Charu Asopa : Rajeev Sen accused me of having an affair with my driver!

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  • Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
  • In the second part of my interview with Charu Asopa, she speaks about how Rajeev has trust issues and he accused her of having an affair with a driver.
    She also says that Sushmita Sen told her to do things that make her happy and why she doesn't tell things to Rajeev Sen's parents too.
    She also says that she is now looking for work actively and doesn't trust anyone.
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  • @SiddharthKannanOfficial
    @SiddharthKannanOfficial  Рік тому +206

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  • @pragyagandhi7210
    @pragyagandhi7210 Рік тому +3271

    you are not a national joke .you are a strong women .we all proud of u

  • @ncdsau
    @ncdsau Рік тому +152

    Hats off to Charu. She has maintained her dignity. This is what a strong woman looks like.

  • @SiddharthKannanOfficial
    @SiddharthKannanOfficial  Рік тому +961

    Hello!Everyone..Thankyou for watching

    • @growingwithtashi
      @growingwithtashi Рік тому +29

      Siddharth Well done for making Charu comfortable , i m happy that you made her come on this show and make herself openly talk on show , Charu will be much stronger from now onwards.

    • @shrknj28
      @shrknj28 Рік тому +18

      Thanks for giving her a chance to speak. Atleast she got peace upto some extend that no one but you listened to her.

    • @MiracleMoM__Mrs.ManjinderKaur.
      @MiracleMoM__Mrs.ManjinderKaur. Рік тому +7

      Thanks for making clarification on this very high-lighted topic..
      All the Best 👍 have a Peaceful life ahead ✨ Charu and even Mr. SEN as well 🙏

    • @CharuAsopa09
      @CharuAsopa09 Рік тому +57

      Thank you so much siddharth

    • @that_soiree_girl
      @that_soiree_girl Рік тому +2

      Help her dude

  • @harmankaur9354
    @harmankaur9354 Рік тому +206

    She exudes truth. I can confidently say she isn’t lying from the way she answered every question so sincerely

  • @adroitniharika
    @adroitniharika Рік тому +1037

    The host is so empathetic and kind. Asking all the questions in such respectful manner while making her feel comfortable and validating her vulnerability. She must have felt better after this conversation.

    • @shwetayadav-ei8bb
      @shwetayadav-ei8bb Рік тому +6

      Well said

    • @travelofjoy11
      @travelofjoy11 Рік тому +3

      Correct

    • @Donaldasdf
      @Donaldasdf Рік тому +5

      Yes......Siddharth is very well mannered man!!!

    • @kysam_roblox
      @kysam_roblox Рік тому +1

      Well done Siddharth

    • @kysam_roblox
      @kysam_roblox Рік тому +2

      @@amitjain3216 where is the proof?????? What if Rajeev have affair with Susan khan or Jennifer or Rashmi or any xyz divorced lady. Pointing out others is the easiest way to escape from marriage and responsibilities specially after birth of child.u can easily see her pain and suffering and tears still doubting????u can doubt anyone but can't blame without proofs and evidence

  • @niv5353
    @niv5353 Рік тому +618

    He is seriously toxic..Stay strong Charu.. Thank you Sid for interviewing her.

    • @TickleyourBuds1111
      @TickleyourBuds1111 Рік тому +1

      His toxic and very dangerous under #nepotism that #Kutta , #CharuAsoph
      Please DO NOT go on big boss , it will prove very very negative for u , I’m just trying to find a way to protect u ,

    • @jyothibedar1657
      @jyothibedar1657 Рік тому +2

      I don't Know who is right or wrong n what is right or wrong I wish she move on with her life n

    • @dishita_shorts
      @dishita_shorts 7 місяців тому +1

      how are you so sure he is toxic? I find HER toxic. Uski apni ma ne apne damaad ka saath diya hai

  • @monishmishra8682
    @monishmishra8682 Рік тому +1327

    One request to all charu asopa UA-cam channel viewers please don't do bad comments......she is in pain right now understand her situation and by seeing Rajeev he is very arrogant bcz he has money thats why....

    • @Quotesvibes-k08
      @Quotesvibes-k08 Рік тому +20

      Yes you are right

    • @sabasn1611
      @sabasn1611 Рік тому

      The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.

    • @sumangoyal5409
      @sumangoyal5409 Рік тому +14

      Yes, right

    • @Poonam-Atulkar
      @Poonam-Atulkar Рік тому +14

      Right yrrr me toh Rajeev ke post pr hi karti ti galat kyunki chipku lagta ta bhaut starting se hi

    • @ushachaturvedi6643
      @ushachaturvedi6643 Рік тому +11

      Right 👍 Bina samjhe charu ko kuch bhi bol dete hai

  • @rachanakumari3330
    @rachanakumari3330 Рік тому +31

    ऐसे लोगों के लिए दुखी नहीं होना चाहिए जिंदगी बहुत खूबसूरत है आप बहुत हिम्मत वाली हो आगे बढ़ो

  • @chandanaveraepalli2124
    @chandanaveraepalli2124 Рік тому +129

    What’s commendable are the comments with so much positivity and empathy for what Charu had gone thru. This is an indication of changing society perhaps a “New India”

  • @leo_girl7239
    @leo_girl7239 Рік тому +104

    She is bloody honest …brave girl,don’t cry time to get up,u r strong girl charu…….get divorce move on ,life is much beautiful then what u have gone through,lots of power to u….

