Narcissistic bosses and coworkers for sure. The hate and bitterness towards me is real and I don’t know why. But they will keep seeing me with the light that I carry until God directs me where to go next.
Thank you so much for doing this. I recently went no contact. I was with him 13 years. 9 1/2 years was so good. I was so in love. Then I realized he was playing a game. We just made 13 years and I ended. The physical, mental, and verbal abuse started. He’s in multiple relationships in state and out of state. Everything he said to me he also says to each woman. He doesn’t know I know I just had a conversation with him and once the call was over I blocked him. This is hard but the anxiety attacks, the seizures. Yeah I had to put me first it’s over.
I am one day narc free the beginning of the end I went back a couple of times But the verbal abuse is getting worse he called me a Scally wag hoe bitch It’s time to go and I’m watching this video so I can give me the strength to do it I know I’m going to do it because this time he’s mad because he cannot control me
Thank you for mentioning these facts: - Many narcissists are doing well financially or are wealthy. They will give you money, gifts and material possessions. You better believe they have unrealistic expectations of you! There are major strings attached. - They can convince many people that they are kind when they are actually hate filled and jealous. - Many are charming but it's used as a deceptive tool to bring you into relationship with them. - They are excellent ACTORS and can potentially fool you for a lifetime. Thank you Mamisotrue for your commitment to helping us in our healing process ♥️
Thank you so much for this. This morning I received an email from my ex, who was asked to leave almost 3 mo ago. She writes she wants to come home, when will I be home to let her in. Same person who quit their job and left me with a whole mortgage, bills, credit card debt! I refuse! I've asked her to come and get her and her kids things a month ago, and she writes back a month later. I've been told by my therapist I now have hypervigilant PTSD. I had to collect myself and this video just snapped me out of my funk. Thank you always.
I did the same thing several times when they tried to bully me, yell like a fool but when he finally realized I wasn’t scared of the devil, he would sit his behind down looking like a joke! I started scaring him after the hovering over my head trying to bully me with his aggression. I was like boyyyyy watch yourself! 😂 it’s funny now, but wasn’t at the time. Very very recently had an awakening and realized I don’t even have feelings for this person the way I used too. He killed it all! I feel free from misery! Thank you for your message and many blessings to you. 🙏🏼💖
I think what happens is alot of women have had to become so strong and overcome so much in their lives they also look at their personal relationships like some sort of challenge. Loving relationships are not supposed to be a never ending battle. Work sure....Life....sure.....but an íntimate relationships is supposed to be a trusting safe space not a living hell. When I started Googling "Demonic Posession" l knew....."OK Karla....this is next level crazy......time to detach from this situationship." There is nothing more l can do here.
He keeps calling and l am like.....No way. Leave me alone. You're not well. Stay away from me. l am tired of the same shit over and over. That's the definition of insanity. He has nothing new to say. Nothing. Rinse and Repeat. Exhausting.
Some are cops and no one believes hes a clown because hes a cop. ..and yes they try to sabotage your career and finances like this Narc cop...they hide and no one would ever know how terrible they are because of their status
Ive been in the domestic violence shelter for a week now and hes losing it. Showing up at my work. Bloeing up my phone all day. Checming phone logs to see im speaking to. Begging. Telling me hea gonna change and of courae with the manipulating its hard. My brain feels wonky but my gut says don't go back. I need strength
😢 I am 2 weeks out no contact . I married my narc husband 3 times . I feel so ridiculously stupid . However , I know that I know that I know and I am 60 yrs old but ready to thrive . It’s still hard as hell . But I will not go back .
I was glad when I blocked them off my 🤳📱 I felt like a new person as something broke down in thousand piece's They still try to call through someone' else's picture 🖼️🙏 but God has my back in everything that I do because I Praise Him to keep me in Righteous Spirit
I am in a smear campaign where the narcissist recruited 300 enablers. He thought it was game over. But my silence scared him and now he's in panic mode. It's hard to reach that point but when you get to the point where you take your power back they get frightened and the flying monkeys begin to look more and more stupid.
