The westernization of eastern cultures deeply saddens me, and I’m glad you brought it up. I’ve always had an appreciation for traditional Japanese culture and customs. The beautiful homes, gardens, clothes, and healthy food.
I've been teaching English to Japanese students online for 7 years now. Even before that, I've been a big fan of Japan and Japanese culture. Over the years I came to learn a lot of negative things about Japan, its culture and people - things like stereotypes, black companies, death from overwork, the "lost generation" (NEETs, and hikikomoris), teen "prostitution", "acceptable" cheating in marriage, extreme women discrimination, lack of childcare support for parents, panty thieves, suicide rates, etc. Many of these things are not exclusive to Japan. Many countries around the world have similar problems. Japanese people are genuinely nice, and while some might seem shy at first, it's usually because they're insecure about their English speaking abilities. Over the years I've meet only a handful of rude and arrogant Japanese, mostly men in their 50s and 60s (the super conservative bunch with the "Japan is the best in the world" attitude). Almost all of my students were kind and polite, and happy to learn new things about my country or the world. As someone who deeply loves Japan, the negative things can't compare to the positive things about this beautiful country. I believe there are many people like me, who are aware and familiar with the "dark side of Japan" but still continue to love it, because no country and nation is perfect. ❤️
As a fellow Japanese male, I apologize for the rude behavior of the conservative Japanese. However, the fact that you have met a conservative Japanese man means that you are deeply involved with Japanese people. Conservative Japanese are afraid of people who look different from them and cannot speak foreign languages, and their pride does not allow them to talk to others.
I have been living in Japan for ten years now, and pretty much everything you said is accurate! I love Japan and it' s people and culture. However, the cons that you have stated is something that needs to be fixed here.
I am a blonde Australian woman, and I went to Junior high school in Osaka. Every day on my way walking to school I was always getting stopped by random people wanting to ask me questions, but I loved it, they were just curious about me! I have so many great memories, sticker photos with my school friends, visiting castles, learning Japanese money, watching crazy Japanese game shows on TV. I desperately want to go back.
It's funny how it's human nature to want what you don't have. As a Canadian, I love learning about Japanese culture! It's one of the reasons I want to visit Japan. So no worries, people will still love Japan. Especially because of your excellent videos! Stay safe!
I absolutely love your comment and enthusiasm! But am in no way Canadian... of course I'm teasing. I tell my Euro and UK gaijin friends, "They are just like us , just much nicer." Most agree and don't even know I'm joking. True story. But when you come to Japan, please come with an open mind. I've been living here (minus 9/11/2001 through 2008) for 25 years. I still have no clue where some random gaijin get their ideas about Japan before they even get here. Lot's of mazel!
Sigh i live in the united states where it is ALL individuality, and life here couldnt be more stressed and unhappy. We all want what we cannot have, i love the cohesion of japanese culture and how everyone is family to everyone else...in the states you are truly lonely and all on your own. People here also push selfishness as a virtue and it morphs into narcissim, vanity, high sense of value and entitlement. balance is key in life and no country has gotten it right yet
"Please don't hate Japan." Well frankly I love Japan. I know there are many unpleasant things about Japan for us foreigners, but for Japanese people too. But there still are way more pluses, than minuses. My wife and I went to Japan for our honeymoon and my oh my how much we miss Japan ever since. We hope and pray we would be able to go and see Japan again in the future. I've been studying Japanese language, I even run a Japanese culture group for our students in the school where I teach. We do love Japan, don't you worry! I'd move to Japan if it was possible.
I visited Japan several times in the 1980s. Japan smells amazing. I can still smell the delicious aromas of roasted seaweed, smoky bonito, sweet tangerines, and steaming miso soup that enveloped every alley I walked into. Everybody was really decent to me and it was very exotically beautiful! Every place has it drawbacks but your country is really extra special.
It’s sad to see that your Japanese culture is changing to western style culture. That’s what make a country unique. Food additives are nasty and bad for the health good to see your trying to change and be who you feel like being. Good video.
How interesting… over here in the UK most of my friends want Japanese style things, and we’re inspiring ourselves with traditional Japan while we’re renovating our flat!
All my life I have been fascinated by Japan. I grew up in Canada and I hoped to visit this lovely country some day and in 1997 my wish came true at the age of 46. The many things you described, Aki that you don't like in your own country I was never aware of except that some Japanese don't like foreigners. My husband and I were at a plum blossom festival and at one of the booths selling dried fruit wouldn't even sell us any due to the fact that we were not Japanese. Well, despite this one incident we had another surprise in Kyoto when we were in the park surrounding the royal palace which was being renovated. We were very hungry and there was a small restaurant in the park which was very crowded especially by the renovation workers taking their lunch. We also stood in line waiting patiently but then one of the Japanese ladies from the kitchen came out and took our hands and led us to the front of the line to choose what we wanted to eat, then led us to a table for two and within a few minutes this lady came with food and placed it before us. We could not communicate since neither of us knew the other's language but her sparkling eyes and friendly smile told us more than words ever could. What a wonderful time we had in Japan. I would recommend it to anyone. They would not be disappointed. Sending love to all of you who made our stay a happy one and even to those who didn't due to misunderstanding.
So glad to see you examining your culture critically. I think it's very important to find that balance, to root out the evils that creep into our own culture, to take good things from other cultures, to nurture the good things in our own culture and respect them all. When we skip any of these, we tend to become either cynical or xenophobic or toxic adherents of our own culture.
Some of these complaints are in many ways found in other parts of the world too: 1. The education system in many places still relies on the Prussian-style education system which, though revolutionary in the 19th century, is outdated now. 2. Cities become more and more crowded and traffic becomes unbearable. 3. The disappearence of unique traditions and local flavor underneath the big equalizer of globalization. 4. A world of fast-food with cheap, bad, convenient food that will make us sick.
I live in Japan 50 years and I can agree with what you said ,compared to other countries Japan has a way of teaching that I believe it’s group minded ,like it’s not so much to learn about your own individuality,so there are so many suicide when they got old and can’t find a purpose to live ,especially the hikikomori type !I feel that it causes a lot of stress for the person ,as in school and after at work or even in old ages there is a lot of Ijime means harassment!The new generation has to stand up and build a Japan with true freedom changing there old customs that are not working anymore ,keeping the good ones off course! Also accept woman as equal in home work etc !
This is what I don't like most. Everyone should be living with their own thoughts. They don't have to think or act as everyone else. That's society and its variety.
such problem doesnt lay with the Japanese alone. it is an Asian thing. in my country where there is no press freedom i think it is not any better when it comes to suicide, racism, self isolation and many similar Japanese problems. just because real data does not exist it does not mean it isnt happening.
-It isn't just that the rules are strange. It's that the Japanese don't question them. -The Japanese like rules because they don't like to think. Rules do the thinking for them. It's refreshing to hear a Japanese person think his own thoughts and express them honestly.
some things are better left alone, look at how western societies are today in the name of progress. frightening. i used to be a progressive until i saw Europe and America.
@@suginomura Note that I didn't say all Japanese. Of course, there are a few who think for themselves, but whether they voice their thoughts truthfully is another matter. I lived in Japan 3 years. The trend I saw is that the Japanese would rather have authority figures direct them or think for them.
I live in Sweden which has the worst crime rates in the EU. So far this year we've had 71 murders, countless bombings and rapes. In Japan I've always felt safe, it's so beautiful, reliable and clean with the best food in the world. Wish I could move there.
I didn't know that about Sweden... Here in Belgium we think everything in the Scandinavian countries is well sorted out. The only criminals are in the tvshows.
