4 Awkward Clutter Questions When Decluttering Your Clothing (and What To Do About It!)

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  • @feezlfuzzl564
    @feezlfuzzl564 4 роки тому +70

    I wish people would donate wool sweaters with holes in them, though. Or sell them directly to me, I suppose. I knit. I can mend them, and make them look really cool, or unravel them and use the yarn. Damaged clothing is often sold at a discount at my local St. Vincent's. I love looking in that rack. They also sell bags of old t-shirts, for cleaning rags, or cut stuff up for quilt fabric. I would love to give new life to damaged clothes, provided they are natural fibers, and I'm sure I'm not the only one.

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому +4

      I'm glad you've found a local place that sells damaged clothing!

    • @TheDriftwoodlover
      @TheDriftwoodlover 4 роки тому +8

      You could put an ISO listing on fb marketplace or a buy nothing group. I’d be happy to give a damaged wool sweater to someone who could repurpose. I have one i want to make into bedding for my dog.

    • @fleeperification
      @fleeperification 4 роки тому +3

      I used to buy wool sweaters for cloth diaper pants!

    • @anne-marieesnos9402
      @anne-marieesnos9402 3 роки тому +3

      Totally agree. Men s shirts 100 per cent cotton are great for patchwork. It doesn't matter if they have holes or stains on them. They will be appreciated by any quilter. Brooke brothers shirts are the best...

    • @rinkusekhon4386
      @rinkusekhon4386 2 роки тому

      Wow

  • @thisisus4989
    @thisisus4989 4 роки тому +32

    When listening to you my pulse lowers, I refocus and either see how far I have come or what still needs some extra attention. EVERY video of yours is very valuable. I especially appreciate your totally non-stressful voice and deliverance of messages. Please keep 'em coming! You're a treasure.

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому +3

      Gosh, thank you so much! I will definitely keep making them!

    • @wildminders2233
      @wildminders2233 4 роки тому

      Since starting to listen to you some time last year, I’ve always thought of you as Joshua Becker with Girl Power 😉💪🏼💖

    • @kaydiangel2445
      @kaydiangel2445 4 роки тому

      .look out

  • @abbygator411
    @abbygator411 4 роки тому +42

    I kept clothes from college, and then when I got back to that size I put them all on and immediately decided to declutter them. No matter the size I am done with low rise jeans now.

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому +3

      I totally get that, Abby!

    • @teliciamckee9477
      @teliciamckee9477 3 роки тому +3

      I came to this realization also during my closet purge this month.

    • @madeinussr7551
      @madeinussr7551 2 роки тому +2

      Lmao same
      Low rise jeans are a state of mind lol
      My dad always told me when I was a child :when your time comes, age gracefully. So no Madonna style or Botox for me lol 😂

  • @charisedaniels1237
    @charisedaniels1237 3 роки тому +8

    Yes the denim jacket is a winner on you. My weight has fluctuated for 15 years like crazy and so I have kept clothes out of practicality. I recently got rid of a lot of clothes by asking myself, If I fit into this again, would I want to wear it. Once I kept a shirt that I never wore till one day I made myself wear it. That did the trick. The shirt was gone before the day was over. I'm going to try that some more. Thank you for sensible videos.

  • @beckyplatt1235
    @beckyplatt1235 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you for touching on weight fluctuations! I have a chronic illness that makes me gain/lose weight 10-15lbs on an almost daily basis because of inflammation, and it’s so hard to minimize clothes because of this. I have pants in several different sizes, but I’ve gravitated all my tops/dresses to ones that work for both ends of my typical weight spectrum.

  • @ecleeds
    @ecleeds 4 роки тому +20

    Your try-on segment was cute -- Enjoyed getting to see that bit of your fun personality.

  • @valerieshy8749
    @valerieshy8749 2 роки тому

    Very helpful video. I work for an organizing company and I appreciated the comments you made about why folks hold onto items.

  • @thebestwillow
    @thebestwillow 4 роки тому +8

    Here in the UK, there are fabric recycling bins where you can put things unsuitable for donating.

  • @dianadadachanji8595
    @dianadadachanji8595 2 роки тому

    Absolutely you have given the right advise and taught us the genuine way to approach to declutter

  • @taniayoungson5614
    @taniayoungson5614 4 роки тому +3

    Again you've presented these tips in such a unique way. I have never heard anyone else address the last area that you talked about, when you have clothes that you don't love but will make them work. This is the case for me. I really don't have many items that I love, certainly less than 5. And that's hard because I don't own much clothing right now. I have donated alot of clothing that I did enjoy but no longer fit or was maybe for a younger me. I have had a minimal wardrobe for a couple years. But I still don't love it. I love your suggestion of a gradual phase out and a longer timeline to bring back items as I find them. I know intentional purchases have been talked about before, but I always felt like I had to go out that season and find them. I'm hoping now I won't put so much pressure on myself. Thanks for the video. I will check out your related wardrobe videos.

