Whitney's Online French Suitor Seems Not Keen On Meeting Her? | My Big Fat Fabulous Life
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Whitney is at a holiday resort for a peaceful getaway, however, her relaxing time stumbles into a little bit of trouble as her french suitor reveals to not be as enthusiastic about seeing her as she is!
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Learn to give people the same energy that they give you.
Okay!! 💯
I needed to read this tysm lmao
Exactly. Read the room girl!
So painful to see a big girl not read the situation ... every season she gets more desperate !!!
Well said. 💛
God she reminds me of me when I was new to dating, young, naive, and insecure. Latching onto someone who clearly isn't into me, being in a relationship that is painfully one-sided, begging for someone to return energy and getting wrapped up in a victim complex instead of just cutting things off. Learn to return energy, know your worth, learn some red flags, and love yourself. You won't even feel very interested in people who aren't interested in you back. Now when a guy isn't returning energy I don't even feel hurt, just less interested, and don't even want to pursue anything with him. My time is valuable I gotta keep it rolling, no hate to him but why waste both our times?
Me as well, I’m reading the comments like 👀, dang I was cringe
@@nunitneferu96 riiiight, i'm like "why did i care so much, when they very clearly didn't?" 🤔
this is such good advice
That was so well written
Right there with you. And when a guy I kind of liked was into me, I would latch on and hard. I was such an embarrassment. Funny enough, now one if those guys is into me and I just couldn't be into him. Wasn't even into him back then. Just forced myself to be
Is it me, or does she act ten years younger than she is? Like Amy Schumer vibez...wth?🤷♀️
More like 20 yrs younger. Teenage angst.
I wish Whitney was more honest with her friends. Letting them know how things are genuinely going when they ask. They give advice and enable her to continue talking to this guy but only because they don’t get an opportunity to see the full picture. She hides a lot of details and doesn’t give the a fair chance to give her honest advice
He’s French but has no accent what so ever. “You’re a grown ass woman”. Never heard a French person use that terminology before
He doesn't sound like he's from France 😂🤣🤣😂
Did she seriously say she was going to become a personal trainer?! 😂😂😂 who is going to hire a personal trainer that’s over 400 pounds?
Honestly? Other 400lbs women who think she "can help" Thus all the people who signed up for her "dance class" 😬
Well it must of worked out because they’re together she just doesn’t talk about it on her social media that much. But I’m not going to lie, the conversation was kinda awkward and a bit cringe, but I can understand as well she was excited and he seemed well…okay about it lol
And how can you miss someone you've never met ? He's on the phone to her there it's no different to normal ... its not like she left him at home and they live together .
Omg She picks up on zero cues.
I was embarrassed for her.
She did pick up on it, but she's pretending she didn't
@@MM-fg4tw yeah 😬
She’s literally just throwing herself at him and it’s sooooo cringey. I have secondhand embarrassment for her. The whole conversation she’s like begging him to say he misses her or something and he clearly doesn’t.
He literally told her not to focus on missing him!!🙄🙄😒😒. He made a very conscious effort to NOT say that he missed her despite her telling him what to say! I would've just hung up. He's not interested in her in any romantic type of way.
Exactly she's so desperate telling him what she wants him to feel.
It is extremely sad how one sided this is
I just feel bad for her. She should just stop talking to him
@@Evealaquisina my thoughts exactly. Shes giving him the best parts of herself and hes giving... nothing.
All the guy was doing was teaching her French and Whitney decided she wanted to be with him. The guy's feelings aren't the same
@@Afmedic85 you got a point BUT he should make it clear and say it out loud rather than calling her outside of lessons and keeping her there.
@@Afmedic85 I think it just doesn't work if you have feelings for your teacher and it's just you two talking. She needs to stop talking to him and trying to learn from him and he needs to tell her he's not interested and have boundaries.
"OK I won't get wild." He completely indicated he didn't care. Lol. She hears what she wants to hear. Strange.
