Situationship Wala Trauma By Swastika Rajput | Hindi Storytelling | The Storytellers 2023

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  • Опубліковано 16 лип 2023
  • When Swastika moved to Mumbai, she experienced something she had no idea about, a SITUATIONSHIP! Something she did not sign up for.
    A story of a traumatic birthday, the day when it all came crashing down for her. She shared this one with us at the Storytellers Show, in Delhi, and surely there were some water works happening on both sides, on stage and off stage.
    Video Edited by: Shannon Maben
    #storytelling #swastikarajput #situationship #trauma
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  • @anuragbhalekar4315
    @anuragbhalekar4315 9 місяців тому +111

    “bichadna hamesha do logon ki kami hai, kisi ek ki zimmedari nahi” Well said.

    • @karmaakshunn
      @karmaakshunn 8 місяців тому +2

      Duniya fir bhi bichhadne degi aascharya dekhne Manoranjan ke liye

  • @princejindal8595
    @princejindal8595 10 місяців тому +52

    It takes too much courage to express your emotions specially in public without fear of being judged.

  • @sagarera5924
    @sagarera5924 10 місяців тому +132

    The emotions we can see in her tone and eye's ❤️‍🩹

    • @sushiladevi9138
      @sushiladevi9138 8 місяців тому +1

      I agree😊

    • @vickymedgan
      @vickymedgan 7 місяців тому +3

      Yes and i hope she will find the man who fills this gap in her life what she deserves

  • @Nitinvasu4444
    @Nitinvasu4444 11 місяців тому +128

    For the first time in my life I have seen an alive person at 1.5x speed. 😄... I liked the rawness of this piece. Keep it up Swastika.👏👏👏

  • @varunkumar5003
    @varunkumar5003 9 місяців тому +32

    Atleast she have friends with whom she can share her pain ,but some of them dont have anyone to share.

  • @JPSir
    @JPSir 11 місяців тому +28

    It happens with everyone, literally everyone. So accept it and move on. Spoke her heart out beautifully!!

  • @aayushipawar3411
    @aayushipawar3411 7 місяців тому +10

    pyaar aur dosti ke bich mein ek najuk si line hoti hai, ye line kabhic ross nahi honi chahiye. Kyuki tabhi aap uss rishte ko zindagi bhar nibha sakte ho, bass yahi sunna tha, thankyou!!

  • @archana2449
    @archana2449 7 місяців тому +8

    Tumhari situationship ki kahani sun kar muze meri situationship yaad aa gai, or aasu aa gaye tumne kaise control kar li?
    You are amazing ❤❤

  • @nityarai5977
    @nityarai5977 8 місяців тому +30

    How she seems innocent little one with joy and cheerfulness but deep down her words the way she’s describing her situationship it’s sharp enough to pierce the heart of the one who has been through it.
    Like mine I would say rn because one who has gone through it can only relate to each of her lines.
    ❤❤ for her

  • @ChetaNLegenD
    @ChetaNLegenD 11 місяців тому +83

    Yr tum itana achha kaise bol leti ho, pyar ho jata hai tumhari baaton se... Waise tumse se to pahle se hai😂😂❤❤

    • @user-no1hc6cj9p
      @user-no1hc6cj9p 11 місяців тому +2

      Broo😂😂😂yaha bhi suru ho gye aap,

    • @aryan3601
      @aryan3601 10 місяців тому +2

      Kyuki voh khush rehti hai

    • @ChetaNLegenD
      @ChetaNLegenD 10 місяців тому

      @@user-no1hc6cj9p adat se majboor 😎

    • @ChetaNLegenD
      @ChetaNLegenD 10 місяців тому +2

      @@aryan3601 sach kaha bhai, dil me tufan lekar chehre pr smile krna sabhi ke bs ki baat nhi hai👍👍

  • @user-pd6ol8zo9n
    @user-pd6ol8zo9n 11 місяців тому +33

    There is a difference between reacting and responding. Only emotionally intelligent people can respond instead of reacting, and it is not to please anyone or to be fit in. It is just for the sake of one's own well-being. Emotional intelligence brings success in every aspect of life.

