A 27 dollar bill? I would just pretend to go to the bathroom and walk out and leave him with the tab. You wanted to split the bill? He should have told her that before he asked you out. Men that need to save money need to remain single 😊.
Instead of enjoying a date with a pretty girl and allowing things to progress naturally... He came with an ulterior motive He can't see the forest for the trees is how this appears
I'd do the bathroom excuse. Find your waitress have the bill seperated. Pay your part only and call an Uber or someone can come get you. The Uber guy has to text you a notice and his Pic. I think you send Pic back so he knows he's who you are. Soon as a you get that text. RUN out to the Uber. Leave, just leave. While in the Uber start blocking him from everything. Mention it while in the Uber to the driver. Please tip the driver a very nice tip. Tell him you appreciate the help. A big tip, and verbally/overly thank the driver. He/She will more than just remember you for a big tip and how you decently treated them.
Fr I've met people like this. You can't win an argument with this guy. You got to bow out with grace and never talk to him again because now you know how he is
LADIES!!! We have got to learn to say less! Babygirl needs to get up, pay the bill, and leave! No more words! He's not serious, and WE MUST MATCH ENERGY in 2024-PERIOD!!! Whether this is a skit or not, people really act like this, so the advice still stands! Be safe and keep your peace out here in these dating streets, ladies!!!❤✌🏽🙏🏽
She’s still young and trying to comprehend this man meanwhile, my 38 year old Millennial behind would have got up and left the moment he started staring at his phone. I disengage real quick and there is nothing to talk about. Block and delete. Have a good life.
True she should've left then but it's hard to break social conditioning that that's rude to do. As far as going back and forth with him here sometimes it's just therapeutic to state your viewpoint even if you know it won't change anything.
That man is gross. Not because he wouldn't pay he disrespected her the whole date and then wanted to go dutch. And he won't pay unless he knew she would sleep with him??
It's also sad that he thinks $27 is enough for s3x with ANYONE! Aren't escorts a minimum of $500? He's too broke for that and has zero social skills. He can always entertain Fistina, Palmetta and Jergen's for FREE.99!
I hope she paid for her food sat at the table blocked him got up and walked away not looking back and went on with her life, he chased her for 3 weeks only to turn out to be a LAME.
That man will never have the privilege again to sit with a woman like that. He thought she’d be his big move to assert payback of some inner injury caused by another girl. His phone is his partner
That's what I said. Chasing her for 3 weeks. There should be a paycheck in there to plan a date and take her somewhere nice and have a good meal with some conversation
@@blaquemoonmajesty33yeah but stop going on dates with them I've even told single women this too that are twice my age and they still look at me stupid and wonder why I reject every man I see on the street they just want your money and they just want sex or a warm bed off the street. I really wish they werent so fake with women but they are there mom coddled them and there dad was a sperm donor so now they want to take that out on you because you gave them a chance now there mad that they have to pay for things. You just have to dust them up with a broom and say goodbye! Stop enabling them.
Ur prolly of an older generation. In mine this is very common. Happened to me a few times even been in “50/50” demanding relationships (its never 50/50 I was the full blown provider by the end of it) ive had men expect me to pay for my meal for the date, or even pay for both of ours. I was stuck paying for hundreds of dollar concert tickets for my own bday and never reimbursed. I’ve had countless arguments with men my age who always start with the “it’s 2024…” as if that’s saying something. The irony is lost on them that when they say that all I hear is “it’s 2024, why are u expecting anything other than the absolute bare min from a man?”
I can’t just sit and have a back and forth argument about paying a bill … once I see they aren’t paying , I’ll just pay my half and move on with my life … 🤷🏽♀️
He’s a loser. Now set that aside. Some girls go out on dates just for the free food with zero intentions of a relationship. I’m not talking about sleeping together, I’m saying a relationship in general. Zero intention of starting a relationship.