True af. That's exactly what he said, with his words, with his tone, all of it.
She is paying him for content!!
Just a friendly reminder that body positivity is not fat positivity. Body positivity is accepting ppl with kindness and respect who have conditions they can not change - disabled (like myself), little ppl, burn survivors, etc. What this gal, Tess Holiday and the others like them do is promote morbid obesity for their own needs. Her product is being obese and ‘trying’ to find love, while blaming every failed relationship on ppl being fat phobic. So no fat, no career. Couldn’t possibly be that she’s a selfish partner with unrealistic demands of ppl too quickly after meeting them.
@@mrs.h2725 Astute!
Shes in denial, you can clearly hear hes not interested.
Whitney: “Can you please tell me you miss me too?”
French tutor: *crickets* 🦗
Not even a paycheck from TLC can force a guy to pretend he's that interested in her. Who would be?
Embarresing
How awkward! “I don’t own you” “ but do you want to?” 😂😂🤮
I'd fucking haul ass out of there 🏃
He's not into her at all, he doesn't want to do this
I wonder why he’s calling her then?
@@LaPlaztique I wonder that too. I’m new to this show, just started watching the last few days, but you make a good point. He doesn’t sound interested at all in a romance type relationship with her, but he is still calling.
@@Autumn_Sunrise he was teaching her french for a few months before this happened. So they do have some sort of "relationship"
@@ooxds1416 that is not a relationship,they have a mutual friend. Nothing else
That conversation went NOTHING like she portrayed it did to her friend! 😂🤣😂. She has her friend believing that they have to ask permission to do things when he specifically said the exact opposite.
Exactly. "I'm going to get wild." "I don't own you." "Do you want to?" Nothing. "OK I'll wait to get wild." Lol it's like she was listening to a completely different conversation. As if he was jealous because she was going to "get wild" without him. He doesn't care about her that way .... at all.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wow he sounds completely distraught about the prospect of meeting Whitney.
This is so embarrassing! This man isn’t into her at all. She needs to let this man go. I was so embarrassed at his lack of enthusiasm. She sounds so desperate.
I Was Getting The Same Vibe...Like It's Whatever For Him He Doesn't Care One Way Or Another ..And Trust He Sure As Hell Won't Be Looking Into Anything🤦🙄
I don’t see what made her think he was into her anyway…
I think hes into her. Shes just too intense for that early in the relationship
Edit- nevermind lmao i didnt have the context, i assumed they met on a dating app... hes her french teacher?
He is just her teacher who has been misunderstood . Probably he has many students who think like this
Why did he call her? They aren't speaking french. Whitney is eager but hes not consistent with showing disinterest.
That is NOT a French accent sweetheart!!!
Thank YOU!
Nope 😂
Could be a 🐈 🐠
He is not French! No way!!
I agree. He may be of a different nation though
This is honestly very educational for girls on what it looks like when a guy is being nice but is not interested.
Hell yeah it’s kinda sad honestly
In her defense he is giving her sorta mixed signals by not telling her he’s not into her. When he replies to things he seems to keep it open.
@@freewithnature ua-cam.com/video/3fHl9bxVT58/v-deo.html
This is the right soundtrack
@@freewithnature I agree. He doesnt want his face shown so hes not really clout chasing so why does he keep communicating and not telling her to pump the breaks...
Emotionally Whitney is still in her adolescence and she needs to take time to mature. When you have to ask someone to tell you that they miss you it's a sign that they do not.
She’s in her 30’s and running out of time to grow up!
She needs to stop being so needy and creepy cuz it's pathetic ESPECIALLY since she claims to be strong and independent it's cringe.
Yes! That's what I get from her in just a few clips. Everything about how she talks about it with her friends, to the way she talk with him it's like a girl with a crush and the guy is being just nice enough to not hurt her feelings. As a teenager sure that's understandable , but as a grown woman not picking up the signs 🤦🤦🤦🤷. I don't know if she is in therapy , but she needs some work in this area for sure.