  • @ashisharma2730
    @ashisharma2730 Рік тому +427

    It's so scary. I feel for her. Charu please don't give up. Make a plan and execute it. And you're doing right. You should first look after a job. Collab with famous youtubers to enhance your reach. Make connections. Make money and just do whatever you want. Maintain healthy distance with Rajiv. You should just keep this in mind before starting anything that tumhe us gali vapis jana hi nhi hai

  • @ConfusedTraveler555
    @ConfusedTraveler555 Рік тому +79

    The worst is ...they had issues from second day of their marriage, and yet they bring a child into the world!

    • @awesomeaugust4716
      @awesomeaugust4716 3 місяці тому +3

      That is the biggest and a very common step or should I say mistake..they take ..and the responsibility falls on the women.

    • @ionapereira6801
      @ionapereira6801 2 місяці тому

      ​@@awesomeaugust4716but she did not know that he was a NARCISSIST ...A DEMON N A MONSTER. These men bully u n sweet talk u n she seems so innocent n. Such men are big CROOKS n they feed on us. He must hv showered her with fake promises.
      I am living with one such monster for the past 32 yrs. But my MIL was my frnd n I stuck in this much. But when I realised he's a narc ....its bn 12 yrs now that I stopped taking his BS N stopped letting fear control me n stopped crying n hv bcome a hard rock. My baby boy is 30 yrs. But I keep myself bzee with my pet birds n yes destress myself. I don't cage them as I leave them out in my balcony garden n the complete house is almost a jungle. But my man is very JEALOUS that I hv moved on in life. He liked keeping me STAGNATED but not any more. 👍☹️🙏🎉

    • @rashmijames1655
      @rashmijames1655 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@awesomeaugust4716exactly 😢

    • @jammurecords
      @jammurecords Місяць тому

      अरे भाई, झगड़ा शुरू में कम हुआ होगा, नई नई शादी में सेक्स तो बहुत होता ही है, भारत में विशेषकर, क्योंकि यहां सेक्स उतना उपलब्ध नहीं होता शादी से पहले। तो सेक्स हुआ अधिक , तो बच्चा हो गया, इतनी सी बात है।

  • @Sayurih
    @Sayurih Рік тому +5517

    No matter how modern or educated our society becomes the level of mental and physical torture a woman has to go through in marriage is never ending.

    • @Poonam-Atulkar
      @Poonam-Atulkar Рік тому +15

      True yrrr

    • @avnipareek2405
      @avnipareek2405 Рік тому +11

      Same

    • @majesticlion9759
      @majesticlion9759 Рік тому +15

      Sadly its true

    • @JyotiVerma950
      @JyotiVerma950 Рік тому +19

      That's the biggest scariest thing

    • @komalverma2696
      @komalverma2696 Рік тому +61

      Galti saree ye ham girls share ni kar parents sai Bhai sai because of fucking so called society maa baap ko samjna chaiye na ki agar koi ladka disrespect karta so apne beti ko nikalo iss marriage it's become painfull for a women

  • @yogamakeyourroutine2185
    @yogamakeyourroutine2185 Рік тому +461

    Siddharth has taken the interview so well. Wish Charu gets strength, success in her life. Happiness in life.

  • @kakoleeify
    @kakoleeify Рік тому +234

    No charu u r not a national joke..there are so many of us like u..u r not alone in this journey..move on gal and it's not about surviving it's about living it to the fullest with ziana..loads of love

  • @pratibhavyaghrambare3120
    @pratibhavyaghrambare3120 Рік тому +68

    In many interviews I saw you in comedy mood Siddharth but with this interview I knew that you are a sensible and kind hearted person too

  • @noorfatima842
    @noorfatima842 Рік тому +152

    I love it how charu has sooo much respect for her in laws

  • @ritikaagarwal1452
    @ritikaagarwal1452 Рік тому +858

    The best thing about charu is "Still she is not blaming her in-laws bcoz of the behavior of Rajeev" is incredible. She didn't use any bad word about them and still saying they were very nice towards her. Hats of you Charu 😊....Be strong, you are truly an inspiration for standing yourself

    • @Lima3578user
      @Lima3578user Рік тому +13

      Why does she need to blame in laws for his behaviour ?

    • @ritikaagarwal1452
      @ritikaagarwal1452 Рік тому +30

      @@Lima3578user Bcoz still there are some people who blames their in-laws also if they have bad equation with their partner....But she is not doing that bad things. She is not using bad words or disrespecting her in-laws bcoz of Rajeev.

    • @ravimanikpuri1928
      @ravimanikpuri1928 Рік тому +2

      Absolutely 💐🙏💐

    • @jitendragarhwal3140
      @jitendragarhwal3140 Рік тому

      She is using this platform to project herself as good like most women do. Girls like you will always support her because of toxic sisterhood sought by feminism. Always taking women's side.

    • @shilpachythanya2084
      @shilpachythanya2084 Рік тому +16

      When inlaws are really nice no DIL will blame in laws.. when inlaws influence the husband negatively and instigate him, only then DIL will blame inlaws.. sen family seems very sensible.. just the fact that they advised charu to do what makes her happy tells a lot.👏🏽

  • @Julie-pb7fe
    @Julie-pb7fe Рік тому +122

    I'm sure she will be at peace now. Siddharth certainly did a great thing, by hearing her out and giving her a opportunity to speak.

  • @gaurika4927
    @gaurika4927 Рік тому +61

    More power to you Charu. You are not a national joke. You have shown strength. Nation admires you for that and your daughter would be proud to have courageous mom. Journey might not be easy but the lord who has stood by you all the times will be there always. Stay Strong Girl!!!!!

