Women in Entertainment & Pregnancy: Part 1 / Freaky Table

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  • Опубліковано 15 жов 2022
  • In part 1 of our special episode of Freaky Table, Joan Ngomba is joined by entertainment industry big wigs #Askia, #StephanieTum and #VickyFokala to discuss how pregnancy affects women in entertainment.
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  • @kwobsiemarius9613
    @kwobsiemarius9613 Рік тому +10

    The honestly of Vicky Fokala while she mentioned abortion to make a point should be respected. Very well built perspectives. Well done ladies

  • @blacktea-podcast
    @blacktea-podcast Рік тому +9

    Vicky and Stef well articulated points. This is Awesome 🥰 next time bring a married woman to create a balance. There are also women who are married to husbands who don't take care of their kids. Imagine raising your kids alone plus catering for a grown dependent husband.

  • @houseoflove27
    @houseoflove27 Рік тому +12

    So many people don't understand Askia. From what i understood, she is not denying the father the right to his child. The father doesn't want to be part of the child's life because he doesn't fulfil any of the duties as father. Her pain is too much from her words and i think she will take a long time to heal because of what she went through. Nice show! I'm waiting for the next part

    • @vivinellej
      @vivinellej Рік тому +2

      You are very correct. That's why she needs to heal. The child does not only need her biological father the child needs a father figure that's what we are trying to pass a cross. Also with that much pain her child will grow up in that negativity and end up worst of care is not taken. She needs to heal

    • @joanngomba4493
      @joanngomba4493 Рік тому +5

      You’re very correct. Her point is that when a man has chosen to bow out of the responsibility, it hurts.

  • @berkatercy281
    @berkatercy281 Рік тому +2

    The honesty from Vicky and Stephanie, admitting your mistakes shows how strong you both are.

  • @joanngomba4493
    @joanngomba4493 Рік тому +7

    THANK YOU ALL FOR WATCHING. Please always keep an open mind while watching to learn and to share without being too judgmental 🙏❤️❤️❤️😘
    Keep watching and sharing your lovely opinions 😊

  • @emelinefonyuy3729
    @emelinefonyuy3729 Рік тому +4

    Askia needs to healllllll. For her peace and that of her kid.
    Bring part 2 already. 🤗 Great topic choice.

  • @homeboymediatv3729
    @homeboymediatv3729 Рік тому +3

    Vicky being so knowledgeable and experienced

  • @shaitoucho4673
    @shaitoucho4673 Рік тому +7

    I think each of these ladies have their places in this show, Stephanie, as a mom of is it two or three, with young age pregnancy experience having gone through every stage with a very solid entertainment career, Vicky Fokala, with a younger child who admitted having gotten rid of her a baby at same age at which Stephanie had hers, and also had a baby at a later age when she was ready, with a very strong experience in the corporate and entertainment world, and Askia, who is still freshly experiencing single motherhood and hasn't yet transcended, the stage that takes her above her pain and hurt, and yet the last but not the least, a very mature Joan who is experiencing pregnancy and will soon be a mother and still making waves in entertainment. Very very educative combo. Thanks for bringing this topic to life in such an entertaining exchange. Waiting for part two, much love❤️❤️❤️

  • @danielngongang9419
    @danielngongang9419 Рік тому +5

    Thank you, Stephanie and Vicky. The things you told Askia towards the end are very important. Let those who have ears hear.

  • @vivinellej
    @vivinellej Рік тому +17

    I had to comment on this topic as someone who is into relationship coaching. I love the perspective of Stephanie and Vicky, Askia needs to heal, she gets triggered when ever the word father or baby daddy is mentioned. . The truth is that children need their father to give them identity..
    The presence of a father in a child's life will bring a certain balance to the child's mind especially when they go to school and see that other kids have mom and dad. They will begin to feel odd and out of place and question themselves why they have only mom. So it's important to let your baby have a relationship with their father or a father figure for their sake not for your own sake as a single mother.
    A single mother will never be a father to her child. She might think she is being a father but that child only sees a mother and nothing more.
    When we have made mistakes in choosing the wrong men lest own up to it and not make it as if all men are bad. No it's the one we choose. There are single mothers out there who have great support from their baby daddy both for themselves and the child.
    The better and preferable end for me is that let's stop having kids outside marriage as the Bible stipulates , it will reduce this wahala we are Trying to solve.
    Great work ladies. I am proud and honesty blessed listening to you all.
    We are waiting for part 2.

