How Often Do You Challenge Your Biases? | Reverse Assumptions

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  • Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
  • It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series, Reverse Assumptions.
    We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to make assumptions about their partner's appearance without ever actually seeing their partner. When they flipped around to finally face each other, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 355

  • @tauhirrahim5957
    @tauhirrahim5957 6 років тому +2264

    THAT'S THE AWKWARD KISS GUY

  • @yeolhc
    @yeolhc 6 років тому +665

    ITS JOSH THE GUY FROM THAT AWKWARD KISS SHOW WTFFFFF

  • @SxmmiV
    @SxmmiV 6 років тому +546

    wow the awkward kissing guy has a good heart helping people thats good

  • @beulaho
    @beulaho 6 років тому +385

    Let's recognise Josh as someone *more than* just the awkward kisser from that video everyone saw. He runs a non-profit for the homeless - that's lovely!

    • @Chellyofficial
      @Chellyofficial 6 років тому +2

      fosho no doubt!

    • @Aughal
      @Aughal 6 років тому +8

      He has extremely empathetic eyes and facial expression.

    • @anayalator_221
      @anayalator_221 6 років тому +3

      He was also on the doctors. The refrigerDATEtor episode

    • @0111ulquiorra
      @0111ulquiorra 6 років тому

      😂😂😂

    • @SpamNeggs23
      @SpamNeggs23 6 років тому

      Ohhhhhhh okay that’s where I know him from!!!!

  • @lar.8168
    @lar.8168 6 років тому +682

    Omg tis Josh the kissing bandit. He should be the next Bachelor

    • @brandymathews6488
      @brandymathews6488 6 років тому +1

      LaR. I would totally watch that! I doubt he'd change his mind last minute like Arie did. I knew I didn't like him from the first episode 😂.

    • @lar.8168
      @lar.8168 6 років тому

      Arie sucked, hate that guy. Boring

  • @immasi8922
    @immasi8922 6 років тому +972

    Is Josh the akward kissing guy?!?!

  • @alexx036
    @alexx036 6 років тому +312

    Damn it's sad that everyone recognizes him as the awkward kissing guy 😂😂

    • @mightyambassador4189
      @mightyambassador4189 6 років тому +6

      He brought it upon himself. He could've avoided it if he would've just taken charge of the situation.

    • @asitas
      @asitas 6 років тому +1

      who is that? I'm very confused...

    • @rationalsatan3546
      @rationalsatan3546 6 років тому +2

      ua-cam.com/video/dBo5-6WotEM/v-deo.html

    • @nawara2431
      @nawara2431 6 років тому

      Alexx Osuji omg kang seulgi 😍😍😍😍

  • @JeweleryPower
    @JeweleryPower 6 років тому +147

    That girl should go into audio books or something her voice is really soothing use it

    • @Regimeshifts
      @Regimeshifts 6 років тому +1

      more like talking you to sleep business. i would definitely but the audio

    • @korisx
      @korisx 5 років тому +2

      So is the guys voice she was partnered with

    • @MsShellectable
      @MsShellectable 4 роки тому

      ASMR!

  • @Jemike5
    @Jemike5 6 років тому +246

    Zuzu is so cool. Her take on a University degree not making as much money as a server is so accurate. I dig her facial expressions and there communication style.

    • @samuelcella9038
      @samuelcella9038 6 років тому +1

      Jemike5 their

    • @mjade1673
      @mjade1673 6 років тому +4

      Ive heard if you dont speak at least one other language Communications is not what to go for. (So somebody shouldve told her that) She needs to find her passions.
      A degree alone doesnt guarantee u a future. U have to not just work for it u have to work and PLAN for it

    • @mjade1673
      @mjade1673 6 років тому

      Have u tried o net? Tell everyone about it 👍

    • @mjade1673
      @mjade1673 6 років тому

      Figure out if you're Realist(doer). Investigative(thinker). Artistic(creative). Conventional(organizer). Enterprising(persuader). Social(helper).
      And thats just one way to access jobs. I am Investigative/Artistic and so its hard for me to niche. The jobs it listed me were incredible! A lot of green options👍👍.
      I live with a Doer/Helper and it listed all her interests plus gave extra career ideas.
      We put Investigative for my sister and her passion was on the list, forensics.
      Then you can click on each career listed and get an incredible run down. School needed. Job tasks. Which job habits(values) it lines up. Which skills you will need. Etc etc. Its the best!!

