SHE WON'T GIVE HER BEST TO THE SAFE GOOD GUY ⁉️

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  • @budbrudis5213
    @budbrudis5213 6 місяців тому +81

    Ward, there’s a bunch of people coming to the lake house tonight for a barbecue. You will be front and center on the big screen with your live! Good luck brother!!

  • @merouria6524
    @merouria6524 6 місяців тому +60

    Because she's not good herself.

    • @Qwr345
      @Qwr345 6 місяців тому

      It’s not because she is “no good”. It’s female nature. It’s just the way it is. She really wants the felon. But the career guy guarantees security, house, car, white picket fence

    • @paulcooper-n2v
      @paulcooper-n2v 6 місяців тому +6

      Yeah birds of a feather.

    • @brandonjackson3641
      @brandonjackson3641 6 місяців тому +7

      Right lol😂 that's why they say you attract who you are

    • @dasani6055
      @dasani6055 6 місяців тому +4

      @@brandonjackson3641 Wrong you attract all type of people you respond and respect who you are.

    • @Al-Rob-ei1iu
      @Al-Rob-ei1iu Місяць тому

      Facts

  • @TexasAlabamaBoi205
    @TexasAlabamaBoi205 6 місяців тому +31

    Less is more with women. The less you give a shxt about her leaving or being with her,the more she’ll want you!

    • @hiphopmusic2470
      @hiphopmusic2470 6 місяців тому +11

      This is so true having an I don’t care attitude is the way to be I tell men this all the time

    • @michaelewell5529
      @michaelewell5529 6 місяців тому +7

      Big facts

  • @bigmoneycowboy3623
    @bigmoneycowboy3623 6 місяців тому +74

    Always expect a woman to mess up a good thing

  • @NEWYORKSTATEOFMIND-e1s
    @NEWYORKSTATEOFMIND-e1s 6 місяців тому +54

    It doesn't matter even her "best" will only be temporary until she gets bored or wants something new

    • @moemoney9402
      @moemoney9402 6 місяців тому +10

      Facts! After they get mad it's over

    • @Al-Rob-ei1iu
      @Al-Rob-ei1iu Місяць тому +2

      Shit is fickle and unstable

  • @FreeAgent797
    @FreeAgent797 6 місяців тому +27

    Big Ward spitting facts AGAIN. I came to this realization after someone from my past all of a sudden had "feelings" for me. I was in the friendzone for YEARS by this woman. I told her I just wanted to be friends and she had the nerve to block me for that. These women crazy as hell out here...smh

    • @collinsmith6611
      @collinsmith6611 6 місяців тому

      I got that going on now bruh with my female best friend at age 44.. She had the nerve to ask me " Why we never dated?" I told her " Because when I tried to date you in middle school and high-school you told me you don't see me like that." I lost that energy very long time ago, light skin chick's... I grew out of the light skinned sisters long ago and realized they not for me. If I want lighter shade I'm going to a different ethnic group. Most of these women truly don't get the new era man is over the fuckery man.

    • @Salisburyspremiumpestcontrol
      @Salisburyspremiumpestcontrol 6 місяців тому +10

      😅 She blocked you bc she felt 1min of what she did to you for years! Women❤

    • @FreeAgent797
      @FreeAgent797 6 місяців тому +5

      @@Salisburyspremiumpestcontrol You just can't make this shit up...lmao

  • @xtraredd8006
    @xtraredd8006 6 місяців тому +17

    The key thing is to only date women who shows high interest. Get her attached emotionally and financially. I’m not a guy that be in the streets but it all comes down to attraction and finding the right person don’t waste time with low interest women

  • @TruthSeeker30_
    @TruthSeeker30_ 6 місяців тому +70

    Good guys get the scraps at the end..if they’re lucky

    • @OldHats
      @OldHats 6 місяців тому +29

      Truth is We good guys are winning by staying solo my $ is all for me fuk it

    • @FreeAgent797
      @FreeAgent797 6 місяців тому +5

      What good is all that money of you ain't got nobody to share it with?

