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Hundred percent right I don’t see any like valid reason to get married when you are a very successful man and you spent a lot of time working hard in your 20s
I'm working in central government department...and earning well .....still I decided not to marry in this generation....bcz i know aab mere se shadi nahi meri job se shadi hogi jo bhi ladki hogi and ......sabka past hoga or kya pata kitna ganda past ho......or m aisa kuch bolunga to meri soch choti h .... sabke bf hotae bolke mera kaat dia jayga .....i just want to live....to marne se zada better h.....be single and enjoy......bcz aajkl sab modern woman h ...... aise laga dengo marne tak ki nobat aajygi😢
sahi kaha bhai. I am also working in state government. and not intereated in marriage. Its unworthy, and hard to digest the promiscous past of modern women.
Esa nhi hai mai ek ladki ko janta hu wo school time se saath hai ek ladke se 15 yr se wo 31 ki ho gyi hai ladke ke ghar wale nhi maan rhe but she still waiting bhut loyal achi ladki hai . Maine waisi lgki nhi dekhi hai apne ass pass true love exists but sbke naseeb me nhi hai.
My relatives are forcing me to marry I don’t want to marry at all. I am not marriage, material guy. I just want to date around and have fun lekin woh bhi nahi milraha😅
Marriage was, is and always would be a transactional thing..... No matter how much you try to sugarcoat it with words like compatability, love, relationship and partnership...... If it's the love we are talking about, then why it happens that a man only falls in love with a younger girl or a girl only falls in love with an older man...... If every relationship in our life is give and take, then we need to introspect on what kind of life we are actually living..... I think remaining single and finding an alternate way to have children via surrogacy or adoption should be considered a norm in this day and age..... I know society is not ready for this but it should be done otherwise such incidents will keep on happening.....
@@thebigbadalpha Actually, I know it's difficult to digest but without different mindset, evolution to a better thing is never possible..... We would have never gotten out of our cavemen mentatlity, if not for an altogether different way of thinking and rational thoughts..... And here's an interesting fact: - Dinosaurs ruled this planet for approx 130 million years Modern Humans have been on this Earth for just 300,000 years..... So, if we consider a single day to be the chronological age of Earth, then we arrived on this planet for just a fraction of seconds before midnight..... And in this tiny spectrum, we advanced so much, but these norms and traditions are causing a hinderance in our thought process.... Because peace and a carefree life is required for thinking with our open mind, which we sadly are not accumulating......
@@thebigbadalpha I know that the things I said are not easy to digest but without different and rational thinking, evolution is not possible..... And I am grateful that someone like u emphasized on the age gap between man and woman in marriages..... At first, I used to think only I am the one who is not able to digest this thing but now I know there are people like u as well who think that it's an issue......
After the incident of Mr. Atul Subhas I'm not gonna marry it's really scary for men and obviously marriage is only profitable for women so it's better to be single forever. I'll build my own career, money, property and will take care of my parents and will help others.
Stop glorifying girls between 18-22 married for God sake they are just out of teenage..... And yeah only family that goes after your wealth will not be the best choice ..... You can marry your 25 yr daughter to a 35 yr old man but same is not the case with everyone duniya mein ghairatmand log bhi hai meri maa ne meri behn ke liye 30 saal ke ladke ka rishta reject Kiya that even after knowing they are richest in our community because "ladke ki umar zayda hai " on avg a man live 7 years lesser than a women that should also be considered for a healthy long family time.... My sister was 24 that time then two years later we found a guy who was 27 and sister was 26 then we got her married.... Aur har acha priwar aise hi sochta hai... Paiso se lalchi families attract hoti hai ghairatmand log nahi
older is older whether by 1 year or 2 years..... lol..... And according to your logic of lifespan, you should have married your sister to a younger man for perceived mutually lasting longevity..... You contradicted yourself.....
Our present education system destroyed the socio culture. We have to follow our ancient culture, if you want to live happily . Learn from the season. Don't expect love from anybody. Forget what is not achieved, what family & friends think. Think the situation at Bus Stop / Railway Station/ Airport. Don't count the passengers. Share some times who wants to shares. Life start at sixities. A garland is be hanged on your neck by the best freinds when turn to sixty. A Banyan tree bear lakhs of fruit,to get a sapling is difficult task. Let marry & enjoy the life.
@@shanugaur8218Bhai physical needs ke alawa bhi zindagi hai ye sab bahut choti cheeze hoti hein. Bahut saare successful log milenge Jo unmarried the humesha
Marriage is a natural thing that is a beautiful gift nature give us And what about s*x if we not getting married how can we fulfill our physical needs or we just hang up with different girls if we not getting married And second thing marriage is all about choosing the right partner for yourself who supports and love you in every situation So don't misguide youth
@@Vermeil_Verse_It's not written in Vedas or Puranas because it was the norm. If I discuss about a a group of 100 people aged over 40 & remain silent about their marital status does it mean that all are unmarried? No by that age almost all are expected to be married. Remaining unmarried at that age is an exception and not the norm. Just because Vedas & Puranas don't mention child marriages doesn't mean it didn't happen in the earler eras.