    • @vivaglamnadia
      @vivaglamnadia 6 років тому +3

      i love her voice its so calming

  • @sarahboden
    @sarahboden 6 років тому +212

    OHMYGOD THE AWKWARD KISSING GUY

  • @kaylabrown5449
    @kaylabrown5449 6 років тому +231

    As soon as the video started
    "That's the guy!!!!"
    *referencing the awkward kissing guy

  • @appleberry2000
    @appleberry2000 6 років тому +33

    she has a very calming voice

  • @bensmith8333
    @bensmith8333 6 років тому +99

    People think I'm a huge stoner.... I'm actually just tired a lot

    • @jaxd7206
      @jaxd7206 6 років тому

      Ok

    • @melopsicodelia
      @melopsicodelia 6 років тому +1

      ben smith hahahahahaha 🍁

    • @ilovesparky13
      @ilovesparky13 6 років тому +1

      If this doesn't describe me, then I don't know what does.

    • @yuhz1m1
      @yuhz1m1 6 років тому

      sleep apnea? Or some other form of sleep disordered breathing?

    • @krismydear
      @krismydear 6 років тому

      😅😂

  • @Chellyofficial
    @Chellyofficial 6 років тому +29

    Had a blast being a part of Soul Pancake's Reverse Assumption series! Thanks for watching everyone - @lifebychelly

  • @user-ct8pd1pw2n
    @user-ct8pd1pw2n 6 років тому +16

    0:26 her voice is so soothing

    • @1through949
      @1through949 6 років тому

      I Write A Song Every Day fr

  • @nobodynobody5093
    @nobodynobody5093 6 років тому +108

    Zuzu is so gorgeous😍😍

    • @DavidBlaze420
      @DavidBlaze420 6 років тому +1

      she even sounds so sweet, full package!

  • @rudimental8917
    @rudimental8917 6 років тому +95

    Reading the comments did he say "oh boy" because he recognised him? Hahaahahah

  • @abhinavrishi8031
    @abhinavrishi8031 6 років тому +12

    Chelly would be a good dude to hang out with. Chill vibes.

  • @JustAFace_InTheCrowd
    @JustAFace_InTheCrowd 6 років тому +27

    The guy in the leather jacket looks like an Indian version of Brendon Urie. Oh my goodness, I’ll take 3 of him pls. 😍😍😍

  • @thesunrising4982
    @thesunrising4982 6 років тому +17

    Chelly has the coolest voice ever 💣💣 like you could voice characters with that

    • @Chellyofficial
      @Chellyofficial 6 років тому +4

      Ayyeeee appreciate that - my voiceover agent would love hearing that!

  • @MundGamers
    @MundGamers 6 років тому +100

    This dude is doomed as the cringe kiss man.

  • @Fernando-fr5cu
    @Fernando-fr5cu 6 років тому +14

    This is the best UA-cam channel bar none!

  • @aimenmekaret5482
    @aimenmekaret5482 6 років тому +46

    -OMG he is not shy anymore- 😂

  • @bakad5458
    @bakad5458 6 років тому +140

    God damn Dan is so attractive!

  • @MLSoll
    @MLSoll 6 років тому +21

    hmmm Dan....;) The way he said Hi Zuzu at 3:13 was quite cute

  • @TrollProductionsMC
    @TrollProductionsMC 6 років тому +13

    The comments section:
    - The awkward kissing guy
    - Zuzu is cute

  • @yourmajesty7012
    @yourmajesty7012 6 років тому +36

    Omg he thought she was 40 something

  • @hileah2989
    @hileah2989 6 років тому +82

    I feel bad that everyone makes fun of josh when he’s actually a really good person:// but at least he got publicity?

  • @bubblybubble2048
    @bubblybubble2048 6 років тому +50

    omg, this is the guy from the most cringy kiss ever!

  • @nightfrost1891
    @nightfrost1891 6 років тому +9

    dan... more like DAMN

  • @dwikapurba3818
    @dwikapurba3818 6 років тому +304

    My future wife will be as calming and sweet as Zuzu!

    • @mckennatwogood8654
      @mckennatwogood8654 6 років тому +21

      ew

    • @sebastianelytron8450
      @sebastianelytron8450 6 років тому +16

      Is this meant to be ironic? You literally just assumed that from a 5 minute video.

    • @Myobatsu
      @Myobatsu 6 років тому

      Zum Zum

    • @TheRealAmyJane
      @TheRealAmyJane 6 років тому +10

      i feel bad she didnt do anything w her degree and instead settled to just please a man & have kids tbh

    • @ivonapetrovic2084
      @ivonapetrovic2084 6 років тому +10

      You sound like you need a therapist, not a wife. lol But she really seems smart and interesting character, I did like her the most here.

