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ERASE limiting beliefs permanently!
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- Опубліковано 4 лют 2024
- Imagine: There is nothing stopping you. Whatever you imagine can be created. What would happen if that were true?
I think it's worth testing the boundaries. Let's examine every thought that tells us anything is impossible. Let's challenge the "truth." If it is the truth, it will not budge. If it budges, find out how much!
Inspiring and empowering as many people as possible ♡
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I love to challenge perceived boundaries, laws and determinants. It's become sort of a game any time I perceive that I am bumping up against a limitation. Imagination and free will are two of our greatest gifts. Thank you for sharing your musings, I enjoy this candid format.
Love that mode of being ❤️ thanks for stopping by 🦋
Reality is a mirror, and when we change the way we feel and see ourselves reality changes. You go from particle to waive as an observer to create a new outcome in your life.
When you change the way you look at things what you look at changes. -Max Planck
Glad you had this realization, now watch and see the ripples you will cause by doing so, thank you for sharing your insights and motivating others to do the same. Wishing you momentum and quantum leaps from this point on
I usually feel I am speaking to people who are on their way to these realisations, but suddenly all these people are showing up to affirm that they've already understood! It's awesome 🎉
@@KyLives2 amazing!!! Keep up the great work
Reality is a mirror, Ethernet is a Black Mirror
The last 2 minutes of this was extremely powerful...( all of it was of course) but ur eyes speak a deeper expression. You are very interesting 😮. Thank you so much for posting x
Wow, thank you 😊 great to hear that people are feeling the impact
@@KyLives2 honestly... keep doing your spontaneous thoughts... we can all relate on some level... what u said was golden... never knew u were in the vortex 😉
Haha I don't understand the vortex label but I imagine it's somewhat akin to multidimensional awareness. I try to keep everything grounded and balanced. Getting too invested in the spiritual and metaphysical concepts often distracts people from the path. Like watching the GPS, instead of the actual road in front of you.
@@lorrainekelly3712🪄✨ the vortex is a powerful place
@@enrique_villegas_111 indeed it is.. glad you're awake😉
Thanks for sharing! I'm about your age and feel like I'm going through the same thing. I've had success in the past yet have been shedding a skin over the last year. Now I am starting from scratch by choice, I feel like all I want to do is something authentic with integrity, and I think this is to be an ongoing 'process' rather than a goal - yeah I have goals, yet now it can only be with integrity on the way or its pointless. I find limiting beliefs are very subtle at times - after all, they don't want to be discovered to be a hindrance since it's the identity structure protecting itself. Not to mention the conditioned world always telling us 24/7 about limitations.
However, Meditation I think has served me the best over the years, to getting underneath thought patterns, and remaining in awareness ... I think the sages are those who finally dispel with attachment to the beliefs...they can utilise belief, but beliefs no longer utilises them.
Raise vibration! Like attracts like, if you are negative and wallowing in despair you'll get that back, little by little we can move up the vibrational scale here, it's just a choice, you know by how you feel, focus on something that is up the scale, consistently.
Let go of resistance, let go of the micro managing and let life take you to where you want to go, the river always makes it to the sea - never in a straight line, at times it seems backward, but it takes the path of least resistance. Like a tree, it has to grow through stages before fruit will arrive, problem is we keep wacking the sapling to grow faster - which ends up killing it!
Just thought to put my 10 cents worth in!
Great contribution. I think it's worth starting over with clarity about your intent and values. Eventually it feels like it needs to happen. I know I looked at my life and where it was leading and just thought no thanks.
It is also definitely worth highlighting that what we focus on changes everything. So thank you very much for that.
@KyLives2 yep, integrity is the new currency !
Thanks for this, it's just the motivation I needed to hear. Love your perspective. New sub 😊
Awesome! I'm glad it helped 😊
Know that you are I AM . Decide and Decree
There are dilemmas about myself that I don't get even after investigating what's lurking in the back of my mind. I'm self-conscious when talking to people. I remember I got so anxious among my peers that I made them feel uncomfortable around me. They didn't want to be around me. When was I creating those limiting beliefs? Because I noticed I'm shame-based. I was toxically shamed as a kid. I'm painfully self-conscious in public. And I have no idea how to transmute those limiting beliefs into positive ones. Eye contact is difficult for me because it triggers feelings of discomfort. Why can't I connect with people, I wonder?
You might have to go deeper than the mind?