Scandinavia used to be Idyllic - progressive, clean, safe. Some countries still are mostly, like Iceland and Finland, but Sweden is the worst (Malmo is a disaster). I'm sorry to say, it all started going downhill with open immigration.
Loved this. I taught in Japan from 1991-97. I will never forget my first moderate earthquake (moderate is relative - anywhere else a 6.3 earthquake is pretty BIG!) I had a dream that I was teaching my high school students when there was an earthquake and the building collapsed. A few days later the 6.3 earthquake happened while I was teaching THAT class! It went on and on, the windows rattled, the building didn't move from side to side but the rarer up and down motion - perfect for a building pancake! My students screamed and got under the tables. I pretended I had it together but thought, as I watched the lights across the street at the train station sway violently and then flicker off, that if this didn't stop in the next ten seconds I was going to run screaming down the staircase and out of the building. Luckily it stopped shortly therafter. Later I experienced even stronger earthquakes, but reacted like you did in the video , barely at all.
I love the Japanese. They’re intelligent, they have great respect for their elders, they make brilliant products, their food is magnificent and they live in a beautiful country. I love Japanese things. I’ve got lots of Japanese made items in the house - little trinkets and traditional items. I aspire to be more like the Japanese. Instead, everybody is becoming more American. Japan, hold onto your traditions tightly. You have one of the best cultures on Earth. Preserve it. And don’t let any outside forces dictate the way you live. From a Danish girl living in England I send love. X
Being a foreigner it is understable to be frequently questioned because as long as we see the beauty in Japan: it's worth it , some foreigners even suggest that's the reason that attacks are relatively low. However, Japanese people who have one parents from Japan and other from another country who is deemed to look different is questioned frequently like a stranger which makes them question humanity to treat them like a stranger even if they are legally Japanese. Having to be Japanese and bring treated as an outsider has resulted in many suicides & depression reports. I hope Japanese laws are relaxed in a way that ensure safety and equality simultaneously
I once read that they question so many foreigners or at least that they question many of them repeatedly because they want to hit their quota. If true that's just so wrong though. Questioning people to for safety or awareness (to show them there's always someone around) doesn't sound to bad but questioning people on a day to day basis is just silly.
You did a great job when you tell us about good and not good things in Japan. We are made by our strengths and weaknesses and thatch’s the beauty of it. Since we are not treated unfairly anywhere, everything else is ok. I love your videos! Thanks.
Excellent list of bad things. Thank you for being involved in keeping traditional Japanese culture! I appreciated your wearing kimono even before you said that item. One time while working in a famous Japanese company, I wore my kimono (on my last day at that job). Many coworkers were impressed and appreciative, but my boss told me “isn’t that against the dress code?” I asked him back, “do you hate Japanese culture?” but he ruined my day. On the other hand, one time I forgot my cellphone at Nanzenji in Kyoto and they had it for me in the back office, which was just like any stale office or teacher’s room in Japan ironically, but all the monks were at their desks wearing their Buddhist kimono robes! I loved it!
Hello samurai.I am from Nepal and since the time we experienced the 7.8 mag earthquake ,I even don't care on normal shakes. Can't believe it has been already 7 years but that fear of disaster feels like yesterday.
You are so ridiculously adorable and admirable, even when you’re discussing negative traits you do it with which such a detached lightness, very inspirational. You’re different and you celebrate it, you’re paving the way for others to express their differences, it’s a true gift. Thank you for talking about the difficulties with the control of the media and government when it comes to the pandemic, we have a right not live in fear. I still love Japan ❤️
I'm Spanish and I live in Japan for 9 years now. I do love your country and I really agree every single thing you said. I really think it's one of the most interenting coutries to talk about. Specially latly, that so many things are changing. About "Inconveniece for foreigners", that's right. I was rejected for some houses I wanted to rent just because I'm not japanese. However, I use to say that "Japan is a great country to live if you are not Japanese". Just because the "Tatemae / Honnne" rules are really strict for the nationals. But, sometimes, we can "play the gaijin card" for wich we can be forgiven for things that the nationals wouldn't be. What do you think?
So interesting. My children go to Japanese school in America. I appreciate that we don’t rely so much on technology and don’t mind that the curriculum isn’t constantly updated. It is a problem in America because kids are taught on apps and don’t understand things deeply. Our school just stopped wearing masks. Most people still wear them because they are afraid of being judged. Luckily my kids understand that following the crowd isn’t always the way. People misunderstand why Japanese wear masks. They do it because it is a “rule” and don’t want to be the first one to change what they are doing. It is a deep problem. (Note: my kids are “hafu”).
I'm sorry about your old house! That made me so sad. The house I used to live in England was built in 1876, I think that's quite normal! My flat (apartment) was built in 1970, I don't think it's so old.
Thank you so much for your videos! I share your dislike for things like overwork and food additives. Your fresh and creative approach to life is exactly what Japan needs. All best wishes. 🙏
I loved my visit to Japan exactly because it felt different from everywhere else that I had been, I love the culture and traditions and I hope that the young generation starts to appreciate it and value. Unfortunately the influence of the media is causing havoc all over the world. Especially the changes of diet , I am from Brasil living in the UK from a long time and have noticed that people are overweight because they started eating like the United States and lots of American food industry is now in Brasil pushing their rubbish food. It is sad and is impacting most the people who can not pay for the deceases caused by the western styles of food.
Hi! My brother is living now in Japan. Originally he is from Kazakhstan. He is a physical scientist. He is a very talented man. We miss him. He said that life in Japan is tough for him as for a foreigner. I think because of a language in the first place, and a lack of social relations in the second.
Another great video! I think it's very interesting you chose to talk about the things that suck in Japan- most people only choose to highlight the positives of their cultures so it's very cool you wanted to honestly portray it! It's good to know everything about something you're interested about, the good, the bad, and the ugly! Looking forward to your next video 😊
I have to wholeheartedly agree with your comments about Japanese culture. When I first visited Japan I was so disappointed by the amount of Western influence, mainly American. I visited Japan to fulfill my childhood dream of seeing and experiencing Japanese traditional culture and felt saddened to see how much was lost. Having said that it was mainly in the big cities and when I went out into smaller towns and the countryside I felt better and was able to absorb the culture more. Sadly I think this is happening in many places in the world and I hope that Japan manages to preserve its fascinating history, culture, and art for visitors to enjoy for many years to come. On another note, food additives are a nightmare in Japan. I had to be careful about what I consumed as I suffer from allergies and intolerances. Again I found fewer problems in the smaller towns and countryside where there were much more organic and fresh choices and loved some of the roadside and farmer's stalls I found.
The differences are what makes people and place unique, there is not only one way of living. I love everything about Japan. Japan is not the only country that has things or (cultural differences) to that of western culture, not everything has to be the westernised. please cherish your culture and enjoy what you have.
About the stereotypes. Lot’s of stereotypes for russians and in Russia now like in Japan. I’m russian, but I also love my culture, as I love japanese ❤️ But we can all be humans to each other. I’m in love with your vision of life. I have the same. Thanks for doing this videos. Please, continue!
Such a good video! I am half Japanese and have gone to Japan many times throughout my life to visit my family, spending months there at a time. I love it and it's my home away from home. But I agree with all these points you've made, especially the ones about the convenience store foods and the media brainwashing people. The social pressure is definitely hard to live with at times, knowing from first hand experience.