100%. If he wanted to, at the time of this video, he had had plenty of time to come to the states to meet her. The whole “how wild can I get?” convo made me so uncomfortable. He doesn’t even sound French….
@@astherielleloella-ximena402 I’m overweight, strong, confident and independent woman are great taglines to draw in viewers.
Sadly, that’s clearly NOT the case.
Girl, he's just not that into you..
Right?! They made a movie on it
@@arabelvozza5773 they did?
I hate that stupid phrase! It should be “Bitch! He ain’t into you!” That’s much more straight to the point!
@@allaboutbeebo4092 Yes based off the book
@@MamiTT237 yeah. They need to make a new movie with this title
The whole relationship she’s having in her head is not the relationship he’s having. He seems mildly annoyed and she’s actually excited to talk to him and possibly see him. This doesn’t end well, does it. :-(
Talk about second hand embarrassment lol. She has zero clue that he just isn't into her 🙄
He ain’t into you. Move on and don’t waste your time. He doesn’t sound French.
Lol how does French sound 🤣😂
@@JourneytofindBeauty I think she means the accent maybe
Yeah, where is his Parisienne accent?
@@JourneytofindBeauty His accent is not quite French.
He does not sound like a French national but rather a native English speaker.
He doesn't sound French. He doesn't sound as if he's even a tiny bit into her. Geez .. cmon. This is painful to watch.
Okay I was thinking the same thing lol no accent nothing lol
@@Mcm87473 not everybody has an accent tho. But he doesn't choose words like an European would.
I thought the same thing! I'm no expert, but I couldn't tell he was French either. He actually sounded like he was from the southern U.S. at certain points in the conversation.
@Khizott_MaeMae I live in France right now and I met French people who didn't have an accent at all. You would meet people like that in any European country. Although I am not saying there are not people who does have an accent and there is nothing wrong with that.
He is about as French as French fries
"A trip like that needs ...."
"..planning"
He's thinking..."money."
Good God... he's not even French. He's not in France. He's somewhere in Minnesota.
Lmao
😂😂😂😂
I was thinking is he American and live in France
😭😭
I'm french and thought his accent was too casually good wich is very rare for us so him being from minesotta makes sense
I feel kinda bad for her, since she’s seems to be excited about him and his reciprocation is lacking
He's making it clear he isn't interested and she won't let it go....she's embarrassing. If he was doing this to her we'd all scram, "leave her alone!!"
This man is absolutely not french!
That’s what I thought too 😆 I’m glad I’m not the only one
I think he does live in France but I don’t think he’s French
You can hear my accent better than his !!!! Lol.
I hope he tells her he’s not interested in anything past a French lesson via Skype or whatever they do.. she just said I miss you and he’s like “uh try not to focus on that”. What else, how else does he need to say? He’s not interested in her AT ALL . I don’t think shed be able to handle the rejection “in the flesh” like she says. Our intuition is key 🔑 what the fu*k is going on with hers- geez
&. Her friends shouldn’t egg her on either
Her friends honestly add to her delusion! It’s kinda like fake.
Perhaps she's created an entire narrative of a romantic French guy who rings her and can't wait to visit her when the Pandemic restrictions allow. This is the first episode I've watched so I don't know, but she strikes me as being somewhat delusional with the aid of the producers (as usual).
That man said you are grown ass woman and still she doesn't get a clue
He sounds like he hates her 🥲. “Your so uh amazing at uhhh finishing my sentences.” Girl read the room 🥴
he only said uh before my sentences from start to finish he “says “ uh
She's assuming A LOT!! Where is his FRENCH accent!!