No Contact for an Empath = Healing Time, Self Reflection, and Rebuilding. No Contact for the Narcissist = How dare my pet escape its cage. How dare my slave refuse to serve me any longer. How dare my emotional/physical punching bag complain about being abused. How dare my victim reject me and my greatness, only I can go no contact. Only I can inflict injuries and dish out punishment. In other words, you said you loved me? You said you wanted to make my life better? Well I feel better and feel powerful when I’m destroying you. My goal was to take out everything but if built up pain and hatred on YOU and you were suppose to suffer for my sake. Now when you left… I have to hurry up and find another victim or I will be forced to be in extreme anguish from my horrible narcissistic life.
IM A THRIVER AND A WARRIOR THESE DUCKS CANT STAND MY SILENCE 🔥🔥💯❤ THEY BIG 😂😂 MY SILENCE IS GOLDEN SIS I MISSED THE LIVE I HAD TO WORK IM HERE FAMILY ❤❤ THESE DUCKS PLAYED THEMSELVES😂😂 ACCESS DENIED 💯 LOVE YOU QUEEN MAMISOTRUE ❤❤
With my recent narcissists, when I would say, Leave my house now, or I'll call police, and this was ONLY AFTER HE SP😢AT , OR THREW WATER, DRINK ON ME, OR AFTER HE SAID THE WORST THINGS ABOUT ME, MY DAUGHTERS, FAMILY, HE WOULD THEN CALL THE POLICE ON ME LOL. BUT HE WAS ALWAYS THE ONE WHO GOT ARRESTED. KARMA 😂X
Confusions says the philosopher when the student is ready the teacher appears! I had to correct this excited and typing too fast. Sorry for any mis pelled words!
You spoke facts sis... In my case it was the female narc... By the way... She's going through serious changes now for all the bad decisions she made. Her energy came back on her full circle.
Thank you so much for sharing this and yes I’m dealing with this situation in the workplace. I have to document and keep my distance and silence with this individual as this🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽a lot has went on and no one seems to realize…
My narc fake dumped me while I was away on holiday via text msg. I called him and said “You wanna break up?” He said “Yeah, I do.” I said ok, good luck, bye! He was high as a kite and claims he accidentally did mushrooms and ended up in hospital. Spent the next month trying to say he doesn’t remember anything. I have 10 pages of text msgs he recalled so I don’t know what he said but I refused to take him back. He asked for the ring back, I said ok when I get the money you owe me. He made me trade in my old jewellery and use the money as down payment on the new ring. I got my cash back and then he tried to return the ring to the store but they low balled him. So he ended up losing 8K hahaha. Still trying to Hoover me back but I’m done with that psycho. He said he will keep the ring in case I come to my senses. Bahaaaa! Never.
I want to get My narcissist back so bad, I've been doing little honory stuff I probably should'nt be doing. I found a second phone he had the same day I walked away. Found photos of a naked female inside of it and his pictures, he claimed it was this younger guys before I looked inside. He was taking me home full of rage because I picked it up he almost snatched My hand off snatching the phone he stopped at the store, I got out it was night and Something made Me get that phone. What I saw was the one naked female and other female numbers. I set a pin number to the vôicemail after I realized it was his phone, females calling begging asking on the voicemail where is he at, I then began to foward the voicemails to him from My phone so he can know I heard those messages.
Fabulous topic. Let them expose themselves, let them play themselves they put way to much footwork in you and me they spy on people,they become obsessed with their own illusion
It's been 50 years since "I moved away". It didn't completely solve the problem. I was kikked out of the house and sent to boarding school from Peru to Switzerland, alone, age 10. And stayed here, am still here in Switzerland. My grandmother payed for my studies and then I worked. My father is a malignant narcissist, my brother is a grandiose narcissist. It didn't stop them, these 10 past years or more from harassing me on WhatsApp, bombarding me with emails, phone calls (to which I don't answer anymore). They have even made "surprise" visists to my house. They just take the plane from Peru (for my father) and Madrid for my brother. I am full no contact since a while but they still try to hoover one way or another. At least they don't ring on my doorbell anymore. Travelling, calling have become cheap so they take advantage of that. I no longer have WhatsApp because of them. I keep blocking their email addresses but they keep popping up. I don't know how. At least I don't risk runing into them in the street, restaurant, etc. because we don't live in the same countries. (my usual language has become French)
Ha,ha,ha! Heyyy! Go, go, go shanty it's your birthday. Girl have not felt this good my whole life. I thank God I met you! Confusions says When the student is ready the teacher appears!
