Dear sid first of all thank you for calling charu for interview.. LISTEN CHARU BE BRAVE YOU HAVE GOD ANGEL WITH YOU ZIANA YOUR TAKING RIGHT DECISION WE ALL ARE WITH YOU CHARU PUBLIC TRUST YOU AND YOUR WORDS WE ALL ARE WITH YOU IN GOOD AND BAD TIMES DEAR MISS U SIS😘😥 PLS DONT BE SAD ,YOUR STRONG AND SUCESSFUL
Inse pata laga raha hai ki ye bahut achchi hai inka husband kharab kisi aurat ladki maa ke sath aise nahi karna chahiye yaar Rajeev agar koi aapke behen ke sath ye kare to shayad aapko pata chalega yaar nahi rehna to shadi mat kiya karo ladki maa ban gai aur uski zindagi bhi aapne kharab kar di kaise us insan ko taras nahi aya yaar mujhe ankhon me ansu a gaye sharm karo Rajeev kabhi khush nahi rahoge yaar .
सिद्धार्थ सर आपका बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद जो आपने चारूजी का इंटरव्यू लिया । इंटरव्यू देख कर आखों से सहज ही आंसू निकलने लगे । ईश्वर चारुजी को इस मुश्किल वक्त लड़ने की शक्ति प्रदान करे।❤️
I can't even imagine how much she had suffered emotionally and mentally...in pregnancy every women needs her husband support...she is very strong women ..May God bless her.
Just don’t get married again … She’s doing so much well by herself … I wouldn’t advise Charu and Rajeev to come togther again any time soon …. Focus on Ziana and urself …
Charu jii aap ki peheli jhut. Rajeev key birthday ata hain August 11 th mein ... Aap kal ki video mein boli thi Ziana premature Hui hain nov. Mein .. to aap plz batay aap August mein 8 month preg. Kaisi thi .... Tab to aap ka 5th month hi chal raha hoga na ..
Jo jo log Rajeev ko gali dey rahey hain plz ek saal peheley charu asopa ki vlogs ko dekhe.... Yea kitni jhuti and drama queen hi hain pata chal jayega.
@@Krishna-priya865 exactly dis i m saying jab ye vlog banati hai dono ke chuma chatti private pics dramebaazi taab toh ye hassti rahti ho nw showing these fake tears bloody cheapsters
I loved Sidharth Kanna's sympathetic attitude in the whole interview. he acted like a psychologist and not like an interviewer. He let her talk. no interference.
He prbbly has experienced/ undergone therapy himself because everyone goes through stress or rough times. Maybe that’s y he is being decent and letting her speak
A big clap to the host who did not even acted like host for a sec .sometime s we just need someone who sits and listen to us .He listened her so calmly without interrupting . Because in today's edition we come across so many ppl who just aim at content . He gave her time , waited patiently. ✋️ 👌🙏
I can very well understand her feeling I went through it. My husband also done the same thing left me and gone saying iam mentally unfit. He left me twice, and came back with family's pressure I accepted him back because I was afraid to live alone in this society. Now it's been 7 year's iam living alone.I have become much stronger mentally and my god Almighty is wonderfully taking care of me.☺✌I will pray for charu to become mentally strong and heal her all inner wounds. 🙌🙏💖
Humhe , aaj kal ki duniya mai doosro ki fikar nahi hai..humhe bas ye janne mai interest hai ki dusro ki life mai kya chal raha hai . Jinke saath kuch bhi bura ya galat hota hai sirf wohi samajh sakte hai..baaki dusro ke liye bas wo ek gossip hai..
Only a woman can understand? Yeh kya baat hui..aur phir aap rajeev ki bhi prospective ko bina soche judgemental hojana sahi nehi he...ek banda ka bhi apna sapna hota he ki bo apni begam ki sath apni jindegi khusi se jie..
This has nothing to do with gender. Lots of men go through this too. Giving up everything for that one lady. Yes including his career finance money and everything while she controls the finances and smears his name everywhere. This is about abuse. It’s horrible. No should go through that.
I am not being biased..but that's how things work in our society...i know alot of men face this problem..but the divorce rate is 1-2% in india...just close your eyes and think about your surrounding... How many man and woman you've seen sacrificing their happiness in a marriage???? Definitely alot of women and few men... Hmari society aise hi work krti hai... Auraton ko hmesha kaha jata hai..chup rho..sun lo thoda...
Rajeev key birthday August mein atey hain ...agar nov.mein ziana hui hain to August mein she was 5th month preg. Not 8th. Jhut bolkey kisiko niche dikha saktey ho charu jii .. but upar wala sab dekh rahey hain. Yead rakhna
@@sonalimishra8231 unka interview mein she said .. plz hear again . Ki last rajeev key birthday mein when she was 8th month .. first I thought slip of tongue but no..she said it again .I felt like sleeping at home kiuki 8th month chal raha tha roads achey nehi they .sab ka mood na bigar jay ishliya I went .....but actually in August she was 5th month preg. Jo doc. Travel karney boltey hain . Yea to total jhut bola.
So glad women no longer feel it obligated to stay in toxic marriages. I don’t know this woman but I’m glad she’s chosen to stand up for her kid. Loved how she said she doesn’t want to affect her kid and raise her in a toxic marriage. He’s a thorough narcissist. Bravo for escaping 👏
I feel so sorry for her ... Rajeev looks so selfish from start not responsible at all.. Rajeev is not a good father he was never available for his daughter...only seen Charu being a father and mother for her daughter..so proud of you charu please be strong and safe .my prayers are with you always.
I agree. Being a woman, I know how tough is this. I had also got a husband who was such ignorant guy n has no communication with me, who eventually left me
I was also one of those people who thought she is nautanki. And I am so ashamed now. I really want to apologise to this lady. She was just trying to support herself and her daughter. I am so sorry to Charu. I wish her happiness and success and recovery from the mental trauma she suffered.
Feel so sad, she had to go through so much. I have been seeing Charu and Rajeevs UA-cam videos. Always used to feel what is happening. But today after seeing this video, I feel she has gone through so much to save the relationship. Hats off to Charu. This was her best decision to come up and share the truth so that people stop saying nonsense about her
Wow this interview really saddened me. I really wish her all the best! She is crying uncontrollably because she's been keeping it inside for too long. It's clear that he wanted to chop her legs off so she can be dependent on him. I think he's got complex about his sister and he's naturally pouring that down to his wife. Unfortunately, she had to become his victim.
Yes, he does seem very insecure that he did not even get half the success of sushmita, but he lacks the discipline, hard work and 'get along with others attitude' hence is not successful, despite having the looks to make it big in the entertainment industry. And he must be insecure about Charu being more popular than him as well. He could not even tolerate his mother caring for Charu when she was pregnant. I have not seen such an insecure husband. When I saw the vlog that soon after Charu's delivery he was in Dubai, I instantly realized how disconnected he is from his own newborn. Recently when Ziana was diagnosed with Dengue, he was out enjoying, eating out then he mentions that He will be taking a flight there to see Ziana soon as if to show off how much he cares. A person who truly cares would not even be able to so causally enjoy evening out and would be worried sick at home. As a father how can you even think about eating out and enjoying when your daughter is in hospital.
Thank you to siddharth kannan for giving her a platform to share her story. It’s hard and traumatising to be in a unhealthy, toxic relationship. I am so happy for Charu, finally she is out of it.
This interview is much needed. The personality she is describing about her husband resembles a person that I know . Everything that she said is exactly how that person is. There, I get to know that she is speaking the truth . It takes a lot of courage to come out and speak about these things . Lots of respect to you Charu
This is typical narcissistic trait , mostly these people are selfish, cheater,lier and they project their insecurities on others, most of the time they attract empaths who like to take care of others more than themselves, and empaths get into a trauma bonding thinking that toxic relationship is everything they want. It's very difficult for an empath to come out of these relationships as their emotions are used against themselves by the narcissist and narcissists don't feel any kind of empathy inside themselves. So it's very easy to leave everything one fine morning when he thinks he gets bored or something hurts his ego
@@feelbetter2481 thank you taking us more in detail about narcissistic people and their traits . I do not want to be a victim anymore. Hopefully we can all escape from this kind of people .
@@feelbetter2481 so true... Recently I am dealing with the same situation... Atleast she has some connections in mumbai and she will get job but I am in such a pathetic situation that I don't have my mother who could have been beside me in this time also I don't have job nor my husband is giving me any monetary support... Instead of being a liability to my father I have no other option as I have a one year child and there is no one to look after him...
