it seems like everything nowadays is acceptable. I can't believe they're justifying staying in a relationship after sleeping with other people. this is crazy to me.
When you cheat when you are in a monogamous relationship, then the cheater DECIDED that the relationship was over in the wrongest way possible. But they did. They were little boys/little girls trapped in adult bodies that do not have the spine to verbally say that the relationship is over. So they go out and betray the relationship, because they dont or cant communicate. So yes. If you cheat on me, good bye. Okay. You decided to end the relationship that we had. I don't understand the drama. Bye. 9 billion people out there and I am going to put myself in a situation with someone who disrespected me? Nah, no thanks. Bye, ashy.
Why is this even a question? Cheating is cheating is cheating is cheating. Whether it's 12 days, 12 months, 12 years, 12 kids. No. Disloyalty and dishonesty is unforgivable. And whenever someone decides to cheat they're deciding right then and there that the relationship is over.
Staying with a cheater is a sign of weakness more than strength and devotion. You're more afraid of being alone and starting over once you're 14 years in if you stay stay in an untrustworthy situation. Once someone breaks that trust it's going to be tainted forever because now you have reason to question EVERYTHING they say or do. Having kids makes it harder to cut the cord. But once the trust is gone, its gone.
In the words of Wale, WHERE DA FUCK THE LOYALTY AT..... I'm not boutta cheat on you if were in one, I expect the same respect in return. Simple as that.
Trust n Respect is very important in any partnership whether it's a relationship or marriage. If my husband cheated I wouldn't leave but if a child is created outside of our marriage then, yes absolutely I'm out. Especially if we have kids together. However, try to have a understanding as to why it even happened in the first place. If cheating happens consistently, I would not stay. if it happens once let's work through it n trust that it will not happen again. Some people are entitled to forgiveness especially when there's a history n substance to the partnership as far as ups and downs. it takes two to make it work. Blessings to you all.
if you are willing to stay with someone who cheats on you to not be single then quite frankly you shouldnt be in a relationship. you should love yourself enough to enjoy your own company and grow into a superstar without being bonded to someone. So many people in the world and youre going to stay with someone who cheats? thats not right. I will forgive you, but i wont be with you. simple. and quite frankly even if children are involved, i want my children to know that i respect myself enough to not be with someone who has shown me the highest form of disrespect. you cannot justfy cheating; ever. If youre feeling some type of way talk about it. but if you cheat, bye.i WILL be single to my grave if that means i dont have to stay with people that cheat on me. FUCK NO. we need to bring morals and mutual respect back into society. and quite frankly i find it hard to respect/understand anyone that will stay with someone unfaithful.
maybe there's some misunderstanding here. I love myself greatly n don't need a man to make me happy. I'm not desperate. lol the point I'm trying to make is that shit happens however on the contrary nobody should b with anyone that clearly doesn't have respect for themselves, you n the relationship. lol let's not get this twisted. I'm almost sure u understand where I'm coming from.
I think the answer depends on who your are and the values you have. If you have kids, then it is a different story all together, but I personally don't think I can stay if someone has been unfaithful.
cheating is defined by ones perception... it can be so many things.. but to act like keeping someone after it, us normal or acceptable? thats crazy.... what about self respect, self worth, self value? sorry... 90% chance im gone.. 10% is because i never experienced it, so hard to say.. far as not married with someone for 3 or less years? i leave them quick 3 yrs and less aint sht...
IDGAF about how many years we got, how many kids we have, nun of that.... if my girl cheat on me its a WRAP, DONE, OVER WITH because i would NEVER cheat on my girl under any circumstances. I wouldnt be able to trust her anymore, my heart would be broke, and i would never forget that. Life is about choices and if she decide to cheat then im deciding to leave her. Period.
Rosenberg and Ebro are full of it, right now!!! They are acting like infidelity isn't a legit deal breaker in a marriage!! And you are supposed to stay because you have kids?!?!
To play devil's advocate if you put so much trust into someone over however many years and they violate it in such a major way shit is likely not going to be the same for the party whose trust was violated for a lot it may be better to get out because they just always hold that resentment. I feel like it was Rosenberg(might be wrong) that said relationships are like foil once it's crumpled you can try your best to straighten it out but the creases will always be there.
They downplaying what cheating does. Once that bond and trust is broken, a relationship is nothing. Not many relationships survive after infidelity.' The relationship is going to be hell afterwards.
knowing me, I'd be left with 4 options: 1) Leave 2)Cheat 3)Backhand 4)All the above I only fell this way cuz I pride myself on being a faithful individual. And I don't hit females (that haven't hit me first) but I already know I would be blazed af and lose it.
