I was love bombed

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  • Опубліковано 20 сер 2024
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    Writer: Julie Nolke
    Actors: Julie & Mirror
    Camera: Sam Larson
    Editor: Alec Mckay
    Production Assistant: Jill Agopsowicz
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  • @kamille286
    @kamille286 5 місяців тому +43

    Reminds me of a quote I saw, if someone writes you a love poem they love you, if they write you 100 poems they love poems

  • @KMMHealy
    @KMMHealy 2 роки тому +998

    “He sends me good morning texts…”
    “The bar has gotten very low.”
    🤣💀 So true.

    • @HeidiFerren
      @HeidiFerren 2 роки тому +26

      I cried at how real that has become.

    • @BTNH_NiNJA
      @BTNH_NiNJA 2 роки тому +3

      💯😂

    • @seriesx9508
      @seriesx9508 2 роки тому +2

      @@BTNH_NiNJA This is so unfair. My GF pushed our relationship in the direction that she always gets compliments and gifts. Daily. I am trying to get out of the relationship since I am being pushed into "simp" cateogory.
      If I avoid her, she can easily say she was love bombed. Or pull some guilt trip females like doing to guys. I know women like to claim to be victims for not getting everything they want. I gotta get away from this princess. But the moment I do, she will go on claiming she was love bombed. And probably make a UA-cam video like this

    • @KhanGarth
      @KhanGarth Рік тому +2

      You can easily set that up automatically with iPhones (probably android too). Just setup an automation where it sends a text at a certain time, and you can even have it pull randomly from a list of various differing ones to make it look like you’re really typing it. Then just continue sleeping in and have your phone message your chick automatically

    • @hiimluna2069
      @hiimluna2069 Рік тому

      @@seriesx9508 did u even watch the video?? it’s a skit of her getting love bombed, realizing then moving on. it’s not about saying all guys that leave relationships are love bombers or something. also this is the first time ive even heard of the term love bombing so no not all FEMaLEs do this lmao.

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 2 роки тому +237

    Mirror Julie: A new variant, if you will.
    Julie: Too soon.
    Was it though? I laughed.

  • @alishabee369
    @alishabee369 2 роки тому +160

    Making others learn about narcissistic love bombing is such a public service. Merit badge for you, Julie.

    • @vandoan8295
      @vandoan8295 11 місяців тому +5

      100%
      i used to wake up every morning with paragraphs of love messages, flying to islands for vacation, breakfast at different hotels every morning…
      and then it suddenly stopped and other than the love bombing phase things got progressively worse and worse and they do not chsnge no matter what you tell / ask them to meet your needs once the love bombing phase is over and then after that it’s just pure cognitive stress and confusion (my ex is also a narc and im so relived i found the book abt narcissism ‘Should I stay or should i leave’)

  • @RhombonianKnight
    @RhombonianKnight 2 роки тому +1749

    We all need a friend like Mirror Julie. She's the realest.

    • @anshumanagrawal346
      @anshumanagrawal346 2 роки тому +4

      "Realest" 😆

    • @somethingthatexists4797
      @somethingthatexists4797 2 роки тому +2

      ooh realest but not real, irony

    • @Voschel
      @Voschel 2 роки тому +3

      @@somethingthatexists4797 Well, she is real. Just as real as you and me talking to our wonderful selves in the mirror and that's incredibly healthy. It may of course even be healthier to have a conversation with an actual other human being than yourself, in case of knowing a single person in this world - maybe even having a friend or two.
      But none of my friends showed off their whiteboards to me yet, so they shall be considered dead to me from now on.

    • @mirunapopescu
      @mirunapopescu 2 роки тому +5

      Everyone wants a Mirror Julie until you have her and she tells you what you don't want to hear

    • @ashleysmith7953
      @ashleysmith7953 2 роки тому +1

      @@mirunapopescu I still want a mirror Julie 🤣
      My version lives to far away 😂

  • @somedutchguy7582
    @somedutchguy7582 2 роки тому +1993

    Everything makes perfect sense when Mirror Julie explains things!

    • @dcarter455
      @dcarter455 2 роки тому +11

      I mean!!!! Spot on and the analogy made soooo much sense! Like how did I never see it like that before???🤔

    • @backstabingpike
      @backstabingpike 2 роки тому +1

      ✊✊✊✊

    • @MartinMuehl
      @MartinMuehl 2 роки тому +17

      We need to get Mirror Julie's take on NFT's! That can only be hilarious.

    • @pxrays547
      @pxrays547 2 роки тому +11

      I trust Mirror Julie most when she is at her drunkest.

    • @babetravelling
      @babetravelling 2 роки тому +2

      I actually wanna borrow Mirror Julie

  • @MultiverseAsheville
    @MultiverseAsheville 2 роки тому +163

    I like how “you had to be there” implies Mirrror Julie has adventures without Julie.
    And now that I think about it, Mirror Me 100% has stories I have no recollection of…

    • @CharlieSoze
      @CharlieSoze 2 роки тому +11

      This checks out. Drunk Charlie legit hides cigarettes from Sober Charlie because he knows Sober Charlie will throw them out. Fortunately only Drunk Charlie ever knows where they're hidden.

  • @lowandslow3939
    @lowandslow3939 Рік тому +8

    “Then you have to trudge through this muddy area” had me in stitches!