    • @stronggive7258
      @stronggive7258 6 місяців тому +2

      U ain’t lying

    • @stronggive7258
      @stronggive7258 6 місяців тому

      Half the time you share money with a woman.. it’s never enough anyway then be ungrateful

    • @roadrunnertrav7179
      @roadrunnertrav7179 6 місяців тому +15

      Take all that money and travel. Get treated like a king in Asia. An Africa

  • @bernardterrell1373
    @bernardterrell1373 6 місяців тому +8

    And it was just the opposite with us fellas too. We wanted the bad girl not the safe girl

  • @stronggive7258
    @stronggive7258 6 місяців тому +9

    Big ward this told me a lot… No more nice guy. I wish I could learn this earlier in my younger years.. thank you

  • @shaicarter1
    @shaicarter1 5 місяців тому +2

    😂😂😂😂 not the Vampire in Brooklyn. Hell yea that’s a classic. When he was the pastor and walked in the church and started smoking 💀💀💀💀💀. Wooooo shiettttt 😂😂

  • @BOBBYJTHEJOKER
    @BOBBYJTHEJOKER 6 місяців тому +8

    Both ex wives left me..i was safe guy, im now bad boy, much more fun, im not single, im not playing around anymore , but if she leaves , i wont cry again and i will be fine to find another, rough a the edges is now how i am, man you speak the truth ..u mastered bobby 101.. i talk this exact speech on my youtube channels. Youre the master of knowing women psychology.

  • @zubrickbullies3595
    @zubrickbullies3595 6 місяців тому +4

    What up OG … glad to see your live now . Been watching. Just want to pay tuition sir .

  • @AllahsChild-km4uc
    @AllahsChild-km4uc 6 місяців тому +7

    Big ward not going to lie, you are guiding me. Thank You

  • @victorboone2053
    @victorboone2053 6 місяців тому +29

    The story of my damn life. My dad was married and in the streets! He died unhappy though! My wife blew our marriage up! She grew up in a dysfunctional house hold. No excuse! I dont want her back!

    • @Job.Well.Done_01
      @Job.Well.Done_01 6 місяців тому +6

      Same here, bro. She blew ours up nuclear-level. Her dad was a cheater and an alcoholic chasing VVahmen around like his pants were on fire.

    • @erickonassis6310
      @erickonassis6310 3 місяці тому

      Mine too, did yours try to come back yet

    • @Al-Rob-ei1iu
      @Al-Rob-ei1iu Місяць тому +1

      @@Job.Well.Done_01dam
      Near sound like a ex I was with lol

  • @zugootsprevasio6595
    @zugootsprevasio6595 6 місяців тому +3

    No matter how righteous or good she is every woman wants a man with an edge to him. I had to learn the hard way that being the safe guy cause I always thought it wasnt a compliment for young women to put me in the Russell category lol. Nah id rather stay single than be a chics last choice. I think alot of guys being raised in a single mother home plays a part in the good guy because subconsciously we are taught that showing our primal nature is something to be ashamed of. Also not being laced properly by a strong father or uncles is why alot of men are gameless.

  • @quintonmaldonado8368
    @quintonmaldonado8368 6 місяців тому +23

    Ill be as good to people as they are healthy enough to receive. Other than that, if women reward dudes that do less and are less responsible to them who am i to try to change that. Ill just adjust my settings as necessary. Less is more with most of them so why negotiate in that scenario 😂. All you can do is finesse yourself. Ive been on both sides of the fence. Im glad im not finding these things out at 40+ like some dudes are.

  • @kidekho
    @kidekho Місяць тому +3

    Damn I was raised to be the safe guy, nah g, fuck these relationships

  • @tye1011
    @tye1011 6 місяців тому +4

    Big Ward i needed to hear this!! Thank you brutha💪🏾

  • @oaktown6508
    @oaktown6508 6 місяців тому +18

    Men do the same thing I don't mess with the same kind of the women I did when I was younger. I look for quality

    • @depy2762
      @depy2762 6 місяців тому +1

      Wrong and what does "quality" even mean when it comes to people?

    • @ShaferScott
      @ShaferScott 6 місяців тому

      @@depy2762 actually he’s correct, if you’re a smart man. When you’re young you chase after the 10s. The girls that post thirst pics on instagram, get attention from all the guys. If you want to settle down and have a happy marriage you don’t ever want to marry a girl like that. She will make your life difficult. You settle down with the girl who makes your life easy and shows you she cares, that will never be the 10 you chased.