People are soooo pathetic, judging without knowing anyone personally. This girl suffered so much and people added more misery into her situation. Proud of you girl, you're an amazing mother and an excellent woman 🙌
Respect to Siddharth for being so empathetic, patiently listening to what Charu had to talk. Charu, don’t worry everything will be fine. Sending prayers and lot of positive vibes.
I have no idea what happened with this girl but I can feel her pain, she is true, honest and strong also. Our society never understands one girl's suffering, society always wants the sacrifices of girls, why? Charu be strong and take care of yourself and your daughter. Everything will be alright, God is there always with you.God bless you.
Please give her alot of work so charu can move forward. And charu di you are very strong. Keep standing for what is right . As a woman i feel so proud of you because in current day situation we all women go through such toxic relationships and when we try to come out of such relationship instead of realising their mistake our partner abuses us.
Really appreciate the host siddhart who there to listen to her, not trying to manipulate her for content but to actually sit calmly, not interrupting and be there.
Things are needed to be told to public before a narcissist starts manipulating and spoils ur image. It's good Charu is speaking up. Can completely understand what she went thru.
This was heartbreaking ! I want to say to Charu you are a smart woman you don’t need to tolerate any celebrities brothers bull crap ! His behaviour of ghosting and manipulating is very toxic ! He sounds extremely insecure and selfish to the core ! Please move on with your life you deserve better ! To hell with society anybody who truly cares for you will tell you to get out of this marriage asap. And as far as your past is concerned there is nobody in this earth who doesn’t have a past has Rajeev not seen his own and his sisters past ? Sushmita is known to have had more than a dozen relationships so far . Doesn’t matter ! Wishing Charu strength to move on !
She’s too scared and vulnerable. 💔I can totally understand her space. It’s okay. Life mai himmat karni padti hai. Chahey kitna bhi darr lagey hamai sahi ke liye khada hona chaiye. Ignore those people jo khud toxic marriage mai fasey rehtey hai. Kindly get out of toxic marriages even if it’s your tenth or 100th marriage. Humse zyada hamari situation aur koi nahi jaanta. STOP LISTENING TO ADJUSTMENT NONSENSE. Please don’t back off if your parents are not with you. Most Indian parents are damn controlling and super deluded themselves. Jinhoney khud apni zindagi mai sirf compromises kiye hai woh doosrey ko nahi samjhengey. Kyuki unke minds already BLOCKED hai. They are merely trained robots. Please use your mind and don’t become a robot to anybody. Koi bhi log aapka ghar aakey nahi chalaaengey. Run your UA-cam channel and earn for yourself and your daughter. I wish Rajeev also light and sensibility to peacefully end this relationship and move on without hanging on to the ego. It’s okay. It’s not the end of the world. Calmness be with you! 💓💓
It’s very hard to live with someone so selfish & self centred, completely spoiled ,but born lucky to lead a luxurious life. If he was abusive that day Charu should have walked out of his life. Anyway life ahead is not easy Charu, you will have to work hard and take good care of your daughter.
Charu jii aap ki peheli jhut. Rajeev key birthday ata hain August 11 th mein ... Aap kal ki video mein boli thi Ziana premature Hui hain nov. Mein .. to aap plz batay aap August mein 8 month preg. Kaisi thi .... Tab to aap ka 5th month hi chal raha hoga na ..
Proud of Charu for bringing this out to the public. There are many entitled men in our society who go around town thinking they can continue abuse just because someone loves them.
She is not lying, can make out from her face... Looks like she has gone through a lot. God give her the courage to take a suitable decision and move on.
I don't know who this girl is, just happened to come across this video, but this is SO heart breaking. For a woman to break down like this in an interview, it just speaks for howww traumatised she must be and how many things she has gone through. I just want to send all my strength to you ❤️ You'll come out of this!
She’s too scared and vulnerable. 💔I can totally understand her space. It’s okay. Life mai himmat karni padti hai. Chahey kitna bhi darr lagey hamai sahi ke liye khada hona chaiye. Ignore those people jo khud toxic marriage mai fasey rehtey hai. Kindly get out of toxic marriages even if it’s your tenth or 100th marriage. Humse zyada hamari situation aur koi nahi jaanta. STOP LISTENING TO ADJUSTMENT NONSENSE. Please don’t back off if your parents are not with you. Most Indian parents are damn controlling and super deluded themselves. Jinhoney khud apni zindagi mai sirf compromises kiye hai woh doosrey ko nahi samjhengey. Kyuki unke minds already BLOCKED hai. They are merely trained robots. Please use your mind and don’t become a robot to anybody. Koi bhi log aapka ghar aakey nahi chalaaengey. Run your UA-cam channel and earn for yourself and your daughter. I wish Rajeev also light and sensibility to peacefully end this relationship and move on without hanging on to the ego. It’s okay. It’s not the end of the world. Calmness be with you! 💓💓
As a psychology student I can bet her husband is a narcissist. He's the one that needs psychological help. She went through narcissistic abuse I wish her and her baby 💖strength and light.
@@santusanturohit4832 that’s not true. It’s hard to treat but it can be treated. I know a mental health and wellness coach that has narcissistic personality disorder and he takes therapy and talks about narcissism and how to spot narcissists and helps many survivors of narcissistic abuse. He’s pretty famous but all I recall is that he’s a black American. Married and with a child.
Hats off to this courageous lady to talk about her toxic relationship 👏. She deserves all the happiness. God bless her with good things. Enough is enough no more tears. Lots of love charu
All I say is she is right. I went through same for 10 years and finally had the courage to get divorced for my 7 years old. The fear of everything in her voice is real. But it is very important to speak with loved ones about our insecurities. I was so scared when I was getting out about society and family but all I got from them is lottt of love and respect. Not everyone in the society is same. Especially ladies :) Remember they go through this one different scales. Don't blame yourself for someone else's toxicity.
Ok then why are you posting videos of ziana birthday with rajeev in it? Come on please stop this acting and this desperate attention to revive your flop careers. Both of you. BOTH OF YOU STOP IT. And remember you're already divorced and heading for a 2nd divorce. There's something clearly wrong with you as well which obviously you won't accept which is classic narcissism. Rajeev too must be toxic his own ways. But you have to genuinely look inside and see why this happened for a 2nd time. To divorce. Please introspect.
@@pratyushdoonrocker3046 she is not saying that. 👆🏻 imagine the same thing happening with your mom or sister. Be empathic,and i am not a feminist. Right is right and wrong is wrong.
When you are in a marriage and I bet may it be men or women, there are so ups and down in every relationship that kitni baar sabhi ke man mai ata hai bus hogya yaar let's get separated chahey woh admi ho ya aurat ,but it takes immense courage to get out of this mess , marriage is beautiful and at the same time it is very tortuous, aur yaha galati kisi ki nhe hoti , marriage is as such bade bade log haar gye bhaisab hum sab kya cheez hai,aur isly if someone takes courage to step out of this why to judge yaar,we all sailing on the same boat yaar,so to both of you ,charu and your ex best of luck for your future, marriage khatm Hui hai zindagi nhe.
Charu is a dignified woman. It's sad what happened to her but good thst she is taking it positively even tho it's the hardest phase of her life. May she find happiness.
Please don't cry charu... I can feel you completely... I was not married but experienced exactly the same.. pregnancy and everything... And other people just judge you quickly for everything and these days be it woman or man most of them lack empathy... God Bless You 🙏 and gives you strength and happiness❤
Charu Di this interview was very much necessary. Your genuineness can easily be seen through this. Now onwards you just focus on ziana & your career. Nothing else should be more important for you than this. You are strong enough. More power to you ❤️ -A Fellow Bikaneri 🙏
@@tamals22 I think Charu madam is Bengali kya? My name is also same as her, n same exact , that after my marriage, I got separated from husband as he had such nature. I seek help
If marriages look like this, I'm feeling bad for her, but for the first time I'm feeling happy that I'm single 🥺 Please all i can say is please don't break the hearts who love you, that's the worst sin you'll ever commit
People who love you will never force you... specially like marriage. It will be stupid decision to jump into marriage just because he/she love you / you don't want to break heart / not want to commit sin according to you.... end result be like recent tragedy...
It takes immense amount of courage to stand and speak infront of the world. Society will always blame women for a broken marriage but will never ever give a glace that it is costing her mental health, career and her life ruined. She's the victim of his narcissistic behaviour and she is not obligated to succumb to that so as to save her marriage. She stayed even after all the red flags and ringing alarms just to save her marriage and not to ruin "other's" moods. Indeed a sensible decision to get separated when all that marriage has given you is trauma.
