The dark side of being a woman rider on youtube

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  • Опубліковано 4 лют 2021
  • The internet is a scary place. Here are some of the most disturbing interactions that have happened to me or other women for being on UA-cam. I take many precautions for my safety, especially with an online presence. I hope you understand and not take it personally if I ever seem dismissive or private to you. It's just precaution.
    A year later, I take a HIDDEN CAMERA to the STURGIS rally. See for yourself what it's like to be a solo woman rider • Hidden camera: 'Dark S...
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  • @DoodleOnAMotorcycle
    @DoodleOnAMotorcycle  Рік тому +13

    I take a HIDDEN CAMERA to the STURGIS rally, see for yourself what it's like to be a solo woman rider ua-cam.com/video/D3aE_o3nNe0/v-deo.html

    • @hulkhatepunybanner
      @hulkhatepunybanner Рік тому

      *"What's the point in complaining about it?"" You must be a dude. We men bottle all that shiite up inside so we can drive faster, kill harder, and die before the nagging womenfolk. Get a nice little tumor inside of us. Never cry. Bounce our loved ones off the walls. Remember to hold it in like a fart at a funeral. Anyone complains about anything (especially things they can't directly control) is a twat.*
      Don't be offended by my comment. I held back.

    • @joebloggs1317
      @joebloggs1317 Рік тому +5

      Please, if you haven't thought about this already, ride to the right side of your lane when cresting hills or when the road rises and you can't see ahead, only takes a driver to be overtaking out of your sight and you could end up in a head-on. Call me paranoid but if it can happen, it will, you just want to be in the best place to take avoiding action.
      Great video's.

    • @daryldaryl913
      @daryldaryl913 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@joebloggs1317
      Yes. Best be safe at all times. I nearly ran into the back of a car when on my bike recently because i was looking elsewhere and not alert rec. It was only luck and low speed that saved me.

    • @BenGooding-fp6oi
      @BenGooding-fp6oi Місяць тому

      ​@@joebloggs1317Stay at home and be safe.

  • @AmandaJayne46
    @AmandaJayne46 3 роки тому +369

    Mrs Doodle, i’m a retired criminal psychologist. With your UA-cam channel it’s perfectly natural for you to have what I call a double life, this means a personal life and a UA-cam life. The wise part about this is never mix the two together. This will keep you safe if you stick to this guideline, you never give out full name, never give out your home location. When test riding motorcycles always try and take a different route never ever duplicate route if possible, also try and keep the roots you take isolated like this one. So you could see you was travelling around in what appears to be well weird looking circle ⭕️. But the most important thing is this whilst doing your UA-cam channel just enjoy what you doing don’t worry about other peoples opinions purely and simply because they don’t know the real you so therefore their opinion is flawed. Any who stay safe and be healthy, you’re an inspiration to all women never let anyone tell you otherwise God bless you ride carefully 🤗 💋

    • @deadfrominside698
      @deadfrominside698 3 роки тому +3

      Hello maam
      Nice comment
      Can u suggest some good(interesting) books on psychology (normal) and criminal psychology
      Im just a student so suggest 3-3 books accordingly no pro/advance books
      And if u reply like my comment so i know u replied coz i only get comment like notifications
      Ty :)

    • @AmandaJayne46
      @AmandaJayne46 3 роки тому +1

      @@deadfrominside698 There are so many books 📚 on both subjects now the best think for you to do is to go the Amazon OnLine Store 🏬 and type in the search bar ‘Psychology Books’ under BOOKS 📖 and look at the best sellers. Then you can pick the books according to what part you studying 📑 at the time. I must admit I would have loved to be able to do this through Amazon but we just had book stores and the library. I hope this helps, please keep in touch I would love to know how you get on. What would you like to be in life?

    • @zazugee
      @zazugee 3 роки тому +7

      Agree, even other male youtubers, dont want attention, specially those who have families
      some people can get easily offended, and they are psychotic or pathological and maybe want to take it on you IRL

    • @deadfrominside698
      @deadfrominside698 3 роки тому +1

      @@AmandaJayne46 hahha
      Ty for replying
      I was just interested in knowing how to read people, communicate better (for real life) and criminal psychology for amusement/fun/timepass
      I want to be a businessman thats why the first part :)

    • @zazugee
      @zazugee 3 роки тому

      @Daniel Smith those people post here for specific topics
      like idk, yammie noob for example never posted anything that shows where he lives and work

  • @AntiParallali
    @AntiParallali 3 роки тому +80

    My block list on YT and Insta...is...I mean it could basically be a phone book by now. These guys are, beyond creepy. Rape threats...bullying...obsession with my private life...it goes on. It is insane. And it's our sad reality. I have zero tolerance for it now. Instant block.

    • @BikerBabeBeth
      @BikerBabeBeth 3 роки тому +2

      One of the thing about growing my channel that I’m not excited for! Alll those BLOCKED rude comments. You just can’t tolerate that crap. Unfortunately those type of people will always be online.

    • @matthewblunderbuss4545
      @matthewblunderbuss4545 3 роки тому +7

      Sorry that some dudes are like that makes me scared for my daughters future. Much love and respect ✊.

    • @Lew699
      @Lew699 3 роки тому +4

      Those horrible dick heads don’t represent every guy

    • @GazderVarun
      @GazderVarun 3 роки тому +1

      That is really sad.

    • @iainf6
      @iainf6 3 роки тому +1

      Dont blame you its awful

  • @m00plank90
    @m00plank90 3 роки тому +89

    I'm a Dad, and more should speak up about these issues in the same way you have: not just decrying all males as toxic, but saying "this happens". I can show this to my daughter, and my son, without my Daughter thinking all males are dangerous and terrifying, and without my Son feeling like the world expects him to be a monster.
    As parents, we have the power to educate our kids, and discourage them from this kind of behaviour.
    A multifaceted and cooperative approach, is the only way we can beat this, not just slinging mud at "the other".
    Love the channel. 👍

    • @maniUSArmy
      @maniUSArmy 2 роки тому +5

      As a dad, I concur 100%. Well said.