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому

      Thank you so much for the kind words, Tania! Definitely don't put pressure on yourself during this clothing transition. You've got this!

    • @taniayoungson5614
      @taniayoungson5614 4 роки тому +1

      @@AbundantlyMinimal The pressure to find the right clothing is off right now due to the pandemic. Where I live in Canada, stores are only allowed to sell essential items...so groceries mostly. All clothing stores are closed, unless they sell winter boots, coats or underwear. Any non essential items can be purchased online with curbside pick up. 🤪

    • @Debbiesdilemmas
      @Debbiesdilemmas 4 роки тому

      @@taniayoungson5614 I’m in Canada too and have mostly done shopping on line all last year. For everything I’ve bought.....mostly t shirts and leggings....I’ve also decluttered older and unloved clothing. I’ve been doing a gradual phasing out as well and I think it’s a great idea. Now if I buy one new item I will let go of two items. That still allows me to change up my wardrobe to something I’m happy with and still be decreasing the amount of clothing at the same time.

  • @AmberSLancaster
    @AmberSLancaster 3 роки тому +1

    I love the idea of the little reusable squares for toner!!! Thanks 😀

  • @virgierutledge3004
    @virgierutledge3004 4 роки тому +2

    I use old hole or torn sweaters on my swifer to dust my floors.

  • @alamedadanceparty
    @alamedadanceparty 2 роки тому

    Very practical tips. Thank you.

  • @cindynorris5983
    @cindynorris5983 3 роки тому +2

    New here and loved this video! It was refreshing to hear someone give helpful advise. The only keeping what sparks joy sounds good in theory but this was much better for me. The phase out process I have been doing. I have been calling mine “project use up.” I mean there is something oddly satisfying about using something up. Heck, that is why project pan videos are so popular. Also the making yourself wear and style that you have been struggling is also super great. Thanks!

  • @MsDoglover02
    @MsDoglover02 4 роки тому +4

    I recently went through my "thin" close that I'm saving for when I lose weight and donated some that I know I wouldn't want to wear again. I might be able to weed out more but want to be able to try them on first. For now, they are contained to one medium size plastic bin.

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому

      I'm glad to hear this, Lynne! One bin is always a favorite approach of mine :)

  • @cathylynnpietranton
    @cathylynnpietranton 4 роки тому +3

    Thanks Sarah this was very helpful. You really look good in that color.
    I'm finally donating a pair of jean that never did fit me right. Hugs from Ohio ❤

  • @EricaLucasLoves
    @EricaLucasLoves 4 роки тому +2

    Oh that what if!!! It’s debilitating when you declutter. Great video!

  • @marlenek3412
    @marlenek3412 4 роки тому +4

    I love these videos in this Jan. series! Great questions to ask ourselves, and think about while decluttering. You are so inspiring!

  • @lesliecarson684
    @lesliecarson684 4 роки тому +1

    Sarah, great informative video today. Love your sassy side!! I clean homes ... so my basic uniform is what I clean in earlier in day then switch comfy cloths after I get home. Boring and very minimal... But really don’t need something fancy . My dress up clothes are basically nice pants and a few blazers or jackets. I have nothing else but a fewT-shirt’s and sweatshirts pants and shorts. I get grief from people... but I guess when it came to minimalism ,wardrobe wise I was right on track. My closet is the one thing I know is intentionally minimal. Your tips are great!! Your tips are great to pass on to others I know who really need it and won’t listen to me. LoL ! I look forward to next week.

  • @rebeccagreen692
    @rebeccagreen692 4 роки тому +5

    I cut up old clothes and use them as cleaning cloths. I always notice your bedroom is the same shade of blue as we have too. I love it since we had it done.:)

  • @DazzleDust32
    @DazzleDust32 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Sarah, I hope you're well. Great video! I discovered your channel almost two years ago and am so grateful for your content. My cleaning cloths are old t-shirts and my make up removers are cut-up washcloths, thanks to you! Have a great day. x

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому +1

      Gosh, thank you so much! I'm so happy to hear that! 💕

  • @carmadariacompaniona4181
    @carmadariacompaniona4181 4 роки тому

    Excellent point about resistance to wearing something that you have never worn. I like the idea of actually wearing something to see if it works for you. But, if you know for sure that you don't need to 'test' it, then leave the tags on and try to sell it (Plato's Closet, etc.). And I like the idea of buying "intentional pieces" that truly fill a void in our wardrobes. Thank you!

