Bro im so in control of my emotions it be feeling surreal at times . No woman can play me . I see everything. I dont take any woman serious, even when they're extremely feminine & show me they want me i still just play it cool . I dont be expecting anything from anyone because everyone doesnt think like me or will treat me like how i treat them because they are who they are . expectations lead to disappointment.
Being stoic is a must when you're in a relationship with a woman. All that arguing and emotional stuff will silently make your woman look at you as a man being weak and then she'll find your replacement immediately.
Yup tried to take a female wit 45+ bodies at 27 years old serious. Never again. Soon as she went on a “girls trip.” She cameback complaining & saying Im not doing enough for her.
Damn bruh, NEVER allow the 'girls trip'. It's just an opportunity for them to cheat. I'd even go as far as saying when they announce the trip, they're already planning to cheat. A girl who's happy with her relationship does not go on holiday with her single friends, partying and getting drunk.
Hold frame man. When you walk past them, keep your head held high and don't initiate eye contact. Show them that your time and energy is valuable, you ain't got time for distractions. 💯💪🏽
Don't edge over them in public but if you're not gonna even look at them you'll never dig her guts out. Holding eye contact IS being stoic bruh, juts don't stare at them with your mouth hanging open.
@@MMA-CLIPS2 See you worried about getting in her guts, I'm not. I got shit other shit to worry about like getting that 🍗💰. It's not always about getting in the guts bruh.
I met a woman who was attracted to me when I was in my stoic phase. When I gave her time she was so grateful happy and appreciative she wanted to come back day after day. I fell in love with her and moved in with her ( new place ). Within 6 months I found myself losing that stoicism. I cared too much. I was acting more emotional than ever. Too invested. The relationship is over now. I lost control of everything. (Now that I ignore her she txt me daily to get hit. Crazy world )
I feel you bro, but you can't fall in love and take them seriously. They are attracted to chaos, mystery and extreme masculinity. Don't ever show you care and be emotional or vulnerable. Women dry up and lose interest in an emotional, caring man.
She is the one she sounds like a good woman just learn not to fall apart in her presence with or without her nothing should phase you hope you learn this lesson if she's a good woman that's on you to control yourself and lead have a vision G
@@jfkmydad69 honestly either im emotionall engaged or not lol there is no balance as someone who doesnt wear their emotion on their sleeve already its redudant to find women who cant let me show my emotions it makes no sense and a waste of ttime but i dont date honestly for those very reasons i would rather work on myself and improve instead of using others for some sort of gain if itsnt authentic or it isnt gonna build to something more serious
@@lightsout630 Facts. She got turned off but wants him back now he's being more stoic. Feed her scraps, let her back in slowly but don't lose frame again OP. Listen to Patrice O'Neal, he was an expert on this.
Nailed it bro 🎯 Im 42 and its crazy how much of a night and day I was vs my 20s in the 2000s. I was simpin and showing myself too much to them chics. ZERO simp awareness back then. You nailed it with being STOIC!! Im that way and ya gotta be stone cold stunner lol. Im glad this information you give, these young fellas can also apply to their lives. 🫡🎯
Man I've been taking in a lot of ur Advice For a couple years now and now I'm taking a vacation in Mexico.Not stressed about anything.I appreciate you Steph.
The 'prejudge' comment you had about women always functioning in that way... really important and something I wish I wouldve learned earlier in life. Spent many years wondering why women werent interested in getting to know me more as a person when I was already being written off for things out of my control like looks, perceived financial value etc. All men need to hear that women have a system in their heads and we cannot beat it. Just play around it.
I don’t understand how men are taking women with 2-3 body counts serious in a relationship. A woman who has been conquered by multiple men should never be inherited by you king 👑
@@graycr Yup. Had this last week with a girl who was only 20, not sure on the exact body count but my hoe-ometer was guessing around 10. Active on a dating app as well, completely done for.
@@graycr3 bodies is practically a virgin these days. If you can get one with less then 10 you’re winning especially if she is very attractive. Let’s be real now. Living in delusion isn’t healthy either.
@J-yb3mf you gotta play the game bro. Remove your emotions. She is no longer your finance. She is now in the " for the streets" category. Have your turn 🫡
I’ve learned with women, it’s better to show no emotion at all. Treat it like you’re going to face “Koh the face stealer”. Any slight expression and it’s over. Stay poised
Being stoic means purposefully messing up your own relationship for clout because you have nothing better to tell them that I’m the bad guy I’m the problem when literally every video you have made since we started talking is you pushing me away on purpose so you could have content. The first 10 I didn’t mind but keep lying to them they eat up every word you say redpill
@@Robbielazarif not him they was folding for someone else or are. The problem is the dudes who took them hoes seriously. I wont check a phone but soon as my gut tell me its suspicious im fwb zoning the girl and reclaiming energy for the next main.
Steph, please drop a link in the description to these instrumentals you have playing in the background. Share them Cold beats so we can also put ourselves in that cold zone of thought gee😅💯💪🏾
Sht man i need this video I just had my house burned down, im in debt for all my business failures. Got my car almost repod. But I managed to get a better job. Feels like sht watching my ex traveling living her life and everything going wrong for me. I have 3 sisters to support too. Im trying to be strong for my family. My step father out of prison too. I wonder if I’ll ever get the 2 yrs back I gave her my best self. Its been a spiral this year down. Only thing keeping me sane is the need to protect and provide for my family after my step dad abused them. Im trying man but sometimes being the older brother builds character
Crazy how things spiral down after leaving our exes. Use that as motivation bro, im still fighting the fight .. most definitely all things will get better soon, can’t really motivate you as if things are now back in place.. im still fighting, praying you also don’t give up and fight the good fight🤝🏾🤍
That’s exactly what I should have did with my ex she was definitely not main girl material. I learned a valuable lesson. Fellas don’t take them serious especially when they have a past and a current lol
Steph why do Asian men always have it hard for dating and in life overall, why are we seen as villains and also being emasculated too? I know we all have different cards to deal with but it always seems like I don’t got the great hand when it comes to the cards I have to deal with.
I know what u mean about the chicks walking on the phone as they see you coming down the side walk in their direction acting as if you about to try to speak to them. I have a chick in my neighborhood who does that everyday to me when i go for my daily jog but let me tell you how i get her back and kill her ego.. As im jogging in her direction i wait till i get halfway to her and then i just sprint across the busy street 2 da other sidewalk… to show her that i would much rather put MY LIFE in danger then to try and talk to you sweetheart. And that kills them because they get no validation from me like they thought they would get from every random guy who walks pass them 💯
DAMNSTEPH you grinding my boy at the right time too, recently had to leave a girl alone , lost my frame for a bit but im gettin bck on i thanks for the advice n uploads my GG
But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly. Matthew 6 : 6
Bro it’s your personality , I’m currently overweight . All I did was talk to her about my dreams and my life and a few text later she told me she had feelings for me. You can achieve this too bro. @whiteranger79 @curtlamar5046
Shiittt I'm going through this same thing right now.. shawty done got me f**ed up steady talking about her doing it because she was going through " alot". We gotta get colder
Bro please make a video on black/latina mothers I’ve been tryna be stoic but for some reason in our culture it prevelant to yell Like literally my mom yells like the typical spicy Latina that people think is normal but it’s not Similar to the black ratchet girl that thinks she’s winning because she’s yelling loudest
Yo steph any advice , I’m dealing w a 21 y/o girl rn I’m about to be 25. My ex is my age they are both very different but I love them both N vuce Versa the 21 y/o definitely has potential but she’s way more damaged then my ex as far as love goes I’m not questioning shit but as far as the future I have questions. I can go more in depth but off that any words?
Steph so cold is just to real . Haven’t seen him since the early TikTok days but I’m glad I found his YT channel. He ain’t lying . Women love the Tyrone’s and pookies . They’ll put them before a normal hard working man anyday . You’ll be considered to boring !
PSA: 1. Your character (what you look like with what you doing) creates your destiny role in a relationship(a joining of people to play a role) 2. Actions tell you who someone is in a relationship not what they say. Meaning what role they have in your life. 3. Never take appearances as reality!
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Yes brother!!! ill check out your website man!!! i been following you for 3 year man
What happened to the patreon
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Bro im so in control of my emotions it be feeling surreal at times .
No woman can play me .
I see everything.
I dont take any woman serious, even when they're extremely feminine & show me they want me i still just play it cool .
I dont be expecting anything from anyone because everyone doesnt think like me or will treat me like how i treat them because they are who they are .
expectations lead to disappointment.
Noted
Got a feeling this is your XP talking.🗿
@@Forestry_rl He has prestiged several times and even got the platinum trophy.
Wish I read this 5 months ago
Bruhhh Ong! I feel like I'm the same way because I don't get into my feelings over these broads .
We gotta get colder
You should be frozen solid by now lmao
Always on time
Brani cold fr 💪😂
FACTS
@@WillieBerryhilllmfao
Being stoic is a must when you're in a relationship with a woman. All that arguing and emotional stuff will silently make your woman look at you as a man being weak and then she'll find your replacement immediately.
“I was the perfect warrior! Cold and ruthless, I lived by my strength alone. Uninhibited by foolish emotion!”
~ Majin Vegeta
Bro was about to take it to another level at the end you should have let it ride 😂😂
Faxxx😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 facts, he definitely should have.
🤣🤣🤣 nbs
Yup tried to take a female wit 45+ bodies at 27 years old serious. Never again. Soon as she went on a “girls trip.” She cameback complaining & saying Im not doing enough for her.
Damn bruh, NEVER allow the 'girls trip'. It's just an opportunity for them to cheat. I'd even go as far as saying when they announce the trip, they're already planning to cheat. A girl who's happy with her relationship does not go on holiday with her single friends, partying and getting drunk.
Shit here America 45 is low 100 is the average especially if she lightskin lol
Now why tf would you do that?😅
Man! I was distracted by how nice her body 🤦🏿♂️
45 bodies lmao
When girls show you who they are, believe them
Hold frame man. When you walk past them, keep your head held high and don't initiate eye contact. Show them that your time and energy is valuable, you ain't got time for distractions. 💯💪🏽
Don't edge over them in public but if you're not gonna even look at them you'll never dig her guts out. Holding eye contact IS being stoic bruh, juts don't stare at them with your mouth hanging open.
@@MMA-CLIPS2 facts facts facts
@@MMA-CLIPS2 See you worried about getting in her guts, I'm not. I got shit other shit to worry about like getting that 🍗💰. It's not always about getting in the guts bruh.
Facts. Its even more important to do this if theres hotties at your workplace. You gotta keep frame always.
damn this is stupid
I met a woman who was attracted to me when I was in my stoic phase. When I gave her time she was so grateful happy and appreciative she wanted to come back day after day.
I fell in love with her and moved in with her ( new place ). Within 6 months I found myself losing that stoicism. I cared too much. I was acting more emotional than ever. Too invested. The relationship is over now. I lost control of everything. (Now that I ignore her she txt me daily to get hit. Crazy world )
I feel you bro, but you can't fall in love and take them seriously. They are attracted to chaos, mystery and extreme masculinity. Don't ever show you care and be emotional or vulnerable. Women dry up and lose interest in an emotional, caring man.
She is the one she sounds like a good woman just learn not to fall apart in her presence with or without her nothing should phase you hope you learn this lesson if she's a good woman that's on you to control yourself and lead have a vision G
@@jfkmydad69 honestly either im emotionall engaged or not lol there is no balance as someone who doesnt wear their emotion on their sleeve already its redudant to find women who cant let me show my emotions it makes no sense and a waste of ttime but i dont date honestly for those very reasons i would rather work on myself and improve instead of using others for some sort of gain if itsnt authentic or it isnt gonna build to something more serious
@@garthyahudahandrews8504 the juco is always open brother
@@lightsout630 Facts. She got turned off but wants him back now he's being more stoic. Feed her scraps, let her back in slowly but don't lose frame again OP. Listen to Patrice O'Neal, he was an expert on this.
Change over past 4 years wouldn’t be possible without Steph I owe bro a lot. Blessings to you brother
Its been a ride forsure!
We gotta Get colder 🥶 💯
Nailed it bro 🎯 Im 42 and its crazy how much of a night and day I was vs my 20s in the 2000s. I was simpin and showing myself too much to them chics. ZERO simp awareness back then. You nailed it with being STOIC!! Im that way and ya gotta be stone cold stunner lol. Im glad this information you give, these young fellas can also apply to their lives. 🫡🎯
HER GUTS ARE WIDE OPEN LIKE SPONGEBOB'S MOUTH AAHHH !!
Who else love Steph?
❤
Pause
Probably his mom & dad
He’s your daddy
@@guapojoeynah he’s our big brother
“I thinks she’s different” is hilarious 😂, I love seeing guys with that mentality get heart broken 👎🏾
We gotta get colder 🥶
Man I've been taking in a lot of ur Advice For a couple years now and now I'm taking a vacation in Mexico.Not stressed about anything.I appreciate you Steph.
The 'prejudge' comment you had about women always functioning in that way... really important and something I wish I wouldve learned earlier in life. Spent many years wondering why women werent interested in getting to know me more as a person when I was already being written off for things out of my control like looks, perceived financial value etc. All men need to hear that women have a system in their heads and we cannot beat it. Just play around it.
I don’t understand how men are taking women with 2-3 body counts serious in a relationship. A woman who has been conquered by multiple men should never be inherited by you king 👑
Facts. By the time she gets 3 bodies, she is not a relationship girl anymore
@@graycr Yup. Had this last week with a girl who was only 20, not sure on the exact body count but my hoe-ometer was guessing around 10. Active on a dating app as well, completely done for.