I've only been to Japan once as a tourist and really loved it, I hope I can come back one day. From your list I noticed the crazy work ethic (I'm from Germany). However I felt very welcomed, even in remote areas, everyone was very open and friendly. I loved the cleanliness, people just seem to take care of things, even if they are not the owner. In a small town close to the Fuji I lost my backpack on the bus. The owners of our accommodation got it back within hours! I don't think this would happen in a lot of places. Long comment, but one more thing: I don't think the toilets are western culture, more like modern Japanese, as I've never seen this high and technically advanced standart in other places 😉
I don’t know if it’s a terrible thing if Japanese school didn’t change a lot in 30 years. In Italy school changed for the worst…. Even if the most fault is upon the parents: when i was little, if a teacher said something to them, they would speak to me to understand the situation better and the valued teacher’s opinion. Now teacher risk aggressions every time they speak ill of their kids at school because a lot of parents think their children are genius to protect even with punches and kicks 😞
So true. It is similar here in Singapore and Australia too. It is like child abuse if teachers are just sending constructive comments for kids to improve. Nowadays teachers just say nice things don’t dare to offend when kids really do have to change. I am a parent myself. I am not saying teachers are to be abusive… in the past I am sure many teachers were and could be abusive because they abused their authority but now it is the opposite. Well, we sure need a good balance! Basically, teachers, students and parents all have to be respectful to one another.
There are not many things I dislike about Japan. The only elements I've spotted are: - fruits are very expensive and fruit juice seems to be diluted. - fruits (apples) are wrapped in plastic which is not very healthy. - overpackaging: although packages are cute for presents, I found everything I bought was unnecessarily packaged, which can constitute waste. - sniffling: I understand that in Japan nose blowing in public is regarded as rude whereas it's completely normal and recommended in Europe (provided we don't make gross sounds). But I've seen people who don't blow their nose sniffle in public transport which can be quite distracting. Other than that, I love Japan. Such a marvellous country.
Thank you for this video. I will be moving to Japan in about a month or two, and your videos are very informative and inspiring. I am a ハーフ born in Hawaii, often I find myself in an awkward position of "foreigner but not really".. I can relate to many things mentioned here about traditional Japanese views.
You're keeping it real, that's a wonderful quality. I love Japanese culture and people. My sister is married to a amazing Japanese man, he's a magnificent human been. ❤️ love your videos.
I think every country has their own issues. In Italy, the country where I live, the bureaucracy is very slow and complicated and the political class is dishonest and corrupt, which leads to many problems in the management of essential services starting from the very slow times of healthcare. I must say, however, I would not change my country with anyone else in the world ❤️
I've been wondering for a long time why the Japanese work these crazy working hours, but from your example I see it's because it's just the lifestyle they see (like you yourself only realized it was possible to do otherwise when I lived and worked in Canada), and one more reason is peer pressure. Being a Japanese is hard.
I grew up in San Francisco, an active earthquake zone and I don't have a casual attitude when one hits because you don't know if it's going to be a small one, or if it's going to get stronger and keep going.
As a Japanese person you are exploring many things of your culture positive and negative everyside which is why we could know many unknown facts about Japan so, thank you so much for this video.
Most people have things they like and dislike in their countries. We need to remember our traditions and culture and teach them to our young people. I really enjoy learning about Japan from your videos. Thank you from teaching me about your culture.
These 11 things about Japan won’t stop my goal to visit the country. 😊 Looking forward to experience your culture and visit the beautiful tourist spots there. ❤️
I live in south Texas USA. There are many things I don’t like about it, but after living in Washington state for 20 years (and I still greatly miss the forests of Washington), it was south Texas where I returned after a contentious divorce made staying in the Seattle area impossible. I have come to appreciate much of life in Texas, (where I have traded living with forests all around) enough to make living here tenable. I only found your channel two days ago, but have watched several videos and am enjoying them so much that I have created a “JAPANESE WAY” category in my saved list. While I understand since you are male, some things you talk about are male specific (removing top portion of kimono in summer heat). I also watch a channel by Honeyjubu that has female specific videos (cleaning, cooking for family) although I believe she is Korean. I guess cleaning is important to Koreans as well as Japanese. My intention is to incorporate many things you enlighten us with in your videos as I feel a peaceful and mostly, for me, correct and sensible way of living. I look forward to enjoying more of your video offerings. Thank you.
I was only one time in Japan (Tokyo and Kyoto). My second vacation to Japan will be when the pandemic is a bit better controlled. But I had no bad experience there, Not even with ppl, even if I heard that they didn't like foreigners.. But I understand what u mean, and I like that u have the view of living in Japan and in a foreigner country. I learned that living in a foreigner country makes us know more about our own country.
My friend is white and married a Japanese man and moved to Japan. She taught English in a school. As soon as she turned 40, she was fired. When she asked why, she was told that she was too old and they only wanted women with young, pretty faces working there!
I am still completely charmed by Japanese culture and it’s one of my most desired countries to visit. There is no country without flaws, and it’s so interesting to hear about them!
This is funny!😄 I went to Japan , from America to visit on business. Honestly, I was surprised how different each Japanese person's personality was. I thought they were all little robots like you said --- Japan, Incorporated, that was the image I had. But each one was different, with different attitudes and for example what they think is funny or not, or what they like or not. Some of them are friendly, some are rude, some easy going, some are approachable, some are arrogant, others high strung. What really impressed me was how the Japanese took time to take me out after hours, for sushi and sake, and spend time with me, and talk with me, a whole bunch of Japanese people did this for me!!! That was really a nice part of the culture!!! But when some Japanese people came to visit us at our American company location , nobody in the office could be bothered to spend any time with them after work! It was actually embarrassing! b/c I knew how the Japanese would invest their time when an American came to visit them, to make us feel welcome, but the Americans over here were a bunch of creeps and couldn't be bothered to return the courtesy! So in a way, "individuality" can lead to people being self absorbed and losing sight of kindness to others, so just a friendly suggestion that maybe individuality is overrated.
a lot of these issues are common around the world it is sad that so much traditional life styles are changing for more modern things. when i visited japan in 2017, i was amazed at how intergrated the traditional and modern was. so dont feel to bad on that because as compared to a lot of other countries, your traditional is still very prelevant (especially compared to the usa where there is nothing traditional) i think the only time i talked to the police/security while in japan was because i was loss and needed help lol . so maybe the over inspection of foreigners is more of for people who are there for a long time.
Thank you for your work making these videos! They are inspiring and I feel that you are pure hearted in improving yourself and sharing what you learn or know. ❤️
My 11-year-old daughter dreams of living in Japan, she is a fan of your culture, so much so that I bought a cookbook with traditional Japanese recipes and we cook Japanese dishes with it from time to time, eating them, of course, with chopsticks. She watches movies, reads manga, and even listens to Japanese music. I am (too) slowly getting to know your culture, but I do not forget about the native culture of the Slavs, which is close to me. Unfortunately, today every culture (historical, traditional) is forgotten. is it in Japan or Poland or in another country...it is a pity because there would be no future and present without the past. Greetings from Poland
I really like your video. You mentioned what your dislikes about Japan, yet you also mentioned the solution or ways to make it positive things. I totally agree that Japan should preserve the beautiful culture and be more proud of being different and unique. I find the Japanese culture absolutely fascinating and amazing to discover. Please make more videos and spread the words. Thank you for making this video!
When it comes to school rules you don't like, my school was just as strict but schools are only there to prepare you for work, and consequently have to minimise opportunities for bullying hence uniforms. You can do all those personal things like colouring hair, perms etc once you leave school when pupils are not minors.
