Erica Mena Slammed for Celebrating Divorce From Safaree
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
- Should there be shame around celebrating divorce? Reality star Erica Mena found herself under fire for celebrating her divorce from her ex-husband Safaree.
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So he can publicly embarrass her, disrespect her, manipulate her but she can’t celebrate a new Beginning
That part!!
Good ol’ misogyny.
tell it
Yes, You celebrate kicking his ass to the curve.
Come onnnn!! I was hoping that one of them did their research on their relationship so this could’ve been mentioned!!
I love that Jeannie no longer talks about her divorce. Not sure if it's something legal but it really is like she erased it from her memory and I think it's such a great way to honor her current marriage.
She is happily married! She ain’t thinking about that man lol.
@@MrCroonable so true!
she talked about it last week lol
Just to let you know she has to pay that man for the rest of his life look it up
you were thinking the same thing I was saying
She went through everything in the public eye so she has all right to celebrate in the public eye.
Absolutely!
She should've chose better
As Adrienne said, she can celebrate whatever she wants. My only thing is that it’s not nice to publicly badmouth your ex, especially when you have children together.
He deserves it sorry , t he humiliation he caused her the lies... Nikki Minaj new why she dumped him. And now he got dumped again I wonder if he is with Matos, I'm sure he is because Safari can't heal and be alone he treats women as trophy's
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being happy it’s over. And I don’t think it’s a bad thing to renew vows.
I love how Jeannie explained it and using a job loss as an example. I just lost my job but I'm happy cause I found a new one with no weekends and I will celebrate my relationship the same way
My go to when someone says they're divorcing is "sorry things turned out the way they did, but congratulations on new beginnings"
💯 Adrienne! SO many people who renew their vows end up divorcing.
I feel like there’s nothing wrong with celebrating the end of something, especially if it was stressful and draining. It’s good to start over. It gives you a feeling of freedom and excitement.
I don't think she was "slammed" a lot of the comments simply didn't care about her announcement because they've cried wolf before about divorcing and continued with the toxicity. To each their own how they celebrate though.
This ☝🏼
She announced that she was getting a divorce, now it's been finalized.
I celebrated a breakup once I finally found the concrete evidence my dumbbutt self was needing to leave. It was liberating to see reality match up with my suspicions. I never felt so free! Celebrate Erica, everyone celebrate 🎉 peace over everything
Speak on it Loni….. same!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😁😁😁 girl… I feel you! I was so happy too! I bought a storage unit and sent him on his way… he wouldn’t get out! He came over like a stray cat one day and never left. He acted like I was only lifeline he orchestrated that. So foul when he had his own but wanted to live off me plus he quit his job and turned in his car. Unbelievable! He wanted me to take care of him. Found out he had a whole family behind my back and she probably kicked him out too and he came to me. 😐 f🤬k no. I celebrated. I been free ever since! 🙌🏽🙌🏽😁😁😁😁
I had to get a restraining order to get a man out my house. So I get it.
They posted a video about divorce parties less than two weeks ago, so this was a nice follow-up to that conversation. Only Erica knows what she has been through. Erica, do you!
No one will even know what Erica went through but let’s remember that saffree embarrassed her publicly so she has every right to celebrate her freedom publicly
I don't necessarily think it was bad for her to celebrate her divorce. What if she really was in a mentally draining marriage and situation, she left it. More power to her. We celebrate when women who leave abusive relationships. But reality is everyone didn't like the revolving door of them together not together, but fact is it takes a women more than 7 times to leave a toxic relationship. And I'm speaking facts now. Kids and money and everything comes into play now. And only she and her ex husband know how their relationship was. I wish them all the best for coparenting now because that's an entire different aspect of life.
Funny how I am currently going through what Jeanie is talking about (the example she gave)..finally resigned from that job,but hoping for the best at this new beginning
Well wishes!
Erica is such a child just immature smh her and safaree were never compatible to begin with just lusting after each other
More important than celebrating a divorce, is making a commitment not to pick phuck boys to be in relationships with.
