Guilt after a love one passes is real…
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- Losing loved ones is hard, but the journey to getting back to peace is the toughest part. Praying for everyone who has lost a loved one and saying a special prayer for those of you feeling guilt today. I love you all❤️🙏🏾 #tabithabrown #death #grief #spreadlove #bekind
Prayers going out to Regina King and others who have loss their children, spouse, brother, sister, friends, colleagues, grandparents, etc. May the Lord comfort & give you peace/love through your time of mourning. In Jesus name I pray. Amen!
Yes I prayed for her immediately. Cannot imagine the pain she's feeling. 🙌🏾🙏🏾💃🏾
THANKS!!!
Amen. 🙏🏿😢
@@patriciamauney6591 - you're welcome 🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏽 thank you
Yes, the pain is real when I lost my Dad. My prayers goes out to Regina King and her family, and to everyone who has lost a loved one.🙏🏽
Matthew 16:26-27 KJV
For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? [27] For the Son of man shall come in the glory of his Father with his angels; and then he shall reward every man according to his works.
Lost my first born 28 yo son last year in a tragic car accident. The pain unbearable, but I have faith, Grace has brought me a long way. I will continue to trust him 🙏
Praying for you! 😘 supernatural peace
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Someday all tears will be wiped away!
My only brother died on a car accident because of the driver and we didn’t get that demon in jail
My father just passed.. he died from torn aorta I’m not doing alright Tab but I want to Thank you so much for this video.. my father wouldn’t want me to cry. He’s in heaven with the Lord, rejoice for we will all meet again!!! I don’t know how you knew?? I needed to hear this!!! Thank you Tab
Sending you love , God bless you. Xox
@@Amysbiblereads Thank you dear 😭❤️
Sorry for your loss 🦋
Praying for you!!May God's peace find you!
Prayer's and Condolences to you and your Family. My Mother Passed away October 2021. 🙏💞
Lost my dad last year and the amount of times I’ve had to tell myself it was okay to smile or laugh… I couldn’t even allow myself to experience joy without feeling guilty… grief is no joke
Sorry for your loss 🦋
@@juliecampos9842 thank you Julie! I genuinely appreciate it ♥️
praying with you I lost my dad too and everyday I feel like what more could I have done? I was his caretaker and I feel loss everyday. Be encouraged you are not alone.
@@pearlsaremybestfriend thank you Sandi! I’m also praying for you… I know how it is, I was basically my parents caregiver while in school… the guilt will eat at you if you let it. All you can do is put your trust in the Lord and try to live the life they would of wanted you to live ♥️
Amen! God has HIS time. Praying for those with heavy hearts. Bring them comfort Lord. In Jesus name, amen!
I lost both of my parents and son within the last year and a half. I wa the caregiver for both of my parents. I am struggling beyond belief. Thank you so much for posting this.
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Sending you diving healing and comfort of the Most High 🌞❤👃🏾
@@tonyaya1386 Thank you so very much! XOXO
Sorry for your loss. I am praying for Peace and Comfort for you. I lost my sister and brother in 2021. God loves you and so do I❤️
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@@thequeenchosen1533 Thank you! Sending it right back to you, sweetie! I'm hoping, God willing, that 2022 is good to all of us. XOXO
Father God, I lift up prayers to the heavy hearted and those struggling to find peace and comfort through the pain.🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for your obedience to the spirit Tab❤
Oh wow.. I swear she talks to me. Lost my little sister in August and I’m just not getting right like I want to. Needed this .❤️
Sorry for your loss. I feel your pain I lost my brother and sister in 2021. God is Faithful. He loves us ❤️❤️
Lost my little sister too January 6, 2022. I’m sorry for your loss and May The Good Lord bring you comfort and peace of heart 💜
@@thequeenchosen1533 Sorry for your loss. Lost my baby brother 2/15/19 then baby sister 01/06/22.
@@lilliansanders-nixon5084 im so sorry for your loss.praying for your peace
Bless you. I'm the oldest of my siblings with my sis right behind me, and the thought makes my eyes water. Try to think of the good times as much as you can, knowing she'd want you to have many more. I pray God keeps you through this season with your mind intact, and may He bring peace unlike you've ever known before. My heart goes out to you. 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
Lost my uncle and aunt within a week this week. This message really hits home Tab!