Last year I worked for a Japanese company where almost everyday I cried and wrote resign letter because of their behaviour and work- environment. I started hating Japanese people altogether. Now I understand that was a black company. Btw, I like your channel very much. The information you provide really make sense. Thank you
Great video. I love and admire that you mention in your videos good and bad traits alike. Many people are not able to criticize their culture. I think you did that in a very thoughtful and balanced way. I learned a lot. Also, I agree with your assessments. It is sad, that beautiful traditions or traditional items disappear, like people wearing less kimonos or Japanese houses being torn down. The later really hurts me, I am a fan of good traditionally build houses and heard only good things about Japaneses buildings. Finally, I can relate to many things. I am from Germany, and here, things like people s opinion about me and conformity in general feel to me a bit similar.
Спасибо Вам за видео! Было очень интересно узнать о Японии глазами японца. У Вас удивительная страна. Очень не похоже на Россию, но, если приглядеться, между нашими традициями много общего!
Its similar in India. I can say that in India people are blindly following the bad things about the western culture and not the good things. I hope Japan and India become best friends and find their way to the best things. :)
I know right!? I love traditional Japanese houses and clothes so much😍It's what makes Japan so different and beautiful. This is why I enjoyed visting older towns I more than I enjoyed visiting Tokyo. I love the beautiful, historical unique charm of Japan, please preserve it!❤🏯
Thanks for your inspiring videos. I am hoping to visit Japan next year and the Japan you portray in your videos is something I am looking forward to seeing, and to meet the people there. It is good to be clear-eyed about the country you live in, though! Don't get me started about the USA! I would end up making a very, very long video!
1:45 In Tohoku at least this is no longer the case. It's simply way too cold to expect children to go to school without proper winter clothing. Girls are also allowed to wear tights instead of socks during these months as well.
I LOVE japan💖💖, I went to Japan in 2017, it was my dream, I loved to visit your beautiful country, all is so clean, tidy, and Japanese are so kind🌺. Greetings from France 🙏🇨🇵🕊
When I lived in HK I visited Japan many times. I came across many of the things you mentioned. However I love the Country and its people so much and miss the freedom of a few days there whenever I felt like it.
So correctly identified.. Really admire your analysis. I am just moved in Japan and found these things a bit hard to digest butat the same time I am moved by the japanese people's modesty, their down to earth nature, their habbit of helping others by going out of the way, their clam lifestyle Their culture of not using cellphone (for calls) Keeping silence at most of places like lift, metro etc I love this country and people and the small flaws can be completely neglected Love from a Indian ❣️
I love anime but I already know living in Japan is stressful because they are not allowed to express themselves freely by being confident or loud. So when people get mad at me saying "You can speak Japanese but you do not want to go to Japan, what a waste!" Like, I know they just jelly I can speak 3 languages. But I always tell them Japan is nice place to tour and visit but never to live there unless you are super introvert and has low self confidence. They will fit there definetly. Im an introvert, but I cannot bare the fact we cannot express ourselves in a way Japan society is still stuck in old rules which is sad.
For a resident of Japan it seemed particularly interesting to me. Your video is nice and you talked very well.  I would like to see more similar videos.
I had visited Japan on a business trip and i went to many places, including several offbeat places just to take a feel of the local culture and food. Here are my observations: 1 . Japanese youth in big cities like Tokyo and Osaka etc. are friendlier than people who are older than 30. 2 . Japanese follow their peers. Its like a colony of ants who will check on his/her mate and try to do what they are doing in a fear of getting left out by society. They do not possess that strength of mind to rebel or do what is right. They always do what is told. Following rule (even if it makes no sense and there is a smarter and more productive way to achieve a certain task) is of top priority for them to maintain the integrity of their character. 3 . Japanese respect what they eat. And I as a foreigner respected that culture. I literally found it extremely peaceful. 4 . Japanese women are very shy and won't ever approach you directly even if they like you. 5 . Japanese people try to be loyal to their company and are afraid of exploring other career/opportunities in same career which is detrimental to their professional growth. 6 . Japanese bathrooms are awesome! 7 . The Japanese culture of wabi-sabi is something I love. 8 . Japanese are ingenious people who are also good with housing architecture. 9 . There is something weird about Tokyo taxi drivers though. They are extremely proud individuals, which is fair enough. But they are also not ready to communicate with you like a normal person. 10 . Designation hierarchy is extremely dominant in Japanese offices. If your boss tells you to have a drink with him, you got to have a drink with him or you will be frowned upon. 11 . Japanese people are very helpful, but only towards others. They do not take care of their mental health much. 12 . Japanese trains are amazing! The shinkansen is awesome. 13. I liked sashimi better than sushi. 14 . Housing is very expensive. 15 . Japanese respect and love nature. They know how to worship the beauty of nature and I have learned a lot of lessons from them. 16 . The real Japan lies outside the big cities in the sub-urban areas and villages.
I'm a foreigner living in Japan and one thing I can't stand is that it takes forever to drive short distances. I am 48.28km (30 miles) from Tokyo and it takes over an hour to get there! Going down the street to my favorite restaurants take 15-20min just to go 16km (10mi). It's ridiculous but I will miss living here :)
Wonderful and informative video. I'm very glad I discovered your channel. Really appeciate your honesty and non-biased point of view. Greetings from a fellow teacher from Poland ^^
i used to think you japanese people were completely oblivious to stereotypes and unhealthy food and all the bad stuff in this video, but now watching this makes me happy, PLUS your so cool and im very proud of you for sticking with japanese culture and doing a tea ceremony and wearing a kimono as much as you can. go YOU
I've taught at a high school in Japan for 30 years. We use interactive screens 1/3 the size of blackboards, not blackboards. Also, I've never felt inconvenienced, not once.
I liked this video as I think it is always valuable to bring up what are negative aspects, even if it's for someone I am personally so passionate about like Japan. I made a point to learn as much as possible by the "ugly", to really learn how to love, in this case a country. Thank you for this video!
I love Japan and the people they clean and everything said made in Japan you dont have to worry.i live in Taiwan and its just diffrent.my daughter went to Japan and she fall in love and said the people so friendly.
The westernization of eastern cultures deeply saddens me, and I’m glad you brought it up. I’ve always had an appreciation for traditional Japanese culture and customs. The beautiful homes, gardens, clothes, and healthy food.
Cultures mesh a lot, that is seen throughout history.
Japanese culture was alive and doing well when I went travellig there.
But AFAIK that goes back to the Meiji restoration era, which is 100+ yrs ago
It's just the best the world has to offer. The Japanese style will still shine though
@@יהוהיהושוע-כ3ר alot of japan culture have chinese influence. and most of their popular music are inpsired by western, american music
I've been teaching English to Japanese students online for 7 years now. Even before that, I've been a big fan of Japan and Japanese culture. Over the years I came to learn a lot of negative things about Japan, its culture and people - things like stereotypes, black companies, death from overwork, the "lost generation" (NEETs, and hikikomoris), teen "prostitution", "acceptable" cheating in marriage, extreme women discrimination, lack of childcare support for parents, panty thieves, suicide rates, etc. Many of these things are not exclusive to Japan. Many countries around the world have similar problems. Japanese people are genuinely nice, and while some might seem shy at first, it's usually because they're insecure about their English speaking abilities. Over the years I've meet only a handful of rude and arrogant Japanese, mostly men in their 50s and 60s (the super conservative bunch with the "Japan is the best in the world" attitude). Almost all of my students were kind and polite, and happy to learn new things about my country or the world.
As someone who deeply loves Japan, the negative things can't compare to the positive things about this beautiful country. I believe there are many people like me, who are aware and familiar with the "dark side of Japan" but still continue to love it, because no country and nation is perfect. ❤️
As a fellow Japanese male, I apologize for the rude behavior of the conservative Japanese.
However, the fact that you have met a conservative Japanese man means that you are deeply involved with Japanese people.
