The new camera seems great Jess! Also love your Coke Zero song 😂 keep doing you Jess you’re doing amazing! ❤❤
Might add the Coke Zero song to each video… 😭😂 thank you so much!
Hi Jessica shame to see this is so sad as I lost my mum now to dementia she had a moment just Like These I used to walk away and go home and cry knowing that she did not mean this as it was not her it was the illness I was wondering how Nan is doing laying down all the time is my mum ended up with bed sores even though she had all the care and mattresses this is a tough time for them and for you may God bless you❤
Hugs from USA🫂🫂🫂🫂
So sorry for you your nan doesn't mean it you love her to bits
So sad, she cant help it 😢😢😢
Why oh why this is heartbreaking to watch god love her
I love watching her videos with you so much on Instagram and tiktok ❤️❤❤
Thank you so much for being here! 🫶🏼
Hi i have day's like that with my mam but just take it has it comes we know it's not them your nan is so lovely ❤
I thoroughly enjoy , smile and sad all mixed emotions while watching your Vlog Jess .. hope you are prepared to go to jail and also hope that you are done with the packing with toothpaste, toothbrush and not to forget knickers ❤❤❤😊😊
Nann is too cute and so classy when she speaks ..
How often do you visit your nan jess ... you are so attentive toward her .❤
new camera lot better had dementia patients like that in my care home relatives walk out or don't turn up for days even months your doing brilliant, oh and love to try them pancakes x
This is so sad...😢😢😢
I remember that my mum grabbed my hair to the ground when I was pregnant with my daughter Megan my mum didn't mean it but I miss her so much that she didn't se my daughter Megan growing up she is 19 now
My great grandmother had been put in the nursing room I had just became a cna the nursing home had put me on the hall where she was it was like throwing me to the wolves most nursing homes have someone with you to prep you before you go to each patient I went into her room like I would anyone she beat me up pretty bad and found out that evening that she never got up till 10 and if that didn't happen it was always that way it just set a difficult problem for the rest day my nanny and her sister was furious with the nursing home for not preparing me mostly everyday after that went pretty good I was fired not long after that for spending to much time with the patients when I reported them to the nursing home overlooked nothing was done a year or so later the nursing home was sent to shut down for neglect of the patients I'm glad they got shut down cause there was major neglect they had cnas packing wounds which a nurse is supposed to be present I went to home health after I was let go and became one of the top cnas company which was heaven sent several patients and families were happy to see me and I had experience of heartwarming hours with my patients ❤❤ love yall I hope this helps you Jess and am sending prayers for yall❤
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Can you write the recipe here for the drink and pancakes please . X
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What a beautiful home how old nann jess where u goin on well deserved holiday awful disease my brother inlaw goin thru the same it heartbreaking 💔 he in Peterborough tell nans angela from Newcastle is praying for her can u not take her out for few hours I lv her voice play some old music for her lv u all angela from Newcastle upon ❤️ 🎉❤❤❤❤😢
I see the room has a sink in it ...did you add that ?
This was always here in the room, a handy access point for us! 🙏🏼