Increase the Chances of Getting Back Together (Getting Your Ex Back)
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- Опубліковано 7 лис 2024
- Clay Andrews talks about the chances of getting back together with your ex in this vide. He also reveals the surprising factor that determines your odds of getting back together.
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The chances of getting back together with your ex are not determined by some sort of Love-A-Tron 3000 machine that computes the odds after you feed in some data about your relationship.
The really chances of getting back together with your ex are either slim or good depending on your own level of commitment to the process of saving your relationship.
If you're determined to get through to them and make things work out, then your chances of getting back together are much higher.
If you are half-hearted and likely to second guess yourself or call it quits when things get difficult, well, let's just say that you're a whole lot less likely to get your ex back when you bump up agains the challenges and obstacles that will inevitably present themselves.
So, you really have to look to yourself to know if you're likely to get your ex back or not. You have to be honest and ask yourself how committed you are.
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This really isn’t rocket science. Your odds and chances of getting back together are really a factor of how committed you are to the process.
I know that people want to have some sort of double blind peer reviewed study that will tell them that on average XX% of couples get back together.
But that doesn’t exist.
And even if it did, it would be meaningless anyway.
Why?
Because you are a major determining factor.
It doesn’t matter what the odds or chances are if you are determined to do something.
Odds and chances also are something that passive people think about. Because they don’t want to be an active part of the process.
But getting your ex back isn’t like going into a surgery and there’s a certain percent chance that you’ll survive.
Nope.
Because you’re not just handing your fate over to the hands of a doctor.
You are an active part of the process whether you like it or not, and depending on how active or passive you are, you will create your own odds.
The question is are you willing to stack the odds in your favor?
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Funny story here: My ex has been texting me non stop at night for a couple nights and telling me how his new girlfriend was pissing him off. Then she cheated on him but it was "okay" because he cheated on her with girls on tinder and at the bar. I said tsk tsk. He said "I know funny huh 😂" Then after all that he sends me a text "I understand you want to be friends and I don't want to be rude but out of respect for my girlfriend I don't think we should talk I wouldn't like if someone did that to me" and I told him "Ya I bet you wouldn't want someone cheating on you with tinder either, learn to treat your girlfriend correctly! Ya immature tool" Well I am here to say I will probably never hear from him again nor do I want to 😂Yes I know I should have been nicer and said "I understand" but I don't want him back. We were together 4 yrs He is 22 I am 26 What I learned from this is I don't need anyone to make me happy but if I were to I need a man not a puppy dog
I'm glad that you showed that you have standards and that you're willing to walk away from the kind of guy who cheats.
My ex is still mad at me and the wall of resistance is at maximum, I won’t give up on her no matter how hard it is, but how do I do this?
Great video.
How or why should I change, if the sole reason my almost girlfriend stopped dating me, is that my sister's friend was in the city and I let her stay at my and my sister's place and showed her the city without any flirtatious intension, but also without my sister accompany us?
My almost girlfriend was also upset that I told her just 2 days before that friend arrived.
Please make a video on how to navigate properly when your ex is riding the dragon! I would love to hear your advice.
Hey Clay, I sent my ex a text message saying how this thing reminded me of her and she responded with “I know you’re trying to be nice but you need to move on from me it’s in the past” and then she blocked me and I can’t contact her whatsoever what should I do
It's over!!!!
I slept with my ex Friday :/ we hadn’t really seen or been together since we broke up in Feb after 5 years. :( I miss him a lot. He moved out after his decision to break up. He immediately left afterwards and I didn’t regret it much but he offered to take my daughter next month for a night to the movies. He didn’t really seem to interested in staying after we hooked up. Seemed really cold: but I just didn’t make a big deal.
Thanks for sharing. There are some wort of progress going between the two of you. For sure, after 5 years of being separated, both of you have worked on your healing. Just focus on building positive connection with him as that will eventually build trust and comfort level for him. :-) Have you checked our Effortless Connection program? It might help you as well. >> www.modernlove.life/ec
Hi Clay Andrews. I need your help. My gf broke up with me and we dated more than 6 yrs. I still love her but she said she feared of commitment but that she loves me and always will that i didnt do nothing wrong but that she can't right now be in a relationship she wants to be alone and find herself first and she said to not wait for her that I deserve better. We actually met in person to talk. What can I do?
What to do what to do with her should I try some more or get her back
hi clay so my ex and i have developed a good rapport and a better connection..unfortunately things have been pretty tough lately with a failure in my career progression and my family going through a recent crisis. when i found out I had that issue with my career we unfortunately were due to have lunch that same day and although I was pretty together he could tell i was upset about it. and recently an emergency happenned with my mother and i wasnt familiar with the process that I called him for help but i was really very upset about it so burst into tears.
my question is..i know that you are meant to have positive interactions with the ex. am i pushing myself into the friend zone with this?
How can I develop an emotional connection with my ex again if she is in a relationship 2 1/2 after we broke up? Don’t I have to wait and see if they break up? I can’t be reaching out to here while she isn’t available. Please help
Emotional Connection is about the experience of two people during and after the interaction. It is about how they relate towards each other and enjoy having the connection. We talk more about this in our course especially the Communication Skills section of ESP. :-)
Clay Andrews but I can’t text her now while she’s in a relationship. We broke up March 1 and she started a new relationship may 14. I have to wait until they are broken up correct? And in the time she’s dating this rebound work on myself?
@@robertpiano3406 Not necessarily if you are reaching out to her just to connect. But first, it is advisable that you work on yourself first before you reach out so you can show her how much you've improved.
Clay Andrews yes that’s what I’m doing. I did a month of contact and then sent her a letter. We broke up 3/1 and she got the letter 4/5. Haven’t talked since. She did respond to the letter saying she’s in the same place still feeling it’s better we are without each other. Then I found out that on 5/14 she started a relationship with a guy she used to hookup with a couple years ago. Rebound relationship forsure. So I’ve been working on myself. She had signs of being controlling and disregarding my feelings when I respected them. If she didn’t agree with something it was always an argument not a conversation. We both had a friend of the opposite sex and she feels she can have no boundaries regarding friends of the opposite sex. Talk, text, snap, hangout with whomever and whenever since we all are people and that we don’t set boundaries with those types of relationships while in a relationship. Whereas I’m the opposite, I feel those relationships change some because of having a significant other. That was an issue that always stayed an issue because anytime we would try to discuss it she would just get defensive and call me controlling and insecure and that I don’t trust her that’s why I have a problem with the way she communicates to her guy friends.
Love-a-tron 3000
Yeah you guys, sign me up 😂
What to do if u were in a LDR
Hi Gaza, the same thing will apply even if you are in LDR. But since both of you are in LDR, there will be some adjustments as meeting in person would require planning. All the best.
Tron 🙂