Conservative Japanese are afraid of people who look different from them and cannot speak foreign languages, and their pride does not allow them to talk to others.
What in this world is a panty thief?
I have been living in Japan for ten years now, and pretty much everything you said is accurate! I love Japan and it' s people and culture. However, the cons that you have stated is something that needs to be fixed here.
Japan also has saddle and sandal thieves. Some thieves are collectors.
Some thieves steal a woman's shoes and give her a brand new shoes 👟
I love Japan , I’m going back in August.
I am a blonde Australian woman, and I went to Junior high school in Osaka. Every day on my way walking to school I was always getting stopped by random people wanting to ask me questions, but I loved it, they were just curious about me!
I have so many great memories, sticker photos with my school friends, visiting castles, learning Japanese money, watching crazy Japanese game shows on TV.
I desperately want to go back.
It's funny how it's human nature to want what you don't have. As a Canadian, I love learning about Japanese culture! It's one of the reasons I want to visit Japan. So no worries, people will still love Japan. Especially because of your excellent videos! Stay safe!
they'll love to visit only for sure
I absolutely love your comment and enthusiasm! But am in no way Canadian... of course I'm teasing. I tell my Euro and UK gaijin friends, "They are just like us , just much nicer." Most agree and don't even know I'm joking. True story.
But when you come to Japan, please come with an open mind. I've been living here (minus 9/11/2001 through 2008) for 25 years. I still have no clue where some random gaijin get their ideas about Japan before they even get here.
Lot's of mazel!
Same me too
@@tellyintokyo 😄true man I love your comment
Sigh i live in the united states where it is ALL individuality, and life here couldnt be more stressed and unhappy. We all want what we cannot have, i love the cohesion of japanese culture and how everyone is family to everyone else...in the states you are truly lonely and all on your own. People here also push selfishness as a virtue and it morphs into narcissim, vanity, high sense of value and entitlement. balance is key in life and no country has gotten it right yet
Please keep your culture alive as much as you can. Love Japan from Iran.
I lived in Tokyo for 2.5 years in the 90s and never felt discriminated against. I see Japan as a wonderful, welcoming place.
"Please don't hate Japan." Well frankly I love Japan. I know there are many unpleasant things about Japan for us foreigners, but for Japanese people too. But there still are way more pluses, than minuses. My wife and I went to Japan for our honeymoon and my oh my how much we miss Japan ever since. We hope and pray we would be able to go and see Japan again in the future. I've been studying Japanese language, I even run a Japanese culture group for our students in the school where I teach. We do love Japan, don't you worry! I'd move to Japan if it was possible.
I visited Japan several times in the 1980s. Japan smells amazing. I can still smell the delicious aromas of roasted seaweed, smoky bonito, sweet tangerines, and steaming miso soup that enveloped every alley I walked into. Everybody was really decent to me and it was very exotically beautiful! Every place has it drawbacks but your country is really extra special.
It’s sad to see that your Japanese culture is changing to western style culture. That’s what make a country unique. Food additives are nasty and bad for the health good to see your trying to change and be who you feel like being. Good video.
FUCC FOOD ADDITIVES
India: *Cough-Cough*
It's not western, probably American culture you are talking about
How interesting… over here in the UK most of my friends want Japanese style things, and we’re inspiring ourselves with traditional Japan while we’re renovating our flat!
I love how you also show us the flaws of your country! Keep up the amazing work, Aki!
Watching this video makes me love Japan a little bit more
All my life I have been fascinated by Japan. I grew up in Canada and I hoped to visit this lovely country some day and in 1997 my wish came true at the age of 46. The many things you described, Aki that you don't like in your own country I was never aware of except that some Japanese don't like foreigners. My husband and I were at a plum blossom festival and at one of the booths selling dried fruit wouldn't even sell us any due to the fact that we were not Japanese. Well, despite this one incident we had another surprise in Kyoto when we were in the park surrounding the royal palace which was being renovated. We were very hungry and there was a small restaurant in the park which was very crowded especially by the renovation workers taking their lunch. We also stood in line waiting patiently but then one of the Japanese ladies from the kitchen came out and took our hands and led us to the front of the line to choose what we wanted to eat, then led us to a table for two and within a few minutes this lady came with food and placed it before us. We could not communicate since neither of us knew the other's language but her sparkling eyes and friendly smile told us more than words ever could. What a wonderful time we had in Japan. I would recommend it to anyone. They would not be disappointed. Sending love to all of you who made our stay a happy one and even to those who didn't due to misunderstanding.
So glad to see you examining your culture critically. I think it's very important to find that balance, to root out the evils that creep into our own culture, to take good things from other cultures, to nurture the good things in our own culture and respect them all. When we skip any of these, we tend to become either cynical or xenophobic or toxic adherents of our own culture.
Some of these complaints are in many ways found in other parts of the world too:
1. The education system in many places still relies on the Prussian-style education system which, though revolutionary in the 19th century, is outdated now.
2. Cities become more and more crowded and traffic becomes unbearable.
3. The disappearence of unique traditions and local flavor underneath the big equalizer of globalization.
4. A world of fast-food with cheap, bad, convenient food that will make us sick.
I live in Japan 50 years and I can agree with what you said ,compared to other countries Japan has a way of teaching that I believe it’s group minded ,like it’s not so much to learn about your own individuality,so there are so many suicide when they got old and can’t find a purpose to live ,especially the hikikomori type !I feel that it causes a lot of stress for the person ,as in school and after at work or even in old ages there is a lot of Ijime means harassment!The new generation has to stand up and build a Japan with true freedom changing there old customs that are not working anymore ,keeping the good ones off course!
Also accept woman as equal in home work etc !
This is what I don't like most. Everyone should be living with their own thoughts. They don't have to think or act as everyone else. That's society and its variety.
such problem doesnt lay with the Japanese alone. it is an Asian thing. in my country where there is no press freedom i think it is not any better when it comes to suicide, racism, self isolation and many similar Japanese problems.
just because real data does not exist it does not mean it isnt happening.
-It isn't just that the rules are strange. It's that the Japanese don't question them.
-The Japanese like rules because they don't like to think. Rules do the thinking for them.
It's refreshing to hear a Japanese person think his own thoughts and express them honestly.
some things are better left alone, look at how western societies are today in the name of progress. frightening. i used to be a progressive until i saw Europe and America.
True, and for the same reason. People accept ideas without thinking. @@MrNajibrazak
@@suginomura Note that I didn't say all Japanese. Of course, there are a few who think for themselves, but whether they voice their thoughts truthfully is another matter. I lived in Japan 3 years. The trend I saw is that the Japanese would rather have authority figures direct them or think for them.
I live in Sweden which has the worst crime rates in the EU. So far this year we've had 71 murders, countless bombings and rapes. In Japan I've always felt safe, it's so beautiful, reliable and clean with the best food in the world. Wish I could move there.
I didn't know that about Sweden... Here in Belgium we think everything in the Scandinavian countries is well sorted out. The only criminals are in the tvshows.
Scandinavia used to be Idyllic - progressive, clean, safe. Some countries still are mostly, like Iceland and Finland, but Sweden is the worst (Malmo is a disaster). I'm sorry to say, it all started going downhill with open immigration.
Loved this. I taught in Japan from 1991-97. I will never forget my first moderate earthquake (moderate is relative - anywhere else a 6.3 earthquake is pretty BIG!) I had a dream that I was teaching my high school students when there was an earthquake and the building collapsed. A few days later the 6.3 earthquake happened while I was teaching THAT class! It went on and on, the windows rattled, the building didn't move from side to side but the rarer up and down motion - perfect for a building pancake! My students screamed and got under the tables. I pretended I had it together but thought, as I watched the lights across the street at the train station sway violently and then flicker off, that if this didn't stop in the next ten seconds I was going to run screaming down the staircase and out of the building. Luckily it stopped shortly therafter. Later I experienced even stronger earthquakes, but reacted like you did in the video , barely at all.
