How to Be Happy

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  • Опубліковано 18 сер 2018
  • How happy people think.
    Amazon: amzn.to/2MnepXX , Book Depository: bit.ly/2mEibyF
    Happiness. Resilience. Attitude. Is happiness in your genes or in your head? Is happiness a choice?
    How do we get a positive attitude? Here’s what I learned from my neighbor, Caroline … the conversation that led to my first book, “Being Happy!”
    It’s about what happy people know and how happy people think. The power of intention.

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  • @katieosborn6612
    @katieosborn6612 5 років тому +17

    I read Being Happy when it first came out, and loved it. I make a conscious effort to pick being happy over being miserable every single day, and I've done it since I first read the book. I still read it, when I need extra push. 😊

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  5 років тому +3

      Thank you, Katie. Well done for making the daily decision to be happy every day.

  • @fatemehbozorgi5017
    @fatemehbozorgi5017 4 роки тому +8

    Your books are wonderful Andrew. They helped me so much

  • @mahdiahmedmv
    @mahdiahmedmv 3 роки тому +2

    Thirty years ago, when I first read your book, 'BEING HAPPY,' I was a teenager with my state of mind off the rails. But when I finished reading it, I felt calm. My thinking was completely transformed. Fast forward to today, I am into my 50s, I am still guided by your book. Thank you for publishing it.

  • @shahrammakoui859
    @shahrammakoui859 7 місяців тому

    I just bought your 4th book & received it today: Bouncing Back …
    I have read Follow Your Heart, Happiness in Hard Times & How Life Works … They are all fantastic, and I have put to work for my life … I’m looking very much forward to reading Bouncing Back ❤️🙏🏻👍🏻

  • @dariowestern
    @dariowestern 5 років тому +5

    I bought this book in 1991, 3 years after it was published whilst I was suffering from a mental breakdown. It's helped me keep myself together with whatever adversities I have faced in my adult life. Thank you for what you have done for helping the populace choose happiness in their lives. Happy 30th anniversary to "Being Happy". :)

  • @tibormatyas5948
    @tibormatyas5948 4 місяці тому

    I read (and enjoyed) 3 of your books. And when I finished them, I started reading again. And again. Every month for a year. ;) They started a process in me. A very short time after reading your book: Being happy, my mother gave me a book (and audio listening) by Bela Balogh (Hungarian life coach). That one, combined with your perspective of life ended up in a summery: MY life changed a lot. (As the old joke says: my life had a 360 degreee turn).
    I felt I was given a whole new personaltily (of course, keeping my old memories, joys, sins, mistakes, errors).
    Since then I left my always-hated employee existance, and, risking everything, last September I started my own fast food buffet, which seems to survive (fingers crossed!)
    Thank you for your eye-opening thoughts, examples, stories, and funny cartoons! I hope, my remaining life will stay on this track (now 53).
    Life bless your help! ;)

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind message. Congratulations on your commitment - and for holding the vision of a better life. You should be so proud. I wish you great success with your fast food buffet! I am thrilled to know that my books have been helpful

  • @Daniel_Mueller
    @Daniel_Mueller Рік тому

    Thank you very much, Andrew, to find you here, it's so great.
    Many years ago I started to read your wonderful and beautiful book "Tu, was dir am Herzen liegt". Then suddenly this book went lost and I couldn't find it anymore, what made me very sad. So at least it makes me happy to found you here. Please forgive me for the weak English.

  • @robinkhoda6896
    @robinkhoda6896 5 місяців тому

    Hello Andrew, I read your book Being Happy. It is a wonderful book specially because it contains beautiful illustrations. To me this book is not only about happiness but also lessons from life. You perfectly discussed about how life is and what challenges we face every day. It is an eye opener. I definitely recommend this book for the young generation who want to be happy, content and successful in life.
    Cheers.
    From Toronto, Canada 😊

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  5 місяців тому

      Thank you, Robin. I am glad you found "Being Happy!" useful! Thank you for watching my videos. More coming. 😁

  • @Sunny23378
    @Sunny23378 Рік тому +1

    I’ve read Being Happy several times. I also read it every night before going to bed. Every chapter inspires me and has changed my attitude and my life so deeply. I’m a Korean reader so I was wondering how I could say thank you but today I happen to find this channel and I’m so glad.
    Actually this book had been bought by my father (I was a kid back then). So, technically, the book was kept in the bookshelf for almost 20 years or so. (I’m not sure) When I became an adult, I happen to start reading this book and then I got astonished by how a book written so long ago can be still applied to this day and age. I brainwash myself with this book whenever I’m depressed and blue. This book is the most precious one to me except for the bible. lol I’ve always wanted to say Thank You! Thank you for writing this book!!

