How to STOP being LAZY and stay that way (Catholic solution)

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  • @RMacEwan
    @RMacEwan 11 днів тому +43

    I find in North America we can sometimes have a 'gluttony' towards work. As you say, Father, we are always doing, doing, doing ... often to the detriment of our health and our spiritual life. Sometimes we work like this because we think to ourselves that we don't want to be "lazy". But so often it is unbalanced and we need to slow down from an obsession with non-stop activity to stop to pray, reflect, and rest in a healthy (not lazy) way.

    • @Grungefan2018
      @Grungefan2018 11 днів тому +4

      I have felt this is by design in US anyway. In the 80’s they glorified and admired constant work. So they got that into the American ethos (right word ?). They also started showing on tv shows and movies basically child worship. Over doing it so to speak. George Carlin had this in one of his bits and at was right on. and what came with this was showing kids saying things to their parents and demanding things that would have gotten me knocked out for a week. So you have overworked parents who at the same time are basically kissing the a$) of the kids in a large scale NOT ALL PARENTS. We have a lot of entitled people in our country now and it sucks. And the greedy corporations have people willing to work 2-3 jobs for minimal pay and supposed to feel lucky to do it even though they can still barely pay rent but food etc. While I’m on this soap box how they allowed cell phones to be used everywhere all the time is beyond me. Meaning movers using cell phone while moving your stuff, and in medical areas where you should not be using them. You should be Focusing and working . Managers and a lot of regular workers all of a sudden are on call 24/7. Meaning you can be contacted and asked a question at ANYTIME. That’s sick and unhealthy. I really wanted to articulate this much better but my brain isn’t firing here . I hope you see what I mean.

    • @RMacEwan
      @RMacEwan 9 днів тому +1

      @@Grungefan2018 Absolutely! Dr. Plinio Correa de Oliveira, mentor of the founder of the Heralds of the Gospel, spoke a lot about these things in his book Revolution/Counter-Revolution. Worth reading!

    • @RMacEwan
      @RMacEwan 9 днів тому

      @@Grungefan2018 Absolutely! Dr. Plinio Correa de Oliveira, mentor of the founder of the Heralds of the Gospel, spoke a lot about these things in his book Revolution/Counter-Revolution. Worth reading!

  • @tarajudge2150
    @tarajudge2150 6 днів тому +4

    Please pray for me, Father! I have become very lazy in multiple facets of my life. I have spoken with multiple healthcare and mental health professionals, and they have categorized this as a depression.
    I don’t deny this illness exists, but I firmly believe my personal maladies are spiritually based. This talk was very humbling. Pray for me against discouragement.
    God bless you all 🙏🏻

  • @IWantU2Know
    @IWantU2Know 11 днів тому +36

    Thank you father! ❤
    I was just praying to God an hour ago for help with my procrastination and laziness, and here this video pops up in my feed ❤ How loved and cared for I am in my Lords hands ❤🙌🏻❤️
    I live in the USA but I have trouble with physical laziness rather than spiritual at this time in my life. After a lot of trauma and the darkest period of my life I completely crumbled and now am really struggling to get back to living. I have been hungry for spiritual growth and getting closer with God, and want to fix my life and honor him.
    I really needed to hear this, thank you so much 🙏🏻

    • @joydicksen5914
      @joydicksen5914 10 днів тому +2

      This expresses me exactly.

    • @Ambersky718
      @Ambersky718 8 днів тому +1

      Similar thing happened to me. I was discussing the subject over a chat with my sister, and Amazon showed me a book and UA-cam a video! Very convenient 👌 😅

    • @Ambersky718
      @Ambersky718 8 днів тому +1

      I used to give a thousand excuses....not being aware that I was simply giving way to my comfort zone and what my body wanted. Then I realised the truth. I was being lazy!

    • @dlw3425
      @dlw3425 7 днів тому +1

      For the past year and a half, I’ve suffered one significant trial after another. It’s just now dawning on me that these trials are opportunities for me to do penance for my many sins. I can relate each trial to a sin of my own. The table has turned and I’m being made to suffer as I caused suffering for others due to my sins. I must accept these sufferings with joy for this opportunity in my senior years to atone instead of complaining and indulging in self pity. Understanding this has relieved me of the burden of my own self centeredness.

