"Are you CRAZY!?" » No Car, EXTREME MINIMALISM, Healing from Emotional Trauma, and More | FAMILY Q&A
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- Опубліковано 29 січ 2022
- Are we an extreme minimalist family? Did he have problems with me having TOO MUCH CLUTTER? And what exactly was the weirdest thing we've ever done to make extra money? Today is Part 2 of our 100k Thank You video series that we made according to your poll. Hope you enjoy this personal family Q&A with us as we share our take on living a minimalist lifestyle.
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It always blows my mind that people feel the need to tear down a total stranger to make themselves feel better. So disgusting. It has taken me a long time to truly not care what other people think. You two are amazing and inspirational. Thanks for all the content you provide.
Thanks so much Raven! 🙌 I think yours is the healthier habit.
I agree!! Marissa you are an amazing person. Ignore the haters. When you put your life out there for all to see, there will be haters. Focus on the positives!! You are an inspiration.
You’re an inspiration!!!
So well said❤ I know it's about a year late!! Totally agree!
Yes, your husband is right. You are so incredibly brave, to show yourself so vulnerable on social media. I would not have the guts to do so. But exactly this makes your channel so valuable for me and many others. Let those people just talk and try not to let it through to your heart.
Sorry Marissa, I’m on the no rug team. When we renovated our house and changed from rugs to hardwood we realized how nasty they were. Hardwood is so easy to keep clean. I don’t mind the echoes at all, and love your spacious home. Love your videos too.
This needs more likes! Rugs are so terrible and Marissa does such a good job that I don't hear that much echo either (only a bit in the bathroom but that's not the place where she usually makes films).
yes they r super nasty ...only 1% of people are able to keep it spikc n span ,,,that too mostly are single people or kidfree couples
My thoughts on meanies: it’s a THEM problem, not a ME problem! You’re amazing marissa - grouchy people love the comments section. Keep spreading all the good minimalist vibes!! 💫
That’s what I try to remind myself! ☺️ Thanks so much for watching and for the support.
Agree with that
It's really true. Anyone who says hateful things like that has a lot of pain and anger in them somewhere. It's not about you.
I agree! Like Deepak Chopra said, “ What other people think of you is not your business.“
Marissa I am astonished that people are mean to you. They must be unhappy. You are a lovely couple and so well suited to each other. Thank you for your willingness to be vulnerable for us all!
Your house is not boring, you're not annoying. Screw the mean people. We LOVE you and your family🥰🥰🥰🥰You are a kind soul and a super star in our eyes🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
☺️🙏✨
A clean house with few furniture where we can hear an echo is my dream home. It is so easy to fill a house with all kinds of unnecessary stuff, but it requires very strong self-discipline to maintain a minimalist house. The less emotional attachment to materials, the more emotional freedom I have. Interestingly, when I was in my 20s I was a poor student, but I wanted to have a lot of stuff. Now I have no interest in buying anything that is not necessary. So, for me, minimalism is not just a way of life, it is also a philosophy of a way of life to pursue happiness.
Marissa I think the appeal is hearing from a husband who is on board with minimalism and you do really complement each other. Do you think he helped you overcome holding on to all that stuff?
Yes, I think he did, although I had to get past that mental barrier first myself! We help and compliment each other for sure. 🤗
There will always be “Haters” wherever you go….you are doing great!! They are not worth your time or energy just walk on by lovely lady. I love your vulnerability, emotionality and courage, You are so Real 🙏💖
Your house is Beautiful
Awww, your husband is so sweet and supportive! Love love love!!
I have found that my brothers children enjoy experiences over things as well. When I asked my niece what she wanted for her 5th birthday she said a dolls tea party. It didn't cost me anything & she loved it!!
That is wonderful!
I truly appreciate you and like you, Marissa. Mr. Zen is adorable in his own way. That's why we like to see a glimpse of him, too.
He is handsome......and seems like a nice guy.