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  4 місяці тому

      Thank you so much. I just saw your note - sorry I was so slow to reply! 🙏😊I have begun making more videos. I hope you enjoy them.

  • @cherubcortiguerra957
    @cherubcortiguerra957 Рік тому

    i read it in a bookstore 22, years ago. i buy only being happy in a nutshell ;-) it facinatea me,, enjoy reading it over & over... thanks for writing about it.. love

  • @SmallYouTubersBoost
    @SmallYouTubersBoost 3 роки тому +2

    You can even choose to be happy during a pandemic

  • @coraliewhite7877
    @coraliewhite7877 Рік тому

    Your book really helped me when I was at my lowest ebb many years ago, its one I always have and always will recommend and refer back to again and again, I love how its written and your others are just as great!

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  4 місяці тому

      Thank you so much Coralie. Just saw your note - sorry I was so slow to reply! 🙏😊

  • @mindp7
    @mindp7 Рік тому

    Luv your books, is simple yet very true, meaningful, empathetic, & funny.

  • @TS26
    @TS26 5 місяців тому

    I recently read your book Happiness Now and can't believe how underrated your books are. I so wanted a physical copy of it but unfortunately that particular book is not available in India. So I got 'Being happy' instead. Waiting to read it ❤. I still hope "Happiness Now" becomes available. Your books are one of the best guides I've read on living a happy life. I've highlighted so many quotes and reread them often. Your writing style is concise and unique.
    Love, from India

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  5 місяців тому

      Thank you for your kind words. I am happy to know my books have been helpful. 😊🙏

  • @Priyanka_270
    @Priyanka_270 Рік тому

    This is my most favorite book.

  • @antwoodward9973
    @antwoodward9973 3 роки тому +1

    Wow what a book. I read this about 20 years ago and almost every day since that I’ve been happy. Thanks so much Andrew you’ve helped change and shape the last 7,300 great days of my life!l

  • @patorilim266
    @patorilim266 Рік тому

    Being Happy Is one of those fun books that you always want to read as reminders. Thank You!

  • @trickledown9155
    @trickledown9155 2 роки тому

    Mr. Matthews... your books have changed my perspective of the world. I first bought your book "Being Happy" circa 1992? I also bought "Making Friends" (which I don't see on the video.) Thank you for your insight and guidance to a fan you never may meet. But... as a published author myself, I want to let you know that you are a true hero to me. My life would not have been the same had I not accidentally stumbled upon you books and wisdom. Bless you, sir. You are amazing!

  • @VacationImpossible
    @VacationImpossible 5 років тому +1

    I first read Being Happy as a teenager and it changed my life for the better. Last Christmas I ordered 6 copies of it from the Book Depository and gave them out as presents and continued to spread the happiness

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  5 років тому +2

      Thank you for your kind note and thank you for sharing my books!

    • @VacationImpossible
      @VacationImpossible 5 років тому +1

      I've got a couple copies floating around the office, they've become rather popular and are becoming a part of the corporate culture. How does one go about booking you for a keynote?

  • @soriyasreng1887
    @soriyasreng1887 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much Mr Andrew. Your books help me alot I feel better when I read your books.💕🙏

  • @shahrbanoosaeedi3416
    @shahrbanoosaeedi3416 Рік тому

    Your book helped me a lot

  • @Saturn-ek4xz
    @Saturn-ek4xz 3 роки тому +1

    I'm reading theys books from Uzbekistan.I love your books.Thanks a loooot😊You are a good, smart person👏

  • @hamidehfarid1229
    @hamidehfarid1229 Рік тому

    The first time that I got your book was to improve my English and I remember my teacher recommended it and we had to read 10 pages every session and give a summary, I remember I argued with my teacher and I said I can't give the class a summary because every single sentence in this book is important, she gave me a bad mark but I got the lessons I needed, I am happy that I have read your books and they have guided me, I love you from the bottom of my heart ❤️

  • @aprilsummer9706
    @aprilsummer9706 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this.

