Why is Ali Dawah DISRESPECTING his WIFE?

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    Why is Ali Dawah DISRESPECTING his WIFE? dives deeper into the recent viral video of Ali Dawah and his wife responding to the alleged Khalid and Salama divorce. David wood made a tweet about Ali Dawah’s wife using a dry erase board instead of talking in the video and the responses are wild. I talk about a woman using soft speech in Islam, hijab, haya and ghayrah.
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  • @FaiyadFit
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  • @Lets_have_some_sense_
    @Lets_have_some_sense_ 2 місяці тому +313

    It´s all okay to not show your wife
    but its very hyprocritical to seat on a podcast and talking with non mahram about things that nobody would talk with the opposite gender and saying to a SHEIKH that he´s wrong when he called out saying its not a thing that a muslim should do it.
    Let's be for real...

    • @mrs8768
      @mrs8768 2 місяці тому +3

      you do know that Ali has his own shuyukh who he consults.

    • @amirulafiq4371
      @amirulafiq4371 2 місяці тому +17

      ​@@mrs8768
      A smart person would ask, "can we see their dalil?"

    • @S_tmoh
      @S_tmoh 2 місяці тому +6

      If the guest chose to come on the show the way they did and his wife chose to be in the video the way she did u can’t blame Ali dawah for that

    • @Lets_have_some_sense_
      @Lets_have_some_sense_ 2 місяці тому +18

      @@S_tmoh it's okay for his wife being in the way she was on the video.
      Again, don't talk about other's people's lives if you do the same tho...
      If Ali Dawah is so strict about hijab topic, why he don't blur their faces or advise the sister to come fully covered?

    • @S_tmoh
      @S_tmoh 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Lets_have_some_sense_ If he has gotten advice from senior scholars that the guests are fine to come on the way they do then I don’t see how it’s anyone’s business to point fingers and say they should dress like this or be blurred.

  • @Liyah2004
    @Liyah2004 2 місяці тому +90

    The point wasn’t that he had her in the video or was doing this stunt, it was the fact that if he was so worried about her being there in the first place, he could have 1. Blurred her out of the video 2. Tweaked her voice to hide her actual voice or 3. Had her out of the frame in general. He knew exactly what he was doing by uploading this. It was out of the norm and shocking, so it got clicks and people talking about it on all platforms. Not to mention, I can clearly remember him sitting on panels with women who were NOT his mahram😂. May Allah guide us all and allow us to let go of these double standards we hold so high to one gender. Ameen.

    • @fyali1632
      @fyali1632 2 місяці тому +9

      You have a point. There are a few places things he could have done to avoid this negativite perspectives conjured up by nonMuslims

    • @salamu612
      @salamu612 2 місяці тому +1

      He wasn't worried about having her there in the first place, so he didn't do what you listed because he didn't mind. احسن الظن باخيك المسلم

    • @colegram1447
      @colegram1447 2 місяці тому +1

      What double standards do we hold to one woman? Just out of curiosity.

    • @Liyah2004
      @Liyah2004 2 місяці тому +6

      @@colegram1447 Like I stated, Ali Dawah has on numerous occasions featured many different women on his platform. So, his logic is, as long as it’s not my own wife, it’s okay.

    • @salamu612
      @salamu612 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Liyah2004 He said he doesn't mind having her in the show sitting next to him. But she doesn't want to.

  • @niratomas579
    @niratomas579 2 місяці тому +142

    I watched the video and SHE doesn’t want to be on camera at all! In fact, I think it’s best for Ali to not have her at all including having her writing on a board because she clearly doesn’t care to be in the limelight!

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +39

      Then why have her there? I respond to this 7:52. A woman doesn’t have to obey her husband if it’s haram and if putting herself there with her hair hump visible or the other time her forearm showed can happen, then it’s better not to.

    • @eatbananaseveryday
      @eatbananaseveryday 2 місяці тому +7

      @@FaiyadFitwhat she is in perfect hijab + she wanted not to talk whats wrong with that?

    • @niratomas579
      @niratomas579 2 місяці тому +2

      @@FaiyadFit agreed.

    • @fatumahussein9604
      @fatumahussein9604 2 місяці тому

      @@FaiyadFitplease do a video on Muslim women being feminist it is destroying the Ummah!! The non Muslims have us right where they want us audhubilllah

    • @toux8210
      @toux8210 2 місяці тому +8

      ​@@FaiyadFitbro is his and his wife's choice, stay in your lane, it's pathetic bro and a bad look, you're banging on about 7:52 like certain man bang on about Oct 7th 😂

  • @kariGui2024
    @kariGui2024 2 місяці тому +317

    Without taqwa, I would have never accepted a husband who hides my identity. I was brainwashed all my life into believing a man that loves you , will show you off and post pictures of you and him. Now as a believing woman, I understand why it's not recommended. SubhanAllah 🥰

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +40

      May Allah bless your family

    • @melissacole4903
      @melissacole4903 2 місяці тому +4

      @kariGui2014 I share the same sentiment as your comment. I also thought it was ironic, the couple and topic Ali and his wife were discussing. (For those not familiar with the specific Ali Dawah video being discussed the topic is the divorce of a highly visible Muslim couple, who allegedly are divorcing. The Muslim woman/wife has her own channel now where she is doing fashion week in Paris!) May Allah guide all his servants. Truthfully, as being groomed in the west and later a revert, I was a little uncomfortable at the beginning of Ali’s video, but I quickly overrode those thoughts.

