I didn't want to put a downer in this video, but Heathen is still missing. I'm still hoping and calling and walking the yard, shedding skin cells. Thank you so much for asking and caring about him. It's getting pretty cold at night here, so I'm hoping someone took him in so he's warm and fed, at least. Nobody has seen him everywhere I call and ask, though. Again, thank you!
That is a worry. On the up side I once gave a stray cat that I had taken in to my sister who lived an hour away and he went missing. Two months later he turned up at my back door. Its early days and Heathen may turn up yet.
We are all rooting for you and feel like we are with you on this journey. I've never seen so many people, so happy for another person on any youtube channel. It shows that 1. You are an inspiration and 2. The world is not full of cynics and haters. Thank you for being someone that shines a light on the goodness of humanity. Congratulations on so much success!
Awwww I am so so sorry . I didn't realize he was missing till tonite. I know the pain and the heartache for I lost one of mine last year. It's been over a year now and I still wonder about him :( I pray that Heathen finds his way home......
Congratulations with the weight-loss!! Weight just seem to melt away when we get into Alignment with ourselves. Amazing, isn't it. Not to mention the 20 000 subscribers!!! See? We told you so... I remember when it was just a few hundred of us... Well done!! Keep going. : - D xxx
What a great idea! Brenda, I think you should write a little book about your cats as their characters are fab. My prayers are with you as you wait for Heathen to come back. Just imagine the adventures he may have to tell you:-) xx
I'm so happy that you got your pillows! I hope to be able to send you a card soon, just to say Hi and let you know that someone is thinking about you and that you are not alone! :)
Beth Wade, If she sleeps better due to pillows (and gets ill less due to the build up pillow adverts talk about causing issues!), then she will be more able to be more independent quicker due to sleeping better and thus having restorative sleep each night! If she doesn't get ill as often, less down time, less hospital visits/rubbish meds with side effects, and less likely to lie down on the pillows that caused or contributed to her illness in the first place. You are a star!
I started watching your videos a few days ago, now this new one..I've noticed such a big change in you :) You seem happier. I'm so happy for you and I'm sure your other subscribers are just as proud and happy of you as well.
Was thinking the same thing! Brenda seems much lighter in spirit and overall more positive. Also, she's become kinder to herself, which is awesome, and gives me hope I can be nicer to myself with positive life changes I'm currently making. :)
So proud of you Brenda - I came across your videos by accident and I have since followed you religiously been following your progress and have been celebrating every single achievement. My mother is going thru the same process as you and we (Mum and myself) have been using your videos as inspiration for her to start her journey towards as she quotes "re-joining the front line". Again many thanks for your videos and I hope you continue to share your successes with us. Greetings from New Zealand.
your channel has become so much more than cleaning it has shined a light on those wonderful people in the world like your son the lady who send money for the pillows its a ray of hope in sometimes a sad world thank you so much for sharing your story!!
Please don't stop. I someday want to see you touring the country showing people how they can fight their own battles. Life long habits are so hard to break and I tend to dwell on setbacks more than staying positive but you are so inspirational! Keep up the good work!
That's awesome. I totally agree. We all have issues and most of us keep them hidden because of shame. Just because someone looks like they have their shot together on the outside, the inside could be in shambles. I'm one of them.
it's amazing and you're amazing! i don't think you realize what an inspiration you are to a lot of people. myself included. I am still struggling every day to get my house in shape. I was doing okay but have completely stopped. The only thing I can really keep up with is the dishes and that's to make sure we're all fed. My son just started school, and you would think that I would use that time to clean, but really, I just end up sleeping.. I think I am making up for all the sleep missed lol. anyways, I need to get myself back in the motion of cleaning and watching and rewatching your videos helps.. thank you for that.
Hey!!! You're doing to the dishes all the time!!! YAYYYY!!! That's awesome!! We don't have to be right on top of everything all the time. Just nudging a few things along in front of us is a wonderful thing, too! Thank you for your wonderful words!!
You should watch BBC Obsessive Compulsive Cleaners here on UA-cam. Not to say Brenda isn't inspirational herself, but I've never cleaned my home more than after watching those videos.
Hi, Brenda. Here it is 1 30 at nite. I can't seem to sleep. I love listening to your voice, if your kitties could talk they would sound sweet like you. I want to say I am recovered from Lyme disease and can relate to pain. You have inspired me to get rid of my piles. My house is clean but I have accumulated stuff I don't need. So much to be thankful for. My 15 year old has Down Syndrome and she is a blessing. She loves cats. Has no use for dogs. We love watching you and want you to know we consider you like an old friend. Amazing how many truly wonderful people there are in this world. LOVE Amy and Amani in Minnesocold.
Hugs. You're very welcome! Spoonies need to stick together. I knew patreon did not do the "one time" gift. So, I am not worried at all about donating a tiny bit each month. I wish it were more. Hugs. Love the pillow story. I'm a pillow lover too. Hugs again. Ty for your continued inspiration ❤❤
My New Me a spoonie is someone with health issues. :) It comes from a story of a woman trying to explain living with chronic health issues to her healthy friend. Google Spoonie story and read it- it explains it much better! :)
Brenda you are doing an amazing job! We are all so proud of you! I can't believe the difference in you since the first video you put up! I wish you much success with youtube!!