  • @madisonmartin1944
    @madisonmartin1944 6 років тому +16

    Josh has great posture

  • @MissySimpleM
    @MissySimpleM 6 років тому +95

    People always assume I'm not good at exercise/sports because I'm plus sized. I used to get annoyed when new people would see me dancing, in the gym, at some group fitness class or doing some kind of outdoor sports activity and they'd have this shocked look on their face, or even go up to me and tell me that wow I'm so good...they weren't expecting that. Now I just find it funny.

    • @andrews278
      @andrews278 6 років тому +7

      Body acceptance has gone too far. Fat people are dying, not beautiful.

    • @MissySimpleM
      @MissySimpleM 6 років тому +11

      Well at least there'll be less of us so you can finally be happy, huh? :-*

    • @Braxant
      @Braxant 6 років тому +5

      They were probably thinking: "Goddamn, how many calories does she consume if she works out and still manages to be collossally fat? 5000? Maybe even more"
      That's assuming you genuinely work out, not like that fatbody from my fat fabulous life or whatever it's called.

    • @MissySimpleM
      @MissySimpleM 6 років тому +6

      I would dare argue that I am indeed healthier than a person that does not exercise, and that exercise does still have an effect on my body, even though it has not made me into a size 2.
      As I'm not really willing to post my medical history online, you would have to take my word for it, but as you have already formed your opinion on my health(lol), just based on some words you read, I know you won't believe me... and that's okay, because your opinion doesn't affect the truth.
      And plus, have you ever heard of a thing called FUN. I know. Shocking. But people do exercise for fun, just sayin'.

    • @kemz3945
      @kemz3945 6 років тому

      In order to be good at exercising your diet would be clean and you'd be fit, or at least not on the plus side like you said. But then it depends what your definition of exercise is.
      Aside from that, I don't think being overweight should matter when it comes to playing sports or dancing.

  • @Hubris1998
    @Hubris1998 6 років тому +23

    Lol that's the awkward kissing dude

  • @KonDragon008
    @KonDragon008 6 років тому +2

    It was interesting hearing at the end with them talking about trying to put a face to the voice. I'm autistic, and if I have to talk to someone over the phone, I have no image at all in my head of what they might look like. Could just be me and where I am on the spectrum (people experience autism differently even though we all meet the same criteria), and because I also have face blindness.
    Like...I'll listen to some UA-camrs who don't show their faces often and not even wonder what they look like...then they'll use a facecam once or twice and I'll be like "oh...huh". When it comes to chatting online, I recognize people by their user icons (so when they change them, it confuses me).
    I like these social experiments, because I always learn a lot from them.

  • @Otakuhannah121
    @Otakuhannah121 6 років тому +22

    ISN'T THE GUY IN THE ORANGE SHIRT FROM THAT VINE WHERE HE HAD THE MOST AWKWARD KISS?!?!?!? 😂😂😂

  • @mjade1673
    @mjade1673 6 років тому

    I like Chelley. He seems so comfortable and well rounded. Im betting hes an analytical thinker. Like that. And he seems so nice. Like he can put people at ease. And then the baby face. Who could go wrong with that. How could you be mad at that face 😍

    • @Chellyofficial
      @Chellyofficial 6 років тому

      Wow that is so sweet of you to say - very kind and thoughtful! Appreciate it!

  • @ruhsaanjones4750
    @ruhsaanjones4750 6 років тому +2

    I like Dan's voice and his facial expressions are so interesting.

  • @katrineogmai
    @katrineogmai 6 років тому +24

    Omgggggg that kissing guy!!

    • @ybraga7738
      @ybraga7738 6 років тому

      Mai Rehnberg what is ment with kissing guy? :D which video is it?

    • @katrineogmai
      @katrineogmai 6 років тому +2

      he was in this show called "love at first kiss" and he went viral because he had never kissed somebody and it was soooo cringy and awkward!!!

    • @ybraga7738
      @ybraga7738 6 років тому

      Mai Rehnberg oh okay :D I'm from germany so I might not know this show! But thanks for the explanation, I'll probably search it on UA-cam haha :D

    • @katrineogmai
      @katrineogmai 6 років тому

      Yeah just search "love at first sight cringe" then it should pop up!