@@1_viewer i second that
Count me in for the no spend! You and Mr. Zen are such a cute couple. My heart melted when he said that your happiness is important to him...:)
Please remember, only people who are damaged and unhappy in their own lives are hateful so please try to ignore the negative comments. You have a beautiful family.
Fantastic video! I’m team rug. My neighbors have ruggables and toss them in the wash. Some of my childhood memories with my mom was spending a warm day hand washing our oriental area rugs outside with dish soap- pretty easy- good workout 😄 I find that they don’t get that dirty because we don’t wear shoes in the house and don’t eat outside of the kitchen/dining area.
What a special story, thank you for sharing with me! When you say it like that it sounds FUN. 😆
“For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of”. You are such an inspiration for all of us. You present yourself raw and that's amazing, because we can see a REAL person, who struggles and suffers and feels, we are here because we are trying to make a better version of ourselves and you are helping us with that, and for that I am really grateful with you. You are so generous and sweet, don't let the ugly comments stain your beautiful soul. Keep being you because you rock girl!
“You have limited time” such a golden nugget to keep in mind. Definitely helps with staying motivated. Keeps me on task when decluttering. Helps when eating that elephant 🐘 one bite at a time. If not now? When? I, however will always have time for your videos. I find a lot of value in them, they are a treat. It’s my reward after tackling a job.
Thanks so much Yolanda, glad you enjoyed. ✨
“The trouble is, you think you have time.”
Buddha
You’re not crazy! Minimalism is the best
Glad you are one of the commentators who agree 😆
Thank you so much for sharing your story! It has been so encouraging for me. My mom passed when I was 11, and I was the only person (and am) that will take responsibility for her things. For years I had boxes and boxes that I would store and drag all over the place. I have never heard anyone else talk about their emotions dealing with these items - particularly the burden they can become for the bereaved. Your story gave me the courage to let go of some of that. Her trophies, and plaques from high school, and things like that. I know these items were important to her at one point, but I also know she wouldn’t want me to take the time and effort and emotional space to hang onto these things. My fiancé and I are now working on getting our home to work for us rather than working for it! Thank you so much for your advice and sharing 💕
Yes, I totally agree. You don’t have to be responsible for those memories of HERS for the rest of YOUR life. Hugs and healing to you my friend. ❤️🩹
That must be such a large and difficult task! All the best
coming here a month later to give you more encouragement! it’s a process and can take time. 😊
Your husband is so sweet, though. He really loves you so much even if he does not talk about it so often. You can see it, watching his body language. ❤ You are a great couple.
Yay! You answered my question! Thanks! You are brave to have your own UA-cam channel! It would be hard navigating negative comments. You handle it so well. Your worth is not determined on other people’s opinions of you. Thank you for sharing your heart and your life with the world! 💕
Thanks so much for your question, and all the kind words and support Stephanie! Cheers. ❤️
Liebe Marisa,
Thank you for being so brave and generous.
Love and Bliss to you and your family
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In this time of digitalization, bullying moved on these kind of platforms and it is not acceptable. As everyone has the freedom to say what they want, you also have the right/freedom to delete and ignore these malice comments as it is your channel/your platform, you should not accept any bullying from anyone!
Rugs: one by an entryway, one by the shower bath, one at the kitchen sink. Hard floors are so easy to clean!
And they are homemade.
I'm on the "no rugs" team! I think your house is just about perfect. Not too sparse, lots of space, and no clutter! I could definitely live in a space like this 😁👍👍
So nice to see you and Mr Zen today. Thank you both for your sunny outlook and good luck with your project Mr Zen!
You guys are great! So glad you are back...love watching your videos!
Team rug! Your honesty and humour is the best part of these videos, so thanks for courage! I think it´s really something people can identify with.
This was a wonderful video. It's great to get to know you better, Marissa, and knowing your family better is a big part of that. Thank you and Mr. Zen for being so willing to share.