So true. I'm still with my narc wife but I'm definitely healing and planning my escape one day lol because this is my 3rd time being narced and my last time.
So happy to support you and your channel sista girl I have finally had enough of believing that there has to be some good based on his calculated displays of concern, generosity and consideration.. Any and everything is done for a purpose and its not genuine. I am finally ready to do what only I can do....I am discarding this trifling phony playboy. I almost forgot who I was....well Im back and better.
Never let the same snake bite you twice
When a narcissist hoover something isnt going right with them
I am living to live to get everything the Devil stole from Me
Silently
The BEST response is no response at all ❤️
Narcissistic bosses and coworkers for sure. The hate and bitterness towards me is real and I don’t know why. But they will keep seeing me with the light that I carry until God directs me where to go next.
6 years but it still tries to Hoover me from a distance but I ignore it. No Contact is the only way.
Same here. I got hoovered late last year after seven years of no contact.
I'm at the begin of getting rid of him I need prayers to stay strong, please
Thank you so much for doing this. I recently went no contact. I was with him 13 years. 9 1/2 years was so good. I was so in love. Then I realized he was playing a game. We just made 13 years and I ended. The physical, mental, and verbal abuse started. He’s in multiple relationships in state and out of state. Everything he said to me he also says to each woman. He doesn’t know I know I just had a conversation with him and once the call was over I blocked him. This is hard but the anxiety attacks, the seizures. Yeah I had to put me first it’s over.
There's a quote in Spanish: "no hay peor desprecio que no hacer aprecio". Meaning there's no way worser than indifference.
4 months silent.And 4 months Narc Free! OOooowe it is Priceless!
I am one day narc free the beginning of the end I went back a couple of times But the verbal abuse is getting worse he called me a Scally wag hoe bitch It’s time to go and I’m watching this video so I can give me the strength to do it I know I’m going to do it because this time he’s mad because he cannot control me
Thank you for mentioning these facts:
- Many narcissists are doing well financially or are wealthy. They will give you money, gifts and material possessions. You better believe they have unrealistic expectations of you! There are major strings attached.
- They can convince many people that they are kind when they are actually hate filled and jealous.
- Many are charming but it's used as a deceptive tool to bring you into relationship with them.
- They are excellent ACTORS and can potentially fool you for a lifetime.
Thank you Mamisotrue for your commitment to helping us in our healing process ♥️
Facts!
I ghosted my narcissistic person a year ago…. I am blessed there out of my life.
Thank you so much for this. This morning I received an email from my ex, who was asked to leave almost 3 mo ago. She writes she wants to come home, when will I be home to let her in. Same person who quit their job and left me with a whole mortgage, bills, credit card debt! I refuse! I've asked her to come and get her and her kids things a month ago, and she writes back a month later. I've been told by my therapist I now have hypervigilant PTSD. I had to collect myself and this video just snapped me out of my funk. Thank you always.
I can relate.
Yes
God is your port in the storms of life bless
7 months no contact! Thriving and loving it!
Keep GLOWING 💪🏾💕💪🏾💪🏾
Congratulations 🎉
Yes...they only want a chance to hurt you...."destroy " You again
you damn right that shit dont work and yet we still feel bad abandoning their ungrateful asses
I did the same thing several times when they tried to bully me, yell like a fool but when he finally realized I wasn’t scared of the devil, he would sit his behind down looking like a joke! I started scaring him after the hovering over my head trying to bully me with his aggression. I was like boyyyyy watch yourself! 😂 it’s funny now, but wasn’t at the time. Very very recently had an awakening and realized I don’t even have feelings for this person the way I used too. He killed it all! I feel free from misery! Thank you for your message and many blessings to you. 🙏🏼💖
I think what happens is alot of women have had to become so strong and overcome so much in their lives they also look at their personal relationships like some sort of challenge. Loving relationships are not supposed to be a never ending battle. Work sure....Life....sure.....but an íntimate relationships is supposed to be a trusting safe space not a living hell. When I started Googling "Demonic Posession" l knew....."OK Karla....this is next level crazy......time to detach from this situationship." There is nothing more l can do here.
