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This is a reality married people needs to wake up to. I'm on baby number one and I'm certain I don't want another baby in the next 4 years. Pregnancy wasn't fun and you want me to go through it all over again when be say no be una go help me carry the belle. Biko make them shift go one side. The first and main reason why God created marriage was for companionship mbok 🚶🏽♀️
Na una type go get belle now born twins 🤣. Reminds me of a friend that said the same thing and had twins the second time. And then u guys won't be able to imagine life without them. I dey wait una 🤣 Then you will be doing a flashback and react to this video again. Abeg we need more children from amazing Christian families like yours to advance the kingdom of our God. Thank God its God that has the final say.😋 May Goda will be done in Jesus name. Lmaooo@ the kissing scene . Omooooooo, Man of God I was just watching it with Claire in mind. My whole chesssttt!! I no fit marry actor biko. Love you guys scatter 🥰😍😘
People shouldn’t be pressured into having more kids if they aren’t ready cos emotionally you don’t know what they are going through. I enjoyed this session.
Claire is me, I am Claire in terms of opinions and not backing out. I always stand my grounds. That’s how my sister in law was asking if we’re going to have baby number 3. I asked her, are we in a competition with someone? That shut her up right away. I just love how you guys aren’t following the usual narratives. Y’all are doing your things your own way. I LOVE IT!
This is such a great representation of how I’d want banter in a marriage. This was a great conversation on baby number two. Honestly people should stop pressuring other people on such huge choices.
Im an only child and I have one son…I have seen him right up to university now…I never want to have more children than I can spiritually, mentally n financially afford! Nooo way👏🏾
I totally agree with Akah. 2 kids tops and adopt any more. Depends on how the mood goes and how the future stays, might be one biological and stop. Cos omo, ovaries can shift wen u c fine pics but ovaries don't take care of the children wen they come or pay school fees
Clair I totally understand how you feel. This is me talking from experience give it more time before you seek permanent contraceptive. Am glad I didn’t tie my womb after my second child. More money came I got help and I had strong urge to expand my family which I did and am happy with my decision. I agree with Akah on this one. Love you guys
It's not about money, some people don't just want to have children. I wanted to tie my womb after my second child, the doctor refused because he felt that I may have a change of mind, 10 years later, I still don't desire more children; the mere thought of getting pregnant scares me.
@@salvation7300 Remember my reply is based on my own personal experience. I didn’t realize that all I needed was just help and money to change my mind. Don’t forget we are talking about Permanent contraceptive here, there are other temporary contraceptive options until you are fully sure. That’s all am saying, child bearing is not a joke. I will never make any woman do what she doesn’t want to do. It’s her body.
Loved every bit of this video. A wake up call to the importance of intentionality and self-awareness required before getting into this journey of parenthood. Missed you both on here 🤗It’s the banter for me😂😂😂
The best duo! 😘 Love ur authenticity, energy and dynamic! How many children did Elizabeth born!🤣😂🤣*crickets… honestly the earth is full! Adoption is also an option pls and I think we need to be ok with people saying they don’t want more kids or don’t even want to have kids. Many children need mothering!! Claire that your Yoruba took me out😩😩😩 God bless u both!❤️
Oh my Goodness 😆😆😆😆 Your friendship and relationship is very original, Akah’s hyperactive nature is practically robbing off on Claire, I’ve watched you two for so long. Your communication is beautiful 😍
This is definitely my best video so far, I love how it's so real, plus claire finally matching up to Akah's energy. Can't wait for your next video on contraceptives, adverse effects nd family planning
My people I miss you guys. Go girl you can do it. Having babies is something we should be confortable doing. My first daughter is 5 and my second daughter is almost 11 months old and for some reason my period delayed and I freaked out. See happiness when I saw my period. Motherhood isn't a joke but we have the grace to go through it.
I always enjoy listening to the both of you .your conten is always inviting. ..I admire the way Akah leads his marriage its evident there is God in it .. good to hear from you guys mob love.