  • @vanosoup
    @vanosoup 2 роки тому +3985

    Let's be real, Julie created this video just to show off her whiteboard

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  2 роки тому +708

      lol yup

    • @miguelramos3820
      @miguelramos3820 2 роки тому +411

      She needed to prove to her accountant why she put it on business expenses

    • @RS-pk4mp
      @RS-pk4mp 2 роки тому +48

      Her Magic Whiteboard! Which creates a sketch, clears it, and has a new one within moments! That is serious magic. Just saying . . . I hope she patents it. (Wait, can a fictional, but realistic mirror-like figure copyright anything? Do you need proof of reality? Wow. Through the looking glass indeed. :)

    • @ShhheilaASMR
      @ShhheilaASMR 2 роки тому +5

      knew it! haha

    • @laurenh9678
      @laurenh9678 2 роки тому +17

      Well now it’s a tax write off!

  • @Theo1505
    @Theo1505 2 роки тому +691

    "Too soon." Loved it. Perfect delivery.

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 2 роки тому

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @photoo848
      @photoo848 2 роки тому +6

      Kinda sad it wasn't one of the time travelling Julie's barging in and delivering that line

  • @bazilwreckerloughead
    @bazilwreckerloughead 2 роки тому +22

    "You look like roadkill when you wake up." Had me dying...had to re-watch that part 7 or 8 times!

    • @finsanders5851
      @finsanders5851 2 роки тому +2

      I’ve been collecting Mirror Julie’s best (worst?) insults of Regular Julie. (Excerpts to follow.) The roadkill comment may be #1.

    • @bazilwreckerloughead
      @bazilwreckerloughead 2 роки тому +1

      @@finsanders5851 LOVE IT!

  • @carolyntalbot947
    @carolyntalbot947 2 роки тому +48

    Marco is about to know what it is to want Julie's attention. If you ghost a narcissist in this phase, you throw off the whole formula! Stay strong, Jules.

  • @lejake
    @lejake 2 роки тому +349

    "You got lost in the analogy" :DD So good, a silent assassin of a joke :D

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 2 роки тому

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @jamielondon6436
      @jamielondon6436 2 роки тому +8

      And what a class act is Mirror Julie for simply admitting it outright!

    • @flyingscotsman32
      @flyingscotsman32 2 роки тому +3

      Yes but pretty solid upside down pine tree drawing

  • @bicarbonat1
    @bicarbonat1 2 роки тому +715

    "He makes promises that he can't promise"
    She a little confused, but she got the spirit 💀

    • @400_billion_suns
      @400_billion_suns 2 роки тому +27

      His ass is writing checks that his body can't cash

    • @couchpotato6499
      @couchpotato6499 2 роки тому +3

      @@400_billion_suns is that a Top Gun reference?

    • @400_billion_suns
      @400_billion_suns 2 роки тому +3

      @@couchpotato6499 Nah, but yesterday I flew a cargo plane full of rubber dog s* out of Hong Kong.

    • @Alicia_Tomoko_5x
      @Alicia_Tomoko_5x 2 роки тому +1

      @Jason Shoots a woman that cared about you would not let you make expensive promises, then punish you for not keeping this. Its called simping which leads to divorce

    • @14sakuya26
      @14sakuya26 2 роки тому

      @@Alicia_Tomoko_5x lol men refusing to take responsibility for their actions as usual

  • @danknfrshtv
    @danknfrshtv 2 роки тому +8

    Sometimes a person just needs a Nolke binge. Today was one of those days for me. Thank you, Julie!

  • @chaddblaylock7857
    @chaddblaylock7857 2 роки тому +71

    The beginning of Narcissistic relationships usually starts with love bombing for 3 months. Julie you once again blend comedy and life skills so well!

    • @williamjenkins4913
      @williamjenkins4913 2 роки тому

      You just wish it ended in them ghosting you.

    • @LanielDevy
      @LanielDevy 2 роки тому +11

      Accusations of narcissism get tossed around far too casually these days...

    • @ankyfire
      @ankyfire 2 роки тому +6

      @@LanielDevy no, there are actually really many narcissists out there

    • @LanielDevy
      @LanielDevy 2 роки тому +2

      @@ankyfire - That doesn't preclude the over- abundance of accusations to that effect. Tends to be women insisting that every guy they've ever dated was a narcissist. If that's true, they should look to themselves to understand why they are attracted to narcissists. I suspect that many of those men were, in fact, simply daring enough to have their own desires and opinions. As I say, it just seems far too common that we hear accusations of narcissism... as if narcissists make up half the population.

    • @ankyfire
      @ankyfire 2 роки тому +2

      @@LanielDevy have you thought that maybe indeed most of women HAVE dated a narcissist? Why think they're lying instead of trusting the victim?
      Yes the women should look at themselves... Do you know whom narcissists target? Highly emotional, empathetic individuals, usually in a more difficult part in their lives.
      That makes like 90% of women ever.

  • @karlsangree4679
    @karlsangree4679 2 роки тому +917

    Julie: He always says, "I'm lucky to be with you."
    Mirror Julie: Well that's not true.
    Way too funny...