Okayyy
I was looking for this comment!!! This guy does not sound french AT ALL LOL! He even says "like" like a california born and raised man
He’s totally American
right LOL this man is not french
This was HARD to watch🥴
They gotta stop with these fake relationships 👀 it’s giving sad and desperate. Also, is it me or does his voice sound dubbed over? 🧐And if he is French, wtf is his accent? 🤔
Im swedish, my english is fluent and People till me I dont have any swedish accent coming through when I talk.... IF u've been watching american tv shows sense u were a kid and been listening to american music, and u had english in school most likely u Will have no accent👍
@@lottaa618 Thanks for that information, I never took that into consideration. I think what’s more concerning is that he had no emotion in his speech, said no loving words, and sounded like a pre-recorded message or like his voice was dubbed over in post production. Which is just weird to me in general.
@@lottaa618 Not if you're French. There are just some words French people naturally struggle no matter how well they speak English. You can tell by the rs and tonality. Ask a French person to pronounce "squirrel" and watch them fail.
@@mannequinn_made420 i do agree with that👍
She is one of those individuals who put MORE effort into a “Fantasy” of a Man than actually putting that effort and energy into meeting someone close.
Exactly? She probably would reject any guy that was sincerely interested in her.. she probably would question his motives and wonder what was wrong with him😩
Same as her fantasy of being a personal trainer
@@monicaalexandra2057 Her whole life is a fantasy. That whole fat dance competition thing she was into? I used to laugh my head off!
He said “is this like a confidence build up thing?” Hahahahaha 😂
I thought I was the only one who caught that LMAO
Me too. Jeez I felt weird hearing that. Or omg 😳 did he just say that 🤣
I feel like the conversation that she had with the guy on the phone compared to the conversation that she told her friend about was totally different. She sugar coated a lot of it lol
It felt like watching a high school girl with her first crush, except he doesn’t like her back. Awkward AF
Your first high school crush never usually likes you back. What planet are you from?
He doesn't seem like he cares about you like you care for him and he doesn't wanna come here...
How has she not grown as a person throughout all of this??
Like not even a little bit....
Meanwhile it’s funny to see how her ex fiancé has flourished in life
People who constantly whine and don’t take accountability never grow as people
I honestly feel really bad for whitney. It’s very clear that he has little to no interest in her and he honestly sounded annoyed for a majority of that conversation, but sometimes you like someone so much that you ignore the hints and just pretend they seem interested in you. There’s also an added layer of embarrassment because she’s told her friends about him and she doesn’t want to humiliate herself by saying he doesn’t like her. But the longer she waits the worse it will get
So basically she’s desperate so she’s degraded herself into being creepy and pathetic lol despite calling herself a strong,independent woman eww cringe 😬
She's in a "serious relationship" with someone, and she doesn't even know if he "likes nature"? That whole conversation was very bizarre. It sounded like she was talking to someone for the first time.
Does she honestly think he's going to fly to America? "Thank you for finishing my sentences for me." 🥵😳😖😫
She's really pretty. But, he doesn't seem interested. Just turned into a really awkward conversation. Maybe just calm down the excitement a lil bit.
She fully expected him to immediately book a flight 😂😆
that dude isn't french, he doesn't even have an accent!!!
I’m autistic so not sure how great my advice is on relationships but…I always felt if you have to hold on tight to someone for fear of losing them, they were never yours to begin with.
She is one siding this relationship, he obviously isnt that into her... I mean its kinda scary how she acts towards him, She will scare him away in no time with that personality :/
Facts,she's being too clingy
She’s making a conscious choice not to listen to her gut…always a huge mistake. Oh, the angst, the heartbreak, the drama, the hysterical tears that are coming. Soap opera 101. If a man wants you, Whitney, he will pursue you, always. He will find a way.
AGREE!!! The gut never lies
She's charismatic and pretty and has a lot to offer someone, so she shouldn't try to be with anyone who clearly isn't in to her on the level that she is. I thought that the experiences she's had would have taught her better than this. I hope she wises up so she doesn't get hurt again.