@@shivamsrivastava664 are you conveniently ignorant and prefer to see what only you want to see? Go, see people immediate to you and you'll know who 'f*cking' told me. Mee too was about women coming out about sexual misconduct happened to them. I don't see what is wrong there. Or do you just want women to be walked over and still expect them to worship those same people? I'm no 'pseudo- feminist ' here or anything if that's what you are wondering, this is about basic human conduct towards others.
@@sirjeonjungkook5980 Men have to prove themselves for any false allegation made by women (unless they have political power or are rich) But this isnt the case with women.... The police fear to take action against women....Under movements like metoo police used to believe men guilty just by listening to a girl Recently do you know what happened in chandigarh university? How media was highly biased and nearly destroyed that innocent boy's life?? Watch peepoye video on this matter to understand how society easily believes women while men have to prove .... I never said women dont suffer...both of them suffer...
@@shivamsrivastava664I am aware of that. There have been serious victims of the times when women misused their power and society blindly believed them. But you kinda missed the whole point of my comment. What you're addressing has become a issue in recent decades but women have been victim to patriarchy since a long long time.
Unfortunately she has dealt with a malignant narcissist. Her case has all the hallmarks on what a narcissist does to their victim. First they love-bomb you, then they control you, they distance you from your own family and friends, they devalue you and finally they discard you. She’s quite lucky to have escaped him. Not all victims are this lucky. I feel sorry for the little child that’s involved in this mess. Hope she gets immense support from her family and friends so she can move on and leave him behind in the dust.
Actually my father is a narcissistic person . And I know ki ye kaise hote h , meri mother ne Puri life nikaal di , or ek baat mere father h koi bolega apne father k liye ye bol rhi h , lekin jisne jhela h ye sab usi ko pta h 🙌mujhe to marriage se bhi Darr lgta tha , meri arrange marriage h but my husband is quite good , i know thoda bhot chalta h husband wife me but itna nhi ki ghar jail lgne lag jaaye
My heart goes out for her...she is a kind & emotional lady...with teary eyes I watched the whole interview...god bless her & her daughter..I love you both
I remember watching her baby shower video and she was so afraid of Rajeev.. You can see Rajeev asking her why are u so nervous.. Its difficult to try to mend something that you know can never be mended. With you charu❤️
Same ...since then I have felt uneasy watching him lovey dovey.....one can easily see n recognise the behaviour from that vlog ..my heart goes out to her 💕...her decision is right
Also, I thank Sidd for getting the truth out.. You are an amazing man.. and such a kindhearted human who actually could get tears in his eyes... and believing in her 🥺❤
Koi kisiko sikha nehi sakte, after 20 -25 no one listen to anybody. We r 3sister and 1brother bt we 3 sisters are different and brother is completely different
I've been through the same situation, my ex husband was same, prblms started after 3 day of marriage, i tried everything trying to save the marriage, but finally decided no more.. The best decision.. I understand her completely, watever is she saying, the pattern is same, she is not lying at all. The one who has gone through that can only understand, dnt worry charu, everything will be ok after some time, its not easy but one day you'll get over it, i've done it you can too
I am facing the same things in my life.. but i have a son now i feel so bad for my baby tht he has this kind of father who dnt care about him & his mother
I don't have phobia anymore which i had before ..becas i realize i m going to get married only when i m completely sure ..and irrespective of me been sure if the guy turns out to be monkey ..donkey..i will make sure ..it won't effect my mental and physical health ...forgiveness is imp ..only when there is sincerity.
They have 2 flats at Oberoi Goregaon, and bungalow in Delhi and Dubai..Cant they even buy or help RENT a decent flat even for Charu and for the baby zianas sake in a decent area .Rajeev is the only son...what will they do with so much money and properties.How selfish Crores worrh of Jewellery Shop in Dubai , KYA Karenge itna paisa? .Absolutely Ridiculous this Man is so selfish and fake...Cant stand him.Charu ..yeh time bhi nikal jaayega.. God is with you, Dont go back to him.Lowest of the Low family..Live Alone in PEACE
I don't know rajiv side of the story but running away is a habit of rajeev is for sure... When you see lockdown vlogs he was not there and during that time everyone wish to be with their family and most of the people were in fact at home with family.... And during pregnancy also most of the time charu as was alone doing her work.... If he is like that then he don't deserve to be a husband of any girl because his nature will never led him lead a happy married life or happy family life... May God bless ziana and those who are in pain may recover soon
Mere sath bhi do shadi ek engagement tooti thi maine kitna dard jhela h main samjh sakti hu but meri life me bot acha insan h mera ek beta bhi h ab now I m happy apka tym bhi bot acha aane wala hai di vishwas rakho
I have been in a narcissistic relationship and I get this 100%. On and off relationship,emotional abuse,trauma bond. Relationship with narcissist can never survive.
It's sad to see her still in some kind of traumatic stress. It seems like she has still not come out of the shock of how poorly she was treated. She is still questioning How ? Why ? I hope at some point she realizes toxic people are like that. When we come from nurturing and loving homes, we feel shocked at others' sub par behavior. It feels inhuman and shocking. Give urself some grieving time to cope Charu and then at some point , move on and never look back !! A wise woman like Sush is taking her side over her own brother , is very telling of your good intentions and benevolence. Be strong and set example for those need strength !!
Mujhe lgta hai mentally halat charu ki nhi rajeev sen ki khrab hai bhagwan hmesa apke sath hai ache logo k sath hmesa Acha hi hota hai apni beti k sath khus raho
I feel so sorry for Charu ma'am because the video which I show before she got married to Rajeev she was so talented so so beautiful after marrying to him she was like depressed
Yes I was also with a cheater who ruined me she should take a bold step and leave him Nothing will work with a liar She sd consult her family and take a practical step Liars can't be trusted
Rajeev sounds like a textbook narcissist. She is so lucky she left when she did. I’m just leaving my narcissist husband after 21 yrs. best wishes to you. You are brave.
Dearest Charu, there are many times when marriages don’t work and they fail. Marriages fail not because of one person or one reason, they are a result of lot of reasons and chaos. We have one life and we don’t deserve to be in any toxic relationship, sometimes two people are just not meant to be together. You have our love and wishes and it’s not going to be easy but for a peaceful future we sometimes have to take hard steps. Always remember the biggest gift you can give yourself is choosing your own happiness.
She’s too scared and vulnerable. 💔I can totally understand her space. It’s okay. Life mai himmat karni padti hai. Chahey kitna bhi darr lagey hamai sahi ke liye khada hona chaiye. Ignore those people jo khud toxic marriage mai fasey rehtey hai. Kindly get out of toxic marriages even if it’s your tenth or 100th marriage. Humse zyada hamari situation aur koi nahi jaanta. STOP LISTENING TO ADJUSTMENT NONSENSE. Please don’t back off if your parents are not with you. Most Indian parents are damn controlling and super deluded themselves. Jinhoney khud apni zindagi mai sirf compromises kiye hai woh doosrey ko nahi samjhengey. Kyuki unke minds already BLOCKED hai. They are merely trained robots. Please use your mind and don’t become a robot to anybody. Koi bhi log aapka ghar aakey nahi chalaaengey. Run your UA-cam channel and earn for yourself and your daughter. I wish Rajeev also light and sensibility to peacefully end this relationship and move on without hanging on to the ego. It’s okay. It’s not the end of the world. Calmness be with you! 💓💓
Adjust... Adjust... Adjust. NO. IT'S NOT F***ING ADJUSTMENT. It's just asking a person to TOLERATE the WRONGDOING OF OTHER. Why do this society understand that Mental Abuse is As torturous as physical abuse. Charu, you deserve FARRRR BETTER 🙏💯
@@littlepaws0790 exactly everytime we can't say man is criminal and women's are innocent without knowing facts from both end now a days women do lots of crime and start playing feminist card so it is necessary to have interogation from both end as her husband demanding a kid and said she had a affair with some actor so proper investigation needed
@@littlepaws0790 hmare yha ek case hua jab interogation hui toh women k dosh tha aaj woh lady jail m hai aur usko manhani ka 2 crore bhi bharna pada😁😁😁
Brave Charu , you not done any wrong. You exterminate the toxic marriage. You free yourself and never turn back again. Those you have done very good and become independent.
Such toxic men do exist...I know of few such men. Being a lawyer we come across such cases very often. Stay strong woman.."because I loved him..sab theek ho gaya"...that's so genuine.