    • @willow5235
      @willow5235 2 роки тому +2

      I think I word your looking for is not funny but relatable

    • @Jade45224
      @Jade45224 2 роки тому

      @@willow5235 sorry but what’s wrong w funny ? just seems a bit nit picky

    • @willow5235
      @willow5235 2 роки тому

      @@Jade45224 nothing wrong with funny, it was sarcasm that didn’t translate as well over text lol. I just found it painfully relatable

    • @Jade45224
      @Jade45224 2 роки тому

      @@willow5235 ohhh ok 😂😂

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq 2 роки тому +341

    I love how quickly Mirror Julie draws the elaborate drawings in about five seconds flat! 😂🤣

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  2 роки тому +106

      she's incredibly skilled

    • @qumquat
      @qumquat 2 роки тому +23

      That's a suspiciously fast turnaround, Julie...mirror bomber

    • @Dismythed
      @Dismythed 2 роки тому +24

      ... until she needs to draw upside down, then a single line takes her 30 seconds. 😄

    • @ramonaflowers5052
      @ramonaflowers5052 2 роки тому +13

      @@julienolke It's even more impressive that she has to draw everything reversed so it doesn't look mirror image!

    • @Hugh.Manatee
      @Hugh.Manatee 2 роки тому +2

      @@ramonaflowers5052 But if you think about it, wouldn't her whole world be mirror imaged, so to her mirror imaged looks normal and we're the mirror image? ... I think I need to go to sleep...

  • @jenn-k-h
    @jenn-k-h 2 роки тому +6

    I wanted Mirror Julie's white board drawings to be brilliant works of art, like she turns it around and we're all astounded at her drunk artistic ability 😂🤣

  • @heathen4236
    @heathen4236 2 роки тому +40

    Mirror Julie is legitimately my soulmate. I feel like I could have hour-long, wordless conversations with her while we sat at a table in a crowded place and communicated exclusively with exasperated sighs and brow nods.

  • @candacehorgan1057
    @candacehorgan1057 2 роки тому +301

    "Hold the phone, shoot the puck." Such a Canadian. Love it.

    • @bryancampbell9622
      @bryancampbell9622 2 роки тому +5

      Shut the front door.

    • @slartimus
      @slartimus 2 роки тому +3

      Also the lumberjack plaid flask.

    • @chantalfinn6173
      @chantalfinn6173 2 роки тому +1

      @@bryancampbell9622 sac en plastique

    • @kimreni
      @kimreni 2 роки тому +1

      Oh. I heard that as "shoot the pug" and was really confused. Thank you for your comment 😅

  • @aryanmishra8454
    @aryanmishra8454 2 роки тому +188

    "DID YOU SEE THE DIAGRAM " IS A MOOD AND I LOVE IT

  • @BlackCat-jg9cc
    @BlackCat-jg9cc 2 роки тому +3

    I like the little details, like how julie has her ring on her left hand while Mirror-Julie has her ring on her right because she's a reflection 😁

  • @8675309eahine
    @8675309eahine 2 роки тому +7

    The line that got me was “Did you see the diagram?” You are so funny.

  • @cam4894
    @cam4894 2 роки тому +605

    Mirror Julie on the wall, who's the Julie-est of them all?
    She's definitely one of my faves!

  • @tabathaarria9558
    @tabathaarria9558 2 роки тому +318

    for me it's not ghosting after the love bombing. it's more like "i'm gonna give you all these grandiose things that you didn't even ask so that i can mention them to guilt trip you in the future to make you do what i want you to" and it's terrifying

    • @andreakotvanova
      @andreakotvanova 2 роки тому +12

      Are we dating the same guy ????

    • @abbycloud668
      @abbycloud668 2 роки тому +20

      @@andreakotvanova uhhh pls break up w him

    • @zachfeder9415
      @zachfeder9415 2 роки тому +50

      Just a quick reminder. If someone gives you something you didnt ask for, regardless of how thoughtful and nice it may be, you have no obligation to ever return the favour. They can never hold it over your head because THEY chose to do it.

    • @Magus_Union
      @Magus_Union 2 роки тому +13

      That's called Narcissism. Love bombing is a common tactic used by people who suffer this derangement in order to emotionally trap victims and inflict malicious harm after establishing a connection. It's part of their disguise in order to put up a "perfect partner" front in order to gain 'emotional supply' from the pain they inflict on people.
      Please get out and away from such people if they are in your life. They will do everything to harm and abuse you, regardless of how grandiose their gestures will be at times.

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB 2 роки тому +16

      @@Magus_Union Please don’t misuse medical terms and armchair diagnose people

  • @TheEldarGuy
    @TheEldarGuy Рік тому +1

    "You had to be there"
    Yep, my shadow self is having a much better life than mine.

  • @bigburrearp7609
    @bigburrearp7609 6 днів тому

    “Did you see the diagram?” As if to say “What part of this did you not get the first time?” Mirror Julie is so beautifully condescending.

  • @LarryLatouf
    @LarryLatouf 2 роки тому +283

    The mirror-Julie videos are my favorites …. “…ballistic missile of attention…”. love it

  • @michaelday6987
    @michaelday6987 2 роки тому +508

    Mirror Julie: "Your breath makes me want to vomit"
    My immediate reaction: "You sure it's not the hangover?"
    Love this channel.

