Break-Up Do's and Don'ts

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  • Psychologist Dr. Greg Cason explains the do's and don'ts for breaking up . Seven tips for the one doing the break-up and seven more for the one who is the unfortunate recipient. This clip was originally aired March 10, 2008.

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  • @MrSlaternater
    @MrSlaternater 13 років тому +10

    people who break up over the phone or internet are cowards unless there is no other way, i wouldn't of dreamed to do it to my ex but she did it to me over the phone

  • @primitivepathways
    @primitivepathways 14 років тому +2

    I wish my ex would have watched this before she dumped me. She actually broke up with me after almost 4 1/2 years, and she did it over the damn phone. She was never direct....she just kept dropping hints until I "got the message".

  • @agwellin
    @agwellin 16 років тому +1

    My girlfriend just dumped me. Looking at this video it is very clear to me that she sucks at breaking up. She did everything wrong: over the phone (not face-to-face), I was in my own room in my house (negative association), not being very clear about why or how. I still have tons of questions for her, but I'm trying my hardest to not even think about her and move on.
    Anyway, thank you, Dr. Cason! I'll check out your other videos, too!

  • @JohnD212
    @JohnD212 16 років тому

    Thanks Dr. Cason ... good advice!

  • @hommeloupeaparis
    @hommeloupeaparis 14 років тому

    Really Good Advices.

  • @Gizuru
    @Gizuru 14 років тому

    this is so true and i have to admitted that i did the drink and dial...lol.....i went throught 3 separations with him and the third one was the last one and i am trying to heal the pain!....:'(,,,,,,,this is so sad when you know that is over and for good!.....

  • @ProudToBe5erbian
    @ProudToBe5erbian 15 років тому

    i literally had the exact same thing. today. i hate it.
    i feel you bro

  • @lilynotlouise
    @lilynotlouise 13 років тому

    really good advice! thanks!

  • @stew8fpv
    @stew8fpv 13 років тому +1

    @farzanjava yeh i kno that feeling mate..

  • @dreamcatcherr2002
    @dreamcatcherr2002 14 років тому

    She took me to her friends party, and me getting left out starting drinking too much, and lost control, i think it turned out an embarrasment for her, now i seem to be ignored, this is the gurl who was so crazy in love with me, i just dont understand, how one rogue incident could cause the love to fade away, Its been 2 days since the incident, and no calls from her, and i dont dare to call either, but i knw i made a mistake, i apologized later that night, god this hurts, somebody help me

  • @pigpenthecat
    @pigpenthecat 14 років тому +1

    My ex-husband of 20 years did almost all of these. But then of course he said "I don't know what is wrong, I don't love you any more". Yet, he had an affair with a horseface. Interesting, yep, I have determined, I am more of a man in my pinky than he is in his entire body.

  • @casketcrewchick
    @casketcrewchick 15 років тому

    Awesome video. I had to break up with my boyfriend because well, he wouldnt pick me or her so i had to force an answer... so i left. Sucks but i needed to... He does not treat me how i treat him- i sacrifice for him but he wont for me. I hurt but whatever... i gotta be strong.

  • @dreamcatcherr2002
    @dreamcatcherr2002 14 років тому

    I totally understand that...i just got drunk and lost control in her friends party because i felt left alone, and now shes ignoring me, its been 2 days, and i miss her so much, this is the girl who was so in love with me. How can 1 incident cause this ...dear god help me cuz this hurts.

  • @JAJFILMSSS
    @JAJFILMSSS 14 років тому

    I lik..... It's not a break up but it may turn into one. My gf is cheating on her bf with me and I was speaking with some friends and they know how strongly I feel a about her but I don't wanna break up! Like I wanna be like.. Babe I am the type of guy who likes one on one relation ships not multiple people because it's not fair to the other guy that doesn't know about me and it's not fair to me because he could be a really cool dude
    HELP ME!!

  • @ShannonVenasse
    @ShannonVenasse 15 років тому

    don't forget about gay people! we get our hearts broke too. I'm going to enjoy being single this time around!

  • @jonwalton19
    @jonwalton19 15 років тому

    Someone broke up with me over Facebook chat. Pretty lame. Only thing lamer would probably be a text message.

  • @WanderHack
    @WanderHack 15 років тому

    how do u feel today? its being a year according to ur comment, i need help, i feel so bad, my ex ave me the "just a break" excuse, now after 2 weeks she is with someone else.

  • @bluestrapsify
    @bluestrapsify 15 років тому

    My recent ex girlfriend ignored all these rules .They sound like commom sense but not everyone has the class to do it right

  • @grayninja3095
    @grayninja3095 15 років тому

    his tips are very good..but most of the time..people who break up dont give a damn before they do...

  • @grayninja3095
    @grayninja3095 15 років тому

    shit man sorry to hear that...hang in there man...she wasnt for u ...u will get a better girl..

  • @liloldee30
    @liloldee30 12 років тому

    well i was the one who was dumped we had a good thing going i met her through a program aa i was sober for like 22 months she relasped on dope and i never did i thought maybe if i did it with her she would stay i was wrong im a dope addict now and she thinks its my fault or because i dont wanna do it like she does all the time she is a great woman but dont know what i should do i could use some input please

  • @endromuria
    @endromuria 13 років тому

    @WanderHack How do you feel today? I need to know it gets better. 7 year relationship, he doesn't love me anymore. My life is meaningless.

  • @specialness16
    @specialness16 15 років тому

    my girlfriend and I broke up on the phone, but she is at uni so...

  • @Jamie_from_Ohio
    @Jamie_from_Ohio 13 років тому +1

    I feel so pathetic needing to watch this...

  • @willk27
    @willk27 13 років тому

    I'm guilty of drink and dial. multiple times.
    I've also done dial and drink.

  • @BlacKWidoW70s
    @BlacKWidoW70s 12 років тому

    @Gabrielle2392 ure not alone :(

  • @bboyyen06
    @bboyyen06 14 років тому

    not bad advice he given.

  • @chicken8wings
    @chicken8wings 13 років тому

    @Gabrielle2392
    Word.

  • @86iceblue
    @86iceblue 12 років тому

    thank you :)

  • @UkFisherman81lb
    @UkFisherman81lb 13 років тому

    @sheepdog85 I know that feelin far to well.

  • @lani807
    @lani807 14 років тому

    There plenty of more fish in the sea!!....LOL JKS there's an oil spill :P