  • @DnAMcD
    @DnAMcD 4 роки тому +3

    Thanks for another great video Sarah 🙏
    I did a no buy year for clothes in 2020.
    I've since purged about 80% of what I had at the beginning of 2020 & only kept a few pieces I really enjoy wearing.
    I've purchased about 10 new items since the new year.
    Each item was intentional & was definitely needed.
    I'm a plus size woman & unfortunately thrift shops have proven to be a huge waste of time for me personally as I never find anything in my size that I like.
    Whilst I love the idea of thrift shopping it sadly isn't an option so I will choose to purchase my items intentionally & that fit within my budget.
    PS...I think you looked gorgeous in all of your black t-shirt outfits x
    Sending abundant blessings from Queensland, Australia 🦘🇦🇺🐨

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому

      Congratulations on the no-buy year and finding intentional pieces for yourself! Thank you for the kind words!

  • @lucytitus2183
    @lucytitus2183 4 роки тому +1

    Such good options! Thank you Sarah!🤗

  • @kindnessmattersffs
    @kindnessmattersffs 2 роки тому

    Problem - I haven’t had the time to fix it and it’s too damaged to wear
    Solution - you should donate it but be sure to repair any damage before you do.
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    I kid!!
    Awesome video - I’m watching videos in the background trying to stay motivated as I continue on my year long “purge/organize/declutter or bust” journey. Its so hard!!
    Keep up the good work!

  • @SimpleHappyZen
    @SimpleHappyZen 4 роки тому +12

    Yay, such a fun video and great advice!! 😄❤ Loved the denim jacket on you.

  • @sandrafromscotland
    @sandrafromscotland 4 роки тому +1

    👍 Thanks Sarah. Brilliant way to audit "only keep items from a different size in the direction you want to go". I'm realising that I have a going forward mindset. Yes to fluctuation items to not beat yourself up about what's natural. Clothing is functional for me. Out of your space 💙 I think I'm different (😊😂🥳) I think in terms of an outfit rather than mix & match items, so I wear them as a set.

  • @scorpio7938
    @scorpio7938 3 роки тому +1

    I try to keep my wardrobe simple black pants and different color shirts i find its stress free and easy

  • @merrivideo
    @merrivideo 4 роки тому

    You can also make produce bags from old textiles. I prefer torn towels for facial pads. How cool that ypu are part of decluttering january

  • @kathryngarcia8800
    @kathryngarcia8800 4 роки тому +5

    Lots of good advice here!

  • @jhum71
    @jhum71 4 роки тому +2

    I also cut old clothes into face/nose/baby wipes. It is such a great idea! We use them all the time and just toss them in the wash after. They are softer on noses than tissues, more economical and eco-friendly.

  • @katiethomas5889
    @katiethomas5889 4 роки тому

    All good questions. I recently threw out really ripped/fallen apart pants, but then I had nice items and I donated those.

  • @pamsunderland6095
    @pamsunderland6095 4 роки тому

    The Denim jacket really suits you. My black shirtsleeve tee has served me well - so versatile.

  • @MrsKore20
    @MrsKore20 4 роки тому

    you can also use big towels or bedding that you can't use for it's original purpose as an underlay protection when you need to repair your bike and don't want to damage the floor. these big textiles can also function as a protection for furniture in storage.

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  3 роки тому +1

      For sure! We are currently using some of these for this purpose!

  • @nancynurse4552
    @nancynurse4552 4 роки тому +3

    Another option is to do a clothes swap. Diane in Denmark has videos about how to do one of these.

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому +1

      Love it! Thank you, Nancy!

    • @alamedadanceparty
      @alamedadanceparty 2 роки тому

      I’ve hosted a couple of those. Always great, and everyone loves their new finds.

  • @jaimewilson8933
    @jaimewilson8933 4 роки тому +2

    Really appreciated the advice on weight. Very well said!

  • @toritaneka7454
    @toritaneka7454 3 роки тому

    Love video, with great decluttering advice .