  • @saimafurqan9244
    @saimafurqan9244 Рік тому +258

    Hats off to this girl it's not easy to talk about your marital life on camera and especially in the phase she is going through and without complaining about her in-laws that's the biggest part... More strength and power to her

  • @PoojaMishra-rg3qp
    @PoojaMishra-rg3qp Рік тому +211

    How strong she is!!! Literally hats off to her!!! She had faced a lot of trauma in her pregnancy... which is a toughest stage itself....such a monster Rajeev is!! & I am shocked that her own mother didn't support her like seriously...MAA bhi aisi hoti hn ky??...After watching her like this I am scared of marriage... Wishing her more power to handle everything...May ShriKrishna help her always 😔🌸 🙏...

    • @maddy-nc9gb
      @maddy-nc9gb Рік тому +9

      It's not that her mom doesn't love her...but she is of old generation & that's have been taught to women since ages. Even our parents are like that always worrying about society. It's their stupid conditioning done by society.

    • @PoojaMishra-rg3qp
      @PoojaMishra-rg3qp Рік тому +10

      @@maddy-nc9gb No way....She should be upgrade herself according to generation....our Mummas are also from old generation....I have shown this vdo to my mother...& she was like how can her mother did it... Generation gap is ok...but when your own child is in trouble then you have to upgrade ,,He/she needs you .. Society ka kya hai...wo kabhi chup nahi hogi....but ab saare age ke parents ko ye smjhna hoga ki aapke bchhe ki khushi jyda important h...

    • @dollangel3082
      @dollangel3082 Рік тому +7

      Real mother ajkal sath ni deti. Its a bitter truth. Meri frd n sister ki mother ne usko shadi k bad kabi support ni kya

    • @ishikamehra9709
      @ishikamehra9709 Рік тому +5

      Meri bhi maa aisi hi h real mother

    • @ishikamehra9709
      @ishikamehra9709 Рік тому

      @@maddy-nc9gb hr koi maa baap k liye isliye ni marta they r monster for me also

  • @SonuSonu-qn7zk
    @SonuSonu-qn7zk Рік тому +119

    After listening to charu i can strongly feel her..... I don't have words to describe her pain... But as a woman do move forward with your daughter... N be strong..... don't ever look bk.... The kind of person will never ever change....

  • @anshikajha6550
    @anshikajha6550 Рік тому +109

    Proud of you for taking a decision for your daughter and not getting bogged down by society

    • @banibose7089
      @banibose7089 Рік тому +9

      She is innocent but she get trapped by situation
      Hope she gets best in future

  • @manishasubkewal
    @manishasubkewal Рік тому +1157

    Financial independence is always the first thing we as women must teach ourselves! ❤ More and more strength to this lady❤

  • @sheri9570
    @sheri9570 Рік тому +451

    This is a classic case of narcissism ...silent treatment, avoiding the problem, running away from the situation, overreacting, and finding faults in every other person than themselves. Poor Charu...she is the victim of narcissism and it takes a lot of courage to get out of this.
    Also, such narcissistic people use the other person's past to hurt them ...first, they try to make it look like oh...we are so proud of u n make u feel happy...then they drain u n make you starve for their attention... They use the past to justify their actions and the victim feels so helpless because they are guilt-tripping all the time.

    • @VidWatcher649
      @VidWatcher649 Рік тому +4

      My friend is a victim of this.

    • @lifelovelaugh36
      @lifelovelaugh36 Рік тому +2

      Exactly..

    • @ritukhanna5820
      @ritukhanna5820 Рік тому +1

      You don't need to say 'Poor', it was destiny that to happen and it will teach her many things in life in a city like Mumbai. To be independent n making herself stronger. Coming from a small city like Jaipur.

    • @pujaagrawal6798
      @pujaagrawal6798 Рік тому

      I agree wid u totally

    • @sushmitadey2428
      @sushmitadey2428 Рік тому +6

      Aur aise log(achhe)bewakoof kehlate hain jabki they get into the trap for years being hopeful and loving and don't realize it

  • @SM_Lil_Explorer
    @SM_Lil_Explorer Рік тому +722

    Very good that she has come out in the open, else people assume things! This will give more power to other women to speak up, it's normal!

    • @sabasn1611
      @sabasn1611 Рік тому

      The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.

    • @AmitGupta-bu4ph
      @AmitGupta-bu4ph Рік тому +1

      Lol this aint her first marriage. Even her mom doesnt support her..coz she lives in virtual world, not in real world. She vomits all her marriage life on UA-cam..causing marital issues between them

    • @AmitGupta-bu4ph
      @AmitGupta-bu4ph Рік тому +3

      And she herself accuses him of cheating and nonsense allegations

    • @SM_Lil_Explorer
      @SM_Lil_Explorer Рік тому +11

      So what, if you marry a wrong person, should you torture yourself for life? And Mr Misogynist, what about Rajeev having live in relationships for 7 years and broke up?

    • @SM_Lil_Explorer
      @SM_Lil_Explorer Рік тому +10

      @@AmitGupta-bu4ph men and gossipers like you exploit women by saying that iski to kitni baar shadi hui h

  • @tenzin8589
    @tenzin8589 Рік тому +26

    I can completely feel you, Charu
    Be strong please 😢😢😢

  • @neelashyam7778
    @neelashyam7778 Рік тому +116

    The interviewer is so sympathetic and understanding..glad to know that she is not a gold digger as some toxic people always commented..prayers for her healing

  • @luckybabe4003
    @luckybabe4003 Рік тому +69

    She is an honest lady. Stay strong girl 💪

  • @bhartis8146
    @bhartis8146 Рік тому +608

    Nobody knew Rajeev Sen before he married Charu. He is often addressed as Charu Asopa's husband that's why he was so insecure .