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 2 роки тому

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @bemasaberwyn55
      @bemasaberwyn55 2 роки тому

      Goddamn dude

    • @RealRomplayer
      @RealRomplayer 2 роки тому +2

      My thought was: How can you smell that? You're on the other side of the mirror!

  • @davidpietarila699
    @davidpietarila699 2 роки тому +3

    I am SO glad that I came from a generation where courting was an in person thing.

  • @hcarley
    @hcarley 2 роки тому +7

    Please can you make this from the perspective of her recognizing that she is the love bomber?!

  • @lyndon4010
    @lyndon4010 2 роки тому +315

    the motto of this story: Ditch the love-bomber, keep the playlist

    • @PeterSedesse
      @PeterSedesse 2 роки тому +10

      plot twist... use the playlist to love bomb a different guy....

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq 2 роки тому +424

    Mirror Julie is the best agony aunt ever, she's always there to dispense advice, and point out obvious red flags!

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 2 роки тому

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @oversoul7
      @oversoul7 2 роки тому +2

      Um what’s an agony aunt…. Cus I need one asap

    • @nawrr7438
      @nawrr7438 2 роки тому +3

      @@oversoul7 it is this thing in newspapers where people sent the problems so somebody could anonymously give advice

  • @mconnaghan
    @mconnaghan 2 роки тому +1

    "I love you so much and I'll see you next week." Ohhh, I see how it is.

  • @TheAlphaZulu
    @TheAlphaZulu 2 роки тому +1

    The transition from Drone Strike Diagram to fuck boi diagram without using a dry eraser and taking less than 10 seconds is just amazing. Mirror Julie is so talented

  • @phenomenonnarutokun
    @phenomenonnarutokun 2 роки тому +144

    The best thing about the relationship between Struggling Julie and Mirror Julie is that after they completely disagree on something, they reunite and have a little beautiful banter. Love to see it

  • @nowshowjj
    @nowshowjj 2 роки тому +212

    "Do bears wear funny hats?" I'm using this forever.

    • @krisalan5327
      @krisalan5327 2 роки тому +5

      Try using does a one-legged bear poop in a circle. You'll be amazed at the looks you'll get

  • @LaceyJuk
    @LaceyJuk 2 роки тому +1

    "Love is an open door" from Frozen is a good example of love bombing.

  • @TheSilveredSpirit
    @TheSilveredSpirit Рік тому +11

    See, as a person on the spectrum I have a hard time processing and containing emotions, let alone excitement for a partner. But because of things like this, I need to mask even more to fit into society.
    Trying to stick out from the crowd, woops that's love bombing!
    Have feelings too soon? Red flag!
    It's good to have discussions, ghosting people is impolite and can hurt people who are genuinely good people!
    Edit: while I do respect anyone who's been abused in this way, I too have been abused. I think part of breaking the cycle is talking about it.
    While there will be people that won't change, or lie about their intentions... I think it's important to carefully consider who it is you are dealing with through deliberate conversation.
    Being ghosted can be very upsetting for me because then I have no clue what I did wrong, which makes it hard for me to then know what society expects of me.
    Maybe someone else might get mad or brush it off, but for me it further deepens the mental anguish of not being able to connect with another human being.
    I'm sorry if you've been abused, and I know I can never make it right... but as the sages known as Death Cab For Cutie once said, these hands hold no guns.

    • @oromain
      @oromain Рік тому +2

      Yeah this video didn't sit right with me for the similar reasons. I've always been one to get swept up into a new relationship very passionately. I mean, isn't this what we all call the "honeymoon phase?" But I've never up and ghosted someone after "having my fill", I'm always in it for the long haul.
      The weird thing about this video is it ends with her deciding to ghost the guy because she assumes he's going to ghost her. She's just done the very thing she assumed the worst about in him. Perhaps, especially since he's a fictional character made to prove a point, he indeed was this "love bomber" type who drains whatever they want from people and moves on to the next. I still am not sure it's a great idea to make this implication that any overly passionate lovey dovey person is someone you need to ghost and cut off from your life.
      I mean, I can 100% understand setting boundaries and being like "hey you are coming off way too strong right now can we dial it back" or even breaking up if it's too much, but I don't feel great about assuming malicious intent from it.

    • @moirarinn7826
      @moirarinn7826 Рік тому +3

      But... be mad at the abusers, not other victims. It's not our fault that predatory men have adopted tactics similar to how you express yourself. You want us to expose ourselves to harm because he might be like you when the chances are much more likely he's a predator.
      Here's the thing with dating and meeting new people, we all mask at first. Do you think you are being required to do something no one else does?
      Literally everyone, once they get to know people, drops the mask and show themselves... but, none of us have the luxury to just be who we are all the time and not get hurt most of the time. And I'm on the spectrum too, it's not an excuse. I don't deserve other people putting themselves at risk, because they might not like me.

    • @Bigredhound
      @Bigredhound Рік тому

      Another person on the spectrum here. I think Moira here makes a very salient point. I’m not upset that someone thinks I’m too much and ghosts me, I’m upset with the guys that came before me and created the situation.