    • @donroosevelt9580
      @donroosevelt9580 Рік тому +1

      Fact, she is very bitter and unreasonable on the fence ready to attack

    • @Yebohcatherine
      @Yebohcatherine Рік тому +1

      Very smart comment. First, picking of wrong parters as we ladies are always attracted to thugs.
      Secondly, owning to our mistakes heal and do the right thing. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @mesembefrida3907
      @mesembefrida3907 Рік тому

      Facts🙌🙌

    • @hylanuelenuel834
      @hylanuelenuel834 Рік тому

      I hail you.

    • @27olives
      @27olives Рік тому

      The topic is sensitive and I wonder why they choosed this topic. Heartbreak makes us all disappointed and bitter and we all need time to get over it. Her separation is still fresh, and if I was the one, I would not even respond to that

  • @solangeche7628
    @solangeche7628 Рік тому +6

    Very interesting and educative topic ladies. For the commenters thinking ASKIA needs to heal before getting in the show, I bet you think wrong. She will live her experience as many single mothers have so don’t rush her.
    Joan and Vicky it was nice listening to you ladies.
    Stephanie, I don’t think I’ve heard you talk like this if not acting. You have an amazing voice and your perspective is encouraging.
    Great show!

  • @uptimarecords9673
    @uptimarecords9673 Рік тому +4

    Truths, realities being talked about. ACTUALLY very educative. Respect

  • @immaculatelum5102
    @immaculatelum5102 Рік тому +3

    Wow this is deep, but I don't think someone can really understand another person's struggles we just support

    • @karenbah7000
      @karenbah7000 Рік тому

      Thank u for this.u can't really understand

  • @diraneakume4312
    @diraneakume4312 Рік тому

    The best conversation i have watched from freaky table👏🏾. Nothing to say but learn from you guys🙌🏾.

  • @atuhgrace4280
    @atuhgrace4280 Рік тому +1

    this is whn a certain level of education comes to play in understanding certain things . i so agree with the two ladies to the right

  • @samuelhermann3679
    @samuelhermann3679 Рік тому

    Truth and reality been spilt out. Very educative. Askia just be the strong woman you have always been. Just as one of the speaker said, we can bring back the time to correct our wrongs, then I correct alot of things in my life.

  • @ngumabi
    @ngumabi Рік тому +1

    This was intense. I loved the honesty of everyone. ❤️

  • @AdeleClarice
    @AdeleClarice Рік тому

    *Freaky table got freaky.* The ladies talked so well from different perspectives and experiences. I can't wait to be on one of these one soon.

  • @odetteberiynuywirsiy2871
    @odetteberiynuywirsiy2871 Рік тому +3

    You ladies are gorgeous and adorable 😍. Spitting the truth. I love this show.Please we need more videos .Stephanie and Vicky I love the way you two talk.so mature.Joan keep up the amazing work

  • @kimbilizette
    @kimbilizette Рік тому

    Thank you Stephanie. You hit right ontop

  • @chididibless3099
    @chididibless3099 Рік тому

    Askia is a very strong woman, the strength in her cannot be broken,

  • @catherinemom5435
    @catherinemom5435 Рік тому

    One of the best episodes on freaky table so far- very honest

  • @bobolohuniversal2374
    @bobolohuniversal2374 Рік тому +1

    Wow this quite impressive.Thanks auntiefelicia for linking me up

  • @FonyuyLeo
    @FonyuyLeo Рік тому

    Askia you talk of exceptional cases and which seem to be specific to her case. And Steph spoke of generalized situations. And it seems Askia wants to play the victim with the ongoing saga. This was a very fruitful conversation and Vicky I appreciate your honesty. This episode deserves accolades and not backlash or controversy.

  • @GENISONG
    @GENISONG Рік тому

    Wow, this was intense, very real, very educative. Thank you ladies 🙏🏽

  • @Sabipikin01
    @Sabipikin01 Рік тому

    Deep and intense topic... and I just loved the honesty of miss Fokala👌🏽💝

  • @sylvestreyoumsi6771
    @sylvestreyoumsi6771 Рік тому +1

    Askia, one thing you need in your life is focus. Be the strong lady that you are. STOP posting/reading from social media. Pick up the pieces of your life like you doing and keep up with the good music. You are being distracted and this may lead to a negative outcome. Stop considering every stone as a bullet. Accept the criticisms and use it for positivity. I love what you doing. Kudos!