  • @kamakshirai3382
    @kamakshirai3382 Рік тому +75

    Usually such interviews receive a lot of flak for oversharing on social media but not this one. Mainly because it is the sad reality of many women in this country who can either relate to it or have seen someone go through it. More power to you Charu!!

  • @Priya-rf7ov
    @Priya-rf7ov Рік тому +56

    You are not a joke. You are an inspiration for many women.

  • @vishwapatel7086
    @vishwapatel7086 Рік тому +113

    Thank you Siddharth sir for her interview...I am feeling that in the upcoming years she will become an inspiration for a lot of women.....

  • @paudha_and_more
    @paudha_and_more Рік тому +241

    She is speaking truth, and all those who went through this can understand her pain. The truth that's in her eyes is the story. One who has lived with a narcissistic personality can only understand her pain.

  • @NehaGupta-nq2fk
    @NehaGupta-nq2fk 8 місяців тому +7

    Charu is such a honest and brave girl. I wish she gets lots of happiness and lots of success. Charu do not go back to this sick man. Just take care of yourself and your daughter and trust you will not regret your decision. God bless you dear.

  • @shreyapram
    @shreyapram Рік тому +84

    I feel so so so sorry for her. Seriously i do. She is very vulnerable and it breaks my heart to hear she doesn’t trust anyone anymore. Sending you lots of love and positivity ❤

  • @sonamjainin
    @sonamjainin Рік тому +153

    Please again Don't Rush for Work...Heal yourself through Meditation...Else u will be in similar cycle there too .. Healing is really important to start our Life Fresh....Thanks to Sidhdharth for interviewing Honest people...

    • @pratikshad4543
      @pratikshad4543 Рік тому +5

      It's her need she is not doing willingly but she has that insecurity of wasting time ..She wants to start work asap

    • @loveislove2025
      @loveislove2025 Рік тому +1

      she has a daughter now, but i get your point. she should focus on herself, her career and her daughter.

    • @sonamjainin
      @sonamjainin Рік тому

      I am not saying she should not work right now ...but i am seeing far off which I too had experience in my life..Instead of seeing non stop sick life..let's Heal first which i feel one should do MUST

    • @SreejataChaudhuri
      @SreejataChaudhuri Рік тому +1

      I guess she'll need the monies in order to get resources for healing as well. Therapy costs shitloads of money usually. I'm sure she'll come around to it, in time.

  • @KJ-rk1nh
    @KJ-rk1nh Рік тому +319

    I was with a person exactly like Rajeev, fully self absorbed totally jealous of whatever good happened in my life. To the world he was a perfect person. I can understand the pain she's going through

    • @sonalibhat4065
      @sonalibhat4065 Рік тому

      😒❤️

    • @kattythakur8773
      @kattythakur8773 Рік тому

      True 👍

    • @dilkibatdiltak.
      @dilkibatdiltak. Рік тому

      Yar exactly i am also facing... dont understand how to deal with it... i am getting in depression..

    • @arpittasinggh6841
      @arpittasinggh6841 Рік тому +1

      @@dilkibatdiltak. nature or signature kabhi change nhi hote....life enjoy karne ke liye hoti hai agar samne wala nhi sudhar sakta to uske liye apani ye khubsurat life nhi kharab kar sakte.....but financially independent hona padega....to aap apani duniya khud ke dum pe khubsurat bana sakte ho

    • @PalakShukla
      @PalakShukla Рік тому +1

      I am going through the same, it took me 7 years to learn to wade through n stand on own with no support around

  • @beautymishra4998
    @beautymishra4998 4 місяці тому +5

    Much needed interview. Mein inko sirf Shushmita Sen ki wajah se janti thi. Mujhe lagta tha ke ye just unka name and fame use krne ke liye family ki member bani. But aaj ye interview dekhne ke baad inki respect mere dil mein aur badh gayi hai. Aapne jo bhi apni shadi ke 3 saal jhela hai aur usse aap bahar ayi hai. Ye bahut hi kabile tarif hai aisa krne ke liye bahut himmat ki zarurat padti hai. Log apni puri zindagi aise insaan ke saath kaat dete hai aur apne liye kuch bhi nhi kar pate hai. Apne bacho ke bare mein bhi soch nahi pate. Aur hum as a audience ya fan hum bhi smjhte hai kon sahi ya galat. Mein bhagwan se prathana krungi ke aap apni beti ko wo sab kuch de paayein jo aap dena chahti hai. Apko bahut sara kaam mile. Khoob naam roshan karo. Dher sara pyar apko aur apki beti ko ❤

  • @mouupasana
    @mouupasana Рік тому +168

    I have never before seen this man's interviews before but I must say he is amazing, so respectful and so well spoken! Hope his channel grows every day

  • @navneetkaur4410
    @navneetkaur4410 Рік тому +720

    Being a girl I can feel the pain, her tears are telling truth. This is harsh reality of Indian society, judgemental all the times.

    • @punittiwari212
      @punittiwari212 Рік тому +9

      Just Bcoz she cried u came to the conclusion

    • @pulkitagarwal750
      @pulkitagarwal750 Рік тому +14

      Indian society needs to educate themselves...we might be literate but not educated...how pathetic is this that a girl after marriage lost all friends and above all she lost her life...I am feeling so sad for her and wish her and her daughter all the best things in life..and may she get abundance of work, happiness and peace and the best life that she imagine for her and her daughter....kudos to her grit that she shown for 3.5 years...she deserves better

    • @pulkitagarwal750
      @pulkitagarwal750 Рік тому

      @@punittiwari212 u need a psychiatrist..trust me...