    • @alvinsmith3894
      @alvinsmith3894 Рік тому

      Statistics says otherwise. That's not slinging mud. That's pointing at the mud that the other party slung at us for millenias.

    • @IratusAngelus621
      @IratusAngelus621 Рік тому +6

      So I have two daughters and a very close friend of mine has two great sons and my friend is a wonderful man and I love him dearly. He commented to me one day how he was thankful that he didn’t have daughters as he didn’t have to worry about them. He would often say that I should restrict where and what my girls should be allowed to do. This eventually got me a little pissy due to his smug condescending view so I turned to him and layed a few statistics on him. Now these are New Zealand stats mind you and go something like this.. 50% of females say they have been sexually harassed or assaulted in there life time, that one of my girl will the other won’t.. he agreed. Next I said,we’ll if there’s an approximate 50/50 of male/female population ratio… does that mean one of your sons harasses females? Next I said may be it’s you that should be restricting where and when your boys are out and about. The problem lies with us as males not the females

    • @m00plank90
      @m00plank90 Рік тому

      @@IratusAngelus621 men and women raise boys. Unfortunately it is mostly women. Either deadbeat dads, or overbearing women ruin lads before they’re given a chance. Prisons are full of boys without effective dads. It’s one massive thread that runs through the whole system. I stopped an attempted assault by one of my friends on another female friend at a party. Two other guys were just stood watching, She was drunk and out of it. so we need to also bring our boys up as protectors too. From an early age, consent and self control have been consciously hammered into my two. The last thing the world needs is another entitled lad who can’t control himself.

  • @DoodleOnAMotorcycle
    @DoodleOnAMotorcycle  3 роки тому +213

    Welp... hopefully I didn't get anyone too creeped out. For the most part, this world of UA-cam is the most fun I've ever had and I'm so happy it's turned into a job. Thank you for all your normal stable people watching and comments :"D
    Look, promise- there's more to this YT life than internet creeps: bit.ly/AllAboutBeingAGirlRider

    • @Fee.1
      @Fee.1 3 роки тому +5

      I am FAR from stable 😂 but I’m far from the scum that was the topic of the video too luckily, I wish you gals didn’t have to deal with that. I’ve actually been trying to take to heart your advice/observation of negative/depressed people and nobody wanting to be around that (at your workplace) I needed to hear that even if it stung a bit, so was good to hear your comment about complaining too, as I just dropped my grandma off after her first chemo treatment, and after losing my mom recently I can’t even think about it. Anyway I needed the encouragement to stfu and find a way to be positive.

    • @phantom_10792
      @phantom_10792 3 роки тому

      I didn't mean to offend with my other comment. It was a dig at people that say it.

    • @YBGuy
      @YBGuy 3 роки тому +3

      Thanks Doodle, keep riding and stay safe out there.

    • @mackenzieharris5259
      @mackenzieharris5259 3 роки тому +1

      Definitely do whatever you need to keep your self safe. If something or someone feels off or sketchy. Definitely follow your intuition. Stay safe and keep riding. I enjoy your videos. Keep up the great work!

    • @budjones2526
      @budjones2526 3 роки тому +2

      Hey Doodle, this is my 1st post. I wanted you to know that I helped a female friend of mine get in to road bikes. She has been a dirt bike rider with me. I sent her your videos because I thought you female insight might persuade her. She bought a new Kawi 650 Z. I had no idea that I would become a fan of your videos. I find them very insightful. Thank you.

  • @bigfatollie3286
    @bigfatollie3286 3 роки тому +30

    And speaking of creeps, who the heck "thumbs down" a video like this? You're doing great stuff, Doodle!

    • @andyroziemom
      @andyroziemom 3 роки тому +1

      You know, I was wondering the same thing.

    • @my.motorrad
      @my.motorrad 3 роки тому +7

      It's the creeps.

    • @cewonz8884
      @cewonz8884 3 роки тому +2

      Yep. Me too! Smh!. I don't get it 😣

    • @DoodleOnAMotorcycle
      @DoodleOnAMotorcycle  3 роки тому +4

      BAHAHHA I love you guys

    • @chugg535
      @chugg535 3 роки тому +3

      I think some people just go from video to video giving a thumbs down without even watching, or caring about the subject matter.

  • @ce_rouse
    @ce_rouse 3 роки тому +21

    I'm an old GenXr growing up at the dawn of the internet. The best part of the internet: connecting people. The worst part of the internet: connecting people. ❤️ ur channel, stay safe!

  • @TheBeardofDOOM
    @TheBeardofDOOM 3 роки тому +16

    As a rider and the dad of a 5 year old daughter, the way you handle yourself is something to be proud of. Your channel and insta are things I can show my daughter to let her know that girls dig bikes too! All too often it is just garbage content that looks like b-roll from a porno shoot that girls post to get likes and followers. Keep doing what you are doing, because you are doing it right!

  • @martyacker167
    @martyacker167 3 роки тому +38

    I only found this channel 3 days ago but already I'm overly impressed with your attitude towards life and towards others. You're doing a bang up job, I can only hope my own daughters grow up to be as mature, kind and rational as you are. Respect to you 👏👏👏. Stay safe and spread kindness ✌❤

  • @lolaleslie66
    @lolaleslie66 3 роки тому +29

    It's so important for women to talk about this stuff. Keep blocking and deleting these creeps. Keep your channel a safe place for everyone. Thank you again for discussing this!!

  • @TitusBaxter
    @TitusBaxter 3 роки тому +116

    As a man, I can only imagine some of the things that women have to deal with as motorcyclists but I think that it's important that we are all as inclusive as possible so that EVERYONE can enjoy the beauty of riding two wheels!

    • @chasinsunsets917
      @chasinsunsets917 3 роки тому +3

      ive worked alongside brilliant female vms in the military..

    • @dondarko7885
      @dondarko7885 3 роки тому +4

      Oh the knight in shinning armour virtue signal. Check out serpentza honey trap and make the same comment if you're fair.

    • @lecoeur1231
      @lecoeur1231 Рік тому

      @@dondarko7885 really dude? Gimme a break, sure there are bad people everywhere, including women. But unless you have your head buried in the sand, you know that men are much more sexually aggressive than women - have a heart.

    • @stephenfricke9298
      @stephenfricke9298 Рік тому

      Creeps Everywhere

  • @Fee.1
    @Fee.1 3 роки тому +79

    If you’re not going to proactively protect yourself, physically and mental health wise, nobody will, so there’s never a need to apologize for self care...even of a precautionary nature.
    Frankly as a shareholder of DoodleCorp Enterprises i demand you continue to do so and preserve value for the rest of the channel’s investors 😝

  • @jackkruese4258
    @jackkruese4258 3 роки тому +43

    I like hearing your thoughts as you ride as you’re certainly a wise woman, stay safe Doodle Noodle.

  • @GearsGadgets
    @GearsGadgets 3 роки тому +27

    Anytime another creator gives me “the girls just have it so much easier in building a channel” I ALWAYS mention this sad reality of unsolicited nonsense and how DIFFERENT the entire experience must be. I truly appreciate your ability to address it and respect the ability to even try to handle the creeps. Ride safe and keep creating awesome content.

    • @DoodleOnAMotorcycle
      @DoodleOnAMotorcycle  3 роки тому +2

      Plus I hardly think a channel grown via being a girl is going to make a sustainable business! Mr. beast and Casey Neistat are some pretty good examples of great channels from dudes making great videos

  • @cf8960
    @cf8960 3 роки тому +6

    I am a guy that started riding in March 2020 and you helped me learn a lot, I now have 4 bikes and 15,000 miles of riding because you helped me and I hope you keep helping people see that everybody can ride even little girls that look like my daughter :-)

  • @logangriffith4950
    @logangriffith4950 Рік тому +6

    For what it’s worth as a guy. You weren’t complaining you were educating. Hope you continue to stay safe and have fun

  • @pjdiver3
    @pjdiver3 3 роки тому +30

    It's not just a precaution for women. When I was a soldier, we would always stress that our people NOT give too much information about themselves on the internet. The Taliban and AQ types do have operatives in the US, and would love to know the personal/family information of our people. Anyhow, love your videos Doodle, stay safe out there.

    • @DoodleOnAMotorcycle
      @DoodleOnAMotorcycle  3 роки тому +1

      Damnnnn

    • @johnterry804
      @johnterry804 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly my neighbour has got a high government job and never drives the same way to work Two days in a row! And a friend of mine his daughter worked in a department store on perfume and make up a security guard asked her out! They went out a couple of times, then she finished with him! But he harassed Hume for weeks before one Saturday he went to where she did horse riding and stabbed her 29 times killing her she was 22 there are nutters everywhere! Who harass men and women!

    • @go72ko
      @go72ko 3 роки тому +4

      When I was in the army, there was no internet ;)) Best privacy and personal protection

    • @pjdiver3
      @pjdiver3 3 роки тому

      @@go72ko That'll do it :)

    • @go72ko
      @go72ko 3 роки тому +1

      @@pjdiver3 Really nobody knew where we are. There is no need anyone to know including family, beside the official address of the unit, to send letters. Unless of course a general information if you are deployed in a war ...

  • @bobosterday3350
    @bobosterday3350 Рік тому +9

    I have been riding for 45 years and you are an inspiration. The more women riders the better and you are helping them to see the world on two wheels. I will say there is nothing wrong with carrying some extra protection! Love your videos

  • @kurthertel4299
    @kurthertel4299 3 роки тому +18

    The saddest part is that this doesn't surprise me at all. In fact, I would be surprised if it didn't happen. I have no social media presence at all because I don't want to spend my life being disgusted or afraid for people. But I am also really old, lol. Glad you can deal with it. I couldn't, but its pretty bad irl too. Best wishes.

  • @charlesharper7292
    @charlesharper7292 Рік тому +2

    My wife went to high school in Germany. She rode a 1971 Sportster all over Europe. Usually on her own. We connected here in the states in 1980. She absolutely refuses to ride alone here.

  • @mattnazar7004
    @mattnazar7004 3 роки тому +9

    As my 24 year old daughter starts her own UA-cam channel, these are the things I worry about. The vast majority of people you meet in real life and online are good people, but there are some who definitely are not good. Stay safe, on two wheels and in every other way. Take care, Doodle, and ride on.

  • @kennethanderson1685
    @kennethanderson1685 3 роки тому +24

    I appreciate your point of view. You can't be too careful on social media. You are an exemplar for my daughters and all women. Thank you for all you do to increase the popularity of motorcycling. If our industry is going to be saved, Women will be the reason.

  • @greyanaroth
    @greyanaroth 3 роки тому +11

    Dear god! Take care man, like I recently told a friend of mine: the Internet gives voice and agency to all the nutcases who might otherwise keep their BS in their head. More power to you. Thanks for your candid shares. Ride safe ✌️

  • @debdettman4810
    @debdettman4810 3 роки тому +1

    I really like how you managed to bring up the grim realties and also bring it back to a positive. I have been watching your videos for a long time and feel a very protective feeling-like I have for my nieces. I am so glad you talked specifically about smart things you do to stay as safe as possible.

  • @DaveGargan
    @DaveGargan Рік тому

    Hey Doodle, I just ran across your UA-cam channel today! Sorry that you have to deal with the toxic people that are out there, but don't ever apologize for keeping your information private - you have to keep yourself safe! Stay positive, your positive and friendly nature really makes your content shine!

  • @Nagisasan36
    @Nagisasan36 3 роки тому +6

    You're making me nervous passing so close to those vehicles at 8:45. The open tailgate says there is activity there, and a door could open or someone could step out. Don't be afraid to use the empty road if it's clear, I don't want you to get hurt. Great channel :-)

  • @steele_a5184
    @steele_a5184 3 роки тому +39

    Most of these people are just looking for attention and would never step out of line in person. Nevertheless, people can be sketchy AF. Stay safe Doodle.

    • @DoodleOnAMotorcycle
      @DoodleOnAMotorcycle  3 роки тому +3

      For real... in person the number of interactions like this is practically ZERO

  • @MoroMagrew
    @MoroMagrew 3 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your experiences! I often watch your videos with my daughter, so you are a bit of a role model to her. Online abuse can be really invasive, like you say out in the “real world” you can physically escape or ignore in some way, but online it’s hard because it follows you, in your house, on your phone. Stay safe and much respect for speaking out about this issue and raising awareness.

  • @gestoandlane
    @gestoandlane 3 роки тому +1

    I have to say as a female on UA-cam (although I'm older than you and less subs) I've come across some pretty weird stuff. When I was checking out how people found our channel or a particular video some of the 'searches' were just downright scary. Love your videos doodle...keep it up chick x

  • @saintroad
    @saintroad 2 роки тому +20

    It is a sad reality that women are marginalized, objectified, abused and mistreated more often than we would all like to admit. As a long-time fan and follower (as well as father of two daughters), I can attest that I am fully supportive of your efforts, work ethic, dedication and passion with regard to motorcycling and simply living your best life, in spite of the inherent struggles and dark corners of our voyeuristic society.... Being a pilot and adventurer myself, I can only hope that my girls aspire to follow their dreams and work as passionately as you do on your many endeavors. All my best.

    • @lecoeur1231
      @lecoeur1231 Рік тому

      Thank you so much for speaking the truth, God bless you.

    • @1flash3571
      @1flash3571 Рік тому

      Uhh..so, how many women are abused, marginalized, and objectified here in the U.S.??? Care to give me the stats?? Don't women themselves objectify themselves? Don't women marginalize men also?? Do you think women are the only victims??? REALLY??? Men ARE THE MAJORITY OF VICTIMS OF VIOLENT CRIMES. WTF you talking about? I am NOT denying that "Grape" and sexual assaults, and stalking happen to women, but you make it as seem that it happens more often than it actually does. There IS NO CRIME WAVE of men going after women.

    • @ham7357
      @ham7357 Рік тому

      “Marginalized” please women are put on a pedestal.

  • @ajdemant7347
    @ajdemant7347 3 роки тому +3

    I'm so happy that this video is out in the UA-cam universe. It not only brings attention to the fact that this is something that SO MANY women deal with, online and off. And it helps foster a safer community within your audience so that we can all have each others backs. I, as a female rider, feel comfortable leaving a comment on your videos. I can't say that for some of the other motorcycle content comment sections. So thank you for being so awesome!!

  • @jannepeltonen2036
    @jannepeltonen2036 Рік тому +2

    I really liked how you approached this. I mean, the bright side to the "everyone knows the people who behave problematically" is that "90% of people are okay". And emphasizing that mostly everybody is okay while acknowledging the problematic behaviour is probably the best way to go. You don't paint the world as a fundamentally scary place but show the dangers and how to cope with them. Awesome, keep this up!

  • @nunocatarino1290
    @nunocatarino1290 3 роки тому +1

    I only got the riding bug a few years ago, already in my forties. You and other YTriders have helped me a lot to enjoy riding with your videos. Thnks a lot.
    It’s wise that you take precautions and don’t reveal too much personal info. Stay safe.

  • @N3PRO-Dave
    @N3PRO-Dave 3 роки тому +5

    I'm happy many of the female vloggers are bringing these uncomfortable situations to light. As a 42 year old momma's boy, I realize how much of bubble I'm in. Of course I see some of them if they make a public comment and I shake my head. I'm amazed how many today comment, "Hey (inappropriate adjective) do you have an onlyfans?" Why is suddenly every female on social media supposed to be on onlyfans? Not mentioning theses situations I'm not sure helps either but again, I don't know because it's out of my realm of knowledge or understanding. Thanks for sharing. The internet is a great, dangerous, wonderful, scary, freeing, isolating place.

    • @HooDRidEWhiteY
      @HooDRidEWhiteY 3 роки тому

      What is a 42 yo mama's boy? Asking out of curiosity and because you chose to share this for the world to see. I understand what a mama's boy is, but are you like 42 living with your mom and don't have a significant other?

  • @joetrosclair8434
    @joetrosclair8434 3 роки тому +31

    There have been many Female Riders that use their ‘attractiveness’ for the views so they show off their bodies while on their bikes.
    I thoroughly appreciate that you are not that type of rider.
    Thank you for your thoughtful content.