Sorry for your loss 🦋
You have my condolences. Sending my love and prayers to you and your family 🙏🏾❤️
Love and Light to you always
Special prayers of comfort to you
I’m sorry for your loss @Lee Kelsey🙏🏾
My god mom passed on the 13th of this month and she was like my second mom. Losing her has been rough, but I know she isn't suffering anymore. Thank you for this video, I love your videos but this one was just what I needed💜
Sorry for your loss 🦋
@@juliecampos9842 thank you, I know I will get through this time just have stay strong
Sorry for your loss🙏🏾
It's the people that's left behind that can't find their peace! Powerful, truthful and very wise words!!!
Thank you Tab. My sister passed away in September 2021. I'm still grieving and having a hard time!! Listening to your message today has made it much easier to understand her passing. She was my best friend and I love and miss her so much!! ❤️
Sorry for your loss. I feel your pain. I lost my sister and brother in 2021 and yes it has been tough. God will give you peace❤️❤️
Same to you Queen. ❤
Sorry for your loss....My Mother passed away from COVID 9/7/21
@ Cupcakes so sorry and I feel your pain.
My mother pass away a few hours ago, gratefull for you message! God bless you
Yes it is, my mother passed 2 years ago and I'm in therapy I'm proud to say. I'm grateful that she is no longer in pain, but I have to be honest I miss her terribly. She was my bestfriend in this world. 🙏🏾❤ Thanks for your encouragement!
This hits home for me. I stayed at my mom bedside for months and one night my mom told me to go home and shower, eat and come back in the morning. When I got home I called the nurse to check on my mom and the nurse told me she gave my mom a sedative due to her becoming irate which would have been against my wishes if I was there. Her kidneys and liver were in bad shape so I knew that hard medication would make it worst. By the time I made it back to the hospital my mom was in a coma and passed days later. Although the doctors, my family even my mom were trying to prepare me for months of her leaving me I was in denial believing God would turn things around. That was June 18, 2018 she battled different viruses and pancreatic cancer. I still sometimes think if only I had stayed like I did all the other nights maybe just maybe my mom would be here. Thanks Tab for this. I'm literally in tears.
I understand what you are saying, I am a C.N.A, who worked with hospice. First and foremost I am a child of God, and I know God is real and his word is true. Recently I found out my Mother in law has cancer.
My only sister moved away from the family 8-10 years ago. All my family members are separated. Alot of people's are. She died of a brain tumor and the complications of Covid:
Isolation, No Visitors, No Phone, No Video, No Ability to Travel, Insufficient Incomes. It was said She would not recognize anyone. How do we know? Cremation. No Ashes. No Personal Belongings. Nothing to Remember Her By. Just What Is Left of My Mind.
MAY WE ALL FIND SOME PEACE
I don't know if she knows this, but this is sooo prophetic!🙏🏾💜 Thanks for the encouragement and reassurance. A lot of us need it 💜
I've lost many family members and friends due to illness, violence and self harm.
I've often carried around guilt and hurt and some has crushed me more than others.
A childhood friend who self harmed affected me in a way that had not done so before.
Then one night, she came to me in a dream and I had a million questions but I needed to know she was okay, that she found the peace that she was looking for.
She told me no and that she couldn't be at peace because we have not let her go and because we weren't at peace.
That broke my heart.
With tears in her eyes, she asked that we not deprive her of the peace that eluded her on earth. She accepted her fate but she could not accept that she put us in the pain that she so desperately needed to escape.
But, it was at that moment that I realized that we as survivors have to let them go physically so they can go spiritually.