    • @ybraga7738
      @ybraga7738 6 років тому +1

      Mai Rehnberg it did. I shouldn't have seen that. Made me feel embarrassed only by watching it :D

  • @victoriaSantorsiero
    @victoriaSantorsiero 6 років тому +4

    THE AWKWARD KISS GUY

  • @xXTheRedrubyXx
    @xXTheRedrubyXx 6 років тому +8

    I feel kind of dumb for thinking that the definition of bias meant for this video had anything to do with who's ones bias

  • @katie1647
    @katie1647 6 років тому +4

    The entire comment section is filled with everyone recognizing the awkward kissing guy hahaha!

  • @aesthete7227
    @aesthete7227 6 років тому +2

    *THE GIRL IS SO PRETTY 💜💜💜💜*

  • @apoynta9858
    @apoynta9858 6 років тому +20

    Hi Dan 😍

  • @notmaac
    @notmaac 6 років тому

    the man, the legend, Josh. was tottaly surprised to him and a whole different light.

  • @makalakelley536
    @makalakelley536 6 років тому +7

    HEY THAT GUY IS FROM THAT SHOW AND HE IS AN AWKWARD KISSER

  • @notyourpieceofcake
    @notyourpieceofcake 6 років тому +2

    Zuzu's DROP DEAD GORGEOUS!

  • @invullnerablee
    @invullnerablee 6 років тому +1

    I think an episode where we dont see the people and are able to make our own assumptions would be really interesting. I wonder how I would think they look like only by hearing their voice and conversations. Dont know how that would be filmed though and the reactions to the comments about their looks are funny too:D

  • @kledhs2890
    @kledhs2890 6 років тому +1

    Josh is a really good person.

  • @bozkurtbozok4597
    @bozkurtbozok4597 5 років тому +1

    She is breathtaking.

  • @dwikapurba3818
    @dwikapurba3818 6 років тому

    How can you guys only have 2M subs????? I am genuinely baffled!!

  • @joshuahiggins6999
    @joshuahiggins6999 6 років тому +1

    Omg Zuzu seems like such a nice person!

  • @biancab2399
    @biancab2399 6 років тому +9

    Dan looks a bit like Christopher Nolan.

  • @Regrets.Sunsets
    @Regrets.Sunsets 6 років тому

    I was born and raised in Maine. I was so shocked when Zuzu said she was born in my home state. I wasn’t expecting that. 😱

  • @mariellenstathopoulos967
    @mariellenstathopoulos967 6 років тому

    One second in and I’m already SCREAMING AAAAAHHHHHHH

  • @woopwoop8897
    @woopwoop8897 6 років тому +8

    The girl sounds like Emma from Glee😂

    • @nightfrost1891
      @nightfrost1891 6 років тому +1

      and she also kind of looks like her with the big eyes, change up the hair and we have a look alike

  • @Isekuube
    @Isekuube 6 років тому +2

    BRO HE’S THE AWKWARD KISS GUY OMFG

  • @sophiem7791
    @sophiem7791 6 років тому +1

    OMF ITS JOSH I LOVE JOSH! I have a feeling it was staged though he seems like a cool guy

  • @Venoseth
    @Venoseth 6 років тому +2

    Their assumptions weren't all that wrong, assumptions are shortcuts to save time.

  • @WhatIsItToBurn
    @WhatIsItToBurn 6 років тому +4

    I have no biases, I dislike everyone.

    • @Participant
      @Participant  6 років тому +3

      Lol well that's one way to think of it...

  • @alainadacosta1222
    @alainadacosta1222 6 років тому

    Zuzu's voice and gentleness reminds me of Emma from Glee (who was one of my favorites). She seems really sweet

  • @teddj514
    @teddj514 6 років тому

    AWESOME THE AWKWARD KISSING BRO!!

  • @NatalieMacdonald769769
    @NatalieMacdonald769769 6 років тому

    IS THIS JOSH FROM THE FIRST KISS VIDEO? BLESS HIS HEART, HE'S SO SWEET

  • @vxrychxrry
    @vxrychxrry 6 років тому +3

    OH MY GOD IT'S HIM

  • @isabellagarcia6748
    @isabellagarcia6748 6 років тому +2

    ITS THE FIRST KISS GUY

  • @TitanSea
    @TitanSea 5 років тому

    Zuzu looks like actress Charlotte Le Bon. She also has a really pleasant voice.

  • @Loralis_
    @Loralis_ 6 років тому +4

    THATS THE GUY OMG

  • @jacobtrang833
    @jacobtrang833 6 років тому

    It that the awkward kisser haha josh you crack me up

  • @sustainablysiera
    @sustainablysiera 6 років тому +43

    What's Dan's insta?