Which one? He acted two roles 😆
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I love the Japanese. They’re intelligent, they have great respect for their elders, they make brilliant products, their food is magnificent and they live in a beautiful country. I love Japanese things. I’ve got lots of Japanese made items in the house - little trinkets and traditional items. I aspire to be more like the Japanese. Instead, everybody is becoming more American. Japan, hold onto your traditions tightly. You have one of the best cultures on Earth. Preserve it. And don’t let any outside forces dictate the way you live.
From a Danish girl living in England I send love. X
Being a foreigner it is understable to be frequently questioned because as long as we see the beauty in Japan: it's worth it , some foreigners even suggest that's the reason that attacks are relatively low. However, Japanese people who have one parents from Japan and other from another country who is deemed to look different is questioned frequently like a stranger which makes them question humanity to treat them like a stranger even if they are legally Japanese. Having to be Japanese and bring treated as an outsider has resulted in many suicides & depression reports. I hope Japanese laws are relaxed in a way that ensure safety and equality simultaneously
I once read that they question so many foreigners or at least that they question many of them repeatedly because they want to hit their quota. If true that's just so wrong though. Questioning people to for safety or awareness (to show them there's always someone around) doesn't sound to bad but questioning people on a day to day basis is just silly.
You did a great job when you tell us about good and not good things in Japan. We are made by our strengths and weaknesses and thatch’s the beauty of it. Since we are not treated unfairly anywhere, everything else is ok. I love your videos! Thanks.
Excellent list of bad things. Thank you for being involved in keeping traditional Japanese culture! I appreciated your wearing kimono even before you said that item. One time while working in a famous Japanese company, I wore my kimono (on my last day at that job). Many coworkers were impressed and appreciative, but my boss told me “isn’t that against the dress code?” I asked him back, “do you hate Japanese culture?” but he ruined my day. On the other hand, one time I forgot my cellphone at Nanzenji in Kyoto and they had it for me in the back office, which was just like any stale office or teacher’s room in Japan ironically, but all the monks were at their desks wearing their Buddhist kimono robes! I loved it!
Hello samurai.I am from Nepal and since the time we experienced the 7.8 mag earthquake ,I even don't care on normal shakes. Can't believe it has been already 7 years but that fear of disaster feels like yesterday.
येस्तै हो समय्🤔
Stay safe and I wish your trauma heals 🙇
You are so ridiculously adorable and admirable, even when you’re discussing negative traits you do it with which such a detached lightness, very inspirational. You’re different and you celebrate it, you’re paving the way for others to express their differences, it’s a true gift. Thank you for talking about the difficulties with the control of the media and government when it comes to the pandemic, we have a right not live in fear. I still love Japan ❤️
It is really nice to watch your videos and learn about Japan. Thank you very much for sharing your views. Very informative.
I'm Spanish and I live in Japan for 9 years now. I do love your country and I really agree every single thing you said. I really think it's one of the most interenting coutries to talk about. Specially latly, that so many things are changing. About "Inconveniece for foreigners", that's right. I was rejected for some houses I wanted to rent just because I'm not japanese. However, I use to say that "Japan is a great country to live if you are not Japanese". Just because the "Tatemae / Honnne" rules are really strict for the nationals. But, sometimes, we can "play the gaijin card" for wich we can be forgiven for things that the nationals wouldn't be. What do you think?
So interesting. My children go to Japanese school in America. I appreciate that we don’t rely so much on technology and don’t mind that the curriculum isn’t constantly updated. It is a problem in America because kids are taught on apps and don’t understand things deeply.
Our school just stopped wearing masks. Most people still wear them because they are afraid of being judged. Luckily my kids understand that following the crowd isn’t always the way. People misunderstand why Japanese wear masks. They do it because it is a “rule” and don’t want to be the first one to change what they are doing. It is a deep problem. (Note: my kids are “hafu”).
Complementary overtime! That's so funny. 🤣
I'm sorry about your old house! That made me so sad. The house I used to live in England was built in 1876, I think that's quite normal! My flat (apartment) was built in 1970, I don't think it's so old.
Thank you so much for your videos! I share your dislike for things like overwork and food additives. Your fresh and creative approach to life is exactly what Japan needs. All best wishes. 🙏
I loved my visit to Japan exactly because it felt different from everywhere else that I had been, I love the culture and traditions and I hope that the young generation starts to appreciate it and value. Unfortunately the influence of the media is causing havoc all over the world. Especially the changes of diet , I am from Brasil living in the UK from a long time and have noticed that people are overweight because they started eating like the United States and lots of American food industry is now in Brasil pushing their rubbish food. It is sad and is impacting most the people who can not pay for the deceases caused by the western styles of food.
Hi! My brother is living now in Japan. Originally he is from Kazakhstan. He is a physical scientist. He is a very talented man. We miss him. He said that life in Japan is tough for him as for a foreigner.
I think because of a language in the first place, and a lack of social relations in the second.
Another great video! I think it's very interesting you chose to talk about the things that suck in Japan- most people only choose to highlight the positives of their cultures so it's very cool you wanted to honestly portray it! It's good to know everything about something you're interested about, the good, the bad, and the ugly! Looking forward to your next video 😊
I have to wholeheartedly agree with your comments about Japanese culture. When I first visited Japan I was so disappointed by the amount of Western influence, mainly American. I visited Japan to fulfill my childhood dream of seeing and experiencing Japanese traditional culture and felt saddened to see how much was lost. Having said that it was mainly in the big cities and when I went out into smaller towns and the countryside I felt better and was able to absorb the culture more. Sadly I think this is happening in many places in the world and I hope that Japan manages to preserve its fascinating history, culture, and art for visitors to enjoy for many years to come.
On another note, food additives are a nightmare in Japan. I had to be careful about what I consumed as I suffer from allergies and intolerances. Again I found fewer problems in the smaller towns and countryside where there were much more organic and fresh choices and loved some of the roadside and farmer's stalls I found.
The differences are what makes people and place unique, there is not only one way of living. I love everything about Japan. Japan is not the only country that has things or (cultural differences) to that of western culture, not everything has to be the westernised. please cherish your culture and enjoy what you have.
About the stereotypes. Lot’s of stereotypes for russians and in Russia now like in Japan. I’m russian, but I also love my culture, as I love japanese ❤️ But we can all be humans to each other. I’m in love with your vision of life. I have the same. Thanks for doing this videos. Please, continue!
Please tell Putin to leave Ukraine!
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Such a good video! I am half Japanese and have gone to Japan many times throughout my life to visit my family, spending months there at a time. I love it and it's my home away from home. But I agree with all these points you've made, especially the ones about the convenience store foods and the media brainwashing people. The social pressure is definitely hard to live with at times, knowing from first hand experience.