Thank you so much for this….. 😘💕 I lost my husband of 33 years last year to cancer, 4 months after his death I too was diagnosed w/ stage IV cancer and 6 months after I had emergency back surgery w/ metal & cement, surgically put on the entire spine & injected into the spine, it was severely fractured from osteoporosis, or I would risk paralysis from the waist down. My life was hit with nothing but bad news one after the next in less than 1 year. I do have faith in the lord. But here I am 1 1/2 yr. Later and it’s so hard to stay positive & happy, I’m so lonely some days. It’s hard to speak to family & friends because they can be judgmental or say the wrong thing, you know the typical stuff people repeat cause they heard it some where, he’s in A better place, or he’s not feeling any pain anymore, or it’s about time you get over him it’s been over a year, etc.so I suffer in silence, I talk to God. But sometimes you need a human voice or ear. Someone to just say cry and let it out, or give me a hug or just listen. Some days it’s just so painful & I just want to scream. So thank you for this. God Bless you 💋
My heart breaks for you. Go ahead and scream. It actually made me feel better. I am so sorry for all you are going through.
This is helping me so much we didn’t know my 8 year old cat had lymphoma until 1 day before we had to put him down this week. I feel terrible about it still. Before that it was my grandmother with lung cancer and I felt the same way but even more extreme. These words are very calming you’re doing such an amazing thing
Sorry for your loss🙏🏾
God bless u
Thank you Tabitha it was a timely word . Praying for everyone as tears running down my face. We will be alright ya'll .
My Dad died 6 years ago, my Dad in law died 5 months ago. The 2 favourite men in my life. I’m pregnant with a baby boy and they’ll never meet him. It hurts me. I’ve been feeling depressed today and just wanting to be with my Dad, then you upload this. You’re amazing. Thank you so much ❤️
Sorry for your loss 🦋
So sorry for your loss. But I think that baby boy you’re carrying already knows both granddaddies!😉
@@pockahantiss thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@@juliecampos9842 thank you! Xx
Amazing you spoke on this. I grieved for my mom for years (8/31/09) I still cry and talk to her. I swear I smell her perfume from time to time. However my sister passed of brain cancer. No one knows how much I miss her. We fought like cats and dogs but loved each other dearly. I found peace and I’m not afraid to die I just don’t want to leave my son. I think he’s going to be lost without me. It’s been just us from birth.
Thank you for these words.... I'm suffering from ptsd and having a very difficult time processing and understanding everything. Deaths are overwhelming. I couldn't compose my thoughts are feelings the last two years. Thank you
I’m praying at this instant! We never know, when it’s going to hit anyone families. My prayers are with y’all. Revelation 24:2 Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal! I agree with you Tab!
Love you beautiful sister Tabitha Brown. You have helped me in so many ways that’s my life being intentional💜💜💜
I'm crying so much right now! This is certainly on time but you're always on time Tab. I lost my mom on November 8th 2021 just two months ago. She would have been ringing that bell on February 2 to signal her chemotherapy was over! I really miss my mama but I know she's healed on the other side! Thank you so much for this Tab! God bless you always!❤😔
I needed this message so much!! My eyes are filled with tears. Thank you Tab for this message. My Mom passed in 1999 and it feels like yesterday. I always wondered if I did enough or could I have done more!! Thank thank you so much!! 😥❤️
Yyeeeezzzzz Sis this came on time. My brother trancened Sept 15 2020 he had MS and for years i feed him changed is pants took him to app and sang to him his favorite tunes just to ease the heavy heart he felt and i felt knowing no other family member helped not even his father, . I was changing his pull up when he passed and it hurts every Day. I have a alter with candles and pics of him and my grandma and grandpa on it and its a nice feeling to sit and talk to them. And on pretty days sitting on the Deck and all of a sudden a blue bird comes and sings and All feels well. It get betta when i tell myself" as long as I'm living so is he, and the same blood in me was in HIM". Thank you and I pray one Day you give a inspirational speech to a few if you ever come by High Point or Greensboro area.. stay BLESSED and again THANK YOU.. AND KEEP BEING THE AMAZING SPIRIT THAT THE MOST HIGH MADE YOU TO BE..
I feel like you made this video for me. We buried my mother Thursday and I definitely was not ready. I’m going through everything you just described. Thank you for this, I love you and my prayers go to you & your family for peace in your heart for your loss as well. Thank you for all you do for your fans and the animals as well. 💚
Sorry for your loss 🦋
Your spirit is so beautiful and you've once again given this World something to share with those dealing with loss and the recent loss of my loved one, this came right on time. I'm definitely going to share it. Tysm Tab for giving us such a needed message. May God continue to bless you so that we can share you wit the World!! Sending love n light to you.
