How Florida’s abortion ban is leaving one family in agony

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  • Опубліковано 19 лют 2023
  • Despite their baby’s fatal fetal abnormality, the Dorbert family was denied the possibility of terminating their pregnancy early.
    Florida’s H.B. 5 - Reducing Fetal and Infant Mortality - went into effect last July, soon after the U.S. Supreme Court overturned a half-century constitutional right to abortion.
    The new law bans abortion after 15 weeks with a couple of exceptions, including one that permits a later termination if “two physicians certify in writing that, in reasonable medical judgment, the fetus has a fatal fetal abnormality” and has not reached viability.
    It is not clear how the Dorberts’ doctors applied the law in this situation. Their baby has a condition long considered lethal that is now the subject of clinical trials to assess a potential treatment.
    Neither Dorbert’s obstetrician nor the maternal fetal medicine specialist she consulted responded to multiple requests for comment. Read more: wapo.st/3KiBkjZ. Subscribe to The Washington Post on UA-cam: wapo.st/2QOdcqK
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 239

  • @persephonestardust2498
    @persephonestardust2498 Рік тому +57

    This is why politicians need to stop playing doctor.

  • @nerdaterp
    @nerdaterp Рік тому +71

    Will these pro-life groups and the government pay for counseling these parents need to deal with the trauma? Are they willing to continue paying for counseling once the child is born and immediately dies (or is stillborn)? Are they willing to pay for the baby's medical costs until it does? What about the funeral this couple now has to plan and pay for?
    Doubtful. They're pro-birth, not pro-life. Once the baby is born, the parents are on their own.

    • @eliesh3833
      @eliesh3833 Рік тому

      "Deal with it yourself, whore."
      That's them, and that's what they say.
      Conservatives do not care at all. Not in any capacity. Their words about caring for both women and children are nothing but cover-ups for their true intentions, which are made evident by the legislations they pass.
      They want to have control over women like they did in the old days.

    • @tangoingthekitchen
      @tangoingthekitchen Рік тому +7

      nah they need to go back to grade school and learn how baby are actually are made, all of those people forget that you need two to tango

    • @poorlydrawn443
      @poorlydrawn443 Рік тому +2

      Why are you worried about having a stillbirth? The baby dies either way! You still give birth to a dead baby. From what I could gather, there aren't even any funerals for aborted babies, no respect.

    • @puclopuclik4108
      @puclopuclik4108 Рік тому +7

      The difference is quick healing. Now she has to carry that child every day. This is prolonging their agony.
      The question should be, why not to abort the child now, since it's not going to live anyway?
      Im sure you are one of those people who complained about mandatory vacation.
      Let the mother and father decide what they want, your oppinion is irrelevant in their case.

    • @mathildeyoung1823
      @mathildeyoung1823 Рік тому

      @@puclopuclik4108 If it's not OK to "humanely" k!ll a born child that will eventually die within days to months it's not OK to k!Ll an unborn child. Ultrasounds have been wrong before and healthier than expected babies born.

  • @cosycoffeee
    @cosycoffeee Рік тому +82

    This is sick, inhumane, and cruel. This is what happens when politicians play doctor. And every person this happens to is another future vote against them. Probably more if you consider their friends and family members who were forced to watch this happen to someone they love. These politicians made their beds. Now they can lie in them.

    • @meahdahlgren5875
      @meahdahlgren5875 Рік тому

      Right

    • @Cuurle
      @Cuurle Рік тому +1

      Adoption is crazy

    • @TheJLH
      @TheJLH Рік тому +2

      @@barbarareed9308 nobody said they were puppies. What do you even mean?

    • @pigtailsandteddybears
      @pigtailsandteddybears Рік тому +2

      @@barbarareed9308 Which image are puppies made in?

    • @rockoorbe2002
      @rockoorbe2002 Рік тому

      Not really. Because the rest of us minorities don't support this. The only thing you're getting accomplished is you getting outbred.

  • @MrBoDiggety
    @MrBoDiggety Рік тому +54

    As a Floridian, and just finding out about the 6 week ban, this is heartbreaking. I truly can't believe this has happened. Now I worry if my wife becomes pregnant, there's a chance she can die. How is it possible that religious nutbags are able to have control over people like this?

    • @Gundamjock193
      @Gundamjock193 Рік тому +2

      As a MAGA voter I am oppose ot this bill

    • @poorlydrawn443
      @poorlydrawn443 Рік тому

      Be responsible. It is impossible for a woman to get pregnant if sex is done on her infertile days. There are ways to see whether your spouse is fertile or not. We are not "religious nutbags." Even if you abort, you are forced to give birth to the body of a dead baby. The effects of this are completely hidden by pro-choice activists, and from the information I could gather from non-biased websites, women are negatively affected.

    • @ArthurSchoppenweghauer
      @ArthurSchoppenweghauer Рік тому +3

      Then don't impregnate your wife, how hard could that be?

    • @MrBoDiggety
      @MrBoDiggety Рік тому +12

      @@ArthurSchoppenweghauer How bout you stop telling me what to do in a 'free' country?

    • @mathildeyoung1823
      @mathildeyoung1823 Рік тому +2

      @@MrBoDiggety Pretty sick if someone equates being free with having the ability to k!ll a defenseless human being.

  • @pusbabe
    @pusbabe Рік тому +46

    They treat women like cattle and it's sick.

    • @WatchMeShadow1
      @WatchMeShadow1 Рік тому +2

      I'm more concerned about the guaranteed future human being, particularly, in cases that do not involve rape or unplanned pregnancy where the woman somehow managed to get pregnant without having sex, like using someone else's sex toy or something just so happened to have sperm on it or something stupid, it can, and probable has happened, anyways, cattle do not get to choose when they do anything to get pregnant that's something the rancher/farmer does, a woman however in cases that's not rape, or the other involuntary one, gets to choose when she or if she wants to do anything that could get her pregnant and as such should take full responsibility for it.

    • @LibSoc_Dixie
      @LibSoc_Dixie Рік тому +17

      @@WatchMeShadow1 nope, their body, they should be able to choose.
      its very inhumane to *force* someone to get birth

    • @WatchMeShadow1
      @WatchMeShadow1 Рік тому

      @@LibSoc_Dixie They choose the second they actually began to partake in act(s) that could get them pregnant, if a condom has a hole in it or something that's a risk they were willing to take and got unlucky with. I agree with her body her choice and she made that choice when she decided to and then did something that could get her pregnant, now if she did not decide to and like went out for a drink and got drugged and coerced into it I would say that it wasn't her choice as being drugged does/can take away free autonomy, but if she went out there and drugged/drank herself into a stupor with the intent to have sex later that same night then she should bear responsibility for that, but that's how I feel it should be, otherwise I'm willing to accept a compromise of giving a certain amount of time were it can be done but to then cut it off after words if only so no one is happy.
      What would be a good time? People say when the heart forms, but for me it'd be never, but once again, I'm willing to accept no one being happy and I don't know the process enough to make that kind timed call.

    • @johnsmith7140
      @johnsmith7140 Рік тому

      ​@@LibSoc_Dixie lol

    • @k8terama259
      @k8terama259 Рік тому

      @@WatchMeShadow1 so really what you’re interested in is using abortion bans as a punishment for women and don’t actually care about the potential life of the unborn…because you’re fine with “killing” the unborn if it’s a product of rape (which obviously would not be the unborn’s fault) or the weirdly specific accidental sex toy contamination (again also would not be the unborn’s fault)…so in other words you’re not pro life but pro punishing women if they got pregnant in way other than the ways you deem acceptable to have access to abortion (ex: rape or not knowing there was sperm on a sex toy before using)…

  • @sagestrings869
    @sagestrings869 Рік тому +13

    Everyday I wake up and am So glad i dont live in the dystopian hell of America

    • @mathildeyoung1823
      @mathildeyoung1823 Рік тому

      pretty dystopian that people think they can k!ll defenseless human beings to make their lives easier

    • @japark85
      @japark85 11 місяців тому

      @@mathildeyoung1823Thanks for doing your part in making this country a real life version of idiocracy. Now, please go and water your lawn with energy drinks and stop bothering people with your dumbass remarks.

  • @AlisaRedBandana
    @AlisaRedBandana Рік тому +17

    Very sad..my God why is the law working against the people!

    • @poorlydrawn443
      @poorlydrawn443 Рік тому +4

      What exactly is the law working against? Protecting the lives of babies and making sure that they get sent to loving adoption centers?

    • @lavender6500
      @lavender6500 Рік тому +4

      ​@@poorlydrawn443 Check out how many children are in the system. Better yet, how many are missing. Not deflection. It's a problem.

    • @poorlydrawn443
      @poorlydrawn443 Рік тому

      @@lavender6500 Hmm, I would like to see some evidence.

    • @mathildeyoung1823
      @mathildeyoung1823 Рік тому +2

      @@lavender6500 Are you saying that kids in the system are better off dead?

    • @NoirChloe
      @NoirChloe 11 місяців тому

      @@mathildeyoung1823 when they are directly asked about their lives, you see that they do not consider themselves happy, loved and therefore alive. So, in some cases death is mercy

  • @successcentral766
    @successcentral766 2 місяці тому +1

    After hearing this I realize how sick and cruel the government is. They should have NO RIGHT to our body’s it’s TOO FAR!

  • @sandramorey2529
    @sandramorey2529 Рік тому +3

    Please remember the testimonials and VOTE. Do your research and vote only for those who care about women and their health. We are not commodities, we are not property, we are sentient beings, capable of running the country as well as are any men. We don't belong to anyone but ourselves. Do you have support groups in Florida? They would help a lot.

  • @teresakelton8286
    @teresakelton8286 Рік тому +12

    So sad😢

  • @lauracharitou4371
    @lauracharitou4371 Рік тому +15

    I feel sorry for this woman and her family and I'm happy to live in Germany.

    • @poorlydrawn443
      @poorlydrawn443 Рік тому

      I hope Germany bans abortions too. Infanticide should be accepted nowhere.

    • @japark85
      @japark85 11 місяців тому

      @@poorlydrawn443An infant is a baby who has already been born. You have no idea what you are talking about, so please just go away.

    • @user-xd1kl2xb1e
      @user-xd1kl2xb1e 7 місяців тому +2

      Do terrible she can have her child killed

  • @Chaneldoloress
    @Chaneldoloress 2 місяці тому +1

    Does anyone remember why their reason was to ban abortion? Besides their own personal biases and religious beliefs? 🤔

  • @hahahaaha7208
    @hahahaaha7208 Рік тому +20

    This is what you wanted pro lifers

    • @SEAL7471
      @SEAL7471 Рік тому +3

      Have you read the bill? It CLEARLY allows for the termination of this pregnancy. The hospital is denying her the abortion, not the law.

    • @richbrake9910
      @richbrake9910 Рік тому +2

      you betcha

    • @eye787
      @eye787 Рік тому +2

      And still do! ☺️

    • @kennyhernandez2
      @kennyhernandez2 8 місяців тому

      @@eye787weird

  • @toddharvell7937
    @toddharvell7937 7 місяців тому

    I would like to know the outcome of this pregnancy.

  • @tauIrrydah
    @tauIrrydah Місяць тому

    I hope she survived and her other child didn't lose a mother.

  • @user-xd1kl2xb1e
    @user-xd1kl2xb1e 7 місяців тому +2

    Poor babies😢

  • @MRiitta
    @MRiitta 9 днів тому

    How msny kids per one woman is enough...?
    Before someone comes and says close your legs, there are enough men who trust that the "marriage rights" still belong to their lives. And yes, condoms do break ...

  • @MaestroKong
    @MaestroKong Рік тому +2

    Unacceptable political abomination

  • @snice.
    @snice. Рік тому +5

    My heart goes out to this family and the pain they had to experience knowing that their baby wasn’t going to live. I know that abortion wouldn’t have done anything to help this baby even if it would’ve taken away the family’s anticipation of the pain. I do not believe we should choose when life ends, but I am still sympathetic to the stress and frustration they felt knowing it couldn’t be over sooner. I hope the doctors did everything they could to help this baby survive for as long as it did 💔

  • @not_averge
    @not_averge 2 місяці тому

    I h8 the Washington post

  • @kristadeclan
    @kristadeclan 8 місяців тому +1

    We need better health care for women. I believe abortion is more harmful then pregnancy and birth, if the baby is going to die then mother should be given options for what she wants for baby last moments. Some babies have lived for a week or more.. I wouldn’t have regrets weather I got 1 hr or a week its better than nothing and having a very invasive unnatural procedure to apparently avoid causing her pain? I would rather hold smell and kiss my baby goodbye then have it torn out of me we need more humane options for women and their babies. Period

  • @princessodette1471
    @princessodette1471 Рік тому +2

    So does this mean that if somebody is sick your life should be terminated an unborn baby should have the same rights as somebody who has already in the world. It would not be right to terminate people if they were suffering or had a short time to live if they had no say.

  • @ElijahAhrens
    @ElijahAhrens Рік тому +1

    Anyone notice the Lego set did NOT align with the instruction sheet? XD

  • @Charlemagnetheman
    @Charlemagnetheman Рік тому +20

    People are going to use this sad story as a reason abortion should be legal up until 9 months funded by tax payers…

    • @TheJLH
      @TheJLH Рік тому

      Y’all really got hoodwinked into the mass late term abortion delusion.

    • @alicianelson1252
      @alicianelson1252 Рік тому +13

      It should be women deserve Healthcare you just want them to suffer to boost your own ego

    • @Charlemagnetheman
      @Charlemagnetheman Рік тому +3

      @@alicianelson1252 Why would I do that? That’s ridiculous.

    • @alicianelson1252
      @alicianelson1252 Рік тому +5

      @Ruaraidh how did I prove his point I proved him 100% wrong

    • @alicianelson1252
      @alicianelson1252 Рік тому

      @@ruaraidh74 so a woman should carry a dead fetus even if it damages her mental and physical health

  • @stevenconnelly1468
    @stevenconnelly1468 Рік тому +5

    Maybe the baby will survive after the he or she is born.

    • @stevenconnelly1468
      @stevenconnelly1468 Рік тому

      @Nick Yankee I'm saying maybe there is a chance for the lungs to develop.

    • @stevenconnelly1468
      @stevenconnelly1468 Рік тому

      @Nick Yankee surely the lungs would have a chance to develop while the baby is growing inside despite this syndrome.

    • @stevenconnelly1468
      @stevenconnelly1468 Рік тому

      @Nick Yankee it's Steven, and no, I done have medical training, but with God, all is possible.

    • @nerdaterp
      @nerdaterp Рік тому +8

      Doctors say these babies survive minutes or hours. You consider that survival?

    • @alicianelson1252
      @alicianelson1252 Рік тому +4

      That doesn't happen miracles only exists in fairytails

  • @KingOfGamesss
    @KingOfGamesss Рік тому +3

    If the baby died anyway...what is the problem?

    • @persephonestardust2498
      @persephonestardust2498 Рік тому +9

      Did you not watch the video?

    • @KingOfGamesss
      @KingOfGamesss Рік тому

      @@persephonestardust2498 Was it the Hospital Bill? probably complaining about money

    • @persephonestardust2498
      @persephonestardust2498 Рік тому +8

      @@KingOfGamesss okay either you didn't watch the video or you're not very bright.

    • @KingOfGamesss
      @KingOfGamesss Рік тому +1

      @@persephonestardust2498 Both

    • @DarkBrandonForever
      @DarkBrandonForever Рік тому +3

      ​@@persephonestardust2498he's trailer trashed ignore him. 🙄

  • @Spikey45633
    @Spikey45633 6 місяців тому

    Why should all babies be allowed to be killed just because of complications for a few? How about the feelings of the dead child? Probably not suffering from depression.