    • @quintonmaldonado8368
      @quintonmaldonado8368 6 місяців тому +5

      But do they revert back at any given time like women low key want to? Id say in this case men won't blow up an entire life with someone over that. I think that's a scenario more likely with women.

    • @oaktown6508
      @oaktown6508 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@depy2762 so you still messing with the same kind of woman you were messing with when you were 18?

  • @SupaSmoothReels
    @SupaSmoothReels 6 місяців тому +4

    Once a woman sees that you all for her that’s when she starts tripping I know from experience crazy as it sounds you have to let a woman know you will leave because they are attracted to confusion 💯💯

    • @Al-Rob-ei1iu
      @Al-Rob-ei1iu Місяць тому

      They work for the devil 💯

  • @jeremylowe8154
    @jeremylowe8154 6 місяців тому +1

    Great live show big ward alot of Gems in that segment looking sharp like an og

  • @echooscar1914
    @echooscar1914 6 місяців тому +4

    Less is more. The lesser you make yourself available, the more desirable you are. The more you make yourself available, the less desirable you are. T

  • @TheScience1711
    @TheScience1711 6 місяців тому +6

    Yeah that don’t turn em on

  • @lurenzo774
    @lurenzo774 6 місяців тому +1

    Excellent point. She gotta hate how much she love you. Gotta give her that Ying and Yang.

  • @vincentjarvis601
    @vincentjarvis601 6 місяців тому +3

    True true true....Good luck tonight.....I know you will rock it.....

  • @bml2007
    @bml2007 6 місяців тому +3

    That sad truth that nobody wants to talk about

  • @ROD2REALTV
    @ROD2REALTV 13 годин тому +1

    Let’s not act like the Pookie and ray rays don’t have problems with women too see that’s the misconception about all of this. No matter what kind of man you are women will always be women. Only difference is the “Safe Guy” is he’s not getting put out of a women’s house when she’s tired unlike pookie don’t be fooled. That’s why a lot of y’all dudes are in a bad situation nowadays tryna be a bad boy

  • @shanikahenderson4644
    @shanikahenderson4644 2 місяці тому

    Facts!!! Unfortunately I picked the safe guy first and it still didn’t work out

  • @brotherskeeper2253
    @brotherskeeper2253 6 місяців тому +9

    I'm a safe guy, but not a fool.. I still get it everything the bad boy gets because got that pimping in me too. However I don't want her all as long as she's beneficial to my mission until I release her then that's all that matters. I don't play for keeps because I know most of these 304s aren't 💩 but I need them resources and support all day.

    • @dontraycollinz4167
      @dontraycollinz4167 6 місяців тому +1

      I’m 23 & one of the older heads I work with recommended I move like this..

  • @BOBBYJTHEJOKER
    @BOBBYJTHEJOKER 6 місяців тому +3

    Been both..its more fun being the bad boy that knocks the bottom out of it.

    • @Dragonian100
      @Dragonian100 6 місяців тому

      What you mean by knock the bottom out of it?

    • @inspectordred
      @inspectordred 6 місяців тому

      Lol

    • @KwstasMakariou
      @KwstasMakariou 4 місяці тому

      do you mean sex with condom ? All this talk about to much sex seems a little bit fantasy.....cause in nature if you have sex you get to have kids....if you are talking condoms, pills, abortions then you are accomplishing nothing....

  • @jerrodg938
    @jerrodg938 6 місяців тому +6

    Make sure yall hitting that bell for all notifications

  • @vee-mann6263
    @vee-mann6263 6 місяців тому +2

    💯 % CORRECT!!!

  • @rachael862
    @rachael862 6 місяців тому +1

    Where that guy introduce me to him lol❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂

  • @IYELLALOT-bb4bq
    @IYELLALOT-bb4bq 6 місяців тому +2

    Amen only thin I'm going to say is don't take them older than 30

  • @desmondmarshall7384
    @desmondmarshall7384 6 місяців тому +11

    Taking the safety exit of this relationship I am in.