Oh Brenda, I'm so happy for you and to see a new video. I felt like I was sitting on your back porch with you and the queen lady sipping coffee and talking about this, that, and everything. Lol pillows!!! I so get it. Paper towels and pillows are a luxury sometimes. But soooo appreciated when they arrive. 😀
pillows do make a better life .Me and my husband got new pillows 3 daysago and wow ,i love them.we got the most fluffy .enjoy your new pillows,and we will enjoy ours.lov your channel.
Hi Brenda, glad your doing well, lots of love from Perth West Australia. New Pillows are the best, it's the little things that mean the most . Love and Hugs to you and yours.👏👏❤️❤️😎
No Brenda. . . . YOU rock! Its so refreshing to see such positivity and support from strangers that just like you for you. Good things will happen for good people.
New pillows! How great! Omygosh wish I could have seen your sons face when he opened the pillows!My daughter and her husband just gave each other pillows for their anniversary.
So happy to see a new video! I am so proud of you for taking charge of your home and doing what you have been to be healthy and happy. I don't have $ for a donation yet but I would love to send you something via p.o box! So happy for you! ^_^ yay.
Hi Brenda and boy! Thanks for the information I've been-waiting for this video and the garage!!!i was in the first 1000 and I hope part of the family,love from Blackpool uk jannisxxxx
well people can go "oh she lives in this city!" and then look at the background of her videos and find landmarks to figure out where she lives (which is pretty easy to do) Privacy is important when you have a youtube channel. People have done crazy things to youtubers after finding out their addresses.
I know Jenna Marbles and Julian Solomita just had this issue of people invading their privacy. Julian just made a video about it. I would be upset if people constantly were at my door wanting pictures and autographs.
No one deserves new pillows more than you. You look brighter and lighter with each new video which I always do a little happy dance when a new one comes through. You have so many people cheering you on!!
Hello Brenda and son it's great seeing ur video please continue with more video I enjoy watching u ok now take care and god bless u and ur son from Raymond in Yonkers New york❤️✌️🙏🏼🌺
thank you for the vids i'm from the uk and suffer depression and lately its been so hard to clean my house as i have have other illnesses i'm all better with that but with being sick i have been inactive and that adds to my depression then theres the whole messy mind messy house and viser verser so i ws looking for vids to help and found yours and right now you've helped me clean my living room, my balcony and they were a total mess i have just finished my fish tank!!!!! i never do that on my own coz its to hard for me but i did it god bless you and thank you!!! for your help NEVER GIVE UP OR GIVE IN xxxx
WOW!! You have been really busy!! A garage sale, AND you filmed it?!? Brenda, you are amazing!! Look at what you have done in such a short time! AND lost seven pounds too! You deserve some kudos girl!! And I have so much to thank you for, being brave enough to step into this new direction for one! And making me get some things done as well! Just listening to your sweet, kind voice brings my blood pressure down and I go into a wonderful state of well-being, and I thank you for that! Keep up the good, HARD work, and keep petting those kitties! You are awesome!
It's nice to see someone refreshingly natural, down to earth and doing ok. I love those new pillows, your cats are adorable, and you and your son seem like lovely people. You deserve good things; so enjoy the blessings that come your way. 🙋🏻💕🙋🏻💕
Yammer away! It's been missed. Keep up the good work, it's all up hill. Hoping heathen shows back up. May health and happiness be with you and your son.
I am so happy for you. Your life is changing for the better. It just shows the world is full of light, hope, and wonderful people .Continued prayers and hugz.🐱🐱🐱
Pillow are so important for proper sleeping, so what a great choice to make when it can help your life a little better. A good reminder that we should all do even small things to make our lives better. New curtains too which I like much better.
Great to see your doing well sweet lady. I am praying for the kitty to return home safe. I have had some of my outdoor cat wander off for several weeks (never know why) the kitty will return soon. Take care for now 😀
I love new pillows , I'm sorry your cat Heathen has not yet returned but I'm sure he will soon as our tom cat went missing for months then turned up one day a little raggy but fine tom cats do have the tendancy to wander off on missions! thank you for sharing your videos, I'm glad you have managed to reclaim your home back depression is a awful desease but I'm glad your feeling much better
I love getting new pillows. 😊. It's the small comforts in life to be appreciated ❤️. Life is good. I hope you find your kitty.... they are family. Nothing wrong with being safe... smart girl. 😉. You are going to be very busy tweeting. Lol. Good luck Brenda 🙏🏻
My new me, hey, I think your name is Brenda. I have watched a few of your videos & find you very encouraging. I also used to have a nice home & wore my body just about out. Now I am unable to hold down a job, my life & home are SO not what they used to be. Want so bad to get them back, especially since the granddaughter that I raised is coming home to Ga. this summer for a visit WITH her significant other to introduce him to everyone!!!!! I'm so excited, nervous & really antsy about our home! Keep doing what you are doing. I love your channel!
