UNFILTERED Q&A: The Reality of Long Distance Relationship, Loneliness, and Life after Graduation

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024

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  • @nhanta
    @nhanta  Місяць тому +23

    Big thanks to Christian and Tom for participating in this video and responding with some amazing answers ❤️ Timestamps for you to watch:
    0:00 meet Christian and Tom
    2:00 Long Distance Relationship
    8:26 Life Update with Christian
    13:10 British Museum + Dinner
    16:52 Life Update with Tom

    • @christiansuen
      @christiansuen Місяць тому

      Thank you again for letting us crash at yours! Ahaha 🤣 see you next time!

  • @WE-qk8sd
    @WE-qk8sd Місяць тому +22

    Christian is very eloquent and intelligent...I could listen to him talk about anything

  • @kenfraza
    @kenfraza Місяць тому +28

    Nhân, this was a GREAT video: your separate interviews with the guys and spending time in London. I only wish we could have seen more of their arrival at 4 AM!!! And you were a very gracious host in giving them your bed the first night. 🤗

    • @nhanta
      @nhanta  Місяць тому +3

      Thank youuu so much. I tried to do a combined Q&A and vlog ❤

    • @kenfraza
      @kenfraza Місяць тому

      @@nhanta Good job! Now, if you were just a bit….. TALLER! 🤣😂

  • @alainjoyal315
    @alainjoyal315 Місяць тому +20

    Thank you for sharing this vlog! Danny and I (Alan) were in a long distance relationship for two years. I met Danny in Shenzhen, China (beside Hong Kong), where I lived 6 years. Because of COVID, I had to exit China and move back to Canada. Danny and I were living together 2 years already when I had to leave China. With Immigration, lawyers, and the Common Law, we’re were able to be reunited in Ottawa, Canada (after 2 years). We got married last years in fact.
    As your friends mentioned, you need to make it work. As mentioned also, the need of a routine while being long distance is crucial (just to talk every day, even if only say good night or good morning). Danny and I talked every day for 2 years through WeChat / WeChat videos. Danny went through the LD relationship two years, and I’m sure your friends can do it as well.
    Alan & Danny
    Ottawa, Canada

    • @nhanta
      @nhanta  Місяць тому +3

      Awww this is so sweet 🥹 congratulations!!!

  • @stewartmillen7708
    @stewartmillen7708 Місяць тому +9

    I was in a long-distance relationship with my Vietnamese bf for seven years, and we finally got married this year! ❤

    • @fruitykrueger
      @fruitykrueger Місяць тому +1

      Congratulations guys 🎉🎉 wish you both many more happy years to come

    • @stewartmillen7708
      @stewartmillen7708 Місяць тому +1

      @@fruitykrueger Thank you! I am so lucky to be with my Vietnamese spouse! And the family loves him!

  • @JAMoore-zz3ki
    @JAMoore-zz3ki Місяць тому +7

    I'm so happy to see Christian and Tom together again, even if it's just a brief visit. I like them so much as a couple. But I also understand about needing some time apart so you don't lose your sense of self.
    You are all doing so well, and believe it or not.....even us "adults" who are WELLLLL past our college era (our 20s) don't have everything figured out. I'm in my late 50s and I'm still working on that, lol.
    But as Tom said, you just have to keep moving forward and living your best lives. Enjoy your time together, Tom and Christian! ❤❤

    • @nhanta
      @nhanta  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks for sharing ❤️ it’s important to grow individual selves as a couple!

  • @mishko5491
    @mishko5491 Місяць тому +4

    May God GROWS your LOVE no matter the distance

  • @daveg9474
    @daveg9474 Місяць тому +3

    Thanks Christian and Tom and well done for being so positive and supportive of each other. Being apart is tough but it sounds like you guys have a plan . I hope we get to see you together or at least hear via Nhan that you got to spend more time together, very soon.
    Nice one Nhan! You always come up with the goods!! Hugs. D xxx

  • @matthewjay660
    @matthewjay660 Місяць тому +4

    Tom, Christian, and Binh are my favorite guests, Nhân. 🇺🇸🤝🇻🇳

  • @molekyuttv5121
    @molekyuttv5121 Місяць тому +2

    I can attest to what Tom said, that at 20 you don't really know what you want to be. I'm now in my mid 30s and I just realized that I want to be in the legal profession, so I enrolled in law school in 2021, unfortunately, since I was working full-time , and due to conflicting schedules I ended up leaving law school after 1 full year. So, I think the Gap Year is a nice way to figure out what you want to be at an early stage.