I would be gone in a heartbeat and no amount of bullshit crying or hearsay will change my mind. There are are billions of women on the planet, millions in my own state and thousands in my city...why the hell would I waste my time on someone who can't stay committed to me? If you were cheated on, move the fuck on. You WILL find someone else, especially if you're a decent person.
MEN DO HAVE INTUITION. Men have been convinced that only women have intuition. Men, trust your gut. My gut has always been right, though I haven't always listened.
Naw Hot 97 got this shit FUCKED UP. If they gonna play the "family card" then FULLY PLAY THAT SHIT. I have childhood friends that there parents got a divorce because of cheating but guess what, their parents told them what was going on. The kids were in there early- mid teens and understood what happened. They started to really feel some type of way against the parent who cheated and I agree with that. Like at the end of the day they still loved them but definitely understood that was not in any way okay and it hurt EVERYONE IN THE FAMILY. It was very hard for this family because they were close and loved there parents a lot, but the kids wanted there parents to separate because they felt uncomfortable and didn't see the parent who cheated the same way which I understand.What I'm saying is don't play the FAMILY CARD and if they older then 12 tell your FAMILY WHATS GOING ON and most likely the kids aren't gonna be cool with that shit too!
of course she's mine and I'm hers. our relationship is built on each other being their for trust and hard times. no matter what our circumstances. if she Kevin Durants me and comes back then it's over.
Cheating or having multiple women is in men nature, that is one thing women never understand, brand did what any other man out there in a relationship could have done''when given the chance''
With the 14 year old marries. Just because you married so long and they cheat does that mean it's ok? No bih , the whole hot 97 saying that you can't say nun, But shouldn't she know that she is married for 14 years and talking to a nigga isn't ok
But what's the point of getting mad if there's no chance of you leaving? Your just blowing hot air then. Hell I can cheat on you twice a week and let you holler and complain and go do it again who cares you ain't leaving
you niggas crazy she cheat she gone its no purpose of being in a relationship if we gon be cheating on each other just be single and play the field or be in a real committed relationship.....
If i take the time to get to the point where im married with you then i have put all my chips on the table once you break that trust if you really are the woman i love im out. Just like if i did the same shit i wouldn't expect you to stay with my cheating ass.,
Since when is CHEATING ever ok?
it seems like everything nowadays is acceptable. I can't believe they're justifying staying in a relationship after sleeping with other people. this is crazy to me.
Embo Slays right?! I don't understand it
6SyNs exactly!
When you cheat when you are in a monogamous relationship, then the cheater DECIDED that the relationship was over in the wrongest way possible. But they did. They were little boys/little girls trapped in adult bodies that do not have the spine to verbally say that the relationship is over. So they go out and betray the relationship, because they dont or cant communicate.
So yes. If you cheat on me, good bye. Okay. You decided to end the relationship that we had. I don't understand the drama. Bye.
9 billion people out there and I am going to put myself in a situation with someone who disrespected me? Nah, no thanks.
Bye, ashy.
100%
Why is this even a question? Cheating is cheating is cheating is cheating. Whether it's 12 days, 12 months, 12 years, 12 kids. No. Disloyalty and dishonesty is unforgivable. And whenever someone decides to cheat they're deciding right then and there that the relationship is over.
Happy parents divorced and living apart are much better than miserable parents staying together and then taking out their frustrations on the child.
I'm OUT before she even finishes the sentence. .Ebro and them are either fronting for the radio, or absolute SIMPS. .
Rosenberg basically gave his wife the pass too smash the homie.. because she knows he aint gnna do shit about it.
exactly
As a man if u stay with a girl after she cheated I feel like your kinda emasculated. 😔
Staying with a cheater is a sign of weakness more than strength and devotion. You're more afraid of being alone and starting over once you're 14 years in if you stay stay in an untrustworthy situation. Once someone breaks that trust it's going to be tainted forever because now you have reason to question EVERYTHING they say or do. Having kids makes it harder to cut the cord. But once the trust is gone, its gone.
Ebro and Rosenberg just gave their girl a pass to cheat and don't even know it 😂
In the words of Wale, WHERE DA FUCK THE LOYALTY AT..... I'm not boutta cheat on you if were in one, I expect the same respect in return. Simple as that.
Whether you get married to someone or not, how is to ok to take their shit when they cheat on you? Fuck that.
If someone cheats it's fair game.
These folks swear they trained psychologists
So how many jumpoffs would these dudes allow before they've had enough
Remember it's not yours, it's just your turn...
and I hate how if anyone has a different opinion than these three they treat them like shit there's no objectivity
So what they're saying is that cheating is that cheating okay? they're all clowns
Thought it was gon be bout Dex👎🏾
SHITS LIT UP HERE at 97🔘
Soooo we're talking people into staying with cheaters now?
