What Your Ex Expects You To Do After The Breakup

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
  • If you want your ex back, one of the most crucial moves you can make is to upend your ex’s expectations. Think about it: right now, they don’t want you because they think they know exactly who you are and how you’ll act in a relationship. To change that perception, you have to show them that the expectations they have about you are way off base. You’re actually way more attractive, strong, and confident than they imagined.
    So with that in mind, today we’ll talk about what your ex EXPECTS you to do after a breakup, and how you should act instead to surprise your ex and change how they look at you, for the better.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 32

  • @jonatz793
    @jonatz793 3 місяці тому +1

    Sir this is your new channel? Because i am your old fan and subscriber in your old channel. Long live sir🎉

    • @breakupbradbrowning
      @breakupbradbrowning  3 місяці тому

      Hi, this is my second channel. Please subscribe on here too. Thank you so much! :-)

  • @angelaponte4733
    @angelaponte4733 3 місяці тому +1

    I live with my ex wife, we get along, we hang out, she knows I still love her, she going through menopause to, what should I do, to make it work it again, I don't pressure her.

    • @breakupbradbrowning
      @breakupbradbrowning  2 місяці тому

      How long have you been doing this with her? The process of saving one's marriage is a bit complicated and in fact, does NOT make use of the "no contact" rule... but this is why I've released a second book called Mend the Marriage. Check it out at www.marriageguy.com as everything is on there, from how to communicate more effectively, down to how to handle the kids (if applicable), monitor your progress through worksheets and stuff. But while I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU or sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at www.marriageguy.com/coaching Take care!

  • @Tapasya2008
    @Tapasya2008 3 місяці тому +2

    It was a healthy 3y relationship and it's been 3 months since we broke up starting 1 month of NC really worked very well but now he says he dont love me like before
    He flirts with me
    Still remembers very small detail about our initial days
    Still respectful never abused me in 3 years
    Still replies back within second whenever I send text
    And is not in a rebound relationship
    I was being clingy from a month before our breakup and it made him exhausted
    But what are my chances now please guide

    • @breakupbradbrowning
      @breakupbradbrowning  3 місяці тому

      Sounds like it's worth another shot! But because it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz to know what your chances are at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz

    • @Carla-ku7es
      @Carla-ku7es 3 місяці тому

      Hello, how is it? We’re in a similar situation 🥺 Been broken up for 2 months now. In contact for 7 weeks. But starting last week, I decided to go radio silence already and do no contact anymore. It’s been a week now since we last talked.

    • @user-ou5nz6lo2d
      @user-ou5nz6lo2d 3 місяці тому

      What if she's dating someone else live.. after we break up

    • @tommyshelby8119
      @tommyshelby8119 3 місяці тому

      ​@@breakupbradbrowningBrad . I had a 3 month relationship . I am 17 and she is gonna turn 17 six days after the end of 30 days No contact.
      We broke up because I was rushing commitment. Talking about marriage as if so that it felt artificial. She used to do the same but suddenly she changed her attitude towards "I don't wanna marry anyone, I will stay alone" , "I am not compatible" with all that bullshit . Am 100% sure she won't get into another relationship for a year because she doesn't even give herself the opportunity to meet other guys + she is not at all interested in relationships right now . Basically it was stressing her out too much and she Gaslighted herself into thinking that she needs some kind of therapy and shit because she prefers to be alone to rationalise the break up. Ofc she has lost attraction for me because there was a completely different attitude during the 1st month of relationship .
      When we broke up she was very angry and irritated by me. Everything i did pissed her off . Now she acts like don't exist. We were close friends for 2 years and it was first relationship for both of us . She thinks relationships are too complicated for her she is really off social media now and just focused on her career . She hardly ever talks to anyone, even her best friends.
      So , should I break the no contact after 30 days . And slowly start initiating contact. Then wish her on her birthday, and gradually proceed with things from there . Or should I not wish her on her birthday and make her more anxious? I mean birthday is an good opportunity to get in touch again but if I don't, it will make her a little more anxious.
      I mean it looks like she doesn't care at all and is happy by herself (It has been 12 days since I started no contact). What's your advice? And you think I have chances of getting her back?
      I don't have money to buy your program or one on one coaching. Would be grateful if you give me your advice and give me a little stratergy:)