  • @chididibless3099
    @chididibless3099 Рік тому

    congratulations ladies, freaky tables please keep bringing us such gigs ,

  • @joantoke1790
    @joantoke1790 Рік тому +3

    These ladies spitting truths I actually respect their various opinions stephanie n vicky 👏 🙌

  • @mnenongene
    @mnenongene Рік тому +1

    Stephanie Tum is oozing class and dignity

  • @sidneyfavour1137
    @sidneyfavour1137 Рік тому

    My favourite people again. Much love guys

  • @victoriakelechiosuji7247
    @victoriakelechiosuji7247 Рік тому +1

    Can’t wait for the continuation please release it oh…🎉

  • @kimbilizette
    @kimbilizette Рік тому

    Can’t wait for the continuation...

  • @ericatakem1473
    @ericatakem1473 Рік тому +1

    Very educative topics pls be bringx more of these topics thanks

  • @PRINCESSNDESH
    @PRINCESSNDESH Рік тому

    Chai!! Unna fit kill man with suspense!! Great topics. When is the next part coming?

  • @azehgrace9445
    @azehgrace9445 Рік тому

    Stephanie and Vicky you guys are so apt with your opinions

  • @fellyfyn_girl3787
    @fellyfyn_girl3787 Рік тому

    Very sensitive and educative

  • @sylvestreyoumsi6771
    @sylvestreyoumsi6771 Рік тому

    Kudos to you ladies. Good job Joan!

  • @jasmynskincarebeautyslimte4108

    Vicky.!!! I like ur honesty.
    Good Job Stephy.
    My darling Askia, keep doing ur job. A woman will never take the place of a Man. Let love lead.

  • @fiambangelizabeth948
    @fiambangelizabeth948 Рік тому

    Wow. Vicky I love your honesty. Ladies great 👍 job

  • @jermainkitchen
    @jermainkitchen Рік тому

    I love the honesty.

  • @victoriakelechiosuji7247
    @victoriakelechiosuji7247 Рік тому +1

    Watching from Peru. Amazing women on this show. Great job Joan. You guys shaked the table oh.

  • @v2mofficial521
    @v2mofficial521 Рік тому

    Damnnn, Cameroon is endowed. God bless u girls ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @Tiamonj-djay
    @Tiamonj-djay Рік тому +1

    Wahooo, This was the sweatest session this year

  • @gillymusah4023
    @gillymusah4023 Рік тому

    Ladies all points well noted and made sense

  • @babilasandra9268
    @babilasandra9268 Рік тому

    As a child being raised by a single mother I concur on everything Stephanie my mother never spoke bad of my dad but I grew up to know who he really is and unfortunately I still love my dad normally nothing you do or say can erase that love😊

  • @nikkyblanch8914
    @nikkyblanch8914 Рік тому

    Great topic ladies. Vicky ways delivers. Love ur sence of composure. Askia please chill out. Don't be too emotional. It's a talk show not
    a cursy show.

  • @skiezyayenkea1408
    @skiezyayenkea1408 Рік тому +1

    Respect to y’all ladies

  • @MeloGisttv
    @MeloGisttv Рік тому +1

    My respect to this ladies ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @reginaawahnadesh5082
    @reginaawahnadesh5082 Рік тому

    Vicky seems a very honest human

  • @uptimarecords9673
    @uptimarecords9673 Рік тому +1

    Bring part2 pls🔥🔥🔥❤

  • @rosyrickson977
    @rosyrickson977 Рік тому

    please I need next episode of this particular topic.

  • @milo7462
    @milo7462 Рік тому

    Nice programme and discussions. Waiting for part 2. Askia seems so hurt by her experiences, and taking it personal on the others in the studio.

  • @akumisabelenow1741
    @akumisabelenow1741 Рік тому

    Great conversation

  • @kindnesskayri4693
    @kindnesskayri4693 Рік тому

    well done Joan .....the table got freaky💔🙄is Askia for me

  • @ShumbeKelly
    @ShumbeKelly Рік тому

    Wise words!!! A partner might be a bad partner but not a bad person!!!

  • @christianaberinyuy1745
    @christianaberinyuy1745 Рік тому

    abeg for part two ooohh

  • @wankuibongben1958
    @wankuibongben1958 Рік тому

    I love vicky sooo much. Just listening to her talk is soo nice. @Freaky table please tell her to reply me abeg

  • @kikichila2403
    @kikichila2403 Рік тому

    Waoh
    Powerful women
    I didn't see the attack

  • @kengpatricia4934
    @kengpatricia4934 Рік тому

    Askia I luv u sister.....and I understand exactly where your coming from

  • @chintomich6666
    @chintomich6666 Рік тому

    King Tonto Dikeh needs to be on this show to support Askia on this one. 😅😂😂😂

  • @umpuofonjervis7074
    @umpuofonjervis7074 Рік тому +2

    Freaky table was Freaky damn!!