  • @harvestmoon_autumnsky
    @harvestmoon_autumnsky Місяць тому +2

    I remember when you first introduced them to us, your viewers, and I was impressed at how grounded and mature they were. I never think LDR will work, almost ever. But I have absolute faith theirs will. I find it so interesting that some people don't know what they want to do with their career. I only went to college to get a degree for my job. I wish I could have just studied for fun. I've known what I was going to do since I was in high school, although I wish I had thought more about it before I committed to teaching.

  • @skyedancer3106
    @skyedancer3106 Місяць тому +2

    Hi Nhan, very nice to meet your friends. Great questions and great answers. I hope you keep us updated on them. Take care and stay safe till next time.
    ❤❤❤

  • @JD-qx3lb
    @JD-qx3lb Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful video, the fact of having a relationship in university and moving forward with it after graduation is amazing. Talking about how to navigate long term relationships and all the challenges that it brings is something most of us don’t have to worry about or understand. Although it seems you two have come to terms with it and developed a plan of action that will help navigate it. As described by the both of you communicating, taking time and effort to understand each other is critical. Congratulations on your graduation and success in getting a job which are both very special and exciting not to mention the difficulties in doing both. Nhan thank you for sharing this wonderful video with us, it’s very inspiring and educational to watch. ❤️🙋‍♂️🏳️‍🌈

  • @georgeoduor8940
    @georgeoduor8940 Місяць тому +2

    Your best video yet!

  • @nigelbond4056
    @nigelbond4056 Місяць тому

    Such a great video. It’s a subject I know a lot about living in Wales and my partner lives in Bangkok. Communication, trust and honesty are three critical requirements to male a long distance relationship work ❤️

  • @Hokipoki4u
    @Hokipoki4u Місяць тому

    Loved this video. So nice getting to know C and T a bit better!

  • @PETE1769
    @PETE1769 Місяць тому +2

    great video boys

  • @evertonvale3773
    @evertonvale3773 Місяць тому

    I like so much this video.
    Show us that is possible to keep a good relationship even physically distant.
    Nice to see you together ✨💎✨.

  • @Audsugg
    @Audsugg Місяць тому

    Great video. Christian, so many UK consulting firms would take their arm off to have you. Don’t leave it for a year or two, life is short

  • @stacymuff964
    @stacymuff964 Місяць тому +1

    I love Christian and Tom 🙂❤️❤️

  • @fmb828
    @fmb828 Місяць тому

    Good see you guys Nhan. Christian and Tom thank you for sharing your video I. Enjoyed watching it guys are always funny love and respect from Frank always ❤❤❤

  • @binggay
    @binggay Місяць тому

    i graduated last month and im still unemployed thank you for this

  • @marciallomodjr-qe7xb
    @marciallomodjr-qe7xb Місяць тому +2

    "Sana,all" ❤ nhan crush from Philippines 🥰😊Christian is CUTE🥰Nhan is the most Cutie's 😍

  • @megaphoenix2001
    @megaphoenix2001 Місяць тому +1

    i was in a LDR for 8.5yrs with a guy from singapore(im in uk) was really hard not being together and the physical part of the relationship we did meet sometimes but was really hard to say goodbye

  • @evertonvale3773
    @evertonvale3773 Місяць тому

    É muito bom ver vocês juntos. Cada um cuidando da sua vida, mas mantendo elos de amizade, amor puro e verdadeiro.
    Parabéns pela sinceridade e maturidade.

  • @rossjam123
    @rossjam123 Місяць тому

    That was so fun. Thanks.

  • @bobdodson8468
    @bobdodson8468 Місяць тому

    Thanks for the video Nhan❤

  • @paulfrankiecool7166
    @paulfrankiecool7166 Місяць тому

    you guys are so awesome,
    i do want to comment on the gap year after uni tho, please do mark, and I believe Tom said it, its all depend on the individuals, I am more toward their economic condition, as taking a gap year is not cheap at all (unless you have part time during gap year) It needs money *quite a lot I must say) to support the gap year :)
    it is an awesome experience to be able to have gap year!

  • @Stewie0311
    @Stewie0311 Місяць тому

    Christian is very different from what i assumed about him from watching his tiktok videos.he's so mature and intimidating tbh.i always liked them from their videos,but after listening them talk i love them even more❤️.