Love you guys! Thanks for making videos that are like a warm hug of comfort and about what really matters in life. Time with our loved ones 🙂
He is so wonderful and supports you so much!! 🥺🤗
You are amazing and I appreciate all the work you do and all of the challenges you have faced on your journey. I love learning from you 😊
Lovely couple, beautiful home, thoughtful and generous content on a great channel. Thank you! 😊
You and your family are amazing! I love your home including the echos and all the empty space you have! Definitely not a boring home and who cares about what you wear as long as you feel good in them! Don’t change anything!
Thank you for sharing. I love your bravery, creativity, and heart of your videos
Loved the video! Your husband is so sweet and supportive. You have a beautiful family.
I love your channel so much, you have helped me lots, by being yourself and being honest about how hard it was it has enabled me to let go of stuff too, I find the criticism really sad, I get it’s not for everyone but then if if it doesn’t resonate don’t watch and move on, please keep being yourself, yourself is great xx edit- it’s your space so if you want a rug it’s up to you and if not that’s also your choice xx
I absolutely LOVE your home! It isn’t boring at all. It calms me just looking at it so I’m sure it’s an incredibly calming environment to live in!
Your house looks simple, beautiful, and peaceful. You guys are an inspiration to me!👍😎💖
Oh my gosh I love you and I just found your channel today and I am binge listening while I declutter. Thank you for your beautiful vulnerability and honesty. You and your family are precious. Your stories tug at my heart. I love your voice, your incredible home and your life. Thank you for being brave and sharing yourself with the world. I am so happy to have found you. I am emotional too and am learning to love that sensitive connected aspect of myself. Thank you for being you, here on UA-cam.
I love 💕 your channel. I’m shocked people say mean things. You have inspired me in many ways. Blessings to you & your family ☺️
I think you have a lovely warm home. It's always feels peaceful and spacious on your videos and your home life seems calm, happy and loving. I really enjoy your content and think it's nice seeing someone who is real.
This was so much fun. We love watching the 2 of you together
I adore you Marissa and really appreciate the emotional side of you. It makes me feel like it's ok for me to let it out too!! 😘
I’m team EVERYTHING! Your children are so beautiful.
Thank you so much! ☺️
Your home is gorgeous. I absolutely love 😍😍 everything. You and your family have been such an inspiration for me. I am working hard on my minimalism journey. Huge congratulations on your 100k
Thank you for all your videos Marissa! Boo to those mean people, bullies are never happy with anything in their lives sonthem want to spread the misery. You're amazing!
I'm enjoying you being back! You both are a lovely couple and family!
Thanks so much for your kind words. 🤗
I LOVE a peaceful echoey room, your home is wonderful… change nothing, it’s great as it is 👍🙏 Caroline 🇬🇧
Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I really enjoy your channel. You two are wonderful. ❤
Gracias Marissa , en realidad yo no sabía que era minimalista, me molestaba mucho, las cosas , ahorramos durante años, a pesar de las críticas de qué no teníamos los muebles y electrodomésticos de moda eran de 25 años , sin adornos yo pasaba depurando lo innecesario, era un hábito se compraba lo necesario únicamente , aún con el hijo , sus juguetes etc , hoy jubilados , tenemos una casa increíble y con sólo lo necesario , es limpia y tiene eco también, luz , y espacio, eres muy valiente , vivir diferente al resto es un reto hoy en día , sigue adelante ! Me gusta tu sinceridad y la de tú esposo e hijos , bendiciones !
You both are so delightful. I absolutely love your decor and how spacious your home is. Great q&a❤️
You are so right when you say that the memories are so much more valuable than things!
BTW I’m on the no rug team.
I particularly enjoy your voice! When I am cleaning/de-cluttering my own house, I put your videos on because your voice is soothing to listen to.
I’m always excited to watch your videos. I embrace your messages and your emotions draw me closer to you. Don’t change I love you
I’m glad we can have a “tribe” like this - cheers!