I’m so fckin tired of hearing men say “it’s 2024…” in defense to these situations. Like yes, thank u for reminding me that modern men are broken & in this day and age finding a real man is almost impossible. Like Ur right it’s “2024” so why should I expect better from u 😐
I don't get the "It's X Year" saying. So what? Ok, it's 2024...and last year it was 2023, year before that 2022, 100 years ago was 1924, etc. It being X year has no intrinsic meaning beyond it being X year.
She’s VERY gorgeous. What a fumble. Many men really cannot see what’s right in front of them sometimes, you have a lovley woman infront of you to get to know and laugh with and you’re on your phone instead. AND you aren’t going to pay 27 dollars for a meal you asked to have. I’m sorry but it’s actually pathetic. I’m pretty sure she only went because of how persistent he was 😅
I think in the dating game he should always pay for the date. She can pay later on when there is a relationship or marriage. Value yourself more to know its his pleasure to take you out.
If the dude asks the girl out, he pays the bill. If they are friends, they go dutch. Girl, "go to the bathroom" & then leave him sitting there alone with the bill.
The fact he spent most of his time on the date on his phone is just ridiculous. Just pay the bill for his sorry butt and block him on everything. Not to mention all the time you put into looking cute and put together - I'll bet $27 he's in cargo shorts and some ugly t-shirt
Why do people always use the year as an excuse to mistreat or disrespect folks. He clearly didnt speak to her that way when he was asking her out cause if he did she wouldn't be shocked.
Who the fuck plays phone games on a date? I hope this is clickbate/ a subliminal AD.. But I wouldn't be surprised if this was real. She should have walked away the moment he opened a gaming app on his phone.
Ladies, please - if he wants to split the bill no more arguing. Pay your bill and move on. Don't diminish yourself going back and forth with someone who doesn't share your values/vision for a relationship.
Ladies, let's make sure we teach the Princesses in our lives to stop the back and forth with these fools! Just get up , walk out the door and block that fool!
She should pay for herself and then go. She shouldn't have even continue talking to this fool. He thinks he's the prize. Resting in his femininity and all that jazz. She wasted her breath. She should've walked off. Paid for what she ate and then blocked his ass
A guy just recently said if I ever invite him out somewhere he would expect me to pay. Nope. And while I’m trying to get a better job, he is purposefully taking 6 months off of work after quitting his job. Cool for him but we are unequally yolked
Not my old ass over here like...oh no he didn't. A little advice for the young ladies, 50 year old woman here, I have NEVER paid for my own food after being asked on a date. I have always worked, been in long term relationships where either paid dependent upon who had more in the bank that week. However this whole no effort broker bitch thing guys sre pulling...hell no. I might be old but when a man asks me on a date he sure as well is paying. Young men must've turned into wimps and losers.🤦
Use my mad/vex money to pay my half and hop in the Uber Black (because I didn't drive my truck on a 1st date for him to peep my plates right). Block on the ride home. 1st date wouldn't have been at IHOP but process is the same. And now I want pancakes 🥞
Never waste your breath going back and forth with them, just get up and leave. He’s still leeching off your energy while you argue, it’s not worth the drain.
IHOP? A high class professional (caliber of looks they expect) would cost more than a Michelin 5 Star level restaurant. My condolences gentles and ladymen. It’s 2024 maybe he should grow a pair.
He's like playing mind games with a person who doesn't have one. If she actually had one shed leave after paying her half of the bill and block him !!!!
Honestly, this level of disrespect from a man would have me "going to the bathroom" and actually walking tf out. Dude is clearly an addict if he's playing slots during a date.
She is NOT WRONG!!! My grandma ALWAYS said, "if you ask to take someone out to eat then you pay. If THEY want to take you out or ask you to go with then they pay!!" She also said that if you reach for or look at bill then YOU pay! 😊 Girl?? RUN!! RUN as FAST as you can. Lmao
Let them expose themselves. Jordan Peterson explained that, if a man expects to hit it since before the first date, he’s a sick individual. Redpillers live in an echo chamber of bitterness & entitlement
If you asked her out, you should 100% pay for the date. As a girl, if I asked a guy out, I would 100% pay for the date date. If I asked one of my girlfriends to go out to lunch with me, I would pay for her lunch.