He keeps calling and l am like.....No way. Leave me alone. You're not well. Stay away from me. l am tired of the same shit over and over. That's the definition of insanity. He has nothing new to say. Nothing. Rinse and Repeat. Exhausting.
"Narc each other to death" 😂😅 CTFU
Did you hear revert narc psychology too.☺️☺️😂😂😂😂
Some are cops and no one believes hes a clown because hes a cop. ..and yes they try to sabotage your career and finances like this Narc cop...they hide and no one would ever know how terrible they are because of their status
Most cops are Narcs, demonic cowards,! Seek God and pray for a way of escape, stay encouraged and God bless you.
I don't know why no one doesn't believe he's a clown because he is a cop, most cops are clowns that goes with the job!
9 months of silence.
Ive been in the domestic violence shelter for a week now and hes losing it. Showing up at my work. Bloeing up my phone all day. Checming phone logs to see im speaking to. Begging. Telling me hea gonna change and of courae with the manipulating its hard. My brain feels wonky but my gut says don't go back. I need strength
Silence is Golden ❤
😢 I am 2 weeks out no contact . I married my narc husband 3 times . I feel so ridiculously stupid . However , I know that I know that I know and I am 60 yrs old but ready to thrive . It’s still hard as hell . But I will not go back .
Don't worry. I went back yo the narc so many times too. The veil finally falls off. God rescued you. Thrive sister
After 13-year marriage, complete stranger. Silence has been my peace... Stay stoic silence is our power.
The stress gave me cancer. Now I'll give it to him😂
Remember Buffy the Vampire Slayer lol ima call you Mami the Narc Slayer 🤣🤣💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯
I was glad when I blocked them off my 🤳📱 I felt like a new person as something broke down in thousand piece's
They still try to call through someone' else's picture 🖼️🙏 but God has my back in everything that I do because I Praise Him to keep me in Righteous Spirit
🙌🏾🙌🏾Amen your videos are beyond inspirational, motivational, and give Much Strength to anyone dealing with a narcissist. May God Bless You 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am in a smear campaign where the narcissist recruited 300 enablers. He thought it was game over. But my silence scared him and now he's in panic mode. It's hard to reach that point but when you get to the point where you take your power back they get frightened and the flying monkeys begin to look more and more stupid.
Hey MAMI !! Yes my silence 🤫 means , you got ONE time to disrespect me !!
I know that's right 😂
Yes 🎉
No Contact for an Empath = Healing Time, Self Reflection, and Rebuilding.
No Contact for the Narcissist = How dare my pet escape its cage. How dare my slave refuse to serve me any longer. How dare my emotional/physical punching bag complain about being abused. How dare my victim reject me and my greatness, only I can go no contact. Only I can inflict injuries and dish out punishment. In other words, you said you loved me? You said you wanted to make my life better? Well I feel better and feel powerful when I’m destroying you. My goal was to take out everything but if built up pain and hatred on YOU and you were suppose to suffer for my sake. Now when you left… I have to hurry up and find another victim or I will be forced to be in extreme anguish from my horrible narcissistic life.
The more paper trail the better. Trust me.
Agree!
AMEN I Thank God! 6 Months, Of Silence! Praise, God! Please, Keep Delivering Us, From that Evil! In Jesus Mighty Name 🙌🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾
Amen
Thank you! Your words are helping me more than you know.
Yess its called gangstalking when you see them repetitive when u wasnt at first... hmm but what i do know
The better you are to them the worse they are to you and harder it is to let go it’s because of how much effort you put in
Silence is golden it work for me
They’re ALL shooketh!!!!