    • @shifa-and-henryjekyll6537
      @shifa-and-henryjekyll6537 2 місяці тому +4

      Perfectly said! Inshallah we get men with gheerah, Ameen

    • @abduleve8688
      @abduleve8688 2 місяці тому +5

      It's all about sacrificing your needs. There are so many things we men want to run away from but have to sacrifice for the sake of God

    • @valsett3385
      @valsett3385 2 місяці тому +7

      You are still brainwashed.

  • @Tarz2155
    @Tarz2155 2 місяці тому +88

    Ali dawah : I invited my wife on for her perspective.
    Me: OK,
    Ali: oh she’s fully veiled.
    Me: OK good
    Ali: she’s off camera
    Me: Okkkkk
    Ali: oh she also has a whiteboard to write, she won’t be verbally speaking .
    Me: bro, are you serious? you’re making us look bad. Just call her on the phone or if she’s fully veiled I promise I won’t know and recognize her on the street or don’t even have her on just talk to her and tell us what she said .

    • @toux8210
      @toux8210 2 місяці тому +3

      Exactly bro, these man hating for views 😂

    • @luvllyylife
      @luvllyylife 2 місяці тому +1

      it's possible she was not willing to.

    • @Brxwn9
      @Brxwn9 19 днів тому

      You already lost at the "OK good" part.

    • @Tarz2155
      @Tarz2155 19 днів тому

      @@Brxwn9 why , what right do have to see another man’s wife ?

  • @AliDawah
    @AliDawah 2 місяці тому +164

    As salam u alaikum. In apuss debate it was zeeshan hand lol. Unless he added a feminine hand when he was making the thumbnail lol. Also I want to make it clear, I believe a Muslim man who’s wife is fully covered in correct hijab and has no make up on, can choose to have his wife on camera and this doesn’t make him a dayooth. Her face is not aura and if they’re doing this for a beneficial use for the ummah not just for the sake of it.
    The word dayooth is used by a lot of ignorant people. Just coz I choose not to show my wife don’t mean coz Islam stipulates this but rather my choice, and it makes me no better than the brother who doesn’t mind his wife in correct hijab do videos.

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +93

      Walaikum assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu dear brother. Absolutely bro, I mentioned in the video about your ghayrah but at the same time gave my thoughts on Muslim men that show their wife even if covered but the dangers of cr33ps today that will look at anything of a muslimah such as her hair hump and start imagining things.
      We can prevent this by following Islamic etiquette such as Quran 33:53 “And when you ask [his wives] for something, ask them from behind a partition. That is purer for your hearts and their hearts.” And for those that say it’s for the wives of prophet saw only, are these women not who our sisters should emulate and look up to?
      I touch more on this 7:52. May Allah bless you and your family, Allahumma ameen.

    • @joegood6703
      @joegood6703 2 місяці тому +44

      Ali, you could have read out all her views & saved her from the camera. Now everyone is chatting her business & is believing that Muslims treat their wives very badly. But I guess you got a lot of views for it.

    • @Kepler10b
      @Kepler10b 2 місяці тому

      He said because the face isn't awrah. Where does Islam say a woman can't be on yt while in hijab?​@@AZ-mz9yg

    • @FlareVolt0
      @FlareVolt0 2 місяці тому +11

      ​@@joegood6703 this is what matters the most for some people, clicks and controversial topics and limelight , using islam as a tool to appear halal , not for the sake of Allah s.w.t and teaching islamic values, he is no scholars, he is a layman , i like how he also said : " as salam u alaikom " instead of assalam alaikum, or in english, or better yet in arabic translation, you cant expect much from newer muslims teaching born muslims whats what, without even speaking properly or learning arabic or caring to learn to at least recite Quran proper in front of people, enough said man im so much done with the likes of him, so much needles arguments coming from him and his topics and headaches , he is not benefiting anyone who is worth it, best advice is stay away from islamic youtube, unless its sheikhs and scholars giving lessons or answering fatwas etc, or bits of updates on worldly events, other then than gossips and updates on low lives life events is worthless and a waste of time.

    • @FlareVolt0
      @FlareVolt0 2 місяці тому +9

      @@FaiyadFit this is what matters the most for some people, clicks and controversial topics and limelight , using islam as a tool to appear halal , not for the sake of Allah s.w.t and teaching islamic values, he is no scholars, he is a layman , i like how he also said : " as salam u alaikom " instead of assalam alaikum, or in english, or better yet in arabic translation, you cant expect much from newer muslims teaching born muslims whats what, without even speaking properly or learning arabic or caring to learn to at least recite Quran proper in front of people, enough said man im so much done with the likes of him, so much needles arguments coming from him and his topics and headaches , he is not benefiting anyone who is worth it, best advice is stay away from islamic youtube, unless its sheikhs and scholars giving lessons or answering fatwas etc, or bits of updates on worldly events, other then than gossips and updates on low lives life events is worthless and a waste of time.

  • @Mipsie
    @Mipsie 2 місяці тому +98

    It was pure cringe especially with the whiteboard. There was no point having her there. If you don't want to show yourself, good, go away. Don't go about it in a weird way with silence and whiteboards, it just gives non-Muslims a chance to mock your wife.

  • @marlonhosten4693
    @marlonhosten4693 2 місяці тому +33

    It is Halal for a woman to present herself in public with a basic proper Hijab ! If you want to CONCEAL your wife from society, you have the right to do so. However, DON'T MISLEAD PEOPLE BY TELLING THEM THAT YOUR POSITION IS THE ONLY CORRECT ONE !

  • @theanna8472
    @theanna8472 2 місяці тому +14

    Honestly, I think the issue here is that Muslim (men) generally make up these benefits of hijab and haya for women and then make videos about it. And, sure, there are so many benefits. However, the ONLY reason mentioned in the Quran is because of the relationship with Allah swt and to be known as Muslims.
    I am traumatized from the many videos that compare muhajabiya to objects (lollipop/candy, diamond, etc etc). So, it makes non Muslims look at Muslim women as if they are also objectified in Islam astaghfirullah.

  • @purnamanight
    @purnamanight 2 місяці тому +64

    As a someone who watch ali dawah for a year now,he does let his wife talk once in one if his video. So his wife choose to not talk and he's not the one who didn't let her. I didnt like that he used his wife like this.

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +25

      I respond to this 7:52. No point even having her there. A difference between being covered and seen, and being covered AND unseen

    • @fatumahussein9604
      @fatumahussein9604 2 місяці тому +4

      @@FaiyadFitplease do a video on feminism it has nothing to do with Islam and is destroying the Ummah

    • @toux8210
      @toux8210 2 місяці тому +2

      You're making a baseless point using an old video, but you don't actually address the point that SHE chose to not be seen on camera, as he discloses. Mashallah ali dawah has done alot for the ummah, helped many take shahada, you're channel has become just hating, you're by far not a net positive for the ummah. If you wanna make money off the ummah, you do you, but don't be slimy like this for attention bro, bad look

    • @PureHanbali
      @PureHanbali 2 місяці тому

      @@toux8210 toxic words from u

    • @purnamanight
      @purnamanight 2 місяці тому

      @@toux8210 I'm talking about the people who saying he's abused his wife and didn't let her in any platform

  • @Kepler10b
    @Kepler10b 2 місяці тому +74

    As long as im wearing hijav I don't worry about creeps bc at that level creeps will creep no matter what you wear. I could be in niqab and men can still think dirty things about me while I'm walking down the street. So I don't obsess over it. Can't live your life obsessing over it.

    • @DarkDaysInPurple
      @DarkDaysInPurple 2 місяці тому +10

      Exactly

    • @salamu612
      @salamu612 2 місяці тому +14

      Exactly, you do your part and they have to do theirs.

    • @cyberyousef7519
      @cyberyousef7519 2 місяці тому +5

      Yea but also one note i might add
      Women who don’t wear the niqab shouldn’t post themselves online, because on the internet, men with no taqwa, will say “no one is watching me” so he won’t feel shame staring at her

    • @Kepler10b
      @Kepler10b 2 місяці тому +13

      @@cyberyousef7519 well respectably I'm not that pretty so I've never worried about that. I can't speak for other women but if a guy wants to waste his time staring at my totally plain and average looking face then that's on him.

    • @justshushmate
      @justshushmate 2 місяці тому +4

      @@Kepler10b😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @Faracuda
    @Faracuda 2 місяці тому +16

    Great video as always. Love this channel, I'm really grateful for everything you teach us. I found out this channel from watching the3muslims. Thanks brother may Allah swt preserve you and reward you for educating us and increasing our knowledge for the deen. I hope you understand how much we appreciate your videos brother and as a young revert I really find them educational. Jazakullah Khayr for them may Allah swt make it easy for all of us ameen
    -A 17 year old revert sister from AU #podcast

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +4

      Made my day may Allah bless you and keep you steadfast. Doing my little part!

    • @Faracuda
      @Faracuda 2 місяці тому +2

      @@FaiyadFit Ameen and you too I really really appreciate it. I hope that I get to help others know more about Islam just like you inshaAllah. Keep up the hreat work and thanks again

  • @marlonhosten4693
    @marlonhosten4693 2 місяці тому +11

    5:20 The Saut ( voice) of a woman is NOT CONSIDERED AWRAH but many scholars. Ali Dawah's interpretation is more likely to be practiced in Saudi and less likely to be practiced in Morocco, Syria or Indonesia !

    • @onypik
      @onypik 2 місяці тому +1

      It's his wife's decision not to speak not because of her husband 🤦

    • @marlonhosten4693
      @marlonhosten4693 2 місяці тому

      The Hüküm with all evidence considered, is that her voice is not from her Awrah !@@ottopotatum5775

  • @inspiringmuslim
    @inspiringmuslim 2 місяці тому

    One of the Best video
    جزاك الله خيرا أخي

  • @modal4155
    @modal4155 2 місяці тому

    Assalamu Alaikum brother Faiyad, another great video once again. Can't wait to watch the #podcast when it comes out!

  • @mohamedmohsin5723
    @mohamedmohsin5723 2 місяці тому +46

    Agree with your views.
    Thought the same thing about Ali's wife. No point showing her. He could have had a convo with her on this, got her points and told us the next day. It's sad how shaitan creeps into everyone's lives. May Allah protect us all.
    Also love the dude trust me source takes!

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +10

      Jazakallahu khair agreed habibi

    • @englishtales624
      @englishtales624 2 місяці тому +2

      Agreed
      If he really wanted her points to be in video he should have discussed the content already with her next day while recording he should have mentioned since I discussed this with my wife ,I think women can bring this point here ...nd thn continue .also even if he would have replaced that white board with WhatsApp text that my wife is with me here while recording this video and she is objecting nd giving her point here nd then read it from text without even showing her ..
      May Allah grant him ease ..

    • @salamu612
      @salamu612 2 місяці тому +1

      "no point showing her"
      You can't even see her! What are you all talking about, she's not showing, she's not exposed, you cannot see her.
      There's no point having her cause it's like she's not even there to begin with.

    • @mohamedmohsin5723
      @mohamedmohsin5723 2 місяці тому

      Wa iyak bro.
      On the last comment, no point having her there and no point showing her is the same thing. So we agree

    • @salamu612
      @salamu612 2 місяці тому

      @@mohamedmohsin5723 it's not the same thing, to be physically present doesn't signify being seen/shown/exposed
      People are making it seem like he has committed a sin by having her there in the room with him while she's not even facing the camera.
      If these people will only be satisfied with her not even appearing for one second and saying that it's better if she wasn't physically present in the video, I am saying that what you want is no different from what he has done. Literally it's like she wasn't there.
      Now people unfortunately no matter how correct things are done they will always find fault and criticize.
      So the question is, do we stop doing anything because people will always have disagreements? Especially online. Or shall we be extra cautious on how things we do could be misinterpreted and take all of these possible interpretation into consideration before posting anything online to prevent fitna? Maybe yes, wa allahu a3lam

  • @Uzair_Of_Babylon465
    @Uzair_Of_Babylon465 2 місяці тому +1

    Great video keep it up you're doing amazing things 😁💯

  • @catslovps4164
    @catslovps4164 2 місяці тому +17

    Honestly I thought he was putting our religion in a very bad light or look because simply if an atheist saw this and was indecisive on wether Islam is peaceful and fair or not they would immediately say there you go even her voice she can’t even speak as she wishes and real Islam is not this at all and I’m sick of people like him giving an image of Islam being that the wife in a relationship is a slave and this is what he is showing here whether he meant it or not it is not haram for a woman to speak her voice in a video it is haram to speak very loud like singing or yelling for example please educate yourself and stop making my religion look like hell

    • @salamu612
      @salamu612 2 місяці тому +1

      You're right that a non Muslim can easily misinterpret and conclude that Islam oppresses women because of x, y, z. But a responsible honest person will listen and investigate what is being said in the video before jumping to conclusion. He clearly said that she chose to not speak etc. But at the same time some level of responsibility in delivering content to the public needs to be taken, especially when it comes to the clarify or confusion it could create once uploaded. So both have brains and hold some responsibility wether it's uploading content or consuming content.

    • @catslovps4164
      @catslovps4164 2 місяці тому +2

      @@salamu612 I hope all of them do investigate like u said but u know some people just love to find ways to make us look bad and yes they should have clarified it more

    • @Swiiss63
      @Swiiss63 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@catslovps4164 why worry about it? To those who would use this to think bad about Islam their intentions weren't sincere. The conviction none Muslims should have to be Muslims shouldn't come from people. It should come from truth. People are weak, make mistakes, have desires, can be selfish etc...
      What a human being does shouldn't dictate your faith in the truth.

  • @arwaeid786
    @arwaeid786 2 місяці тому +3

    #podcast
    Super excited for this. May allah bless it and make it beneficial for all viewers inshallah and may he reward u for the information you give out and the effort you put in to educate your Muslim brothers and sisters. Ameen

  • @r0binstrand865
    @r0binstrand865 2 місяці тому

    Alhamdulillah! Great video. May Allah SWT reward you and make your #podcast successful.

  • @asa1973100
    @asa1973100 19 днів тому +2

    Imagine if Ali Dawah’s “wife” is really just Mohammad Hijab in a costume 💀😂

  • @ezekingsone863
    @ezekingsone863 15 днів тому +4

    The fact that this dude have to make this video to defend this oppressive behavior is absurd.

    • @LomuHabana
      @LomuHabana 14 днів тому +2

      I literally get dumber by the second by listening to those Dawah guys.

    • @user-343-8fx
      @user-343-8fx 9 днів тому +1

      Exactly, all these evil word salads are just absurd. So many reasons to oppress.

  • @salamu612
    @salamu612 2 місяці тому +83

    Ali dawah didn't mind having her speak, she is the one that didn't want to speak in the video. Also she didn't want to appear in the video either. So she chose to do so.

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +25

      Then why have her there? I respond to this 7:52. A woman doesn’t have to obey her husband if it’s haram and if putting herself there with her hair hump visible or the other time her forearm showed can happen, then it’s better not to.

    • @salamu612
      @salamu612 2 місяці тому +9

      @@FaiyadFit Then why have her there? Well I think he said he wanted her opinion to understand women perspective I believe. And she agreed to provide her input without speaking or sitting in front of the camera by his side, I think that's what Ali said.

    • @Uzair_Of_Babylon465
      @Uzair_Of_Babylon465 2 місяці тому +1

      Like what book 1984 said freedom is slavery 🤣🤣🤣

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 2 місяці тому +1

      @@salamu612 Ali still has women on his panel and they don't all wear hijab. It just seemed weird.

    • @br0texytOG
      @br0texytOG 2 місяці тому +1

      @@FaiyadFit She didnt speak niether showed her face, Dont you get it? You tell me then in what way she was supposed to react? If a woman cant even do it in hijab, then you have stolen her right from it, Dont listen to what other people saying, use your common sense.

  • @kakarotoyassine3274
    @kakarotoyassine3274 Місяць тому

    Barak Allah feek brother, mashallah excellent point. May Allah bless u

  • @suskdhru
    @suskdhru 2 місяці тому +13

    I don't wear a hijab. But if my husband had a huge audience, I would never show myself there.
    I don't see it as hiding or covering up.
    Some people just don't like such publicity.

  • @cutiepie8887
    @cutiepie8887 2 місяці тому +7

    While i agree with some of the things you say, i don’t understand why you always compare these women who are completely covered and act like their awrah is their entire body and voice to the “modern woman” who just simply thinks abt how she can sell her body thru social media or OF. you create this image that woman are either one or the other, you either cover completely and don’t interact with 50% of the world’d population or you are a woman who wants to have sex with every man. I am using extreme language to paint an image of the two types of woman you seem to think only exist. Which is frustrating because i think so much of what a woman does has nothing to do with men. And it’s reductive and degarading to say that only men look/interact/think abt women in a sexual manner. It highly involves your intentions and what sins you are susceptible to. The way you portray woman is extremely reductive in my opinion

    • @KaliKali-hv9bt
      @KaliKali-hv9bt Місяць тому +1

      Exactly!!! They use extremes to makes their points that it gets ridiculous

    • @Mich6961
      @Mich6961 29 днів тому

      Look up the Madonna/Whore complex if you want to understand the concept you are explaining in more detail. It's a really sadly depressing eye opener in how pervasive this mentality is across many cultures including western ones.

  • @El-nl4jm
    @El-nl4jm 2 місяці тому +5

    man i didn't know all this was happening coz i am trying to distance myself from their content as it was affecting my iman negatively. The only and probably the biggest problem was discussing someone else's marriage publicly . Idk why people are talking about it.... i really don't understand..... what have we come to . Is everyone short on video ideas now that they have to make videos contemplating on someone else's relationship ....If people need ideas then please turn your attention towards Gaza Congo Sudan etc , the list is long

  • @modal4155
    @modal4155 2 місяці тому +1

    Assalamu Alaikum brother Faiyad. May Allah put much barakah in your work and earnings. Great video once again, it's nice to see brothers out there on YT calling to the Qur'an and Sunnah. When I saw the situation for the first time I had the exact same objections come to mind. On one end he's free mixing and on the other he is acting super religious, for the sake of Allah I hope it's with sincere intention. There is a lot of beauty in privacy which many people primarily in the west don't really seem to see or acknowledge, people are instead more interested in fame. glamour, and showing off. This topic actually reminded me about a video I watched some time ago about the dangers of evil eye and how serious it is.
    Ibn 'Abbas reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying:
    The influence of an evil eye is a fact; if anything would precede the destiny it would be the influence of an evil eye, and when you are asked to take bath (as a cure) from the influence of an evil eye, you should take bath.
    Sahih Muslim 2188
    Can't wait to watch the #podcast.
    May Allah help us stay steadfast on the deen. Ameen

  • @luhitadori
    @luhitadori 2 місяці тому

    #podcast been subscribed to you for a long time Love your videos Akhi and Asalamu Alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu May Allah bless and forgive us all

  • @en3yy
    @en3yy 2 місяці тому +4

    oh im early!btw love your videos🤍

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you! Notification gang ;)

    • @en3yy
      @en3yy 2 місяці тому +2

      @@FaiyadFit MANN ME AND MY MOM SPAM YOUR VIDEOS,YOU DONT KNOW HOW HAPPY YOU MADE ME JS BY COMMENTING THAT MANN I MIGHT SOUND WIERD BUT I ALMOST CRIED😭THANKYOUUU❤️❤️❤️

  • @MDIslam-vr1hf
    @MDIslam-vr1hf Місяць тому

    Excellent video!

  • @anjalisartistry870
    @anjalisartistry870 2 місяці тому +12

    Women should have right to express themselves.

    • @colegram1447
      @colegram1447 2 місяці тому +11

      Who said they don’t?.

    • @NouraAsany
      @NouraAsany 2 місяці тому

      @@colegram1447 frr

    • @emma647
      @emma647 Місяць тому +3

      Having your ur Wife communicate only via white board and pen gives that impression, if she doesnt want to be known nobody cares, but her communicating in this way does make her look oppressed

  • @TheRetailRealm
    @TheRetailRealm Місяць тому +1

    It is very rare to find men who actually care about what you just explained. May Allah guide us all. Ameen.

  • @IBAR_DAWAH
    @IBAR_DAWAH 2 місяці тому

    W video as always.

  • @maodijong3661
    @maodijong3661 Місяць тому +1

    LOL Ali Dawah clowning himself, then his wife 🤣

  • @Sabeera_Fatima
    @Sabeera_Fatima Місяць тому +2

    I do get why he did it, however, there were better ways to do it.

  • @IRAM_rehman
    @IRAM_rehman 2 місяці тому +13

    Whilst they type these islamophobic comments we Muslims are laughing all the way to jannah inshaAllah ❤

  • @Jaywalker45
    @Jaywalker45 Місяць тому +2

    He shouldn't have included his wife in videos also his content is slowly moving away from islam

  • @cassandra2289
    @cassandra2289 Місяць тому +1

    That's a queen treatment right there 😂

  • @deeznn
    @deeznn 2 місяці тому

    U had said whats in my heart lvu wallah as man to man

  • @JOYRIDEUS
    @JOYRIDEUS 2 місяці тому +14

    Not sure what the problem is?

    • @mss6501
      @mss6501 2 місяці тому +3

      I agree, this is how they choose to do it. We don’t need to find faults in everything.

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +3

      7:52

  • @Djellal
    @Djellal 2 місяці тому

    What you said @7:52 is exactly IT

  • @lnoorplaylist
    @lnoorplaylist Місяць тому +2

    Ali Dawah and Muhammad Hijab sometimes really make me uncomfortable, especially their podcasts, or uncomfortable video titles like asking women for body count or the ones with housewives. So many cringe or uncomfortable things made me unfollow the Ali dawah and recently Muhammad Hijab also.
    I liked some of their recent podcasts specially those 2 podcasts/live with Muslim lantern, and sneako bcz I still follow Muhammad Ali, and another one had smile2jannah in it also. I liked those ones.
    Probably there are muslims out there who are still getting positively influenced by them and good for them. No one is perfect. But they're not the people that I want to follow anymore.
    I don't know if its classified as gossip or my honest review about them.

  • @wildbeast1016
    @wildbeast1016 2 місяці тому

    Thank I'm glad you made that point to Ali dawah.

  • @masesero2150
    @masesero2150 Місяць тому +1

    There was no need to have her there to begin with. Keep her safe away from youtube, but recording her from the side and use an erase board. I think it just made it more about him than them as a couple conversing. I don't know ...