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I am 34, earning close to 50 LPA and have assets/savings of over 2.25 CR.
Absolutely not marrying, there is no point.
@@punitssaraf your life, your decision bro. 🤝
Log kuch nahi khte apko😂😂😂 muje to bhut tane dete hai log 😂😂I m 30 unmarried
@@sonujain2348 Bro 😕
I would say you're life your design not your life your decision @@thebigbadalpha
What is your profession job or bussiness?
Hundred percent right I don’t see any like valid reason to get married when you are a very successful man and you spent a lot of time working hard in your 20s
@@biswamohandwari6460 😇 🤝🗿
Bhai ek din sab bematlab ka lagne lagta hai
@@sameerkerketta9996agreed
Men like u r never successful
same reason
I'm working in central government department...and earning well .....still I decided not to marry in this generation....bcz i know aab mere se shadi nahi meri job se shadi hogi jo bhi ladki hogi and ......sabka past hoga or kya pata kitna ganda past ho......or m aisa kuch bolunga to meri soch choti h .... sabke bf hotae bolke mera kaat dia jayga .....i just want to live....to marne se zada better h.....be single and enjoy......bcz aajkl sab modern woman h ...... aise laga dengo marne tak ki nobat aajygi😢
@@kids-bb4xk respect 🫡
You are right 👍
@@gurukulinstitute6204 😇
sahi kaha bhai.
I am also working in state government.
and not intereated in marriage.
Its unworthy, and hard to digest the promiscous past of modern women.
@ fact
Being single is the best choice forever! Iam 31 years and proud to be single.
Respect 🫡 sir
Mujhe bhi yhi lgta hai but true love exists krta hai aj bhi. Sbko mil nhi pata pr.
@@gurukulinstitute6204 same bro
Absolutely. Know your worth never settle for less
@@IamSpidey007 A fact brother
One demand abolition of Hindu Marriage Act, Hindu Guardianship Act, Hindu Succession Act, 498A, 125CrPc,376B, Indian Evidence Act 1972 (Sec-112)
Ohh
@@thebigbadalpha explain
No girls be with the guy who is struggling or building a career.
@@keyurshah5011 fact 100%
Esa nhi hai mai ek ladki ko janta hu wo school time se saath hai ek ladke se 15 yr se wo 31 ki ho gyi hai ladke ke ghar wale nhi maan rhe but she still waiting bhut loyal achi ladki hai . Maine waisi lgki nhi dekhi hai apne ass pass true love exists but sbke naseeb me nhi hai.
@@gurukulinstitute6204 I wish you luck
Expections are everywhere😂@@gurukulinstitute6204
My relatives are forcing me to marry I don’t want to marry at all. I am not marriage, material guy. I just want to date around and have fun lekin woh bhi nahi milraha😅
@@AshTheDuke haha dude
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@thebigbadalpha I have also written a book on the differences of the genders
Marriage was, is and always would be a transactional thing.....
No matter how much you try to sugarcoat it with words like compatability, love, relationship and partnership......
If it's the love we are talking about, then why it happens that a man only falls in love with a younger girl or a girl only falls in love with an older man......
If every relationship in our life is give and take, then we need to introspect on what kind of life we are actually living.....
I think remaining single and finding an alternate way to have children via surrogacy or adoption should be considered a norm in this day and age..... I know society is not ready for this but it should be done otherwise such incidents will keep on happening.....
Some how you are right. Somehow
@@thebigbadalpha Actually, I know it's difficult to digest but without different mindset, evolution to a better thing is never possible.....
We would have never gotten out of our cavemen mentatlity, if not for an altogether different way of thinking and rational thoughts.....
And here's an interesting fact: -
Dinosaurs ruled this planet for approx 130 million years
Modern Humans have been on this Earth for just 300,000 years.....
So, if we consider a single day to be the chronological age of Earth, then we arrived on this planet for just a fraction of seconds before midnight.....
And in this tiny spectrum, we advanced so much, but these norms and traditions are causing a hinderance in our thought process....
Because peace and a carefree life is required for thinking with our open mind, which we sadly are not accumulating......
@@thebigbadalpha
I know that the things I said are not easy to digest but without different and rational thinking, evolution is not possible.....
And I am grateful that someone like u emphasized on the age gap between man and woman in marriages.....
At first, I used to think only I am the one who is not able to digest this thing but now I know there are people like u as well who think that it's an issue......
I second you
@ ok
After the incident of Mr. Atul Subhas I'm not gonna marry it's really scary for men and obviously marriage is only profitable for women so it's better to be single forever.
I'll build my own career, money, property and will take care of my parents and will help others.
@@rupadarshisamanta3288 best of luck with your choice brother.
It’s better to break up as boyfriend girlfriend, rather than getting married and divorced
@@AshTheDuke dropping facts man
I too don't wish to get married....
One life, great life
😿
Only financial problem biggest reason
@@RahulChoudhary-t1z Fact
Not now
Financial problem will be there after divorce
ever heard of fake cases and alimony?