    • @tommyshelby8119
      @tommyshelby8119 3 місяці тому

      ​@@breakupbradbrowningBrad . I had a 3 month relationship . I am 17 and she is gonna turn 17 six days after the end of 30 days No contact.
      We broke up because I was rushing commitment. Talking about marriage as if so that it felt artificial. She used to do the same but suddenly she changed her attitude towards "I don't wanna marry anyone, I will stay alone" , "I am not compatible" with all that bullshit . Am 100% sure she won't get into another relationship for a year because she doesn't even give herself the opportunity to meet other guys + she is not at all interested in relationships right now . Basically it was stressing her out too much and she Gaslighted herself into thinking that she needs some kind of therapy and shit because she prefers to be alone to rationalise the break up. Ofc she has lost attraction for me because there was a completely different attitude during the 1st month of relationship .
      When we broke up she was very angry and irritated by me. Everything i did pissed her off . Now she acts like don't exist. We were close friends for 2 years and it was first relationship for both of us . She thinks relationships are too complicated for her she is really off social media now and just focused on her career . She hardly ever talks to anyone, even her best friends.
      So , should I break the no contact after 30 days . And slowly start initiating contact. Then wish her on her birthday, and gradually proceed with things from there . Or should I not wish her on her birthday and make her more anxious? I mean birthday is an good opportunity to get in touch again but if I don't, it will make her a little more anxious.
      I mean it looks like she doesn't care at all and is happy by herself (It has been 12 days since I started no contact). What's your advice? And you think I have chances of getting her back?
      I don't have money to buy your program or one on one coaching. Would be grateful if you give me your advice and give me a little stratergy:)

  • @shreyakumari27868
    @shreyakumari27868 3 місяці тому

    Her brad , my boyfriend had been ghosting me for 2 months as he lost feelings (though i didn't do anything wrong nor did we fight) and then finally we broke up a few days ago. Is it possible to get him back by going no contact?

    • @breakupbradbrowning
      @breakupbradbrowning  3 місяці тому

      How long have you two been together and how's your communication with each other during the relationship? The breakup seems to have happened a few months ago, judging by his actions and ghosting is really bad behaviour. If you two had bad communication or just not enough attraction to be able to ghost each other, then the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process things accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!

  • @shreyakumari27868
    @shreyakumari27868 3 місяці тому

    Hey brad...since my ex bf had been ghosting me for a month or so and said he lost interest and so we broke up but while he was ghosting me he took a screenshot of my snap profile(i got a notification) to remember my birthday date as he was confused about the date.Why did he do it if he wasn't interested?

    • @breakupbradbrowning
      @breakupbradbrowning  2 місяці тому

      He may still care but not enough to be in a relationship with you especially if he was the one to end things with you... And since the breakup is still fresh, then he's likely enjoying his newfound freedom as well. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/v-deo.html

  • @user-zk7mc3jv5m
    @user-zk7mc3jv5m 3 місяці тому

    We still live together. He had an affair for 8 months. He moved back home at the end of March 2024. One week, he says he wants to live his life with me. Go on holiday etc etc. Then another week, he says we"re over. He said the only way he will get things straight in his head is to leave me.
    He wants me to say it's over...
    Does he mean it or is it confusion.

    • @breakupbradbrowning
      @breakupbradbrowning  3 місяці тому +1

      He's clearly confused if there's already someone else in the mix who caught his attention. Give him the break but be prepare to break up if things go from worse to worst but let him make up his mind first otherwise this cycle of confusion will continue. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/QPJprJuf-iU/v-deo.html

    • @user-zk7mc3jv5m
      @user-zk7mc3jv5m 3 місяці тому +1

      @breakupbradbrowning Thank you, Brad. He has a lot of resentment for things we didn't do together as a couple. Especially going out together. At the time, my self-confidence was very low. Now I'm a different person. We went out on a date last week. He said he enjoyed it. He wanted to have sex but then a few days later, he said theres no atteaction on his part for me. Then he says he's not a nice person
      That I need to get it in my head it's over. He has not said he needs a break. He has said we are done..

  • @electrikdaizy
    @electrikdaizy Місяць тому

    What does it mean if my ex unfriended me on Facebook a week after our breakup? Im doing the no contact method from day 1

    • @breakupbradbrowning
      @breakupbradbrowning  Місяць тому +1

      That's only your ex processing the breakup, just like you. I suggest you watch this vid to understand which stage your ex is at: ua-cam.com/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/v-deo.html

  • @Shaunashares
    @Shaunashares 2 місяці тому

    Yes so... I'll apply this next time 😉🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @shreyakumari27868
    @shreyakumari27868 3 місяці тому

    Hey brad...Why did he delete all his comments from my instagram post but didn't unfollow me?

    • @zanecliffo3685
      @zanecliffo3685 3 місяці тому

      He wants to keep you as an option to go back to if or when he wants

    • @breakupbradbrowning
      @breakupbradbrowning  3 місяці тому

      He could be doing it out of spite or just trying to process the breakup. Please watch this from start to end to understand the stages your ex goes through during a breakup, here: ua-cam.com/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/v-deo.html

    • @creatureofstyle
      @creatureofstyle 3 місяці тому

      I was the dumper and did this to my ex the other day because he isn't talking to me and I felt like I was crossing his boundaries when he's made it clear he doesn't want contact with me right now 🤷‍♀️ It really hurts to look at his pictures anyway, so I just see it as healthy for both of us. I do still care about him though and in my case I want him back

  • @user-ou5nz6lo2d
    @user-ou5nz6lo2d 3 місяці тому

    What if she's dating someone else live.after break up

    • @breakupbradbrowning
      @breakupbradbrowning  3 місяці тому

      It's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept her decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and you can see that the 30-day "no contact" rule is an absolute must. I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, etc. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy