What Does Safety Feel Like to Me?

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  • Опубліковано 14 лис 2024

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  • @Bee-mi8ml
    @Bee-mi8ml Рік тому +47

    I just realized that I have made a friend that gives me sound advice every morning without me having to say anything, and I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart!

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  Рік тому +8

      Well, hello friend. Pleased to meet you.

  • @bebrave9108
    @bebrave9108 Рік тому +28

    Dan is like a father that comforts you in the lowest moment. Couldn’t have recovered 💯 without him.
    Dan, thank you.

  • @mariemokra9395
    @mariemokra9395 Рік тому +10

    I am in a middle of flare up. First big flare up after two years. This video is a game changer. Immediately feeling better. I know its gonna be good. Thank you Dan. This stuff works ❤

  • @deelicious1610
    @deelicious1610 3 місяці тому +1

    I had sciatic pain for quite awhile. I couldn’t walk across the room without stopping. I strengthened my lower back, it went away, and never returned! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @groundedmind7415
    @groundedmind7415 Рік тому +16

    It’s a state of mind! I also focus on the fact that I’m ok rather than the dizziness. And guess what… before I know it, the sensations dissipate. Thank you for your daily videos ❤

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  Рік тому +1

      Brilliant. Notice what is RIGHT, instead of the one thing that is less than idea.

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 Рік тому +8

    I am Safe and Free to Love in Peace! Did it for me! 😊❤

  • @1STBUCKLEY
    @1STBUCKLEY Рік тому +13

    No forward thinking for me, means I'm calm.
    Got out at 5am, for a walk. So peaceful. Have gone back out at 10am and my mind racing, all from a symptom from my arm. Sigh. Struggling to reassure myself I'm good. Have pulled over to take five and listen. Today's video reasonated. Thanks 🙏
    Actually had a EMDR taster session on Wednesday for PTSD before we go to the heavy stuff. Omg all of sudden my body fully relaxed, ,(safe)I'd forgotten what that felt like. I was able to leave the session , drive through London traffic, get petrol, go shopping etc, no panic, no symptoms. I know, along with your videos, a cure is reachable. Never give up hope.

    • @1STBUCKLEY
      @1STBUCKLEY Рік тому +2

      Wow 100%. That's amazing

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience.

  • @Inge508
    @Inge508 Рік тому +16

    Your channel and you as a person / coach is my sanctuary of safety !
    Thank you Dan!
    Have a lovely weekend 🙋‍♀️🌻🌻🌻

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  Рік тому +3

      Thank you Inge. Glad to be here for you each day.

    • @Inge508
      @Inge508 Рік тому +4

      @@PainFreeYou enjoy your party Dan!Real family is so important too!🌻🌻🌻❤️

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  Рік тому +3

      @@Inge508 It was a great BBQ.

  • @jennaholt5293
    @jennaholt5293 6 місяців тому +2

    I’ve been in chronic pain for about 6 years with awful back pain and this gave me a sense of calm … so thank you sooo much for that! I love your meditations and advice with no pressure. Gentle delivery that works!! Thank you!!

  • @josiejo117
    @josiejo117 Рік тому +18

    I really love this video, your words, your definite assurance, your examples that prove tms, your honesty & openness, your calm, your experiences, the bird sounds & nature...thank you as always. Love you Dan. Love to the group.❤

  • @jackieragan1819
    @jackieragan1819 2 місяці тому +1

    I love being able to watch your videos every morning. I find myself looking forward to them. You are a God send. Thank you for all you do.

  • @HobzyMcRuse
    @HobzyMcRuse Рік тому +3

    That songbird sounds so soothing. Here in Australia we get the screeching cacophony of cockatoos and other long lost pterodactyls! Hardly soothing at the best of times :)

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  Рік тому +2

      I love living by the woods.

    • @HobzyMcRuse
      @HobzyMcRuse Рік тому +1

      @@PainFreeYou Absolutely. Some magnificent nature here in Oz. Just lots of screeching cockatoos too :)

  • @ruthie408
    @ruthie408 Рік тому +7

    Thx again, Dan. So glad you’re feeling damned good. Well deserved. And…I’m on my way!

