How to become "THAT Christian girl" in 2023 || biblical tips to become the best version of yourself!

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  • @ashleyhetherington_
    @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +303

    SUMMER IS ALMOST HERE! Which tip are you going to implement this summer?! ☀️

    • @pinkiepie7710
      @pinkiepie7710 2 роки тому +28

      Eating healthy and getting up early to spend time with the Lord🙏😊💕

    • @CarlyDog
      @CarlyDog 2 роки тому +12

      @@pinkiepie7710 Those are some really good ideas! ❤✝️🙏

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +16

      @@pinkiepie7710 love this!

    • @olivialindsey
      @olivialindsey 2 роки тому +5

      Thank you Ash!! I would love to get up early and workout!!

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +9

      @@olivialindsey yes girl!! so glad to have you here.

  • @clairecornett6936
    @clairecornett6936 2 роки тому +2316

    “If you do not know who your Creator is, how will you know what He Created?” GIRL I HIT THE SUBSCRIBE BUTTON SO FAST-

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +131

      hahaha omg sis im so glad you are here!

    • @Keyleexoxo
      @Keyleexoxo 2 роки тому +30

      Right?? That hit me hard like literally loved hearing that. Really love that I found this channel!

    • @zigalarissa5464
      @zigalarissa5464 Рік тому +7

      it's the way I thought about this randomly this past month, in more of a "if you don't know The Creator how are you to understand what He created"

    • @Anastasia-ex7iw
      @Anastasia-ex7iw Рік тому +2

      me too) I was like ... this is the truth. like someone slapped me on my face

    • @TheFifthWorld22
      @TheFifthWorld22 Рік тому +1

      🌟🌟🌟

  • @kikyohirai2966
    @kikyohirai2966 Рік тому +461

    I'm a convert christian girl in a muslim household and your videos help me a lot to stay motivated despite all the obstacles i have

  • @bria1648
    @bria1648 Рік тому +128

    The most important thing is that Christianity is not an aesthetic or a trend, it's a lifestyle that is often not very pretty, especially for those who haven't had the closest relationship with God recently. It's perfectly okay, and often beneficial to romanticize Christianity, it can help you to get past the inevitable struggles but to pretend that it's perfect and always glamorous is simply a lie
    I do really like this video and you gave lots of great advice

    • @JesusChristdiedforyou
      @JesusChristdiedforyou Рік тому +7

      Amen.

    • @EdelStark.
      @EdelStark. 3 місяці тому +3

      So true, the closer you get to God the more the enemy attacks you. Bc you become a real threath. Keep your eyes on the light ❤❤❤

  • @swaggjayziee2333
    @swaggjayziee2333 Рік тому +641

    I am so happy I found this video! I’m 14 years old and I recently started getting closer and buliding a relationship with God and I have never felt better. I think back to when I wasn’t a Christian and I realized how unhappy I was but now I feel so much happier. The speech about “finding yourself” I relate to so much. I tried finding myself when I wasn’t a Christian and I always found myself down and unhappy. It was now when I found out this is me! I found myself and found the person I’m supposed to be❤

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  Рік тому +50

      cmon Lord!! i am so so glad to here this space is helping you grow closer in your relationship with Jesus. you are so very loved.

    • @FamiliarFaith
      @FamiliarFaith Рік тому +18

      Same. I'm 14 and last week I found myself trying to understand more of God and his messages to the world so I did a lot of researches about building my relationship with him, I found useful ways to pray and read the bible. I changed my music and I totally enjoy them so much, I started telling my siblings about some things I learned watching "Billy Graham" sermon's and it changed my view of things in a positive way. I really want to change for the better. I was a Chritian ever since birth, I really couldn't care about anything, but sometimes I'd feel I needed him but couldn't understand it in someways, after learning so much in just a week and a few days I feel like my life is changing. English is not my first language, when we go church I don't understand what they are talking about or I couldn't undertand the message in the sermons, but the English sermons I understand so much like it's my first language😂 But I'm thankful I understand in some way how much God loves us.