Sorry for your loss 🦋
It’s a pain I know we all will endure, but I find it agonizing, it is the reminder, the want to find comfort, in knowing you cannot reach out and call them to see how they doing, in the store wanting to buy them something and then realizing they are not here, but one things for sure death is not failure, it is not final, and everyone that is here, will one day leave.
Amen Amen Amen I had to learn this and share some of the same words with my family and friends after my mom passed. Much love to you Tab for letting God use you to teach, share and encourage others. Blessings to you and your family.
Sorry for your loss 🦋
Thank you so much Tabitha. I thought I was the only one who feels this way. My mom passed Feb 1st 2012. Every year I replay the last 2 weeks of her life and what I could’ve and should’ve done different. My mind tells me I could’ve done something different to save her but in my heart and soul I know only God can give and take life. Thank you again Tabitha for allowing my mom whose in heaven to use you here on earth to remind me that there was nothing I could’ve done. To stop feeling guilty. I Love you momma❤️
😳😭😭😭Tab, you have no idea how much I needed this. My only brother and husband just passed away within months of each other. It hurts…
Sorry for your loss 🦋
@@juliecampos9842 thank you!
I felt a lot of guilt when my mom passed
Sorry for your loss 🦋
@@juliecampos9842 thank you 💕
I needed this today. My son was murdered almost 5 years ago. My handsome 28 year old baby. I struggle still to this day but I’ve come a long way. So l am praying for everyone here, and more so for Regina King and her family🙏🏾 Trust in the Lord, and lean not to your own understanding but, in all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct you path. God is the ultimate healer🥰
Sorry for your loss 🦋
It really is. My big brother passed away almost two weeks ago in his sleep, blew me away, just came out of no where.
Sorry for your loss 🦋
that unexpected DEATH is the WORSE....I lost my baby daughter at the age of 23
I'm still feel lost and CONFUSED
But ; as some told me LIFE goes on which HURT my FEELING DEEPLY.... BUT ;
I DECIDED to LOOK to the HILL from which comes my HELP and that HILL is JESUS who will give US COMFORT in OUR TIME of NEED....... AMEN
@@mzznewyork5695 Amen sister, God bless you
@@juliecampos9842 thanks Julie. Condolences to all going through right now.
I needed this message today. I lost my mommy in 2018 and today was one of those days where the sorrow hit me so hard all I could do was cry until I couldn’t anymore.
Received ...thank you.So needed to hear this..TODAY🕊
God is speaking through you sis!!! You've said a mouthful!!! Praying for those who are in the need of prayer!!!
This is rite on time we just buried my niece yesterday 42 year young leaving 4 children It's so hard Thank you so so much sweetie ❤
Thank you so much Queen I lost my dad on Monday and smh I'm no ones lil boy anymore. I needed this.
Blessings to all who are in this space and time. It will get easier.
First, I'd like to offer my sincerest sympathy and condolonces to those who have lost someone they love. I share your pain with you. I lost my husband to Covid in August of 2020, and it devastated me and our family. I never thought I'd be a widow with 5 daughters before the age of 45. I'm still grieving, but I keep my faith in God and try my best to be strong, courageous and resilient. I know death is a part of life, but it still hurts nonetheless. It all happened so fast I didn't have time to prepare my mind. We all need to pray for one another. These are trying times. I had never heard of Tabitha Brown until my daughter sent me this video. She's my oldest, and we share a very special connection. She can feel my pain. She and I share the same thought process, emotions, and mannerisms. This video really helped me when I was going through it, and I know it has helped many others who are trying to cope with loss of a loved one. Thank you Mrs. Brown. God sent you into this world on a mission, and you understood the assignment.
Thank you for this. I just prayed this morning that I let go of everything surrounding my daughter's death that wasn't healthy. This spoke to me in ways I cannot even express. Her 3 year death anniversary is coming up this Wednesday and the guilt has been weighing on my mind. - Cami's Mommy
Be INTENTIONAL….. Thank you Tabitha Brown.