  • @DeepikaBiswal-yb7ix
    @DeepikaBiswal-yb7ix 8 місяців тому +7

    Situationship, relationship, casual relationship pata nahi kitna nam hai par sab timepass hota hai commitment kisiko nahi dena tha

  • @sohimade2005
    @sohimade2005 8 місяців тому +12

    And a drop of tear came down at the last line❤️‍🩹

  • @salonimittal7457
    @salonimittal7457 11 місяців тому +33

    love everything about this! idk but i cried through the entire video and felt so many emotions swastika - you are amazing

  • @gaurigoyal7238
    @gaurigoyal7238 11 місяців тому +5

    Amazingggg..this raw narration touched the heart❤🙌

  • @muzammilshaikh20
    @muzammilshaikh20 10 місяців тому +4

    Its very fresh for her, She is soo strong..
    The last 1 minute...

  • @jiya14325
    @jiya14325 8 місяців тому +17

    @swastikaarajput
    If you would have controlled ur so-called "over reaction" & said Thank You once, then he would have said that ur response is not enough bcz he called you despite being busy and u only said a mere thank you. Thus things would have ended in either way, bcz he had already decided to end it.
    It was not your fault & don't blame urself.
    He lost You, you did not lose him!! You deserve someone much better!
    I can feel u, sis!! ❤️

  • @khushisrivastava4592
    @khushisrivastava4592 10 місяців тому +7

    "Bichadna 2 logon ki kami h..ek ki zimmedari nhi h!"🔥♥️♥️

  • @simran1382
    @simran1382 11 місяців тому +8

    Been there ...this thing really sucks. Swastika ❤you nailed it!

  • @kaviyajain4446
    @kaviyajain4446 8 місяців тому +27

    Can't explain in words... your last line has made me feel soo better that " tumhare log tumhe waise hi apnaaenge jaise tum ho."
    You know this has happened to me last evening i was going through this trauma, but your smile and the situation ( I can 100% relate this, same thing happed with me ) has made me feel so much better.
    after listening this I can confidently say that " I am what I am " .

  • @anxiousambivert9946
    @anxiousambivert9946 11 місяців тому +10

    I felt exactly same way she talking about… there is girl I loves a lot but that one sided since my clg 5 years back … I got to know that she has a BF now and my heart felt so heavy and that day her b’day … I called her at the end of the day 11:55 and wish her the last wish and she said why you don’t call me whole day and said ohh okay you showing me attitude then get lost and don’t show me your face don’t try to reach out….. but she don’t that how I going this situation totally emotionally shattered I cried whole day that she don’t even tell me and not consider me frnd but SOMETIME PEOPLE DONT KNOW YOUR SITUATION THEY REACT ACCORDINGLY THERE MOOD still I’m healing❤

    • @missincredible4546
      @missincredible4546 2 місяці тому

      I can totally relate bro.Now it has been 3 years no reply to any of my message and got blocked everywhere😂😂😅😅 and that's what life all about still finding "tumhare wale log😂😂😂😂"

  • @AnkitKumar-qc1wv
    @AnkitKumar-qc1wv 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank dee for explain your situation in your prity words,same to you...

  • @rajanmaurya1713
    @rajanmaurya1713 11 місяців тому +15

    Yes, I also love my "Immaturity" ❤😊
    Not to so called "mature people" bcz maximum of them living double standard life, fake life and saying themselves "Mature"