    • @swaggjayziee2333
      @swaggjayziee2333 Рік тому +7

      @@FamiliarFaith yess God changes us in so many ways its honestly so amazing. I've also been a Christian since birth I just never lived for God until now and it's so amazing. God bless you❤

    • @FamiliarFaith
      @FamiliarFaith Рік тому +3

      @@swaggjayziee2333 God bless you too🥰🙏

    • @doragirl8577
      @doragirl8577 Рік тому +2

      This is me down to the age

  • @anajuliasenemdasilva6974
    @anajuliasenemdasilva6974 Рік тому +458

    "the more you look to God, more you find yourself." I love It!💗

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  Рік тому +16

      you are LOVED. 🤍

    • @sffsf81
      @sffsf81 Рік тому +3

      Which scripture is that? Bible teaches us contrary, that we must decrease, and God must increase.

    • @anajuliasenemdasilva6974
      @anajuliasenemdasilva6974 Рік тому +1

      @@ashleyhetherington_You too sister💗

    • @patricejames1259
      @patricejames1259 Рік тому +2

      ❤❤We are created in the image of God. Amen!

    • @annarocha3254
      @annarocha3254 Рік тому +2

      I feel like the more we look to God the less we think of ourselves at all.

  • @rmaria95
    @rmaria95 Рік тому +86

    I’ve been trying to “find myself” BY MYSELF forever and I’m almost 30 😢
    Now I’m making the switch and nurturing my relationship with Him again ❤

    • @princesstopaz7210
      @princesstopaz7210 Рік тому +5

      You go girl🤩 we're rooting for you and remember even when you fall (cause we're human) HE never lets you go
      All the best with your journey ✨

    • @Lenaa90s
      @Lenaa90s 11 місяців тому +2

      We don’t “find ourselves”, we create ourselves. By the way, finding Christ and dwelling in his word is what gives us hope. 💗

  • @eliltaliya
    @eliltaliya Рік тому +356

    Hi Ashley, I'm an 11 year old Christian girl and basically I found your channel today while I was searching about Christian female modesty. And u have been such an inspiration, can u please make a video on how to be a good Christian girl in school when you are around different religions and cultures. Thank you xxx

    • @merwillemina9390
      @merwillemina9390 Рік тому +28

      Wow I'm so proud of you Elilta. God bless you girl, and direct your paths ❤

    • @SRose-vp6ew
      @SRose-vp6ew Рік тому +11

      Just remember be loving. But don’t come into agreement with lies, that’s one way to give the Devil a foothold. Look into Christian apologetics, but remember where a lot of Christian apologetics fails, is the most important part, truly help them feel loved. Try to renew the mind Daily with Scripture and Prayer on your own. Some great additional resources would be “answers in genesis“ and “Ray Comfort” and for pop-culture apologetics “off the Krib Ministries.” “bible project” is a great thing to watch before you start reading a chapter of the Bible. “Sergio and Rhoda and Israel” are a fun way to learn about history/geography from a cute couples travel blog.

    • @SRose-vp6ew
      @SRose-vp6ew Рік тому +2

      With modesty follow your convictions from God, but don’t make rules around rules for other people who have not had those convictions yet, that’s what the Pharisees did to people. That’s not to say you can’t explain the benefits of modesty to another person.
      The only rules I would say is probably be really careful with swimsuits, shorts, and things that could show chest because of how gross some people at the beach can be as they go just to look at young girls 🤢.
      Personally I wear what’s called a tankini with a tankini skirt, still easy to go to the bathroom, but it doesn’t actually show your mid drift but I know lots of modest girls that feel an athletic swimsuit is a modest swimming suit and again it’s up to them and their family, but obey your parents if they’re telling you they think you should wear a T-shirt or shorts and don’t feel pressured by anyone that you have to wear a string bikini, such as if your parents are the opposite side of the spectrum and buy you one. God will never ask you to compromise. You will save so much time and money if you just buy modest to start with. Try thrifting for it and have fun!

