18:00 My grandma planted a orpine on my grandpa’s grave around 2001. A direction translation for the orpine’s name from my language to english is “love herb”, which reflects my grandmas love for grandpa. It isn’t the prettiest flower anymore, but my grandma planted it and she passed away 2012 so if some stranger removed the orpine and then put fake flowers on the grave that would break my family, especially my mom
@RositaBunny_official-01 Just a helpful correction, they said *if* someone did that to their grandpa's grave, not that something like that actually happened, I almost misread it myself
I used to work for a cemetery. People will flip out, grounds crews will get blamed, those chemicals will scratch and degrade the stone quickly. That's actually cemetery vandalism if she didn't have permission. YOU CANNOT BE IN A CEMETERY AT NIGHT! that's trespassing!
I would think she did some research on what to use….. I really really hope. I wouldn’t think she could go on this long if the chemicals degraded the stone…. Not on her side one bit I’m js
Is there a way to properly clean grave and tombstones? And at what point is it ok for strangers to clean graves ? Let’s say the grave owner doesn’t have any living member or is over 100 years old?
@@林T-k5mthere is correct ways to clean graves. What she is doing is not good. Always avoid using chemicals on graves especially acidic cleaners, abrasive brushes or cleaners, bleach or ammonia, and oil based products.. so basically most household bathroom and kitchen cleaners are damaging to graves. she should definitely not be using her pink foam product on graves. It looks like oven cleaner to me which is extremely damaging to graves. Instead patience with a very soft bristle brush and mild soap like dish detergent or PH balanced cleaners specifically for stone is how it should be done.
My aunt recently told me that peonies on one of our relatives graves are planted by my grandmother and my grandmother has passed almost 30 years ago. I would be furious if someone would come and take them out.
@@karaiakauma3179 There is this story in where I live if you ever take away or mess with something from a dead person, this person will haunt you until you give them it back or apologise
For some people, the fact that a grave ages gives them comfort. It shows how the person has been transformed. Visiting the grave and seeing it fresh as the first day could be very traumatizing.
Yes, there are many reasons to let a grave het overgrown or a bit dirty. To assume that all of those reasons are lack of care or lack of time and that the family of the deceased will appreciate her 'help' is so disrespectful! Even if she didn't damage the graves and the environment around it by using the wrong cleaning detergents, Even if she didn't remove flowers that were put there by the family, Even if she didn't wash personal belongings of the deceased that might still have traves of them (DNA, smell, hair) on them, Even if she didn't expose the memory of the deceased for brainrot content in the same language and presentation style as TV for toddlers, Even without all this disrespect, the act "helping" someone without even asking if they want help is already disrespectful! It's patronizing, it's denying them their own agency!
@@LRM12o8 for some, their loved one was ripped away from them and the only control they now have is in how they manage the grave or in watching it peacefully transform. She does not know the significance of the flowers and items left and should not be touching or removing them. She has no right to interfere or disrupt what is happening with the grave :(.
FINALLY, someone whos exposing her! Am sick of people saying "aww shes so kind" "i want her to clean my grave" when i first discovered her i knew DAMN WELL this was disrespectful
This is actually the most disrespectful shit ever, touching and washing the toys on a kids grave in one of her videos, using harsh bathroom cleaners (Kaboom) on grave stones can cause them to breakdown early, she paints some graves (half-assed at that, and who knows if it's actually outside paint), pulling live plants she doesn't know if they're perennials or not, literally everything she does in a graveyard, is some of the most disrespectful shit you could do in a graveyard, short of digging up the body's and smashing the headstones. And she makes money off of this disrespect, to make it even worse. I'd be so upset if someone was messing with my families headstones in the matter that she is.
Dude… it’s terrible how she washed the toys of babies graves, that’s what upsets me most. Or things like flowers, or valuable items that the baby or child (even older) maybe touched, or adored, it could have their scent on it, of fingerprints even if it’s super dirty. Those items are sentimental and shouldn’t be touched unless given special permission.
As a plant enthusiast if someone swapped the plants on my grave with PLASTIC PLANTS i *will* be coming back from the grave to haunt their family for 7 generations
I showed My Grandmother this, and she told me when she passes to please not clean her grave. She believes letting the plant grow around her will help connect her with nature, as well as help her pass into her next life.
If you place flowers at a grave and want them to last longer, there are these special greenhouse cases you can put them in with water on the bottom, so when the sun hits, it evaporates the water and moistens the flowers, so they stay alive longer.
With a vacuum, for likes 🤦🏼♀️. I’ve seen some people, in older cemeteries (not 1990) clean up really old graves. They’re doing it because they wanna, not filming it for likes and destroying headstones. Also have seen veterans going around making sure that the veterans graves have flags. Again, doing it because they want to, not for likes.
As soon as i saw the title, I was immediately disgusted. This is such an insult to their family and I hope they get charged with vandalism and trespassing.
Hi, practicing Witch here! Occasionally I need graveyard dirt for a spell, and this is NOT HOW WE ACT. I always ask the graveyard owners/staff for entry, or find the rules if they have a website. We never take dirt from directly on top of where a body could be resting, usually it is from near the fence of the yard, and I never take more than my small jar will hold. This usually lasts me several months. Occasionally, I pull moss off a headstone as it is believed to be incredibly powerful. Whenever I plan to do this, I bring a rose or other flower and leave it by the headstone i pull moss from. I don’t clean them, or dance, or dig up bones, I just quietly collect and leave my flowers. One of our biggest beliefs is that respect and care for the earth and dead souls is incredibly important.