  • @tarunkaundal1265
    @tarunkaundal1265 11 місяців тому +6

    Just Beautifully Narrated a Masterpiece.... Well Done 👏👏

  • @amishakumari8488
    @amishakumari8488 8 місяців тому +2

    Every line of yours touches the heart.
    Pata ni kyu..
    🙂

  • @hammadshaikh4278
    @hammadshaikh4278 11 місяців тому

    Great Story telling

  • @Riyasharma-1109
    @Riyasharma-1109 11 місяців тому +1

    love it❤

  • @anjalikadgi
    @anjalikadgi 10 місяців тому +1

    This made me cry!!🥺❤️

  • @renukapurohit5080
    @renukapurohit5080 11 місяців тому

    Wowww✨

  • @theorganics5427
    @theorganics5427 11 місяців тому +2

    Courageous ❤

  • @aparnapaliya6591
    @aparnapaliya6591 11 місяців тому +1

    Too mch relatable ... ❤

  • @Vaani_7
    @Vaani_7 8 місяців тому +2

    Finally I found words to express my thoughts, feelings 😅

  • @PratibhaSubedi
    @PratibhaSubedi 6 місяців тому

    Perfectly said🙂

  • @annvisingh7744
    @annvisingh7744 10 днів тому

    Just wow

  • @poojachouhan05
    @poojachouhan05 11 місяців тому

    Exactly jo hmare log honge vo hme hm jese h vese hi accept kr lenge❤

  • @TanishaMishra-
    @TanishaMishra- 4 місяці тому +1

    It touches my heart deeply 🌜

  • @agnivapal1353
    @agnivapal1353 11 місяців тому +2

    So soulfully beautiful

  • @akanshasingh2291
    @akanshasingh2291 10 місяців тому

    Loved it ❤️

  • @believer7589
    @believer7589 23 години тому

    Ohh God, she felt so relatable ♥️

  • @mehulgosar1744
    @mehulgosar1744 11 місяців тому

    Yaaaaaaarrrrrrr.. ❤

  • @parteet
    @parteet 11 місяців тому +13

    Emotions personified ❤️........ Great going idol...... Keep slaying 🔥🔥🔥

  • @justme-ei7sj
    @justme-ei7sj 11 місяців тому

    WOW GIRL just wow youre too good !!

  • @mithileshkothari
    @mithileshkothari 8 місяців тому +2

    Every freakin word is relatable....more power to u swastika

  • @priyaraj9518
    @priyaraj9518 11 місяців тому +1

    So beautiful ❤❤

  • @parvathykrishnan8179
    @parvathykrishnan8179 11 місяців тому

    woww💜

  • @Arfa246
    @Arfa246 11 місяців тому +7

    Just loved it your eyes were saying your true story 🥺

  • @milkhasingh7253
    @milkhasingh7253 8 місяців тому +2

    You deserve better girl! We are in the same boat. Happened with me too

  • @Im_akshansh
    @Im_akshansh 11 місяців тому +7

    After 5 years of togetherness... On 30th I'll be celebrating my birthday alone..

  • @PsychologyWithKaran
    @PsychologyWithKaran 10 місяців тому +1

    I like your way of taking. I'm biggest fan your poetry ✨️.

  • @user-ch4yp3rx5d
    @user-ch4yp3rx5d 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful 😍❤️

  • @snehaha04
    @snehaha04 11 місяців тому +3

    Emotions over hi feel hote...how relatable 🥹❤️

  • @saurabh8955
    @saurabh8955 11 місяців тому +1

    Sooo relatable 🥺🥺
    Main kaise batau use I love him uska rejection hamari friendship bhi khatam kar dega
    Ohh god 🥺

  • @simransahu6096
    @simransahu6096 10 місяців тому +1

    So beautiful ❤💓💓💓💓💓💓💓🍁🙌🏼✨

  • @user-yb7yp7dg5u
    @user-yb7yp7dg5u 10 місяців тому

    Yaar di aap itna achha bolte hai ki kya hi bataye aap bahot achhe ho aur jitni lines bolte ho yesa lagta hai sab kuch Same yesa hi huaa ho ham sab ke sath

  • @shivangipandey4775
    @shivangipandey4775 11 місяців тому +5

    What's make you rich the answer is experiences i totally relate your situation ❤🎉😊

  • @brokenfeelings1059
    @brokenfeelings1059 11 місяців тому +11

    One day they will realize, ki wo overreacting ladki sahi thi. Bohot zayada care krti thi isliye pgl ho jati thi mere aawaz sunke hi. ❤🌈

  • @akash_c
    @akash_c 10 місяців тому

    Very deep

  • @sandykkr
    @sandykkr 7 місяців тому

    I feel you bro... ❤

  • @shuvekshatamang929
    @shuvekshatamang929 5 місяців тому

    Relationship is lost because of greed, ego. I can feel your emotion. I feel it's my story