Of course I'm leaving my wife if she cheats. What's the point of being MARRIED then?! If you want to cheat don't waste my time!
Damn!!! Old man Ebro just schooled a young boy!!! Thanks man!!!
Damn I was rooting for the male callers until they admitted they cheated themselves! 😓😤
My temper is too ridiculous to allow me to stay with you after you cheat! I believe cheating punishable by death, so no! Cause I'd be booked
I know peters wife already cheated or will and he knows it .
Trust n Respect is very important in any partnership whether it's a relationship or marriage. If my husband cheated I wouldn't leave but if a child is created outside of our marriage then, yes absolutely I'm out. Especially if we have kids together. However, try to have a understanding as to why it even happened in the first place. If cheating happens consistently, I would not stay. if it happens once let's work through it n trust that it will not happen again. Some people are entitled to forgiveness especially when there's a history n substance to the partnership as far as ups and downs. it takes two to make it work. Blessings to you all.
if my partner cheats n I get a STD I'm definitely out
Oh c'mon now. There is a very thin line between disrespect n violation. That would definitely b considered a violation. I would not stay.
if you are willing to stay with someone who cheats on you to not be single then quite frankly you shouldnt be in a relationship. you should love yourself enough to enjoy your own company and grow into a superstar without being bonded to someone. So many people in the world and youre going to stay with someone who cheats? thats not right. I will forgive you, but i wont be with you. simple. and quite frankly even if children are involved, i want my children to know that i respect myself enough to not be with someone who has shown me the highest form of disrespect. you cannot justfy cheating; ever. If youre feeling some type of way talk about it. but if you cheat, bye.i WILL be single to my grave if that means i dont have to stay with people that cheat on me. FUCK NO. we need to bring morals and mutual respect back into society. and quite frankly i find it hard to respect/understand anyone that will stay with someone unfaithful.
maybe there's some misunderstanding here. I love myself greatly n don't need a man to make me happy. I'm not desperate. lol the point I'm trying to make is that shit happens however on the contrary nobody should b with anyone that clearly doesn't have respect for themselves, you n the relationship. lol let's not get this twisted. I'm almost sure u understand where I'm coming from.
oh right. ok I got you now ☺
One sentence. They will be found in a body bag.
show us your dp lil kid
I think the answer depends on who your are and the values you have. If you have kids, then it is a different story all together, but I personally don't think I can stay if someone has been unfaithful.
Unforgivable
cheating is defined by ones perception... it can be so many things.. but to act like keeping someone after it, us normal or acceptable? thats crazy.... what about self respect, self worth, self value? sorry... 90% chance im gone.. 10% is because i never experienced it, so hard to say.. far as not married with someone for 3 or less years? i leave them quick 3 yrs and less aint sht...
IDGAF about how many years we got, how many kids we have, nun of that.... if my girl cheat on me its a WRAP, DONE, OVER WITH because i would NEVER cheat on my girl under any circumstances. I wouldnt be able to trust her anymore, my heart would be broke, and i would never forget that. Life is about choices and if she decide to cheat then im deciding to leave her. Period.
hell yes at the drop of a dime
I tell my girl to her face all the time " I would kill you if you cheated on me." She be highkey scared af but I only feel that way cuz I love her.
I see my girl as a possession Bc she is mine just like I'm hers lol we don't own each other but we belong to each other I really didn't get that
Loool "see there yall go again"
Rosenberg and Ebro are full of it, right now!!! They are acting like infidelity isn't a legit deal breaker in a marriage!! And you are supposed to stay because you have kids?!?!
To play devil's advocate if you put so much trust into someone over however many years and they violate it in such a major way shit is likely not going to be the same for the party whose trust was violated for a lot it may be better to get out because they just always hold that resentment. I feel like it was Rosenberg(might be wrong) that said relationships are like foil once it's crumpled you can try your best to straighten it out but the creases will always be there.
They downplaying what cheating does.
Once that bond and trust is broken, a relationship is nothing. Not many relationships survive after infidelity.'
The relationship is going to be hell afterwards.
knowing me, I'd be left with 4 options:
1) Leave
2)Cheat
3)Backhand
4)All the above
I only fell this way cuz I pride myself on being a faithful individual. And I don't hit females (that haven't hit me first) but I already know I would be blazed af and lose it.
If my girl cheat on me I'm just gonna get even point blank
hell yea. I've invested too much time and 5 kids. been with her for 12 years and I'm 27. couldn't take it. leave her ass so fast
Hot 97 Simpin 101. lmfao.