  • @ginagtv826
    @ginagtv826 Рік тому

    I feel for Stephanie "Askia you go limme make I talk?" 😂😂😂

    • @ginagtv826
      @ginagtv826 Рік тому

      Great Show. Can't wait for part 2💃💕✨🇨🇲

  • @thedollarsvlog9984
    @thedollarsvlog9984 Рік тому

    Great show! I don't understand why Askia is taking it personal.
    You need to heal girl and learn from your fellow ladies.
    We understand 2 people can never be the same but truth remains what Stephanie Tum is trying to say.

  • @asheck1963
    @asheck1963 Рік тому +1

    Askia is still very hurt..
    She needs to go through her healing process carefully.
    She will get over it someday
    Vicky and Stephanie spoke maturely and trust me the truth was real

  • @ngumfrankline3221
    @ngumfrankline3221 Рік тому

    Good morning and happy Sunday mum ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @miriakiaki
    @miriakiaki Рік тому

    Nice one

  • @LordPemblechuck
    @LordPemblechuck Рік тому

    Vicki Fokala, it’s the accent for me 😅😅😅. This country is a movie.

  • @ndisolange5884
    @ndisolange5884 Рік тому

    Stéphanie and Vicky I enjoy your maturity ,u guys nailed it ,, Askia u need help

  • @Jauresmofo1
    @Jauresmofo1 Рік тому

    appointment booked for next week monday

  • @sylvestreyoumsi6771
    @sylvestreyoumsi6771 Рік тому +1

    From a personal perspective and experience, every parent has the obligation to be in their children’s life in every single second. Ladies, stop throwing flowers on irresponsible men. Rather, yarn for more rigid laws against this injustice on the little ones. Stop buying marriage by telling a child their father is the best in contrary situations. They will obviously grow to know the truth. A man/woman should find happiness in changing the baby’s diapers, take them to hospitals, dry their tears, be their children’s Jackie Chan. If any of them take themselves out, move on and parent your kids with both roles.

  • @dubilajane2134
    @dubilajane2134 Рік тому

    No one on earth can ever take the place of a father and no one can take the place of a mother in a child's life.Children need all their parents as they grow.No matter how u provide for the kid as a mother,you can never play the role of a father, period.

  • @yebimiriam6736
    @yebimiriam6736 Рік тому +1

    Freaky table 👌

  • @aminnesla2910
    @aminnesla2910 Рік тому

    Last last life no balance
    Nice program

  • @noravice2653
    @noravice2653 Рік тому

    Askia is still hurting and needs to heal so she took what Stephanie so personal. Stephanie is 💯 percent right and Askia too has a point, she just needs to listen with an open mind

  • @juliusmbwaye4508
    @juliusmbwaye4508 Рік тому +1

    See eh I get Askia's point she's making so much sense

  • @adelineferim9107
    @adelineferim9107 Рік тому

    Tough show... But I still understand Askia... No two situations are the same👌

  • @ngeamelvis9131
    @ngeamelvis9131 Рік тому

    Wow!!

  • @beautyvlogtv2756
    @beautyvlogtv2756 Рік тому

    Askia @ i stand with you 100% a man who can be there for his kids just a sperms donor and nothing more.me wey my father married na two wmn added together with my mum.he been there for us but just the stress and fighting among kids had make me hate him ,na the one wey go run I wil stil be dreaming I have a father sorry I nor go.Askia do you and celebrate yourself anyhow it's pleases period.

  • @belledame5990
    @belledame5990 Рік тому

    Askia di make like ma Mami ya🤣🤣🤣

  • @homeboymediatv3729
    @homeboymediatv3729 Рік тому

    Vicky's accent massa ❤

  • @manigha8306
    @manigha8306 Рік тому

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @manulauren19
    @manulauren19 Рік тому

    i don cam fo take my eyes and ears chop christmas 😌let me watch first

  • @ericatakem1473
    @ericatakem1473 Рік тому

    Askia my love ur point is v powerful but u need to also consider d child that's if d dad comes back for d baby dnt chase him away

  • @bihblancheshu4919
    @bihblancheshu4919 Рік тому +2

    I understand Askia completely but she needs to heal

  • @annabelsakwe9778
    @annabelsakwe9778 Рік тому

    Why are people Judging Askia? I am with her on this

  • @enowbinadage7412
    @enowbinadage7412 Рік тому

    Askia is making Sense

  • @ShumbeKelly
    @ShumbeKelly Рік тому +2

    Askia is sooo emotional!! Get yourself together and heal!! The world doesn't revolve around her! A fathers place cannot be filled by a mom she's taking shit personally