    • @anonymususer1728
      @anonymususer1728 4 місяці тому

      @@moirarinn7826 "You want us to expose ourselves"
      "Expose" yourself ? How ? You just go with the flow, and if at some points it gets too much for you, you dial it down. If he refuses, you end it.
      "he might be like you but the chances are much more likely he's a predator"
      And how do you know that ? Statistically it's the other way around: normal people are more frequent.
      "we all mask at first"
      Could you please stop speaking for everyone ?! You seem to think you know everything and everyone, but newsflash, you don't ! I don't mask ! And I know other people that don't as well. "Masking" is the very reason relantionships fail ! You pretend to be someone you're not, and then you're fucking surprised when the partner leaves you when he finds out you're a different person. Shocking, I tell you ! 😒

  • @zutty69
    @zutty69 2 роки тому +540

    For someone who's been in a committed relationship for years, Julie seems to know a bizarre amount about how terrible the dating world is these days.

    • @MsZephyra
      @MsZephyra 2 роки тому +23

      I've also been very confused about this...!!

    • @SpearAndMagicHelmetYT
      @SpearAndMagicHelmetYT 2 роки тому +10

      Maybe she's non-monogamous?

    • @JNDReacts
      @JNDReacts 2 роки тому +121

      She put out a community post a week or so ago about this skit, asking about people's experiences with love-bombing.

    • @fignewton0000
      @fignewton0000 2 роки тому +16

      Jenny was right. It was a community post earlier last week

    • @ritugoswamy
      @ritugoswamy 2 роки тому +48

      She does her research. :-)

  • @carola-lifeinparis
    @carola-lifeinparis 2 роки тому +160

    Amazing advice from Mirror Julie. And so realistic, I am pretty certain I cancelled a tinder date with someone exactly like Marco because I was a bit overwhelmed by these long, like 2 screens long, messages about how fantastic our life together will be before even meeting him in person. And good morning messages. And goodnight messages. And "getting sad when I did not reply right away" messages.
    This is really the most relatable channel I can imagine right now, presented by a drunk person living behind Julie's mirror :D :D

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  2 роки тому +63

      Oh my god I’m so glad you cancelled!! F*ck Marco! Thanks for watching 🥰🥰🥰

    • @Joseph_Roffey
      @Joseph_Roffey 2 роки тому +11

      @@julienolke Why do I suddenly feel like I’m watching a Disney movie…? Silencio Marco! We don’t talk about Marco no, no, no!

    • @TheKeksletsplay
      @TheKeksletsplay 2 роки тому

      Imagine genuinely liking someone. Rather play hot cold and send mixed signals. Much more effective.

    • @Joseph_Roffey
      @Joseph_Roffey 2 роки тому +8

      @@TheKeksletsplay yeh I felt bad about Marco… It looked to me like Julie was about to genuinely miss out on a possibly great guy in this vid until Mirror Julie made it clear she knew Marco and knew he sent that playlist out to everyone at which point it was obvious he was not particularly genuine at all..😔
      I’m not sure this video constitutes an attempt at genuine love bombing, but even if that was what it was, love bombing is only distinguished from genuine affection by the removal of affection at a later stage. Even the slightly toxic “I feel so bad when you don’t reply quickly” that Marco was associated with could still just be romantic honesty and not manipulative. It’s only manipulative when the intention is to take those affections away once the other person is hooked so that they might feel compelled to try to get them back.
      As far as I understand the concept anyway. Xx

    • @SepiaMaddy
      @SepiaMaddy 2 роки тому +22

      @@Joseph_Roffey The true difference (and the reason why kicking Marco to the curb is a good thing) is that he doesn't have enough emotional intelligence to recognize that it's not possible to love someone enough to spend the life with them when they haven't even met yet. That's not love, that's infatuation in the best case scenario. Worse even: it's infatuation with a mostly imaginary person because the brain just fills in the gaps with some "romance" when you barely know someone. To know someone takes time and opportunities so see them how they really are.
      That's why I absolutely agree with the Julies and say bye to every Marco out there. (Sorry Marco, you will only temporarily be memed.)

  • @CLdanse
    @CLdanse 2 роки тому +1

    That’s really good. Love the inner dialogue ending up being a outer dialogue of 2 versions of you. And with just enough sense of humour. More eye-openers like this please ! The world needs it. Please do a series of all the narcissistic tools : love bombing it just one of them …

  • @RicardoMoralesMassin
    @RicardoMoralesMassin 2 роки тому +1

    Julie you are SO GOOD at the actin thing. I always forget your characters are played by the same person. And your storytellin is top notch too. This is awesome.

  • @marlenr8691
    @marlenr8691 2 роки тому +294

    As a survivor of an emotionally abusive relationship with a covert narcissist and professional love bomber, I enjoyed this so much!!! If only we could have vaccines!!!

    • @marthamryglod291
      @marthamryglod291 2 роки тому

      If you don't mind, would you give bullet points?

    • @1chienandalou
      @1chienandalou 2 роки тому +6

      @@marthamryglod291shut the door literally and figuratively, delete and block number and don’t check their social media. Get help.

    • @Maplecook
      @Maplecook 2 роки тому +8

      I'm a guy, but I went through this with my ex, too. This video hit close to home.