    • @alexiaoros8679
      @alexiaoros8679 Рік тому +10

      Hi Ashley, I'm 11 years old and ever since I started watching your channel, I haven't been the same!! Sometimes it's hard to be kind always, and I haven't always been kind, but I'm trying

    • @penelopeanderson1919
      @penelopeanderson1919 Рік тому

      Yesss im going into highschool and this is a struggle

  • @lilyclaire1300
    @lilyclaire1300 Рік тому +5

    I was a drug addict at 16, dealt with toms of childhood trauma and baggage I carried with me everywhere. When I found God, little by little He started breaking down barriers, tearing down walls that were guarding my heart. The Bible says to guard our heart, which we need to do!! But if you guard your heart too fiercely you can even guard it from God. That was my problem. I guarded my heart from God and I couldn’t be vulnerable with Him. God is still slowly working through me every day but I quit pills I was taking and have been sober for years! I’m now 21 and am getting my life on track still :) know that things take time. Don’t try to rush God’s purpose for you, because His timing is perfect. Sometimes we want to rush being “that” Christian girl, which I know I wanted to, but these things can take time and practice and we get better as we go! Stay determined sisters in Christ, and I promise you God leads you where you need to be. Something I say to myself is five feet ahead. Always look five feet ahead but don’t try to see ahead of it because you never know where God is taking you. As long as you look five feet ahead on the path, He will clear that path for you!! I hope this encouraged someone if they see it :)

  • @erikaellis7818
    @erikaellis7818 Рік тому +33

    I’m a 15 year old girl on her journey with Jesus!! Thank you for helping me so much ❤

  • @kaylaandalyssa
    @kaylaandalyssa 2 роки тому +114

    I am just starting to become a Christian and it feels so good!

    • @ilovekene9697
      @ilovekene9697 Рік тому +18

      You already are, hun 💗 the moment you believe in Jesus, you're accepted into God's family. You're as Christian as Christian can get

    • @amaoparebea2990
      @amaoparebea2990 Рік тому +3

      Indeed🥰😇

    • @adailydaughter6196
      @adailydaughter6196 Рік тому +3

      God bless you sister in Christ. We're Fam all around the world xx

    • @paulmartin5424
      @paulmartin5424 Рік тому +1

      Im also a Christian gave my life to the holy spirit backslided ✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️🔥

    • @Blessedjaden198
      @Blessedjaden198 Рік тому

      Congrats just remember that they'll be up and downs just remember God is there and he hasn't abandoned you. When ever you slip up just put it to go he will not turn down a broken or contrived heart.

  • @GladysGayleCariazo
    @GladysGayleCariazo Рік тому +84

    It’s not an accident that I’m here...watching this video. God bless Ashley 💕

  • @ag6461
    @ag6461 2 роки тому +322

    You deserve more likes, subs, and fans. I discovered you on Pinterest and I had no clue you had a yt channel!!!! I have trying to be “that girl” but THIS IS THE ONLY RELATABLE ONE! They all have certain expectations, but I was just trying to fit everything into the categories I DREAMED of, and literally you are everything I have looked for this past year! THANK YOU THANK YOU, you are a SIGN from God sent to me!💖💖💖💖

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +43

      aww i am so glad to have you in this community! and to know that this video helped you. 🤍 there needs to be more videos on improving your life from a BIBLICAL perspective!

    • @kelilahfiles1823
      @kelilahfiles1823 Рік тому +1

      Girl, I went through the same thing.