  • @DonnaHayes-g1u
    @DonnaHayes-g1u 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you…in grateful tears while listening to you. I’ve been feeling what safety is to me as I embark on this journey, how healing to hear your words.

  • @anneamato9174
    @anneamato9174 7 місяців тому +1

    Dan l just started listening to you. You are my life coach for sure. Cannot put it down each n everything you talk about. I’ve been dealing with having the ups n downs of every day life. Good one min. terrible the next. So happy l met you!!! Keep up the awesome work!!!😊

  • @ariannateodora5469
    @ariannateodora5469 Місяць тому

    You give the most amazing and helpful advice out of any youtuber on these sort of topics. Ur the best

  • @Lenneke8422
    @Lenneke8422 7 місяців тому +2

    Ty really helpful ir sure hurts but i know what it is ❤❤❤❤🌷🌷🌷

  • @lesleymcmillan1893
    @lesleymcmillan1893 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Dan for your videos. So helpful. I really appreciate you. 😍🙏

  • @kleeblatt3131
    @kleeblatt3131 Рік тому +5

    I never feel safe, ever. That's probably why my pain and anxiety will never go away.

    • @maryamighi6834
      @maryamighi6834 Рік тому +6

      Please, if you can, take "never and always" out of your vocabulary. They are absolutes, extremes and are not helpful to anyone and that would include you. Dance, breathe, chant, meditate, move, whatever makes you feel more joyful and safety will follow. I'll say a little prayer for you :)

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  Рік тому +4

      You may not have ever felt safe....YET. But you CAN create it. You must CREATE safety. That is your responsibility. And it's possible. ua-cam.com/video/Ez9Ez49M8Ig/v-deo.html

    • @MrPadser
      @MrPadser 6 місяців тому +1

      your right, dont give in to it .

  • @BelovedShift
    @BelovedShift 6 місяців тому

    You have such a beautiful heart ❤️

  • @fleurhopman5150
    @fleurhopman5150 Рік тому +2

    Thank you🙏

  • @d.s2352
    @d.s2352 Рік тому +3

    Thank you greatly. A very useful video and reminder. X

  • @hew195050
    @hew195050 Рік тому +2

    How about LIFE feeling dangerous and it creating tremendous anxiety ??

  • @tammyrichards9901
    @tammyrichards9901 8 місяців тому +1

    I am on a ton of supplements.

  • @cassettepat
    @cassettepat Рік тому +6

    I’ve been doing this work over a year. Maybe 18 months. I’ve had zero improvement. If anything in worse. I’ve read books, subscribe to Curable, watch videos, breathing techniques, meditation etc etc. I feel suicidal today, at this moment that is the only solution to end my misery.

    • @desertbluesplaylist7550
      @desertbluesplaylist7550 Рік тому +2

      Sorry to hear this, what sort of pain is it?

    • @cassettepat
      @cassettepat Рік тому +3

      @@desertbluesplaylist7550 soreness in my sides, back, neck. Overall fatigue. On a bad day my neck is mega sore and my head feels like it’s in a vice. My pain is a constant 5/10 as opposed to sudden sharp spasms. Had chronic pain of different sorts for 15 years. All my scans are clear.

    • @joannerowell4410
      @joannerowell4410 Рік тому +2

      So sorry to hear this. Hang on in there , you will get through this. Just try and give yourself some compassion.

    • @1STBUCKLEY
      @1STBUCKLEY Рік тому +4

      Your body sounds so locked in with tension, no wonder you feel like this. Week free trial of the Dare App, by Barry McDonagh, same approach as Dan's for anxiety, health etc. Dan recommended his book. You can gradually reduce this PDP. You're in the right place and your life is worth living. Xx

    • @carolebarton776
      @carolebarton776 Рік тому +2

      I would urge you to call a suicide hotline and look for support to help you through this dark, dark time. Bless you. May you find the support you need. I know it is available!

  • @daniellestine2250
    @daniellestine2250 Рік тому +6

    I can’t imagine pain free. I bounce from one pain to another in another part of my body and once I get rid of one something else starts. Or it’s one foot then goes to the other etc. It’s hard to not view it as something wrong. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong anymore. I’m not freaking out about it but I am feeling worn out every time something new hurts.

    • @joannerowell4410
      @joannerowell4410 Рік тому +1

      Have you tried somatic tracking? It really helps me to look at my pain in safety without fear.

    • @1STBUCKLEY
      @1STBUCKLEY Рік тому +3

      That's me a lot of days, some days it's less. It will happen for you. I think when we notice a lessening the mind reads fear and away it goes firing signals. Our bodies do get addicted to those cortisol/adrenaline rushes and the" better the devil I know" cycle starts. Dan recommended a book called DARE by Barry McDonagh for anxiety/health etc. Same sort of message Dan gives. There is a app, some of what is free on a week's trial, annual £60. Every night a wind down session, I'm out before it ends.

    • @christieharrison560
      @christieharrison560 Рік тому +2

      I am so so sorry you are in this place. I can relate as I have been there too many times to count. But I joined Dan's group program and now I am getting better. If I told you my story you wouldn't have thought it was possible, but it is happening and I am becoming pain free. It is the most loving and supportive environment. We can help you get there. I thought it wouldn't be possible. But I can promise you it is. xxx

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  Рік тому +1

      Maybe not freaking out, but seem to still be unclear that your brain is creating the symptoms and wondering what's wrong. That creates a high alert state and a brain perceiving danger which keeps the cycle going. Watch this video and see if you are creating safety consistently. ua-cam.com/video/Ez9Ez49M8Ig/v-deo.html

    • @daniellestine2250
      @daniellestine2250 Рік тому +1

      @@PainFreeYou I’ve been rid of back pain that I had for years and knee and neck pain yet with the plantar fasciitis in my feet the same technique I applied to the other areas of pain doesn’t seem to have an effect on this and that is why I think maybe something is wrong. Why would it take a different strategy than what worked so perfectly for my other pain? The brain must really not want me out here running 🤣because the only time I’ve ever had pains in the last year has been when I’m running! When I don’t run for extended periods nothing bothers me. I have no idea why this is viewed so dangerously by my brain. I’m back to every other workout imaginable, lifting weights, yoga etc. Just running it doesn’t wanna let go of and the more I try to remind myself I’m ok the worse it gets. I’ve taken the steps to resuming activity and still flare ups

  • @tesshoover-mm6vl
    @tesshoover-mm6vl Рік тому +3

    May I ask how long it took for you to feel completely safe?

    • @1STBUCKLEY
      @1STBUCKLEY Рік тому +2

      Everyone is different, it doesn't matter. You can do this.

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  Рік тому +1

      I made every mistake possible for years. It's through those mistakes and now interacting with thousands in this community that I have come to these concepts and teachings. You have the cheat sheet and can get there WAY faster than me. This video shows you how. ua-cam.com/video/Ez9Ez49M8Ig/v-deo.html

  • @laurathomas6620
    @laurathomas6620 Місяць тому +1

    Why would I get pain watching videos sometimes?

    • @PainFreeYou
      @PainFreeYou  Місяць тому

      If the brain perceives danger - symptoms can happen. What about the videos is triggering?

  • @Mindfuljourneywithme111
    @Mindfuljourneywithme111 Рік тому

    How do we deal with rapid heart rate upon standing? I can stand up to 124bpm stood still. I have to wait a few months for a cardiology check. Should I just practice safety?

  • @massielghering9496
    @massielghering9496 Рік тому +2

    Safety feels Da(m)n good! 😂

  • @utualan
    @utualan 6 місяців тому

    You're beginning to sound like Peter Crone.😃

  • @LM-tv8it
    @LM-tv8it 11 місяців тому

    What is TMS? I'm a newbie

  • @JaneThomas58
    @JaneThomas58 Рік тому +3

    Pain neighborhood 🤣

  • @k4xxxminecrafter792
    @k4xxxminecrafter792 7 місяців тому

    I love this!!!!!!!