    • @freddybanks8019
      @freddybanks8019 Рік тому

      Did she say she is taking the place of the father? Many of you misunderstood what she said. She is mainly playing the role of the father since he does not want to be in the picture. So she does literally everything the father was supposed to be doing for the baby. I guess that’s the role she is talking about and not that she is taking the place of the dad. Let’s get the difference

  • @pechuquilaurata6922
    @pechuquilaurata6922 Рік тому

    I feel like this are women who have experienced almost thesame issues but have reacted differently

  • @tientcheulouise4615
    @tientcheulouise4615 Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @enowbinadage7412
    @enowbinadage7412 Рік тому +1

    Stephanie you can't say you had a child at 17 and raised alone . The man would have not been there but your parents were there to help you. We all know most kids we had at early stage where the last borns of our family. So yes Askia is right .

    • @nkwekehrazn64
      @nkwekehrazn64 Рік тому

      I understand your point but that’s not true for every family. Yes your child may end up living at home but it doesn’t mean they’re accepted. You’ll feel alone regardless

  • @samuelomessah9076
    @samuelomessah9076 Рік тому +1

    The chubby and light skinned lady speaks the pidgin English of the Edo(Benin) people in Nigeria.

    • @cecilebih9661
      @cecilebih9661 Рік тому +2

      NO ITS FROM CAMEROON

    • @samuelomessah9076
      @samuelomessah9076 Рік тому

      @@cecilebih9661 I know was just marvelled by our similarities.....NIG....CAM❣️

    • @cecilebih9661
      @cecilebih9661 Рік тому

      It's you Nigerians who are surprised whereas we are your nearest neighbours and were once ruled as an integral part of Nigeria

    • @samuelomessah9076
      @samuelomessah9076 Рік тому

      @@cecilebih9661 I only knew of bakasi... The similarities is just too much. It's beautiful ❣️

    • @cecilebih9661
      @cecilebih9661 Рік тому +3

      Please do yourself a favour and read about the history of your country 😊

  • @ShumbeKelly
    @ShumbeKelly Рік тому

    So you da tell your pikin happy fathers day na e be papa! Do they wish kids happy fathers day womeyy askia

  • @kwobsiemarius9613
    @kwobsiemarius9613 Рік тому

    21:00 Hi Askia, why not expect? The issue in relationship is people come in with expectations. Why not come with no expectation and know the guy for who he is and he does same with you, zero expectation

    • @joanngomba4493
      @joanngomba4493 Рік тому +3

      To the best of my knowledge, That’s not the way marriage works . Nobody, I mean nobody goes into a relationship with zero expectations. No one!
      Relationships and marriages are like businesses. You expect them to be good, fruitful, defined and beneficial.

  • @ivyfonkem8306
    @ivyfonkem8306 Рік тому

    Askia still needs to heal. She's speaking with so much emotions. Its just a talk show.

  • @eansharon8792
    @eansharon8792 Рік тому

    Stephanie was speaking generally. We can understand Askia taking offence but I don’t think it was directed at her. Probably because her hurt is still fresh, it’s understandable she’s that sensitive. But the other ladies didn’t mean any offence. They are just ahead of the curve. They have been where Askia is and have learned their own difficult lessons and so have different perspectives.

  • @davidmbah89
    @davidmbah89 Рік тому

    Askia is hurt and still needs to heal before coming out to any such event. She demonstrated a lot of immaturity and rudeness.
    Your responsibility towards your child doesn't make your the father, you remain a mother. The child will never call you his/her father no matter what you do.
    Askia YOU ARE NOT A FATHER.

  • @dianachelsea6851
    @dianachelsea6851 Рік тому

    Askai took this Personal she’s not healed

  • @dubilajane2134
    @dubilajane2134 Рік тому

    I don't think the lady in the red dress is mature enough to sit on the same table with you.That is so embarrassing for her to act that way in the middle of a conversation.Its a very good show for mature minds only.

  • @Businessbae1
    @Businessbae1 Рік тому

    This 3 women had no Business being together on this episode.
    You can see clearly that ASKIA wasn’t ready for this. It’s really like a Big sister talking to little sister talk I like 3 adults talking.
    ASKIA is Rap culture as it is, it’s not the same as other Entertainment cultures. Rappers think and talk different.
    A Rapper and a Pastor have no Business talking on a topic like this, under these circumstances.