🌷 What’s one practical strategy you commit to try this week? 🌷 P.S. Can I ask a favor? I’d love for you to share your wisdom and personal advice on how you deal with frustrations in motherhood in the comments so we can be a resource and blessing to other sisters in Christ.
If someone does find out please let us all know especially as Christian’s because I struggle with anger and cussing a lot and that cannot be instilled as a mama and I am no longer allowing that in myself I just don’t know how to change when I’m barely recognizing my own actions and behaviors as of late. Step one is to recognize patterns but to move on forwards from there idk
I don't remember where I heard it, but another mom said they used "I love you more than the mess". It has changed my perspective. Yes, messes are frustrating, but doesn't affect our love for the children. Yelling just hurts the child.
I love that!! I’ll try and remember to say that out loud next time. Verbalizing it always helps me. I totally agree, yelling only adds to the chaos and just isn’t fruitful for anybody. I try to remember we as the adults are the only ones that can regulate our emotions and we are responsible for de-escalating the situation. Thank you for sharing Carrie!
Thank you for sharing this video! I needed to hear from this video. I do sometime feel failure mom of my 3 kids. I’m been asking God help me change my character of being gentleness, self control, and patience for children. They don’t listen to me for my instructions or help me. It’s hard and I really don’t appreciate how I did yell at them. I’m tired of my kids do fight, not good to share, and yelling each other. Lord praying for me and I need some help from these area of my role of being mom.
Thank you. It really is so easy to sit in guilt and feel like wow I must be the only one like this and just question what is wrong with me. I also find myself sitting in the feelings of worrying my child is affected negatively forever by my harsh voice or when I yell, etc. really does ruin my day, even if my toddler is happy and fine afterwards. Really really hard for me to break out of the guilt and feel like I’m not an awful mother. If you read this, please please pray for me. I would appreciate it so much. I need more gentleness, love, patience, self control. All the fruits of the spirit. Please ❤
You are definitely not alone sister. A lot of us struggle with these emotions, but God's Word will always be there to help us through ❤️ I see you and understand your struggle. God will meet you exactly where you are Taylor. Ask the Holy Spirit to lead you in everything you do and in every situation. Stay in His Word. Submit to Him. I know He will show up for you!
I think what works for me, I've noticed, is having worship music in the background, especially when kids are around and I'm not in a great headspace. Thank you for the video, a reminder that I can do better ❤💐
Oh my God! I really needed this video! This night I was so stressed with my child, and I didn't think about how she's learning to be just like me. I'm not teaching her to be a Christian woman. 😢Thank u so much, it changed my mind. 😮
🌷 Thank you my sister, for another wonderful video. This truly ministered to me this morning. After my quiet time with the Lord this morning, I looked at my phone and saw you uploaded this video. I had just finished praying for this area in my life. The Lord is so faithful! I definitely want to invite the Holy Spirit to fill me with his wisdom and peace in those moments. I was saved in 2016 and truly went from darkness to light. I do believe that I am a new creation in Christ. The Lord has gone before me in so many ways and I no longer struggle with certain sin, but man, the anger I still have deep down is something I truly want to surrender to the Lord and have victory over. I grew up in a very broken home and was always surrounded by yelling, fighting, etc. I am now married to a wonderful Godly husband, have two beautiful children, and have experienced abundant grace in my life. I did not have Godly examples in my life growing up, and my desire is to be that for my children. I appreciate you for bringing this topic to light and for all of my sisters in Christ that have similar struggles. Jesus, we need you! ❤ Lord Bless you!
Thank you so much for sharing Evie, the Lord really is so thoughtful and intentional with what we need ❤️ I'm humbled he would use me to speak to you. I had a temper growing up as well and have had to work to taming it when I got married. I feel like I was delivered from that spirit but it for sure creeps back up at times with my children. I'm here to walk alongside you sister! You have a beautiful life and I know the Lord will use you in a mighty way to break those generational curses. The old is done and the new has begun ❤️ Hallelujah!
I'm so thankful I came across your channel. I relate to this situation so much. I'm a mom of 2 boys. I struggle with a chronic condition called fibromyalgia, chronic tennis elbow and often triggers my anger and frustration. Sometimes I take it on them and makes me feel terrible. My oldest is 7yrs old and my youngest is almost 4yrs old. It's so difficult to make them understand that I can't sometimes do certain physical activities with them or just take them outside to play. Not because I don't want to but because my body can't handle it. Anyway, thank you for sharing this. Have a great day. God bless you.