You are very inspiring. We are down sizing in a year to a house that is 2/3 smaller. We have 3 levels currently so to prepare I cleared out the top floor. Anything we kept had to fit in the 2 lower floors. We hardly kept any of it. Our adult kids had to collect any stuff they stored or get rid of it. Not wanting to fill their own spaces with stuff ...things lost their emotional value fast and they decided to part with most of it. Seeing your home and hearing your stories guided me a lot.
My friend loves her Ruggable! They have a re-jute one that looks great. Her rugs fit in her machine and always look fresh, even with four kids and two huge dogs(both puppies).
I love your channel! LOVE it! It has helped me so much in so many ways. Thank you for being vulnerable 💗
Seeing you getting tears in your eyes at the youtube part brought me tears in my eyes 😭
Marisa we just express our feelings! I needed to learn to accept that (can't watch any movie or series without tears lol - horror movies doesn't count)
I totally love your bravery with the emotional parts in your videos
I ordered the no spend bundle. Can't wait! 😁 You and Mr. Zen are an inspiration. I love how well you both work as a team.
Woohoo let’s DO THIS! ✨ I have a video coming out today sharing my tips, so keep your eyes peeled. 👀
You are such a lovely light in this world! And very courageous for sharing so many aspects of your life with us! 💖
If they're not hugging you or share walls with you, their opinions don't matter. People like to "one up" each other with bathing habits and aesthetics to make themselves feel better.
Thank you for being so generous in sharing your life with us!
So happy to find your UA-cam channel, you are both a breath of fresh air, you complement
Each other so well.
Please don’t even give negative people a thought, or if you do try to figure out where they are coming
From, usually it’s just they don’t like themselves so they don’t like anyone else.🌹🌹
That makes total sense about the rug. I've thought about the ruggable kind, too. Another echo-reducing option, if that matters to you, would be to hang a lovely tapestry or quilt.
This is also EXTREME CUTENESS!!!! You two are absolutely ADORABLE together!! The production value on this video with the sound effects and the rapport between you...this is one of my favorite videos you've ever given us! 💕💕
By the way, I’m a new subscriber and I love your channel. You are not squeaky at all… well, you’re squeaky clean, but I call that a plus. When you show footage of your home I relax immediately. So peaceful. Thank you for putting yourself out there.
I enjoyed this video. I can say you're a very hardworking, inspiring woman. Which gives too good advice for simplifying life, and much more. Thank you and your family👏👏👏🤗🤗🤗💖💖💖
It’s just so nice to see some minimalism videos with both of you! I think it’s important to share similar lifestyles with your partner, and you are just a great example of a beautiful couple.
I'm a newer follower. I wanted to say thank you for your channel. It helped me as I delcuttered, sold, and donated to move into a 5th wheel with my husband and 3 children. Your voice in the background gave me a calm during the times it felt so daunting. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story. 💓
I'm learning from your amazing videos! Thanks to you Angel 🦋🌺
You are awesome! Thank you! When a person is mean, it is a reflection of their soul…
Love your emotional moments. 💞
You have helped me so much with talking through the minimalism process with my mom. She's downsizing and is having massive difficulty letting go of sentimental items, but also understand the burden it will be if all of that stuff is left to my sister and I. You videos are helping me approach the subject with patience and understanding
So glad to hear it, the process sure isn’t easy but it’s WORTH IT. Cheering 📣 you on!
This was fun! I’m new to your channel and am loving it! You and Mr Zen are so king and respectful of each other and others. It is just fine that you show your emotions. You are being you, which is always good in my opinion. 😉
Just love you both, I can relate to everything you say about memories being best from experiences, and how you value space. I've had some very emotional moments alongside you, Marissa! ❤
I’m glad to have you along every step of the way, Kathryn. 🤗
I don’t think the echo is bad or distracting or any of that. I see (hear?) it as an audible picture of the decluttering you’ve done-to me it’s the soundtrack of minimalism, and I think it’s awesome. 😃 My house will never echo like that, and that’s okay, but it brings me peace of mind as I sit up in my cluttered craft room watching your videos. Thank you!