    • @WayneLynch69
      @WayneLynch69 2 роки тому +4

      Guy's see this so differently....and much less sympathetically.
      Elementally; you abandon responsibility for self, then complain you weren't
      protected. It's cringe-worhy to hear these middle-age women talk aboiut becoming "invisible". It's worth noting, men/boys were NEVER other than invisible; and it not only doesn't occur to women, they would blame the boy for not being a star.

    • @TeutaTheQueen
      @TeutaTheQueen 2 роки тому

      We do have a vaccine. It's called r/fds. Men usually have a meltdown when it's mentioned.

  • @mattofthenorth
    @mattofthenorth 2 роки тому +106

    At first I thought mirror Julie had her own mirror 😲
    That could change everything!

    • @PeterSedesse
      @PeterSedesse 2 роки тому +1

      physicists could finally go back to string theory.

    • @FlatOnHisFace
      @FlatOnHisFace 2 роки тому +6

      Wow! Imagine that story arc. Mirror Julie buys a mirror, gets Julie to look into it, trapping her in the mirror-verse, and then Mirror Julie is able to take her place in the real world. The chaos that would ensue!

    • @MadMadCommando
      @MadMadCommando 2 роки тому +1

      Mirror Julie’s mirror Julie is just passed out drunk in a mud bath

  • @Cuffs565
    @Cuffs565 2 роки тому +1

    LOOOOVE "Mirror Julie" when she drunk lol the best IMO

  • @stevelee3144
    @stevelee3144 2 роки тому +3

    Very creative! You are extremely smart to pull these videos off time after time. The entertainment value is up there. Thanks for sharing.

  • @whitehawk5
    @whitehawk5 2 роки тому +56

    ok so the love bomber and fuckboy evolution art need to be put on t-shirt as merch, you are welcome mirror julie, and dont forget us little people

    • @ketoincontext2306
      @ketoincontext2306 2 роки тому +3

      Yes!

    • @2livenoob
      @2livenoob 2 роки тому +1

      There needs to be a ghant chart to prove there is no level of attention women won't shame. If you don't respond to a text in 5.023437s you are an fboi, if you reply in 5.023436s you're a love bomber.

  • @JasWritesInDarkness
    @JasWritesInDarkness 2 роки тому +136

    Me: “Dammit Julie! Why you do this to me!?”
    Also me: “I love her so much!”

  • @llamajuice
    @llamajuice 2 роки тому

    Her knee popping when she crouches down at the start makes me feel better about my knees.

  • @TheSpearkan
    @TheSpearkan 2 роки тому +1

    I bet this Marco is the kind of guy who talks about belts and lobs asteroids at people he doesn't like.

  • @MattGoodreau
    @MattGoodreau 2 роки тому +40

    You know what's amazing!? Sometimes I get lost in Julie's performance and forget that MJ is not another actress....just Julie...playing both parts perfectly lol

  • @jennifermc1221
    @jennifermc1221 2 роки тому +64

    I will only think of love bombers as a new type of variant from now on

  • @heidiwood3142
    @heidiwood3142 2 роки тому

    Omg I just can’t get enough of this beautiful woman’s smart, funny, relatable and relevant material!!! What a gem she is, I hope to see her on bigger and bigger platforms so the world can enjoy this beautiful genius as much as I do!!!

  • @Thepateisgreat
    @Thepateisgreat 5 місяців тому +2

    So weird. He always ALWAYS said “I am so lucky” CONSTANTLY

  • @heysunshine648
    @heysunshine648 2 роки тому +16

    the ways that this sketch imitates my own recently developing long-distance relationship with the only difference of the guy definitely not being a love bomber are incredibly hilarious and frighteningly creepy at the same time. i'm having fun but also a mild existential crisis
    classic julie content

  • @AlysonTabbitha
    @AlysonTabbitha 2 роки тому +187

    Omg guys like this are actual nightmares. Thank you mirror Julie for your wisdom

    • @Aschell91
      @Aschell91 2 роки тому +3

      Hey I love your work! You do a kickass job

    • @edmis90
      @edmis90 2 роки тому +6

      Difficult to imagine such exist.
      I feel like a person would have to be a psychopath, devoid of any empathy, in order to do that.

    • @Wintertidal
      @Wintertidal 2 роки тому +12

      people* ...gender inclusivity of all sociopaths is important!

    • @eat_pray_porg8450
      @eat_pray_porg8450 2 роки тому +1

      Hi, AT! I didn't know you were a Julie Nolke fan! That's awesome! :-)

    • @PeterAcrat
      @PeterAcrat 2 роки тому +6

      Actually: _"People"_ like this (regardless of gender) are toxic narcissistic types to be avoided.

  • @Duryism
    @Duryism 2 роки тому

    Mirror Julie's subtle, yet secretly vast, excitement that she got to use her whiteboard to explain something was so pure.

  • @mazeknox
    @mazeknox 2 роки тому

    This is now one of my favourites with mirror Julie. The back and forth banter feels VERY natural and on point. I mean...I know Julie is just 1 person, but sometimes I forget that..

  • @Chromicon
    @Chromicon 2 роки тому +44

    The first time Julie said, Marco, I kindof expected Mirror Julie to say, Polo.

  • @nrsrymj
    @nrsrymj 2 роки тому +36

    Hi Julie! Congrats on the million!