  • @designyourlife8311
    @designyourlife8311 Рік тому +25

    Wow, me as a Muslim loved every word you said. I was also looking for a “that girl” routine but as soon as I saw this title I knew I can definitely adapt some things and make it work with my belief ♥️ because basically all religions teach the same thing, right? -> presence of one God who does answer if you just call upon him!
    Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts with us and for inspiring me to love god and how to find yourself through him🙏🏽♥️♥️♥️

    • @starwriter257
      @starwriter257 26 днів тому

      U're right❤bt I just wanted u to know that God is more than a religion. He's a father who wants to know u personally through faith I His Son Jesus Christ. He made u, He chose u and He loves u

  • @ashleyschachter985
    @ashleyschachter985 2 роки тому +120

    So happy I found you and this channel. I found you through Pinterest. I used to follow a lot of non-Christian UA-camrs and recently have been purging because I don’t feel like it’s a good influence. This is exactly what I needed. I still want to be the best version of myself, but it has to be in Christ. Please keep doing what you are doing! Im 35 and I only wish I had your faith at your age. God bless you ❤️

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +9

      wow ashley i love your name and your beautiful, kind words 🤍 so so glad you found this video helpful in your journey of reaching your God-given potential!

  • @Becky12348
    @Becky12348 Рік тому +51

    Hey Ashley, you might not read this comment, but I would like to thank you for this video, it was a breath of fresh air. I'm an international flight attendant and I became a christian one year ago , yes God changed me completely trough his mercy and Son. However I will confess thats its been hard lately and Is till struggle a lot against sin and against memories from my past life, Its hard to understand that everything is made new in Christ. I will wake up tomorrow and restart to read my bible after ur video. God bless you, sister.

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  Рік тому +9

      aww rebecca. i’m so glad to have you in this community and to hear you are inspired to read your Bible 🤍

  • @_justpeachy_004
    @_justpeachy_004 Рік тому +21

    I really relate to this! I’ve only been a Christian for a few months but I’ve learned so much! I’m changing and I’m continuing to grow my confidence in God and my family knows I’ve changed and my Christian parents are proud that I’m following their advice in reading the Bible and getting healthier. I used to be very depressed, anxious and unhealthy and I would get in a lot of trouble with people, leading up to attempting a suicide. I felt it in my soul saying, “Don’t do it, something is coming.” but I ignored it and just wanted everything to end. Luckily, it didn’t work❤That is the ONLY time I was proud of failing something, now I’m extremely focused on failing the devil. I can’t give into him again and I’ll bring others with me. I can’t see my family being dragged down with him.

  • @tia246
    @tia246 Рік тому +4

    I was wondering what should u wear as a christian like how God wants you to present yourself with clothes?

  • @esthertwo17
    @esthertwo17 Рік тому +10

    I am 35 and this was so encouraging for me! I’ve practiced a lot of the habits in the past but when I lose track of myself, I lose track of God. This was elegantly done and very practical to apply. Keep doing the great work ❤

  • @jessica_g135
    @jessica_g135 Рік тому +26

    THANK YOU SO MUCH! I am almost 14 and I have been recently struggling with my mornings and I didn’t talk to God as much. I would just wake up and feel horrible and I didn’t know why. I would sleep for a really long time and since I’m homeschooled I would wake up really late and just finish school at like 8 pm. I was trying to find myself for a long time. My room would always be dirty and my life was just a MESS even though I am a clean freak and like everything organized. Also my dad left to Hawaii a couple months ago and I haven’t seen him for a while and I miss him A LOT!😭😭and I think that’s what also caused all of this. This video and your channel just helped me literally keep up with everything! Now I know that if you don’t start your day with talking to God and reading His Word, you will not be having a good day and you’ll feel lost. So thank you so much! I really appreciate all of your hard work!❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  Рік тому +3

      aw jessica - my heart goes out to you. that must be really hard with your dad. know that you are loved by your Heavenly Father and He desires to spend time with you all day long. you are never alone 🤍

    • @jessica_g135
      @jessica_g135 Рік тому

      @@ashleyhetherington_ thank you so much🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @cherrycain6425
    @cherrycain6425 Рік тому +4