Funny how they are both treating this as a transaction. She is saying this date was not satisfactory enough for me to pay half the bill while he is sayin well I'm not satisfied enough to pay the whole bill😂😂😂
He's trying to play mind games. He's an incel trying to humble her. Girl block him!
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A 27 dollar bill? I would just pretend to go to the bathroom and walk out and leave him with the tab. You wanted to split the bill? He should have told her that before he asked you out. Men that need to save money need to remain single 😊.
Instead of enjoying a date with a pretty girl and allowing things to progress naturally... He came with an ulterior motive
He can't see the forest for the trees is how this appears
I'd do the bathroom excuse. Find your waitress have the bill seperated. Pay your part only and call an Uber or someone can come get you. The Uber guy has to text you a notice and his Pic. I think you send Pic back so he knows he's who you are. Soon as a you get that text. RUN out to the Uber. Leave, just leave. While in the Uber start blocking him from everything. Mention it while in the Uber to the driver. Please tip the driver a very nice tip. Tell him you appreciate the help. A big tip, and verbally/overly thank the driver. He/She will more than just remember you for a big tip and how you decently treated them.
Girl pay for the meal, and never talk to his ass ever again.
I’d walk out..😂
Facts
I would've simply left.
Nope pay for HERSELF and then go
Exactly!
Lady needs to pay her part and walk away. She is wasting her breath on this person.
Always have cash for this very reason
Bingo cause he's a whole 🤡🤡
She needs to just walk away
Fr I've met people like this. You can't win an argument with this guy. You got to bow out with grace and never talk to him again because now you know how he is
He is a 🤡
LADIES!!! We have got to learn to say less! Babygirl needs to get up, pay the bill, and leave! No more words! He's not serious, and WE MUST MATCH ENERGY in 2024-PERIOD!!! Whether this is a skit or not, people really act like this, so the advice still stands! Be safe and keep your peace out here in these dating streets, ladies!!!❤✌🏽🙏🏽
Unfortunately, I think she talking too much because she's broke.
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And probably looking for a traditional wife
She’s still young and trying to comprehend this man meanwhile, my 38 year old Millennial behind would have got up and left the moment he started staring at his phone. I disengage real quick and there is nothing to talk about. Block and delete. Have a good life.
I'm the same age and hands down I would have walked out with no question, despite being able to pay for both of us and include a fat tip.
With age comes wisdom. Give her 10 years, there wouldn't have even been a discussion 😅
True she should've left then but it's hard to break social conditioning that that's rude to do.
As far as going back and forth with him here sometimes it's just therapeutic to state your viewpoint even if you know it won't change anything.
fr. i dont understand the mindset of constantly being on your phone while on a date. its nothing but disrespectful to the other person.
Gurl , get away from him
Just pay for the sandwich and re-claim your time.
That man is gross. Not because he wouldn't pay he disrespected her the whole date and then wanted to go dutch. And he won't pay unless he knew she would sleep with him??
It's also sad that he thinks $27 is enough for s3x with ANYONE! Aren't escorts a minimum of $500? He's too broke for that and has zero social skills. He can always entertain Fistina, Palmetta and Jergen's for FREE.99!
Oh no. He said if she let him hit then MAYBE he would pay. I was listening and reading real good to hear this fool !
He not only was playing a literal game, but mind games as well. Sadly, his behavior and attitudes will never get him a second date, let alone a hit.
I hope she paid for her food sat at the table blocked him got up and walked away not looking back and went on with her life, he chased her for 3 weeks only to turn out to be a LAME.
That man will never have the privilege again to sit with a woman like that. He thought she’d be his big move to assert payback of some inner injury caused by another girl.
His phone is his partner
That's what I said. Chasing her for 3 weeks. There should be a paycheck in there to plan a date and take her somewhere nice and have a good meal with some conversation
@@blaquemoonmajesty33yeah but stop going on dates with them I've even told single women this too that are twice my age and they still look at me stupid and wonder why I reject every man I see on the street they just want your money and they just want sex or a warm bed off the street. I really wish they werent so fake with women but they are there mom coddled them and there dad was a sperm donor so now they want to take that out on you because you gave them a chance now there mad that they have to pay for things. You just have to dust them up with a broom and say goodbye! Stop enabling them.
Chasing for theee weeks then taking her to ihop is crazy
Never a man ever asked me to split the bill, but if I was ever in that situation, I would just pay it and never talk to him again easy
Ur prolly of an older generation. In mine this is very common. Happened to me a few times even been in “50/50” demanding relationships (its never 50/50 I was the full blown provider by the end of it) ive had men expect me to pay for my meal for the date, or even pay for both of ours. I was stuck paying for hundreds of dollar concert tickets for my own bday and never reimbursed. I’ve had countless arguments with men my age who always start with the “it’s 2024…” as if that’s saying something. The irony is lost on them that when they say that all I hear is “it’s 2024, why are u expecting anything other than the absolute bare min from a man?”
No don’t pay the bill stop arguing and get up and leave no back and forth stop the bullshit with these revenge of the nerds immature hobosexuals.
I did that and he called me from his friends phone asking why I blocked him 😂😂
@@brookealicia92please tell me you tore him a new one
@@sumbunniii8721they want equal bills but traditional, sex(especially by force).
I can’t just sit and have a back and forth argument about paying a bill … once I see they aren’t paying , I’ll just pay my half and move on with my life … 🤷🏽♀️
Get up, leave him with the "expensive" bill for all your troubles, and find a real man who respects a real woman
That part, right there.
Right a $27 bill and wanting her to pay half is cray.
Yea, then he'll pay for his half and tell them that she stole hers. GENIUS.
He’s a loser. Now set that aside. Some girls go out on dates just for the free food with zero intentions of a relationship. I’m not talking about sleeping together, I’m saying a relationship in general. Zero intention of starting a relationship.
@@randomcitizen9909 and just bc you go doesn't mean its gonna work out
I would pay for my food and just leave and block him
Get up, walk away, and don't answer the phone again.
Block the number
Chica pay your 14.00 and leave block him and move on .. she's very pretty btw I know she can do better
R U N ! Just RUN😮
I’m so fckin tired of hearing men say “it’s 2024…” in defense to these situations. Like yes, thank u for reminding me that modern men are broken & in this day and age finding a real man is almost impossible. Like Ur right it’s “2024” so why should I expect better from u 😐
My sentiments exactly!
I don't get the "It's X Year" saying. So what? Ok, it's 2024...and last year it was 2023, year before that 2022, 100 years ago was 1924, etc. It being X year has no intrinsic meaning beyond it being X year.
If he asked he pays, if she ask she pays its that simple.
Dude seemingly lost his money spinning slots in ihop during the date
She’s VERY gorgeous. What a fumble. Many men really cannot see what’s right in front of them sometimes, you have a lovley woman infront of you to get to know and laugh with and you’re on your phone instead. AND you aren’t going to pay 27 dollars for a meal you asked to have. I’m sorry but it’s actually pathetic. I’m pretty sure she only went because of how persistent he was 😅
Its the principal of it....He asked her out. He pays. She asks, she pays.
Exactly
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I think in the dating game he should always pay for the date. She can pay later on when there is a relationship or marriage. Value yourself more to know its his pleasure to take you out.
If the dude asks the girl out, he pays the bill. If they are friends, they go dutch. Girl, "go to the bathroom" & then leave him sitting there alone with the bill.
The fact he spent most of his time on the date on his phone is just ridiculous. Just pay the bill for his sorry butt and block him on everything.