  • @danielmankowski922
    @danielmankowski922 4 роки тому +1

    Sarah, for the minimalists out there you are a fashionista! 😊

  • @barbkandel777
    @barbkandel777 4 роки тому

    I loved your black t-shirt "fashion show". 🙂

  • @sharonshmuel3386
    @sharonshmuel3386 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Sarah love your channel & found this content very helpful ✅. Old t-shirts can also be given to car mechanics / painters or anyone who does arts & crafts etc. Hope you are keeping safe - we are in our 3rd lockdown Israel 🇮🇱 lol 💝👚👗

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому

      Thank you, Sharon! We are definitely keeping safe and I hope you do the same!

  • @bex438
    @bex438 4 роки тому

    Some great tips here Sarah, thanks for sharing 👍

  • @armhay1981
    @armhay1981 4 роки тому +2

    I feel like this vid was for me... having different sizes of clothes because of weight gain. I set a plan to lose weight so the clothes that I know I wanted to wear again is in the closet. The rest went to donation pile or family members. The bags I sold and gave to family and friends, shoes donated. I’m getting there slowly... #minimal-lifestyle

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому

      Slow and steady is what it's all about! Keep up the good work!

  • @vegancookiemonsterxx9839
    @vegancookiemonsterxx9839 4 роки тому +3

    I live in the uk, i own 3 t, shirts 1 jumper 1 pair of jeans and 1 pair of baggy trousers, i wash regularly. Im losing weight slowly so im not wanting to get more yet, but dont want to get smaller size yet because mind wize having clothes i wouldnt fit into would make me very stressed and sad. So for now just having 6 items are working for me at the moment but not a ling term thing.x

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому +1

      Congratulation on the weight loss! It completely makes sense not to purchase smaller sizes just yet to avoid stress and sadness.

    • @vegancookiemonsterxx9839
      @vegancookiemonsterxx9839 4 роки тому

      @@AbundantlyMinimal thank you, i have deppression and avoiding triggers to unnessaserry worries just makes sence. Your looking really healthy you are an insperation x

  • @midsouthhomestead9180
    @midsouthhomestead9180 3 роки тому

    1. I made a blue jeans quilt from all of our old jeans for my husband for Christmas.
    2. I made a quilt out of my Mom's house coats. I used the buttons to tack in center of blocks instead of quilting.
    3. I have three ceramic jars filled with cut up clothing on my kitchen counter to use as rags or paper towels.
    4. I use really soft white or light old t-shirts to cut up into family clothes. It really saves on toilet paper.
    5. I recycle my husband's shirts into dresses to work in the garden. He is 6'5" , there is a lot of material to work with.
    I tried selling on Facebook. However, it is so stressful just getting folks to show up or respond that I had rather recycle or donate.
    Thanks for video. RHONDA

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  3 роки тому

      These ideas are awesome, Rhonda! I also totally understand how selling can be stressful!

  • @wildminders2233
    @wildminders2233 4 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏🏼 Haha, your ‘I’m exercising’ mime is just like mine! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣

  • @kristenaijala8925
    @kristenaijala8925 4 роки тому +1

    Pretty color on you!!!

  • @mommalynnette8190
    @mommalynnette8190 3 роки тому

    In the past ten years, I have worn several different sizes due to pregnancy, weight loss and weight gain, and bariatric surgery. I have clothes from size 0 up to size 22w in pants, and 1X down to 0-2 for shirts. I have gone through most of it already and donated what does not fit. Now to tackle what is left. I have way too many clothes.

  • @diamondbrightxxx7531
    @diamondbrightxxx7531 Рік тому

    I have a hard time letting go of stuff people give me, like my mom. But I desperately want to get rid of stuff.

  • @EllenKunkel
    @EllenKunkel 4 роки тому +2

    Love this video! Some great tips. I like what you said about making sure items you keep in a different size are still your style. However, I do approach my wardrobe in terms of weight gain/loss slightly differently than you. If I gain weight and I'm feeling down about it, I don't want to open my closet and have absolutely nothing that fits. Weight fluctuation is normal and any size that I am I deserve to feel great in my clothes, so when decluttering after a weight change, I only keep items that I would be excited to wear again if I was that size. For example, I gained some weight during quarantine and I was so excited to find that one of my favorite shirts fits again! In my opinion, if you have the space, keeping just a few favorite pieces in particular sizes can be a positive. And the bulk of my wardrobe is either stretchy or can work at most of my in-between weights so that I feel great no matter what the scale says.

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому +1

      Great approach!