@@hallway_revenant7919I know this is placing the bar really low but what you described sounds 1,000,000 times more respectful and better then whatever the hell the person in the video is doing
18:55 I had to take a break. That's extremely disrespectful The flowers had ROOTS and she ust ripped them out and replaced them.. Girl, let those flowers live on for the deceased
@ they were planted by their family members. Who cares if it’s dirty, it’s meant to be memorable and those flowers that were specially planted that were REAL, got replaced by some fake ones
In my country, we arent even allowed to touch graves that are other than family, I accidentaly nudged a grave and I apologized to it because it was disrespectful. Family members and a few select people are allowed to clean graves, everytime we visit graves, we add more flowers and flower petals to them. This girl outright washed the graves without the familys permission, replaced the flowers put by the families, and think that that's completly normal to record on social media without the families permission. Note : english is not my default language
She isnt taking payment to clean the graves… UA-camrs make their videos for free but they get paid when we watch it and if nobody watches the video then they dont get paid. She isnt asking for money for cleaning the graves
@@casper6014 "they get paid when we watch it and if nobody watches the video then they dont get paid." Okay but people are watching *this* girl's videos and she knows it, each of her uploads get dozens of millions of views. Also if she was just cleaning the graves to be nice or for fun, there'd be no reason for her to advertise in her videos or put obvious effort into making the video as stimulating as possible
@@jamevianjackson4327 If you arent born rich or have alot of money then you cant afford to clean graves for free… You can use MrBeast as an example, he doesnt need to film himself helping poor people but he still does it so he can give out even more money than if he didnt post his videos.
the thing with her product if you go on the website the ingredients are not listed, when she cleans bathrooms a person could be allergic to whats in it, and how she cleans graves too, those are meant to last a while. how she cleans could damage the grave
Welp thats gonna a pink lean cleaning a grave like uhhhhhhhhh........ whatever a pink uhh something? Idk i get it when you said "i hope she got sued* well actully ........ I AGREE she might be a tresspassing and may not be alowed to clean without permission🙏
Nah cause the ingredients not being avaliable is worse, cause you can't clean stones with things like bleach and ammonia due to them literally causing decay, so she could really be out here just spraying down graves with a crumble faster liquid 💀
Is this girl being fr??? It would be one thing to add the fake flowers as her own "thoughtful gesture", but to blatantly use them as a replacement for the flowers that were left behind by an actual loved one is crossing the line.
"I love plants!" - I think that means weed and kush since she mercilessly rips out the flowers and plants (like cutting off that tree in the reposted TikTok), so "plants" definitely means those kinds of plants.
The real flowers rotting awat slowly is something so beautiful and meaningful anyways.. putting plastic flowers and doing all that as a stranger is a whole ass VIOLATION
Correct me if I’m wrong, but Vandalism on a grave is technically a crime which means that this person would be charged with a crime for committing a act of vandalism (or multiple accounts of vandalism).
@@maelseguinst-onge3947It damages the grave, and also if she didn’t get permission then even cleaning something can be counted as vandalism, if I remember correctly, because they might not have wanted it cleaned. It’s very important to some people that the grave is able to age, or at least doesn’t revert back to looking like the person was just buried recently…
@@DiamondClover Yeah, no, Cleaning isn't vandalism, even if you don't want to, I'm not on the girl's side but that's why now there are advertisements that are made cleaning a single section of the street with pressurized water, because cleaning is NOT vandalism, otherwise they had already been taken away saying “oh, cleaning can damage the streets” In addition, deterioration can take up to 200 years at the fastest time, constantly cleaning it, it's not as easy as cleaning it and it falls off, you can't pretend a professional when it literally doesn't affect cleaning a grave at all
@tonyparedes8154 unfortunately using the wrong cleaning products on ANY stone can quickly cause damage, not to mention the family can be fined by the site for damage to the grass if the products kill it. Bleach, ammonia and citric acids will deteriorate many materials, which is why you cannot use those on granite counter tops that are sealed, much less raw stone that markers are made out of.
as someone who is currently in a grave, I can confirm that this is really disrespectful. edit: WTFFFFF GUYS TYSM FOR 2KKK /) /) ପ(˶•-•˶)ଓ ♡ /づ づ (puff puff)
When I was a kid, I remember my class vollunteered to help "clean up" graves at a local cemetery. The difference was that we had the cemetery's permission and all we were doing was weeding around the stone/picking up sticks. They were all old gravestones that hadn't been tended to in many, many years. No scrubbing or abraisive cleaning supplies necessary.
I love this „dirty“ aged look of old graves and cemetries. I would be so mad if she‘d clean a grave without permission 😮 And putting her ugly fake flowers there
there is a respectful way to do this, im so done with people posting random acts of kindness on social media for credit. do it because it makes people happy not for praise on the internet
@@casper6014then make money some other way with different content….or at least do it for families who are actually open to this cause the families sure didn’t ask for her to spend hours doing this. Plus as many people have said already it’s beyond disrespectful to be replacing flowers that their loved ones left recently (they weren’t even dead yet) with fake ones and to be washing stuffed animals and stuff around the graves (not everyone would be okay with that as they might feel she’s washing away memories) and the cleaning products she uses will cause damage and cause them to fall apart faster. Idrc if she needs income either find some new content or at least start asking the families if they’re okay with you doing this.
Sounds like it should be illegal? It’s not your property, your problem, or your loved one. And unless you have a loved one in the graveyard you have no business being there
They have groundskeepers for grave maintenance. It’s not at all wild for it to be illegal for a complete stranger to clean someone else’s grave/headstone.
@@Lynn-Lynn-LynnI think that’s what the original commenter is saying- that it should be and is quite obviously illegal; yet the clean girl for some reason has no problem exploiting these dead people and their families for her content creation .
18:21 this hurts me, my grandma, died years ago, and we visit her on Mother’s Day and put pine cones together to spell out her name and I’d cry if someone cleaned her grave and got rid of our pine ones, I know wind and people might step it out etc.
The fact is that sometimes family members come back to take the flowers back after they die as remembering of the one who passed like that’s so disgusting that she would throw away the flowers
The thing that makes 18:26 and I think another instance earlier especially terrible with the flowers thing is that those aren't just normal "oh the family came around somewhat recently and left some flowers", those are properly planted, you can see the dirt they're planted in as she pulls them out- their family went through the effort of actually planting those flowers and probably taking care of them regularly, at the very least for a while before they started being able to sustain themselves properly. And she just tears them out.
i feel so bad for these people's families, imagine seeing on TikTok one of your family members' graves being cleaned when its OUTSIDE and gets dirt naturally. so disrespectful
Isn't there a belief that flowers on a grave are going to be sent to that person when they die? So replacing the flowers is taking flowers away from people in the afterlife
Given that’s how offerings to the gods works, I can see it. Along with it being a show of care, love and respect, the ancient Greeks believed that flowers rooted into the ground that grew from the grave symbolised the deceased had found peace.