My husband and I last night had an hour long conversation that I didn’t even realize that I needed all of us spiritually needed, and I chose to go to the comfort of him rather than therapy, and I was trying to see where a lot of my behavioral traits derived from when we took a dive into childhood and I do not want to become those things as a mama so I’m realizing I have to change and I cannot do it without God or my husband And also without a prayer chain gang family, so I was wondering if you guys could all pray for me please and I will pray for you in return for any lingering anger or frustration that is bothering us all or upsetting us all or we’re so sick and tired of it that we have to do something because people change when they’re so sick of it that they want to change or they have no other option if they do change
Sure, I will pray for you Lady-C you pray for me too. May God give you peace that surpasses all understanding and may we discern His voice and overcome our weaknesses as we set good Christ like example to our children. Amen
Great video❤ I have to give myself a big slow breath before answering when I feel mad. And if i must i go in the bathroom for a quiet reset. Crunchy foods like celery. Crackers, cheerios are also stress relieving for me after my daughter has been a challenge
Thank you for another beautiful video.. I really enjoyed it and learned so much. One thing that I have been intently doing lately is to stop and listen to my kids instead of seeming like I'm too busy for them. I also try and walk away and ask God for guidance in those moments of anger before I say something that would end up hurting them. Please make more of these videos ❤ I am yet to find a small group in my community but will keep praying
I recently found a christian book call "Triggers" Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses, and It has helped me so much in this season with a 4yo and 2yo, the study book is amazing aswell.
Oh wow! I really should get my library card because I can't afford to buy all the books I want to read 😂 it definitely sounds like something useful - especially the study guide!
@@mrsdaisymama lol I get it ! Yes it has truly challenged me in my role as a Mother & at the same time given me the tools to parent the way God parents us 😭 Definitely One of the best books that i've read on overcoming anger & its biblically sound pointing you back to scripture & super relatable💗
Right now my husband and I live in my mom’s house and I just cannot wait to have our own home/apartment and finally be able to have our own children… you’re so blessed!!! I’m trying to be grateful in this season, it’s hard but I pray God will provide for us soon. Maybe a way to not have frustration in motherhood and things like that is maybe to realize that others pray to be where you are every single day!!! You’re so blessed and if I could have my own home and children it would be an answered prayer for me. God has blessed you abundantly!!
Thank you for this encouraging reminder! You are so right, I always tell myself I'm living in answered prayers. When both babies are crying at the same time, the Holy Spirit will often prompt me to remember that I love being a mother and they are a blessing from the Lord. It truly helps me feel peace even when there's chaos! I pray you and your husband can find a way to wait in joy and work with hope towards the next season of life. It's a sweet and temporary season to focus on your marriage in preparation for the challenges that parenting brings. ❤️
I’m in awww at how good this video was! 🤯 such a fan at how you put so many different elements of truth in this video while inviting us into your house and life. I was just mesmerized by the kids playing while listening to You speaking Gods truth. “Let the little children come to me,and do not forbid them for such is the kingdom of God!” Great job Daisy. This is what it looks like when you are in the center of Gods will. 👍🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🔥
💮💗 I have a 2.5 year old and I've been having to pray a lot to give me strength during these harder days. I need to start playing worship music if I start to become overwhelmed and see if that'll help turn my mood around. This age has hard moments.
My son is also 2.5! It's so hard. But actively working on managing my emotions has been so helpful. I pray the Lord leads you in the right way for you to respond in those difficult moments sister ❤️
It seriously helps so much! I honestly overreact many times so it's helpful to verbalize and realize how controlling I am trying to be over a curious 2 year old 🙃
I'm sorry you're dealing with this too Rebecca! May the Lord continue to equip and inspire us to deal with our emotions in a healthy and righteous way ❤️🙏
Oh Cathy! I’m so sorry to hear that. I pray the Lord grants you and your family supernatural peace, faith and trust in the Lord that He has your daughter in His hands. May the medical staff assisting her receive divine discernment on how to treat her and correct course of action to prevent further seizures. I pray the Holy Spirit to fill the room everywhere you go and be so heavy it’s evident His presence is there. We stand on Your promise that your plans for us are not to harm us Lord but to prosper us and give us hope and a future. In Jesus name amen. Thank you for your ongoing support and thoughtfulness Cathy, it doesn’t go unnoticed 💛🥰
@@mrsdaisymama its complicated. We do not know if she has the flu or is adjusting to her new seizure medications but some of today was awful. So naseus and dry heaving, clammy, lethargic and has regressed with eating. She has only learned to eat a small amount of tiny solids but refuses now. 😢. Maybe someday she will want those foods again. Her right foot still causes a limp, her uti seems gone, she said she felt one seizure earlier i did not see. If more i have to double her medicine which might already be making her sick. She keeps saying cramps. We are keeping an eye out for uti traveling to kidneys again. She doesnt know her body well so she will not explain correctly whats wrong. But the good news is she let me hold her for an hour and she rested. She ate puree foods several times and 2 different nut butters, hummus and puree avocados. And kept them down. Im rushing an anti sick med to her early in the mornings now to help her keep seizure meds in. Shes waking early with diariah poor dear. Cant go in potty doesnot understand so uses pull up for that. I feel God is with me snd is strengthening me. I pray whatever is wrong with her will pass asap!