  • @patriciamariecunningham306
    @patriciamariecunningham306 9 днів тому +12

    While working a full 7 days as a carer, while driving round in between each house visit i would pray so most days i got 4 rosaries in plus 4 hours of other prayers, this pleased me so much.

    • @Ambersky718
      @Ambersky718 8 днів тому

      Praise the Lord! For your ability to multitask and concentrate 💕

  • @timmurray5245
    @timmurray5245 11 днів тому +21

    Thank you so much for this help. I have fallen into a terrible rut.

  • @Vicky-rz8dd
    @Vicky-rz8dd 9 днів тому +6

    Salve Maria! Sometimes it is not laziness or procrastination, it is just plain exhaustion. Sometimes we just have too much on our plate and finding help is very difficult and not cheap, especially where I live. Caregiving is very time consuming and I gave up Parish Council, teaching Religous Education, hobbies and doing things with friends and still didn't have time for anything but caregiving, work and taking care of my son.

    • @ContemplativeinChaos
      @ContemplativeinChaos 8 днів тому +3

      Amen! While true that a habit of laziness may lead to sinful behavior, it is just as dangerous to judge too quickly - like the child who is not doing their homework. There are so many reasons why this could happen, and a priest teaching parents to get busy working laziness out of their children makes me just want to pray that this very simplified message will not harm children who are already vulnerable.

    • @Ambersky718
      @Ambersky718 8 днів тому +1

      I will pray for you Vicky 🌹🛐✝️

  • @ThomasSheehan-n6l
    @ThomasSheehan-n6l 4 дні тому +1

    I just want to say its so WONDERFUL, to find a non Usa, dominant Catholic Site. Ive been literally Spirituality sick, after priests i was watching put up Us flag above our Icon, and offered up Masses, for rich politician, not poor, sick, marginalised in that country. Please keep to our Faith. That doesn't divide us Catholics all over The world. I love The Word. In gratitude 🙏

  • @chriskupe8095
    @chriskupe8095 13 днів тому +21

    Amen. Small to big things. 3 Hail Marys start, eventually 10 Hail Marys and consequently the Full Rosary prayer.❤

    • @maruchagajowy
      @maruchagajowy 6 днів тому

      Multiply that by 3 (4?) and you have 3 (4) times more Power!

  • @felisiamoris2905
    @felisiamoris2905 7 днів тому +4

    Excellent insight re overcoming laziness! Thank you very much, Father! May God bless ✝️ us, and that may He help us in overcoming our daily lazy weaknesses. As you mentioned, Father, "Be confident!" Amen! 🙏🏼❤️🕊️

  • @maureenogwuegbu962
    @maureenogwuegbu962 12 днів тому +10

    Salve Maria, Lord Jesus please grant me to be spiritually and physically strong to overcome laziness as well as my family members and friends.

  • @ijeomaokonkwo7752
    @ijeomaokonkwo7752 8 днів тому +4

    God bless help me and my family out of any spirit of spiritual laziness,and slotfulness,in the name of Jesus Christ.

  • @timmurray5245
    @timmurray5245 10 днів тому +6

    Thank you for your prayers. I'll pray for you all too . Good men and women of God.

  • @patriciatapales9444
    @patriciatapales9444 7 днів тому +1

    Thank you Father for your great insight about laziness ...

  • @MichaelDamian-h4s
    @MichaelDamian-h4s 11 днів тому +4

    I'm watching this on a social media UA-cam. So it got me listening. It's not a total bad thing.

  • @silviaszymczyk218
    @silviaszymczyk218 9 днів тому +3

    Amazing podcast. Thank you for teaching us so much. Salve Maria🌹🌹🌹

  • @galapagos900
    @galapagos900 13 днів тому +8

    Salve Maria Fr. Bandet, bro. John, bro Bassi, thank you for today’s podcast if was very informative ❤

  • @ThomasSheehan-n6l
    @ThomasSheehan-n6l 4 дні тому +1

    Great educational conversations, Fathers. Especially will actually know nothing if lazy intellectually, Spirituality, when finally old, like me. Didn't have internet more than half my life. Im spending more time reading, praying, after listening.