    • @susanrikimaru6630
      @susanrikimaru6630 4 роки тому

      Yes! I keep one bin of my bigger size too so that if/when I do have my months of needing to wear that size, at least I have clothes that fit and I like. (And I’m not feeling guilt about purchasing items)

  • @ktrudy1
    @ktrudy1 4 роки тому

    I have clothes that have a bit of stretch in them. But also if I find my clothes are getting tighter my eating is adjusted. :) #3 is usually my problem. ugh I love thrift stores. but with covid I have stayed away from them. I so miss going.

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому

      I miss going to them too! Hopefully they will open later this year!

    • @ktrudy1
      @ktrudy1 3 роки тому

      @@AbundantlyMinimal they’re open here but with COVID-19 I don’t want to be in there handing clothes and thing’s from other’s homes. 🥰

  • @ArtyAntics
    @ArtyAntics 4 роки тому

    I’m stuck on no 4, I had to buy new clothes because I’ve lost weight. The charity shops are closed because of lockdown so I could only afford a few items and they are very basic. I don’t have many styling options that fit for winter, looking forward to spring!

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому

      Closed charity shops can certainly make it more difficult. Spring should be here before we know it!

  • @Nina-hk7ub
    @Nina-hk7ub 3 роки тому

    Going to gym to get into my size 4 pants. Lol I was there be4 Covid & I'll get back there.....but I'm hungry..

  • @ladyhawk5653
    @ladyhawk5653 4 роки тому

    I have grand daughters to hand down to. Some items with tags still on them will be gifted , b-day, Christmas ...

  • @Havanah2006
    @Havanah2006 3 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @ldoro6071
    @ldoro6071 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this video 😊

  • @madeinussr7551
    @madeinussr7551 2 роки тому +1

    If I ever sell the house I'm leaving everything in it. It's too hard lol

  • @sweetpeace5
    @sweetpeace5 3 роки тому

    Great video! I’m amazed I watch all videos sped up to 2.0 and you are only talking slightly fast😁So your normal pace is extremely slow! You must be one chill chic😉

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  3 роки тому

      Haha thanks! I think it depends a lot on the person, since I've been told several times that I talk too quickly haha! I actually edit these videos in double speed so I guess we do the same thing!

  • @rinkusekhon4386
    @rinkusekhon4386 2 роки тому

    I have so many indian suits. Can’t throw them or put them in community bin. I don’t have much spce at home. What can i do

  • @julieanne7223
    @julieanne7223 4 роки тому

    Thanks for all your advice. you should become a clothes model; you made it look fun to watch!

  • @scorpio7938
    @scorpio7938 3 роки тому

    A long necklace i find dresses a plain top up

  • @adrianasilitonga7335
    @adrianasilitonga7335 2 роки тому

    My closet, my clothes, range from size 2 to 14.. 😂😂 haha.. I'm like a human yoyo

  • @bhsprinkle
    @bhsprinkle 4 роки тому +1

    Most of my clothes are big on me. I have handed down T shirts that fit like tents. Use them for pajamas with sweatpants but I would prefer to own real pajamas. Maybe if I had real pajamas I'd be donating these items because they're annoying to me. I'd love to declutter these items.

    • @AbundantlyMinimal
      @AbundantlyMinimal  4 роки тому +1

      It sounds like choosing some intentional pajamas could be a meaningful switch for you!

    • @bhsprinkle
      @bhsprinkle 4 роки тому

      @@AbundantlyMinimal Yes. What I currently have is uncomfortable and too big on me.

  • @shawna6893
    @shawna6893 4 роки тому +3

    I don't agree with decluttering everything too big for you. Like you said, not all weight gain in within our control and it's so miserable to gain weight and only have uncomfortable, too tight things to wear.

  • @StacySanseverino
    @StacySanseverino 2 роки тому

    You have an awesome twirl!

  • @jessie9653
    @jessie9653 4 роки тому +2

    If I need a new jogger set, I cut the old joggers into shorts and cut the hood off the sweatshirt and wear it to bed 😀 then I will buy a new jogger set

  • @lisaann6267
    @lisaann6267 4 роки тому

    people need to think about when they send unwearable items, they have to dispose of them, and it COST THEM money in trash bins they use and have to raise their prices to accommodate over head loss. i have yet to know of place that repair anymore. its just too costly.

  • @kiaanee
    @kiaanee 4 роки тому

  • @luisasterioquerubin6829
    @luisasterioquerubin6829 3 роки тому

    Still young

  • @foundx8426
    @foundx8426 4 роки тому +1

    Let me remove all obvious items that do not work for me now from my wardrobe, into a luggage, and look through them when I am free.