Ms. Tab Your Right On Time With This! There’s Been So Much Loss! Especially in March Of 2020! My Condolences to Regina King Losing Her Son And Then Just Recently On This Past Sunday Cheslie Kryst That Allegedly Took Her Life By Suicide! I Pray 🙏 For Healing 💓 For Both Families That Loss Their Love ❤️ One ☝️ And All Other Families That’s Loss Love ❤️ One’s ☝️ My Deepest Condolences 💐 I Ask God To Bring Forth Healing To A Broken💔 And Crushed 💔Heart. I Know Because I’ve Been There So I Know Where You Are! It Is A Journey And God Will Be Right There On The Highs 🎢 And Lows With You!!! Be Healed! 💓ASE
This message is for me. My mom is still here at 81, I just rushed her to the ER over the weekend. Mom thought she had a bad neck strain. Mom let out a sound over the phone when she called me that I never thought a person can make...I rushed over there and take her to the ER. After all the tests, bloodwork, scans and CT's...she was told it was not her neck. It was her HEART. Mom was having untraditional symptoms of a Heart Attack. Doctor told me if I had not rushed her to the ER, she would not have last through the night. Mom is still in the Heart hospital resting peacefully. She is now on Heart medication and Bayer Aspirin. Our family has been ravished because of Covid. Mom lost (4) Siblings and one just a few months ago not to mention other family members and friends. I want to help ease her pain and broken heart, but I know her help will have to come from a higher power. Jesus is not ready for my Mom. I know he is preparing me...
Thank you Tabitha. I don't follow you on a regular but today I just stopped when I saw your pic on YT. My mom passed away this past Nov 28th and we did all we could to make life and her passing as painless as we could but just as you stated, you question yourself and you say well maybe if I had done this or that. We and I did all I could and I was helpless at a point when nothing you do is going to prolong their life. We had a good mother and now she's gone. There's nothing left for us to do. I remember touching her feet as she was leaving and I can't get over how cold she was. I don't want to remember that anymore. Tabitha, I ran into you today for this reason. Thanks for helping me.
I became an orphan when both of my parents passed 4 months apart in 2020. This helped; although my siblings are trash for their actions, I move on, slowly. Life will NEVER be the same, but I move on.
Sorry for your loss 🦋
Sorry for your loss my brothers fought me at my mothers repast she died 9/7/21 I’ve moved on having nothing to do with them.
You are an Phenomenal woman..nothing but blessings upon blessings to you and ALL who are around you..thank you for this message...it touched places I thought that was healed...but my prayers and blessings are also to Regina King and her family as well...my heart is breaking for her soooooo deeply..🤲💔
That spoke straight to my soul. You have such a gentle way of connecting without even knowing the person. I thank God for you!!!
Man, if you never spoke to me before, you spoke to me today! When I tell you I know the LORD and my mom spoke to me through you today in this message. My mom passed 2 days after Mother’s Day in 2020. So, as the anniversary approaches, my anxiety is kicking into gear and I hate it!
I woke up today with this feeling in my heart and have been dealing with it all day, and look here you are speaking about it. GOD is so good! Thank you Tabitha! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! You are a true vessel for the Almighty!
My aunt battled cancer at 46 years old, she suffered greatly, tumors breaking her bones, I watched her battle closely and now after she’s passed, it’s made me a hypochondriac, I have debilitating panic attacks, I’m getting help now and now I know I have Survivor’s Guilt. With Jesus and a counselor I WILL GET THROUGH THIS. Love, light, and blessings to all that mourn.
The only thing that matters is you loved her. There is nothing more in this world except for love and caregiving! I really do love you and your family! So positive. Thank you recruiter of kindness, that’s what you are.
Thank you! I had been thinking about how I was going to take my family member out to dinner. And they died within a couple of weeks. I kept saying see you should have called instead of texting them!😭
Lost my mom 4-17-23 & Im not ok. Thank you for this Tab❤️
By the grace of God I have no guilt my mom in a medical induced coma when I was 8 for almost 3 years passed away when I was 10 and my dad mourned her so much he passed away when I was 16 than I lost my husband when I was 26. I showed all them love and respect. I thank God I have no guilt. It is well with my soul. I pray that others will find peace, please don't beat yourself up it causes more sickness to yourself.