Marissa, I am new to your channel & I love your realness & rawness. You are so likeable & I very much appreciate your sense of humour! Mr Zen is such a gentle & calm presence & your boys are just adorable! It's unfortunate that some people feel the need to try & lift themselves up by tearing you down. It's pretty evident though that people who leave mean comments, deep down really aren't happy. 😊
I have one rug left, and I'm about to ditch it. Nice to know it's not a necessity. I think you both are incredible people, and I love how respectful you are of each other and your kids. This was a great video!!
I’m a rug person by a bed and a sofa even though I wear slippers only in my home. But they do need upkeep- vacuuming frequently and deep cleaning less often but can be expensive. Love your channel
Very authentic. Love watching you both.
Hard to imagine anyone saying something negative about you…so sorry that happens. I think you are so fun and funny and so genuine. Sharing your story is really encouraging to me. I’m so glad you share your videos.
Thank you for sharing. These videos are very helpful!
You are the sweetest couple and you have a beautiful family ❤️ I watch UA-cam like Mr. Zen by not opening the videos but just reading the captions. I prefer the silence and don't disturb my family.
You are my inspiration - never a failure. You have a beautiful family in beautiful home. I enjoy watching your channel and am a minimalist in progress.
Ihr seid ein wunderbares Paar. Danke für die Offenheit!
Danke schön 🤗
I love your channel. I'm learning a lot, and you seems to be a very nice, funny and honest person. Bravo for the courage to make videos, knowing that some people will talk and judge you. You are a very charismatic and sweet person.
Hi Marissa, you two are gorgeous (& your precious boys) your videos are honest & oh so helpful to me as I am on the journey of decluttering…A BIG thank you to you both!!! 🦋
I love your content! I've only discovered your channel in the last month and all your videos inspire me 🥰❤️
I’m so excited! 🤩
I’m excited you’re excited 😆
You are amazing! You are the only minimalist I like watching on UA-cam. You keep being your beautiful self. 🌞 You and your husband make a great team. 💛
I loved this video and love your family. Thank you!!!
I'm rewatching all your videos for a second whole house declutter (!!) - you are just so warm and real. :)
I think you two are a lovely couple. Great video.
Well I, for one, love ❤️ your home. It’s so peaceful and love how much space there is to dance. Hehe! 💖
All of your videos are so inspiring! I grew up in a hoarder home and unfortunately my parents still live this way. I have been working on decreasing my possessions and have felt way less anxious with less things. Relating to rugs, My husband and I live in a studio apartment and we are in the process of getting rid of our area rug. Our space looks so much BIGGER and cleaner with it out of the way. So, we are Team No Rug!
Thanks for chiming in and sharing your story, Jessica. 🤗
I am firmly on team no rug/carpet. It gets so goofy and cannot get clean enough for me. Our house has carpeted stairs, which I've kept on because I'm worried the kids will slip. But it got too gross! I just pulled up the carpet on two stairs this evening and the dirt underneath was horrifying.
Virtual high 5 to you and the whole family for sharing your life on UA-cam! I thought the video was going to be too long, but it was interesting the whole way through. Thanks!
Thanks Sonja, glad you enjoyed it 🙌
Thank you both for another video and also answering my question! You’ve put a massive smile on my face ✨
Thanks so much for sharing and watching 😆
Team rug! We tend to lean towards natural materials such as wool since it has wonderful natural properties that helps with ease of maintenance, warmth and insulation and it keeps the kids from slipping on hard floors. We also don’t wear shoes inside so it helps with managing the cleaning of it too.
I love this video and you both are terrific. Thank you so much 🙏
I think you both are adorable and I just found you and can’t stop watching. It’s your vulnerability that I find inspiring. One day the tears will be less but I admire you for showing that side of you! 😘
Thanks so much and glad to have you here! 🙌
Wow .. I love your channel and shared vulnerability... so inspiring and you have great content so relatable!