@@shubh.leo5 yes even toxic girls exist. Who said they don't. Why r u getting u insecure? Since the interview is of a woman about a man, I talked only about men.
@@shubh.leo5 insecure and a woman..🤣🤣🤣. She has walked out with her 1 year old..will in all probability struggle with her profession. And u calling her insecure. She openly says she is not claiming any alimony. U seem toxic to me. Move on.
@sucheta no matter how long you have dated or courted a person, the toxicity can not be judgesd, till you start living with someone. everything is so sugarcoated.
I understand you charu.....problems se bhagna and leaving your house suddenly without telling you is the root cause...it breaks you emotionally and mentally....Rajeev is immature he should always talk things through...having an emotionally absent partner is very devastating and frustrating...aisi koi badi baat nahi thi divorce k pichey bas itni ki rajeev immature hai... he is irresponsible and definitely not caring....he is an absent father and a husband which is not acceptable at all....
Such a calm, matured, innocent, genuine and composed woman Charu ma'am is! Please Stay Strong and Never give up!! Your Best life is waiting for you Charu ma'am, lots of love!!!❤️❤❤❤❤
More power to you Charu...... You Are not alone just have feet in you in God and in your daughter everything will be alright just be strong we all are with you
Very painful story of Charu. Charu don't worry, be strong, your angel Ziana is with you. I too missed understood you sometimes, due to Rajeev's talk. Man is dirty creature. Only a woman can understand you. Love you Charu, u made us cry. God bless you and your dear angel Ziana 🙏❤️🌹😘
The way she speaks.. she is so honest and lovable. I don't understand what else would a man desire in a life partner that she doesn't have. Her broken marriages can only be due to fate.. otherwise she is a gem of a person.
Or maybe she is way too submissive...kisiko bura na lage isi liye bohot kuch karti hai apne marzi ke khilaf...self respect aur self love hona chahiye...healthy boundaries are needed....she is way too good...acchai ka zamana na kabhi tha aur abhi hai...
She’s too scared and vulnerable. 💔I can totally understand her space. It’s okay. Life mai himmat karni padti hai. Chahey kitna bhi darr lagey hamai sahi ke liye khada hona chaiye. Ignore those people jo khud toxic marriage mai fasey rehtey hai. Kindly get out of toxic marriages even if it’s your tenth or 100th marriage. Humse zyada hamari situation aur koi nahi jaanta. STOP LISTENING TO ADJUSTMENT NONSENSE. Please don’t back off if your parents are not with you. Most Indian parents are damn controlling and super deluded themselves. Jinhoney khud apni zindagi mai sirf compromises kiye hai woh doosrey ko nahi samjhengey. Kyuki unke minds already BLOCKED hai. They are merely trained robots. Please use your mind and don’t become a robot to anybody. Koi bhi log aapka ghar aakey nahi chalaaengey. Run your UA-cam channel and earn for yourself and your daughter. I wish Rajeev also light and sensibility to peacefully end this relationship and move on without hanging on to the ego. It’s okay. It’s not the end of the world. Calmness be with you! 💓💓
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Dear sid first of all thank you for calling charu for interview.. LISTEN CHARU BE BRAVE YOU HAVE GOD ANGEL WITH YOU ZIANA YOUR TAKING RIGHT DECISION WE ALL ARE WITH YOU CHARU PUBLIC TRUST YOU AND YOUR WORDS WE ALL ARE WITH YOU IN GOOD AND BAD TIMES DEAR MISS U SIS😘😥 PLS DONT BE SAD ,YOUR STRONG AND SUCESSFUL
Congratulations @siddharthkannan this vlog has 7.5 lakhs views
Call both Rajeev and Charu together and take their interview so that we know both sides like Adil and Rakhi
Inse pata laga raha hai ki ye bahut achchi hai inka husband kharab kisi aurat ladki maa ke sath aise nahi karna chahiye yaar Rajeev agar koi aapke behen ke sath ye kare to shayad aapko pata chalega yaar nahi rehna to shadi mat kiya karo ladki maa ban gai aur uski zindagi bhi aapne kharab kar di kaise us insan ko taras nahi aya yaar mujhe ankhon me ansu a gaye sharm karo Rajeev kabhi khush nahi rahoge yaar .
सिद्धार्थ सर आपका बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद जो आपने चारूजी का इंटरव्यू लिया । इंटरव्यू देख कर आखों से सहज ही आंसू निकलने लगे । ईश्वर चारुजी को इस मुश्किल वक्त लड़ने की शक्ति प्रदान करे।❤️
I can't even imagine how much she had suffered emotionally and mentally...in pregnancy every women needs her husband support...she is very strong women ..May God bless her.
The way she broke down clearly shows how worst she had faced in her married life. More power to you girl. We are with you always ❤
People cry for drama or gaining sympathy too..
Tears doesn't mean anything...
It also doesn't mean People who don't cry aren't sad.
Charu baby,, you are free,, .
Congratulations.
Don't worry.
Ab to sb achaa hoga.
Don't worry
Just don’t get married again …
She’s doing so much well by herself … I wouldn’t advise Charu and Rajeev to come togther again any time soon ….
Focus on Ziana and urself …
This interview was needed... thank you Siddharth...
Charu you are a brave and pure soul....live your life happily....you deserve best ...
I am proud of Charu. She gathered courage to end this toxic marriage. She choose herself and her daughter's happiness.
Charu jii aap ki peheli jhut. Rajeev key birthday ata hain August 11 th mein ... Aap kal ki video mein boli thi Ziana premature Hui hain nov. Mein .. to aap plz batay aap August mein 8 month preg. Kaisi thi .... Tab to aap ka 5th month hi chal raha hoga na ..
Jo jo log Rajeev ko gali dey rahey hain plz ek saal peheley charu asopa ki vlogs ko dekhe.... Yea kitni jhuti and drama queen hi hain pata chal jayega.
Rajeev should reply now .. bohut tamasha kar diya .. rone sey hi pura sympathy mil jate hain womens ko. Good catch krishna jii
@@Krishna-priya865 exactly dis i m saying jab ye vlog banati hai dono ke chuma chatti private pics dramebaazi taab toh ye hassti rahti ho nw showing these fake tears bloody cheapsters
Ladki bas rote hue kch b bol de sab mann lete hai.
This is just for publicity
Iska man bhar chuka hai.
I loved Sidharth Kanna's sympathetic attitude in the whole interview. he acted like a psychologist and not like an interviewer. He let her talk. no interference.
He prbbly has experienced/ undergone therapy himself because everyone goes through stress or rough times. Maybe that’s y he is being decent and letting her speak
Agreed
Absolutely he seems to be a very nice human being
He seems to be a balanced person.Sone men are good too
True
A big clap to the host who did not even acted like host for a sec .sometime s we just need someone who sits and listen to us .He listened her so calmly without interrupting . Because in today's edition we come across so many ppl who just aim at content . He gave her time , waited patiently. ✋️ 👌🙏
Sab question pehele se taya hota hai
Rip to your logic. These are well rehearsed questions. 😂😂😂😂
Good kannan
Correct
WOMEN EMPOWERMENT WOMEN RIGHTS WOMEN THIS WOMEN THAT YE CHUTIYAPA ONLY SUSHMITA SEN DOES FOR PUBLICITY AND NOT SEE HER OWN HOUSE
I can very well understand her feeling I went through it. My husband also done the same thing left me and gone saying iam mentally unfit. He left me twice, and came back with family's pressure I accepted him back because I was afraid to live alone in this society. Now it's been 7 year's iam living alone.I have become much stronger mentally and my god Almighty is wonderfully taking care of me.☺✌I will pray for charu to become mentally strong and heal her all inner wounds. 🙌🙏💖
Only a woman can understand what she has gone through and still going!
Yah, correct 😭😭
Drama queen
@@harshith2980 jina de apne ghar shyapa nahi Pye hunde osnu drama he lagda
Humhe , aaj kal ki duniya mai doosro ki fikar nahi hai..humhe bas ye janne mai interest hai ki dusro ki life mai kya chal raha hai .
Jinke saath kuch bhi bura ya galat hota hai sirf wohi samajh sakte hai..baaki dusro ke liye bas wo ek gossip hai..
Only a woman can understand? Yeh kya baat hui..aur phir aap rajeev ki bhi prospective ko bina soche judgemental hojana sahi nehi he...ek banda ka bhi apna sapna hota he ki bo apni begam ki sath apni jindegi khusi se jie..