    I just ran across your channel. I am 54 years old. And, you are a breath of fresh air. God bless you. It is so wonderful to see someone from our younger generation loving the Lord and living for Him. I have a a long history of anxiety and depression. But, I rededicated my life to the Lord last year and my life has changed so drastically for the best. I still have days but not like before. Thank you for your love and enthusiasm for the Lord. I will be watching your channel alot. God bless you. Keep on keepin’ on. This world needs more people standing up for the Lord like you. ❤️🙏🏻

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  Рік тому +2

      i am so so glad to have you a part of this community 💖

    • @cherrycain6425
      @cherrycain6425 Рік тому

      @@ashleyhetherington_ I’m proud to be part of this community. God bless you. ❤️🙏🏻

  • @lovinglife58
    @lovinglife58 Рік тому +5

    I am so thankful I found your channel! Believe it or not, I am almost 65 years old and your videos are really encouraging me! God is using you in many ways for so many people (of all ages!)

  • @appleopps4540
    @appleopps4540 Рік тому +3

    I have never been so glad to be wrong!!! I was just about to post my self righteous comment about how believing in Jesus is not an aesthetic, which it’s not! But then I listened to the full video, and yes! Yes and amen to it all! Love this! 👏🏽💕

  • @twodirections7913
    @twodirections7913 2 роки тому +11

    when i tell you i clicked so fast😭😭❤️ i was literally thinking about this yesterday and how i want to enjoy my Christianity more. thank you for this video🥺❤️

  • @cherrybombb2306
    @cherrybombb2306 Рік тому +19

    Hi Ashley! I'm 15, trying to change my life around, get rid of my old self, and I was a bit nervous about clicking this video, cuz I've found that a lot of 'Christian Girl' videos I see online are not biblical at all. Literally 5 minutes into this vid and I've subscribed and liked, b/c what you're saying is so true! I really need to start reading the Bible more. this video is incredible, thanks girl

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  Рік тому +1

      sis i am so glad you are here 🤍 you are SO loved by the Lord!

  • @navy8366
    @navy8366 2 роки тому +5

    The tip i’m definitely i’m using is reading the bible more and making it a priority. I’m closer to God when i spend time in His word and journal where i am at spiritually and how He is moving in my life.
    i like the idea of gratitude walks. I have a prayer journal, where i write out what i am anxious about and lay it all at the foot of the cross and praise Him for the things He has done and i am grateful for. Basically what you do in those prayer walks, but in a journal.
    Again, I really hope i can encourage you in saying that God is using you for His perfect purpose and He has everything in His hands. You are in my prayers! Continue saying yes to why He has called you to do!! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +1

      i love this so much 🤍 the prayer walks will change the game for you. literally LIFE CHANGING.
      Thanks for being here sis!

  • @sophia-s1b
    @sophia-s1b 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm 12 years old and I play a lot of golf and I'm getting more into professional golf! Jesus has helped throughout all my life but I feel like I'm just not that close this video has helped me a ton it truly did make me the best version of me!

  • @rosadele9715
    @rosadele9715 Рік тому +10

    Ashley Hetherington , Christianity is not an aesthetic ; its a relationship with God its having faith in Him , its believing that Jesus Christ is your lord and saviour , following the 10 commandments , trying not to sin , spreading the gospel and so much more .Ashley I do trust that you have 100% faith in Our lord and saviour Jesus Christ , However the thing that troubles me is that your mixing our religion with the " that girl " aesthetic . i am not saying that you should not try to be the best version of yourself , i am just saying that your kinda sending the message that Christianity is just a aesthetic or a life style when its more than that , i gave you this message with sincere love and respect . May God be with you and have mercy on your soul , have a blessed day ☺.