Ebro is a LIAR. He knows good and well that he would break up with his girl if she cheated. He's a little man child.
If your spouse loves you unconditionaly, they would not cheat on you.
I stayed with my ex for months trying to forgive her but she just found other ways to disrespect me.
Sorry to hear that.
I would be gone in a heartbeat and no amount of bullshit crying or hearsay will change my mind. There are are billions of women on the planet, millions in my own state and thousands in my city...why the hell would I waste my time on someone who can't stay committed to me?
If you were cheated on, move the fuck on. You WILL find someone else, especially if you're a decent person.
Ebro is the sigmeund freud of hot 97. What a profound thinker 🤔
I wish I could of been a caller
Rosenberg & Ebro turned into women B lol....fellas, if your girl is getting smashed by me, leave her
MEN DO HAVE INTUITION. Men have been convinced that only women have intuition. Men, trust your gut. My gut has always been right, though I haven't always listened.
Why are they going afyer this dude for saying he wouldn't stay if his lady cheated. I'd be fuckin gone.
every relationship is not the same
Naw Hot 97 got this shit FUCKED UP. If they gonna play the "family card" then FULLY PLAY THAT SHIT. I have childhood friends that there parents got a divorce because of cheating but guess what, their parents told them what was going on. The kids were in there early- mid teens and understood what happened. They started to really feel some type of way against the parent who cheated and I agree with that. Like at the end of the day they still loved them but definitely understood that was not in any way okay and it hurt EVERYONE IN THE FAMILY. It was very hard for this family because they were close and loved there parents a lot, but the kids wanted there parents to separate because they felt uncomfortable and didn't see the parent who cheated the same way which I understand.What I'm saying is don't play the FAMILY CARD and if they older then 12 tell your FAMILY WHATS GOING ON and most likely the kids aren't gonna be cool with that shit too!
of course she's mine and I'm hers. our relationship is built on each other being their for trust and hard times. no matter what our circumstances. if she Kevin Durants me and comes back then it's over.
So yall saying this dude can never ever leave??
ummmm are yall tryna justify homies woman cheating after they been together for 14 years an had 2 kids?
But what if the person who cheated fell in love with the person they cheated with?
Cheating can be forgiven on both sides. it just counts on how big ya heart is gshit . but if it happens twice. then u question it
Cheating or having multiple women is in men nature, that is one thing women never understand, brand did what any other man out there in a relationship could have done''when given the chance''
People are dumb SMH you have that low of self esteem that you would stay with a cheater....
Good luck with that...
it aight about me hahahahaha
With the 14 year old marries. Just because you married so long and they cheat does that mean it's ok? No bih , the whole hot 97 saying that you can't say nun, But shouldn't she know that she is married for 14 years and talking to a nigga isn't ok
It depends on the circumstances
I can't mess with rosen latey
But what's the point of getting mad if there's no chance of you leaving? Your just blowing hot air then. Hell I can cheat on you twice a week and let you holler and complain and go do it again who cares you ain't leaving
Rosenberg's shirt tho!!!!
Jaqwan Hunt Word lol.
Just do it like Nike says tf?
Ebro n em not really listening and thinking just shouting and judging that's not how people actually get better or change
But a woman is your possession, woman means female servant or subordinate
What type of question is that?
easy, yes
Ebro is accurate!!!
you niggas crazy she cheat she gone its no purpose of being in a relationship if we gon be cheating on each other just be single and play the field or be in a real committed relationship.....
I expected this from Rosenberg. But Shani and Ebro smh yall some simps
Yes
once a cheater, always a cheater @ ADRIANA #FaZeUp
SHUT UP !!! lol
What the fuck? Nigga yes. End of podcast.
lmao so no one can have an opinion?
If i take the time to get to the point where im married with you then i have put all my chips on the table once you break that trust if you really are the woman i love im out. Just like if i did the same shit i wouldn't expect you to stay with my cheating ass.,
Depends
This is so incredibly stupid. People need to remember just to love and respect themselves cos this bullshit advice about cheating wont take u far
Yep
This is bad real bad Michael Jackson...see now I'm mad real mad joe jackson
What about abuse?
Who hurt Ebro??🤔🤔🤔
Ebro deep yo!
redpill, nuff said
@ Adrianna
FUCK THAT im out homie
Yow all you over at hot 97 are delusional except shawnee
Rosenberg is such a lame
yall goofy asf.
@ FaZe Adapt
Fuck that bitch adrianna
Duh
I cheated 37 times so i will let one Kiss slide
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 it really be like this