Brenda so nice to see how happy you are now.Love your new pillows they were much needed for you.I am glad you had a garage sale.I bet that made you feel even better.Your voice is so pleasant.I am glad you got a P.O.Box I will be able to send something to you.You take care .I can't wait for more vlogs.Margaret from Florida.👍😀🌹
Wow Brenda! So many updates! Welcome to Twitter, and PayPal! Love watching your channel, and am so inspired watching how far you've come. Thank "the Boy" for us, he's obviously a huge inspiration for you! It only gets better with time, right? Something my Grandmother always said to me. Toodles! LOL 😀
So nice to you again! I'm going to keep good thoughts and prayers coming for Heathen to come home. And triple "yays!" on the garage and garage sale - hang in there with the editing - I'll enjoy it when it comes out. You ROCK!!
Brenda, Was glad to see your update and learn your first name. Noticing something different in your bedroom....it looks great! You are keeping up...and I HOPED I saw Heathen in the right corner of your room; hope he has a good new home. Your cats are so lovable. Callie loves being brushed. Happy you and Boy got pillows and for your effortless weight loss. I bet the pillow donator had no clue of the significance ☺.
your voice sounds stronger. I can hear the confidence!!! love it! Now, I can wait to get my stuff together and organized, so I have time to mail you a thank you note for the inspiration! YEAH PO BOX!
Sorry about Heathen. My daughter used to be the worst at sneaking cats inside. She is a cat magnet! They used to stay for a while then would slip out. I told her they were just visiting and it was time to go home. Hopefully you are right and someone has him inside. Your room looks great ,as do you! Yeah on the seven pounds! God bless
Thank you. It's hard when you don't know if they're ok or not. And thanks for the great words!! I probably ate back 10 pounds in chocolate cake, though. lol
Brenda, another plus to your awesome videos, AWESOMELY positive comments. So much love on one channel. So very refreshing. Take your time editing, your videos are so worth the wait. :D
Pillows are a little luxury aren't they? I love cuddling with new pillows :) I think so many of us watch you because you're so honest and down to earth which is refreshing! Thank you for sharing with us. ♡
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us!! I was trying to slog through my mess when I found your videos. They've helped me so much to get a game plan and keep going!! FYI, my old gray Emma is now 15 yrs old. She was found as a stray when she was about a yr old. Hopes and prayers that Heathen has also found a wonderful, loving home!
Hey, Brenda! I noticed the weight loss while you were on the bed showing us your new fluffy pillows. Your bed looks so cozy with the pillows and comforter. I love how you were able to surprise the boy with his pillows. He is such a great kid! I was hoping Heathen had made his way home. I'm still praying. I'm glad you got your PO Box, Paypal and Twitter account set up. I don't use Twitter but I can still enjoy your videos on UA-cam. I've probably watched each video 20 times but they really do motivate me to get busy on my home. I'm so grateful you shared them. {{{Love, Hugs & Prayers}}}
It looks like you're becoming more comfortable with putting yourself on camera. I know that you're in all of your videos, but it seems like this one you truly slowed things down and put yourself out there. Thanks for the many wonderful updates and I sure hope that your fur baby shows up soon!
Brenda, it's so good to see you doing better. Don't know if you've noticed that or not but you've changed quite a bit since that first video. You give me hope! When I can I will gladly join the patron group. Finances here are tight too. Just know you're helping me with every video!💟
It's so good to see you on those fluffy pillows! Thank you to the people out there who are willing and able to help others. It's nice to know good people do exist in this crazy world. :)
So glad to say that you got the PO Box… I was happy for you about the pillows… That is lovely… Sorry to hear that he didn't still missing… I hope to be able to send you something soon… Love you
Congratulations on the weight loss. I know it is a struggle-been there and always fighting the battle of the bulge! You new pillows are awesome and so happy for you and your son. I am sorry to hear Heathen is still missing-keeping you all in my prayers that he comes back home and you continue to feel better. Hugs and love to you and your family-can;t wait for the next video.
Thanks for the update !! I look forward to your videos !! Happy to have your PO Box !! I am looking forward to your coming videos !! New pillows are always wonderful!! So happy that you both got new ones !! Your channel is just a positive place to visit !!
You are such a lovely person you have something quite unique here on UA-cam you and your furbabies are a breath of fresh air keep doing what you do because you are good at it! I have never seen a channel grow so fast. Lovely to see you again I look forward to your uploads
It's the little things that can mean so much....new pillows are wonderful. You deserve all the happiness in the world. You have inspired me so much with your honest glimpse into your life. I wanted to ask about Heathen but didn't want to pry. I hope he comes home and if he doesn't, I hope he's found a good family who love him and take care of him. The not knowing is so hard though, I know. Thank you so much for sharing =)
All the love here is a special thing. There's nothing I can say that hasn't been said already, but I want to reiterate that you are a special gem of s human. Thank you for sharing.