  • @salarsleman5030
    @salarsleman5030 3 роки тому

    Thank you very much for your books. They really helped me alot. When I feel bad ,I will go and read your books I will be happy immediately, your books are like medicine for me. I have follow your hard, being happy, happiness now. Best regards from Kurdistan - Iraq.
    Salar

  • @heidiwyeth4222
    @heidiwyeth4222 5 років тому

    Andrew, Your Being Happy book has been my little "Bible" for 20 plus years. I have given dozens to friends and family over the years. The "pocket" version is a fabulous little gift. Thank You.

  • @mpearlk
    @mpearlk 5 років тому +2

    Hi Andrew, thank you for your podcasts and thank you for your books. I read both Follow Your Heart and Being Happy and it has been the start of my journey into mindfulness and joy. The most important lesson that I have picked up during this journey that being happy or content requires effort. The good news is that the more you feel positive, the easier it becomes to put in that effort. It is the choice between being happy (or positive) and being miserable (or being negative). It is a matter of choice and I like that.
    It is what you said in one of your books: it is not so much what happens that makes you feel sad, but it is the thought of what happens that makes you feel miserable. Well, I have chosen for positivity and effort, and that is because I picked up "Follow your Heart now six years ago. Thank you Andrew.

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  5 років тому

      Thank you, Margaretha. Yes, happiness does require effort but we gather momentum and it becomes easier!

  • @pradyumnamishra1
    @pradyumnamishra1 3 роки тому

    I love all your books

  • @iammaximus614
    @iammaximus614 2 роки тому

    A Powerful…..📖
    a recommended for all who I share it with

  • @AnaMariaAlano
    @AnaMariaAlano 2 роки тому

    I was a very insecure teen when i first read this book. I’m now 47 and have reached self-actualization. The lessons I learned from this book was embedded in sub-concious and helped me overcome my struggles by being positive. Thank you Mr. Matthews for helping me to be a better version of myself 🤗

  • @wendyandong4893
    @wendyandong4893 5 років тому

    I have read Being Happy many years ago and I kept a copy. I have also gifted the books to a number of friends and they are all glad i gave it to them. Thank you!

  • @vasudhaLEO
    @vasudhaLEO 5 років тому

    I have read the book in 1991, since then I have become an ardent fan of your inspirational books n videos.

  • @aryasomya9099
    @aryasomya9099 4 роки тому

    I LOVE your books!

  • @relaniedator278
    @relaniedator278 4 роки тому

    Thank you sir andrew. I love your books too.

  • @adrianmedina3636
    @adrianmedina3636 2 роки тому

    Thank you very much 👍👍

  • @DrAashishMathesul1dentalclinic
    @DrAashishMathesul1dentalclinic 2 роки тому

    U had changed my life so so much… I cannot express…thank you

  • @kathylancaster4649
    @kathylancaster4649 5 років тому +1

    Hi Andrew, Yes I have all your books and read tem all the time. Yes being happy really helps and being grateful every day for all you have helps too. Thanks

  • @SharonHKim-bz7nx
    @SharonHKim-bz7nx 4 роки тому

    Dear Mr. Andrew Mattthew. OMG, it is so nice to “see” you here. When I was in NY, I bought your books (late 90s). They really helped me out adjusting in New York. Yes, I got MA degree although I had depression etc. I’d love to translate your books with joy since there are so many suicidal voices in (south) Korea. BTW, thank you for writing great books. :)

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you, Sharon. I am glad the books helped. Actually, my books have been translated and sold in Korea - I did a tour in Korea. Loved it!

  • @inggithandoko6804
    @inggithandoko6804 3 роки тому

    Hi Andrew! I am sooo happy to find you here. I am from Jakarta Indonesia. I have read your book Being Happy more that 10 years ago. I am sure it was a big leap in my life that I change my perception that I want to be happy..and it's a choice! 👍😁 but now I lost the book and have kept searching on it.. So will try to buy again 😃 and I really happy to find you here 😍

  • @brendakneipp5000
    @brendakneipp5000 5 років тому

    Have read all your books. They're easy, fun, and above all helpful in living a better happier life.

  • @ketansuthar_
    @ketansuthar_ 5 років тому

    One of the best thoughts on being happy..... I applied this and it really work like a magic.... Thanku Andrew

  • @stinsonmonrovia
    @stinsonmonrovia 2 роки тому

    finally a video of you

  • @sonnyboyhaitana
    @sonnyboyhaitana 5 років тому

    Thank you Andrew.....i have your book....love it . Keep up the great work..cheers
    Rod Haitana

  • @AlexGusnawan
    @AlexGusnawan 5 років тому +1

    Hi Andrew, i love your books

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  5 років тому +1

      Thank you Alex. More videos coming.