    • @kameralkutie5594
      @kameralkutie5594 2 місяці тому

      Babies and cells aren’t the same. Why do you care about what other women do with their bodies? How does someone else’s life decisions affect you? Are you gong to provide for the medical costs of this “baby”? Are you going to take responsibility for this “baby”? Are you going to adopt this “baby”? You pro life people just talk, but don’t make any moves. There are over half of a million children that are in need of a family in the US alone, so clearly you guys aren’t as pro life as you claim to be.🤡 Stoping trying to be the womb police 🚔 and worry about yourself instead of other people’s wombs.😏

    • @HYPERLAZERZ
      @HYPERLAZERZ 2 місяці тому +1

      DAWG A FETUS DOES NOT HAVE FEELINGS

    • @Spikey45633
      @Spikey45633 2 місяці тому

      Do you have children? Would you abort any of your friends. Those cells grow into people. Abortion shouldnt be used as birth control. We care because you have silenced them.

    • @kameralkutie5594
      @kameralkutie5594 2 місяці тому

      @@Spikey45633 I stand on what I said, so nothing you can say will move my stance.🤷🏽‍♀️ You are trying to gaslight me instead of answering the questions because you can’t really provide legitimate answers/information.🤡 Unlike you I actually can back up my statements. And clearly you have missed science class.😂 Like I stated there is well over half of a million children waiting for a family, but you claim to care.🙄 But clearly it’s not about a baby, it’s about controlling people. Whatever reason a woman decides to have an abortion is none of my business. It can be financial hardship, rape, consent, or whatever again it doesn’t have anything to do with me because I will not be providing for this child therefore I shouldn’t have a say so. It doesn’t matter what other people do with their bodies because 1) It’s their body. 2) It’s not my body. 3) It’s none of my concern. 4) Someone else’s decision doesn’t affect my decisions in life. 5) People have the right to make their own decision about abortion or whatever choices that are needed in their life. Unlike you I mind my business and clearly you have too much time on your hands trying to dictate what other people are doing. I’m CHILD FREE because I have the CHOICE to be. I guarantee you and these “Pro Life” people don’t even adopt nor financially take care of these “babies” that you are trying to force on others. So dismiss yourself.👉

    • @luiskarediska
      @luiskarediska Місяць тому +1

      ​@@Spikey45633 Perhaps you should first take care of the children who are already alive....

  • @johnoliver6721
    @johnoliver6721 2 місяці тому

    You want to not have a child, don't have sex at all, or if you do want to have sex, please have your husband wear a condom. Be responsible for your choices. You are welcome 👍.

  • @undeadmarine
    @undeadmarine 8 місяців тому

    You know you dont have to keep it

  • @eye787
    @eye787 Рік тому +6

    It’s very easy to protect yourself from pregnancy.. don’t have sex without protection.

    • @celinefanne
      @celinefanne Рік тому +29

      She wanted to have a child…did you not watch the video? She has to carry a dying baby inside her.

    • @japark85
      @japark85 11 місяців тому +1

      The next time I am raped, I’ll be sure to remind my rapist to put on a condom before taking me. Thanks for the pro tip, doofus!

  • @viperdemonz-jenkins
    @viperdemonz-jenkins Рік тому

    a good parent would not cry they would pray and be the best parent they could and deal with what may happen.

    • @viperdemonz-jenkins
      @viperdemonz-jenkins Рік тому

      @@charward6417 plenty of time to mourn if the baby does not make it, but his or her life is in Gods hands not yours.

    • @illa842
      @illa842 11 місяців тому +3

      Thoughts and prayers are doing plenty for the world already. Maybe the kid could've been saved by god? Wait..no..he died gasping for air for an hour and a half.
      At least he wasn't used as a moving target for the next mass shooting I guess?

    • @illa842
      @illa842 11 місяців тому

      @@viperdemonz-jenkins Whatever god you worship is a sick POS. :3 I'm so glad that youth in organized religions like christians and catholic lives are on the decline.