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  2 роки тому +10

      thank youuu

    • @nrsrymj
      @nrsrymj 2 роки тому +9

      @@julienolke aaahh she answered! Thanks for all the laughs. Really made this crappy time easier!
      Also you're gorgeous. Loved your roller skating photos ❤️

  • @Samantha2209
    @Samantha2209 2 роки тому

    “Do bears wear funny hats?” 🤣🤣 My god

  • @qwertykey6586
    @qwertykey6586 2 роки тому +1

    The drone illustration killed it🤣🤣🤣
    Forget that the evolution chart is insane

  • @DJ-fn3jm
    @DJ-fn3jm 2 роки тому +185

    Some people might think Mirror Julie drinks too much. But imagine this: You live in the mirror. Trapped there. Always primping and shaving and waxing and getting ready to go out. and...never...ever...leaving. I think she is under consuming.

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 2 роки тому

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @johndododoe1411
      @johndododoe1411 2 роки тому +13

      I would imagine she appears in all the mirrors Julie passes while out and about, so she actually goes out in the mirror world and gets visible hickies from mirrors of Julie's boyfriends.

    • @NonFerricIrony
      @NonFerricIrony 2 роки тому +12

      That sums up this *whole* past two years for me.

    • @Tom_YouTube_stole_my_handle
      @Tom_YouTube_stole_my_handle 2 роки тому +5

      We have to consider the question of where does the booze come from? Either the mirror apartment is much larger to contain an unlimited supply in which case Mirror can pass time exploring the apartment or she is able to leave at will. Given we never hear her calling Julie we might assume there are times when Julie's calls to her go unanswered.

    • @chantalfinn6173
      @chantalfinn6173 2 роки тому +1

      @@NonFerricIrony 💯

  • @chasbodaniels1744
    @chasbodaniels1744 2 роки тому +49

    So many great hooks in this. Tempted to play it at .75 speed to catch them all.
    One of your best.

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 2 роки тому

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @sidDkid87
    @sidDkid87 2 роки тому

    *"do bears wear funny hats?"* 😂🤣
    ps ~ the white board breakdown

  • @user-wi3yx3gy2o
    @user-wi3yx3gy2o 2 роки тому +1

    It’s more often than not pathological but not malicious. He probably has BPD. In which case his ghosting, rejecting, you or abusing you is a result for splitting an episode of BPD secondary psychopathy. But he might be high functioning psychopath or narcissist. They tend to either probe for weakness straight away or they love bomb for few weeks or months, then they either betray you or feign helplessness to use you, or they eventually boundary push in increasingly abusive ways in order to control you.

  • @writechris2
    @writechris2 2 роки тому +24

    Aw, I was hoping to get the playlist, mirror Julie! Also, where were you when I was still dating? Could have used your wisdom for sure.

  • @tylerboyce4081
    @tylerboyce4081 2 роки тому +86

    4:58 Julie: "It's been a challenging year to say the least."
    Jack Donaghy: "It's February, Nolke..."

    • @Tom_McMurtry
      @Tom_McMurtry 2 роки тому +1

      Both are true! 😅

    • @elissachasen2528
      @elissachasen2528 2 роки тому +9

      January was a really tough year.

    • @normanclatcher
      @normanclatcher 2 роки тому +3

      _This is foreshadowing. You might wanna write that down..._

    • @FlatOnHisFace
      @FlatOnHisFace 2 роки тому +1

      She's setting up a future Future Julie revisits her past self sketch.

    • @Thundersnowy
      @Thundersnowy 2 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 true and true.

  • @BlackHayateTheThird
    @BlackHayateTheThird 2 роки тому +1

    Good job! I remember you asked the community about this, and it's def a difficult topic to cover, and an even more-so to create as a comedic sketch. Relatable, truthful, digestable, and funny, awesome job!

  • @MrAlexEart
    @MrAlexEart 2 роки тому +1

    I love how excited Mirror Julie was about the whiteboard!

  • @MANU123423
    @MANU123423 2 роки тому +8

    Just discovered your channel, it’s incredible how quick I stopped thinking about the two characters being the same person! So seamless, well done!

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 2 роки тому

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @AlaskanNativeRedEagle
    @AlaskanNativeRedEagle 2 роки тому +5

    "I feel like the bar has gotten very low!" -I died laughing! haha

  • @siddharthiyer1120
    @siddharthiyer1120 2 роки тому

    "Really Eclectic mix of songs with a great throughline" Had to pop out the dictionary for that one

  • @jondeal8434
    @jondeal8434 2 роки тому +1

    "Did you see the diagram?" I snorted. Mirror Julie is my favorite.

  • @MikeCiccolo
    @MikeCiccolo 2 роки тому +6

    Love the stick figures running away from the love bomber!😄

  • @bcreativecarson5973
    @bcreativecarson5973 2 роки тому +14

    White board comedy is a genre that is underutilized. Thank you, Mirror Julie, for bringing this style of comedy back to the forefront!
    Also, are you up for a game of Pictionary?
    I love Julie Nolke. ❤ (But not in a bombing kind of way.)

  • @Nikkimommyof4
    @Nikkimommyof4 2 роки тому +2

    First time watching this and I really liked it. Your characters seemed really authentic and I was able to truly see two different people even though it was you doing both characters. You are definitely talented. Thanks for sharing. Hope to see more of you soon.