Righttt
Care to explain how NOT to choose "phuck boys" when they're the ones who put on a facade and pretend like they're charming and chivalrous when in reality, they're actually abusive and toxic??? 🤔🤨
Like seriously, the only way MOST women find out the TRUE colors of a man is when he shows his TRUE self! That could be either MONTHS or YEARS already invested into the relationship.
@@UserMari45_67 In Safaree’s case it was easy. She goes to the rappers who have women throwing themselves at them. Time she picked someone who is not an entertainer.
There's not always a negative reason couples renew their vows. My husband and I are thinking of renewing our vows so our kids can bear witness to the renewing and strengthening of our love. Our babies weren't here the first time around so it'd be a beautiful thing for them to see 🥰
What she went through in that marriage,👀 she deserves to celebrate that divorce.
"Jinxing" is ANXIETY
Its a worry/fear that if you don't do something a certain way, you will lose control or make things worst.
Live in freedom not Fear
I think in this case… people have been so tired of this news and the drama being dragged out on L&HH that it’s like… they think it’s corny for her to show off her celebrating her divorce & showing it on IG ! Like just move on and be happy and celebrate this new journey! But everyone is past this drama at this point… same with Ray J and Princess! Just everybody move forward be better and don’t let the world in your business! The moment u reserve some of ur personal life is the moment better things feel without having to put on for the rest of society!
Jeannie was already beautiful & looks even more beautiful now ! 💞
It's her divorce. Let her celebrate - nobody knows what she suffered while married.
My friend had a “New Chapter” party. It was awesome and well needed!
We should celebrate ourselves as much as we need to feel the self love we need
She can do whatever she wants. He can embarrass her all day on social media but she can't celebrate?! Uh Ok...
I don't think something has to happen to renew your vows but... I mean Jay-Z and Beyonce renewed theirs after he cheated a couple times for a "new slate" Ade, you may have a point here 😂
I went on a whole week vacation when my divorce was finalized 😄😁
Sometimes a divorce is the beginning of a much needed better life
As much hell as safaree put her through PUBLICLY why isn't she allowed to celebrate PUBLICLY??? He was out there doing wrong when HIS som was in the NICU
I remember when one of the Wayans brothers came on Oprah Show and Oprah asked him about his relationship status and he said "I am happily divorced". Can't remember which brother though.
The mess he put her thru. And the WAY he disrespected her. She SHOULD CELEBRATE. CONGRATS E!!
Thank you for understanding and loving our sister Erica. I am praying for healing and peace over her. You have showed her the best support any woman needs just by speaking like this. Thank you great women. ❤️
I think ppl were just saying why are you celebrating publicly when you've been talking about divorcing this man for years but had a second baby.
The question the real producers coined from the Erica story is a lot deeper than I expected and I love it! I expected them to just stay on the topic of divorce and ask the ladies if they think divorce should be celebrated but they used it as a jump off point to a deeper question. LOVE THIS SEASON!
I like how Garcelle be quoting loni's words sometimes just to be funny lmaooo Garcelle: not one time 😊😊& tripppp 😊😊
It’s a great thing that she chose to celebrate a divorce... what’s she’s really celebrating is how the letdowns, heartache and pains are finally over... thats definitely a cause for celebration
She can celebrate whatever she wants. Being attached to that male who constantly publicly disrespected her and finally getting away, IS a reason to celebrate
So Safaree acting a fool for year while married isn’t slammed but Erica celebrating is a problem??💅🏻
He was very public with his disrespect to Erica mena.
Look. Let people live how they choose. If you choose to celebrate a breakup privately or publicly, it's your choice.
This is not related to the topic, but you girls are living the career of my dreams, or, at least, one of my favourite careers. You always make me happy even in dark times.💕
He publicly embarrassed her & why can’t she celebrate the beginning of a new chapter in her life????
this was worth a topic???? DAMN THEY WERE BORED😂😂😂😂
I kind of feel like this is a repeat topic from last week, just with a celebrity involved.