Akah and Claire thank you for for this part where you said, as a Christian you have to be intentional about your decisions. Don't just go with the flow. I watched the video at the right time..❤
Please from the title alone😭😭, we (youtube family) were your first babies and then Gabs came to take our spotlight but we dont mind shes our star😤🥲 if she doesnt who will, your first baby misses you😭
Dwl at the two of you. Great seeing you two, I thought I accidentally turned off the notification on your videos. Do what's best for your family. If you didn't have a child that would have been a problem for some, to have one child is a problem for others, totally ridiculous. How do people with the exception of our parents, find the time to be involved in other people's relationships, to want to decide for them when they should have kids, and the number of kids 🤔 I will never understand it. It's great the love that you two share keep loving each other, communicating and keeping God first.
Nice content 👍🏾 I've been saying it that people need to just stop asking questions that is not their business, it's very annoying, what is it your business when I'm planning to have a baby 😠
I can totally relate, i wanted 6 six kids but ended up being single mum of a very beautiful girl and decided, i was done!!! i am not even prepared to marry because i don't want to be pressured to have kids for the husband.
I’m married with a kid and if I must have another one I only want one more, but in my tribe you’re shamed if you don’t Want alot of kids so I’ll definitely be pressured and shamed into having more😭
If you had considered this, you would not have had Gaby. Speaking to you as someone who has 2 kids on consecutive years. I will say, it’s the best thing. I breastfed the two, bought baby food, diapers, car seat, baby sitters and all together. They are bigger now and like twins. Doing very well. Best friends. They can be upstairs doing their own thing while I do mine. Now although they are young, I and my husband can go on a date and they are able to stay home together. In playgrounds, they come and get into the game together whereas single babies come and get shy seeing strangers. Most times they have to get them parents to boost their confidence. Except you don’t want more kids. If you do, it’s easier done closer together.
This is an amazing video💯learnt from it,laughed so hard too😆😆😆(Akah is a comedian)Love how honest and comfortable you two are with each other❤️Akah adjusting Claire’s skirt? Attention to detail that’s often overlooked.Stay blessed 🙏❤️
To be honest yeah I feel when I finally get married and get pregnant and push the baby out of me, I’ll literally cry till that baby grows up because... babies are a lot ain’t gonna lie and I’m also still a baby🥲 e fit tuff😪
Wow!!!! I watch your movie yesterday night Sir , The man of God …… so interesting 🧐 I’m so surprised to see you and your beautiful wife now ,,,, I’m a huge fan now 🥵💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
Claire me and you are THE EXACT SAME. I had my daughter 5 years ago and I am DONE! I don’t get baby fever when I see people having numerous kids… I am just amazed at how they are doing it and I tell myself ‘we are definitely different’ 😅 my mom was surprised when I told her I had taken contraception for 5 years… with only 1 child! But I’m good where I am! 💯
You guys are the best. I'm just here laughing because recently, God has been showing me things about what my marriage would be like and in the course of watching this video, I'm literally seeing more and I'm astonished
I have an only child not by design because I have always wanted 3 or 4 kids. However, my daughter doesn’t like it and wants a sibling soooo bad. Sometimes, she is really sad about not having siblings, and I feel sad when she gets really sad about it. We are considering other options. Also, when kids get to a certain age, not having siblings can be a lonely path for them. Also, when there are multiple kids at home and as kids gets older, couples tend to have better “me times” than when the child is alone and mostly his/her resolves around the parents, TV, internet etc. Also, when they grow up, there are ways siblings support each other that’s not easily found in other relationships to the same degree. I think the need for multiple kids can be multidimensional and doesn’t only rest on us but also on that 1 child we bring to this world. Of cause all under reason & not against our own abilities. These are my thoughts from my little experience as a mother with an only child. She is 9 years old.
I agree with you to a very large extent. The child grows up lonely..I can say that from experience cos I was an only child for more than 20 years. And also as an adult, there are a lot of times I wish I had siblings that will help me out with but there's no one but God..... If one can,its always best to have more than a child,not just for you as a parent but for the Child...it can be really lonely.
Really enjoyed this video. You guys remind me so much of my parents. They had so many plans and goals for themselves and our family. But I will say, as an adult I wish I had a sibling. Especially since losing my parents. And being fairly young. It's hard being alone. I have friends and family. But it's not the same.
I so applaud Claire on this one. My son birth such a traumatic experience and to vowed not to have any more after him. Two years down the line I found out I was pregnant with my daughter and I was very disappointed on myself . Knowing how hard it will be with two kids in a another country without any family around to her. So I wish I was firm on my decision before my second baby. She is currently three months and my son is three years old. There are days when I feel like I lost myself and I don’t recognize the shell of the person that is within me. It’s important to have a template of our lives for sure.
Like you guys nailed this!!! I’m always on this stance but just two children. This one I have sef, I’m really trying to figure the whole motherhood thing out not to talk about more than two.
It's as if having only one child in our part of the world is an abomination. I cannot imagine going through pregnancy, childbirth and the whole process altogether. I feel you on this. May God help us all.
This is a reality married people needs to wake up to. I'm on baby number one and I'm certain I don't want another baby in the next 4 years. Pregnancy wasn't fun and you want me to go through it all over again when be say no be una go help me carry the belle. Biko make them shift go one side. The first and main reason why God created marriage was for companionship mbok 🚶🏽♀️
Na una type go get belle now born twins 🤣. Reminds me of a friend that said the same thing and had twins the second time. And then u guys won't be able to imagine life without them.
I dey wait una 🤣
Then you will be doing a flashback and react to this video again.
Abeg we need more children from amazing Christian families like yours to advance the kingdom of our God. Thank God its God that has the final say.😋
May Goda will be done in Jesus name.
Lmaooo@ the kissing scene .
Omooooooo, Man of God I was just watching it with Claire in mind. My whole chesssttt!! I no fit marry actor biko.
Love you guys scatter 🥰😍😘
It's akah using style to cover clair lap. Oga dey protect his thing😂😂😂
People shouldn’t be pressured into having more kids if they aren’t ready cos emotionally you don’t know what they are going through. I enjoyed this session.
Claire is me, I am Claire in terms of opinions and not backing out. I always stand my grounds.
That’s how my sister in law was asking if we’re going to have baby number 3. I asked her, are we in a competition with someone? That shut her up right away.
I just love how you guys aren’t following the usual narratives.
Y’all are doing your things your own way. I LOVE IT!
This is such a great representation of how I’d want banter in a marriage.
This was a great conversation on baby number two. Honestly people should stop pressuring other people on such huge choices.
Im an only child and I have one son…I have seen him right up to university now…I never want to have more children than I can spiritually, mentally n financially afford! Nooo way👏🏾
It's Akah adjusting Claires skirt for me😍😍..adorable people
Now when I look at Akah all I see is MOG🥳Love you guys ❤️
Lmaooo😹😹 not Akah covering up Claire’s laps….so cute🥹🤧♥️
I totally agree with Akah. 2 kids tops and adopt any more. Depends on how the mood goes and how the future stays, might be one biological and stop. Cos omo, ovaries can shift wen u c fine pics but ovaries don't take care of the children wen they come or pay school fees
I absolutely love when u concluded with letting Gods template be and yielding to the Holy spirit.
That pretty much sums it up.
I love how the setting of this video relaxed and just went with the flow,....and it made a lotta sense too! ❣️
Clair I totally understand how you feel. This is me talking from experience give it more time before you seek permanent contraceptive. Am glad I didn’t tie my womb after my second child. More money came I got help and I had strong urge to expand my family which I did and am happy with my decision. I agree with Akah on this one. Love you guys
Thank you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
It's not about money, some people don't just want to have children. I wanted to tie my womb after my second child, the doctor refused because he felt that I may have a change of mind, 10 years later, I still don't desire more children; the mere thought of getting pregnant scares me.
@@salvation7300 Remember my reply is based on my own personal experience. I didn’t realize that all I needed was just help and money to change my mind. Don’t forget we are talking about Permanent contraceptive here, there are other temporary contraceptive options until you are fully sure. That’s all am saying, child bearing is not a joke. I will never make any woman do what she doesn’t want to do. It’s her body.
@@chinnyn4104 Your comment is wise and doesn't sound like pressure.
So happy Diana's content is so appreciated here mehn.
Truly she is a force to be reckoned with. How she does it is a myth.
It’s the way you guys play for me😂😂😂
I really want to have this kind of relationship with my husband where we can be so free to play and laugh🥺🥺
Akah has grown, just making sense ear and dear 😂😂 I’m always so amazed by Claire’s level of self-awareness ❤️ Love you guys 🥰
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Loved every bit of this video. A wake up call to the importance of intentionality and self-awareness required before getting into this journey of parenthood. Missed you both on here 🤗It’s the banter for me😂😂😂
U guys are still very young... never say never..I have one child and I know how much he wishes for a sibling.
True Talk. Raising Godly kids and giving them a better life and doing it right that's the true goal. Thanks so much for this.
Bless your heart.
The best duo! 😘 Love ur authenticity, energy and dynamic! How many children did Elizabeth born!🤣😂🤣*crickets… honestly the earth is full! Adoption is also an option pls and I think we need to be ok with people saying they don’t want more kids or don’t even want to have kids. Many children need mothering!!
Claire that your Yoruba took me out😩😩😩
God bless u both!❤️
I love how the conversation flowed naturally goshhh🥰🥰
The earlier you shut out people from thinking their "advice" must be taken by force, the better.
The number of times I laughed watching this video 😂. I love the camaraderie and love radiating from you guys
Oh my Goodness 😆😆😆😆
Your friendship and relationship is very original, Akah’s hyperactive nature is practically robbing off on Claire, I’ve watched you two for so long. Your communication is beautiful 😍
This is definitely my best video so far, I love how it's so real, plus claire finally matching up to Akah's energy.
Can't wait for your next video on contraceptives, adverse effects nd family planning
The both of you are so funny! The connection is amazing😩😍
You guys!😂, even when you try having a serious conversation you’re still unseriously serious😂
My people I miss you guys. Go girl you can do it. Having babies is something we should be confortable doing. My first daughter is 5 and my second daughter is almost 11 months old and for some reason my period delayed and I freaked out. See happiness when I saw my period. Motherhood isn't a joke but we have the grace to go through it.
Nice one! I totally agree that every destiny is different. Some people marry and decide to have just 1 child or not to have any kids at all.
I always enjoy listening to the both of you .your conten is always inviting. ..I admire the way Akah leads his marriage its evident there is God in it ..
good to hear from you guys mob love.
The way they argued about dyna and sisiyemi is very Funny 😀😂 these two are hilarious 🤣
Akah and Claire thank you for for this part where you said, as a Christian you have to be intentional about your decisions. Don't just go with the flow. I watched the video at the right time..❤
I've liked ooo. Without even watching. My love for you guys no be here. I hope to meet you two someday😍😍
Loveeeeeeee this! The transparency, honesty and love is so real that it can be felt and touched. 🥺
I knowwwwww 🥺🥺
I love how real this is always.
Akah’s laughter is something else 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
When Claire said “I will meet you in the comment session” she sounded like a secondary school Principal 🤣🤣🤣🤣🥲
5:17 !!!!! the loud silence my Lord. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please from the title alone😭😭, we (youtube family) were your first babies and then Gabs came to take our spotlight but we dont mind shes our star😤🥲 if she doesnt who will, your first baby misses you😭
Love the banter and friendship between you two 😂😂❤ Great content!
I love how Akah made sure what you listed wasn’t in any particular order😂😭
Dwl at the two of you. Great seeing you two, I thought I accidentally turned off the notification on your videos. Do what's best for your family. If you didn't have a child that would have been a problem for some, to have one child is a problem for others, totally ridiculous. How do people with the exception of our parents, find the time to be involved in other people's relationships, to want to decide for them when they should have kids, and the number of kids 🤔 I will never understand it. It's great the love that you two share keep loving each other, communicating and keeping God first.
Nice content 👍🏾 I've been saying it that people need to just stop asking questions that is not their business, it's very annoying, what is it your business when I'm planning to have a baby 😠
I can totally relate, i wanted 6 six kids but ended up being single mum of a very beautiful girl and decided, i was done!!! i am not even prepared to marry because i don't want to be pressured to have kids for the husband.
Hmmmmmm
Abeg come and marry because I don't want kids and almost every woman wants a child so since you have one already. I am good
@@tobiastauna4020 this was unexpected😂😂🤣
Na true na
I’m married with a kid and if I must have another one I only want one more, but in my tribe you’re shamed if you don’t Want alot of kids so I’ll definitely be pressured and shamed into having more😭
If you had considered this, you would not have had Gaby. Speaking to you as someone who has 2 kids on consecutive years. I will say, it’s the best thing. I breastfed the two, bought baby food, diapers, car seat, baby sitters and all together.
They are bigger now and like twins. Doing very well. Best friends. They can be upstairs doing their own thing while I do mine. Now although they are young, I and my husband can go on a date and they are able to stay home together. In playgrounds, they come and get into the game together whereas single babies come and get shy seeing strangers. Most times they have to get them parents to boost their confidence. Except you don’t want more kids. If you do, it’s easier done closer together.
I really really love this conversation. Very important conversation. Thank you for sharing.
you set me up.. That took me off.. hahaha
This is an amazing video💯learnt from it,laughed so hard too😆😆😆(Akah is a comedian)Love how honest and comfortable you two are with each other❤️Akah adjusting Claire’s skirt? Attention to detail that’s often overlooked.Stay blessed 🙏❤️
I observed it. Ooh. I just smiled when he did that❤️❤️
I was looking for a comment like this😂
Babies are very humbling!! They come when you least expect it.
I swear I remember that 'kissing' line when you were still dating.
When I saw 'man of God' I say Akahhhh oooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Akah the Internet doesn't forget..we will remind you of this vasectomy vow in 5 years time🤣🤣🤣
That line from Pastor Laju’s Sermon 😅❤️
It's Akah's laugh for me😂
Btw, I missed you guys oh! 🤣🤞
Not me laughing while U guys are also laughing 😁
😂😂😂😂. Sis I Yemmie has 3kids (2girls and a boy) and Dyna has 2kids and expecting her last baby 😂
I love you guys jor 😍 Asin as a new youtuber with jst one baby, I use to wonder how Dyna Ekwueme does it effortlessly
To be honest yeah I feel when I finally get married and get pregnant and push the baby out of me, I’ll literally cry till that baby grows up because... babies are a lot ain’t gonna lie and I’m also still a baby🥲 e fit tuff😪
Love watching you two banter😂 praying for a partner like this 💕 love you guys
I just love the way Akah adjusted Claire's gown nicely. God bless your home
Preach it pastor Akah😂
Claire! 🤣🤣 My ovaries are not even shaking😆
Aunty Claire’s faceeee😂😂😂😂
Wow!!!! I watch your movie yesterday night Sir , The man of God …… so interesting 🧐 I’m so surprised to see you and your beautiful wife now ,,,, I’m a huge fan now 🥵💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
Waoh!!!👏👏 My first time here and i love every bit of it...i love the friendship you two share. God bless you both
I loved this content 💯 and both of you steadily crack me up 😂 🤣😂
Miss you both 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
Know the template for your life and family. Run your own race!
Fact❗❗❗❕❕
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I'm rolling. Akah said let's leave the examples in the bible 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for being honest in this video.
Claire me and you are THE EXACT SAME. I had my daughter 5 years ago and I am DONE! I don’t get baby fever when I see people having numerous kids… I am just amazed at how they are doing it and I tell myself ‘we are definitely different’ 😅 my mom was surprised when I told her I had taken contraception for 5 years… with only 1 child! But I’m good where I am! 💯
Me too my daughter is 3 going to be 4 soon and I still don’t want another baby 😂I’m good.
I literally laughed all the way through this video 🤣🤣
Good. News. Akah. And. Clair. Is. Having. A. Second. Child. Congrats. Too both. Of. Them. I love. Looking. At. Both. Dance. Together. Always.