Thank you for this, your honest vulnerability is extremely powerful and helpful
Oh! Thank you my friend 🙂
You are very thoughtful and introspective. Thanks for this very profound video
Thank you 😊
I'm glad you enjoyed it
this is Gold my brother...thank you 👊✊
Awesome 🎉
Really appreciate you sharing your insight
Thanks for listening ❤️
Good for you! Welcome home ❤. You might be interested in the teachings of Bashar and Abraham Hicks.
Both are frauds.
@@5D-Cthat's your belief. Doesn't make it true for everyone else.
That's a great speach! thank you :)
Glad you enjoyed it. Thank you 🙂
Hello Ky/ALL❣️We Appreciate YOU, YOUr story is inspiring🙇🏽♀️😘❤️🩵💫💫
Appreciate the love ❤️ thank you 😊
This is all needed thank you✊. When markaveliRises, we all rise -m.🦋
🎉 awesome
Amazing, thank you.
Glad you liked it!
Yes that me scared limited .....but in truth not soI am limitless.thank you for this video
You're welcome 🙂
I love it when you said 'did I test that boundary enough?' 💥
Always good to double check 😆✨️
The know it all but really hit for me. I get on to something new, learn it for 15 minutes then try to apply it. When it inevitably doesn't work out or a hit a hurdle that I didn't learn to overcome I get out and feel down on myself for not being able to get it. I wonder where that came from?
Your last sentence here is so powerful. You will grow and evolve so much faster with that mindset.
Interesting video mate
Glad you thought so mate
It happened again!🙄 ...Very interesting what you said there: "Going back over things further up the line just reinforces the issue." - Do you think that might be, because it creates more resistance? Kind of like the original thing screaming out, because it feels neglected?
But how do I really know where it all started? I mean, I remember what was very normal to happen at home from a young age, but I don't remember a specific initial incident. And there are probably more factors that contributed, experiences accumulating to form this pattern, including my parents' own self-worth issues...
Yeah, unfortunately Australia is a bit far for me...Seeing the background in your video I already thought you must live in some tropical environment...I checked out your home page a little bit. Seems you're doing some interesting stuff! 🙂
Going over it, you can find yourself reacting to it again, instead of letting it go. I've come across a lot of people who believe they are working through their issues, but they've actually been ruminating and feeding their issues. If you've found my home page and something jumps out at you, I'd encourage you to look deeper into it 🦋
@@KyLives2 Yeah, makes sense...But tricky, because you shouldn't ignore your feelings either...
Absolutely. A third party with no emotional investment helps because they can point out if you're repeating thoughts, feelings, and emotions or changing them. But as we've discussed elsewhere on this channel, access to good practitioners from any background is limited. I think a lot of people are just doing their best unsupported. With pure determination, people will eventually crack their issues. But it's extremely laborious. So, hats off to everyone who is self-healing! But let's get as many people as possible access to better options 🌻
@@KyLives2 What came to my mind in this context is complaining versus venting. Both is going over the issue again, but while complaining makes me more stuck in a specific pattern, venting does the opposite. Something is released and therefor brings relief and that creates more space to think and feel differently.
...And yes, working through deeply engrained patterns alone is very laborious! And even just hearing another person tell you "Keep going! You're not crazy or delusional for thinking you can heal!" means so much, when sadly it's such a normal thing to settle for an unhealthy state of mind or body for most people around you.
@malinagruen7523 I'm glad my content has that effect. I want to offer an alternative to your venting vs complaining. It is going to sound harsh and probably triggering. You don't have to agree. Treat it more like a thought experiment. It sounds a bit like smoking a pack of cigarettes because you stopped caring about the issue vs smoking a single cigarette to keep the cravings at bay. Giving in to it gives you some relief, but the issue remains unchanged. Maybe over time you give in less and less and train yourself out of the habit, but we're not dealing with the cause of why you wanted cigarettes in the first place. Cigarettes are a totally random example.
Hi Ky. So, this is my third attempt to reply to you. Whenever I answer to your comment, it will first appear to be posted, but when I look later it's gone. Hope it works this way now...
And, yes, you were right, we are in the middle of the cycle. I didn't realize until I was surprised how irritated I was when I thought you were the one not answering! I mean, considering I don't know you at all. I had just watched this one of your videos. I'm shocked how easily the cycle could have come to its conclusion! And it makes me wonder how many other situations might have fallen into that category for me before, "accidentally"...
About choosing differently, I'm not exactly sure I understand what you mean. You know, with a lot of effort, sometimes, I have been able to turn situations around in which this belief acted out, and I was able to hold my reality in place for a bit. And just when I thought I could trust, in an instant it snapped back into the old pattern. And at some point feeling defeated, as painful as it is, just seems safer to the system than risking loosing again...