  • @Dont-worry1618
    @Dont-worry1618 2 місяці тому +12

    Salam

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +4

      Walaikum assalam

  • @Mastah.Sogi2767
    @Mastah.Sogi2767 2 місяці тому

    People so fast to judging rather than listening to their conversation 🤷🏽😂

  • @sbe8621
    @sbe8621 2 місяці тому +4

    i think she didnt want to talk

  • @amjadal-shboul4364
    @amjadal-shboul4364 2 місяці тому +2

    The thumbnail and title that you used in this video portrays a very harmful/slanderous message to people who will see this video on their feed but not click on it.

  • @Palestinesos
    @Palestinesos 2 місяці тому

    Let them hate and wonder what islam is about. May Allah swt bless our brother ali. That's a real man 🎉 allahhuma barik, beautiful.

  • @crazygacha_cupcake3043
    @crazygacha_cupcake3043 18 днів тому

    The comments on the Twitter post are so funny!!!! 😂😂😂 They are right!

  • @azeezatazeezzz
    @azeezatazeezzz 2 місяці тому +1

    Was waiting for you to make a video regarding this, Akhi. Great video has expected ✅

  • @dogangok4806
    @dogangok4806 Місяць тому +3

    your being very hypocritical, you told the people how criticise islam to challenge there beliefs but you also judge people criticising islam and your belief of islam

  • @unknownBottt
    @unknownBottt 2 місяці тому

    He has a video called MEET MY GIRLFRIEND || Ali Dawah that shows his wife face

  • @Azizullah95th
    @Azizullah95th 2 місяці тому +1

    Holding on to deen is as if holding on to burning coal, And holding on to practicing islam to every part of our lives is as if adding ethanol to that burning coal, And keeping yourself away from every major haram is as if adding nephtols on the fire.
    As for having a practicing muslim wife she can either be that ice which will extinguish or she's just that one formula that will turn the fire into white phosphorus.😅
    May Allah protect this ummah ameen.

  • @avocadomd7170
    @avocadomd7170 2 місяці тому +3

    Tbh he could have done this video better, he could've had a discussion with his wife before filming and then just list the points his wife made by himself. As a woman I would find it humiliating if my husband did that to me, because even though she is not "seen" or "identified", she is in the video and now people are talking about her.
    Also I don't like Ali Dawah in general I find him very hypocritical, a lot of stuff he says is ridiculous and his mixed podcasts is a disgrace it is essentially a place where he together with other questionable people basically ridicule women, no prophet or khalifa disrespected women. Further the lack of noor in his face is alarming.

  • @wassupbaby8634
    @wassupbaby8634 2 місяці тому +2

    She is in the video so he can get a woman's perspective and views on the matter. Because otherwise who would he bring?

    • @emma647
      @emma647 Місяць тому

      He talks to enough women on video that arent his wife rhoughy

  • @CamelJockey562
    @CamelJockey562 2 місяці тому

    I need advice on how to approach a Muslim woman in an Arab country. I'm born and raised in the US, and I have no issue approaching woman. But I'm currently living in Palestine, and I recently got a teaching job. I am currently married but I just don't like my wife. I want to find a 2nd wife, and there's this teacher at my school that is absolutely stunning that I want to talk to. We walk passed each other all the time, but I just don't know what to say to her. Since we're both working at this school, I don't want to do anything that could come off us inappropriate. I would love to get to know her, I just don't know what to say to her to break the ice

    • @swiltyq
      @swiltyq 2 місяці тому +3

      Speak to your wife about it tell her you don't have feelings or love for her anymore. If you don't like her then get a divorce because getting a 2nd wife won't make anything any better but just worse for yourself and wives. Getting a 2nd wife is a commitment you'll probably end up sinning if its not done right either way so i'd advice to just tell her how you feel. Just think about it, pray and make dua and inshallah things will work out.

    • @Jaywalker45
      @Jaywalker45 Місяць тому +1

      U shouldn't have looked at her she is not your mahram !

    • @ArmelSight
      @ArmelSight Місяць тому +1

      💀

  • @TheLilmissawesomness
    @TheLilmissawesomness Місяць тому +1

    Asalam walaikum. I found what you said very insightful. I think that both extremes are not good for social health. For eg. I don’t think women should parade around and it is perfectly reasonable for men to have issue with their wives doing that. However to silence your voice, I don’t think it’s the right thing to do. I do think women should be able to speak in public but in an honorable way (not seductive but for eg to raise awareness for certain topics or to teach, or to do other community activities). I don’t think using a medium such as a white board while physically being present at a discussion, is healthy for her as a person or for women in general socially. It impedes communication and things can be lost in translation. So while things like guarding your awrah are good things, I think extremes of anything is not good or psychologically healthy for a person existing in a cohesive society. I don’t think Allah swt has commanded women to not speak in public, but rather to speak honorably. The use of the whiteboard implies that good behaviour from women in their devotion to Allah swt is to never allow their voice to be heard to the public, whereas it is rather the latter that I mentioned. So the implications of it is what people seem to have an issue with. Aisha (RA) did speak in public and did not use mediums such as this to communicate. She engaged in Islamic discourse and jurisprudence. I think a healthy medium is what should be advocated, while directly sinning should be discouraged altogether. Hope that makes sense iA!

  • @thekinghash
    @thekinghash 2 місяці тому

    Hey Brother I saw on the 3MuslimsPodcast you guys said you raised enough money to build a Masjid and would upload progress videos and there’s not a single one what’s up with that?