    • @roshanijadhav4761
      @roshanijadhav4761 Рік тому +2

      I think if she said that before marraige only she knws that there will be problems j issue in this marraige still she got marraige instead of being hvg one experience with her past marraige some where I feel she is hv experienced in marraige so that person can't take wrong decisions for nxt marraige may be just wanted to marry him for some reasons as she stated that she did first following Rajeev on insta started mssging him and doing friendship I don't think Rajeev is completely wrong bcz after marraige only in few days he started saying away from her running away from her there is something which we don't knw just someone is acting in front camera we can't guess that person is good

    • @ArtiSingh-wp6de
      @ArtiSingh-wp6de Рік тому

      @@punittiwari212 no, we will believe her after she gets depressed and kill her own daughter or kill herself ..u want that??

  • @dipalikaluskar1995
    @dipalikaluskar1995 Рік тому +234

    After listening to this, I am not at all getting good vibes from Rajeev Sen. I pray that NO Women/Men should have such a TOXIC partner... Very very sad :(

  • @reetarawat4968
    @reetarawat4968 6 місяців тому +7

    Such a beautiful !!!! woman - so articulate !!! The fact that she is still close to her in law family ,speaks volume about her goodwill in the family - She has allowed the family access to the child ,which is great and shows she is sensible -she would definitely go a long way

  • @growingupwithaqsa
    @growingupwithaqsa Рік тому +86

    Even after going thru so much, she is so respectful while addressing him and talking things related to him. Charu didn’t deserve this. Better days are coming.. more power to you Charu and Ziana.💖

  • @nityaangrona5736
    @nityaangrona5736 Рік тому +221

    It's very important for women to speak the truth about their own parents not supporting them for the simple reason that 'log kya kahenge'. Many women are suffering and continue to live with toxic husband because their own mother is worried about society. Kudos to you Charu for being so brave and mentioning that her mother did not support her. People often start judging that daughter is talking bad about her mother, but the truth has to be told. Our parents generation give more importance to society and ignore how her daughter will live with such toxicity throughout her life. They cannot understand that a woman can support herself and does not have to suffer through toxic spouses for financial reason like their generation did.

    • @Rk2948
      @Rk2948 Рік тому +1

      Be strong dear

    • @pint5266
      @pint5266 Рік тому +1

      True...sad truth of our society.

  • @verginitaniya7934
    @verginitaniya7934 Рік тому +91

    I always felt that, whenever I saw them together I felt it from bottom of my heart that , he is not in to this marriage and quite selfish too, whoever it is, live a happy life despite all the judge mental talks around you, we will support you , your a strong person, no matter what people will accuse women only, will be there , stay strong

  • @raunakansari275
    @raunakansari275 Рік тому +12

    Yaar i just love this lady ...kitni smjhdar hain ...aise toxic people se door he rahna axa hota hai.....

  • @cognacc2144
    @cognacc2144 Рік тому +42

    I'm married to a narcissistic man too who has had similar disappearing patterns during conflicts...its been 23 years plus a set of ungrateful parents, but i have noticed that life has a way of straightening men like this out...good luck to this beautiful strong lady

  • @Doctorni
    @Doctorni Рік тому +29

    Again a beautiful women shattered into pieces. God bless you di , become the best version of yourself again.

  • @crazylifeofthakurs766
    @crazylifeofthakurs766 Рік тому +418

    being in a toxic relationship is the worst thing someone could do to oneself. we all are with you Charu. more power to you for coming out like this. this shall pass, stay strong and focus on yourself and your beautiful daughter. you will attain heights in whatever you do. May you have a beautiful life ahead.

    • @juicy11
      @juicy11 Рік тому

      Emotional randi. Use your brain that God has given you.

  • @amajhi5
    @amajhi5 Рік тому +19

    I can feel the genuine pain in her voice.💔

  • @naina7158
    @naina7158 Рік тому +45

    Being a girl I can feel her pain she isn't fake plz plz don't abuse her emotions are not fake

  • @windofhappiness
    @windofhappiness Рік тому +57

    That's why sushmita is a miss universe in real meanings 👌👏..has a beautiful thinking n mind 👏"Do what makes u happy".. great n sensible women 👏👏

  • @pujapriya3366
    @pujapriya3366 Рік тому +7

    The Most Honest & best interview ....
    seriously after watching this interview I have respect for her & the interviewer......... No illogical question being asked.......

  • @Moespeaks
    @Moespeaks Рік тому +211

    Wow, this interview has been such an eye-opener, and has all the hallmarks of Narcissistic abuse. I also have been through this and absolutely believe her in what she is saying. She has become a shell of herself. It will take time to recover from it, but leaving is the best thing that she can do for herself and her baby.

    • @rohanbatty
      @rohanbatty Рік тому +2

      What an amazing eye opener! All proofs presented..!
      A cry baby, a one sided story and a pack of feminist flag bearers.
      Omg this is so sad…. 😒😒

    • @MayankGarg-gq3db
      @MayankGarg-gq3db Рік тому

      Yes she is a liar. Husband ne aakar pol khol di hoti tab samjh aata

  • @medhasengupta3823
    @medhasengupta3823 Рік тому +429

    I remember Rajeev decided to quit UA-cam cz he wasn't getting enough subscribers and blamed the audience for not subscribing. This shows how immature he is. Even if i don't want to pick sides Charu's description of Rajeev is the actual representation of his character.