@@mrsdaisymama. She is keeping food down. Seems more herself by evening. Im ready for the morning dry heaves, panics, possible seizures, mood swings. Poor dear. Thankful God goes with us❤
Oh I have so much to say about this, I definitely plan to make a video about it soon! I was very intentional with connecting with other moms at church who had children similar age to mine. Most of the ladies I have closest relationships with are in my small group. Luckily most of us are SAHM so we can meet up for play dates throughout the week to deepen our friendships even more. It's been such a blessing!!! It does take effort to get to know one another, set time aside for 1 on 1 time play dates, etc. It's 10000% worth it! I also go to a toddler park where a lot of us will have similar age kids - I meet a new mom every single time I go! I've invited a few to church and have even found other believing moms there, it's great 🥰
Praying for peace in your marriage. If you’re truly open to advice, I recommend 1 Peter 3:1-9. To sit together and read and discuss this chapter with your husband. Specific instructions to both roles. Regardless of how many times we may have read these verses or chapters. It’s so important to keep coming back to Gods word. As a husband myself I can be selfish and put my own needs above others. But Gods word redirects my thoughts, behaviors, and feelings as the word doesn’t bring condemnation but the Holy Spirit will highlight my conviction. To honor my wife, give her respect and empathize with her.
My husband and I last night had an hour long conversation that I didn’t even realize that I needed all of us spiritually needed, and I chose to go to the comfort of him rather than therapy, and I was trying to see where a lot of my behavioral traits derived from when we took a dive into childhood and I do not want to become those things as a mama so I’m realizing I have to change and I cannot do it without God or my husband And also without a prayer chain gang family, so I was wondering if you guys could all pray for me please and I will pray for you in return for any lingering anger or frustration that is bothering us all or upsetting us all or we’re so sick and tired of it that we have to do something because people change when they’re so sick of it that they want to change or they have no other option if they do change
🌷 What’s one practical strategy you commit to try this week? 🌷
P.S. Can I ask a favor? I’d love for you to share your wisdom and personal advice on how you deal with frustrations in motherhood in the comments so we can be a resource and blessing to other sisters in Christ.
If someone does find out please let us all know especially as Christian’s because I struggle with anger and cussing a lot and that cannot be instilled as a mama and I am no longer allowing that in myself I just don’t know how to change when I’m barely recognizing my own actions and behaviors as of late. Step one is to recognize patterns but to move on forwards from there idk
I don't remember where I heard it, but another mom said they used "I love you more than the mess". It has changed my perspective. Yes, messes are frustrating, but doesn't affect our love for the children. Yelling just hurts the child.
I love that!! I’ll try and remember to say that out loud next time. Verbalizing it always helps me.
I totally agree, yelling only adds to the chaos and just isn’t fruitful for anybody. I try to remember we as the adults are the only ones that can regulate our emotions and we are responsible for de-escalating the situation.
Thank you for sharing Carrie!
This makes me feel not so alone! Thank you for sharing Daisy💗🌼
I’m so glad to hear that sister, you’re definitely in company here ❤️
Thank you for sharing this video! I needed to hear from this video. I do sometime feel failure mom of my 3 kids. I’m been asking God help me change my character of being gentleness, self control, and patience for children. They don’t listen to me for my instructions or help me. It’s hard and I really don’t appreciate how I did yell at them. I’m tired of my kids do fight, not good to share, and yelling each other.
Lord praying for me and I need some help from these area of my role of being mom.