It's very admirable that you don't let Japanese culture disappear
I've only been to Japan once as a tourist and really loved it, I hope I can come back one day. From your list I noticed the crazy work ethic (I'm from Germany). However I felt very welcomed, even in remote areas, everyone was very open and friendly. I loved the cleanliness, people just seem to take care of things, even if they are not the owner. In a small town close to the Fuji I lost my backpack on the bus. The owners of our accommodation got it back within hours! I don't think this would happen in a lot of places. Long comment, but one more thing: I don't think the toilets are western culture, more like modern Japanese, as I've never seen this high and technically advanced standart in other places 😉
I don’t know if it’s a terrible thing if Japanese school didn’t change a lot in 30 years. In Italy school changed for the worst…. Even if the most fault is upon the parents: when i was little, if a teacher said something to them, they would speak to me to understand the situation better and the valued teacher’s opinion. Now teacher risk aggressions every time they speak ill of their kids at school because a lot of parents think their children are genius to protect even with punches and kicks 😞
So true. It is similar here in Singapore and Australia too. It is like child abuse if teachers are just sending constructive comments for kids to improve. Nowadays teachers just say nice things don’t dare to offend when kids really do have to change. I am a parent myself. I am not saying teachers are to be abusive… in the past I am sure many teachers were and could be abusive because they abused their authority but now it is the opposite. Well, we sure need a good balance! Basically, teachers, students and parents all have to be respectful to one another.
Your English gets better and better. You can tell you are working hard.
Don't worry. Even if Japan has some flaws I still love Japan alot! I'd give anything to visit Japan someday. I'm an American.
There are not many things I dislike about Japan. The only elements I've spotted are:
- fruits are very expensive and fruit juice seems to be diluted.
- fruits (apples) are wrapped in plastic which is not very healthy.
- overpackaging: although packages are cute for presents, I found everything I bought was unnecessarily packaged, which can constitute waste.
- sniffling: I understand that in Japan nose blowing in public is regarded as rude whereas it's completely normal and recommended in Europe (provided we don't make gross sounds). But I've seen people who don't blow their nose sniffle in public transport which can be quite distracting.
Other than that, I love Japan. Such a marvellous country.
Thank you for this video. I will be moving to Japan in about a month or two, and your videos are very informative and inspiring. I am a ハーフ born in Hawaii, often I find myself in an awkward position of "foreigner but not really".. I can relate to many things mentioned here about traditional Japanese views.
Thank you for the sincerity with which you present the topics of your videos. Greetings from Bolivia.
You're keeping it real, that's a wonderful quality. I love Japanese culture and people. My sister is married to a amazing Japanese man, he's a magnificent human been. ❤️ love your videos.
I think every country has their own issues. In Italy, the country where I live, the bureaucracy is very slow and complicated and the political class is dishonest and corrupt, which leads to many problems in the management of essential services starting from the very slow times of healthcare. I must say, however, I would not change my country with anyone else in the world ❤️
What do you like about Italy?
Uhm aren't all bureaucracy slow, dishonest and corrupt?
I've been wondering for a long time why the Japanese work these crazy working hours, but from your example I see it's because it's just the lifestyle they see (like you yourself only realized it was possible to do otherwise when I lived and worked in Canada), and one more reason is peer pressure. Being a Japanese is hard.
I grew up in San Francisco, an active earthquake zone and I don't have a casual attitude when one hits because you don't know if it's going to be a small one, or if it's going to get stronger and keep going.
Your honesty is very refreshing in this video. Love your videos BTW.
As a Japanese person you are exploring many things of your culture positive and negative everyside which is why we could know many unknown facts about Japan so, thank you so much for this video.
Most people have things they like and dislike in their countries. We need to remember our traditions and culture and teach them to our young people. I really enjoy learning about Japan from your videos. Thank you from teaching me about your culture.
These 11 things about Japan won’t stop my goal to visit the country. 😊 Looking forward to experience your culture and visit the beautiful tourist spots there. ❤️
I live in south Texas USA. There are many things I don’t like about it, but after living in Washington state for 20 years (and I still greatly miss the forests of Washington), it was south Texas where I returned after a contentious divorce made staying in the Seattle area impossible. I have come to appreciate much of life in Texas, (where I have traded living with forests all around) enough to make living here tenable. I only found your channel two days ago, but have watched several videos and am enjoying them so much that I have created a “JAPANESE WAY” category in my saved list. While I understand since you are male, some things you talk about are male specific (removing top portion of kimono in summer heat). I also watch a channel by Honeyjubu that has female specific videos (cleaning, cooking for family) although I believe she is Korean. I guess cleaning is important to Koreans as well as Japanese. My intention is to incorporate many things you enlighten us with in your videos as I feel a peaceful and mostly, for me, correct and sensible way of living. I look forward to enjoying more of your video offerings. Thank you.
Just discovered your channel yesterday, and since then I'm just binging ur videos!! Great work!!
I was only one time in Japan (Tokyo and Kyoto). My second vacation to Japan will be when the pandemic is a bit better controlled. But I had no bad experience there, Not even with ppl, even if I heard that they didn't like foreigners.. But I understand what u mean, and I like that u have the view of living in Japan and in a foreigner country. I learned that living in a foreigner country makes us know more about our own country.
My friend is white and married a Japanese man and moved to Japan. She taught English in a school. As soon as she turned 40, she was fired. When she asked why, she was told that she was too old and they only wanted women with young, pretty faces working there!
Thank you! I didn't know😃👌💙💙💙
I truly enjoy watching your videos. You choose such interesting subjects; and I think this is one of your best. Thanks!
I am still completely charmed by Japanese culture and it’s one of my most desired countries to visit. There is no country without flaws, and it’s so interesting to hear about them!
This is funny!😄 I went to Japan , from America to visit on business. Honestly, I was surprised how different each Japanese person's personality was. I thought they were all little robots like you said --- Japan, Incorporated, that was the image I had.
But each one was different, with different attitudes and for example what they think is funny or not, or what they like or not. Some of them are friendly, some are rude, some easy going, some are approachable, some are arrogant, others high strung.
What really impressed me was how the Japanese took time to take me out after hours, for sushi and sake, and spend time with me, and talk with me, a whole bunch of Japanese people did this for me!!! That was really a nice part of the culture!!!
But when some Japanese people came to visit us at our American company location , nobody in the office could be bothered to spend any time with them after work! It was actually embarrassing! b/c I knew how the Japanese would invest their time when an American came to visit them, to make us feel welcome, but the Americans over here were a bunch of creeps and couldn't be bothered to return the courtesy! So in a way, "individuality" can lead to people being self absorbed and losing sight of kindness to others, so just a friendly suggestion that maybe individuality is overrated.
a lot of these issues are common around the world
it is sad that so much traditional life styles are changing for more modern things.
when i visited japan in 2017, i was amazed at how intergrated the traditional and modern was. so dont feel to bad on that because as compared to a lot of other countries, your traditional is still very prelevant (especially compared to the usa where there is nothing traditional)
i think the only time i talked to the police/security while in japan was because i was loss and needed help lol . so maybe the over inspection of foreigners is more of for people who are there for a long time.
Thank you for your work making these videos! They are inspiring and I feel that you are pure hearted in improving yourself and sharing what you learn or know. ❤️
It's an amazing video and I love this so much, especially for someone who is talking about the difficulties of his own culture and traditions.
My 11-year-old daughter dreams of living in Japan, she is a fan of your culture, so much so that I bought a cookbook with traditional Japanese recipes and we cook Japanese dishes with it from time to time, eating them, of course, with chopsticks. She watches movies, reads manga, and even listens to Japanese music. I am (too) slowly getting to know your culture, but I do not forget about the native culture of the Slavs, which is close to me. Unfortunately, today every culture (historical, traditional) is forgotten. is it in Japan or Poland or in another country...it is a pity because there would be no future and present without the past. Greetings from Poland
Thank you for your comment! That's nice! Please come to Japan;-D We should cherish our our countries culture.
@@SamuraiMatcha One day we will visit Japan, I promise myself and my daughter ❤️
I really like your video. You mentioned what your dislikes about Japan, yet you also mentioned the solution or ways to make it positive things. I totally agree that Japan should preserve the beautiful culture and be more proud of being different and unique. I find the Japanese culture absolutely fascinating and amazing to discover. Please make more videos and spread the words. Thank you for making this video!