  • @jtms1122
    @jtms1122 6 місяців тому +3

    MOBILE, AL STAND UP

    • @dantedee4682
      @dantedee4682 6 місяців тому +1

      Dante Dee from Mobile in the building.

    • @jtms1122
      @jtms1122 6 місяців тому

      @@dantedee4682 TWO FIVE ONE

  • @christyjohnson918
    @christyjohnson918 23 дні тому

    I have always picked the safe guy...not the guy for the streets. Never wanted that type of man...but they seem to love me...smh

  • @paulcooper-n2v
    @paulcooper-n2v 6 місяців тому +6

    Tupac spoke alot about female nature.

    • @brandonjackson3641
      @brandonjackson3641 6 місяців тому +8

      Right i remember that interview and him saying the female he like didn't like him because he was to nice smh🤦🏾‍♂️ and how woman start liking him because of his fame

    • @paulcooper-n2v
      @paulcooper-n2v 6 місяців тому +2

      @@brandonjackson3641 Yeah he spoke quite abit about female nature.

    • @steveStonehedge
      @steveStonehedge 6 місяців тому

      @@brandonjackson3641yup money changes so much it’s sad

    • @ROD2REALTV
      @ROD2REALTV 13 годин тому

      He also lost his life trying to be something he’s not

  • @dean7468
    @dean7468 6 місяців тому

    So true.

  • @Lovegod4821
    @Lovegod4821 6 місяців тому

    Your right wise up

  • @GoalsinGold
    @GoalsinGold 3 місяці тому

    Factz

  • @dalvincarter7262
    @dalvincarter7262 6 місяців тому +6

    M.O.B

  • @jaylensmith6746
    @jaylensmith6746 6 місяців тому +4

    Damn this one hit sound like me on both sides cuz now im single

  • @desserieshaw937
    @desserieshaw937 4 дні тому

    Hi big Ward ❤

  • @jemmac4664
    @jemmac4664 6 місяців тому

    Shoot! I missed the Live. I just came across you today. New subscriber. You're a natural! 🙌🏾 Would probably be interested in a mini-debate about this Safe Guy topic.

  • @brandon5118
    @brandon5118 6 місяців тому +2

    You can't win for losing with these modern day women these days. 😂

  • @lyndawest923
    @lyndawest923 6 місяців тому +1

    I had to laugh....😄

  • @asgplumbing781
    @asgplumbing781 5 місяців тому

    The one and only in the best big ward

  • @jamesroberts7115
    @jamesroberts7115 6 місяців тому

    U right about that I was safe guy twrice in both marriages and understood what women wanted. I had dated a high maintenance woman who didn’t want to get serious with me and she out there dating multiple men in her 61 years old girl mindset, just sad 🏃🏽‍♂️🏃🏽‍♂️🏃🏽‍♂️ never open the door to her again

  • @thatguyfromthe6eh649
    @thatguyfromthe6eh649 5 місяців тому

    Let Keep it a Buck BRO!!💯👍🏾

  • @Smuggler169
    @Smuggler169 6 місяців тому

    Sad but true.

  • @kevinali3700
    @kevinali3700 6 місяців тому

    Tell’em Ward!!

  • @DeaconChriss
    @DeaconChriss 6 місяців тому

    Bro vampire in Brooklyn is one of my favorite movies, along with The Golden Child lol

  • @jamesking906
    @jamesking906 4 місяці тому

    Big Ward, y don't u make a video on becoming a owner operator👍🏾

  • @Wisdom_Eqauls_Power
    @Wisdom_Eqauls_Power 6 місяців тому +3

    I'm down to come on your live show. I've got a good topic too

    • @demetrionmason7312
      @demetrionmason7312 6 місяців тому

      Make your own videos playa. All the topics you want to discuss😅😅

    • @Wisdom_Eqauls_Power
      @Wisdom_Eqauls_Power 6 місяців тому

      @@demetrionmason7312 his live show is to come on and ask questions about different topics player lmao 😂

  • @Louisiana71220
    @Louisiana71220 6 місяців тому +1

    tune in @7:30 tonight big ward on the grind let’s get it 💯

  • @Al-Rob-ei1iu
    @Al-Rob-ei1iu Місяць тому

    Matured=After they become baby mamas with emotional damage and baggage

  • @twinpyramid5985
    @twinpyramid5985 6 місяців тому +2

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @WhatHeSay979
    @WhatHeSay979 6 місяців тому +2

    No lie!!!!!!!!!!