    • @AlexGusnawan
      @AlexGusnawan 5 років тому +1

      Andrew Matthews Yes Andre, hope you are healthy and happy always 👍❤️

  • @Hardeneer
    @Hardeneer 4 роки тому +1

    This guy's voice is like some voice assistant

  • @michudelgadillo7128
    @michudelgadillo7128 4 роки тому

    Estoy leyendo porfavor sea feliz

  • @ivonekarsten8271
    @ivonekarsten8271 5 років тому

    Eu amo seus livros, seus ensinamentos e a pessoa que você é... muito inspirador. Gratidão por nos ensinar o valor da Felicidade. Acredito, porém, que Caroline tem algo a ser trabalhado, pois a tendência quando somos felizes é atrair coisas boas... E ela vem atraindo coisas desagradáveis. Talvez esses desastres sejam o presente do Universo para que ela tenha sempre uma melhora na sua vida, porém... ouvindo esse exemplo fiquei de fato em dúvida se Caroline não está presa num ciclo de coisas ruins e fica feliz por isso. Forte abraço.

  • @bqmsrh
    @bqmsrh 2 роки тому +1

    Have I read it? It's my bible!

  • @JoseAntonio-iv8ky
    @JoseAntonio-iv8ky 2 роки тому

    Y Caroline también triunfó, mejoró su calidad de vida como tu después de esa platica?

  • @mr_wrongway
    @mr_wrongway 5 років тому +3

    Hi Andrew! I really like Your books and they helped me live a more fulfilling life. Currently I will be going to an interview at Tesla where I never dreamed I'd be without a college degree :) all the best

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  5 років тому +1

      Thank you! Wishing you every success with your interview.

    • @mr_wrongway
      @mr_wrongway 5 років тому

      Andrew Matthews that-s the best blessing I could get! Thanks!!!

    • @mr_wrongway
      @mr_wrongway 5 років тому

      @@AndrewMatthewsAuthor the interview went well, now I'm waiting for an abswer ;)

    • @mr_wrongway
      @mr_wrongway 5 років тому

      @@AndrewMatthewsAuthor Update: I got the Job! Woohoo!!!

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  5 років тому +1

      That is just wonderful. Congratulations. You should be so proud of yourself. This is just the beginning!

  • @banimarcelriveromirellis1053
    @banimarcelriveromirellis1053 5 років тому +2

    Hello Andrew. I just wanna tell you that you books are my favorites ones, everytime i did read one of them, i just felt a magic misterious enthusiasm that i didn't felt before reading a book, and when i was close to the end of every book, i just slowed down the velocity of the lecture, because i didn't wanted to finish it, for me, the books was too good to finish the lecture, it was like a good movie that you don't want to watch it ending. Finally i realised that i could read it again and again, and thats what i'm doing righ now. Thank you for sharing your way of thinking this way.

    • @AndrewMatthewsAuthor
      @AndrewMatthewsAuthor  5 років тому

      Thank you for sharing your story. I am thrilled to know that my books have been helpful.

  • @albertembry5730
    @albertembry5730 2 роки тому

    I had read till year 2000, making friends

  • @elainepietrangelorodrigues147
    @elainepietrangelorodrigues147 5 років тому

    meu primeiro livro foi, siga seu coração, eu conheci andrew mattews assim, eu ouvi em uma radio regional, que sempre lia um trecho desse livro e amor a primeira vista

  • @xuanthanhvu5666
    @xuanthanhvu5666 Рік тому

    hi, I would like to bye this book in France language but I couldn't find it, do you have somme advice please?

  • @elainepietrangelorodrigues147
    @elainepietrangelorodrigues147 5 років тому

    eu sou do Brazil

  • @88LindaLu88
    @88LindaLu88 5 років тому

    I'm still loving the book Being Happy. First time I read it was when I was living in Australia and I was 16 years old. You actually put a comment I wrote, on the first page of your new edition! I was so happy you included it! Thanks for spreading wisdom in such a fun and practical way! Greetings from Chile :)

    • @88LindaLu88
      @88LindaLu88 5 років тому

      BTW, I love this short video and the phrase of "tired of being miserable". It's also a phrase I can't get out of my head :)

  • @vireesaluja6985
    @vireesaluja6985 4 роки тому

    Love u ❤️ please visit India we all love you

  • @AndrewMatthews
    @AndrewMatthews 3 роки тому

    Awesome video. Love the books 👏🙏