  • @FaisalNawaz-gy6gp
    @FaisalNawaz-gy6gp 11 місяців тому +1

    Your style your voice you face everything is very beautiful❤❤❤❤❤

  • @PrinceRathour713
    @PrinceRathour713 4 місяці тому

    Yes it's true sister ❤❤😊

  • @pragyasagar9273
    @pragyasagar9273 10 місяців тому +5

    Bheed me wo mera haath pakad leta tha toh lagta tha mujhe khoyi hui pehchan mil gayi ❤

  • @archanakumari1482
    @archanakumari1482 4 місяці тому

    Very beautiful

  • @alishasingh129
    @alishasingh129 10 місяців тому +3

    situationship trauma ek sath hi kiyon....3 saal ho gye aaj tak bhulna mushkil hotta hai though mei ek relationship mei hoon aur voh janta hai usske baare mei jiske sath mei ab hoon voh iss duniya ka sbse aacha ldka hai jo meri yeh baate yeh rona bhi dekh leta hai bina yeh dekhe ki baate ussse kitna hurt kr rhyi hai

    • @atuldwivedi3959
      @atuldwivedi3959 10 місяців тому +3

      Aap mediation karna start kar do guided mediation....aap believe nahi karoge but aap ek month karke dekh lo dheere dheere aap heal hona start kar do...shuruwat ke ek hafte lagega kya bakwas kar rhi hoon but aapko kuch na kuch mehsoos hona start ho jeyega...

    • @alishasingh129
      @alishasingh129 10 місяців тому

      @@atuldwivedi3959 ji zarrur mei krungi

  • @rajnandani648
    @rajnandani648 10 місяців тому

    Same situations with me frndship or pyaar ke bich ek bahot hi nazuk si line hoti h ese kvi Cross nhi krni chaiye 💯 . Hone ke baad na to frndship rheti h or na hi pyaar

  • @thakurmeenu9272
    @thakurmeenu9272 2 місяці тому

    U are very strong ❤

  • @Nikita-pk7nc
    @Nikita-pk7nc Місяць тому

    This is so matching with my real life story ❤😢

  • @shemaring2867
    @shemaring2867 10 місяців тому +7

    I hv been in a situation ship and he did like me but he was hot and cold with me. Nd kept me hanging. So after we came back to our respective places I moved on. And he was the one who used to tell me “a guy in love will do anything for his girl,” so I realized that he was not so much into me. Then when I was so done and not looking for anything I met someone.

  • @user-ut1bs5wv3p
    @user-ut1bs5wv3p 21 годину тому

    'Woh line cross ho gayi'
    'nah pyar nah dosti'
    😭💯

  • @IRshayri_writer_1049
    @IRshayri_writer_1049 Місяць тому

    अपनो की नजरो में जो हमारा नजर किरदार आता है, वो चाह कर भी किसी और की नजरो में कभी नजर नहीं आ सकता 😊

  • @vaishalimishra9543
    @vaishalimishra9543 7 місяців тому +1

  • @Sagarfashionmenswearnanded1080
    @Sagarfashionmenswearnanded1080 4 місяці тому

    Very nice video ❤😊

  • @motivationdiaries123
    @motivationdiaries123 9 місяців тому +5

    Agar wo tumse sach me pyar karta hota na to wo tum jasi thi, wesa accept karta....agr relationships ke koi rule hain, aur sabko unhi ke according chlna hota h, it means every relationship is same, sirf chehre alag hain, kahani same h.....😒😒😒😒 I hate these relationship rules!! 😒😒

  • @anitachauhan4457
    @anitachauhan4457 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @laljijeykad1618
    @laljijeykad1618 11 місяців тому

    💙💙💙

  • @annusingh546
    @annusingh546 9 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @SakeelBhai-
    @SakeelBhai- 11 місяців тому

    So beautiful voice

  • @mdhusenyalagi7677
    @mdhusenyalagi7677 11 місяців тому +2

    Han Yar, ho jate hyn hum itne hyper active.. tumhe dekh kar, tumhe sun kar... Kabhi tum bhi to hame smjha Karo... gale se apne lagaya karo, apne aap me hume basaya karo..
    Pani men namak dal fir ghol na ise, jab ghul gaya namak to, namak bolana kise... Kash woh hame samjhi hoti... Na hum Shehar badal kar rahe hote na woh apne yaar... Kash... Bdw ammazing #SR ❤