As a married woman..i can feel her pain.. only a woman can sacrifice all her life..career, self-respect for that one person...i can totally feel her💔
This has nothing to do with gender. Lots of men go through this too. Giving up everything for that one lady. Yes including his career finance money and everything while she controls the finances and smears his name everywhere.
This is about abuse. It’s horrible. No should go through that.
@@celestialstar8115 a man never gives up his career the way women do
@@meghan9719 man don't have any choice .. will you marry a non working guy ?
Don't be so biased
I am not being biased..but that's how things work in our society...i know alot of men face this problem..but the divorce rate is 1-2% in india...just close your eyes and think about your surrounding... How many man and woman you've seen sacrificing their happiness in a marriage???? Definitely alot of women and few men... Hmari society aise hi work krti hai... Auraton ko hmesha kaha jata hai..chup rho..sun lo thoda...
Even though she faced so much of trauma and abuses in this marriage still she is addressing him so respectfully 💔
That shows her good upbringing.
Rajeev key birthday August mein atey hain ...agar nov.mein ziana hui hain to August mein she was 5th month preg. Not 8th. Jhut bolkey kisiko niche dikha saktey ho charu jii .. but upar wala sab dekh rahey hain. Yead rakhna
@@LaxmiNarayan24 baki ni pta mujhse kch is issue ka, kaun sahi h ya galat h. But ziana i think 8th mnth me hi hogyi h
@@sonalimishra8231 unka interview mein she said .. plz hear again . Ki last rajeev key birthday mein when she was 8th month .. first I thought slip of tongue but no..she said it again .I felt like sleeping at home kiuki 8th month chal raha tha roads achey nehi they .sab ka mood na bigar jay ishliya I went .....but actually in August she was 5th month preg. Jo doc. Travel karney boltey hain . Yea to total jhut bola.
@@LaxmiNarayan24 acha. Tb toh jhuth bol rhi h.
So glad women no longer feel it obligated to stay in toxic marriages. I don’t know this woman but I’m glad she’s chosen to stand up for her kid. Loved how she said she doesn’t want to affect her kid and raise her in a toxic marriage. He’s a thorough narcissist. Bravo for escaping 👏
I feel so sorry for her ... Rajeev looks so selfish from start not responsible at all.. Rajeev is not a good father he was never available for his daughter...only seen Charu being a father and mother for her daughter..so proud of you charu please be strong and safe .my prayers are with you always.
We need to support her at any cost. Let's just motivate her. We all are with you . I know you are reading.
I agree. Being a woman, I know how tough is this. I had also got a husband who was such ignorant guy n has no communication with me, who eventually left me
yes 🤗
we all support you.
No body knows what a woman is going through!!Society is always going to point out to the woman no matter what.
Exactly bro
Exactly....bht jada sachme ldki ka life asan nai he.. lucky hote he wo atleast jinke pass loyal partner ho ❤️
So true
Right
Agreed. That man was always on the run. Hardly saw him spending time with his wife or family
I was also one of those people who thought she is nautanki. And I am so ashamed now. I really want to apologise to this lady. She was just trying to support herself and her daughter. I am so sorry to Charu. I wish her happiness and success and recovery from the mental trauma she suffered.
Omg... I also judged her for not focusing on her family. Now I am feeling guilty for it. She was going through a lot
Feel so sad, she had to go through so much. I have been seeing Charu and Rajeevs UA-cam videos. Always used to feel what is happening. But today after seeing this video, I feel she has gone through so much to save the relationship. Hats off to Charu. This was her best decision to come up and share the truth so that people stop saying nonsense about her
Wow this interview really saddened me. I really wish her all the best! She is crying uncontrollably because she's been keeping it inside for too long. It's clear that he wanted to chop her legs off so she can be dependent on him. I think he's got complex about his sister and he's naturally pouring that down to his wife. Unfortunately, she had to become his victim.
Yes, he does seem very insecure that he did not even get half the success of sushmita, but he lacks the discipline, hard work and 'get along with others attitude' hence is not successful, despite having the looks to make it big in the entertainment industry. And he must be insecure about Charu being more popular than him as well. He could not even tolerate his mother caring for Charu when she was pregnant. I have not seen such an insecure husband. When I saw the vlog that soon after Charu's delivery he was in Dubai, I instantly realized how disconnected he is from his own newborn. Recently when Ziana was diagnosed with Dengue, he was out enjoying, eating out then he mentions that He will be taking a flight there to see Ziana soon as if to show off how much he cares. A person who truly cares would not even be able to so causally enjoy evening out and would be worried sick at home. As a father how can you even think about eating out and enjoying when your daughter is in hospital.
Salute sidharth sir apne sab ke problems share ki easily as not a interview looking like discuss kar rahe ho jaise apni problems. ❤
Thank you to siddharth kannan for giving her a platform to share her story. It’s hard and traumatising to be in a unhealthy, toxic relationship. I am so happy for Charu, finally she is out of it.
WOMEN EMPOWERMENT WOMEN RIGHTS WOMEN THIS WOMEN THAT YE CHUTIYAPA ONLY SUSHMITA SEN DOES FOR PUBLICITY AND NOT SEE HER OWN HOUSE
She is absolutely right we hv seen her so many vlogs...she was ALONE ALONE AND ALONE all the time, strong woman she was.
This interview is much needed. The personality she is describing about her husband resembles a person that I know . Everything that she said is exactly how that person is. There, I get to know that she is speaking the truth . It takes a lot of courage to come out and speak about these things . Lots of respect to you Charu
This is typical narcissistic trait , mostly these people are selfish, cheater,lier and they project their insecurities on others, most of the time they attract empaths who like to take care of others more than themselves, and empaths get into a trauma bonding thinking that toxic relationship is everything they want. It's very difficult for an empath to come out of these relationships as their emotions are used against themselves by the narcissist and narcissists don't feel any kind of empathy inside themselves. So it's very easy to leave everything one fine morning when he thinks he gets bored or something hurts his ego
@@feelbetter2481 thank you taking us more in detail about narcissistic people and their traits . I do not want to be a victim anymore. Hopefully we can all escape from this kind of people .
Exactly she is 💯 telling the absolute truth
@@feelbetter2481 so true... Recently I am dealing with the same situation... Atleast she has some connections in mumbai and she will get job but I am in such a pathetic situation that I don't have my mother who could have been beside me in this time also I don't have job nor my husband is giving me any monetary support... Instead of being a liability to my father I have no other option as I have a one year child and there is no one to look after him...
@@sayonichakrabory5817 u pls find a job
People are soooo pathetic, judging without knowing anyone personally. This girl suffered so much and people added more misery into her situation. Proud of you girl, you're an amazing mother and an excellent woman 🙌
Respect to Siddharth for being so empathetic, patiently listening to what Charu had to talk. Charu, don’t worry everything will be fine. Sending prayers and lot of positive vibes.
Hats off you mam
Itna kuch bolne K liye bahut courage chahiye ..
Ab koi confusion nhi h ...isse accha interview nhi ho sakta ...
I have no idea what happened with this girl but I can feel her pain, she is true, honest and strong also. Our society never understands one girl's suffering, society always wants the sacrifices of girls, why? Charu be strong and take care of yourself and your daughter. Everything will be alright, God is there always with you.God bless you.
She is so polite and beautiful 😍 that man don't deserve her
She is so humble yrr , 😢I really feel bad for her . She suffered a lot . She deserves happiness .
Please give her alot of work so charu can move forward.
And charu di you are very strong. Keep standing for what is right . As a woman i feel so proud of you because in current day situation we all women go through such toxic relationships and when we try to come out of such relationship instead of realising their mistake our partner abuses us.
Really appreciate the host siddhart who there to listen to her, not trying to manipulate her for content but to actually sit calmly, not interrupting and be there.
Her honesty is seen by the way she is speaking... may God bless you and heal you from the pain
Things are needed to be told to public before a narcissist starts manipulating and spoils ur image. It's good Charu is speaking up. Can completely understand what she went thru.
This was heartbreaking ! I want to say to Charu you are a smart woman you don’t need to tolerate any celebrities brothers bull crap ! His behaviour of ghosting and manipulating is very toxic ! He sounds extremely insecure and selfish to the core ! Please move on with your life you deserve better ! To hell with society anybody who truly cares for you will tell you to get out of this marriage asap. And as far as your past is concerned there is nobody in this earth who doesn’t have a past has Rajeev not seen his own and his sisters past ? Sushmita is known to have had more than a dozen relationships so far . Doesn’t matter ! Wishing Charu strength to move on !