So, yes, there is a lot of doubt, because I have failed so many times. But also, I know it must be possible to solve this. And I don't think that it necessarily needs something big. In my experience sometimes little things are more efficient, because they create less pressure, and I often react to pressure like a bottle turned upside down too fast - nothing comes out.
And I think it's really nice that you're trying to help me in a UA-cam comment 🙂. Didn't expect that. And it actually already has started to move something.
Your question, what it would take to challenge this belief in a meaningful way completely overwhelmed my brain. Trying to find an answer to it made me fall asleep real fast in the middle of the day. 😅 So I guess my subconscious is working on the answer and I'm curious where it's leading me...
So far what I know is that patterns recreate, because there are feelings behind them that initially weren't processed and now search for good reasons to come out and be felt and receive validation. - At least that's my experience. And I think I just never felt safe enough to feel all of that fully. I generally feel the safest processing difficult emotions by myself, but also I don't wanne be alone with this...
Super interesting that your comments were disappearing to reinforce the belief as well. There is a lot of awareness here, but it's a strong program. I think you need to go back to where it was created. Willpower, mindfulness, etc... these tools don't work when we're stuck in moments of time. What country do you live in?
@@KyLives2 Yeah, what you say makes sense. Trying to compensate everything with willpower definitely has its limitations! I tried going back and talk to my inner child, multiple times, and mostly what I got from it was a better understanding of what the root looks like, but couldn't really move anything enough to have a real effect on my life. But I'm sure there must be more effective ways to do this...
I live in Austria.
@malinagruen7523 The way I understand similar issues right now is like this. Two main things. You have to go back to where it was created to change it. Going back over things further up the line just reinforces the issue. Second thing is as you repeat the thoughts, feelings and emotions the original thought process takes on a life of its own, an intelligence of its own. It only wants to reproduce itself. So a battle takes place inside, like you've described. If you were local I would have said drop in, but Gold Coast Australia is probably a bit far unfortunately 😅
I really like you. There's something about you.
Thanks 😊 welcome ✨️
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do you happen to know your MBTI type? Your way of thinking reminds me a lot of myself (even that glare falling into deep thoughts, I have that as well xD). I'm an INFP-T.
Welcome INFP-T. Are we like a rare type or something?
@@KyLives2 no way, are you one as well?!
But yeah, we are a special breed in this world, struggling a lot with finding our place in this society, which is mostly the opposite of us (ESTJ-A).
We are deep thinkers, but very emotional and sensitive, progressive loners who rather think about the meaning and purpose of life instead of actually doing or building stuff haha 🥴. And the - T, which stands for turbulent, is the negative, nihilist, perfectionist version of the type.
Being an Infp - A (assertive) has it easier to navigate through this life, as their outlook is more optimisitc and confident.
@SplendidCharm I have no idea what I'd be but you can always change any aspects you need/want to. I was assessed in the past with the exact same tests years apart and got totally different results. Nothing has to be the way it was.
Thank you for your reflections. It was very interesting and motivating, but I still don't know how to erase my limiting beliefs for good. - Did I miss something?
What is your top limiting belief?
@@KyLives2 That I'm not important enough to other people for them to take the time to really understand me and take my feelings into consideration.
Thank you for sharing. What experiences do you have that make that belief feel true?
@@KyLives2 Wow, too many to fit them all here, but I can give you some examples...
1. Growing up my father would often not take my "negative" emotions seriously. When I was upset or angry for the "wrong" reasons - meaning something he didn't understand or felt I didn't have the right to be upset or angry about - I was shamed and ridiculed. He then would laugh at me and say things like "This is not really how you feel, you're just imagining it." or " Don't make such a big fuss about it. You're exaggerating." or "We can talk again when you calmed down." or when he got angry, he would shout at me " Pull yourself together!"and forbid random things that had nothing to do with it...He could be loving and comforting when the reason for my emotions was within his range of understanding, but when it wasn't, no expression of emotion or reasoning could reach him. And I was just expected to be ok, like nothing happened.
2. Later as a young adult, trying to resolve things in therapy just reinforced this pattern. My therapist finally threw me out after many arguments about "what is good for me". I try things, that other people suggest me, even some that don't make sense to me, and I have learned a lot of useful tools this way, but I also feel when something is not for me, and no one can tell me that my feeling is wrong!