I had the same feeling
She can celebrate whatever she wants. It's one thing if it turns into embarrassing your ex, but Safaree embarrassed himself enough doing what he did that led to the divorce, so that's out the window, lol.
LONI you look so pretty, your make up is on point Lady! 🥰
let that girl be... celebrate girl🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I love that statement” what do I get to do next” i’m gonna borrow that ladies I love it!!💕🌻🦋🙏🏽🌈🌹😘
Ive always wanted to renew my vows with my husband. We are very happily married but we had two ceremonies one religious one celebratory. And while the celebratory was fun my overall memory of both is just both sides of the families making everything about them. And ruined the experience for us. So our vow renewal would be for us to be able to recreate that day the way we want.
I am currently working on leaving my relationship (moving out, etc), and let me tell you I'm throwing a damn party when it happens lmao of course marriage is so much different but I know Erica is happy because Safari treated her like straight trash
Dr. Dre celebrated his divorce and had balloons that said “DIVORCED AF” and everyone supported him, the double standard is real
I get alot of people don’t like Erica but I don’t understand celebrities getting slammed for something normal people do all the time. Celebrating a divorce is normal.
Why are people stretching three to four times per day?
Everyone is different with how they cope. PERIOD #stopjudging
Loni was like no more ninjas
Celebrate bay bay!! This deserves it!! She tried so hard to make it work. Proud of her for moving forward💜
I think it's normal to celebrate the end of something bad. Whenever my friends break up with their bf's we always celebrate just to brighten the mood and especially if he was no good! lol
Jackie Christie and Doug Christie renews their vows every year and they're still together.
Really?...celebrating a failed marriage is nothing to celebrate!
Leave that woman alone. She was made a fool of publicly so let her celebrate any way she sees fit.
Erica Mena CONGRATULATIONS and I’m soo happy you’re celebrating your DIVORCE!!! You were very sad during your marriage and now u can be happy YAY!!!!
We renewed our vows at 10 years but it was just my husband and I and our two daughters ages 3 and 8 who officiated us and they were both young children in Hawaii where we had our honeymoon.
My coworker had a Divorce party ! Celebrate being in a better space alwaysssssss
I missed Jeannie sooooooo much man 🥺😭❤️
Anybody else think they are not actually divorced? They both have lied so much for their love and hip hop storyline
You stood in front of God and all your friends and family, and you made a vow that you would always be with that person, no matter what. Not only are you no longer honoring that vow, but to celebrate on top of that? I don't care what you've been through, it's unnecessary, it looks bad, it's tacky.
Thank you, ouf finally someone has sense, what a world we're living, most people think marriage is a joke, do whatever they want, celebrating divorce nowadays, 🤦♀️please God have mercy , they don't take vows seriously, you vow until death do us part uhm really that's sad
People been doing divorce parties. I don’t see the problem, some ppl celebrate from the release like Loni said. Ppl on social media don’t like seeing ppl happy…especially someone who they don’t like lol
I'M GLAD SHE DIVORCED HIM. HE WAS TOO DISRESPECTFUL AND INSENSITIVE TO HER AND HIS CHILDREN. AND SHE HAS AN OLDER MALE CHILD WHO'S WATCHING THIS DUDE DISRESPECT HIS MOTHER.
She disrespect and embarrassed herself way before he was in the picture that’s what’s embarrassing to the eldest son to see how she behaves on tv
They weren’t fighting for a RIGHTEOUS cause of justice against XENOPHOBIA …..
Erica is a mess
Had SAFAREE celebrated the divorce!!!!! These people would be singing an entirely new song!
Erica and Safaree were in an extremely toxic relationship from beginning to end. They should have never been together. So stupid.
I think it's because some people are jealous that they can't take the bold step away from their misery. This woman had gone through some mess with this man. Ijs let her celebrate!!