  • @ttrguy9952
    @ttrguy9952 3 роки тому +2

    Great video Doodle!!! Yes there is a very DARK side to the internet! There are definitely some strange cats out there and YES they could be dangerous! I have played the BOUNCER in a few of your video comment sections since your beginning where someone was WAY out of line. After a few back and forth comment battles, they tucked tail and disappeared (You can't win a battle of wits with an armed person😜). There are some of us that just want to support your channel and appreciate your perspective on your experiences riding a motorcycle but, there are the ones that are just lurking and trolling all the time. You are playing it smart! Do not trust anyone and NEVER give any telling information about yourself! I usually end my comments on your videos "Ride SAFE and BE Safe". The "BE" is exactly what you are talking about!! Stay safe Doodle! 🤙
    I'm glad the cameras are working great for you and the quality of this video is AWESOME!
    Ride SAFE and BE Safe Lady! 👍👌✌🖖🎈

    • @DoodleOnAMotorcycle
      @DoodleOnAMotorcycle  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you again for the cameras and all your support! Including the comments section defense 😂

    • @ttrguy9952
      @ttrguy9952 3 роки тому +1

      @@DoodleOnAMotorcycle The WAY out of line ones are like 🤗. Then I enter the comment section...👹!! LOL!!!

  • @rebornadv5869
    @rebornadv5869 3 роки тому +2

    I have two girls and I coach field hockey. This is the stuff I always worry about with all my girls. Having been in Law Enforcement, can’t tell you how many creeps I’ve literally chased away. If it ever starts to get out of hand, don’t hesitate to contact your local and state police. Keep doing you. I love you videos!

  • @defecationzen
    @defecationzen 3 роки тому +10

    it's good that several other female youtubers who have commented on this video have also put up similar content on their channels; i'd consider it required content for each channel to go through stuff like this, because each of you are role models to different people out there and it's good for awareness and education and the more it is being talked about, the more people will understand cyberwellness and online etiquette. of course, this won't deter people with real mental issues, but at least you girls are putting up content that can help other women gain awareness and also propagate and share some common strategies. i wish you continued goodluck with your channel and your riding; male rider from asia here (not giving away exact location hah).

  • @russvanderwiel8945
    @russvanderwiel8945 3 роки тому +8

    The Wisdom of Doodle. Your thinking and philosophy is very mature.

  • @adamschoedel8829
    @adamschoedel8829 3 роки тому

    I'm so sorry you have to deal with those people. But please keep taking the precautions that you do. And please keep posting the great content that you do. I've been riding for 35 years, and I still learn things from you. You do really good work. It's entertaining and informative. Thanks.

  • @GingerDashMoto
    @GingerDashMoto 3 роки тому

    I’m so glad you take all of the precautions you mentioned about work, home and social locations. Being in the public eye can be scary. It was something I considered before starting my own channel. Hopefully being older (ha) will keep the crazies away. So far, everyone has been friendly and non-creepy. Let’s hope it stays that way. Stay safe in all ways. I appreciate your content and your perspective. 😊

  • @seth_5394
    @seth_5394 3 роки тому +50

    Unfortunately being a woman as a public figure does make you subject to certain issues most men would not have to deal with if all other factors were the same. Your decision to ignore people when it gets to a certain point is the correct one. Continue keeping your privacy to the best of your ability and keep your head about you. :)

  • @Sanemancured
    @Sanemancured Рік тому +6

    I think it’s important to say that many of us ‘neuro diverse’ people are actually really nice the vast majority of the time, just like neuro typicals. I fully support you and feel your pain. I also have ADHD and a personality disorder. It doesn’t mean I’m a bad person. It does make my life challenging at times :) I’m a loving husband, father and grandfather who is a life long motorcyclist. Emotionality instability isn’t always about projecting harm to others.

  • @devilyouknowBYE
    @devilyouknowBYE Рік тому +2

    I'm a new rider and started watching your vids because I was curious about your (random female) experience as a rider in the predominantly male testosterone riddled bike world. Thanks for sharing your somewhat sad but interesting stories. I think more awareness about these types of mentally ill people is needed. Stay safe

  • @josephhance3692
    @josephhance3692 Рік тому

    I happened across your channel when it showed up in my UA-cam feed. It's probably because I have searched for motorcycle-related videos. I love it! Your laid-back style is very entertaining while being educational at the same time. Your perspective on the unique issues that women have has regarding motorcycling and even UA-cam really opened my eyes. Keep up the good work and by all means, ride safely! Looking forward to many more videos from you.

  • @marksteffens4796
    @marksteffens4796 3 роки тому +5

    You seem wise beyond your years. Sad there are deviates and social miscasts in this world but good to be aware and careful. On the other hand good that vast majority are good people. Watching some motorcycle videos with worldwide travelers can allow one to witness caring people all over this planet. Keep up the good work.

  • @smilingbiter
    @smilingbiter 3 роки тому +7

    As a retired RCMP (Royal Canadian Mounted Police) officer of over30 years, I've seen things and have been involved in things that most people could never comprehend. The amount of evil that is really out there is far more than anyone can comprehend. Your safety practices are warranted and all people should follow your advice. I didn't get a gold watch when I retired, instead, I found out I had PTSD. I didn't even know what it was until I was diagnosed. Take care and keep your head up.

  • @stevemoores510
    @stevemoores510 Рік тому

    So as a father of 2 daughters and grandfather to 2 granddaughters I appreciate that you protect yourself. Way to many women do almost the exact opposite. Just discovered your channel yesterday, watched a couple of things including this one. Good stuff Doodle. Be safe out there and beautiful area you’re riding in.

  • @2singmyheart
    @2singmyheart 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing and bringing awareness to this! This was really eye opening. I saw another UA-camr, who was also dealing with a stalker, try to get proper protection and due to limitations of it being online (and from different countries) local pd was unable to help in anyway. I think your wariness and tips are a great thing to share! We can all use similar precautions until the rest of the world catches up on creating better preventative measures. 🤓👍

  • @garrysaxton5201
    @garrysaxton5201 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for the vid. Sorry you are subjected to derogatory comments. Most of these individuals don't even ride. Just sad people venting their personal angst on to somebody who is succeeding in life. If anything they should learn from you. Take care, all the best and looking forward to next weeks vid🙂✊👍

  • @Frank_Torre
    @Frank_Torre 3 роки тому +6

    It's always beyond belief how people who clearly need some help upstairs take things to an extreme. It's a shame that you gotta be proactive when it comes to certain people online. It's a sad statement on the way things are now. You're right best to be polite and leave em be or block em. Just don't have time for toxic people.