  • @born_leo
    @born_leo Рік тому +871

    The comment section here is the proof that why people specially women think thrice before coming out of any kind of toxic relationship. She hasn't utter a single wrong word about her in laws. Infact she is upset with her own mom too. She isn't even asking for alimony, otherwise I'm hundred percent sure people would have abused her for this too. It's only and only about her husband. Who was clearly not there for her at any moment of life. There is not a single reason for what we should not empathise with her.

    • @shwetagautam587
      @shwetagautam587 Рік тому +35

      Yess true people bashed her by saying ab dekhna alimony mangni hai isliye divorce ka naatk kr rahi hai , people bashed her for everything she did even don't make vlogs they preached , tell me one thing who are you to teach her what she should do that too in worst situation where she only wants Lil peace in her life , you guys don't know stress is a slow killer we can't imagine her pain and her sufferings

    • @sabasn1611
      @sabasn1611 Рік тому

      The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.

    • @shrknj28
      @shrknj28 Рік тому +28

      Whatever people say, if not alimony but maintainance of the child is Ziana's legal right. I wish she hire some good lawyer who can clearly tell her legal rights in such case.

    • @shabnamchoudhary3878
      @shabnamchoudhary3878 Рік тому +5

      Ekdum Dil ki baat kahin apne

    • @rashmi-py9ng
      @rashmi-py9ng Рік тому +24

      Though I think she should ask for alimony. Why should a woman take up the responsibility alone? He’ll go Scot free because he is a irresponsible

  • @serendipity8715
    @serendipity8715 Рік тому +31

    So good to see Siddharth handling this interview with so much grace. Unlike his usual funny banter and jokes. Kudos

  • @priyasayooj1619
    @priyasayooj1619 Рік тому +57

    I cried for this girl .. She speaks truth

  • @ranjinimitra-rajendran7806
    @ranjinimitra-rajendran7806 Рік тому +119

    And this is how women stand in the 21st century.... whether one is a celebrity or any ordinary person. We must stand up for ourselves. Kudos to you Charu. Hope you get lots of work and shows. God bless you and Ziana.

  • @mahi.6919
    @mahi.6919 Рік тому +577

    Always understood that Rajeev is a very selfish immature person. Now it's out in the open. Stay strong charu, and live a happy life ! Sometimes we just choose wrong partners for us. Choose a good one in the future and wish you have a good life ahead.

    • @sabasn1611
      @sabasn1611 Рік тому

      The REALITY! ☹️💔Ek insaan ki poori duniya khatam ho jaati hai jab maa baap politics kheltey aur dogley nikaltey hai. But this is the REALITY. It’s the harshest truth. If not all but most of the people have to face it. All parents are not supportive. Infact in most cases parents ki wajah se hi sabse zyada problems hoti hai baccho ko. Parents ki dakiyanoosi soch aur extreme control ke kaaran. Shaadi karo. Bacchey karo. Isi time par karo warna duniya khatam ho jaigi and all that bull shit jiski wajah se bacchey apna dimaag use he nahi kar paatey aur sirf pressure mai Aakar shaadi jaise badey decisions ley letey hai. I’m not saying all parents are wrong. But most of the Indian parents are! Love your parents and serve them but don’t be dominated by them. There’s a huge difference between respect and slavery. Parents like only those kids who listen to them. They want everything according to them. This is not love. It’s sheer control and dominance. Get out of it at the earliest. And in the future give space to your kids. Teach them to have their own mind not the parent’s dictated mind. Zyadatar parents ko logo ki padi rehti hai. Woh log jo aapko kabhi nahi poochtey but apna garbage aap par zaroor daaltey hai. Block such people from your life completely.

    • @Grooming716
      @Grooming716 Рік тому +4

      Well said 💗

    • @RatulaA
      @RatulaA Рік тому +3

      Rightly said. Even I could sense that.

    • @namratadahama
      @namratadahama Рік тому +6

      Absolutely correct one thing I wish to add though from personal experience . If you deserve better God will make sure that you don’t peacefully stay with someone who is not meant for you. Hence, this is a proof Charu deserves better and should not stay in this shitty marriage. I am sure when her daughter will come of age she would understand that this was the best decision.

    • @jinteekalita9042
      @jinteekalita9042 Рік тому

      @@RatulaA Indeed

  • @madhukumari8801
    @madhukumari8801 4 місяці тому +4

    Siddharth ...you are such a gold person...so kind to Charu..if possible please support her without telling the world...

  • @riajuneja8819
    @riajuneja8819 Рік тому +369

    This interview felt like someone was saying things out of my life. Exact copy paste. Separated since 3.5 years. Tried to mend my broken marriage. Every fucking word is relatable. I feel you.

    • @bhartik8548
      @bhartik8548 Рік тому +10

      More strength and power to you girl🤜🏻🤛🏻

    • @areibaarif
      @areibaarif Рік тому +3

      Exactly relatable for me too

    • @chinnaramechchinakathegalu4443
      @chinnaramechchinakathegalu4443 Рік тому +2

      Hugs

    • @april110
      @april110 Рік тому +6

      Same i thought its LOVE at first but later it turned into bitterness inside me. I wasted my precious early 20s to this little boy and wasted 4 years of my life.
      Now i am married the second time, at first some words and stuffs used to trigger me and i would react but now i have realised not every person is like that. I don't live in fear anymore. I can say anything to this person now. So much at peace now

    • @feelbetter2481
      @feelbetter2481 Рік тому +1

      Every victim of narcissistic abuse will relate to this

  • @malabikamandal
    @malabikamandal Рік тому +40

    I totally understand what you are going through!! Pls take care of yourself and your daughter....more power and love to you and Ziana!!