Not to mention all the time you put into looking cute and put together - I'll bet $27 he's in cargo shorts and some ugly t-shirt
Probably a dusty red piller.
Just pay for your bill for yourself. If i heard that right he asked for a date but was expecting you to pay damn . 😂
Why do people always use the year as an excuse to mistreat or disrespect folks. He clearly didnt speak to her that way when he was asking her out cause if he did she wouldn't be shocked.
Who the fuck plays phone games on a date? I hope this is clickbate/ a subliminal AD.. But I wouldn't be surprised if this was real.
She should have walked away the moment he opened a gaming app on his phone.
Just pay and go
I wouldn't talk to him again simple
Ladies, please - if he wants to split the bill no more arguing. Pay your bill and move on. Don't diminish yourself going back and forth with someone who doesn't share your values/vision for a relationship.
Ladies, let's make sure we teach the Princesses in our lives to stop the
back and forth with these fools! Just get up , walk out the door and block that fool!
Girl, pay for your part of the bill, leave, and block him. You're done.
But if she let him hit on the first date then he'd use that as the reason for why he's not paying for her food.
they are getting their dating advice from the red pill community😂
She should pay for herself and then go. She shouldn't have even continue talking to this fool. He thinks he's the prize. Resting in his femininity and all that jazz. She wasted her breath. She should've walked off. Paid for what she ate and then blocked his ass
Wow! Old school here!
Too much talking. Smile, say okay, excuse yourself to the ladies and never come back.
And she's gorgeous. I know it's an understatement to say he sabotaged himself
Girl, pay for YOUR MEAL AND GO!!!
A guy just recently said if I ever invite him out somewhere he would expect me to pay.
Nope. And while I’m trying to get a better job, he is purposefully taking 6 months off of work after quitting his job. Cool for him but we are unequally yolked
Practicing slots on a date is insane😂😂😂
Ohhh that is filthy
This needs to be sent to his mother
He just tried to buy a woman with ihop
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He’s weird. Blocked.
If i have to split there is no second date. Hell the first date isnt even a date at that point. Get up and leave.
Her and her nails are too damn pretty for the nonsense. Hopefully she got up and walked out after that.
Not my old ass over here like...oh no he didn't. A little advice for the young ladies, 50 year old woman here, I have NEVER paid for my own food after being asked on a date. I have always worked, been in long term relationships where either paid dependent upon who had more in the bank that week. However this whole no effort broker bitch thing guys sre pulling...hell no. I might be old but when a man asks me on a date he sure as well is paying. Young men must've turned into wimps and losers.🤦
I really hope this is a skit 😞
Pay your bill and take an Uber home. Don’t argue with that creep, just leave him to play his slots game 😂
Use my mad/vex money to pay my half and hop in the Uber Black (because I didn't drive my truck on a 1st date for him to peep my plates right). Block on the ride home. 1st date wouldn't have been at IHOP but process is the same. And now I want pancakes 🥞
Oooooo me too!!!!! 🤤 I'm gonna make some bacon, and pancakes with strawberries 😋
The fact that she stayed and waited for the food to come while he was playing a game. After he asked her out for weeks. Just wow.
Never waste your breath going back and forth with them, just get up and leave. He’s still leeching off your energy while you argue, it’s not worth the drain.
Girl pay and run away, as far as you can
Gurl! Pay the bill and block him. He got a free meal and you dodged a bullet.
I wouldn't have even argued. I would've paid for my half, got up and left, and blocked him in every way possible.
I would’ve got up and left! There’s no way you begged me for a date to damn ignore me 😂
IHOP? A high class professional (caliber of looks they expect) would cost more than a Michelin 5 Star level restaurant. My condolences gentles and ladymen. It’s 2024 maybe he should grow a pair.
Just pay the hole bill and let him sit there and think about that! Then tell him he's got the next one!
Girl, don't even argue with him. Pay the bill and run out of there as fast as you can.