I need more videos about this, please !! I like you gave examples about how to handle frustration with our kids. Blessings
Thank you. It really is so easy to sit in guilt and feel like wow I must be the only one like this and just question what is wrong with me. I also find myself sitting in the feelings of worrying my child is affected negatively forever by my harsh voice or when I yell, etc. really does ruin my day, even if my toddler is happy and fine afterwards. Really really hard for me to break out of the guilt and feel like I’m not an awful mother. If you read this, please please pray for me. I would appreciate it so much. I need more gentleness, love, patience, self control. All the fruits of the spirit. Please ❤
You are definitely not alone sister. A lot of us struggle with these emotions, but God's Word will always be there to help us through ❤️
I see you and understand your struggle. God will meet you exactly where you are Taylor. Ask the Holy Spirit to lead you in everything you do and in every situation. Stay in His Word. Submit to Him. I know He will show up for you!
I think what works for me, I've noticed, is having worship music in the background, especially when kids are around and I'm not in a great headspace. Thank you for the video, a reminder that I can do better ❤💐
Worship music is so powerful! I'm so happy it could be an encouraging reminder for you ❤️
Oh my God! I really needed this video! This night I was so stressed with my child, and I didn't think about how she's learning to be just like me. I'm not teaching her to be a Christian woman. 😢Thank u so much, it changed my mind. 😮
Thank you Holy Spirit for opening my sisters eyes! He will guide you and renew your mind if you ask Him to ❤️ proud of you!
@@mrsdaisymama amen! ❤️
🌺 As always feeling blessed to watch your video. Praise God 🌺
Thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement sister! 🥰🤗🙏🏼
🌷 Thank you my sister, for another wonderful video. This truly ministered to me this morning. After my quiet time with the Lord this morning, I looked at my phone and saw you uploaded this video. I had just finished praying for this area in my life. The Lord is so faithful!
I definitely want to invite the Holy Spirit to fill me with his wisdom and peace in those moments. I was saved in 2016 and truly went from darkness to light. I do believe that I am a new creation in Christ. The Lord has gone before me in so many ways and I no longer struggle with certain sin, but man, the anger I still have deep down is something I truly want to surrender to the Lord and have victory over. I grew up in a very broken home and was always surrounded by yelling, fighting, etc. I am now married to a wonderful Godly husband, have two beautiful children, and have experienced abundant grace in my life. I did not have Godly examples in my life growing up, and my desire is to be that for my children. I appreciate you for bringing this topic to light and for all of my sisters in Christ that have similar struggles. Jesus, we need you! ❤ Lord Bless you!
Thank you so much for sharing Evie, the Lord really is so thoughtful and intentional with what we need ❤️ I'm humbled he would use me to speak to you.
I had a temper growing up as well and have had to work to taming it when I got married. I feel like I was delivered from that spirit but it for sure creeps back up at times with my children. I'm here to walk alongside you sister! You have a beautiful life and I know the Lord will use you in a mighty way to break those generational curses. The old is done and the new has begun ❤️ Hallelujah!
I go through the same thing and feel so guilty i pray for the Lord to help me 😭😭😭
I'm so thankful I came across your channel. I relate to this situation so much. I'm a mom of 2 boys. I struggle with a chronic condition called fibromyalgia, chronic tennis elbow and often triggers my anger and frustration. Sometimes I take it on them and makes me feel terrible. My oldest is 7yrs old and my youngest is almost 4yrs old. It's so difficult to make them understand that I can't sometimes do certain physical activities with them or just take them outside to play. Not because I don't want to but because my body can't handle it. Anyway, thank you for sharing this. Have a great day. God bless you.
My husband and I last night had an hour long conversation that I didn’t even realize that I needed all of us spiritually needed, and I chose to go to the comfort of him rather than therapy, and I was trying to see where a lot of my behavioral traits derived from when we took a dive into childhood and I do not want to become those things as a mama so I’m realizing I have to change and I cannot do it without God or my husband And also without a prayer chain gang family, so I was wondering if you guys could all pray for me please and I will pray for you in return for any lingering anger or frustration that is bothering us all or upsetting us all or we’re so sick and tired of it that we have to do something because people change when they’re so sick of it that they want to change or they have no other option if they do change
Sure, I will pray for you Lady-C you pray for me too. May God give you peace that surpasses all understanding and may we discern His voice and overcome our weaknesses as we set good Christ like example to our children. Amen
Great video❤
I have to give myself a big slow breath before answering when I feel mad. And if i must i go in the bathroom for a quiet reset. Crunchy foods like celery. Crackers, cheerios are also stress relieving for me after my daughter has been a challenge
Thank you for another beautiful video.. I really enjoyed it and learned so much. One thing that I have been intently doing lately is to stop and listen to my kids instead of seeming like I'm too busy for them. I also try and walk away and ask God for guidance in those moments of anger before I say something that would end up hurting them. Please make more of these videos ❤ I am yet to find a small group in my community but will keep praying
Beautifully done thank u
I recently found a christian book call "Triggers" Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses, and It has helped me so much in this season with a 4yo and 2yo, the study book is amazing aswell.