There are cultures that give things like food as offerings to the dead as well. And yeah, it's really disrespectful to mess with any of it if you don't have permission.
Depends on the culture and ocassionally the believe system of the person. For me personally I am finishing my friend's bucket list. We made ours together at the hospital. We where both patients at high risk. But we always assumed we'd both survive anyways since we were young. We pretty much just made up the bucket list to pass time with a whole self made badly written contract that if either of us didn't make it the other would finish the bucket list for them. I leave him some of the proof that I did it. It looks like junk from afar I am sure. But the objects I leave behind are still there by the next visit if it ain't food. I hope he knows I am living for the both of us. But that's more of an example of personal believe and promise. Not cultural believes. It's more common to leave flowers or pictures where I live.
16:29 that could actually be Sam, if you look at the picture the clean girl showed, hes wearing a camouflage thing (maybe a mask), and if you look at the guy that shes calling Sam, he's wearing a camouflage mask. He probably doesn't know she already face revealed him.
Around this same time stamp she is literally cutting down branches of a tree (which actually is destruction of property for sure as the funeral home owns the land the trees are on). This lady is wild! I hope more people cover this and expose her fast, because this isn't acceptable no matter what world view you have.
I can't lie in the first part of the video I almost died of laughter and it also looks like stormy stormy is thinking about how to murder somebody edit: thank you so much for this 503 likes and the comments never had this much
I'm so glad someone is finally talking about this! As someone who's close friend died I can personally say this girl is SO disrespectful. Replacing the flowers. And filming yourself??? It's so rude she's profiting off vandalizing people's graves. She makes it so weird and disrespectful. If she did that to my friend I would be incredibly upset, and I can't even begin to imagine how the loved ones to the people's graves she cleans in her videos are feeling.
The recommended way to clean a headstone is with a small amount of detergent or ammonia diluted in water. Alternatively you can use a specialized stone cleaning product but not anything that comes from a pressurized can or power cleaner. People who know what they're doing would not be using anything under higher pressure than a hose or handpump. If you hope to have a stone engraving last for decades, or centuries even, you can't be using products that wear on the stone like this, or in a few decades, only a knub will remain.
18:36 I may not be a gardener, but my family is teachers and they often gets bouquets + we do have flowers of our own Those flowers were still very much good and probably just wilted, so at most she should've removed dry leaves, NOT RIP OUT WHOLE THING
@@Mmmpat I wish I could but I can’t even visit them, they’re half way across my country and I’m not very rich. I also only found out about their graves last year
Well, you don't want them to get all overgrown. At least to my grandparents, they saw it as disrespectful if a family member's grave was unsightly. But then again, we were the ones to tidy them up, not some stranger.
I'd say a lot of family members or close people like to keep their relatives graves clean. But she isn't close to anyone of those graves she's cleaning nor is a family member, 😭
my grandparents clean their sons grave so it doesn’t get like to nasty and they trim the grass around the grave, BUT they don’t use chemicals.. just water with soap, then they wipe it down :33
As a pastor's kid who has seen many a fake flower in my years, those flowers with get old, dirty, and nasty far before the real ones will. I've had to throw out fake flowers because they blow away and get so disgusting it's a dishonorer to leave them there
I hate the fact that she cleans EVERYTHING, even something natural, like flowers and moss. In my opinion, such things only make the graves look more poetic and even positive. Because you can look at such a view and think to yourself: "Even when we lose an important member of the society, there will always be new life, born in its place." But this lady just destroys this feeling for views, without asking permission for the services.
@clowerislucky just tell her that the girl is cleaning without permission and only doing it for views asking the reason like existing or breathing wont explain her because she didnt even say it anhthing related to that
4:06 in most graveyards, there are codes around the coffin or casket given to each dead person so people can identify them through apps easier instead of having to look for a name on the actual casket. The code was under the grass(at the very beginning), it was 1007
@@victoriabrown6561 cleaning graves for those that can't take care of them or don't take care of them does sound good to me. It surely does have downsides as well tho.
18:38 Replacing PRETTY REAL flowers with FAKE flowers is MAD RUDE. Some people use real flowers to represent good spirits and fake flowers for bad spirits in cemeteries.
The replacing real flowers is insane. The flowers she ripped out looked fine they just needed a little water. She is going to get sued one day I swear.
Some ppl literally said “I want her to clean my grave when I die.” Like, no. That is such disrespect, she is ruining more than cleaning. Like, imagine taking off flowers that the dead person’s relatives put.
17:13 she also puts old childhood toys from the people that died in the trash and gives them cheap ones 💀 Edit: oh, and in some of her vids after she cleans it, she just paints it white 😐
Her: i love plants Also her: *Using chemicals that most likely kill plants, rip plants of the grave, and yank out alive flowers and replace it with fake ones, and uses a chainsaw on a tree which normally represents life.*
My sister and her friends went to “clean” graveyards she literally just moved some fallen leafs away from the grave and she may have like wiped it down just a little bit (remind u the graveyard was abandoned) BUT THAT WAS IT! She didn’t start replacing the flowers and mess everything up and then post it…
Those flowers weren’t even dead yet. Someone placed those there
for their loved one recently and she replaced them with fake ones…
Yeah that’s what I’m saying… that’s such a level of disrespect
she needs to face some consequences for her actions
@@MIIKK0OLfr
Yeah
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18:00 My grandma planted a orpine on my grandpa’s grave around 2001. A direction translation for the orpine’s name from my language to english is “love herb”, which reflects my grandmas love for grandpa. It isn’t the prettiest flower anymore, but my grandma planted it and she passed away 2012 so if some stranger removed the orpine and then put fake flowers on the grave that would break my family, especially my mom
That’s horrible
@RositaBunny_official-01 Just a helpful correction, they said *if* someone did that to their grandpa's grave, not that something like that actually happened, I almost misread it myself
UR GRANDMA DIED ON THE SAME YEAR I WAS BORN 😭
sorry for your loss.