    • @JesusChristdiedforyou
      @JesusChristdiedforyou Рік тому +3

      I totally agree with this, so many people are not pointing it out. You really don't have to live a certain lifestyle; I can see that she very dearly loves Jesus Christ but this whole "that Christian girl" is kind of messed up. You shouldn't focus or aim to be "that Christian girl" you should aim to build a stronger relationship with Jesus Christ, instead of trying to make it an aesthetic.
      God bless you and may God be with you, thank you for writing this I thought that I was the only one who saw it was a bit wrong.
      🥰

    • @fajri8843
      @fajri8843 6 місяців тому

      Do you know when we point out "the wrong" we think we see in other Christians? Is normally when we never dealt with our own shortcomings. We will be slow to point when we pray the Holy Spirit convict the person of certain shortcomings. I learn to do that,and see for myself the change the Holy Spirit work in peoples lives without saying a word to the person in question.

    • @sUrFbOaRd31
      @sUrFbOaRd31 4 місяці тому

      @@fajri8843Amen, truth.

  • @emmarose5953
    @emmarose5953 Рік тому +4

    I haven't even finished the video, and I subscribed. PLEASE keep teaching people about God. When you said, "How do you know who you are without talking to the one who created you?" And I'm mind blown because of the way I've been feeling recently. I really don't know who I am, and I came to this video to learn how to be closer with God and how to be a good Christian. I really feel like the Lord led me to this video. Thank you Ashley

  • @arisworld395
    @arisworld395 Рік тому +4

    Hi Ashley! I've been a Christian since birth but recently I have been thinking about God more and more and changing lifestyle choices to fit the Christian I want to be. However, for 3 months I have been SEARCHING the internet for a go to Christian youtuber that I can rely on to produce inspiring content for me... I think I found my match! I wish I saw this vid sooner but it is what it is. I instantly subscribed and I cant wait to see what other amazing videos you post.😇✝

  • @dahannahcampbell3472
    @dahannahcampbell3472 Рік тому +5

    Yesss 👏🏾 finally a video on becoming “That Girl” but biblically I think I’m definitely gonna work on my prayer and Bible reading so that I can build a better relationship with Christ thanks so much for the video 💖💖

  • @alixxxxxoxo
    @alixxxxxoxo 4 місяці тому

    The fact that you’re “that christian girl” who helped me so much ❤❤❤

  • @julyslife4452
    @julyslife4452 2 роки тому +39

    Thank you so much for this video! I am really trying to become the better version of me and I am starting my Christian journey and this has really inspired me to keep going. Especially with all the expectations of becoming “That Girl” is really hard because it doesn’t show the reality and the struggles it comes with but you making this video is relatable!❤️✨

  • @RebekahYohanessan
    @RebekahYohanessan 5 місяців тому

    Let me just say, I want to be you when I grow up. You work out, you have an AMAZING sense of style, you are a role model for others and most importantly you are a girl after Gods own heart. You were the reason I started reading my Bible. You were the reason why I’m so close to Jesus. I still have a long way to go believe you me. But ms. Hetherington, you are a blessing. Thank you for inspiring me.

  • @allisonnuckolls778
    @allisonnuckolls778 2 роки тому +38

    I absolutely love you turning trends into holy girl trends :) I look up to you so much!

  • @kayramarief
    @kayramarief 2 роки тому +8

    When you started talking about being 18 and not knowing what to do, I feel like I'm in the same boat. I'm slowly trying to expand my faith. Thank you for this video!

  • @larissacardosodir
    @larissacardosodir Рік тому +4

    I am so happy and excited because I found you. I am brazilian and I bought a english and spanish bible, 'cause I want to know in all languages and connect myself to people like you. Thank you so much. ✝️💜

  • @kaitiethewildone871
    @kaitiethewildone871 2 роки тому +18

    I really like the idea of walking my dog and using that time to spend time with God. I love using it to worship him and take in the beauty of the world and my happy little dog !

  • @Lianastudioss
    @Lianastudioss Рік тому +4

    God bless you! I’ve been praying to help me with procrastination & struggling to get up early. The Lord has lead me to this video! Thank you lovely

  • @JustKgomotso_26
    @JustKgomotso_26 6 місяців тому +1

    I was going through something , feeling anxious and angry but as soon as I found your videos on Facebook. Something in me shifted and now i am happy and at peace. God is good

  • @Rapunzel674
    @Rapunzel674 2 роки тому +14

    Love this . You don’t make it about physicality , but about the best version of you (spiritually, mentally and physically.) Although, I struggle with self image like most women. I also struggle with finding sisters in Christ or just gfs in general . A lot are just into partying and drinking every weekend . I feel lonely in the friendship area of my life . Not sure if anyone is struggling with the same .