  • @Jeel31
    @Jeel31 Місяць тому

    If my EX decides to share her stories, it would be the same. I know I might be the wrong one in my relationship, but honestly, in the story you shared I can feel the perspective and feelings of that guy too

  • @ritikrawat7514
    @ritikrawat7514 11 місяців тому +1

    Tum wo Mt Banna jo tum nahi ho,
    Agr wo tumhara hota to smjh jata ki tumahri excitement ka reason bs uski awaj sunne se aagyai♥️🥀

  • @arohipatel258
    @arohipatel258 11 місяців тому +4

    To ye apki story hai 😊
    Lucknow mai apne apni dost ki story kaha tha 😅

  • @priyanshisrivastava3507
    @priyanshisrivastava3507 4 місяці тому

    "Tum mat banna jaisi tum nhi ho, tumhare log tumhe waise hi apnayenge jaisi tum ho."

  • @archanarathore3890
    @archanarathore3890 11 місяців тому +7

    It feels like you're telling about me...yes I'm overreacting person. But how can I control my emotions kyuki Dil pr to kisi k jor nhi chalta n😔...and wo 10min. Exactly 💯 wahi 10min. Sb kuch khrab kr dete hain kyuki log smjhte nhi or fir hn situationship k shikar ho jate hain 🥺🥺🥺
    What a performance ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @SSC_WALA_Aspirent
    @SSC_WALA_Aspirent 11 місяців тому +1

    😢😢😢

  • @snehaha04
    @snehaha04 11 місяців тому

    Cutiee💗

  • @santoshsamala1965
    @santoshsamala1965 11 місяців тому

    👍

  • @toogoodtobetrue1795
    @toogoodtobetrue1795 8 місяців тому

    Feels like you telling me my story

  • @chandnisah2561
    @chandnisah2561 7 місяців тому +4

    It hurts when someone calls your excitement immaturity

  • @princevivek5320
    @princevivek5320 8 місяців тому +3

    Ek bar kisi se attachment hojaye r phir wo shaks Hume chod ke chala Jaye bohot mushkil ho jata he jeena

  • @bababillenial7861
    @bababillenial7861 11 місяців тому

    Bade log hain , Situationship karte honge!

  • @dipikakarmakar4069
    @dipikakarmakar4069 11 місяців тому +1

    Same problem mere shath huya..90% same..or Mera birthday 2 months bad hai..but mere pass call ane se ,me phone receive nehi karungi...kiyuki mujhe mature Banna hai..mujhe or emotional weak nehi rehna hai..

  • @author_radhi
    @author_radhi 11 місяців тому +1

    Why is feel like my story🙂 exactly

  • @theanjaanshow8228
    @theanjaanshow8228 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤best ho ap

  • @Depth193
    @Depth193 11 місяців тому +3

    vo admi toxic tha..usne aapke bday ka din bhi kharab kiya..stay away from these kind of people

  • @mohitagrawal10
    @mohitagrawal10 11 місяців тому

    Lovely video.....but itna chota video❤

  • @Komal.7779
    @Komal.7779 8 місяців тому +2

    Be practical only... utna do kisi ko jitna usse need h behad hanikarak hota h chahe vo kuch b ho ..... kabi -2 gyan b kaam nhi aata vase vo situation hi essa hota h emotional log hainna 😢😢 practical logo k sath bhig jate h 😂😅

  • @toogoodtobetrue1795
    @toogoodtobetrue1795 8 місяців тому

    Bday shit so relatable I'm dead

  • @anupriyabehra2177
    @anupriyabehra2177 8 місяців тому

    Aap ladki se pyar krte hai❤. Pyr to pyr hota hai kya fark padta hai❤. Love is love.

  • @Aneesha_Sanil
    @Aneesha_Sanil 2 місяці тому

    Her Eyes tells a lot than her voice..

  • @AnikaKhatun-xq9sx
    @AnikaKhatun-xq9sx 6 місяців тому +1

    Check karliya kahi video ki speed 1.25x to nhi karrakha maine😅