  • @dwaddell9228
    @dwaddell9228 6 днів тому +3

    I have a difficult time, PTSD from something deeply hidden, work 3am shift and sleeping enough is difficult. I'm barely keeping it together. When I get a day of clarity something takes it away. The spiritual director is just daily surrender. Need some one who would dedicate time to up root What is going on. It looks like sloth or Acadia. Very difficult when hormones are gone too.

  • @TubzInkswithus
    @TubzInkswithus 11 днів тому +7

    This podcast is very helpful. Thank you all for sharing your thoughts, and Gob bless everyone.

    • @maruchagajowy
      @maruchagajowy 6 днів тому

      "Gob" is the name of one of the Servants of Darkness. It must be not mentioned aloud, as it may call Him out!

  • @danielgiraud2192
    @danielgiraud2192 12 днів тому +6

    Salve Maria Lord,grant me the Grace to. Fight against any lazynes in my life.Thank you Pere Francois.God bless from Daniel in South Africa.

  • @pavman42
    @pavman42 11 днів тому +4

    This is packed with great advice.

  • @esperanzaliszewski1893
    @esperanzaliszewski1893 11 днів тому +5

    Amazing. Thanks a lot. I sent it to my different groups. Tons of blessings from Florida. Salve María.

  • @LorettaRose62
    @LorettaRose62 11 днів тому +4

    Salve Maria. Father thank you so much. Excellent examples. God Bless and Our Blessed Mother assist us all.

  • @essentiallyprudent
    @essentiallyprudent 3 дні тому

    thank you so much Fathers..🙏🏼

  • @dianemcginnis6163
    @dianemcginnis6163 10 днів тому +5

    SALVEA MARIE, FORGIVE THE WITH MY EVER GOING LAZINESS. .., AND TIREDNESS., JUST CAME UPON ME
    FORGIVE ❤️

  • @DarpanaKapil
    @DarpanaKapil 10 днів тому +3

    Holy Glory Alleluia Amen!!! Divine Enlightened Family of Lord Jesus Christ !! 🪷🫐💓🌻🌄☘️🪻🎄🌅🏵️💓🏵️❤️💕🌞🙏🌞🎊🌼😊🌷🌾🌅❣️

  • @Therese-1001
    @Therese-1001 8 днів тому +1

    Thank you for your blessing Father. Amen 🙏🏽
    Salve Maria! 👑

  • @maryelizabethcalais9180
    @maryelizabethcalais9180 13 днів тому +8

    Tks for this program. I always enjoy your conversational teachings.
    I read a book "Acedia the Noonday Devil" 2015, authored by Dom Jean-Charles Nault OSB. Powerful reading. I would suggest all Catholics read this book.

  • @jenifaburnley1385
    @jenifaburnley1385 13 днів тому +4

    Salve Maria. I really needed to learn about this. Thank you.

  • @Li-LaLa
    @Li-LaLa 4 дні тому

    Very true. Thank you Fathers.If I can ask for prayer to conquer intellectual laziness and low confidence . 🙏🏻

  • @marieagnes1158
    @marieagnes1158 6 днів тому +1

    Thank you for this podcast. Hope you will turn the page of vatican 2 and embrace our really beautiful religion.

  • @mjsyankee1750
    @mjsyankee1750 7 днів тому +2

    I struggle with doing work while at work. I spend too much time doing “stuff” that I want to do. 😢

  • @MarleneMacDonald-yu2gu
    @MarleneMacDonald-yu2gu 15 годин тому

    Thank you for this sharing .❤

  • @kemberleykennedyjaramillo9450
    @kemberleykennedyjaramillo9450 9 днів тому +1

    Amen Thank you Jesus I love you

  • @dennisrobinson8346
    @dennisrobinson8346 12 днів тому +3

    Thankyou for this podcast was very informative and helpful

  • @s.s.6580
    @s.s.6580 9 днів тому +1

    I am nearly 70, a Catechist - yet still unfamiliar with Concentrating oneself to Jesus through the Hands of Mary. I was just wondering how to find out more about it when the Brother mentioned the link in the description. I definitely WILL follow through with it.

  • @s.s.6580
    @s.s.6580 9 днів тому +1

    ❤ Father, thank you. Please tell me how to make a donation. What a wonderful difference you must make in people's lives. I'm so glad I stumbled (or did the Holy Spirit send direct me?) on to your channel. May God bless and keep you all in His loving embrace.