@@graycr3 bodies is practically a virgin these days. If you can get one with less then 10 you’re winning especially if she is very attractive. Let’s be real now. Living in delusion isn’t healthy either.
I feel like that’s cap. In this day in time it’s really if you can count on one hand no matter the #.
2-3 guys it’s a normal number. When it’s more than 10 it’s when it gets almost impossible…
Piccolo: "You stooped to a new low Vegeta"
Majin Vegeta:"Flee while you can, Namekian. Unless you want to be killed again"
The moment Steph said “BUHH” a firework went off outside at the same time 🤣🤣💀
We WILL get colder 🥶
"...because as a man you understand that you know how to carpamentalize...." No truer words have been spoken.... 😁
Just had to cut my fiance off a few minutes ago... Find out she sneaky behind my back smh
You cut her off now she will lean more on that other person . Be smart bro
@@AllahsChild-km4uc appreciate it bro and she will
@J-yb3mf you gotta play the game bro. Remove your emotions. She is no longer your finance. She is now in the " for the streets" category. Have your turn 🫡
@@AllahsChild-km4uc true bro.. it was a good turn too lol
It makes me laugh when women try to ignore us men like what Steph about that phone trick.
So its just a trick
Steph is funny without even trying 😂😂
Faxxxx🤣
Hey Steph, I don’t know if I became cold or lost all my emotions but I don’t feel anything anymore and it pushes people away
Welcome to the Club! I'm so dead inside I don't even care about pursuing women anymore. I just want to go live in a cabin in the woods.
I’ve learned with women, it’s better to show no emotion at all. Treat it like you’re going to face “Koh the face stealer”. Any slight expression and it’s over. Stay poised
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Being stoic means purposefully messing up your own relationship for clout because you have nothing better to tell them that I’m the bad guy I’m the problem when literally every video you have made since we started talking is you pushing me away on purpose so you could have content. The first 10 I didn’t mind but keep lying to them they eat up every word you say redpill
What's the instrumental Stef ? Nice video as always.
i’m looking for it myself 😔
Stay Cold 🥶
The last 3 women I slept with have boyfriends. I’m nonchalant to it.
You do you bro. That’s bad karma, worst kind.
@@Robbielazar by who Thanos?? Bro the 1st two chicks I found out after had boyfriends. The 3rd chick was a Ex of mine she just missed the 🍆
@@Robbielazarif not him they was folding for someone else or are. The problem is the dudes who took them hoes seriously. I wont check a phone but soon as my gut tell me its suspicious im fwb zoning the girl and reclaiming energy for the next main.
aint shit to flex about 😂
@@richard-er6zn not flexing G, just letting you kno how these modern women get down
We gotta get colder 🥶 💯
Steph, please drop a link in the description to these instrumentals you have playing in the background. Share them Cold beats so we can also put ourselves in that cold zone of thought gee😅💯💪🏾
Facts you gotta pay attention to their actions and not their words you will never go wrong doing that 💯
Gotta be unbothered by their BS
Sht man i need this video I just had my house burned down, im in debt for all my business failures. Got my car almost repod. But I managed to get a better job. Feels like sht watching my ex traveling living her life and everything going wrong for me. I have 3 sisters to support too. Im trying to be strong for my family. My step father out of prison too. I wonder if I’ll ever get the 2 yrs back I gave her my best self. Its been a spiral this year down. Only thing keeping me sane is the need to protect and provide for my family after my step dad abused them. Im trying man but sometimes being the older brother builds character
Crazy how things spiral down after leaving our exes. Use that as motivation bro, im still fighting the fight .. most definitely all things will get better soon, can’t really motivate you as if things are now back in place.. im still fighting, praying you also don’t give up and fight the good fight🤝🏾🤍
100% correct we do gotta be stoic
WHY ITS IMPORTANT TO STAY INTO YOUR MASCULINE FRAME!. ... STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF DONT LOSE YOURSELF.
Facts 💯 keep grinding fam, motivation ova the years fr
Waiting for Brani to comment
No glaze but Steph would make a great dad to his offspring.
ALL FAX IN THIS VIDEO BRO 👏🏾 📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠📠
It never ceases to amaze me we all love ourselves more than other people but care more about their opinions than our own -Marcus Aurelius
We gotta get colder
stop
Is consistent steph back? 😮😮
Imma need that last part you cut off uploaded you were preaching 😂
Consistent Steph ina building… it’s cold as fuc on here ❄️❄️
That’s exactly what I should have did with my ex she was definitely not main girl material. I learned a valuable lesson. Fellas don’t take them serious especially when they have a past and a current lol
Steph why do Asian men always have it hard for dating and in life overall, why are we seen as villains and also being emasculated too? I know we all have different cards to deal with but it always seems like I don’t got the great hand when it comes to the cards I have to deal with.