  • @guismth
    @guismth Рік тому +1

    I hope you carry, everyday. Be careful out there its a crazy world. It troubles me that people like you want to share your happiness and that some watching want to take it from you. Protect yourself and surround yourself with friends. This vid is great because youre putting this important info out there, where most people may not know about it. Shiney side up Doodle!

  • @Buster-im5so
    @Buster-im5so 2 місяці тому

    I've been off my bikes for at least 3 years now. It started with an injury unrelated to biking. I just listened to several of your videos and I feel very inspired to get back on my bikes. Fast forward... I plan to get strong again by lifting weights. I want to say that... I want to thank you for creating this channel because it encourages me to grow my frame of reference, to shift my paradigm, and get out again. Riding meant so much to me, riding with friends or solo. I'll ride my own ride now, instead of 'Speeding around because my friends did that'. I absorb your wisdom and knowledge(!). I love this. You live the way that increases your stature. And in the way that doesn't allow yourself to follow other people's expectations of you as an individual person. (You do not following other people's thinking for your life). P.S. My writing today is on March 28, 2024

  • @Sckprod
    @Sckprod 3 роки тому +5

    Hey Doodle,
    Thanks or sharing some of the other side of UA-cam you have to deal with unfortunately on occassion. Yes everything can have a price but your will to get gr8 content out there is appreciated.
    It looks like you have the street smarts down so that said, "keep up the good work" and don't worry about the occassional crazies. We all got them.
    Have a good weekend.
    Scott

    • @donaldwhite9616
      @donaldwhite9616 3 роки тому

      Wow wasn't expecting to hear this when I clicked on the video,sorry that you had this happen to you. I really enjoy your content, keep up the good work ride safe 👍

  • @MrBiglittledog
    @MrBiglittledog Рік тому +2

    Been riding all my life and I’m in the Social Security age now. Just came across your channel recently and love it. I admire your honesty and talent as a fellow Motorcyle enthusiast. Keep up the great work and just ignore all the haters.

  • @RobertHobden
    @RobertHobden Рік тому

    Thankyou.. I really appreiciate your videos, you discuss things that all of us riders discover at sometime during our riding adventures. Keep doing these beautiful road trip videos as the way you present them is quite unique. I'm in my 45th year of riding and still enjoy every trip I can take. Enjoy the journey.

  • @Fee.1
    @Fee.1 3 роки тому +4

    I think those are all things that every prudent internet users need to abide by frankly, I’ve never felt comfortable sharing very personal/identifying info online. I don’t even do Facebook for that reason.

  • @mikec1254
    @mikec1254 3 роки тому +3

    I treat and respect all women. Like i do my wife or my nieces. I coach a youth sport for both boys and girls if either step out of line i try and teach them how to respect your fellow man.
    My wife is the nicest person you will ever meet over our 30 + years of being married. She finally understood what i have been saying for years not everyone is like you, be careful around people you don't really know, she gets it now. I convinced her to take self defense classes she has done hand to hand and firearm classes and we train all the time we do live near a big city that has some serious crime . With all the nut jobs in the world please protect yourself in the way you feel comfortable. I like your videos, I like hearing your joy of riding. I been riding 43 years now and still can't get enough info on motorcycling.
    Good Luck and stay safe.

  • @betterduck57
    @betterduck57 Рік тому

    Being the father of two daughters, now 23 and 20: thank you for posting this, and giving an insight into how you fare in this - at times - crazy world of the internet. Beautifully sensitive, nuanced and vulnarable, and therefore strong! ata girl!! :-)

  • @tomruhland
    @tomruhland Рік тому +1

    Just recently discovered your videos. Very refreshing! (I ride dirt - street maybe one day!). Anyway - I wanted to leave a quick word of encouragement. Keep doing your thing, and keep protecting yourself as you have. I was very happy to hear that you take preventative measures. (My daughter is a few years younger than you, I believe, and I've always tried to teach her similar principles). Thanks for posting interesting and clean motorcycle content!

  • @MatthewMcAllisterBUSHIE
    @MatthewMcAllisterBUSHIE 3 роки тому +3

    "this is not a common occurrence...." but it happens, and it's sad that it does...

  • @jimmeyer9075
    @jimmeyer9075 3 роки тому +4

    It's too cold to ride . So I like watching riding videos to get me through winter. I don't like body closeups, subjective thoughts, or fantasy . Keep up the real life experience so you can continue being an extension of our normality . You know your on the right track when my grandson can curl up on my lap and watch with me. Thanks doodle.

  • @graze105
    @graze105 3 роки тому

    Good for you for posting this. There ARE lots of creeps out there and you have to protect yourself and somehow not let it affect your content or personal life. You're about the same age as my daughter and I'd be upset to say the least if she were subjected to such harassment. Keep riding and stay safe.

  • @MICT79
    @MICT79 2 роки тому

    Growing up, I rode dirtbikes but never street bikes. I recently purchased an Electra Glide as my first big boy bike (oblivious to the difference I was getting into) and between Jerry Paladino and you, I have gained so much confidence in riding. I think the material you put out and the way you tackle your challenges is inspiring and I commend you for it. I'm sorry you've had negative experiences but I'm glad you haven't stopped putting out great videos! Keep up the good work and more importantly, keep protecting yourself. Stay safe and continue living life to its fullest!