Hi there! I love your videos! I suffer from depression and anxiety and frequently my apartment is messy and unorganized as a result. Anytime I want or need cleaning motivation/inspiration I watch your videos. Thank you for motivating me on days when I have trouble even getting out of bed. You are a phenomenal human being and you are making a big difference in alot of lives by posting these videos. 😊😉👏👏👏👏👏👏
I'm SO glad I stumbled upon you channel !!! It's like you are my twin ! I know that sounds weird coming from a guy !!!! Health issues, cleaning issues, joining the rest of the world issues ( LOL ), self esteem issues, money issues !!! I love your perspective on it ALL !!! YOU ARE SO MOTIVATING !!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR SON !!! Please, continue to ramble on, and your sense of humor!!! 😊😊😊
My husband and I use to get our kids new pillows at Christmas also. It is a great way to make your Christmas sooo comfortable. I'm glad you got new pillows.
So glad that you've gotten a p.o.box!!! You're videos inspire me so much! I deal with fibromyalgia and ra among other things, and just thinking about doing anything that requires too much physical activity makes my body ache. I admire your fortitude, and your positive outlook! You're a joy to watch on nights it's difficult to sleep! God bless!
I love your videos. They make me smile every time. New pillows are a luxury. Our son bought us some a few months ago. We all got new. Still lovin' it every night!
It is always so nice to see an update from you, Brenda! Thanks for sharing your special journey with us! I'm on my way to follow you on Twitter! Still saying prayers for Heathen! ♥ Jenny
Seven pounds! Way to go. Yummy cake. I'm glad the yard sale is done. While some people find people cleaning an already clean house encouraging I think many of us prefer seeing how real it gets when you're chronically ill and how to come back.
I didn't want to put a downer in this video, but Heathen is still missing. I'm still hoping and calling and walking the yard, shedding skin cells. Thank you so much for asking and caring about him. It's getting pretty cold at night here, so I'm hoping someone took him in so he's warm and fed, at least. Nobody has seen him everywhere I call and ask, though. Again, thank you!
My New Me sorry to hear that 😔
That is a worry. On the up side I once gave a stray cat that I had taken in to my sister who lived an hour away and he went missing. Two months later he turned up at my back door. Its early days and Heathen may turn up yet.
My New Me. I'm sad to hear Heathen is not back home, yet. I'm still holding out hope.
*broken heart*
It's very worrying, x fingers he will be home soon. I have a cat who is 14, thankfully she doesn't venture from the garden.
We are all rooting for you and feel like we are with you on this journey. I've never seen so many people, so happy for another person on any youtube channel. It shows that 1. You are an inspiration and 2. The world is not full of cynics and haters. Thank you for being someone that shines a light on the goodness of humanity. Congratulations on so much success!
Deidre Lee you are absolutely correct!
Deidre Lee So very well said💞
Perfectly said!!
Deidre Lee , well said!!
Deidre Lee Amen!
These comments just touch me so much. I'm grinning madly through happy tears!! Thank you!!
We love you because you are a wonderful person who is sincere and honest and so very inspiring. God bless you.
We adore you and your journey!😅🍁🌾💚✨
Awwww I am so so sorry . I didn't realize he was missing till tonite. I know the pain and the heartache for I lost one of mine last year. It's been over a year now and I still wonder about him :( I pray that Heathen finds his way home......
Congratulations with the weight-loss!! Weight just seem to melt away when we get into Alignment with ourselves. Amazing, isn't it. Not to mention the 20 000 subscribers!!! See? We told you so... I remember when it was just a few hundred of us... Well done!! Keep going. : - D xxx
I've seen people comment on how nice your voice is, and I couldn't help thinking about how nice it would sound if you narrated children's books.
Will Travel For Sushi Great idea!! You are so right!!
Oh wow. Thank you!! I could put the kids right to sleep for the parents. lol
Great idea!
What a great idea! Brenda, I think you should write a little book about your cats as their characters are fab.
My prayers are with you as you wait for Heathen to come back. Just imagine the adventures he may have to tell you:-) xx
I would absolutely buy an audio book for my girls if she narrated!
Hi Brenda! Listening to you is like listening to an old friend.
OhYeahWhoSays WhyNot? I so agree....Brenda, your voice is so comforting....just like hearing from a friend from years ago
Meshelle Dooley I agree
I'm so happy that you got your pillows! I hope to be able to send you a card soon, just to say Hi and let you know that someone is thinking about you and that you are not alone! :)
Miss Beth you are such a sweet lady! You are a blessing! This was such a touching video!
Beth Wade, If she sleeps better due to pillows (and gets ill less due to the build up pillow adverts talk about causing issues!), then she will be more able to be more independent quicker due to sleeping better and thus having restorative sleep each night! If she doesn't get ill as often, less down time, less hospital visits/rubbish meds with side effects, and less likely to lie down on the pillows that caused or contributed to her illness in the first place. You are a star!