  • @Fitandfab192
    @Fitandfab192 Рік тому +31

    Thank you for respectfully interviewing her and giving her a platform to tell the world Charu’s termoil.

  • @ayonamitra
    @ayonamitra Рік тому +94

    The mental and emotional scar that a toxic relationship can leave on a person is indescribable. You will find your peace, you are a fighter.
    More power, love, and blessings for you and little Ziana❤

  • @vb7043
    @vb7043 Рік тому +84

    in a relationship always women's suffering 🥺 society only blaming women for separation 🥺💔 stay strong Charu 🥺

    • @shaivyasharma6096
      @shaivyasharma6096 Рік тому +3

      Dear charu Ma'am.. you are not national joke.. you are a very strong girl.
      I hate keep on listening on any seperation that women do it for alimony even when the girl do every thing to make the relationship work..girls don't want money they want RESPECT HAPPINESS LOVE.I hope pray and wish nobody has to go through this situation..

  • @sakshiverma3832
    @sakshiverma3832 Рік тому +18

    So calm and composed interview
    May God give Charu and Her Daughter all happiness and peace

  • @DivineBliss777
    @DivineBliss777 Рік тому +61

    Very sad to see Charu going through this pain 😞

  • @svnagla8467
    @svnagla8467 Рік тому +8

    Charu is good u have taken best decision in life. I am also in toxic relationship from past 10 years with 3 young kids,same from Rajasthan and lives in Mumbai...i can understand what you are going through.

  • @GoodVibesOnly_UPASANA
    @GoodVibesOnly_UPASANA Рік тому +33

    Interview ending was so rightly done. She would definitely be proud of herself down the line ❤️❤️ huge respect 🙏🙏

  • @Nandni571
    @Nandni571 Рік тому +60

    Charu we are with you. We will always support you.. You don't scared of anyone

  • @vartikasingh9720
    @vartikasingh9720 Рік тому +24

    Host is a very humble man. Carrying out conversations like this with unknown person is very tough! Specially when they are public figure.

  • @juveriamohiuddin3670
    @juveriamohiuddin3670 Рік тому +19

    You aren’t a joke! You are an example of a strong woman. Good you have given so much time, so that never in ur life will u regret this big decision. May God keep ur daughter with you for ever and keep you both happy…Always!!!

  • @ShaliniSinghh1011
    @ShaliniSinghh1011 Рік тому +717

    Thanks for thus interview...Siddharth! This interview literally cleared all my doubts regarding Charu's personal life..I hated her before this interview but this interview is an eye opener to me that what all she is going through and she looks so happy in her instagram posts...We are with you,Charu!

    • @rajhtc355
      @rajhtc355 Рік тому +6

      Excuse me ....is k karan tumhari life ruki hui thi kya ...kya bat karti ho Shalini....aur ek side ka suna hai tumne ...dusra side to sun lo beti

    • @hare_krishna49
      @hare_krishna49 Рік тому +5

      Never judge a book by its cover

    • @knupriyachouhan1973
      @knupriyachouhan1973 Рік тому +6

      I also thought same but after this am speechless🙄

    • @sandipadas9216
      @sandipadas9216 Рік тому +3

      It takes an interview to believe a woman being a woman yourself inspite of almost everything being open. And then we blame the society.

    • @ShaliniSinghh1011
      @ShaliniSinghh1011 Рік тому +1

      @@sandipadas9216 Again you are doing the same thing for the sake of spreading so-called positivity. Thankfully I have courage to accept my wrongs but then people like you can never be pointing anything to yourselves..

  • @mohanad8114
    @mohanad8114 Рік тому +50

    I have commented on one of Charu's vlogs when she decided to divorce the first time, that I feel Rajeev is a narcissist and she needs to throw him out of her life. But then couple months back I heard that they are getting back. I knew from inside that this is not going to work, but just prayed that somehow this works. Charu is a smart girl, she is ready to end this ordeal in 3 and half years......I was not as smart as her....I took 15 years to end my ordeal with a narcissist! Narcissists are very manipulative, very sweet and well behaved in outside world and that's how they control you and prove you as a wrong doer. What Charu went through while doing back and forth on her decision is a classic battered woman's syndrome. But Charu, if you are reading this then let me tell you one thing, no matter how bleak and hopeless life feels now, this too shall pass! You WILL be able to live a fulfilling and peaceful life. Just don't lose strength. After few years when you look behind, you will be extremely proud of yourself. I am in the USA and went through this ordeal all alone. Had to go through a nasty Divorce and child custody battle all alone. But today, I am very proud of myself and my daughters. Finally there is peace in life. I will pray to the God to give you strength 🙏

  • @shusreehota8362
    @shusreehota8362 Рік тому +22

    We want to see Charu in our TV screen please give her work for her for her baby and she’s deserving also and we proud of her

  • @thehappyoracle1516
    @thehappyoracle1516 Рік тому +210

    I went through this same situation years back, but only difference was that my family was there to hold me and I was always working. Me and my husband had seperated when my daughter was 8 months old and he never looked back.
    I looked after my daughter since then and now she is a big girl doing her PhD in psychology.
    I am glad that I had come out of that toxic relationship then or else my daughter would have been an introvert living in a nutshell.

