I feel for you and other women who are in this scenario. Talking about other women or inappropriate things is called negging. It’s a way of testing boundaries. Will you call me out? No, keep going. Yes? It was a joke and you can’t take a joke Communication. Boundaries. Solitude. Boundaries help keep things mutually understood. Communication helps when things arise. Time alone helps to have time to reflect and not be provoked and constantly responding in agitation. But also nothing wrong with being angry and a black woman- it’s a normal emotion especially when provoked or belittled and disrespected
omg I definitely agree with compassion. it’s something I look for even in friendships cause someone who lacks it even during good times, will turn so sour during arguments and difficult situations. The inability to have emotional intelligence is actually scary to me.
I think important things to keep in mind when dating and choosing a partner is How do they manage their emotions? Someone who explodes in anger isn’t any better than someone who avoids all conflict/conversations Communication is everything. Do you feel respected. Do you mutually show compassion in conversation. Love bombing/standards. If you’re in the dating phase and your partner has endless time to spend on the phone or one date turns into overnight and another sleep over. Check your boundaries. A nice gesture shouldn’t mean that you owe that person xyz and you should give yourself space and time between interactions to reflect even if it’s just confirming with your friends he’s for you You can meet narcissistic people at work or they can enter your friend group. If you learn how they iscolate and prey you can at least do your best to protect yourself or remove yourself safely Toxic relationships don’t usually start bad. Boundaries get crossed and line gets drawn and redrawn until somehow you always need to apologize when you’re wrong and and leave when the game is playing but he never has to even say hi to your friends when they visit. You get conditioned to act in a way that avoids a fight but he doesn’t have to lift a finger. 🙃
Oh babe 😢😢😢😢😢 I have come across so many dameer iyo nacas men doing this and I’m not even married subxanallah al atheem 😢especially since I come from toxic home with silent treatment
@ fr but nah not for me, I was very aware during the relationship😂😂just constantly doubting myself thanks to him. This video reminded me to feel relieved that I made the right choice😍
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SOOOO many women are in such relationships and they rather lay with that person and be miserable just because they don’t want to “upset him”
Thats not a way to live
I feel for you and other women who are in this scenario.
Talking about other women or inappropriate things is called negging. It’s a way of testing boundaries. Will you call me out? No, keep going. Yes? It was a joke and you can’t take a joke
Communication. Boundaries. Solitude. Boundaries help keep things mutually understood. Communication helps when things arise. Time alone helps to have time to reflect and not be provoked and constantly responding in agitation. But also nothing wrong with being angry and a black woman- it’s a normal emotion especially when provoked or belittled and disrespected
Thank you
omg I definitely agree with compassion. it’s something I look for even in friendships cause someone who lacks it even during good times, will turn so sour during arguments and difficult situations. The inability to have emotional intelligence is actually scary to me.
I totally agree with you we tend to forget the interpersonal relationship
I think important things to keep in mind when dating and choosing a partner is
How do they manage their emotions? Someone who explodes in anger isn’t any better than someone who avoids all conflict/conversations
Communication is everything. Do you feel respected. Do you mutually show compassion in conversation.
Love bombing/standards. If you’re in the dating phase and your partner has endless time to spend on the phone or one date turns into overnight and another sleep over. Check your boundaries. A nice gesture shouldn’t mean that you owe that person xyz and you should give yourself space and time between interactions to reflect even if it’s just confirming with your friends he’s for you
You can meet narcissistic people at work or they can enter your friend group. If you learn how they iscolate and prey you can at least do your best to protect yourself or remove yourself safely
Toxic relationships don’t usually start bad. Boundaries get crossed and line gets drawn and redrawn until somehow you always need to apologize when you’re wrong and and leave when the game is playing but he never has to even say hi to your friends when they visit. You get conditioned to act in a way that avoids a fight but he doesn’t have to lift a finger. 🙃
Agree
Oh babe 😢😢😢😢😢 I have come across so many dameer iyo nacas men doing this and I’m not even married subxanallah al atheem 😢especially since I come from toxic home with silent treatment
So sorry love, That’s terrible I pray you are in a better place
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Finally Bella, I have been waiting for this video 😅
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Ticked every single one😂😂
This can definitely be triggering
@ fr but nah not for me, I was very aware during the relationship😂😂just constantly doubting myself thanks to him. This video reminded me to feel relieved that I made the right choice😍
I agree with you all 💯💯💯
Thank you 😊
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