I respect Siddhart who understands the women pain and bring to his platform
Oh plz he just needs content to make his videos 🙄
She’s too scared and vulnerable. 💔I can totally understand her space. It’s okay. Life mai himmat karni padti hai. Chahey kitna bhi darr lagey hamai sahi ke liye khada hona chaiye. Ignore those people jo khud toxic marriage mai fasey rehtey hai. Kindly get out of toxic marriages even if it’s your tenth or 100th marriage. Humse zyada hamari situation aur koi nahi jaanta. STOP LISTENING TO ADJUSTMENT NONSENSE. Please don’t back off if your parents are not with you. Most Indian parents are damn controlling and super deluded themselves. Jinhoney khud apni zindagi mai sirf compromises kiye hai woh doosrey ko nahi samjhengey. Kyuki unke minds already BLOCKED hai. They are merely trained robots. Please use your mind and don’t become a robot to anybody. Koi bhi log aapka ghar aakey nahi chalaaengey. Run your UA-cam channel and earn for yourself and your daughter. I wish Rajeev also light and sensibility to peacefully end this relationship and move on without hanging on to the ego. It’s okay. It’s not the end of the world. Calmness be with you! 💓💓
@@sabasn1611 absolutely right
@@sammyann70 True
@@sammyann70 true , I have commented the same that the video is made on someone’s personal life to earn money. Just like Amber Heard used Tmz
Ye bilkul sachh bol rhi h...she needs support..she needs ❤love & care
It’s very hard to live with someone so selfish & self centred, completely spoiled ,but born lucky to lead a luxurious life. If he was abusive that day Charu should have walked out of his life. Anyway life ahead is not easy Charu, you will have to work hard and take good care of your daughter.
Yes but she will have peace of mind
Coveted narcissist that's what he is.
Charu jii aap ki peheli jhut. Rajeev key birthday ata hain August 11 th mein ... Aap kal ki video mein boli thi Ziana premature Hui hain nov. Mein .. to aap plz batay aap August mein 8 month preg. Kaisi thi .... Tab to aap ka 5th month hi chal raha hoga na ..
Thank god tum to samjhe charu ek achhi ladki hai
World is full of such self centred ppl who takes only advantage
Proud of Charu for bringing this out to the public. There are many entitled men in our society who go around town thinking they can continue abuse just because someone loves them.
Charu he is sick, khud life me kuch karata nahi, dusaro ko tang karta hai
Same my husband aisey hai wo b Ghar chor k chaley jaatey hai aur mje block ker let hai
Girl, you don't need to be sorry at all for showing your genuine emotions. Stay strong and it shall pass too
She deserves justice 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 .we all are with you 💯💯
She is not lying, can make out from her face... Looks like she has gone through a lot. God give her the courage to take a suitable decision and move on.
I don't know who this girl is, just happened to come across this video, but this is SO heart breaking. For a woman to break down like this in an interview, it just speaks for howww traumatised she must be and how many things she has gone through.
I just want to send all my strength to you ❤️ You'll come out of this!
i hv been through this twice
This lady is married to brother of Sushmita Sen . Her name is Charu.
She’s too scared and vulnerable. 💔I can totally understand her space. It’s okay. Life mai himmat karni padti hai. Chahey kitna bhi darr lagey hamai sahi ke liye khada hona chaiye. Ignore those people jo khud toxic marriage mai fasey rehtey hai. Kindly get out of toxic marriages even if it’s your tenth or 100th marriage. Humse zyada hamari situation aur koi nahi jaanta. STOP LISTENING TO ADJUSTMENT NONSENSE. Please don’t back off if your parents are not with you. Most Indian parents are damn controlling and super deluded themselves. Jinhoney khud apni zindagi mai sirf compromises kiye hai woh doosrey ko nahi samjhengey. Kyuki unke minds already BLOCKED hai. They are merely trained robots. Please use your mind and don’t become a robot to anybody. Koi bhi log aapka ghar aakey nahi chalaaengey. Run your UA-cam channel and earn for yourself and your daughter. I wish Rajeev also light and sensibility to peacefully end this relationship and move on without hanging on to the ego. It’s okay. It’s not the end of the world. Calmness be with you! 💓💓
Exactly
She is herself an actress, worked in many serials including diya and baati hum and also she is sushmita sen’s sister in law(brother’s wife).
She is telling the truth...this too shall pass stay strong..any kind of abuse is a abuse chahe woh emotional ho ya physical...stay away
As a psychology student I can bet her husband is a narcissist. He's the one that needs psychological help. She went through narcissistic abuse I wish her and her baby 💖strength and light.
I am also a Clinical Psychologist
You cant treat Narcissism..just leave them.
Nothing can treat narcissism.. only self awareness,self reflection and the right work can which completely contradicts the trait of narcissist
@@santusanturohit4832 that’s not true. It’s hard to treat but it can be treated. I know a mental health and wellness coach that has narcissistic personality disorder and he takes therapy and talks about narcissism and how to spot narcissists and helps many survivors of narcissistic abuse. He’s pretty famous but all I recall is that he’s a black American. Married and with a child.
Family counselling required . Both may be at fault .
I can see truth in her voice...I can feel her pain honestly
Siddharth Kannan, such a good and calm listener. It's rare to find people like this, even in families.
I don't know about their relationship. But i appreciate Siddarth how wisely he handled the situation👍👍👏
She’s too brave to get rid of tht toxic relationship… wish her loads well ❤
Hats off to this courageous lady to talk about her toxic relationship 👏. She deserves all the happiness. God bless her with good things. Enough is enough no more tears. Lots of love charu
All I say is she is right. I went through same for 10 years and finally had the courage to get divorced for my 7 years old. The fear of everything in her voice is real. But it is very important to speak with loved ones about our insecurities. I was so scared when I was getting out about society and family but all I got from them is lottt of love and respect. Not everyone in the society is same. Especially ladies :) Remember they go through this one different scales. Don't blame yourself for someone else's toxicity.
Ok then why are you posting videos of ziana birthday with rajeev in it? Come on please stop this acting and this desperate attention to revive your flop careers. Both of you. BOTH OF YOU STOP IT. And remember you're already divorced and heading for a 2nd divorce. There's something clearly wrong with you as well which obviously you won't accept which is classic narcissism. Rajeev too must be toxic his own ways. But you have to genuinely look inside and see why this happened for a 2nd time. To divorce. Please introspect.
@@pratyushdoonrocker3046 she is not saying that. 👆🏻 imagine the same thing happening with your mom or sister. Be empathic,and i am not a feminist. Right is right and wrong is wrong.
@@pratyushdoonrocker3046 toh tune bhi toh conclude kar diya ki ladke ki galati nahi hai. Tune facts check kiye??
When you are in a marriage and I bet may it be men or women, there are so ups and down in every relationship that kitni baar sabhi ke man mai ata hai bus hogya yaar let's get separated chahey woh admi ho ya aurat ,but it takes immense courage to get out of this mess , marriage is beautiful and at the same time it is very tortuous, aur yaha galati kisi ki nhe hoti , marriage is as such bade bade log haar gye bhaisab hum sab kya cheez hai,aur isly if someone takes courage to step out of this why to judge yaar,we all sailing on the same boat yaar,so to both of you ,charu and your ex best of luck for your future, marriage khatm Hui hai zindagi nhe.
It's her second divorce
Charu is a dignified woman. It's sad what happened to her but good thst she is taking it positively even tho it's the hardest phase of her life. May she find happiness.
Please don't cry charu... I can feel you completely... I was not married but experienced exactly the same.. pregnancy and everything... And other people just judge you quickly for everything and these days be it woman or man most of them lack empathy... God Bless You 🙏 and gives you strength and happiness❤
Charu is high value woman .If she was lazy ,dishonest or greedy she would not have fought against him
How can someone be so pure hearted??? I just love her. I wish her all the happiness in the world. My heart breaks to see her like this..
Actually pure people suffered alot, so sad
Charu Di this interview was very much necessary. Your genuineness can easily be seen through this. Now onwards you just focus on ziana & your career. Nothing else should be more important for you than this. You are strong enough. More power to you ❤️
-A Fellow Bikaneri 🙏
I agree. N what this ediot Man Rajeev is
I am ashamed being a Bengali 😞 i cant say anything jyst have to bear the brunt if someone abuses bengalis for this behaviour
@@tamals22 I think Charu madam is Bengali kya? My name is also same as her, n same exact , that after my marriage, I got separated from husband as he had such nature. I seek help
She endure all that pain for 3yrs which shows through her tears..😢😢😢
If marriages look like this, I'm feeling bad for her, but for the first time I'm feeling happy that I'm single 🥺
Please all i can say is please don't break the hearts who love you, that's the worst sin you'll ever commit
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@@RahulSharma-tq1tl true
People who love you will never force you... specially like marriage. It will be stupid decision to jump into marriage just because he/she love you / you don't want to break heart / not want to commit sin according to you.... end result be like recent tragedy...