IM A THRIVER AND A WARRIOR THESE DUCKS CANT STAND MY SILENCE 🔥🔥💯❤ THEY BIG 😂😂 MY SILENCE IS GOLDEN SIS I MISSED THE LIVE I HAD TO WORK IM HERE FAMILY ❤❤ THESE DUCKS PLAYED THEMSELVES😂😂 ACCESS DENIED 💯 LOVE YOU QUEEN MAMISOTRUE ❤❤
With my recent narcissists, when I would say, Leave my house now, or I'll call police, and this was ONLY AFTER HE SP😢AT , OR THREW WATER, DRINK ON ME, OR AFTER HE SAID THE WORST THINGS ABOUT ME, MY DAUGHTERS, FAMILY, HE WOULD THEN CALL THE POLICE ON ME LOL. BUT HE WAS ALWAYS THE ONE WHO
GOT ARRESTED. KARMA 😂X
Lol what a dummy 🤦🏾♀️
@@mamisotrue Defo was. 😄😘
😂 this is the motivation I needed today girl thank you ❤
No accountability always blaming you for their insecurities
You are glowing so bright love you sister glad I met the narcissist it got me closer to God thanks again love your content 💞😘 👍
Same here !!!!
Confusions says the philosopher when the student is ready the teacher appears! I had to correct this excited and typing too fast. Sorry for any mis pelled words!
Yepp the courts don’t care so I had to fight differently😂
They go out of their way to destroy your Empathy and Compassion. Mostly the Empathy Compassion you have for yourself. Send them away from you. 😊
Yep! Mine sat in the bathroom about 4 hours a day!
Love the music, love your attitude, love your passion.
Narc Free Living 🙏😇🌟❤️🔥 Spiritual Awakened 🙏 4 years No Contact with My Narc. Peace Joy Happiness 😀 Without My Nar
Thanks!
Thank you 🙏🏾 I truly appreciate you 🙏🏾💕
You spoke facts sis... In my case it was the female narc... By the way... She's going through serious changes now for all the bad decisions she made. Her energy came back on her full circle.
This is so ironic! He’s calling me now saying he’s coming over to get some. Sheet Funniest thing I ever heard
He got you with the hot water. Shit....
You look beautiful in those colors, sis! Love you, Jenn!
Oh thank you! Your a beautiful soul 🤗💕
Some men must NOT be challenged to shoot us through, because they will kill us. I was brutally beaten by a narcissist many years ago, Mamisotrue.
I completely agree !! They will stop at nothing you must be careful ! Thank you for sharing !😊
Thank you so much for sharing this and yes I’m dealing with this situation in the workplace. I have to document and keep my distance and silence with this individual as this🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽a lot has went on and no one seems to realize…
Thank you for sharing !! 🙏🏾 continue to stay ahead of the game !
May The Most High continue blessing you with this profound info my beautiful sista! You are really breaking this thing down w Truth!❤
13:34 lol 😂
My husband has à lot of money... and, yes, he is a covert narc. They are not all looking for a "financial" hand out. Thank you for your work.
Same for me - a covert narcissist with money.
You are a gift from God to hurting people I feel you and I can confirm that you are right
Your a very intelligent woman thank you ❤️
God bless you 🤗💕
You are such a vibe ❤!!! TGIF ❤
Your passion about this topic fuels me…you have helped me so much
My narc fake dumped me while I was away on holiday via text msg. I called him and said “You wanna break up?” He said “Yeah, I do.” I said ok, good luck, bye! He was high as a kite and claims he accidentally did mushrooms and ended up in hospital. Spent the next month trying to say he doesn’t remember anything. I have 10 pages of text msgs he recalled so I don’t know what he said but I refused to take him back. He asked for the ring back, I said ok when I get the money you owe me. He made me trade in my old jewellery and use the money as down payment on the new ring. I got my cash back and then he tried to return the ring to the store but they low balled him. So he ended up losing 8K hahaha. Still trying to Hoover me back but I’m done with that psycho. He said he will keep the ring in case I come to my senses. Bahaaaa! Never.
Youre just adorable. Keep rockin it
I want to get My narcissist back so bad, I've been doing little honory stuff I probably should'nt be doing. I found a second phone he had the same day I walked away. Found photos of a naked female inside of it and his pictures, he claimed it was this younger guys before I looked inside. He was taking me home full of rage because I picked it up he almost snatched My hand off snatching the phone he stopped at the store, I got out it was night and Something made Me get that phone. What I saw was the one naked female and other female numbers. I set a pin number to the vôicemail after I realized it was his phone, females calling begging asking on the voicemail where is he at, I then began to foward the voicemails to him from My phone so he can know I heard those messages.