@@Tiatheunicorntwin i like this comment
I used to work for a cemetery. People will flip out, grounds crews will get blamed, those chemicals will scratch and degrade the stone quickly. That's actually cemetery vandalism if she didn't have permission.
YOU CANNOT BE IN A CEMETERY AT NIGHT! that's trespassing!
I would think she did some research on what to use….. I really really hope. I wouldn’t think she could go on this long if the chemicals degraded the stone…. Not on her side one bit I’m js
I wouldn’t even care if she got permission from the head of the cemetery. She should asked the families for permission.
@@Katfall2012 i hope she goes to jail
Is there a way to properly clean grave and tombstones?
And at what point is it ok for strangers to clean graves ? Let’s say the grave owner doesn’t have any living member or is over 100 years old?
@@林T-k5mthere is correct ways to clean graves. What she is doing is not good. Always avoid using chemicals on graves especially acidic cleaners, abrasive brushes or cleaners, bleach or ammonia, and oil based products.. so basically most household bathroom and kitchen cleaners are damaging to graves. she should definitely not be using her pink foam product on graves. It looks like oven cleaner to me which is extremely damaging to graves. Instead patience with a very soft bristle brush and mild soap like dish detergent or PH balanced cleaners specifically for stone is how it should be done.
“I LOVE PLANTS!” - *aggressively rips out the plants*
She’s got the same dead eyed smile as MrBeast with the voice of every single troom troom commentator. A combo we didnt know existed and never wanted
Alas.. your narration is perfecto 😂
Underrated comment
Troom troom was my childhood tho
And she an a88hole
fr
“I love nature!”
*proceeds to tear out perfectly fine real flowers and replace them with fake ones*
Her chemicals are probably also doing some real wonders for any surrounding plants.
And a lot of graveyards don't allow fake flowers
😂😂😂
3:02 DID SHE JUST RIP OUT THE FLOWERS THAT WERE INTENTIONALLY PLACED THERE AND REPLACED THEM WITH NEW ONES?!?!?!
THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING I'M SO FRICKING UPSET RN
OMG
I AM REALLY DISAPPOINTED I HER-
YES >:(
Fake ones at that if it’s the clip I’m thinking of
My grandma hated fake flowers. If someone came up to her grave and replaced our real flowers with fake ones, that would be absolutely disrespectful
i'm the same
I’m the same way! If you replace my beautiful flowers with plastic one I’d be haunting their ass so fast
My aunt recently told me that peonies on one of our relatives graves are planted by my grandmother and my grandmother has passed almost 30 years ago. I would be furious if someone would come and take them out.
That is very beautiful 💛
I feel if you pull flowers from a person's grave, you WILL be cursed
@@karaiakauma3179 I would be so scared to even touch the grave
@@karaiakauma3179
There is this story in where I live if you ever take away or mess with something from a dead person, this person will haunt you until you give them it back or apologise
7:45 "𝗜 𝗟𝗢𝗩𝗘 𝗖𝗛𝗘𝗠𝗜𝗖𝗔𝗟𝗦!!"
yeah, girl, I can tell. they've all gone to your head.
Damn that was a good one:)
lol
I love this comment
lol :>
How tf did you do the mysterious font?
For some people, the fact that a grave ages gives them comfort. It shows how the person has been transformed. Visiting the grave and seeing it fresh as the first day could be very traumatizing.
Yes, there are many reasons to let a grave het overgrown or a bit dirty. To assume that all of those reasons are lack of care or lack of time and that the family of the deceased will appreciate her 'help' is so disrespectful!
Even if she didn't damage the graves and the environment around it by using the wrong cleaning detergents,
Even if she didn't remove flowers that were put there by the family,
Even if she didn't wash personal belongings of the deceased that might still have traves of them (DNA, smell, hair) on them,
Even if she didn't expose the memory of the deceased for brainrot content in the same language and presentation style as TV for toddlers,
Even without all this disrespect, the act "helping" someone without even asking if they want help is already disrespectful! It's patronizing, it's denying them their own agency!
@@LRM12o8 for some, their loved one was ripped away from them and the only control they now have is in how they manage the grave or in watching it peacefully transform. She does not know the significance of the flowers and items left and should not be touching or removing them. She has no right to interfere or disrupt what is happening with the grave :(.
That's on them for not wanting to care for a grave
@ No. That is THEIR RIGHT. Not every belief system is based around tending to a grave.
@@AutumnSwift2 did you read the comment before writing this
FINALLY, someone whos exposing her! Am sick of people saying "aww shes so kind" "i want her to clean my grave" when i first discovered her i knew DAMN WELL this was disrespectful
This is actually the most disrespectful shit ever, touching and washing the toys on a kids grave in one of her videos, using harsh bathroom cleaners (Kaboom) on grave stones can cause them to breakdown early, she paints some graves (half-assed at that, and who knows if it's actually outside paint), pulling live plants she doesn't know if they're perennials or not, literally everything she does in a graveyard, is some of the most disrespectful shit you could do in a graveyard, short of digging up the body's and smashing the headstones. And she makes money off of this disrespect, to make it even worse. I'd be so upset if someone was messing with my families headstones in the matter that she is.
Yeah, I was thinking that the spray cleaner probably was not safe for use on the grave stones.
Not to mention that cleaner she uses is gonna kill all the grass around it
Fr, if I found out she ever did that to my brothers grave. I would sue the absolute hell out of her
Dude… it’s terrible how she washed the toys of babies graves, that’s what upsets me most. Or things like flowers, or valuable items that the baby or child (even older) maybe touched, or adored, it could have their scent on it, of fingerprints even if it’s super dirty. Those items are sentimental and shouldn’t be touched unless given special permission.
Has someone called the cops on her yet
2:30
her: *rips out tree*
also her: i love plants
real
fr
@Zhongdaegal7 she probs meant to say "i like to ACT like i love plants😊" she missed like 5 words😂
600th like and fr
666 likes
As a plant enthusiast if someone swapped the plants on my grave with PLASTIC PLANTS i *will* be coming back from the grave to haunt their family for 7 generations
SAMEEE
make it 8
@@princesskata2022 well u gotta get back to the other side at some point to square up with the one who did it in the first place
@@zimrandavid3878 ?