Happily single 🥰 and don’t regret 1 minutes of it at all
It takes immense amount of courage to stand and speak infront of the world. Society will always blame women for a broken marriage but will never ever give a glace that it is costing her mental health, career and her life ruined. She's the victim of his narcissistic behaviour and she is not obligated to succumb to that so as to save her marriage.
She stayed even after all the red flags and ringing alarms just to save her marriage and not to ruin "other's" moods. Indeed a sensible decision to get separated when all that marriage has given you is trauma.
who fucking told u society blames women????!!!!
society believes women more easily and thats y metoo movements were started...
@@shivamsrivastava664 are you conveniently ignorant and prefer to see what only you want to see? Go, see people immediate to you and you'll know who 'f*cking' told me. Mee too was about women coming out about sexual misconduct happened to them. I don't see what is wrong there. Or do you just want women to be walked over and still expect them to worship those same people? I'm no 'pseudo- feminist ' here or anything if that's what you are wondering, this is about basic human conduct towards others.
@@sirjeonjungkook5980
Men have to prove themselves for any false allegation made by women (unless they have political power or are rich)
But this isnt the case with women....
The police fear to take action against women....Under movements like metoo police used to believe men guilty just by listening to a girl
Recently do you know what happened in chandigarh university? How media was highly biased and nearly destroyed that innocent boy's life?? Watch peepoye video on this matter to understand how society easily believes women while men have to prove ....
I never said women dont suffer...both of them suffer...
@@shivamsrivastava664I am aware of that. There have been serious victims of the times when women misused their power and society blindly believed them. But you kinda missed the whole point of my comment. What you're addressing has become a issue in recent decades but women have been victim to patriarchy since a long long time.
@@sirjeonjungkook5980
SOCIETY WILL ALWAYS BLAME WOMEN FOR A BROKEN MARRIAGE
🥺 esa husband kisi ko na mile 🙏
Unfortunately she has dealt with a malignant narcissist. Her case has all the hallmarks on what a narcissist does to their victim. First they love-bomb you, then they control you, they distance you from your own family and friends, they devalue you and finally they discard you. She’s quite lucky to have escaped him. Not all victims are this lucky. I feel sorry for the little child that’s involved in this mess. Hope she gets immense support from her family and friends so she can move on and leave him behind in the dust.
Yup!! Absolutely... NPD is a disorder which needs to be attended
I suggest education for the same HG Tudor is one such.. UA-camr
Exactly I have been through the same phase too and it literally made me emotionally empty tbh. Don't know if i would ever be able to heal completely.
Actually my father is a narcissistic person . And I know ki ye kaise hote h , meri mother ne Puri life nikaal di , or ek baat mere father h koi bolega apne father k liye ye bol rhi h , lekin jisne jhela h ye sab usi ko pta h 🙌mujhe to marriage se bhi Darr lgta tha , meri arrange marriage h but my husband is quite good , i know thoda bhot chalta h husband wife me but itna nhi ki ghar jail lgne lag jaaye
Actually yaar same goes for my father@@Lifestyleandthoughts
My heart goes out for her...she is a kind & emotional lady...with teary eyes I watched the whole interview...god bless her & her daughter..I love you both
I remember watching her baby shower video and she was so afraid of Rajeev.. You can see Rajeev asking her why are u so nervous.. Its difficult to try to mend something that you know can never be mended. With you charu❤️
Same ...since then I have felt uneasy watching him lovey dovey.....one can easily see n recognise the behaviour from that vlog ..my heart goes out to her 💕...her decision is right
Also, I thank Sidd for getting the truth out.. You are an amazing man.. and such a kindhearted human who actually could get tears in his eyes... and believing in her 🥺❤
Sushmita ne apne Bhai ko koi tmiz nhi sikhai ki aese behave na kre ur lady be strong we are support u
Koi kisi ko kuch nahi sikhata ek age k baad hrvyakti apni ek peraonality dopt krta hai
Koi kisiko sikha nehi sakte, after 20 -25 no one listen to anybody. We r 3sister and 1brother bt we 3 sisters are different and brother is completely different
😂😂😂😂 1:43
I've been through the same situation, my ex husband was same, prblms started after 3 day of marriage, i tried everything trying to save the marriage, but finally decided no more.. The best decision.. I understand her completely, watever is she saying, the pattern is same, she is not lying at all. The one who has gone through that can only understand, dnt worry charu, everything will be ok after some time, its not easy but one day you'll get over it, i've done it you can too
mere sath vi Aisa hi h
Did you get remarried? Or still single?
@@mytravls still single
Same happened with me ..had same kind of husband ..so gave him divorced but i am happy now .. these kind of narcissistic men cannot change
I am facing the same things in my life.. but i have a son now i feel so bad for my baby tht he has this kind of father who dnt care about him & his mother
No wonder why i have marriage phobia….hope my parents understands me some day n don’t force me into marriage 😢
True I am same ❤
I don't have phobia anymore which i had before ..becas i realize i m going to get married only when i m completely sure ..and irrespective of me been sure if the guy turns out to be monkey ..donkey..i will make sure ..it won't effect my mental and physical health ...forgiveness is imp ..only when there is sincerity.
@@princesssshanzay9848 true
Boycott marriage.. Even It's not good for men like us..
even i don't wish to marry but my parents are forcing me
I feel so sorry for Charu ...very relatable to my life
With sushmita sen being in such a strong position she did not support this lady to survive and establish!!!! As a human atleast?
Sab k sab aise hi hai. Media mein ache bante h sb bs
Thats their real face. And thats why we should not be taking them ideal personalities.
They have 2 flats at Oberoi Goregaon, and bungalow in Delhi and Dubai..Cant they even buy or help RENT a decent flat even for Charu and for the baby zianas sake in a decent area .Rajeev is the only son...what will they do with so much money and properties.How selfish Crores worrh of Jewellery Shop in Dubai , KYA Karenge itna paisa? .Absolutely Ridiculous this Man is so selfish and fake...Cant stand him.Charu ..yeh time bhi nikal jaayega..
God is with you, Dont go back to him.Lowest of the Low family..Live Alone in PEACE
Watch the whole interview there is a part 2 as well. And charu never blamed her in lawas or sushmita
A woman can forget anything but she can't forget how people treat her during pregnancy
Very true thats the most cruicial phase of life for women mentally emotionally and physically
Yes u are right
True
Or right after delivery.
Very true
I feel like I'm listening my story from Charu's mouth. 12 years with 2 kids.. Still struck.. Hope I get out from this soon. God bless Charu.
God bless you.✨
God bless you dear
Aap janti ho aap kitni acche hoo..God bless you..🙌
Strength to you
4 years. 1 kid. Stuck.
I don't know rajiv side of the story but running away is a habit of rajeev is for sure... When you see lockdown vlogs he was not there and during that time everyone wish to be with their family and most of the people were in fact at home with family.... And during pregnancy also most of the time charu as was alone doing her work.... If he is like that then he don't deserve to be a husband of any girl because his nature will never led him lead a happy married life or happy family life... May God bless ziana and those who are in pain may recover soon
Brave lady, I salute her for taking drastic steps to come out of such jail physically & emotionally, her self respect is exemplary & commendable.
@Anjali👏👏👏👏👏
Mere sath bhi do shadi ek engagement tooti thi maine kitna dard jhela h main samjh sakti hu but meri life me bot acha insan h mera ek beta bhi h ab now I m happy apka tym bhi bot acha aane wala hai di vishwas rakho
It's quite evident that she is not lying. I don't know but I feel she is truthful here. Power to you Charu💗
True
I have been in a narcissistic relationship and I get this 100%. On and off relationship,emotional abuse,trauma bond. Relationship with narcissist can never survive.
Me too
I am still in it .... surviving it with mental issues my mil and my husband ..soul contract what to do
Me too
I had survived this too. Saw cheating as well. Had to break up my first relationship.
Wat is trauma bond ?? Can any1 explain
It's sad to see her still in some kind of traumatic stress. It seems like she has still not come out of the shock of how poorly she was treated. She is still questioning How ? Why ?