Some of the stuff they say do be funny and stupid
❤❤ you make my day every time!
I can see that your healing. You look beautiful.
Keep it a million mami
They Think. Their. Shit. Don’t. STInk. Amen Love 💕 you too ❤😊❤. Best wishes for you
😂stab you up..love it!!
You are the first person on UA-cam to speak my truth!!!! ❤❤❤❤ Just found you a year after the final discard.
Divorced from narc 4 months now , we do not communicate either .
Thank you so much I'll definitely be listening to you 1 love🙏🏿🤞🏿💙
This was really good! The love comments replay is hilarious to read through. I love your every ! ❤ 14:13
Are the movies "Enough" and "Sleeping with the enemy" are those Narcissist?
ABSOLUTELY!!
Tired a the lack of peace in my house..I left temporarily..I want the narcissist on the other side of the door..then change the locks
Say it straight f__k the filler.
Your videos resonate deeply
Here's a cyberhug for you
Mamisotrue
Much love,Many blessings blessings 🌹
Ooooh weee say it honey say it straight
Cut them off you can't trust them at all
Stay away from them they expose themselves YOU CAN'T TRUST THEM
Fabulous topic. Let them expose themselves, let them play themselves they put way to much footwork in you and me they spy on people,they become obsessed with their own illusion
Was 4 mos till I deleted her number and pics and the Heifer pop back 🆙
It's been 50 years since "I moved away". It didn't completely solve the problem.
I was kikked out of the house and sent to boarding school from Peru to Switzerland, alone, age 10. And stayed here, am still here in Switzerland. My grandmother payed for my studies and then I worked.
My father is a malignant narcissist, my brother is a grandiose narcissist.
It didn't stop them, these 10 past years or more from harassing me on WhatsApp, bombarding me with emails, phone calls (to which I don't answer anymore).
They have even made "surprise" visists to my house. They just take the plane from Peru (for my father) and Madrid for my brother.
I am full no contact since a while but they still try to hoover one way or another. At least they don't ring on my doorbell anymore.
Travelling, calling have become cheap so they take advantage of that. I no longer have WhatsApp because of them. I keep blocking their email addresses but they keep popping up. I don't know how.
At least I don't risk runing into them in the street, restaurant, etc. because we don't live in the same countries.
(my usual language has become French)
Mami I quit my job 2 days ago. Blew that bridge UP with a letter from my attorney
CONGRATULATIONS MAMISOTRUE👏🏽🎉👏🏽
THANK YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEKEND 🏆👈🏽
You are on point my sister blessed love❤🎉🎉 and light 💟
Please Empathy take it easy take it slow it's GOD who is working and not us humans please take it easy and very very slowly Selah
I didnt get the live but now i see thanks im just watching this vid rn rn thankyou for the vids
Ha,ha,ha! Heyyy! Go, go, go shanty it's your birthday.
Girl have not felt this good my whole life. I thank God I met you!
Confusions says When the student is ready the teacher appears!
I agree with you my sister's
Absolutely Right
It' only not that's they get into your phone that's how they know your business and you
Through your Apps
I pray your speedily Recovery and for you and your families with 💕🌹🙏
So true. I'm still with my narc wife but I'm definitely healing and planning my escape one day lol because this is my 3rd time being narced and my last time.
Soooo ture
Very Genuine Clean Reading Thank You!
Hello from Greece .
Yes!!! It is a battle for your life and you and God are the ones that will save you.
Loosing myself, my sister❤ and light 💟
Girl yes raging and i stare him down cause i know even that is a performance and im not the one
So happy to support you and your channel sista girl I have finally had enough of believing that there has to be some good based on his calculated displays of concern, generosity and consideration.. Any and everything is done for a purpose and its not genuine. I am finally ready to do what only I can do....I am discarding this trifling phony playboy. I almost forgot who I was....well Im back and better.
Truth sister bless you
I get it right but when I send it changes! The devil is a lie! CONFUCIOUS ! ❤
I'm glad he called the police on me. They took me away and I never went back. 7 years ago. He still stalking me on media.
Preach 😎❤️💫
congratulations!