Beth Wade your so awesome!!! :)
I am a bit of a pillow hoarder....I love pillows!!!! So, I can really appreciate your new beautiful pillows!!!
I started watching your videos a few days ago, now this new one..I've noticed such a big change in you :) You seem happier. I'm so happy for you and I'm sure your other subscribers are just as proud and happy of you as well.
Was thinking the same thing! Brenda seems much lighter in spirit and overall more positive. Also, she's become kinder to herself, which is awesome, and gives me hope I can be nicer to myself with positive life changes I'm currently making. :)
yes!!!
So proud of you Brenda - I came across your videos by accident and I have since followed you religiously been following your progress and have been celebrating every single achievement.
My mother is going thru the same process as you and we (Mum and myself) have been using your videos as inspiration for her to start her journey towards as she quotes "re-joining the front line". Again many thanks for your videos and I hope you continue to share your successes with us. Greetings from New Zealand.
J Groenveld hehehe...rejoining the frontline! I love it, and tell your mum Holly says Hello from Texas!
I love that phrase, too!! Double YAY to both you and your mom. And please tell her I said Hi and I love her words!!
your channel has become so much more than cleaning it has shined a light on those wonderful people in the world like your son the lady who send money for the pillows its a ray of hope in sometimes a sad world thank you so much for sharing your story!!
Please don't stop. I someday want to see you touring the country showing people how they can fight their own battles. Life long habits are so hard to break and I tend to dwell on setbacks more than staying positive but you are so inspirational! Keep up the good work!
Thank you!! This is something I would have never thought of. But it is so easy to dwell on setbacks. I'm so happy I help!! Thanks again!
That's awesome. I totally agree. We all have issues and most of us keep them hidden because of shame. Just because someone looks like they have their shot together on the outside, the inside could be in shambles. I'm one of them.
I've been looking forward to a new video and this one warmed my heart to tears! Love it! 😅💖✨🍁💚🌾✨
Stacey Karen Pugh if
+Ruth Kelly If, what?? I'm puzzled.
I always feel so sad when your videos are done. And I'm praying for Heathen to return. Thank you Lord!
Aww....I don't want to make you sad!!! Thank you for thinking of Heathen!!
Me too...I just want to visit more with you.
it's amazing and you're amazing! i don't think you realize what an inspiration you are to a lot of people. myself included. I am still struggling every day to get my house in shape. I was doing okay but have completely stopped. The only thing I can really keep up with is the dishes and that's to make sure we're all fed. My son just started school, and you would think that I would use that time to clean, but really, I just end up sleeping.. I think I am making up for all the sleep missed lol. anyways, I need to get myself back in the motion of cleaning and watching and rewatching your videos helps.. thank you for that.
Hey!!! You're doing to the dishes all the time!!! YAYYYY!!! That's awesome!! We don't have to be right on top of everything all the time. Just nudging a few things along in front of us is a wonderful thing, too! Thank you for your wonderful words!!
You should watch BBC Obsessive Compulsive Cleaners here on UA-cam. Not to say Brenda isn't inspirational herself, but I've never cleaned my home more than after watching those videos.
Hi, Brenda. Here it is 1 30 at nite. I can't seem to sleep. I love listening to your voice, if your kitties could talk they would sound sweet like you. I want to say I am recovered from Lyme disease and can relate to pain. You have inspired me to get rid of my piles. My house is clean but I have accumulated stuff I don't need. So much to be thankful for. My 15 year old has Down Syndrome and she is a blessing. She loves cats. Has no use for dogs. We love watching you and want you to know we consider you like an old friend. Amazing how many truly wonderful people there are in this world. LOVE Amy and Amani in Minnesocold.
This is so wonderful!! Please tell Amy I said Hi and that she rocks for loving cats!! And thank you for such kind words!!
Hugs. You're very welcome! Spoonies need to stick together. I knew patreon did not do the "one time" gift. So, I am not worried at all about donating a tiny bit each month. I wish it were more. Hugs. Love the pillow story. I'm a pillow lover too. Hugs again. Ty for your continued inspiration ❤❤
I don't know what a Spoonie is, but thanks!! lol Every little bit helps and I truly appreciate it!
My New Me a spoonie is someone with health issues. :) It comes from a story of a woman trying to explain living with chronic health issues to her healthy friend. Google Spoonie story and read it- it explains it much better! :)
Brenda you are doing an amazing job! We are all so proud of you! I can't believe the difference in you since the first video you put up! I wish you much success with youtube!!
Thank you so much!!
Oh Brenda, I'm so happy for you and to see a new video. I felt like I was sitting on your back porch with you and the queen lady sipping coffee and talking about this, that, and everything. Lol pillows!!! I so get it. Paper towels and pillows are a luxury sometimes. But soooo appreciated when they arrive. 😀
That is so true on the paper towels!! Thank you for the wonderful words!!
pillows do make a better life .Me and my husband got new pillows 3 daysago and wow ,i love them.we got the most fluffy .enjoy your new pillows,and we will enjoy ours.lov your channel.