I hope at some point she realizes toxic people are like that. When we come from nurturing and loving homes, we feel shocked at others' sub par behavior. It feels inhuman and shocking.
Give urself some grieving time to cope Charu and then at some point , move on and never look back !!
A wise woman like Sush is taking her side over her own brother , is very telling of your good intentions and benevolence. Be strong and set example for those need strength !!
Mujhe lgta hai mentally halat charu ki nhi rajeev sen ki khrab hai bhagwan hmesa apke sath hai ache logo k sath hmesa Acha hi hota hai apni beti k sath khus raho
I feel so sorry for Charu ma'am because the video which I show before she got married to Rajeev she was so talented so so beautiful after marrying to him she was like depressed
I literally cried by listening to her painful life story😭😭she should definitely take a devorce
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Yes I was also with a cheater who ruined me she should take a bold step and leave him
Nothing will work with a liar
She sd consult her family and take a practical step
Liars can't be trusted
Same problem mary sath be yahe hora hy but my ny apna bauchy ky 18 saal guzara.
I too cried
Rona nehi aya itna drama mein... Ayesey karkey tumhe career mein kuch nehi milega.
I literally cried , don't cry charu we all are with you...
Rajeev sounds like a textbook narcissist. She is so lucky she left when she did. I’m just leaving my narcissist husband after 21 yrs. best wishes to you. You are brave.
Respect Siddharth for this interview!
Dearest Charu, there are many times when marriages don’t work and they fail. Marriages fail not because of one person or one reason, they are a result of lot of reasons and chaos. We have one life and we don’t deserve to be in any toxic relationship, sometimes two people are just not meant to be together. You have our love and wishes and it’s not going to be easy but for a peaceful future we sometimes have to take hard steps. Always remember the biggest gift you can give yourself is choosing your own happiness.
She’s too scared and vulnerable. 💔I can totally understand her space. It’s okay. Life mai himmat karni padti hai. Chahey kitna bhi darr lagey hamai sahi ke liye khada hona chaiye. Ignore those people jo khud toxic marriage mai fasey rehtey hai. Kindly get out of toxic marriages even if it’s your tenth or 100th marriage. Humse zyada hamari situation aur koi nahi jaanta. STOP LISTENING TO ADJUSTMENT NONSENSE. Please don’t back off if your parents are not with you. Most Indian parents are damn controlling and super deluded themselves. Jinhoney khud apni zindagi mai sirf compromises kiye hai woh doosrey ko nahi samjhengey. Kyuki unke minds already BLOCKED hai. They are merely trained robots. Please use your mind and don’t become a robot to anybody. Koi bhi log aapka ghar aakey nahi chalaaengey. Run your UA-cam channel and earn for yourself and your daughter. I wish Rajeev also light and sensibility to peacefully end this relationship and move on without hanging on to the ego. It’s okay. It’s not the end of the world. Calmness be with you! 💓💓
Adjust... Adjust... Adjust.
NO. IT'S NOT F***ING ADJUSTMENT.
It's just asking a person to TOLERATE the WRONGDOING OF OTHER.
Why do this society understand that Mental Abuse is As torturous as physical abuse.
Charu, you deserve FARRRR BETTER 🙏💯
Wow... Well said 👍👍
Feminist card a fraud ster how can u judge without knowing another side may b she is lying it is common in name of feminist and Mee too 👎👎👎
@@ashishgoswami4304 may be she is not. Har baar u cannot say that every woman is playing feminist card.
@@littlepaws0790 exactly everytime we can't say man is criminal and women's are innocent without knowing facts from both end now a days women do lots of crime and start playing feminist card so it is necessary to have interogation from both end as her husband demanding a kid and said she had a affair with some actor so proper investigation needed
@@littlepaws0790 hmare yha ek case hua jab interogation hui toh women k dosh tha aaj woh lady jail m hai aur usko manhani ka 2 crore bhi bharna pada😁😁😁
Brave Charu , you not done any wrong. You exterminate the toxic marriage. You free yourself and never turn back again. Those you have done very good and become independent.
Tears rolled from my eyes 😥😥 while listening to charu... can literally see what she had been through
Such toxic men do exist...I know of few such men. Being a lawyer we come across such cases very often. Stay strong woman.."because I loved him..sab theek ho gaya"...that's so genuine.
@@shubh.leo5 yes even toxic girls exist. Who said they don't. Why r u getting u insecure? Since the interview is of a woman about a man, I talked only about men.
@@shubh.leo5 insecure and a woman..🤣🤣🤣. She has walked out with her 1 year old..will in all probability struggle with her profession. And u calling her insecure. She openly says she is not claiming any alimony. U seem toxic to me. Move on.
I'm suffering from same being unmarried and every word is pinching me a lot.
Did she not dated him? Did she not get to know about him before
@sucheta no matter how long you have dated or courted a person, the toxicity can not be judgesd, till you start living with someone.
everything is so sugarcoated.
I understand you charu.....problems se bhagna and leaving your house suddenly without telling you is the root cause...it breaks you emotionally and mentally....Rajeev is immature he should always talk things through...having an emotionally absent partner is very devastating and frustrating...aisi koi badi baat nahi thi divorce k pichey bas itni ki rajeev immature hai... he is irresponsible and definitely not caring....he is an absent father and a husband which is not acceptable at all....
Sirf Rajeev ki shakal hi achi hai ,dil ka to sada hua nikla , Proud of u Charu
Ese log sade huye hi hote hai charu Rajsthn ki hai muje pta hai woh kesi hogi
Such a calm, matured, innocent, genuine and composed woman Charu ma'am is! Please Stay Strong and Never give up!! Your Best life is waiting for you Charu ma'am, lots of love!!!❤️❤❤❤❤
More power to you Charu...... You Are not alone just have feet in you in God and in your daughter everything will be alright just be strong we all are with you
I cried so much, i knew every time he was traveling, there was something that wasnt right
Sachime ye lady bilkul sach kh rhi h qk jb insan ander se tuta hua hota h na uspr bht takleef guzri hoti h to usse bolte bh nhi bnta
I’m in tears😢😢😢😢😢oh my strong soul, you will find undying courage to get out of it sooner than later ❤❤❤❤love love love
Very painful story of Charu. Charu don't worry, be strong, your angel Ziana is with you. I too missed understood you sometimes, due to Rajeev's talk. Man is dirty creature. Only a woman can understand you. Love you Charu, u made us cry. God bless you and your dear angel Ziana 🙏❤️🌹😘
The way she speaks.. she is so honest and lovable. I don't understand what else would a man desire in a life partner that she doesn't have. Her broken marriages can only be due to fate.. otherwise she is a gem of a person.
Or maybe she is way too submissive...kisiko bura na lage isi liye bohot kuch karti hai apne marzi ke khilaf...self respect aur self love hona chahiye...healthy boundaries are needed....she is way too good...acchai ka zamana na kabhi tha aur abhi hai...
Thank you Siddharth for giving chance her to talk. Being a woman I can feel her pain. Stay strong dear.
Literally u made us cry charu…pls don’t cry stay strong we are Der for u
Charu is innocent. Power to you girl. Sab aacha hoga.
Thank God...she confessed all things..otherwise Rajeev behaves so goody goody 🙂
Acting.
She’s too scared and vulnerable. 💔I can totally understand her space. It’s okay. Life mai himmat karni padti hai. Chahey kitna bhi darr lagey hamai sahi ke liye khada hona chaiye. Ignore those people jo khud toxic marriage mai fasey rehtey hai. Kindly get out of toxic marriages even if it’s your tenth or 100th marriage. Humse zyada hamari situation aur koi nahi jaanta. STOP LISTENING TO ADJUSTMENT NONSENSE. Please don’t back off if your parents are not with you. Most Indian parents are damn controlling and super deluded themselves. Jinhoney khud apni zindagi mai sirf compromises kiye hai woh doosrey ko nahi samjhengey. Kyuki unke minds already BLOCKED hai. They are merely trained robots. Please use your mind and don’t become a robot to anybody. Koi bhi log aapka ghar aakey nahi chalaaengey. Run your UA-cam channel and earn for yourself and your daughter. I wish Rajeev also light and sensibility to peacefully end this relationship and move on without hanging on to the ego. It’s okay. It’s not the end of the world. Calmness be with you! 💓💓
You are blinded by her fake tears.
@@zb3939 stfu dude. If you can't say anything nice,then stfu.
SHAADI se pehle hi kharab ta toh Shaadi hi kyun Kiya?