@@princesskata2022 no make it 10
I'm glad someone called her out for this. She doesn't even ask for permission she just does it
“with a not so friendly fur scrubber” and “Upside down twerking to dry fast” is probably the best thing I heard all day.
😭‼️
And Stormy is just rollin' with it 😹
Ears got blessed with that 😭
Wate same
The upside-down twerking 😂😂😂
I showed My Grandmother this, and she told me when she passes to please not clean her grave. She believes letting the plant grow around her will help connect her with nature, as well as help her pass into her next life.
If you place flowers at a grave and want them to last longer, there are these special greenhouse cases you can put them in with water on the bottom, so when the sun hits, it evaporates the water and moistens the flowers, so they stay alive longer.
your grandma seems like a wise woman
I want to be like your grandma
I like your grandma
I don't believe in new life's after you die but plants would look beautiful in a grave
Imagine you’re trying to rest and someone’s just over here completely violating your grave 😭
By now, I can see many ppl make a death wish saying, "after I died, make sure this bitch is 5 countries away from my graves"
You’re just chilling in your grave and you hear scubbing noises above you. “Stfu bitch I’m trying to sleep”
With a vacuum, for likes 🤦🏼♀️. I’ve seen some people, in older cemeteries (not 1990) clean up really old graves. They’re doing it because they wanna, not filming it for likes and destroying headstones. Also have seen veterans going around making sure that the veterans graves have flags. Again, doing it because they want to, not for likes.
The dead don't complain
@ Never said they did, and either way it’s still very disrespectful to the dead person 😭
8:45 the way she drenches the flowers that the person’s loved ones put there…
I am waiting for the day she gets sued for property damage
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I'd be so happy, she'd probably do it again when she's told not to
fr, she should
Yes definitely
Sameee
As soon as i saw the title, I was immediately disgusted. This is such an insult to their family and I hope they get charged with vandalism and trespassing.
Frr
Hi, practicing Witch here!
Occasionally I need graveyard dirt for a spell, and this is NOT HOW WE ACT.
I always ask the graveyard owners/staff for entry, or find the rules if they have a website. We never take dirt from directly on top of where a body could be resting, usually it is from near the fence of the yard, and I never take more than my small jar will hold. This usually lasts me several months. Occasionally, I pull moss off a headstone as it is believed to be incredibly powerful. Whenever I plan to do this, I bring a rose or other flower and leave it by the headstone i pull moss from. I don’t clean them, or dance, or dig up bones, I just quietly collect and leave my flowers.
One of our biggest beliefs is that respect and care for the earth and dead souls is incredibly important.
@@hallway_revenant7919 I don’t follow any particular religion or higher power, but I share your sentiments on the earth and those gone from it.
@@hallway_revenant7919I know this is placing the bar really low but what you described sounds 1,000,000 times more respectful and better then whatever the hell the person in the video is doing
@@Allantitan thanks lol, it’s always important to respect public graves because you can never know what their life was like.
18:55 I had to take a break. That's extremely disrespectful
The flowers had ROOTS and she ust ripped them out and replaced them..
Girl, let those flowers live on for the deceased
fr
I KNOW. I hope she gets sued this is so disrespectful and disgusting
Because they were dirty
@ they were planted by their family members. Who cares if it’s dirty, it’s meant to be memorable and those flowers that were specially planted that were REAL, got replaced by some fake ones
@@maelseguinst-onge3947ew
if she does that to a stranger's grave, the family of the dead person can probably sue her
In my country, we arent even allowed to touch graves that are other than family, I accidentaly nudged a grave and I apologized to it because it was disrespectful.
Family members and a few select people are allowed to clean graves, everytime we visit graves, we add more flowers and flower petals to them.
This girl outright washed the graves without the familys permission, replaced the flowers put by the families, and think that that's completly normal to record on social media without the families permission.
Note : english is not my default language
I agree. Also, your English was perfect. 😊
Your English is better than mine, and it's my only language. Plus I agree with everything you said
Great english! Couldn’t find a mistake that any other native wouldn’t make.
@@dejus_e I'm a native and I would have had worse grammar. They did a really good job!
@@Ray_Xy I agree
it annoys me sm when she says “for free” she literally owns a brand and has millions of subscribers, she’s obviously getting paid😭🙏
Like she isn't fooling anyone 😭 come on now lying isn't gonna get you anywhere
She isnt taking payment to clean the graves…
UA-camrs make their videos for free but they get paid when we watch it and if nobody watches the video then they dont get paid.
She isnt asking for money for cleaning the graves
FRR
@@casper6014 "they get paid when we watch it and if nobody watches the video then they dont get paid." Okay but people are watching *this* girl's videos and she knows it, each of her uploads get dozens of millions of views. Also if she was just cleaning the graves to be nice or for fun, there'd be no reason for her to advertise in her videos or put obvious effort into making the video as stimulating as possible
@@jamevianjackson4327 If you arent born rich or have alot of money then you cant afford to clean graves for free…
You can use MrBeast as an example, he doesnt need to film himself helping poor people but he still does it so he can give out even more money than if he didnt post his videos.
the thing with her product if you go on the website the ingredients are not listed, when she cleans bathrooms a person could be allergic to whats in it, and how she cleans graves too, those are meant to last a while. how she cleans could damage the grave
She basically doesn't doesn't care she's only doing it for views to get a bigger following. Some day she's gonna get sued for doing this
It's the pink sauce lady all over again
Welp thats gonna a pink lean cleaning a grave like uhhhhhhhhh........ whatever a pink uhh something? Idk i get it when you said "i hope she got sued* well actully ........
I AGREE she might be a tresspassing and may not be alowed to clean without permission🙏
Nah cause the ingredients not being avaliable is worse, cause you can't clean stones with things like bleach and ammonia due to them literally causing decay, so she could really be out here just spraying down graves with a crumble faster liquid 💀
"today im gonna clean this grave!" *aggressively cleans the grave*
Is this girl being fr??? It would be one thing to add the fake flowers as her own "thoughtful gesture", but to blatantly use them as a replacement for the flowers that were left behind by an actual loved one is crossing the line.