He said she pressured him😂😂😂😂she wore red sexy lingerie with pink tie😂😂😂. Akan please you weren’t under duress, you did it willingly😃😃😃🏃🏃
You guys are the best. I'm just here laughing because recently, God has been showing me things about what my marriage would be like and in the course of watching this video, I'm literally seeing more and I'm astonished
My friend encouraged me to come here, even if I was a serious fan some years back , I'm back and I'm glad. This was an amazing video😂😂❤️❤️❤️loved it
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣Akahhhhh!!!!!!😂😂😂😂who forced you
Looolll
I have an only child not by design because I have always wanted 3 or 4 kids. However, my daughter doesn’t like it and wants a sibling soooo bad. Sometimes, she is really sad about not having siblings, and I feel sad when she gets really sad about it.
We are considering other options.
Also, when kids get to a certain age, not having siblings can be a lonely path for them.
Also, when there are multiple kids at home and as kids gets older, couples tend to have better “me times” than when the child is alone and mostly his/her resolves around the parents, TV, internet etc.
Also, when they grow up, there are ways siblings support each other that’s not easily found in other relationships to the same degree.
I think the need for multiple kids can be multidimensional and doesn’t only rest on us but also on that 1 child we bring to this world. Of cause all under reason & not against our own abilities.
These are my thoughts from my little experience as a mother with an only child. She is 9 years old.
I agree with you to a very large extent. The child grows up lonely..I can say that from experience cos I was an only child for more than 20 years.
And also as an adult, there are a lot of times I wish I had siblings that will help me out with but there's no one but God.....
If one can,its always best to have more than a child,not just for you as a parent but for the Child...it can be really lonely.
Same as me..My Son wants a sibling
I'm a victim 😢
I've no siblings at all
Nobody can tell me anything. Akah's energy has definitely rubbed off on Claire
It's beautiful to see though 😍
Hahahhaaaaa
I so much agree with you 💯
I so much agreeeeeeeeee. You are observant
Chop 5🖐
This was so much fun to watch
I fully agree
Omgggg she talked about the kissing thing😂😂🤣
I couldn't stop myself from laughing 😂😃 my fave I really learnt alot from this video
You two got me lol till d end. I even forgot I have been TTC. thanks u two 😘 💓 💗 ❤️
Hurray 🤣! Let me continue watching first 🤣
I totally love how real the video is
Really enjoyed this video. You guys remind me so much of my parents. They had so many plans and goals for themselves and our family.
But I will say, as an adult I wish I had a sibling. Especially since losing my parents. And being fairly young. It's hard being alone. I have friends and family. But it's not the same.
Claire's laughter is so infectious🤣🤣
I just love Claire 😍💕
This particular content I really enjoyed 👏
So happy to see Mr & Mrs Nnani again💃💃💃
Hmnnnn… “We get Gabby right” That’s so good!!!! The Lord will help you both
Kindly give Gabby a sibling, she will need one in her life. You guys won't regret it. It doesn't need to be now, u can do it later.
My beautiful Akah and Claire oo, welcome back.
I so applaud Claire on this one. My son birth such a traumatic experience and to vowed not to have any more after him. Two years down the line I found out I was pregnant with my daughter and I was very disappointed on myself . Knowing how hard it will be with two kids in a another country without any family around to her. So I wish I was firm on my decision before my second baby. She is currently three months and my son is three years old. There are days when I feel like I lost myself and I don’t recognize the shell of the person that is within me. It’s important to have a template of our lives for sure.
Sending you virtual hugs. 🤗❤️❤️
Like you guys nailed this!!! I’m always on this stance but just two children. This one I have sef, I’m really trying to figure the whole motherhood thing out not to talk about more than two.
😂😂jst laughing all through,why does Clare speaks my mind like it's as if she is me..This is so my decision and that's period.
Such a real conversation...love you guys
When you see their content, appreciate them, true😀. Not you and Akah arguing about the number of children Dyna and Sisi Yemmie have😂
😂😂😂Laughed all through. Can't relate as per single lady but it was really fun to watch🧡
It's as if having only one child in our part of the world is an abomination. I cannot imagine going through pregnancy, childbirth and the whole process altogether. I feel you on this. May God help us all.
Akah's laughter😂
Akah: Talk to me direct, don't talk at my back.😂😂😂
😂😂😂 Sisi Yemmie and Dyna's comments