Hi Brenda, glad your doing well, lots of love from Perth West Australia. New Pillows are the best, it's the little things that mean the most . Love and Hugs to you and yours.👏👏❤️❤️😎
It really is. Thank you so much!!
No Brenda. . . . YOU rock! Its so refreshing to see such positivity and support from strangers that just like you for you. Good things will happen for good people.
New pillows! How great! Omygosh wish I could have seen your sons face when he opened the pillows!My daughter and her husband just gave each other pillows for their anniversary.
Pillows are a great gift, aren't they? I wish the boy would let me film him. lol
So happy to see a new video! I am so proud of you for taking charge of your home and doing what you have been to be healthy and happy. I don't have $ for a donation yet but I would love to send you something via p.o box! So happy for you! ^_^ yay.
Hi Brenda and boy! Thanks for the information I've been-waiting for this video and the garage!!!i was in the first 1000 and I hope part of the family,love from Blackpool uk jannisxxxx
You inspired me to tackle a mountain of laundry that I was avoiding. Thank you and you go girl
Thank you!!
Po box in other city is s good thing, smart woman.
I'm not from the United States, why is a mail box somewhere else good?
well people can go "oh she lives in this city!" and then look at the background of her videos and find landmarks to figure out where she lives (which is pretty easy to do) Privacy is important when you have a youtube channel. People have done crazy things to youtubers after finding out their addresses.
I know Jenna Marbles and Julian Solomita just had this issue of people invading their privacy. Julian just made a video about it. I would be upset if people constantly were at my door wanting pictures and autographs.
I hope this answers your question :)
No one deserves new pillows more than you. You look brighter and lighter with each new video which I always do a little happy dance when a new one comes through. You have so many people cheering you on!!
Hello Brenda and son it's great seeing ur video please continue with more video I enjoy watching u ok now take care and god bless u and ur son from Raymond in Yonkers
New york❤️✌️🙏🏼🌺
Thank you, Raymond!! I'm working on more!!
"I'm twittering, not twittering, I don't know what I'm doing" 😂 that made my day
lol I really don't know.
thank you for the vids i'm from the uk and suffer depression and lately its been so hard to clean my house as i have have other illnesses i'm all better with that but with being sick i have been inactive and that adds to my depression then theres the whole messy mind messy house and viser verser so i ws looking for vids to help and found yours and right now you've helped me clean my living room, my balcony and they were a total mess i have just finished my fish tank!!!!! i never do that on my own coz its to hard for me but i did it god bless you and thank you!!! for your help NEVER GIVE UP OR GIVE IN xxxx
WOW!! You have been really busy!! A garage sale, AND you filmed it?!? Brenda, you are amazing!! Look at what you have done in such a short time! AND lost seven pounds too! You deserve some kudos girl!! And I have so much to thank you for, being brave enough to step into this new direction for one! And making me get some things done as well! Just listening to your sweet, kind voice brings my blood pressure down and I go into a wonderful state of well-being, and I thank you for that! Keep up the good, HARD work, and keep petting those kitties! You are awesome!
How is it possible for a story about pillows that can make me cry!?
awwww......
Me too... wasn't sure if I was going crazy or not. Glad to know someone else shares my craziness!
I'm glad I'm not the only one, I felt kinda silly xD
I’m always happy when I see you have a new video up. I’m sorry to hear Heathen is still missing. I hope he comes home soon. Take care.
You're looking so much more relaxed! Love listening to you.
It's nice to see someone refreshingly natural, down to earth and doing ok. I love those new pillows, your cats are adorable, and you and your son seem like lovely people. You deserve good things; so enjoy the blessings that come your way. 🙋🏻💕🙋🏻💕
I always enjoy your videos! Thank you for sharing your life with us ☺
Awww how sweet! New pillows! How kind of the viewer! Love you so much Brenda!
Yammer away! It's been missed. Keep up the good work, it's all up hill. Hoping heathen shows back up. May health and happiness be with you and your son.
There is just something shining about you Brenda. Your outlook on life is golden. I wish you all the best.
I am so happy for you. Your life is changing for the better. It just shows the world is full of light, hope, and wonderful people .Continued prayers and hugz.🐱🐱🐱
You go Brenda! 7 pounds Wow!!
Pillow are so important for proper sleeping, so what a great choice to make when it can help your life a little better. A good reminder that we should all do even small things to make our lives better. New curtains too which I like much better.
Great to see your doing well sweet lady. I am praying for the kitty to return home safe. I have had some of my outdoor cat wander off for several weeks (never know why) the kitty will return soon. Take care for now 😀
I love new pillows , I'm sorry your cat Heathen has not yet returned but I'm sure he will soon as our tom cat went missing for months then turned up one day a little raggy but fine tom cats do have the tendancy to wander off on missions! thank you for sharing your videos, I'm glad you have managed to reclaim your home back depression is a awful desease but I'm glad your feeling much better
I love getting new pillows. 😊. It's the small comforts in life to be appreciated ❤️. Life is good. I hope you find your kitty.... they are family. Nothing wrong with being safe... smart girl. 😉. You are going to be very busy tweeting. Lol. Good luck Brenda 🙏🏻
My new me, hey, I think your name is Brenda. I have watched a few of your videos & find you very encouraging. I also used to have a nice home & wore my body just about out. Now I am unable to hold down a job, my life & home are SO not what they used to be. Want so bad to get them back, especially since the granddaughter that I raised is coming home to Ga. this summer for a visit WITH her significant other to introduce him to everyone!!!!! I'm so excited, nervous & really antsy about our home! Keep doing what you are doing. I love your channel!