And that's by far not the first line she has crossed by that point... 🤢
@@LRM12o8 she draws actual smiley faces on them too- in some fluorescent pink too.
"I love plants!" - I think that means weed and kush since she mercilessly rips out the flowers and plants (like cutting off that tree in the reposted TikTok), so "plants" definitely means those kinds of plants.
The fact she replaced the FLOWERS that were probably given to the people by there family members is crazy😭
Replacing them with fake ones too😭
@@Scented_HandSoap yeah 😭
The real flowers rotting awat slowly is something so beautiful and meaningful anyways.. putting plastic flowers and doing all that as a stranger is a whole ass VIOLATION
another issue is they weren't actually dead they come back in the spring why do you think there was dirt in there
“Who the fuck is Sam.” And “Sam doesn’t give a fuck.”
KILLED me 😭 💀 🙏💀💀😭
Correct me if I’m wrong, but Vandalism on a grave is technically a crime which means that this person would be charged with a crime for committing a act of vandalism (or multiple accounts of vandalism).
She's just cleaning a grave how is this vandalism
@@maelseguinst-onge3947It damages the grave, and also if she didn’t get permission then even cleaning something can be counted as vandalism, if I remember correctly, because they might not have wanted it cleaned. It’s very important to some people that the grave is able to age, or at least doesn’t revert back to looking like the person was just buried recently…
@@DiamondClover Yeah, no, Cleaning isn't vandalism, even if you don't want to, I'm not on the girl's side but that's why now there are advertisements that are made cleaning a single section of the street with pressurized water, because cleaning is NOT vandalism, otherwise they had already been taken away saying “oh, cleaning can damage the streets”
In addition, deterioration can take up to 200 years at the fastest time, constantly cleaning it, it's not as easy as cleaning it and it falls off, you can't pretend a professional when it literally doesn't affect cleaning a grave at all
@tonyparedes8154 unfortunately using the wrong cleaning products on ANY stone can quickly cause damage, not to mention the family can be fined by the site for damage to the grass if the products kill it. Bleach, ammonia and citric acids will deteriorate many materials, which is why you cannot use those on granite counter tops that are sealed, much less raw stone that markers are made out of.
@deathoir8265 Wait- she use bleach?
as someone who is currently in a grave, I can confirm that this is really disrespectful.
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Another person in a grave here and I can also confirm this is disrespectful
Another other person in a grave here I can also confirm this is disrespectful
another person in a grave here and I can also confirm this is disrespectful
another person in a grave and I can confirm this is very true, I feel highly disrespected
As ANOTHER person who is in a grave I can ALSO confirm this is WAY too disrespectful..
LMAO the "'what?'' of that girl 🤣
Lolll
You watch layze????
The confused distress in her voice omg it was painful to watch.
Oh hey!
Omgg ann!
5:45 this part is absolutely true and the the way you portrayed it was absolutely hilarious 😂 but seriously Whyyyyyy
Its the troomtroomification of these videos that gets me 😭😭😭 there are so many other cleaners that do it in such a respectful way
Real
When I was a kid, I remember my class vollunteered to help "clean up" graves at a local cemetery. The difference was that we had the cemetery's permission and all we were doing was weeding around the stone/picking up sticks. They were all old gravestones that hadn't been tended to in many, many years. No scrubbing or abraisive cleaning supplies necessary.
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Yes thank u Beyoncé for making layze post
@@tracyjane596 you forgot to thank Beyoncé for paying you electricity bill so you can watch layze.
I swear if someone switched my flowers on my grave, IM HAUNTING THEM
THIS IS NOT A DRILL- LAYZE HAS POSTED- IT IS NOW TIME TO REJOICE
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I love this „dirty“ aged look of old graves and cemetries. I would be so mad if she‘d clean a grave without permission 😮 And putting her ugly fake flowers there
Same! I was mad when she pulled the overgrown plants off the graves. They looked so good with them. 🌿
I agree. After she cleans them they look like white cheap plastic.
she also painted some of the graves, she painted a child’s grave pink once (it was already pink but she still painted it)
WHAT!? SHE NEEDS TO BE FINED!!!!
"i don't think pineapples were invented back then"
PINEAPPLES ARE NATURAL, OFC THEY WERE REAL BACK THEN! 😭
there is a respectful way to do this, im so done with people posting random acts of kindness on social media for credit. do it because it makes people happy not for praise on the internet
Well i understand what you are saying but she needs income, i bet she spends HOURS cleaning these graves and time is money.
@@casper6014then make money some other way with different content….or at least do it for families who are actually open to this cause the families sure didn’t ask for her to spend hours doing this. Plus as many people have said already it’s beyond disrespectful to be replacing flowers that their loved ones left recently (they weren’t even dead yet) with fake ones and to be washing stuffed animals and stuff around the graves (not everyone would be okay with that as they might feel she’s washing away memories) and the cleaning products she uses will cause damage and cause them to fall apart faster. Idrc if she needs income either find some new content or at least start asking the families if they’re okay with you doing this.
It’s not a Random Act of Kindness if you are asking for attention and making money off of it.
@@casper6014 she can sell cleaners like a normal person, instead of being watever this is.
@@casper6014
*damaging graves
The fact cleaning graves without permission is ILLEGAL is wild
Sounds like it should be illegal? It’s not your property, your problem, or your loved one. And unless you have a loved one in the graveyard you have no business being there
They have groundskeepers for grave maintenance. It’s not at all wild for it to be illegal for a complete stranger to clean someone else’s grave/headstone.
Y'all they're saying it's wild she's recording herself committing a crime
@@Lynn-Lynn-LynnI think that’s what the original commenter is saying- that it should be and is quite obviously illegal; yet the clean girl for some reason has no problem exploiting these dead people and their families for her content creation .
No, it's legal. It's just seen as poor etiquette and disrespectful. If it was illegal, she would have been arrested a long time ago.
18:21 this hurts me, my grandma, died years ago, and we visit her on Mother’s Day and put pine cones together to spell out her name and I’d cry if someone cleaned her grave and got rid of our pine ones, I know wind and people might step it out etc.
I'm sorry for your loss... that's so sweet that u do that...