  • @tombraiderstrums09
    @tombraiderstrums09 2 роки тому

    “So Marco gets left on read” aaaaaand then she ghosted him before he could ghost her.
    That’s healthy.

  • @Vorundor
    @Vorundor 2 роки тому +14

    Great way to start my day, Mirror Julie is DA BEST. Her diagrams are exquisite. The fuck boy evolution had me dying LOL

  • @19thHour
    @19thHour 2 роки тому +9

    "Shoot the puck." We get it Mirror Julie, you're Canadian 😅

  • @josephstevens9888
    @josephstevens9888 2 роки тому

    "You look like roadkill when you wake up" LOL!

  • @soundped
    @soundped 2 роки тому

    "Do bears wear funny hats?" Perfecto!

  • @marcokrueger3399
    @marcokrueger3399 2 роки тому +12

    Hey Julie, I hope you're not giving up on us! I always thought of that as a long term thing and I'm definitely not a subscribe-bomber.
    I'm so glad we have you!

  • @nurse425
    @nurse425 2 роки тому +6

    I absolutely love how her flask is just THERE, LOL! 🙃

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 2 роки тому

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @hoibsh21
    @hoibsh21 2 роки тому +1

    With Mirror Julie as military strategist we'd win every war. Not that war is a good thing or anything but it's great to win at it.

  • @The_Real_Mier
    @The_Real_Mier 2 роки тому

    Oh god!! I just realized that I AM a ‘Mirror Julie’ myself….!!
    Something about seeing patterns and analysis most people don’t and then naively trying to ‘help’ them by informing them with all that.
    Doesn’t make a person the most favorable in the world…..
    …….
    I need a drink! ;)

  • @Lumas101
    @Lumas101 2 роки тому +8

    *Prepares to have “Confessions Part 2” in my head for the rest of the week.*

    • @normanclatcher
      @normanclatcher 2 роки тому

      reluctantly crouched at the starting line...

  • @michaelmolarsky8524
    @michaelmolarsky8524 2 роки тому +5

    Mirror Julie gives spot on assessment of Narcissism at it’s core.
    Takes one to know one!😁

  • @chebaca8
    @chebaca8 2 роки тому

    "stop the clock, shoot the puck" is the most Canadian thing ever

  • @davidnelson4960
    @davidnelson4960 2 роки тому +4

    I won't lie to you, as relatable as the sketches are, Julie's ads are what set her apart. Where other youtubers give the plug in rote monotone, almost putting you to sleep, Julie actually sounds like she believes in the product. She's uncommonly diversified. She's just too cool for school.

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 2 роки тому

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

    • @Call-me-Al
      @Call-me-Al 2 роки тому

      I see you haven't seen the Adstronaut. Look up George Ryan, IIRC he and Julie made a sketch together? They are both funny people.

  • @dudefood825
    @dudefood825 2 роки тому +17

    This is my good morning text because it's 9:00 am... Hey! You did a great job per usual 🤘

    • @virbilaisa8899
      @virbilaisa8899 2 роки тому

      𝕊𝕡𝕖𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕕𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ➺ BEAUTYZONE.CAM/Anna
      Anna is a beautiful girl.
      He's the person I love, he's my light
      day. The way the music flows and sounds
      is extravagant and fun. Anna is
      icon, legend, beautiful girl, princess, inspiration,
      a star. I could go on and on, understand this.
      I love NBA Anna.#垃圾

  • @neilschroeder7854
    @neilschroeder7854 2 роки тому +1

    Nice detail. Mirror Julie turns the flask cap off and on in the direction you would see in a mirror.

  • @lastmanstanding2622
    @lastmanstanding2622 2 роки тому

    I love the analogy mirror Julie uses to point out the obvious "do bears wear funny hats?" was spot on. 🤪

  • @digital_gravity
    @digital_gravity 2 роки тому +8

    I was thinking Mirror Julie was unusually sober at first.

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  2 роки тому +5

      it didn't feel right

    • @victorhugoeh974
      @victorhugoeh974 2 роки тому

      Yup, and then "we need to celebrate!" and takes out the flask 🙊😂🤣

    • @simond.455
      @simond.455 2 роки тому +1

      @@victorhugoeh974 She didn't even have to get up. 😂

    • @victorhugoeh974
      @victorhugoeh974 2 роки тому

      @@simond.455 like a SEAL team: "always ready" 😂🤣🤣

  • @TimKaseyMythHealer
    @TimKaseyMythHealer 2 роки тому +10

    Your skits are so smart! Love all that you do, ❤

    • @julienolke
      @julienolke  2 роки тому +4

      Thank you so much!

    • @TimKaseyMythHealer
      @TimKaseyMythHealer 2 роки тому

      @@julienolke ,❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Sicod79
    @Sicod79 2 роки тому

    I refuse to believe looks like roadkill when Julie wakes up. I 100% believe the breath thing.

  • @jojosworld8957
    @jojosworld8957 2 роки тому

    "Did you see the diagram? "
    Lost my shit laughing!

  • @laurenh9678
    @laurenh9678 2 роки тому +31

    Well now I understand exactly why I felt the urge to “run” from the last guy I dated, who wanted to take me to New York for a couples trip for our second date. Whew bullet dodged. Thanks mirror Julie! Now what was the name of that playlist?