  • @alecbih
    @alecbih 6 років тому +2

    Josh is in this 😂😂

  • @SAli-uh3qr
    @SAli-uh3qr 6 років тому

    Love these kind of videos❤️❤️❤️

  • @matthewfx8715
    @matthewfx8715 6 років тому +1

    Your Awesome I love your videos I'm your biggest fan!! ❤️

  • @sweetlove3391
    @sweetlove3391 5 років тому

    Is it maybe an idea to have a series with just only a black screen and hearing the voice from someone who is introducing him or herself? So we viewers can play along with this game. In the end of the video, he she just the face.

  • @ProDoc18
    @ProDoc18 6 років тому

    THE AWKWARD KISSING GUY!!!!!

  • @embiguous
    @embiguous 6 років тому

    that awkward guy and zoella lmao this is great

  • @br4dy1998
    @br4dy1998 6 років тому +3

    Hahahaha it’s that dude that kissed the chick on the cheek

  • @TheMrabee5
    @TheMrabee5 6 років тому

    It is fun to watch... But at the same time it is really thoughtful from the creators :) would be great to try it :D

  • @wanda6483
    @wanda6483 6 років тому +1

    dan really reminds me of darry from the outsiders

  • @JeweleryPower
    @JeweleryPower 6 років тому

    THE KISSSSS DUDEEEEEEEEEEE

  • @vanesad1355
    @vanesad1355 6 років тому +2

    OMG OMG ITS THT GUY AHHHHHHH LOL

  • @jackjones3657
    @jackjones3657 6 років тому

    Very cool! She was especially wonderful

  • @alvinromero2003
    @alvinromero2003 5 років тому

    Chelly and josh is my most favorite is always corrects

  • @sadman2090
    @sadman2090 6 років тому +1

    Is it just me or do josh and chelly look like they can be brothers? And it’s crazy because they are totally 2 different races like wow I am gobsmacked.

  • @jaysopariwala820
    @jaysopariwala820 6 років тому

    In your science of happiness videos you showed us lots of good things but can you show me how just talking about anything (not specifically positive or negative) just anything can help improve our mood positively.

  • @rrequel7257
    @rrequel7257 6 років тому +1

    awkward kissing dude... my guy josh... *tears*

  • @sumthinsnazzi78
    @sumthinsnazzi78 6 років тому

    I really loved this one ♥♥

  • @Keepmeinstitches
    @Keepmeinstitches 6 років тому

    People assume I am shy and really I’m just antisocial and don’t like to really be bothered.

  • @youhan9460
    @youhan9460 6 років тому +1

    Eh eh Josh ... 8 remember him ...oh god

  • @kaylaholmes1018
    @kaylaholmes1018 5 років тому +1

    I’m proud to know I have no clue who this awkward kissing guy is lol

  • @Sonix1239
    @Sonix1239 6 років тому +3

    Ayyy it’s that awkward kissing guy!

  • @chloemay5392
    @chloemay5392 6 років тому

    Hahahahhaha jesus the second I saw Josh hahahahahahahahahahaha if I turned around and saw him I would burst into laughter

  • @wishheaven7735
    @wishheaven7735 4 роки тому

    she is so beautiful

  • @queensigal
    @queensigal 5 років тому

    I can't believe anyone can make more money waitressing than with a communication degree.
    Nor can I understand how anyone wait tables for a living and be able to study and graduate university .
    The high pitch voice is killing me.

  • @mackenziekranitz4567
    @mackenziekranitz4567 6 років тому

    JOSH the awkward kiss guy!!

  • @noorabbas706
    @noorabbas706 5 років тому

    Dan is cool for visiting my homeland Kuwait !!

  • @CarolinaCastroParra
    @CarolinaCastroParra 6 років тому

    OMG that's so sad... well it's been really hard for me to find a job with my communication degree but is sad to listen to her say she realized she earned more as a waitress...

  • @carliesmith7272
    @carliesmith7272 6 років тому

    Vegan tofucken lady!!!!!! I love her and her fabulous smile!

  • @cekatoo
    @cekatoo 6 років тому +1

    Why is everyone wearing converse

  • @makennakeliarose7063
    @makennakeliarose7063 6 років тому +1

    The dark skin guy with a black leather jacket is cute

  • @NinaGriffi
    @NinaGriffi 6 років тому +1

    JOSH