  • @amravatiyadav542
    @amravatiyadav542 Рік тому +11

    Why is my gut feeling saying that she is so sweet simple and true.
    Charu You are Strong.
    And stay Strong.
    You are my Hero.

  • @VlogwithSaba
    @VlogwithSaba Рік тому +62

    It is so embarrassing when you're associated with every other person you work with or interact with. He was such a sick person. I wish you healing and good health, Charu.

  • @aishachandel1356
    @aishachandel1356 Рік тому +46

    My heart goes out to Charu’s current emotional state. Love love love

  • @jyotsanasharma5452
    @jyotsanasharma5452 Рік тому +23

    That girl is not lying, the truth and the lie can be detected by the eyes.... your body language tells the truth and lie...And Charu is absolutely telling the truth here...One who suffers, can only understand...god bless you charu...

  • @pd651
    @pd651 Рік тому +25

    Charu still loves her husband so much which is reflecting in her innocent eyes .... I can feel, what she is going through ....After marriage, her first priority was her husband, and she ignored her friend ,family and career too, to make her husband happy ..But rajeev did not try to feel her deepest love for him.She don't want to leave his husband even now ...but she does not has any other option left because of her husband behaviour and people criticism .....

  • @gousiarasool4555
    @gousiarasool4555 Рік тому +30

    You are a strong lady you will definitely come out of all this!

  • @adeousamigos893
    @adeousamigos893 Рік тому +13

    Charu be strong sweetheart. I can’t bear to see u crying. Sidarth is like an Angel. Happy that you had interview with you. Take care n god bless u. Love from Goa

  • @karthikadevan8527
    @karthikadevan8527 Рік тому +30

    Only one word for you, Charu. That you are an amazing woman. Do not forget to keep yourself happy, you need to be at peace without the mental stress which you are going through and you need to be for your daughter. Nothing else matters…god bless you and may you get all the happiness in your life. You are an inspiration to many

  • @Chupsssse
    @Chupsssse Рік тому +31

    She seems so polite and good lady

  • @vishwapatel7086
    @vishwapatel7086 Рік тому +28

    Sending her lots of strength, peace and positive energy! stay strong!❤️

  • @cauliflowerhead2735
    @cauliflowerhead2735 Рік тому +366

    He doesn't really believe you were having an affair, he was just strawmanning you with false allegations to scare you into isolation by the threat of character assassination. Character assassination is very distressing for people and just to avoid that distress they give in to their abuser's demand. He wanted to make it hard for you to work with people, to have healthy friendships and opportunities that would have diverse teams with men and women working together, he wanted you to be as emotionally, socially, financially dependent on him through strategic isolation where he can treat you however he wants and get away with it as you can't leave immediately to feel powerful. If you do become dependent on him he'll accuse you of being a gold-digger, threaten to not support you or threaten to walk away just to play with you. For him control you is a game. This way or that way he would continue to abuse you.

    • @PerzinDaruwala
      @PerzinDaruwala Рік тому +25

      This is narcissistic abuse

    • @rm3015
      @rm3015 Рік тому +15

      He was gaslighting her. Very common in NPD patients.

    • @vasanthar4533
      @vasanthar4533 Рік тому +3

      Right..

    • @pritalsanatani1591
      @pritalsanatani1591 Рік тому +6

      Right.. Yeah kitnz Ghatiya Nich..gira give hain. Ladki ko like Apna Gulzm banker Rakho 😠

    • @shardachooramun7860
      @shardachooramun7860 Рік тому +6

      This is what we call a narcissist

  • @Akdas5231
    @Akdas5231 Рік тому +10

    You are a brave and a very strong women . Now move on and start over again your life mam ❤️

  • @manjusharma2901
    @manjusharma2901 Рік тому +55

    We are with you charu move on❤️

  • @Quaint45
    @Quaint45 Рік тому +86

    I hope she finds peace and work as soon as possible. She needs this for her daughter who has just come into this world and absolutely no idea how this cruel world can be.

  • @trisha3344
    @trisha3344 Рік тому +35

    It breaks my heart to see her cry and see her so broken by her loved ones 😢

  • @Sun-c1h9v
    @Sun-c1h9v 2 місяці тому +3

    Just saw a vlog where both Rajeev and Charu were with their daughter in Dubai. So they're not divorced

  • @dhanishanankani01
    @dhanishanankani01 Рік тому +43

    My ex used to have this same behaviour. Feels like you’ve been trapped and have nowhere to go. Sending love and more power to handle whatever comes her way! ❤️😘

  • @gunjansharma7827
    @gunjansharma7827 Рік тому +28

    It’s ok Charu, we all get betrayed by closest persons, it’s life. Just keep yourself stable by sticking to your reality. Let him go and find your peace.

  • @indiraghosh718
    @indiraghosh718 Рік тому +47

    It is going to be the toughest & darkest phase of your life Charu but once you are through these journey you will be a whole new person. Stay super strong, don’t be afraid to loose people & learn to love your own company. May almighty be your guiding Angel & protect you in every step. Best wishes, big hug & oceans of love 💞😘🤗

  • @manishmv
    @manishmv 7 місяців тому +4

    This Girl is so nice and really characterful. She is really a good life-partner. Hope everthing goes well.

    • @manishmv
      @manishmv 7 місяців тому +1

      She also loves him so much!!!

    • @manishmv
      @manishmv 7 місяців тому +1

      At the moment she is pretty disturbed. In this interview she seems not able to talk normally because of so much mental blockage.