  • @salimnabdulaziz7839
    @salimnabdulaziz7839 2 місяці тому +4

    Look,I will do the same... this is something non masculine men will never understand.

    • @AmirHussain-bi2vx
      @AmirHussain-bi2vx 2 місяці тому +2

      The whiteboard part is a bit strange. Either have your wife on camera in appropriate hijab, or don’t have her on camera at all.

    • @salimnabdulaziz7839
      @salimnabdulaziz7839 2 місяці тому +1

      There is nothing strange my friend, she's my wife and I don't want nobody listen to her voice. I will do the same

    • @AmirHussain-bi2vx
      @AmirHussain-bi2vx 2 місяці тому

      @@salimnabdulaziz7839 fair enough but like I said in that case it would be better to not have her on camera at all. No need for the whiteboard.

    • @salimnabdulaziz7839
      @salimnabdulaziz7839 2 місяці тому +1

      @@AmirHussain-bi2vx she's there for a reason brother. He will not just bring her for no reason, and people should live their lives the way they want. She doesn't wanna speak, she used the white board, period. Ali is a MAN.

    • @ArmelSight
      @ArmelSight Місяць тому

      @@salimnabdulaziz7839 💀

  • @HV55VN
    @HV55VN 2 місяці тому

    Ease up on the mascara are you an arab model😂

  • @nuhamohamed3105
    @nuhamohamed3105 2 місяці тому

    What exactly do you mean with speaking in a soft voice? I don‘t really understand it. Can someone explain to me? Jazakallah Khairan✨

    • @aymenrafiaahmed
      @aymenrafiaahmed 2 місяці тому

      When we for example talk to the opposite gender, we shouldn’t speak softly to them, cause the man can feel attracted to your feminine, soft voice

    • @Cloudsdrops_
      @Cloudsdrops_ Місяць тому +1

      It means speaking in a flirty and suggestive way. You cant "accidentally" speak in a tempting voice. It's a deliberate act.
      Having a NATURAL soft and pretty voice has nothing to do with that because thats just your regular voice.

  • @enkidu2488
    @enkidu2488 Місяць тому

    06:42 what happened to his eyes? The shaitan? 😂

  • @mss6501
    @mss6501 2 місяці тому +2

    In regard to his previous video where his wife was feeding him grape, maybe he learnt from it and is doing it differently this time around. As humans we live and learn and maybe he knows that was wrong now and is trying to do it in another way.

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +2

      I get it but it’s unnecessarily to even have her there. Go to 7:52

    • @nahid2281
      @nahid2281 2 місяці тому

      @@FaiyadFit it wasnt his wife, it was smile2jannah feeding him grapes

  • @questioneverything7011
    @questioneverything7011 2 місяці тому +1

    Honestly , spot on with the video but let’s not pretend you’re not operating within your ego .. trying to portray yourself a certain way for the masses.

  • @alondrabrowning2652
    @alondrabrowning2652 2 місяці тому +1

    Podcast

  • @IbnThabitVerlag
    @IbnThabitVerlag 2 місяці тому +1

    I love your advice at the end mashaAllah, you really posed the right rhetorical questions right there! They force you to be real and honest with your own self and admit to your short-comings such as seeking validation from the wrong place, i.e. wanting to be acknowledged and get props from other people for sin instead of just striving for Allah's pleasure.

  • @Ruthless_Ways
    @Ruthless_Ways 2 місяці тому

    For a sec I thought Ali Dawah was actually belittling his wife on camera lol. Of course, I wouldn't want my wife out there either for others to see.

  • @aferak145
    @aferak145 2 місяці тому

    Even if she didn’t want to speak there are other ways to hide or conceal her voice. Or simply have her write in a note pad and she holds it up to him to read. Or let her have the white board and hold it up for him to read.

  • @unknownukhtiii
    @unknownukhtiii 2 місяці тому +9

    can you do a video on uni/college life and the benefits/downside and how to stay away from haram and the riba

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  2 місяці тому +2

      ua-cam.com/video/y6TqPg8GP-Y/v-deo.htmlsi=MTghCZ9hAWAlqlYc

    • @unknownukhtiii
      @unknownukhtiii 2 місяці тому

      @@FaiyadFit thank you akhi

  • @Ellemiaaa
    @Ellemiaaa 2 місяці тому +1

    You could give advice for men and women instead judging Ali’s Wife !! But other your advices were really good 👍

  • @hamizmahmood
    @hamizmahmood 2 місяці тому +1

    In marriage husband and wife do agrees to stuff and we don't want to force our opinion on them. If they both are fine with not exposing her voice is fine. 90% of the communication is also text so whats wrong.

  • @chknman3877
    @chknman3877 Місяць тому

    when you become wierd, normal things start looking wierd to you

  • @BushraS-zl6gi
    @BushraS-zl6gi 2 місяці тому

    I am wondering why did he even have to bring up a celebrity couples life into what he was doing..his line work?

  • @Iceqn007
    @Iceqn007 2 місяці тому

    After the bitter truth podcast many many people insisted he should show his wife. If you follow Ali Dawah you will understand where it all started. His wife didn't want to be seen or heard in camera but as usual people always try to find fault in others and exagerrate matters. May Allah guide us all and bless his marriage. Ameen

  • @CurrentAssistant
    @CurrentAssistant 2 місяці тому +1

    What’s the point of having her there? Because he wanted her there. Nothing wrong was done. Why does he need to explain himself to other Muslim men when nothing haram was done 😂😂 why have other Muslim men even got this in their mind to say. Mind your business! Good grief. He obviously has ghayra and she obviously has haya, both of things are for Allah, not for you. So very strange. Do you think Allah looks down upon them and says ‘not good enough’, when they are in a halal manner and state? So who are YOU?! Why does the religion begin and end on our OPINIONS about masculinity and femininity and our ACCUSATIONS about someone else’s ego, as if that isn’t indicative of our own arrogance anyways.