  • @angelinelim2051
    @angelinelim2051 12 днів тому +3

    Thank you for this program. Please help me with this problem too.

  • @neenak5557
    @neenak5557 8 днів тому +2

    Salve Maria!
    It is a beautiful podcast to help grow in prayer.
    Hardest first!

  • @agnesmarybendu7470
    @agnesmarybendu7470 13 днів тому +3

    Salve Maria 🌹🙏Gods blessings and love 🌹🙏

  • @imeldaferuzi3006
    @imeldaferuzi3006 13 днів тому +3

    Salve Maria.Many thanks.

  • @wms72
    @wms72 9 днів тому +3

    I'm 70 years old and tired. Sleep disorder.

  • @lukasandisaaktime9147
    @lukasandisaaktime9147 12 днів тому +3

    I believe that when our Lord was in the olive garden with His 3 disciples that God made them sleepy and possibly harden their hearts as part and parcel of Jesus's Passion. Emotional suffering is extremely difficult to work through, and Jesus wanted the company of His 3 closest friends, to support Him. "Yet it was the will of the Lord to crush Him with pain. When you make His life an offering for sin."
    Is 53:10a
    PRAISE BE TO GOD AND HAIL MARY QUEEN OF THE MOST HOLY ROSARY!!!

  • @myrabarrettopleaseprayform2221
    @myrabarrettopleaseprayform2221 12 днів тому +4

    Salve Maria please help me to come out of my laziness

  • @pcgrova7198
    @pcgrova7198 10 днів тому +3

    so I guess, not exercising out of laziness is a mortal sin for the potential threat to one's health?

  • @rebeccadaniel4667
    @rebeccadaniel4667 9 днів тому +1

    Amen !

  • @Manuel-s1j
    @Manuel-s1j 12 днів тому +3

    Amen..🙏

  • @joshuacherian6718
    @joshuacherian6718 8 днів тому +1

    Being lazy can also underline health issues ...

  • @manuelvargas467
    @manuelvargas467 День тому

    Amen ✝️🛐📿

  • @CountDain7
    @CountDain7 9 днів тому +1

    Amen 🙏🙏

  • @fritula6200
    @fritula6200 10 днів тому +3

    These guys look like squeaky clean priests, in their Priestley garments:
    No food stains on their habits.