  • @lastnightwasfun
    @lastnightwasfun 3 місяці тому

    18:23 hahahaha

  • @clarenceperkins1835
    @clarenceperkins1835 6 місяців тому +3

    Money over you already know

  • @art9820
    @art9820 6 місяців тому

    Hey Big Ward, I admire your intelligence and vision... I LIKE THE NAME "BIG WARD THE GENIUS" BIG WARD GO HARD DOES NOT SOUND GOOD and sounds more thuggish.
    Also keep announcing the day and time of your videos.
    You're doing an awesome job and I've learned a lot from you and I'm older than you.
    Stay Blessed and positive. Art

  • @TiffTiff365
    @TiffTiff365 Місяць тому

    I have to disagree with that. If he played his card then let him win and still don’t allow yourself to lose. Take the L and live. Rushing makes people break down. People jumping from one relationship to the next is the issue. Give yourself enough to detoxify if it’s part of who you are trust you will be ready to give if it’s proven to be reciprocated. I’m not dragging drama and I don’t want his. I want fun not fake. People are exhausted because there’s no patience.

  • @KwstasMakariou
    @KwstasMakariou 6 місяців тому +3

    Do you think sex with condom is a sin bruh ? Cause everybody talking about sex and body counts.....imagine how many kids these people would have had by now.....

  • @IYELLALOT-bb4bq
    @IYELLALOT-bb4bq 6 місяців тому +1

    You is 100% right once I stopped doing the opposite of that I can't keep them away. I always tell them I'm seeing someone else . That's why if I don't get them young I keep moving

  • @early_rsa
    @early_rsa 6 місяців тому

    Big ward 🤑

  • @tb22k
    @tb22k 6 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @Bandman717
    @Bandman717 6 місяців тому

    Future 🐐🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🎵🎶 #free bandz lol

  • @Ducati007
    @Ducati007 6 місяців тому +2

    Humm 😗

  • @Qwr345
    @Qwr345 6 місяців тому

    Facts

  • @BOBBYJTHEJOKER
    @BOBBYJTHEJOKER 6 місяців тому +2

    Nice guys bore them.

  • @steveStonehedge
    @steveStonehedge 6 місяців тому +5

    Sadly this is the truth , us naturally good hearted men who grew up right get mistreated . Eventually we must turn into the bad guy to get respect 🫡

  • @desserieshaw937
    @desserieshaw937 4 дні тому

    Your funny

  • @momosad9383
    @momosad9383 6 місяців тому +1

    Big warm what you’re contacts, I am trying to reach big homie.

  • @brandonnhunxho6772
    @brandonnhunxho6772 6 місяців тому +1

    The loyal guy is the safe guy. So basically distort your Good ways of life because of how a woman thinks about it? Thats the biggest disrespect to yourself.
    I think the idea is that being the “safe”guy or being “good” isnt a end all be all .
    Being a man a double edged sword. So it needs to be about you , not her. But this doesnt discredit the truths to this video.

  • @joshuamoon8335
    @joshuamoon8335 6 місяців тому +2

    Rick Ross car show 😂😂😂

  • @artarviustherealspill7333
    @artarviustherealspill7333 6 місяців тому

    Ward throwback vampire in Brooklyn ckadsii remember i think cheis rock ear fell off

  • @GsssssssSus
    @GsssssssSus 6 місяців тому

    #HYBRID🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • @KenroySentino
    @KenroySentino 6 місяців тому

    She doesn't have time to give her best to the safe guy she had her first crush her broke exes clapping her cheeks when in a relationship and her husband at work clapping cheeks at the hotel during lunch hours.

  • @fenderson2192
    @fenderson2192 6 місяців тому +2

    Women never mature

  • @Gurl_Lala
    @Gurl_Lala 6 місяців тому +1

    Are ladies invited

  • @gregpettis1113
    @gregpettis1113 6 місяців тому +1

    So basically have a split personality

  • @Gurl_Lala
    @Gurl_Lala 6 місяців тому +3

    Are ladies invited