She doesn't need to care about ur crap!! Lol just walkout and never look bk!!!😂😂😂😂
Girl, don't sit there and try to find reason.
Just pay your meal, leave and block him immediately.
He's like playing mind games with a person who doesn't have one. If she actually had one shed leave after paying her half of the bill and block him !!!!
Girl, just pay and leave. You don't have to see or talk to him again.😂😂😂❤
Leaving ur house for a first date at ihop is insane
He asked her out for 3 weeks to ignore her? I would make him pay for wasting my time
Pay her half of the bill. Let him pay his own half.Then never speak to bottom shelf Brad, again.
ItS cAlLeD JaCkPoT wOrLD 😂
When you’re INVITING, you’re paying. Men and their pettiness 🙄 When I invite, I pay.
I hop tho , first red flag baby girl.
Honestly, this level of disrespect from a man would have me "going to the bathroom" and actually walking tf out. Dude is clearly an addict if he's playing slots during a date.
Pay up and walk away baby girl...that conversation was over when he asked to split the bill.. Overrrr!
She is NOT WRONG!!! My grandma ALWAYS said, "if you ask to take someone out to eat then you pay. If THEY want to take you out or ask you to go with then they pay!!" She also said that if you reach for or look at bill then YOU pay! 😊
Girl?? RUN!! RUN as FAST as you can. Lmao
Wait what? You want ME to pay the bill?
I am in my soft guy era... YOU pay the bill lady.
Drizzle Drizzle
Let them expose themselves. Jordan Peterson explained that, if a man expects to hit it since before the first date, he’s a sick individual. Redpillers live in an echo chamber of bitterness & entitlement
I would have left without paying, without arguing. He would have thought I went to the bathroom😂 got in an Uber if I had to
The way I would’ve placed my 10 on the table and left. Tf arguing at ihop? Not even the Waffle House? 😂 2024 is a crazy ass year
Aleays have your own money and act like your having a great time until you can exit safely. Then blockity block block!
This is why you bring cash to dates. So you can put your part on the table and walk away at any point if you have to.
Whoever invites you on a date has to pay! Period your idea your wallet!
If he plays games while on a date ❤❤❤hes definitely NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP. PAY YOUR HALF AND NEVER GO FOR AN IMMATURE GUY LIKE THAT.😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
The person who asks should be willing to pay. I always am.
Don't argue. Pay the whole thing and tell him to never contact you again. It's the best move.
Pay the $13.50 and thank God you saw this guy's true character before you were 3 years into a relationship where you had to pay so much more.
He's totally pranking her for clicks.
My sis get up and walk out to your car get in and drive away. He will either pay or wash dishes
Just split the bills, I approve. It's a great way for a man to see how she may react if he loses his job or if she even has her shit together.
Why wasn’t he taking that 3 weeks time before the 1st date to get to know her? Phone calls are free, sir
If he asked her out he should pay.. something happened here that he doesn't want to pay the whole $27 bill..
If you asked her out, you should 100% pay for the date. As a girl, if I asked a guy out, I would 100% pay for the date date. If I asked one of my girlfriends to go out to lunch with me, I would pay for her lunch.
It's IHOP and 3 weeks. Expect it parking. This is literally literal.
I would honestly just get up and walk away, leave him with the bill
At this point in time men like this should just marry mrs Palmer and her 5 sisters.
I would pay for my meal and leave. I would not sit and have that discussion
This is ur sign...run away
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As a guy, i say run from him at any cost.
Funny how they are both treating this as a transaction. She is saying this date was not satisfactory enough for me to pay half the bill while he is sayin well I'm not satisfied enough to pay the whole bill😂😂😂
Lol get use to it ladies or stay single you asked for it.
I was on his side until I saw he asked her out. If she asked him out she would pay, that sounds fair.
And they wonder y all these movements r happening 😂😂😂😂
Pay for ur food n run far away from him🤦♀️
I would have asked to go to the bathroom then blocked. I have done it before. Iam heartless. Dgaf