  • @dankarp8567
    @dankarp8567 3 роки тому +4

    The title is good but from my experience and what I have seen and heard from men, you could have titled this video, "The dark side of being a woman". Stay safe, and keep up the great content.

  • @nikolabyrinthos
    @nikolabyrinthos 3 роки тому +6

    Don’t try to impress strangers and “don’t be a star”... ride safe and stay warm!

  • @Harry.72
    @Harry.72 3 роки тому

    Hey Doodle great video. I can fully understand the depression because I been there. I also dated a bipolar girl and the first couple years was fine until I tried to break up with her. Anyway, I can fully understand. Stay safe :).

  • @scottstewart6740
    @scottstewart6740 2 роки тому +1

    When the weather is bad and I can't ride my motorcycle, watching you enjoy your ride cheers me up alot and I thank you for that.

  • @vonklizzykloudz1303
    @vonklizzykloudz1303 3 роки тому +4

    I'm hugely empathetic to this topic!
    If all good bro's made it their mission to call out friends/associates that have some toxic traits towards the fairer sex then things can change.

  • @Driftingsiax
    @Driftingsiax 3 роки тому +9

    don't know the legality or practicality for everyone, but I recommend everyone, but especially small women, carry a weapon, preferably a firearm.

    • @Fee.1
      @Fee.1 3 роки тому +2

      I have no issue with that either, I would only add please get firearm training

  • @richardbeach1329
    @richardbeach1329 Рік тому

    Some people have NO idea of appropriate behavior an some,as you say,are "not well". Sorry for your bad experience. Your videos are very thought out an you do a great job. Always nice to get a new perspective on a particular ride, area or event. Hope you can get past this issue an keep doing what you do.

  • @wraymogg
    @wraymogg Рік тому

    You're da' bomb! :)) I watched some of your videos because my wife is small frame and I try to find video examples of women riders and discuss them with her. She is struggling with riding heavy or slightly tall motorcycles, so I try to help her in any way I can. There are not a lot of women riders vloggers, so everything you do COUNTS. Good job and keep on doing it!

  • @mattmassey5013
    @mattmassey5013 3 роки тому +6

    Be careful. Lot of creeps out there. GA has laid back gun laws. My advice is carry just in case. Hopefully you can just choke them out. Like you said avoiding the situation is key. Scary stuff tho ☹

  • @JD1459
    @JD1459 3 роки тому +11

    Get your conceal carry permit, and carry at all times. Do some videos at the range. There are deranged idiots everywhere in this country.
    Exercise your 2nd amendment rights.

  • @oscarcalvovalencia6606
    @oscarcalvovalencia6606 3 роки тому

    Wow that must've been really scary for you. But for the most part we all just appreciate your videos. I like them because they're so relaxing to watch. I wish I had a country road like that where I live. Hope you're doing well and will continue with these amazing landscaped videos. Cuidate mucho.

  • @relbik66
    @relbik66 Рік тому

    Me being a late Gen X and dad, I totally get your point and think you are approaching this exactly the right way doodle. Love your channel and hey got back into riding after a long break thanks to yours and MotoJitsu's channel. Thanks for all your great and hard work 👍😉

  • @curemode2002
    @curemode2002 6 місяців тому +1

    I am sorry you have to worry about these things and thank you for exposing what you see to all of us. Found your channel after your Bearded Mechanic episode.

    • @DoodleOnAMotorcycle
      @DoodleOnAMotorcycle  6 місяців тому

      Dang this is a really old video 😅 props to making it through

  • @johnberg1642
    @johnberg1642 3 роки тому +1

    Hey Doodle, always keep your safety JOB ONE !! We love your videos because of your passion for riding and life in general. Don't let a few people change who you are or what you do. Just do it carefully. Stay safe

  • @RSRtwothousand5
    @RSRtwothousand5 7 місяців тому +1

    I started riding this year at 18, my father taught me on his Interceptor 650. There were tons of instances where I thought it wasn't for me or I should just quit because he would get so angry any time I screwed anything up or didn't know what I was doing. Watching people like you and other women who ride on YT (even tho Im a guy) I felt more accepted and felt comfortable and okay with making mistakes along the way even if it pissed off my dad sometimes. Im a smaller guy I mean I work out and all but struggle with gaining weight on and stuff, always related more to women's riding content on YT cause it felt a lot more encouraging and I got a sense of "well if she can do it, I can". So thanks for inspiring 👍

  • @RMTCTL
    @RMTCTL Рік тому

    I really appreciate your honesty in this video. It's terrible that people are inappropriate sometimes, and I'm grateful that it's relatively rare. Not revealing your location beforehand or in real time is just practicing good operations security, or OPSEC. I'm always surprised about how often people post about their upcoming vacations on social media and then brag about them with pictures while they are away. That just advertises a) where you are, and b) that you're away from your home. Save the social media stuff for after the adventure! Take care and keep the rubber side down!

  • @tommydacheese2185
    @tommydacheese2185 3 роки тому

    Sorry you gotta deal with that kind of stuff Doodle. I enjoy your rides and content. Thanks for continuing to post. You always sound cheerful and exciting and we all need some happy stuff during this crazy time we are going through.

  • @roadhousemex8944
    @roadhousemex8944 2 роки тому

    Welp I’ve now finished the video and I’m glad to know it’s more of a rare thing for you to deal with things like this but still crazy that people feel that free to say stuff to people they don’t even know. Keep up the awesome content. Really enjoy sending your videos to my wife. Really excited to see where her riding journey takes us.