  • @AJHurley
    @AJHurley Рік тому +25

    While I empathize with the pain of their loss, I don’t understand the prochoice logic here. Tearing apart her child limb from limb and having her deliver a dismembered baby is somehow going to heal her pain?
    As someone who’s delivered dozens of children and put them on ventilators I can tell you that the women who are most healthy emotionally are the ones who get to hold their child and say goodbye.
    This child deserves to pass in the loving arms of its mother rather than at the hands of an abortionists tools. Abortion doesn’t solve anything here. Let’s not use hardship to justify and manipulate.

    • @DarkBrandonForever
      @DarkBrandonForever Рік тому +28

      If it's not your body why do you care if it's not your child why do you care?

    • @e-man1634
      @e-man1634 Рік тому

      "You don't understand the logic here" well, that's why we have a problem with people like you. Because if you understood, you wouldn't be questioning this. MYOB.

    • @AJHurley
      @AJHurley Рік тому +9

      @@e-man1634 So never address anything I said but seek to silence me because of me because I disagree. Got it!
      It’s none of my business until someone needs me to save their child. Then all of the sudden it’s my problem.

    • @e-man1634
      @e-man1634 Рік тому +12

      @@AJHurley first off, I did not say ANYTHING about you saving children. You save children's lives? That is commendable and I thank you. However, the subject here is abortion. The subject wasn't saving children's lives. You think abortion is wrong. That's fine, you're entitled to your opinion, just keep your opinions to yourself. If me and my girlfriend decide we want to get a abortion, then that's what we will do. You don't know every person's situation and the reason that they decided that. To say you think you know what's best is laughable. And you're looking at things from YOUR perspective, what you think you see. You have no idea what's really going on inside each person's head. People act out of character in stressful situations.

    • @e-man1634
      @e-man1634 Рік тому +17

      @@AJHurley you say women who hold thier child at death are the most emotionally healthy? Have you done studies? Have you followed up with each of these women after they left your care? Or are you basing all of this with the day or hours you see these people?

  • @TV-xp1rl
    @TV-xp1rl Рік тому +20

    Love your baby to the end ,let God do the rest. Whether he heals your baby or take it. You will not feel regret because you did your best.

    • @myrnagarrett6312
      @myrnagarrett6312 Рік тому +36

      My relative carried her baby to term knowing the baby was dead within her.This was prior to our country having abortion. In the end she committed suicide and left her husband and child to soldier on. May God be with them. I believe thT everyone should have the right to choose. It's a bunch of old men who have made this rule. Men enjoy the moment and oft times walk away. Women suffer the consequence.

    • @Christredeemr
      @Christredeemr Рік тому +34

      Not everyone believes in god and shouldn’t have to be forced to follow Christian rules.

    • @Christredeemr
      @Christredeemr Рік тому +28

      This isn’t a Christian nation. You as a person have every right to not get an abortion, but that doesn’t mean you get to tell others what to do. This is America.

    • @gs5551
      @gs5551 Рік тому

      …and watch your baby suffer then die after birth. Oh yes, what a wholesome experience!

    • @alicianelson1252
      @alicianelson1252 Рік тому

      Giving birth to a dead baby harms the mother oh right you don’t care

  • @starwarstheory3944
    @starwarstheory3944 Рік тому +7

    These people garner no sympathy from me. With the countless options of birth control being readily available at low cost abortion should no longer be a mainstream political topic. These two knew the result of the sexual act and did nothing to stop it. While it's unfortunate that they have subjected their unborn child to this, they have no one to blame except themselves.

    • @royaldiamond667
      @royaldiamond667 Рік тому +2

      You are a terrible person 😂

    • @brittany574
      @brittany574 Рік тому +1

      You're a psycho

    • @nerdaterp
      @nerdaterp Рік тому +40

      So you're assuming they weren't planning the pregnancy. You're also assuming they knew Potter's Syndrome was going to happen. Way to go.

    • @celinefanne
      @celinefanne Рік тому +26

      Did you not watch the video? she wanted to have a child now she has to carry a baby inside her that’s slowly dying…

    • @tangoingthekitchen
      @tangoingthekitchen Рік тому

      what about keep it in you pants