All asian dudes I personally know have no issues getting asian/hispanic women
I know what u mean about the chicks walking on the phone as they see you coming down the side walk in their direction acting as if you about to try to speak to them. I have a chick in my neighborhood who does that everyday to me when i go for my daily jog but let me tell you how i get her back and kill her ego.. As im jogging in her direction i wait till i get halfway to her and then i just sprint across the busy street 2 da other sidewalk… to show her that i would much rather put MY LIFE in danger then to try and talk to you sweetheart. And that kills them because they get no validation from me like they thought they would get from every random guy who walks pass them 💯
Everyone stfu ,Steph just dropped
We gotta become cold 🥷’s
DAMNSTEPH you grinding my boy at the right time too, recently had to leave a girl alone , lost my frame for a bit but im gettin bck on i thanks for the advice n uploads my GG
We gotta get colder 🥶
🤦🏾♂️
stop
Leave that for Brani bro😂
You’re not that guy
Nobody keeps it realer than Steph the segment abt the woman at alter lmaooo
keep the videos coming G!
But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.
Matthew 6 : 6
Steph for president
Steph for the fuckin win this one of them
Ones yall
That instrumental at 5:50 need it
Same here bro. You've got the name?
@@bobclint4355 I don’t. Tryna find it. Not sure if it’s a Canis Major beat or not. Finna find it and go run stairmaster for 1hr
@@RealCurlyDrewlike fr the song is hard af. The perfect companion for gains 💪🏼
bro got me over here rolling😭 its the way you ain lie once
Glad Steph back posting regular
type shit. type shit
I use to be that Goofy...Bah, haa...
Steph is a Teacher and Big Brother❤
I'm about a decade older than Steph and even I learn a lot from his perspective. Stay cold fellas 🥶
Dude been on the real stuff 💯💯💯
BINGO ! IF SHE 4 THE STREETS SHE IS Automatically -Disqualified- ! ! !
They all say the same thing lmaoo
Bro this man saved my life foreal !!!
Level up dogg
Once a dyab always a dyab it never stop
Cold🥴🥶
Guys after all these years of being single I finally got a gf without even trying. LOOKS DONT MATTER!
How do you know? If look’s don’t, is there anything that matters?
They lowkey do bro
Bro it’s your personality , I’m currently overweight . All I did was talk to her about my dreams and my life and a few text later she told me she had feelings for me. You can achieve this too bro. @whiteranger79 @curtlamar5046
@@curtlamar5046high key.
@@whiteranger79 its personality bro
You fintah marry her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What’s the name of the first song?
Stoicism is the way
The best in the game Steph is 🥶
I need that second beat G!
I love this guy😂
Take your time editing the videos g , they be playing over an over
Facts . The colder you get , 304’s get more insecure
Shiittt I'm going through this same thing right now.. shawty done got me f**ed up steady talking about her doing it because she was going through " alot".
We gotta get colder
True words, thanks Steph. The Chads quak them while the simps are crying
Amen Amen and aaaammmeeennnnn🎉
9:06 that cut had me laughing he probably did a female voice and decided he didn’t want to upload that LoL!😅
3:38 facts GOOFY
Bro please make a video on black/latina mothers
I’ve been tryna be stoic but for some reason in our culture it prevelant to yell
Like literally my mom yells like the typical spicy Latina that people think is normal but it’s not
Similar to the black ratchet girl that thinks she’s winning because she’s yelling loudest
i love da game
Yo steph any advice , I’m dealing w a 21 y/o girl rn I’m about to be 25. My ex is my age they are both very different but I love them both N vuce Versa the 21 y/o definitely has potential but she’s way more damaged then my ex as far as love goes I’m not questioning shit but as far as the future I have questions. I can go more in depth but off that any words?
Steph so cold is just to real . Haven’t seen him since the early TikTok days but I’m glad I found his YT channel. He ain’t lying . Women love the Tyrone’s and pookies . They’ll put them before a normal hard working man anyday . You’ll be considered to boring !
Anyone know the instrumentals playing in the background
PSA:
1. Your character (what you look like with what you doing) creates your destiny role in a relationship(a joining of people to play a role)
2. Actions tell you who someone is in a relationship not what they say. Meaning what role they have in your life.
3. Never take appearances as reality!
This got to me ngl.6:29
Leave sex out of the relationship in the beginning to you won't overlook the red flags
Mr cold 💪
Steph on a run