As long as it’s done in a positive way. Don’t bad mouth your kids dad in the process not that she is I really don’t know. But please ppl don’t make this a trend. All I’m saying it’s okay to announce the beginning of a new chapter. Just don’t be tacky.
SO true
First off, I am loving those knees Loni. 😉😉😉. I know a guy whose wife cheated on him but she bragged that he couldnt get her to leave under any circumstances. So he locked away his possessions in one room and let his pet goats sleep and roam in the rest of the house. Then he sat down every evening after work and sharpened a knife. She lasted a week.
Ms. Mena shouldn’t care what anyone else thinks. She can do whatever she wants and let people talk. Mind ya business
That marriage looked like a bad idea and a horrible experience if anything on social media or reality tv is true. I do think that as parents men and women should be careful about leaving public records of things like "divorce celebrations" when you have kids involved I don't know if its helpful for your kids to lookup "hey look how happy my mom or dad were to leave each other." I think its possible to celebrate things and be discrete if you want to make sure you maintain healthy relationships but you can't tell other people want to celebrate/not celebrate.
People are so jealous of her smh so tf what if she wants to celebrate her divorce?! They be trying to find anything to bash her...
Never been there thus legalities of such a life changing process can only be experienced and appreciated by them. Marriage to me seem to be very personal
Ppl will complain when things are good or bad but she was probably happy and weight lifted off her shoulders bc divorce is a process
Hahaha, is that why Loni does not invite people over anymore?
Truth is, we all saw this coming. Nicki laid it out.
If people watched the shows or saw what happened over social media…y’all wouldn’t let her celebrate in peace. Even if it wasn’t leave people alone because you wouldn’t do something.
Tacky
THE NERVE OF PEOPLE!!!!! I DON'T GIVE A DAM WHAT THE HELL PEOPLE THINKIN.... THEY GIVIN HER THE SIDE EYE BECAUSE SHE HAPPY ABOUT HER DIVORCE AND PARYIN!!!! THAT IS THAT WOMEN'S BUSINESS....SHE CAN DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS....TF.....SHE WASN'T HAPPY AND SHE SUPPOSED TO STAY????🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 I THINK NOT!!!!!!!
Leane the girl alone. Who knows what she went through in that marriage
People can do what they want. Rather private or public. This is not a dictatorship. If you are traditional great for you but you can't put your way of doing things on others.🌼
I think she did it as a dig at Safaree to hopefully hurt him. I don't believe she's actually happy
Lonnie if you have a man staying with you and he don't want to leave. Pack up his stuff, get the locks change, put his stuff in storage and put the information somewhere he can get it without contacting you. I gave the package to his mom.
Hey I ain't mad at no woman's way of celebrating her freedom. Anyone that is in a bad marriage and they gave all they had, experienced more bad than good. Get it girl. I know alot of people who were in a bad marriage. And have elevated since. Marriage is beautiful but not easy. I'm coming up on my 10 year and I thank God we made it this far. When you first go in to the Union, you don't know about the beyond.
they divorced? that tells you how relevant they both are😏😏😏😏😏
His culture don't forget where he come from celebrate baby be happy
Slammed? For what? There is nothing wrong with celebrating her freedom - seems like she been having a hard time since she was pregnant. I’m not a fan of her usual behavior she doesn’t know how to talk sometimes but let her celebrate what ever she wants.
After all the crying in public humiliation and cheating and videos of girls twerking on him she has the right to be happy that she’s divorced
EVERYTHING FOR CLOUT!!!!! SMH
I’m not a fan of a breaking up of a family…I don’t think it’s anything to celebrate! You can feel free yes, but to celebrate it, I don’t know! That’s just my opinion and if you’re a Christian God HATES divorce so that in itself is telling! Also if people got to know each-other( like REALLY get to know each-other) divorce would be rare! If people actually talk to God and asked him and actually LISTEN before marrying a person divorce wouldn’t be a thing!
She must’ve came up and got what she wanted! 💃
Renew vows is recommiting to each other at their stage of life. The person you married may not be the same exact person at 10 years in