Hi Tab I’m just now seeing this video I lost my Mom August 28,2021 to Covid so often I have those thoughts of what I could have done different,when it came to her Funeral,what I should have dressed in was different,the date,a different Funeral Home all these things constantly cross my mind and all I can do is cry.Thank you so much for this video,it really helped me to know that everything was supposed to happen the way that it did 😢
My great aunt will be 102 years old this Sunday, April 30. She is currently transitioning to hospice care after entering the hospital three days ago. I already feel guilty for not being there enough even though there is ample evidence to show the contrary. This is just a phase and I will get through this mainly because on the other side of guilt is knowing that my great aunt LOVES the Lord. I've currently planned for daily scripture readings and wrap around visits as she goes through the dying process. I want this to be a beautiful experience for her as she passes in comfort. Please pray for me and my family. I'm so grateful to be her great neice. ❤
A pastor friend of mine was comatose a few weeks ago We held a corporate prayer for his healing. He passed a few days later. The amount of guilt I felt over his death was heavy. I felt like I failed him, his family, and ministry. Like we failed Yah by not having enough faith. His wife will be on my channel tomorrow to share her story. I have to tell you, I really appreciate you addressing this topic. Just thinking about it makes me wanna cry. Thank you for helping me process through.
You may not be able to see them...But you can still feel them; with your heart and minds. You need not fear them....because the spirit of your loved one; is all about love....So, you do not have to stop loving them....Speak to your loved ones who have trasitioned, as if they're still here with you...... They're closer to you now; more than ever. May God continue to bless Mrs Tabitha Brown 🙏🏾.... Thanks for sharing!
You were talking directly to my heart. I needed to hear this at this very moment 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. Thank You. I’m praying for you and your family as well❤️❤️❤️
Thank you. My momma is dying of pancreatic cancer, I'm flying down to FL to introduce her to her one and only granddaughter. I have been going through it, but I feel so lucky to have this chance to bring us all together this week, for the first and last time. She can hold her grandbaby, and I can tell her I'm sorry. Tabitha, I NEEDED to hear this. Thank you so much.
This is amazing! How did she know? I just lost my nephew to senseless gun violence, and it hurts in a different way than other deaths. This is exactly what I need. Thanks Tabitha for always coming through at the right time. Amen.
I needed this more than you'll ever know. Thank you.
I love you tabitha god bless you I love your advice on everything 💖🙏❤️
I lost my Mom in September 2020. I had to handle her affairs alone & wasn't able to begin to grieve until Fall 2021. Every day is a new opportunity to continue my healing journey. I prayed to God earlier today. I asked Him for guidance & strength. I believe He lead me here. It's not the first time Tabitha has provided God's message just when I needed it. Thank you. Peace & Love
You hit all the points sometimes I still feel since my mother passed away almost 2 years ago. I take care of her until she passed away. So thank you for those words. I pray for your family amen
GOD BLESS YOU TAB, continue to help people like you're doing & you're doing it well. Stay in the hands 👐 of GOD. Your something special TABATHA & you know just what to say & do, to make people feel at ease or at PEACE. Take care & GOD BLESS
Much Love, Fonda 💜😘💜🤗💜
Oh my God, I needed this, I lost my mother February of last year, I lost my grandson father in September of last year, and I lost my middle nephew in December of last year, just last month and the guilt I feel, God bless you for your kinds words.
Sorry for your loss 🦋
@@juliecampos9842 thank you 😊
I pray nearly every day for those who have lost loved ones and for those who are sick and shut in. I send God's comfort, healing and strength
I didn't realize how much guilt/ hurt I still had inside of me until I heard your message . Just saying out loud "I miss my grandma" broke me. It's been around 7/8 years since she has passed and I know she is in such a better place, but I still miss her so much. Thank you Mrs. Tabitha for your words.