Oh wow! I really should get my library card because I can't afford to buy all the books I want to read 😂 it definitely sounds like something useful - especially the study guide!
@@mrsdaisymama lol I get it ! Yes it has truly challenged me in my role as a Mother & at the same time given me the tools to parent the way God parents us 😭 Definitely One of the best books that i've read on overcoming anger & its biblically sound pointing you back to scripture & super relatable💗
@@De-IJthanks for sharing this book. I’m going to listen to this!
Right now my husband and I live in my mom’s house and I just cannot wait to have our own home/apartment and finally be able to have our own children… you’re so blessed!!! I’m trying to be grateful in this season, it’s hard but I pray God will provide for us soon. Maybe a way to not have frustration in motherhood and things like that is maybe to realize that others pray to be where you are every single day!!! You’re so blessed and if I could have my own home and children it would be an answered prayer for me. God has blessed you abundantly!!
Thank you for this encouraging reminder! You are so right, I always tell myself I'm living in answered prayers. When both babies are crying at the same time, the Holy Spirit will often prompt me to remember that I love being a mother and they are a blessing from the Lord. It truly helps me feel peace even when there's chaos!
I pray you and your husband can find a way to wait in joy and work with hope towards the next season of life. It's a sweet and temporary season to focus on your marriage in preparation for the challenges that parenting brings. ❤️
I’m in awww at how good this video was! 🤯 such a fan at how you put so many different elements of truth in this video while inviting us into your house and life. I was just mesmerized by the kids playing while listening to You speaking Gods truth. “Let the little children come to me,and do not forbid them for such is the kingdom of God!” Great job Daisy. This is what it looks like when you are in the center of Gods will. 👍🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🔥
Very thoughtful of you to say that Dee, thank you!! 🥹
💮💗 I have a 2.5 year old and I've been having to pray a lot to give me strength during these harder days. I need to start playing worship music if I start to become overwhelmed and see if that'll help turn my mood around. This age has hard moments.
My son is also 2.5! It's so hard. But actively working on managing my emotions has been so helpful. I pray the Lord leads you in the right way for you to respond in those difficult moments sister ❤️
@@mrsdaisymama thank you! 💜
💜 thank you! I need to remember to pause and pray aloud more often and say aloud why I feel what I feel so I recognize it and rely on the Holy Spirit
It seriously helps so much! I honestly overreact many times so it's helpful to verbalize and realize how controlling I am trying to be over a curious 2 year old 🙃
Needed to watch this, thank you 🥰
I pray the Lord continues to reveal ways to handle the difficult moments of motherhood 🙏💕
Bless you mama 🙏🏻❤️✝️
Thank you Cassandra 🥰 may God bless you and your family as well!
Thank you for your message, it is a blessing.⚘️
I'm grateful you found value in it ❤️
Thank you! I really needed to hear this ❤ I'd really love to connect with other Christian moms to share and pray together
I'm so glad this video blessed you! Grateful you're here as part of our sisterhood in Christ 💕
❤Thank you for these valuable ideas. Inviting the Holy Spirit into the situation is what resonated with me.
It’s so powerful! I use that strategy in so many situations. Thank you for commenting 🩷
🌸 This was so helpful thank you so much
I'm sorry you're dealing with this too Rebecca! May the Lord continue to equip and inspire us to deal with our emotions in a healthy and righteous way ❤️🙏
I needed this soo much
I'm so glad it blessed you sister!! ❤️
Thank you for going thru the steps you take in a situation when it is easy to get irritable at our sweet toddlers😅🙏🏻
I pray that it helps other mamas better deal with their little ones too! thank you so much for watching 🤗
Accepting that prayer 😭😭😭😭🙏🏼 thanks you sister
Praise God ❤️🙏🏼 ask the Holy Spirit for help earnestly and He will never fail you!