When it comes to school rules you don't like, my school was just as strict but schools are only there to prepare you for work, and consequently have to minimise opportunities for bullying hence uniforms. You can do all those personal things like colouring hair, perms etc once you leave school when pupils are not minors.
Last year I worked for a Japanese company where almost everyday I cried and wrote resign letter because of their behaviour and work- environment. I started hating Japanese people altogether. Now I understand that was a black company. Btw, I like your channel very much. The information you provide really make sense. Thank you
Interesting! Thanks for sharing also pictures of yourself when you were a child and your family home!
I admire you very much. Your English is good. Also, you have given much thought to what helps or hurts your life. You respect the planet.
In Europe we love Japan. Such a great inspiration, amazing culture and very high quality products. I’m willing to go there soon!
Love these honest and courageous videos. Don't sweat any it. Japan is better at everything than the rest of the world. Proven fact.
Great video. I love and admire that you mention in your videos good and bad traits alike. Many people are not able to criticize their culture. I think you did that in a very thoughtful and balanced way. I learned a lot. Also, I agree with your assessments. It is sad, that beautiful traditions or traditional items disappear, like people wearing less kimonos or Japanese houses being torn down. The later really hurts me, I am a fan of good traditionally build houses and heard only good things about Japaneses buildings. Finally, I can relate to many things. I am from Germany, and here, things like people s opinion about me and conformity in general feel to me a bit similar.
Спасибо Вам за видео! Было очень интересно узнать о Японии глазами японца. У Вас удивительная страна. Очень не похоже на Россию, но, если приглядеться, между нашими традициями много общего!
Its similar in India. I can say that in India people are blindly following the bad things about the western culture and not the good things. I hope Japan and India become best friends and find their way to the best things. :)
I know right!? I love traditional Japanese houses and clothes so much😍It's what makes Japan so different and beautiful. This is why I enjoyed visting older towns I more than I enjoyed visiting Tokyo. I love the beautiful, historical unique charm of Japan, please preserve it!❤🏯
At least , you are being honest and it is greatly appreciated 🙏👍.
Thanks for your inspiring videos. I am hoping to visit Japan next year and the Japan you portray in your videos is something I am looking forward to seeing, and to meet the people there. It is good to be clear-eyed about the country you live in, though! Don't get me started about the USA! I would end up making a very, very long video!
1:45 In Tohoku at least this is no longer the case. It's simply way too cold to expect children to go to school without proper winter clothing. Girls are also allowed to wear tights instead of socks during these months as well.
I love to live anywhere. As long as lock my door, windows are anti-noise and front window is not directed to street or social areas !!!!
I LOVE japan💖💖, I went to Japan in 2017, it was my dream, I loved to visit your beautiful country, all is so clean, tidy, and Japanese are so kind🌺. Greetings from France 🙏🇨🇵🕊
When I lived in HK I visited Japan many times. I came across many of the things you mentioned. However I love the Country and its people so much and miss the freedom of a few days there whenever I felt like it.
Thank you for making these videos. I’m learning a lot about Japan.
When Aki said "Oh, okay" during the earthquake I laughed 😂
He was so chill about it
So correctly identified..
Really admire your analysis.
I am just moved in Japan and found these things a bit hard to digest butat the same time I am moved by the japanese people's modesty, their down to earth nature, their habbit of helping others by going out of the way, their clam lifestyle
Their culture of not using cellphone (for calls)
Keeping silence at most of places like lift, metro etc
I love this country and people and the small flaws can be completely neglected
Love from a Indian ❣️
I love anime but I already know living in Japan is stressful because they are not allowed to express themselves freely by being confident or loud.
So when people get mad at me saying "You can speak Japanese but you do not want to go to Japan, what a waste!"
Like, I know they just jelly I can speak 3 languages. But I always tell them Japan is nice place to tour and visit but never to live there unless you are super introvert and has low self confidence. They will fit there definetly.
Im an introvert, but I cannot bare the fact we cannot express ourselves in a way Japan society is still stuck in old rules which is sad.
For a resident of Japan it seemed particularly interesting to me. Your video is nice and you talked very well.  I would like to see more similar videos.
i enjoyed the video. LOVE your country! I'd love to stay in your country. keep well
One of the warmest country, respects to ur culture, visit to Japan is a must in lifetime
Looking forward for more of your videos, keep it up
I had visited Japan on a business trip and i went to many places, including several offbeat places just to take a feel of the local culture and food.
Here are my observations:
1 . Japanese youth in big cities like Tokyo and Osaka etc. are friendlier than people who are older than 30.
2 . Japanese follow their peers. Its like a colony of ants who will check on his/her mate and try to do what they are doing in a fear of getting left out by society. They do not possess that strength of mind to rebel or do what is right. They always do what is told. Following rule (even if it makes no sense and there is a smarter and more productive way to achieve a certain task) is of top priority for them to maintain the integrity of their character.
3 . Japanese respect what they eat. And I as a foreigner respected that culture. I literally found it extremely peaceful.
4 . Japanese women are very shy and won't ever approach you directly even if they like you.
5 . Japanese people try to be loyal to their company and are afraid of exploring other career/opportunities in same career which is detrimental to their professional growth.
6 . Japanese bathrooms are awesome!
7 . The Japanese culture of wabi-sabi is something I love.
8 . Japanese are ingenious people who are also good with housing architecture.
9 . There is something weird about Tokyo taxi drivers though. They are extremely proud individuals, which is fair enough. But they are also not ready to communicate with you like a normal person.
10 . Designation hierarchy is extremely dominant in Japanese offices. If your boss tells you to have a drink with him, you got to have a drink with him or you will be frowned upon.
11 . Japanese people are very helpful, but only towards others. They do not take care of their mental health much.
12 . Japanese trains are amazing! The shinkansen is awesome.
13. I liked sashimi better than sushi.
14 . Housing is very expensive.
15 . Japanese respect and love nature. They know how to worship the beauty of nature and I have learned a lot of lessons from them.
16 . The real Japan lies outside the big cities in the sub-urban areas and villages.
I'm a foreigner living in Japan and one thing I can't stand is that it takes forever to drive short distances. I am 48.28km (30 miles) from Tokyo and it takes over an hour to get there! Going down the street to my favorite restaurants take 15-20min just to go 16km (10mi). It's ridiculous but I will miss living here :)
Wonderful and informative video. I'm very glad I discovered your channel. Really appeciate your honesty and non-biased point of view. Greetings from a fellow teacher from Poland ^^
i used to think you japanese people were completely oblivious to stereotypes and unhealthy food and all the bad stuff in this video, but now watching this makes me happy, PLUS your so cool and im very proud of you for sticking with japanese culture and doing a tea ceremony and wearing a kimono as much as you can. go YOU
Love ur individuality and free thinking bud 😁👏🏼💓
Persona atípica me caes bien y tienes razón, todos los paises tienen cosas buenas y malas, procuremos nosotros ser gente buena. Saludos desde México.
I've taught at a high school in Japan for 30 years. We use interactive screens 1/3 the size of blackboards, not blackboards. Also, I've never felt inconvenienced, not once.
I liked this video as I think it is always valuable to bring up what are negative aspects, even if it's for someone I am personally so passionate about like Japan. I made a point to learn as much as possible by the "ugly", to really learn how to love, in this case a country. Thank you for this video!
I love Japan and the people they clean and everything said made in Japan you dont have to worry.i live in Taiwan and its just diffrent.my daughter went to Japan and she fall in love and said the people so friendly.