Tab!! I just lost my best friend to drug addiction/a car accident. I’m struggling with guilt because we hadn’t talked for a year and I definitely feel like I could’ve/should’ve done more. Please pray for me and my healing. Thank you so much for this!!!!
Tabitha Brown is a deeply moral, humane, and compassionate woman. More people need to feel empathy for their fellow man. A breathe of fresh air.
The good Lord has blessed you with the gift of encouragement and while listening to you I started to tear up when you said give yourself some grace.
And I thought to myself, why did you cry when she said that? Death comes in many forms and its not always about someone dying a physical death. Death comes in a broken marriage that ended up in divorce. Death comes in losing a long friendship. Death comes in a child that has lost their way or self losing their way.
You ask yourself could I have done more as a wife, husband, mother, father and friend? So many changes happen in our lives and we wish we could go back and do things differently, but we can't and we have to give ourselves "Grace" and do better in the now because that's what we have been given is "Today." I agree that we can't stop what will be. There's a time and a season for everything. Thank you for your encouraging and loving message Tabitha.😊🙏🏽💝 I pray that all who are hurting will Trust in God's Unfailing Faithful LOVE 💝🙏🏽🫂
😭 message received. I miss my mom so much.💔 yesterday marked 3 years and my heart still aches; literally, I feel physical pain.😭
Tab, Thank you for sharing. And I understand. My mom passed 2015. I miss her everyday. I feel some of my family members blame me for her passing. I was her medical person to tell doctors to do surgery or whatever was needed to save her. But she had a cancer tumor in her bladder. It had grew up through her body. So when they went to remove it. They couldn't. So basically doctors said call your family and let them know she doesn't have long. Mom lived a few more months after that. We wanted to celebrate Thanksgiving early. Mom said, I'm not gonna be here. And she passed 2 weeks to the day before Thanksgiving. She knew. I felt she was at peace. She was on morphine & oxygen, bed ridden and couldn't feed or clean herself. She was a strong woman had 14 kids. I remember changing my mother and feeding her always giving her respect. But family members stole money from her while they thought she would die in hospital. It was terrible. But I stopped trusting family because they stole from her as she is dying. Funny thing mom said they know what they did. And those same people came to her services after what they did. Who does that? But the same people who don't speak to me or blame me for her passing. They were not by her side to make decisions. Some one had to do it and as I told one of my sisters. You know how they are..and look what happened. But I keep my distance from my family. I live my life alone. And love my 2 sons. I only speak to 1 sister out of the 10 I have. I only have 1 living brother. And he doesn't hardly communicate with me either. But I feel the pain of loss but I don't have guilt because honored my mother in her last months on this earth. I carry her in my spirit. I speak to her. I love her always 💕
Today is my moms funeral and I needed to hear this today.. I’m shattered! Thank you so much for this message Tab 💔
The guilt is so real….I lost my baby girl in 2005 that was born with Down syndrome and also dandy walker syndrome. She also had a heart defect and other health issues that her little body couldn’t stand. My baby girl was 4 years old. I always blamed myself and years later I came to terms that it’s nothing I could have done different. When I got pregnant I was a healthy 21 year old. I lived in hospitals for weeks and months at a time. It was hard seeing my baby girl sick but she was so happy majority of the time. I’m glad my ex husband and I dedicated our lives to her while she was here. She was such a blessing and testimony to us both. I know now that the creator gave me that little angel baby👼🏾for a reason. I’m thankful to have had 4 years with her. I’m glad I ran across this video….Thanks Tabitha for the encouragement and the positive videos. May the creator bless you and your family. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Peace love and light!💜💙💚❤️
Thank you so much, I managed to hear you all the way to the end of the video but DONNA was screaming the whole time 😆 I love ya.
Tab, how did you know i needed to hear this. I lost my nephew (who was like a son to me) unexpectedly. I’ve beaten myself up on a daily basis. With the “if I could’ve, would’ve, should’ve.” But GOD, how I thank you! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. Thank you Tab for this and thank you for ALL the positivity you bring. God bless you.
I have been dealing with so much guilt from a family member I cared for passing away. This came across my newsfeed. I needed this message today.