  • @anne-mariebiorci5453
    @anne-mariebiorci5453 10 днів тому +1

    So interesting and true, so happy to come across your conversation 🇦🇺🦘🐨

  • @GiovanniVentre-u9n
    @GiovanniVentre-u9n 12 днів тому +3

    🙏

  • @Undermarysmantleforever
    @Undermarysmantleforever 13 днів тому +2

    🙏🙏🙏🌟

  • @geraldineoriordan9338
    @geraldineoriordan9338 12 днів тому +2

    Please send me concration prayer. I have lost it Thank you xx

    • @RMacEwan
      @RMacEwan 11 днів тому +1

      Consecration to Jesus Christ,
      The Incarnate Wisdom,
      Through The Blessed Virgin Mary
      O ETERNAL and Incarnate Wisdom! O sweetest and most adorable Jesus! True God and true man, only Son of the Eternal Father, and of Mary, always virgin! I adore Thee profoundly in the bosom and splendours of Thy Father during eternity; and I adore Thee also in the virginal bosom of Mary, Thy most worthy Mother, in the time of Thine Incarnation. I give Thee thanks for that Thou hast annihilated Thyself, taking the form of a slave in order to rescue me from the cruel slavery of the devil. I praise and glorify Thee for that Thou hast been pleased to submit Thyself to Mary, Thy holy Mother, in all things, in order to make me Thy faithful slave through her. But, alas! Ungrateful and faithless as I have been, I have not kept the promises which I made so solemnly to Thee in my baptism; I have not fulfilled my obligations; I do not deserve to be called Thy child, nor yet Thy slave, and as there is nothing in me which does not merit Thine anger and Thy repulse, I dare not come by myself before Thy most holy and august Majesty. It is on this account that I have recourse to the intercession of Thy most holy Mother, whom Thou hast given me for a mediatrix with Thee. It is through her that I hope to obtain of Thee contrition, the pardon of my sins, and the acquisition and preservation of wisdom. Hail, then, O Immaculate Mary, living tabernacle of the Divinity, where the Eternal Wisdom willed to be hidden and to be adored by Angels and by men! Hail, O Queen of Heaven and earth, to whose empire everything is subject that is under God. Hail, O sure refuge of sinners, whose mercy fails no one. Hear the desires which I have of the Divine Wisdom; and for that end receive the vows and offerings which in my lowliness I present to thee.
      I, ______________, a faithless sinner, renew and ratify today in thy hands the vows of my baptism; I renounce forever Satan, his pomps and works; and I give myself entirely to Jesus Christ, the Incarnate Wisdom, to carry my cross after Him all the days of my life, and to be more faithful to Him than I have ever been before. In the presence of all the heavenly court I choose thee this day for my Mother and Mistress. I deliver and consecrate to thee, as thy slave, my body and soul, my goods, both interior and exterior, and even the value of all my good actions, past, present and future; leaving to thee the entire and full right of disposing of me, and all that belongs to me, without exception, according to thy good pleasure, for the greater glory of God, in time and in eternity. Receive, O benignant Virgin, this little offering of my slavery, in honour of, and in union with, that subjection which the Eternal Wisdom deigned to have to thy maternity; in homage to the power which both of Thee have over this little worm and miserable sinner, and in thanksgiving for the privileges with which the Holy Trinity hath favoured thee. I declare that I wish henceforth, as thy true slave, to seek thy honour and to obey thee in all things. O admirable Mother, present me to thy dear Son as His eternal slave, so that as He hath redeemed me by thee, by thee He may receive me! O Mother of mercy, grant me the grace to obtain the true Wisdom of God; and for that end receive me among those whom thou lovest and teachest, whom thou leadest, nourishest and protectest as thy children and thy slaves. O faithful Virgin, make me in all things so perfect a disciple, imitator and slave of the Incarnate Wisdom, Jesus Christ thy Son, that I may attain, by thine intercession and by thine example, to the fullness of His age on earth and of His glory in Heaven. Amen.

  • @colmcillegardner2144
    @colmcillegardner2144 9 днів тому

    Salve Regina

  • @rociogomez8340
    @rociogomez8340 6 годин тому

    Fr. What about audio books i read st. Books through UA-cam audio books

  • @ClaudiaPerco
    @ClaudiaPerco 10 днів тому +2

    .❤❤❤

  • @Alan-zj5fz
    @Alan-zj5fz 13 днів тому +3

    Was 100th 👍

    • @mayvelynbalo8288
      @mayvelynbalo8288 13 днів тому +2

      really 😀 mine was 105 I guess 😁

    • @Alan-zj5fz
      @Alan-zj5fz 13 днів тому

      ​@@mayvelynbalo8288There You are reply back 🙏

    • @Alan-zj5fz
      @Alan-zj5fz 13 днів тому

      ​@@mayvelynbalo8288Sister agreed that We will not lose each other again.
      Um I don't like the choice of My own words .

    • @Alan-zj5fz
      @Alan-zj5fz 12 днів тому

      ​@@mayvelynbalo8288TWO comments gone wow.

  • @patriciamariecunningham306
    @patriciamariecunningham306 9 днів тому +1

    Can lazy mean being too lazy also too pray?😊

  • @tinal2490
    @tinal2490 10 днів тому +1

    What if someone struggels because of adhd and cannot tell the difference between adhd and laziness so that he doesn't know to what extend he is responsible?

    • @AA-gu4mw
      @AA-gu4mw 7 днів тому +1

      Whether it’s adhd or laziness it’s still ones cross to carry and one is not excused. You won’t be judged the same as a person without adhd but nevertheless, you can’t excuse yourself either. Do whatever the lord puts in front of you and when you feel your adhd is taking over, ask God for help. “When you are weak, you are strong” you lack nothing in Christ.

    • @tinal2490
      @tinal2490 3 дні тому

      Thank you for this confident answer.

  • @kenlansing1216
    @kenlansing1216 8 днів тому

    I;m so lazy i:d probably quit breathing if it didn:t kill me.

  • @alittleleap5647
    @alittleleap5647 11 днів тому +4

    Some people have real vitamin deficiency??😮

  • @Joseph123-g6p
    @Joseph123-g6p 11 днів тому +2

    SALVE MARIA