Brenda so nice to see how happy you are now.Love your new pillows they were much needed for you.I am glad you had a garage sale.I bet that made you feel even better.Your voice is so pleasant.I am glad you got a P.O.Box I will be able to send something to you.You take care .I can't wait for more vlogs.Margaret from Florida.👍😀🌹
Wow Brenda! So many updates! Welcome to Twitter, and PayPal! Love watching your channel, and am so inspired watching how far you've come. Thank "the Boy" for us, he's obviously a huge inspiration for you! It only gets better with time, right? Something my Grandmother always said to me. Toodles! LOL 😀
I want to come back here again and again! Thanks Brenda for Your simple sincerity that is so rare & really important
Thank you Brenda for sharing your journey with us xxxx
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So nice to you again! I'm going to keep good thoughts and prayers coming for Heathen to come home. And triple "yays!" on the garage and garage sale - hang in there with the editing - I'll enjoy it when it comes out. You ROCK!!
So happy you're doing well! It's wonderful to know someone blessed you with new pillows! You definitely deserve it!
Brenda, Was glad to see your update and learn your first name. Noticing something different in your bedroom....it looks great! You are keeping up...and I HOPED I saw Heathen in the right corner of your room; hope he has a good new home. Your cats are so lovable. Callie loves being brushed. Happy you and Boy got pillows and for your effortless weight loss. I bet the pillow donator had no clue of the significance ☺.
Your voice is so calming. It's like catching up with an old friend. Love hearing about your daily life.
your voice sounds stronger. I can hear the confidence!!! love it! Now, I can wait to get my stuff together and organized, so I have time to mail you a thank you note for the inspiration! YEAH PO BOX!
Thank you so much! And Yay on getting your stuff together. It feels so nice once it's done!
Sorry about Heathen. My daughter used to be the worst at sneaking cats inside. She is a cat magnet! They used to stay for a while then would slip out. I told her they were just visiting and it was time to go home. Hopefully you are right and someone has him inside. Your room looks great ,as do you! Yeah on the seven pounds! God bless
Thank you. It's hard when you don't know if they're ok or not. And thanks for the great words!! I probably ate back 10 pounds in chocolate cake, though. lol
Brenda, another plus to your awesome videos, AWESOMELY positive comments. So much love on one channel. So very refreshing. Take your time editing, your videos are so worth the wait. :D
really glad to hear about your pillows, it's so kind of that donator, hope you and the boy enjoy them!
Hi Brenda. You should be so proud of how far you have come!! It's so wonderful to witness you discovering your new you! X
Pillows are a little luxury aren't they? I love cuddling with new pillows :) I think so many of us watch you because you're so honest and down to earth which is refreshing! Thank you for sharing with us. ♡
You are a good Mom! I love the pillow gift idea. I'm happy about your new pillows. I admire you.
I am so happy for you. Nothing beats a nice new pillow. Happy The Boy got pillows too. He is a lovely son. Enjoy your cake. Take care ☺
Yay for you Brenda! Don't forget to give yourself the credit, you did it!
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I think you are doing a perfectly wonderful ,Harding working job and re-organizing your life. God Bless you
Pillows are so important! I’m looking for new ones too. They provide much needed comfort and rest.
At long last - a new video! Been looking forward to it. You've got a friend from the Philippines🇵🇭
Yay!!! Thanks!
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us!! I was trying to slog through my mess when I found your videos. They've helped me so much to get a game plan and keep going!! FYI, my old gray Emma is now 15 yrs old. She was found as a stray when she was about a yr old. Hopes and prayers that Heathen has also found a wonderful, loving home!
Your comforter is beautiful. Your new pillows are perfect. Love your purple accents. Great job keeping your room neat and tidy!!!!
Hey, Brenda! I noticed the weight loss while you were on the bed showing us your new fluffy pillows. Your bed looks so cozy with the pillows and comforter. I love how you were able to surprise the boy with his pillows. He is such a great kid! I was hoping Heathen had made his way home. I'm still praying. I'm glad you got your PO Box, Paypal and Twitter account set up. I don't use Twitter but I can still enjoy your videos on UA-cam. I've probably watched each video 20 times but they really do motivate me to get busy on my home. I'm so grateful you shared them. {{{Love, Hugs & Prayers}}}
It looks like you're becoming more comfortable with putting yourself on camera. I know that you're in all of your videos, but it seems like this one you truly slowed things down and put yourself out there. Thanks for the many wonderful updates and I sure hope that your fur baby shows up soon!