  • @mooslionheart
    @mooslionheart День тому

    You are a courageous, articulate, and caring person and clearly can take care of yourself This is a valuable heads up to all of us - especially riders - two words of warning, on the bike , internet or anywhere; ‘situational awareness’

  • @jetmanwalking
    @jetmanwalking 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing this. I guess most of us are painfully unaware of how exposed we can be when we post something. It's easy to forget it's not all "sunshine and roses" out there! Very good video! Happy Trails!

  • @mrgrizzlyrides
    @mrgrizzlyrides 3 роки тому

    Just found your channel and subscribed.
    Luv your enthusiasm, your energy. It must be quite impossible to feel low after watching your videos.
    So sorry that you girls have to put up with such crap. You have narrated this video with professionalism and dignity, respect for that.
    I’m looking forward to enjoying your future content.
    Take care and ride safe
    Neil

  • @gerrydunne8768
    @gerrydunne8768 3 роки тому

    I totally agree with you I had a coworker very Similar to that person And like you I just stopped talking to them Apologize for being safe We all have to be safe in this world Keep on doing what you're doing you're doing a wonderful job

  • @garnettlloyd
    @garnettlloyd Рік тому +1

    My youngest daughter is going through this now, and we felt this way about this person for a while. We as a family had to end up banning him from our house. The drama and dangerous behavior continues though. Hope you are safe and stay that way. Be safe.

  • @TRK1377
    @TRK1377 2 роки тому +1

    Very courageous of you to speak out on this issue! Respect that very much! Keep making great content! And good luck on the future of your channel!

  • @tlodge1362
    @tlodge1362 Рік тому

    I'm glad you take precautions, take as many as you need. It's sad so many people on the internet are finding out the hard way that there's people out there with a major mental glitches, that can't seperate fanasy from reality.

  • @motomitch9027
    @motomitch9027 Рік тому

    I have really enjoyed your channel, and learn and confirm tips every video. This is my 60th year riding and my 53rd year racing, and I've found that you're never too experienced to learn valuable info.

  • @YouMotorcycle
    @YouMotorcycle Рік тому +1

    Pretty honest retelling of how it is. On one side you get harassment, on the flip side you get people sending you free GoPros. People suck.

  • @AVI.M.
    @AVI.M. Рік тому

    Yesterday I started watching your channel, I have a lot to say but I read comments from good people, I have nothing to add, I just enjoy every video, keep doing what you do, good health and travel in safe ways, thank you very much for what you doing

  • @mobiletech.dgmain3074
    @mobiletech.dgmain3074 2 роки тому

    You might not be qualified to talk about this but you hit the nail right on the head. I love how you don't throw people's names out there or try to downgrade anyone you just talk about the situation. That you and other female writers and UA-camrs have dealt with. It's what scares me the most about my young niece trying to be on UA-cam. Thank you she absolutely loves your channel by the way. I believe she is definitely going to be a writer because of you heck I might even get my wife on a bike. She had ankle surgery some years back and can't hold one up while sitting on it. Looking to get her one that she can flat foot with both feet. My wife loves your videos as well we watch them together all the time.

  • @jkemmery
    @jkemmery 3 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing and stay safe. Maybe consider finding a group to ride with as often as you can. I know sometimes you just need to get out and be alone on your motorcycle, at least I do anyway, but there is safety in numbers and as your profile grows, you never know what kind of unwanted attention you might attract. Love the videos though, keep up the good work.

  • @Dragon1165
    @Dragon1165 Рік тому

    Well we, wife and I enjoy your channel , she's 5'2" I been trying to get her courage up for a bike until then we watch and she sees things are possible for vertically challenged ppl, also love your reviews and straight forward take on anything you do. Keep doing you . Also thinking of getting a bike, haven't ridden in years, time will tell, until then , I'll keep on watching.

  • @edmacedo2694
    @edmacedo2694 Рік тому

    So, I just discovered your vlog channel and I have to say, after watching thousands of sailing vlog videos, You're a natural at creating interesting, informative videos, that keep your viewers interesting. Thank You. I recently sold my 1983 Yamaha Venture, which started to need regular repairs with hard to find parts, and bought an orange 2002 Goldwing GL1800A which I've named the Great Pumpkin. I've fallen in love with riding again. Please keep up these great videos and keep those wheels on the ground, ride safely, vlog safely and maybe, We'll pass by on the road someday. Ed

  • @MrsZoomies
    @MrsZoomies 3 роки тому

    I appreciate your video, it was very informative. I have experienced that creepiness as well being female. I think I will for any future post on the gram stop posting my city. Just seems like a wiser choice. I'm obsessed with all things motorcycle and want to learn how to ride. Its hard right now because of my situation but I hope in a few years that can change. Thanks again, keep riding safe!

  • @MortonSpring1
    @MortonSpring1 2 роки тому

    I just came across your video of the training with Jocelyn Snow and thought it was great to see such an accomplished person sharing experience and guidance with such an engaged "student". I was linked to this current video from that one and appreciate your frank but non-energizing, matter of fact description of your experiences. I even sent a copy of the first video to my independent thinking (though non-motorcycle riding) daughter. I'm sure she already knows the things you indicate in this video but hope she may be led to watch it too.

  • @douglascarkuff1969
    @douglascarkuff1969 2 роки тому

    I enjoy your channel. I'm sorry for some of the crap you have had to deal with. I admire people who can make a career out of youtube and podcasts and so on. It seems like a lot of work. Just learning how to put together a watchable video is a great skill. Some of these channels have become so sophisticated it is amazing. I have a 2016 Bonneville which I really like. Rarely get to ride anymore. Take care.

  • @bernardjohnson2992
    @bernardjohnson2992 3 роки тому

    Doodle, please be safe out there. There are some crazies and there’s true fans. It be careful, you’re one of our favorite GA moto vlogger. And I’m proud to follow you and the other moto bloggers here