She's not charismatic lol. She's over bearing and annoying and makes excuses for her weight
@@Afmedic85 you summed it up best.
Afraid I agree with second comment. I've always found her so annoying and dependent upon those around her. When there's chemistry happening, one of the greatest parts of "romance" is realising that both of you are on the same timeline with the same enthusiasm towards each other, not wondering how you're going to get out of the next date, or alternatively hearing that deep reluctance in your date's voice. Being sure about it without the painful adolescent insecurity.
Naw. Getting hurt isn’t the end of the world. Sometimes it’s nice to explore relationships. But yes, I agree, you should choose people who choose you. And who are treating you well. But, she is not delusional. She had to ask him and she did. And she’s aware of his tone.
I agree..but at least she gets trips to France..lol
Every man that she talks to she sees marriage and kids. Very thirsty!
And howwww
Yes, Whitney, there’s something bad that you “don’t know”: HE’S NOT INTERESTED! Even my dog knows that French dude is most definitely not interested in Whitney.
The “French” man sounds like Howard stern. There’s nothing French about him.
STOP CALLING HIM THE FRENCH MAN 😵💫😂
she is talking so fast i cant even compute it. she is melting over this man and he is just not into it.
Whitney’s parents seem very normal and wonderful so I’m wondering what in the world happened with Whitney. The brother also seems normal.
Some people are just born delusional, also reality tv and social media corrupts everyone
This guy never said he was romantically interested in her....he also told her in front if her mother who he did not even know he was meeting that they were only friends....
Please cancel this show. I avoid these clips but every once in a while I’ll click on one to see if I’ve been wrong about this show…no. I’m not wrong. She’s just awful.
Calling him HER 'French man' is just creepily delusional given the lack of interest he shows in her...
He just doesn’t want his name out there so he prefers to be called that.
Jesus Christ this was hard to watch
He doesn’t like you
Move on
She is the only one talking
All the time she has a t.v..showww lollll
She thinks "You seem like a good friend but I'm also obligated to be nice to you because you pay me to be your teacher and we are in a world-wide pandemic so I can't lose a student" means "Voulez-vous couchez avec moi ce soir?"
He’s her teacher? Ewww she’s a creep
Oh I don't know maybe it's because her relationship is a sham?
I got second hand embarrassed for her. Omg. He is not into her at all! And sounds so boring!!
Why did he even ring?? He clearly doesn't want to speak her!!
"You have beaches, hills and me...."
"Errrrrrrrrr, I'm having a hard computing that"
Uh ... He's just not that into you gurl!? Sad tired tale...really?
Miss " No self awareness " Whitney at it again. #cringe
He don’t have a French accent…..
Why should he have? I don’t have a German accent either. English is rather easy to learn and if you listen to it often or travel loosing an accent ist no problem at all.
@@claudiakarl7888 I’ve never heard of anyone losing their accent
Waa he doesn't???
@@kit2130 Well, there are more things between heaven and earth than those which you might have heard of. Or maybe you just live in area where people don’t learn foreign languages that they also have the chance to use. In Europe many people learn several languages and if you got a talent for languages you‘re able to learn them accent free.
@@claudiakarl7888 impossible. Say that with a French accent.
Can we all just agree that Whitney cannot read the room? 🤦
She sounds like she's leaving a voicemail, instead of having a conversation.
OK Whitney is 37 years old which is shocking to me and that she imagines this relationship is something it's not! Wow. Is this narcissistic?
That conversation had the energy of a wet towel hanging on a doorknob.
At least she put herself out there and is optimistic about it. Fear of rejection shouldn’t hold someone back from respectfully flirting or trying to woo someone. Experience tells me that most men who are interested don’t talk like he did 😐
Exactly! I agree with you
That’s true!
There’s cautious optimism, and there’s living in a parallel universe! 🤣🤣🤣
Nah she she doing too much, on top of him not being interested 🤧
slightly embarrassing i feel bad for her
Darcey Silva: Finally, a worthy opponent.