@@NoOne-kx7zs ever faced any financial trouble we grown in poverty and know the reality
Stop glorifying girls between 18-22 married for God sake they are just out of teenage..... And yeah only family that goes after your wealth will not be the best choice ..... You can marry your 25 yr daughter to a 35 yr old man but same is not the case with everyone duniya mein ghairatmand log bhi hai meri maa ne meri behn ke liye 30 saal ke ladke ka rishta reject Kiya that even after knowing they are richest in our community because "ladke ki umar zayda hai " on avg a man live 7 years lesser than a women that should also be considered for a healthy long family time.... My sister was 24 that time then two years later we found a guy who was 27 and sister was 26 then we got her married.... Aur har acha priwar aise hi sochta hai... Paiso se lalchi families attract hoti hai ghairatmand log nahi
Respect brother.
Bhai fir to ladkiyon ki 7 years younger men se hi shadi kr deni chahiye. Ekdum dono saath saath Jiyenge aur mar bhi jayenge.
older is older whether by 1 year or 2 years..... lol.....
And according to your logic of lifespan, you should have married your sister to a younger man for perceived mutually lasting longevity.....
You contradicted yourself.....
@jigsawkramer4175 no they lie in same age range u lack comprehension skills very heavily
@@jigsawkramer4175 18 to 22 is very young for girls and boys to marry
I request all unemployed and low income people, please do not marry or not have children, don’t become poor
@@arunkumarm18 a dark fact bro
Our present education system destroyed the socio culture. We have to follow our ancient culture, if you want to live happily . Learn from the season. Don't expect love from anybody. Forget what is not achieved, what family & friends think. Think the situation at Bus Stop / Railway Station/ Airport. Don't count the passengers. Share some times who wants to shares. Life start at sixities. A garland is be hanged on your neck by the best freinds when turn to sixty. A Banyan tree bear lakhs of fruit,to get a sapling is difficult task. Let marry & enjoy the life.
@@GOLAKABIHARISAMAL-pb2tc dude dropping facts
Thanking you sir/madam for my thought.
I am not interested marriage I am unmarried 35 year old women 😊 I am happy😊
Acknowledged
jaise apki pic fake h aapki life b fake lgti h
I m 33 unmarried assistant professor
@ Ahan
I m 30 unmarried girl 😢😢😢I m unhappy bcz society 😢😢😢
I graduated at the age of 20 🤗(4Years)
@@vaibhavdumaga6905 bro how can you explain please?
@@thebigbadalpha I Studied : Nursery, KG, 1st, 2nd and skipped 3rd, then from 4th onwards all the way to graduation.
@@vaibhavdumaga6905 damn found you! nice man. And best of luck with the future.
Ppl make fun of me 😢😢😢bcz i m 30 unmarried 😢😢
@@sonujain2348 dude thats what ppl do. You stay blessed 😇 stay happy. 😊
@@thebigbadalpha . Ya bro right 👍👍
If I don’t get girl I want I will never marry.
@@ankybhagat9283 I can understand brother
What's happening with Indian men's vocal?
@@chimplachuska hmm
Intelligent men dont get married
@@Dsrgroup555 some do when the time comes
But their relationship is different than normal ones. @@thebigbadalpha
@@Naveenkumar-qy5wy a fact no doubt brother
How do you get over your physical and emotional needs?
@@shanugaur8218 sbr ka phal meetha… have faith stay focused. Join a gym if that helps
@thebigbadalpha kab milega sabar ka Phal ye batao ? Physical needs to rahegi hi
@@shanugaur8218Bhai physical needs ke alawa bhi zindagi hai ye sab bahut choti cheeze hoti hein. Bahut saare successful log milenge Jo unmarried the humesha
Spa and massage services
Spa and massage services
Right😊
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Marriage is a natural thing that is a beautiful gift nature give us
And what about s*x if we not getting married how can we fulfill our physical needs or we just hang up with different girls if we not getting married
And second thing marriage is all about choosing the right partner for yourself who supports and love you in every situation
So don't misguide youth
Brother don’t get misguided as I concluded everyone should get married if they want to. Im not giving any extremism…..on any thing
You are a Muslim. You have no problem getting married. I'm a Hindu and if I ever marry, I'll marry under Islamic law
Good luck with asking for that to a girl.. at the end of the day, nobody cares about physical stuffs after getting exhausted at work..
Marriage is not s natural thing it's a constitutional institute yes intimacy is a natural thing
@@anthonycosta128 💯
baal vivah is also part of hindu culture ...
@@kushyadav8269 oh I can understand
No it was included later, it's not written in Vedas and Puranas.
@ oh
@@Vermeil_Verse_It's not written in Vedas or Puranas because it was the norm. If I discuss about a a group of 100 people aged over 40 & remain silent about their marital status does it mean that all are unmarried? No by that age almost all are expected to be married. Remaining unmarried at that age is an exception and not the norm. Just because Vedas & Puranas don't mention child marriages doesn't mean it didn't happen in the earler eras.
This topic is biggest dillema of this generation..
I know man
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