  • @fatimakhdj
    @fatimakhdj 2 місяці тому

    I personally think Ali Dawah in particular has to be more careful with these things...akhi isn't an actual scholar but he has a huge following from muslims and non-muslims, many non muslims or even our muslim community are sadly more exposed to dawah bros than actual scholars themselves yk, so this can greatly affect how Islam looks to outsiders especially those curious and maybe wishing to revert. Wallahi I admire his wife's haya sm, I just wish if he wanted her to be in the vid to find a much better alternative at least bc what's the point in being there if you're gonna communicate with a whiteboard...

  • @SKILLEDduck55
    @SKILLEDduck55 2 місяці тому +6

    sometimes non muslims gotta mind their business

  • @umim.8412
    @umim.8412 2 місяці тому

    Salam, just curious will you be also calling out your co-host on the 3 Muslims podcast as well? Since his wife is an actual instagram influencer?

  • @legadoagency7974
    @legadoagency7974 2 місяці тому

    Why are we make a conclusion on another couples relationship. No one knows the divorcing or not. We should let them deal with a relationship as they see fit and just pray for my brother and sisters.

  • @emmanueljiju3838
    @emmanueljiju3838 19 днів тому +1

    bro one feeding grapes was not his wife it was zeeshan(smile2jannah) and so you allow homosexual couples

  • @Safia91
    @Safia91 2 місяці тому +1

    I don't get why she has to be seen at all. He could have her behind the camera and for example altering her voice. I am a women who covers and would not show myself ir my voice online, but think this video is very uncomfortable to watch. May Allah bless the both and their marriage.

  • @zeeshandesignX
    @zeeshandesignX 19 днів тому

    Covering themselves up and obeying the command of God shows me their mental superiority.

  • @BobTheSnail759
    @BobTheSnail759 2 місяці тому

    The public's reaction to that video is enough evidence that Ali Dawah's wife absolutely made the right decision. Everyone was waiting for her to get involved with his channel, and once she did, everybody felt like they were entitled to an opinion on how she should present herself. All eyes were on her. In fact, it's hard to find any comments whatsoever about the actual discussion. These twitter users think they're making a good point saying she's oppressed and being dehumanised, but they actually just gave us proof of what we believe. May Allah protect Ali Dawah and his wife from all evil, Ameen.

  • @HaqqDealer0
    @HaqqDealer0 Місяць тому

    Not too far, nor too strict. Some think the woman's voice is auwrah. Also, this protects her identity. there are many enemies of Muslims online. Even water downed jihad abandoner, Mujahid slanderers like Ali Dawah.

    • @AT-yj8gl
      @AT-yj8gl Місяць тому

      Is a woman's toe nails awrah

  • @reviewsForMaple
    @reviewsForMaple Місяць тому

    issues with this
    1. the blink twice thing was orignally what ali dawa said in the video
    2. islam doesnt force people to cover up? maybe not directly stated as "forced" (the quran) but it is at least culturally forced.
    3. i get not wanting the face & voice but that can be done with voice soft ware to mask it or at least at the begnning explain why. Also the white board was never even shown to the audiance just to ali dawa so thats an issue in its self.

  • @CrazyBoy-ws2se
    @CrazyBoy-ws2se 2 місяці тому

    Assalamu alaykum , i can be wrong but, writing SWT or SAW is inappropriate. Instead, we should write down the full words

  • @yassinkamim3088
    @yassinkamim3088 2 місяці тому +8

    Subscribe to This G

  • @Ellemiaaa
    @Ellemiaaa 2 місяці тому +1

    Bro, please stop judging other people just because his wife had a big bun!!!! It’s up to Allah to judge, not you guys!! You all should speak about something that can benefit others and the ummah. By judging others, you are all trying to cast doubts on religion for other people around 🙄🙄🙄☹️☹️☹️☹️😓😓😓
    May Allah guide you all!!!

  • @fatimasamira3695
    @fatimasamira3695 2 місяці тому

    personally, I would prefer to voice my opinions through writing just like Ali Dawah's wife.

  • @Setto333
    @Setto333 Місяць тому

    Seeing those disgusting hateful comments, Ali was in the right to protect his wife from those subhumans. I understand how it looked a bit cringe though, but thats besides the point

  • @nasircooper9260
    @nasircooper9260 2 місяці тому

    She lives in the UK I think men other than her husband hears her voice at times the wahabi understanding of Islam is getting played out frfr, it wouldn’t be haraam for her to speak just like it wasn’t haraam for him having several sisters on his show speaking and laughing and interacting with brothers that were not mahrim for them but to each their own man

  • @haadis2986
    @haadis2986 2 місяці тому

    Why is it anyone’s business what he and his wife do?

  • @Islamin_myheart
    @Islamin_myheart 2 місяці тому +1

    Bro you hyped it up .why we need to find fault in everything 😢 im unsubscribing

  • @qasis42
    @qasis42 2 місяці тому

    Bigger question is why does Ali dawah promote others sisters or mens wives to go on his bitter truth show. But keeps his own wife away from camera?

  • @bramkayser3194
    @bramkayser3194 Місяць тому

    Did Ali Dawah go against the boundaries of Islam? If yes then correcting him is necessary, if no than there is no need to correct him .

  • @fitneteademi9767
    @fitneteademi9767 2 місяці тому

    I have to correct you brother when you said that "all" nen gave ghira. They don't have all ghira.

  • @minteteaee
    @minteteaee 2 місяці тому

    uhh everyone is typing this so why not: #podcast