I‘m sorry for you loss
Sorry for you loss bro
make some small pinecone molds and make stone ones
I'm sorry 😔😔😔
R.I.P. Grandma 😇❤️🩹🕊
Love how you spoil us with these longer video's Layze! Half way I am checking the timeline and be like"Wooohoo still half to go!!" Appreciate it!
If I die, don’t let this woman clean my grave.
I don’t think anyone would want her too
Nahh this lady is making me fear death
Got it boss
You can also turn into a tree when you die if you want, idk how the hell she would clean a tree
@@maxwellcat-h2xdidn't you already pass? Lol (I mean the meme Maxwell)
The fact is that sometimes family members come back to take the flowers back after they die as remembering of the one who passed like that’s so disgusting that she would throw away the flowers
3:54 look at the plate
3:23 look at the plate
She made the plate dirtier for no reason
Omg!
No she did it for views
Omg that is awful
Woww.... creepy weirdo
I found your channel the other day and I gotta say, you are now 1 of my fav UA-camrs. I haven't laughed as much as I do watching your videos ❤.
The thing that makes 18:26 and I think another instance earlier especially terrible with the flowers thing is that those aren't just normal "oh the family came around somewhat recently and left some flowers", those are properly planted, you can see the dirt they're planted in as she pulls them out- their family went through the effort of actually planting those flowers and probably taking care of them regularly, at the very least for a while before they started being able to sustain themselves properly. And she just tears them out.
She probably will have her own special place in hell
i feel so bad for these people's families, imagine seeing on TikTok one of your family members' graves being cleaned when its OUTSIDE and gets dirt naturally. so disrespectful
Especially when she rips out the flowers and replaces them with FAKE ONES
Isn't there a belief that flowers on a grave are going to be sent to that person when they die? So replacing the flowers is taking flowers away from people in the afterlife
Given that’s how offerings to the gods works, I can see it. Along with it being a show of care, love and respect, the ancient Greeks believed that flowers rooted into the ground that grew from the grave symbolised the deceased had found peace.
Yes, and replacing it with fake flowers is a whole another level of disrespect
There are cultures that give things like food as offerings to the dead as well. And yeah, it's really disrespectful to mess with any of it if you don't have permission.
Depends on the culture and ocassionally the believe system of the person. For me personally I am finishing my friend's bucket list. We made ours together at the hospital. We where both patients at high risk. But we always assumed we'd both survive anyways since we were young. We pretty much just made up the bucket list to pass time with a whole self made badly written contract that if either of us didn't make it the other would finish the bucket list for them.
I leave him some of the proof that I did it. It looks like junk from afar I am sure. But the objects I leave behind are still there by the next visit if it ain't food. I hope he knows I am living for the both of us.
But that's more of an example of personal believe and promise. Not cultural believes. It's more common to leave flowers or pictures where I live.
@@junrobin9335 I would make mold's of the items and make stone/cement versions so they would last longer and be harder to remove
16:29 that could actually be Sam, if you look at the picture the clean girl showed, hes wearing a camouflage thing (maybe a mask), and if you look at the guy that shes calling Sam, he's wearing a camouflage mask. He probably doesn't know she already face revealed him.
8:42 i love how much layze goes into detail, not a single UA-camr talked about the girl saying what
Around this same time stamp she is literally cutting down branches of a tree (which actually is destruction of property for sure as the funeral home owns the land the trees are on). This lady is wild! I hope more people cover this and expose her fast, because this isn't acceptable no matter what world view you have.
His edits go crazy too😂
12:16 SMILEY FACE ON SOMEONES DEAD CHILD IS WILD
BYE
OMG REAL 😭😭😭
I can't lie in the first part of the video I almost died of laughter and it also looks like stormy stormy is thinking about how to murder somebody edit: thank you so much for this 503 likes and the comments never had this much
Wait….how do u have that emoji!
its because of the member ship you have secret emoji,s
@@Oreorla
20 hrs ago???
@@littlechickyygaatjenixaan3848 ahhhh ok
@@Igotbannedtoomanytimes bc he’s a member he can watch early
12:44 BRO I WAS WATCHING THIS LAYZE VIDEO TODAY AND THE FACT HE SAYS THAT 3 DAYS AFTER MY GREAT GRANDDAD'S FUNERAL IS CRAZY 💀💀💀😭😭😭😭
Aww I’m sorry for your lose
its a sign. protect his grave at all costs. She WILL clean it. (also sorry 4 your loss my dude)
@@TEMP0R4RYMOTH 🫡🫡 will protect it with my whole life
The amount of chemicals she's putting into the environment, the scalding and degradation of the stones, she's ridiculous.
I'm so glad someone is finally talking about this! As someone who's close friend died I can personally say this girl is SO disrespectful. Replacing the flowers. And filming yourself??? It's so rude she's profiting off vandalizing people's graves. She makes it so weird and disrespectful. If she did that to my friend I would be incredibly upset, and I can't even begin to imagine how the loved ones to the people's graves she cleans in her videos are feeling.
The recommended way to clean a headstone is with a small amount of detergent or ammonia diluted in water. Alternatively you can use a specialized stone cleaning product but not anything that comes from a pressurized can or power cleaner.
People who know what they're doing would not be using anything under higher pressure than a hose or handpump. If you hope to have a stone engraving last for decades, or centuries even, you can't be using products that wear on the stone like this, or in a few decades, only a knub will remain.
4:21
THIS PART GOT ME THINKIN "wtf is happening"
Imagine your resting in peace, and you suddenly hear a vacuum noise and someone saying "isn’t this satisfying?!" 💀
Omg💀☠️💀☠️💀💀☠️💀☠️☠️
Ruh roh!, ITS THE CLEANING GHOST!
Fr fr though, I would have died a second time from being scared of her.
You won't feel it cause you wouldn't be there anymore but yeah it's disrespectful af
18:36
I may not be a gardener, but my family is teachers and they often gets bouquets + we do have flowers of our own
Those flowers were still very much good and probably just wilted, so at most she should've removed dry leaves, NOT RIP OUT WHOLE THING
4:25 Why tf did I actually thought my phone was glitching 😭💀
Same😭
Was really about to have a freak out episode because of that 😭
Same bro 😭
LMFAO SAME I THOUGHT MY FINGER WAS ON THE REPLAY BUTTON I HAD TO PUT MY PHONE DOWN😭
Same
if this girl EVER cleaned my great grandparents grave id be getting an assault charge put against me
Do you care enough to keep them clean?