Brenda, it's so good to see you doing better. Don't know if you've noticed that or not but you've changed quite a bit since that first video. You give me hope! When I can I will gladly join the patron group. Finances here are tight too. Just know you're helping me with every video!💟
I'm SO Happy For You! Things are looking up! So glad you have a P.O. Box now! Sending you Hugs!
Very nice room. Love the color of the sheets.
It's so good to see you on those fluffy pillows! Thank you to the people out there who are willing and able to help others. It's nice to know good people do exist in this crazy world. :)
That's a nice gift, and memories. You will enjoy them! I am a new me too....three years in.... life gets better and better.
So glad to say that you got the PO Box… I was happy for you about the pillows… That is lovely… Sorry to hear that he didn't still missing… I hope to be able to send you something soon… Love you
Just keep on yammering 😉 keep up the good work Brenda it's great to witness your progress and your cute cats. Have a nice week.
Congratulations on the weight loss. I know it is a struggle-been there and always fighting the battle of the bulge! You new pillows are awesome and so happy for you and your son. I am sorry to hear Heathen is still missing-keeping you all in my prayers that he comes back home and you continue to feel better. Hugs and love to you and your family-can;t wait for the next video.
Thanks for the update !! I look forward to your videos !! Happy to have your PO Box !!
I am looking forward to your coming videos !!
New pillows are always wonderful!! So happy that you both got new ones !!
Your channel is just a positive place to visit !!
You are such a lovely person you have something quite unique here on UA-cam you and your furbabies are a breath of fresh air keep doing what you do because you are good at it! I have never seen a channel grow so fast. Lovely to see you again I look forward to your uploads
You have just been added to my Christmas list!
Your bedroom looks beautiful! That's wonderful you have such a wonderful gift! Love the video. Thanks for sharing!🙏💟💗💖💕💞❤️💙💚💛💜💓😄
Thank you!! It's so nice now!
It's the little things that can mean so much....new pillows are wonderful. You deserve all the happiness in the world. You have inspired me so much with your honest glimpse into your life. I wanted to ask about Heathen but didn't want to pry. I hope he comes home and if he doesn't, I hope he's found a good family who love him and take care of him. The not knowing is so hard though, I know. Thank you so much for sharing =)
You are doing so well, keeping your bed so nicely dressed, even though it means clambering over it to do the corners. It looks lovely. Well done!
Thanks!! It's so much nicer to flop on when it's made!! lol
All the love here is a special thing. There's nothing I can say that hasn't been said already, but I want to reiterate that you are a special gem of s human. Thank you for sharing.
Awwwww, I'm so happy that you got new pillows, that just makes life so much sweeter!
Hi there! I love your videos! I suffer from depression and anxiety and frequently my apartment is messy and unorganized as a result. Anytime I want or need cleaning motivation/inspiration I watch your videos. Thank you for motivating me on days when I have trouble even getting out of bed. You are a phenomenal human being and you are making a big difference in alot of lives by posting these videos. 😊😉👏👏👏👏👏👏
I'm SO glad I stumbled upon you channel !!! It's like you are my twin !
I know that sounds weird coming from a guy !!!! Health issues, cleaning issues, joining the rest of the world issues ( LOL ), self esteem issues, money issues !!! I love your perspective on it ALL !!!
YOU ARE SO MOTIVATING !!!!
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR SON !!!
Please, continue to ramble on, and your sense of humor!!! 😊😊😊
My husband and I use to get our kids new pillows at Christmas also. It is a great way to make your Christmas sooo comfortable. I'm glad you got new pillows.
What a busy lady you are. You rock, Brenda❤❤
Brenda, I wish you lived near me. I would enjoy having you as a neighbor and friend! Great job on how far you've come!
So glad that you've gotten a p.o.box!!! You're videos inspire me so much! I deal with fibromyalgia and ra among other things, and just thinking about doing anything that requires too much physical activity makes my body ache. I admire your fortitude, and your positive outlook! You're a joy to watch on nights it's difficult to sleep! God bless!
You make me smile!! Thanks for sharing! I Like how you make me giggle.🤣😆🤗
Brenda, I hope you don't stop utube all together. I enjoy you so,so much!
I love your videos.
They make me smile every time.
New pillows are a luxury. Our son bought us some a few months ago. We all got new. Still lovin' it every night!
What a thoughtful gift!
Lovely to hear from you.
Tfs & take care
It is always so nice to see an update from you, Brenda! Thanks for sharing your special journey with us! I'm on my way to follow you on Twitter! Still saying prayers for Heathen! ♥ Jenny
So good to hear from you! Happy you got some new comfy pillows for the boy and yourself. They look great!
Big 👍for the weight loss! And especially for celebrating with chocolate cake! Treating yourself once in a while is good for the soul!
Seven pounds! Way to go. Yummy cake. I'm glad the yard sale is done. While some people find people cleaning an already clean house encouraging I think many of us prefer seeing how real it gets when you're chronically ill and how to come back.
Prayers for Heathen to come home