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I can bet money on it that The French Man is living in USA! I hope she does not give him money!
Confident men or friends will never pursue relationships with Whitney until she truly learns to Iove herself and quit fantasizing about being in love! The on-air humiliation she's putting herself through is not worth the network ratings 😢
She's so desperate, I feel so embarrassed for her! 💀
4:30 He's definitely trying to avoid answering the question. He probably wanted to say that he's not her boyfriend and doesn't care what she does.
This is why you can't be overly nice to people. They start thinking you are flirting and start acting like her
I think he mostly doesn’t know what to say to the things she blurts out so fast. Guys take a while to compute. I mean he called her, so he’s into her but I’m pretty sure he’s lying about being French. Maybe he’s an American living in France but who knows where he’s living. He has a nice voice though.
U think??? He sounds like u and me....
Is she sure he’s a Frenchman? I don’t hear a French accent AT ALL!!! I hope he’s not catfishing her.
The guy is most likely broke and feels intimidated. It's expensive to travel and it's not accessible as it is for her. She can book a ticket whenever she wants but he's an online french teacher, I can't imagine him making much money.
Aww I feel so bad for her...I wish she'd find someone that really wanted to be with her. 🥺💜
She needs to read a book from the late 90s called "He's not that into you." I hate seeing a woman making a relationship in her mind with a man who you can hear doesn't have the same feelings.
How Wild Can I Get B4 You Mind????? He seems to not give a ShitZ
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I will say Whitney's friend is solid 😂 She just let's her live in la-la land and doesn't call her out for the make believe relationships she puts herself in 😂 She just plays along and then picks up the pieces when it's all over lol
That's not a friend. A friend would tell her the truth.
@@SarahKDBWhitney only hears what she wants. Do u really think that would make a difference? They have tried that many times and she still doesn't listen lol 😅
He knew immediately that is was a confidence boost photo shoot 💀💀💀💀
Honestly, I cannot believe how she is pushing something that does not exist. She should be ashamed of herself, this guy is completely transparent in his communication. He has zero interest in her.
Whitney is so delusional!! If her family and friends don't know that by now, something is wrong with her friends. She truly needs a therapist to feel with her issues. WHAT IS IN THAT NORTH CAROLINA WATER ANYWAY???
OMG 🙈 Definitely not on the same page. He sounds so bored! She deserves someone who matches her energy!
She talks too much, let him speak
This guy is realistic and middle-beat, taking things slow. Whitney is damn clingy, and French guys aren't realizing relationship before You both had have intimacy, romantic stuff with each other. That's the culture. Then they are more down to earth and respecting bodies as an art creature.
But ... he's not French.
@@susansmith493 good actor anyway
@@tfpauliina not a good actor... not a French accent to be heard
Lol no, he shows no enthusiasm or attraction. You can still have both of those things and be slow moving
"thank you you are so amazing with finishing my sentences"...he hates you and you said "thank you"
He was being sarcastic 🤔 I’ve seen men do that a couple of times. I’ve even done that🤷♀️
my mouth literallh dropped when she asked him to rephrase and say he missed her too 😬😩
What makes her think he likes her? He clearly doesn’t
The second hand embarrassment I’m experiencing is so bad.
Imagine, someone forcing you to miss them!😂🤣😂
It’s like two different conversations…..
Whitney ~ It’s got me
French man- crickets
French man- your a grown ass woman, you can do what you want
Whitney~oh ok I’ll wait for you to get wild
Whitney ~ I’m selling my state so hard to him
French man- when I think of your state I don’t think that way about it
Whitney ~ I miss you
French man- well don’t
Whitney ~ there’s a way to travel now so we can be together
French man- I haven’t heard of that.
Whitney ~ I love you,let’s get married,let’s have kids,I want you so bad!!!!!!
French man- ah am I getting paid for this or what?
That was so cringe...I have secondhand embarrassment for her...