  • @bldramaqueen12
    @bldramaqueen12 Місяць тому

    i love the way nhân is a perfect host the way he offered his bed the way he reunited them togther i also love nhân laughter image tomchristain my favorite couple meeting my favorite content creator NHÂN ok who doesn't live nhân have a good day nhân lot's of love from🇨🇼 have a blessed week

  • @user-sy9zs5ur6l
    @user-sy9zs5ur6l Місяць тому

    > this is very informative and reassuring video content Nhân - as i imagine so many of your subscribers (your age) will find value in the experience and advice given herein. also, you guys make every adventure into must-see content. luv you all. x Jackson in West Hollywood ~

  • @Vandyboygames
    @Vandyboygames Місяць тому +1

    Omg heyyyy!! I am so excited for this post!! 🫶🏽

  • @BlakeFox
    @BlakeFox Місяць тому

    Love your videos! Made your video 1000 likes, it makes confetti! I dated my boyfriend for two years before we married. Hawaii Aloha🤙

  • @rebeccahamm6522
    @rebeccahamm6522 Місяць тому

    Love this! ❤

  • @bradandroysawesomelifebrad9209
    @bradandroysawesomelifebrad9209 Місяць тому

    My husband and I hard one year of long distance. It was hard but we got through it. That was 20 years ago. ❤

  • @Traveltheme706
    @Traveltheme706 Місяць тому +1

    Great vid guys i couldnt imagine having a long distance relationship though the lonliness would get to me i guess the only upside is you can fart in bed and get away with it however🤣

  • @alexs.m5598
    @alexs.m5598 Місяць тому

    In November I make 2 years of long-distance relationship. It's hard but it's possible.

  • @carlosdroidphone497
    @carlosdroidphone497 Місяць тому +1

    First 🎉🎉🎉

  • @jandanielsson6791
    @jandanielsson6791 Місяць тому

    😊 Greetings from Stockholm 🇸🇪

  • @chikabiche7192
    @chikabiche7192 Місяць тому +1

    Cuties ❤ 😊

  • @deathlyshadow1
    @deathlyshadow1 Місяць тому

    Okey But why did i click this video so quickly when i saw it...

  • @comeonjeffgetthem3922
    @comeonjeffgetthem3922 Місяць тому

    14:23 TOM!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 (ps,, give back our moai)

  • @2PeopleLab
    @2PeopleLab Місяць тому +1

    being happy 2gether now is already m0rE than alrite
    being 4ever may be unrealistic [most of the time] ..heheehh....

  • @ClaudiaGonzalez-dh9pw
    @ClaudiaGonzalez-dh9pw Місяць тому

    Mi niño hermoso ❤❤ muy bonitos amigos tienes 😊😊😊❤❤❤

  • @ronanmonte1370
    @ronanmonte1370 Місяць тому

    Hi Nhân ❤❤

  • @tothichsjk
    @tothichsjk Місяць тому

    You are so cuteeee

  • @romeolau1621
    @romeolau1621 19 днів тому

    Can’t say what… he must be working for the MI6😂

  • @DanielHarry-od6ny
    @DanielHarry-od6ny Місяць тому

    Graduation not graduation

  • @fellizmendes5374
    @fellizmendes5374 Місяць тому

    Cadê a legenda em português

  • @RalphLotharBuchwitz
    @RalphLotharBuchwitz Місяць тому

    What language is this? I don't understand a word...

  • @SincaPiem
    @SincaPiem Місяць тому

    Nice❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kennguyen4370
    @kennguyen4370 Місяць тому

    Làm trương trình kết nối tình yêu khắp mọi nơi đi nhân

  • @floeyd.2405
    @floeyd.2405 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @riperiba2723
    @riperiba2723 Місяць тому

    I like Tom 👍🏻 👌 ♥️ 😋 ❤️ 😍

  • @BakaNeBaka
    @BakaNeBaka Місяць тому

    Say the three pleasing to the eye guys. Imagine if you weren't? How'd that turn out? Ha

  • @CANARIGAY
    @CANARIGAY Місяць тому

    👍😘

  • @danielhaidang5064
    @danielhaidang5064 Місяць тому +1

    sớm

  • @jgreen4006
    @jgreen4006 Місяць тому

    I like how Nhan is surrounding himself with other young professionals with life goals, does not giggle at every word, and act/think maturely. However, I wish he'd stop giggling at every sentence. I think it shows how insecure a person is when they do that. You are fun and intelligent the way you are now. Show more confidence and please stop that annoying giggling that you do. Thank you.

  • @geraldcastro3979
    @geraldcastro3979 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @mrnduque
    @mrnduque Місяць тому

    💖