I had to come back this video. I started prom dress shopping yesterday. I woke up to my Daddy telling me that his oldest sister, Sandra (my auntie) lost her battle to liver cancer. 💔 I’m super upset and heartbroken for her my cousin Sarah and the rest of my dad’s siblings. Thank you Auntie Tab. You are God sent and help our mental health so much! I love you!! 😘❤️
I needed this. I lost my sister some years ago and to this day I think I could of done more. But God has seen me through and I know he's faithful. Thank you for sharing what's on your heart Tab
This message came at the right time. Thank you for much for this 💗
She is such an Angel on earth. That Light in the Dark. I too want to be that Light. No it's not easy. But needed. Bless U. Bless Ms. Tabitha and Fam! Peace on Earth 🌎!
I lost my precious papa 3 yrs ago. My issue is deep depression with just Missing him Deeply and that I can't talk to him. I Thank God for the 2yrs to say goodbye and to be with him. But the sadness overwhelms at times. I only wish he would have been a person who didn't mind taking pictures. We barely have and pics of him though he loved his family religiously. Thank you for your prayers, understanding and joy.🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌🖖💪😘😘😘
By the grace of God, I'm pulling through. It is really tough but I am also becoming closer with the most high and recognizing my strength and faith. And most importantly that my loved ones are always always around.
Your voice is so soothing and needed in this world. I thank God for your gift. Bless you! ❤
TRUTH be told NONE of us should leave a stone unturned if possible because we all will have REGRET, because when SOMEONE passes on from this life it ONLY leaves us with what we should have said or done. This is why we all should make amends NOW with ourselves and others because life is NOTHING but a vapor here today and gone tomorrow. DON'T hestitate to reconcile with those you love and yes, even with your enemies if possible for time is truly short for us all. Let the love of God propel us ALL to love EVERYONE. God bless.
Thank you Sista Tabitha, I needed to hear your words, your voice of kindness, hope, support and love. Peace and Blessings
Thank you. I've been holding on to anger and guilt for almost 14 years over my mothers passing. Guilt because I didn't do enough, and anger because I was too young to lose my mother and wasn't ready for her to go. Your words helped me.
RIP Mommy🕊❤️. Lord, please help me with my anger & hurt because my mom didn’t deserve to die the way she did. She was such an amazing women. And thank you Tab for this video. I am struggling with this recent lost of my mother, but I know God will heal and restore my FAITH and one day this will all make sense. I am currently on chapter 10 in your book 📖 & finding so much healing and strength in it. YOU ARE GOD SENT.😘❤️
...God has used you, Tabitha, on this day to speak the most comforting words to those of us who needed it... My family has just experienced a very big loss... There are so many emotions and interfamily-turmoil has reared it's ugly head... Thank you for this very real and loving Godly assertion that you have delivered to people of all stature and backgrounds who are experiencing these incredible losses in our family dynamics...
I pray 🙏 for all who hurt - that you have a great and perfect visitation from the Holy Spirit who will lead you to all truth, comfort you, give you rest, heal your hearts, and redeem your souls ... May God be with each and every one of you... Amen!...
Thank you. They gave my Mom 6 days and she lasted 3 years. Now she been gone 3 years and I miss her dearly. I don't have guilt or regret.
Thank you for this! You are so right. I had so much guilt after my first husband died…what really brought me peace was knowing that it was his time. Nothing I could have done would have changed it. Only God knows our last day. Until I really sat down and though about this, I was having a really hard time. I’ve learned a lot through such an awful loss…it made me realize even more to not take anything or anyone for granted. I’ve also learned to cut people a little slack…so many are going through so much and we have to give them grace. Thank you so much for your message. ❤️❤️
She is vibratingly living💯❣️☀️. All of loving beings ETERNAL living greatness💯
I showed up for both parents the past 2 years who were basically estranged from me. Both had serious health and mental health issues. It took a toll while raising a medically fragile kid also to show up hours away for years for parents who didn’t show up for me. I don’t regret it but now have to grieve it all. All the lost years I never was going to have but also their actual deaths. I appreciate your soft tender voice and spirit. A guiding light. Wish we could meet for coffee in real life. Your videos are helping me.