@@Mmmpat I wish I could but I can’t even visit them, they’re half way across my country and I’m not very rich. I also only found out about their graves last year
@@Mmmpatit doesn’t matter the family memebers decide not some random
i feel bad for the family members that just come to their gradmas grave like "WHO REMOVED HER RARE ROCK SHE GOT WHEN SHE WAS 12?!"
like why does the need of cleaning graves of the deceased need to be a priority? just let them rest peacefully 😭😭🙏🏻
Well, you don't want them to get all overgrown. At least to my grandparents, they saw it as disrespectful if a family member's grave was unsightly. But then again, we were the ones to tidy them up, not some stranger.
I'd say a lot of family members or close people like to keep their relatives graves clean. But she isn't close to anyone of those graves she's cleaning nor is a family member, 😭
FRRR
Fr it would be ok if the family memebers got asked and she did it with permission but she didn’t
my grandparents clean their sons grave so it doesn’t get like to nasty and they trim the grass around the grave, BUT they don’t use chemicals.. just water with soap, then they wipe it down :33
11:11 "ghosts love me BOOM hahaha" you got the hole squad laughing
As a pastor's kid who has seen many a fake flower in my years, those flowers with get old, dirty, and nasty far before the real ones will. I've had to throw out fake flowers because they blow away and get so disgusting it's a dishonorer to leave them there
Me too! They look so out of place and they kinda repelled insects and bugs , I’m not sure why
Bro had a seizure writing that
I hate the fact that she cleans EVERYTHING, even something natural, like flowers and moss. In my opinion, such things only make the graves look more poetic and even positive. Because you can look at such a view and think to yourself: "Even when we lose an important member of the society, there will always be new life, born in its place." But this lady just destroys this feeling for views, without asking permission for the services.
And she rips out flowers and trees then says "I love plants!"
Such level of disrespect is UNBELIEVABLE, this woman needs to stop!
needs to be stopped.
You need to be stoped shes cleaning a grave and that's not disrespectful
@@maelseguinst-onge3947 What exactly do I need to be stopped from doing, hm? Existing? Giving my opinion? Thinking? Breathing?
@clowerislucky just tell her that the girl is cleaning without permission and only doing it for views asking the reason like existing or breathing wont explain her because she didnt even say it anhthing related to that
It's so funny your cat is obviously so used to your shenanigans at this point 😂 just chillin
18:43 they literally planted those 😮
WHY WAS THE WATER SO REALISTIC IN THE START OF THE VIDEO. IT SCARED ME BRO
The comedic timing and improv is outstanding!! I’m rolling on the floor laughing! 😂 Thank you Layze!
this is crazy!!!!! thank you so much 🫶
@@Layze POOKIE!
I'm cracking up laughing when he said,"Shut the F#% up: 😂😂
4:06 in most graveyards, there are codes around the coffin or casket given to each dead person so people can identify them through apps easier instead of having to look for a name on the actual casket. The code was under the grass(at the very beginning), it was 1007
If i die, do not let ANYONE, and i mean *ANYONE* clean my grave
IF you die? 😅
I wasnt even that shocked once I learned she edited the cleaner to be that bright pink
This, it's literally just Kaboom.🙄😒
she literally is the embodiment of "great concept, terrible execution" lol
Is it even a great concept though
@@victoriabrown6561 cleaning graves for those that can't take care of them or don't take care of them does sound good to me. It surely does have downsides as well tho.
0:16 stormy judging layze help 😭😭😭😭
Fr
"Is this really my owner?" Ahh judge 😭
😂😂lol
Fr
Fr lol
18:38 Replacing PRETTY REAL flowers with FAKE flowers is MAD RUDE. Some people use real flowers to represent good spirits and fake flowers for bad spirits in cemeteries.
Gurl probably just sent another war in heaven
Wow
@@canadianfamwat
The replacing real flowers is insane. The flowers she ripped out looked fine they just needed a little water. She is going to get sued one day I swear.
0:54 THE KING OF DELULU HAS ARRIVED!
Some ppl literally said “I want her to clean my grave when I die.”
Like, no. That is such disrespect, she is ruining more than cleaning. Like, imagine taking off flowers that the dead person’s relatives put.
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0:38 Not the twerking 😂😂😂
That had me dead 😂
bro why he hit that 😭😭 cant even do it normally
@@hueningkaisnumberonesame- not like I tried it or anything..
Oh my gyat 😍
HE KINDA ATE THAT THO
17:13 she also puts old childhood toys from the people that died in the trash and gives them cheap ones 💀
Edit: oh, and in some of her vids after she cleans it, she just paints it white 😐
If someone was cleaning AND posting about my loved ones' graves on Social Media without my permission, I'd be seeing them in court.
lazy not knowing about battery operated vacuums cracks me up hes such a vibe LOL
So, whose gonna tell him?
Legit she ripped out flowers that were potted probably perennials so they grow back and that's just sad the absolute disrespect of her
Her: i love plants
Also her: *Using chemicals that most likely kill plants, rip plants of the grave, and yank out alive flowers and replace it with fake ones, and uses a chainsaw on a tree which normally represents life.*
My sister and her friends went to “clean” graveyards she literally just moved some fallen leafs away from the grave and she may have like wiped it down just a little bit (remind u the graveyard was abandoned) BUT THAT WAS IT! She didn’t start replacing the flowers and mess everything up and then post it…
She also did it in the morning
Sometimes I move dead grass off old gravestones nearby when I visit my own family, isn’t that the normal way to go about it?
finally... layze posted. time for my 20 minutes of serotonin before i become depressed again.
Your 20 minutes and 18 seconds 🤓☝🏽!
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15:25 😂 I swear you’re a comedic genius. It’s the satirizing dramatic UA-cam video narration that got me. You’re so underrated.
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen so many members in one day- 💀
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