3. The majority of my romantic relationships ended in a way, that left me feeling insignificant. One guy literally told me, that I'm not special enough for him to deal with my emotional baggage. - Which hurt me quite a bit, since I was willing to be with him despite all his baggage. Another one just left without any explanation, while I was trying so hard to do my part to resolve our issues...
3. I have a flatmate, that I keep getting into arguments with. I want to understand why he does the things that I feel disturbed by, and I want him to see my side, so we can find a solution and not fight about the same issues over and over again, but when I try to talk things out with him, he just refuses. It's like talking to a wall. And when that drives me crazy and I get angry, he usually just leaves the room. And the next time we see each other he acts like nothing happened. I can see that he cares about other people's feelings, but when it comes to me it seems that he is either too stupid to see how much I suffer with these situations or he doesn't care, I don't know...
4. I was trying to work on my emotional abandonment issues with a coach and he asked me to give him an update on how I'm doing and when I did, he just forgot to reply to it! I felt so stupid. I shared some deep stuff that was going on with me and got nothing back. And when I wrote him a message saying "Hey, are you ok? You haven't written me back in a while." his reply was "Sorry, I meant to get back to you, but I had a lot going on and I forgot." , but he still didn't give me an answer to my update!
Sorry, if I crushed you with all of this, but you asked!
We're in the middle of the cycle right now, aren't we? You certainly are aware of how this belief is impacting you, but you're also aware it's a belief. Unfortunately, no matter what I say, the cycle must reach its expected conclusion. That is unless you choose differently. This belief has been running for a long time, reinforcing itself, reproducing itself into new aspects of your life. I can suggest a process or give you tools, but as you've said, nothing has quite reached the core. Your doubt and sceptism is probably at an all time high. As a UA-cam comment is unlikely to bring some grand revelation that changes everything. The belief is safe here. It is unlikely to be challenged in any meaningful way. What would it take to change that?
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You look like my dad
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Ramana Maharshi wasnt human though😂
"The whitest dot in a white space" is how Carl Jung described him, just otherworldly
So how does this non-human relate to your personal experience of limiting beliefs? That's what I'm most curious about.
@@KyLives2 it is just fascinating to read what consciousness, when it is no longer identified with the body, is communicating about the world, about the universe, about existence. A state beyond any states, which are all mental. It relates to my experience in a way that it reminds me that any belief I hold is just a thought that I kept entertaining, there is no actual truth behind it, it is like a shadow in the mind, which you can choose to keep believing or reject if its hurting you or others. Of course there is an emotional component to it, but if youre no longer considering yourself an anxious little boy, you will be able to look at anxiety as just sensations, nothing to be worried about, nothing worthy of resistance, so you just let it flow through you. Next time it will be weaker, and weaker until ultimately there wont be any need for it to arise anymore. Youre not the identity that needs to be protected by this mechanism anymore. And youre out of it.
but yeah. Ramana Maharshi, Nisargadatta Maharaj and Atmananda Krishna Menon completely transcended this illusion of being human. No one who we are aware of today really reached that state. It is beautiful and terrifying to read what theyve been saying. And none of it was learnt, everything was realised. Mesmerizing.
Mesmerising is the word, isn't it.
your facial/body language looks uncertain, which made me skip ahead in the video.
(just a super first impression) but love to you and Good luck with your life improvements.
That's a really interesting response. Be careful out there. It's easy to look certain and speak with authority when your intent isn't necessarily positive.
@@KyLives2 to be fair, i wouldn't know how to change my facial and body language if i were recorded right away, that sh* takes time and a true building up of experiential confidence, posture and mindset.
And like me maybe u have past stuff that makes it hard to look at a camera, and that's ok.
It's also too easy to be bluntly honest in youtube comments and offend people, so i want to commend u for a phenomenal job in your response to my blurted (but also hopefully helpful) comment. no hard feelings. my actual intention is to help you shine.
Because there's something like an authority under your uncertain face that is ready to emerge.
@reicrystalline2506 that's beautiful. Thank you. It is helpful feedback. I suck at even looking at the lens. It's just so many things I need to be mindful of so I try to just improve one thing each video 🙂
woww GREAT GREAT GREAT GREAT TALK< its so true and honest, can connect 100% to it.GENIUS!!!!!!!I have my own self limiting believes which I put on others that they are doing it wrong and blocking me, though in reality, its the hard work that I want to evade and find an easy way out by magic.You are right my friend, we have to face ourself look at our own flaws and fix it, test it and execute it.Put all our limiting believes to test.
I love what you've emphasised in your comment! 💯 it's a reminder for me in the present moment as well so thank you!
@@KyLives2 wow thank you :)