Thank you Daisy 🥰
I'm glad you enjoyed the video Destiny 🤗💕
About explaining her why I'm angry ❤❤💐💐💐
It's such a great strategy! It really helps put things into perspective ❤️
Thank you🌸
I'm glad you enjoyed Leticia 💕
❤❤❤❤❤ lob your videos may God continue to bless you and your channel
Thank you so much hermana 💕 your support means a lot to me!
My sons name is Ezra too ❤
Awww love it! In Mexican culture they would be called "tocayos" meaning they share the same name 🤗
❤🌸. My daughter is having seizures again after years not…. 😢. Cant watch but wanted to let ads play
Oh Cathy! I’m so sorry to hear that. I pray the Lord grants you and your family supernatural peace, faith and trust in the Lord that He has your daughter in His hands. May the medical staff assisting her receive divine discernment on how to treat her and correct course of action to prevent further seizures. I pray the Holy Spirit to fill the room everywhere you go and be so heavy it’s evident His presence is there. We stand on Your promise that your plans for us are not to harm us Lord but to prosper us and give us hope and a future. In Jesus name amen.
Thank you for your ongoing support and thoughtfulness Cathy, it doesn’t go unnoticed 💛🥰
@@mrsdaisymama thank you for the sweet prayer. I needed it🥺
How is she doing today?
@@mrsdaisymama its complicated. We do not know if she has the flu or is adjusting to her new seizure medications but some of today was awful. So naseus and dry heaving, clammy, lethargic and has regressed with eating. She has only learned to eat a small amount of tiny solids but refuses now. 😢. Maybe someday she will want those foods again. Her right foot still causes a limp, her uti seems gone, she said she felt one seizure earlier i did not see. If more i have to double her medicine which might already be making her sick. She keeps saying cramps. We are keeping an eye out for uti traveling to kidneys again. She doesnt know her body well so she will not explain correctly whats wrong. But the good news is she let me hold her for an hour and she rested. She ate puree foods several times and 2 different nut butters, hummus and puree avocados. And kept them down. Im rushing an anti sick med to her early in the mornings now to help her keep seizure meds in. Shes waking early with diariah poor dear. Cant go in potty doesnot understand so uses pull up for that. I feel God is with me snd is strengthening me. I pray whatever is wrong with her will pass asap!
@@mrsdaisymama. She is keeping food down. Seems more herself by evening. Im ready for the morning dry heaves, panics, possible seizures, mood swings. Poor dear. Thankful God goes with us❤
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I’m glad you enjoyed this message Sulema ❤️
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I'm grateful it spoke to you! Thank you for watching ❤️
Thank you! What helped you find your community in church and/or with other mom friends? ❤
Oh I have so much to say about this, I definitely plan to make a video about it soon! I was very intentional with connecting with other moms at church who had children similar age to mine. Most of the ladies I have closest relationships with are in my small group. Luckily most of us are SAHM so we can meet up for play dates throughout the week to deepen our friendships even more. It's been such a blessing!!! It does take effort to get to know one another, set time aside for 1 on 1 time play dates, etc. It's 10000% worth it! I also go to a toddler park where a lot of us will have similar age kids - I meet a new mom every single time I go! I've invited a few to church and have even found other believing moms there, it's great 🥰
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How can a Christian mother be calm married to a narcissist who makes arguments over the smallest dumbest things 😢😢😢
Praying for peace in your marriage. If you’re truly open to advice, I recommend 1 Peter 3:1-9. To sit together and read and discuss this chapter with your husband. Specific instructions to both roles. Regardless of how many times we may have read these verses or chapters. It’s so important to keep coming back to Gods word. As a husband myself I can be selfish and put my own needs above others. But Gods word redirects my thoughts, behaviors, and feelings as the word doesn’t bring condemnation but the Holy Spirit will highlight my conviction. To honor my wife, give her respect and empathize with her.
My husband and I last night had an hour long conversation that I didn’t even realize that I needed all of us spiritually needed, and I chose to go to the comfort of him rather than therapy, and I was trying to see where a lot of my behavioral traits derived from when we took a dive into childhood and I do not want to become those things as a mama so I’m realizing I have to change and I cannot do it without God or my husband And also without a prayer chain gang family, so I was wondering if you guys could all pray for me please and I will pray for you in return for any lingering anger or frustration that is bothering us all or upsetting us all or we’re so sick and tired of it that we have to do something because people change when they’re so sick of it that they want to change or they have no other option if they do change