    • @mepod7024
      @mepod7024 Рік тому

      Hey Cristina! How are you doing now?

  • @oreos_beachz
    @oreos_beachz 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi Ashley ur videos are so comforting and everytime you pop up on my fyp I learn something new everyday about the Lord.

  • @kaykaywilliams5802
    @kaykaywilliams5802 2 роки тому +8

    the tip that I'm going to start and that is amazing is the gratitude journal and to nourish my body with gods food; from nature, instead of mostly eating packaged food/junk food. thank you so much for this video its wonderful and everything that I want to achieve and because of this I now have the knowledge from you and the the bible to motivate me. I love your videos so, so much and they build me up and encourage me when I'm having a rough day thank you.

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +2

      i am so so glad these videos inspire you to grow closer to the Lord 🤍 you are so loved!

  • @70memories
    @70memories 10 місяців тому +1

    Just found your channel after finding many videos of you on Pinterest, am extremely glad that there is an actual way of being myself pleasing my beautiful Lord and also getting the best version of myself, we Must not forget that He wants the best for us and to see us Happy!!! so what a better way than this??!! thankkss Lord Jesus for allowing me to find your channel!!! May Lord bless ya'll guys!!! AMEN

  • @mariabrunson6946
    @mariabrunson6946 2 роки тому +18

    LOOVE this, I have been having all the same thoughts recently. All through the power of the holy spirit!!

  • @storm.angelinaa
    @storm.angelinaa Рік тому +2

    I'm so happy I found this video, I'm currently almost 17 years old and trying to find myself. For the past two years I have been incredibly lost but didn't know where to start finding myself again. I knew Christianity would help me but I was scared to be judged for asking questions and who I am in general. Your video makes me feel okay to be me yet at the same time you motivate me to do what I know I can do.

  • @joyfairweather1205
    @joyfairweather1205 2 роки тому +4

    Reading the Bible and learning about God changed you soo much ❤️😭

  • @Barrennomore
    @Barrennomore Рік тому +2

    I literally watch your videos almost everyday! This blessed me so much to pray for an increase in the fruit of the spirit, self discipline. Ever since I began praying on my daily walks and getting up before dawn, I’m seeing more and more fruit of God in my life. I’m no longer searching for the life I want, I’m actually living it! I seriously thank you so much for your obedience to get up here and share! It has inspired me to produce the things God has asked me to and i just feel more and more like a conqueror and not hopeless and lost! I love you Ashley! I live in Hawaii but I’m from Knoxville Tennessee. So it made me so happy to learn your from Nashville! The favor of God is so heavy on you and it shows in every video! Thank you for being such a light in a dark place! ❤️

  • @adamerickson4206
    @adamerickson4206 2 роки тому +42

    Ashley...Thanks for this. I'm a man actually, but a father to three teenage girls and I can't find good resources for tips for fathers raising godly teenagers. Can you help? There would be a lot of us listening if you did!!

    • @lovetheruinsme5139
      @lovetheruinsme5139 Рік тому +4

      I would recommend
      Superbook
      The Bible Project
      maybe you know them..but as a girl these helped me a lot.

    • @Raccoon_Chic
      @Raccoon_Chic Рік тому +4

      To avoid really traumatizing and fucking them up , stay away from anything misogynistic. Idk how easy that’s going to be if you’re trying to be a “biblical Christian” but you’ll really save them a lifetime of therapy if you just treat them like actual humans who are equal .

  • @Ericaprmx01
    @Ericaprmx01 Рік тому +2

    Your vids are so Jesus therapeutic! 🙏🏼🙌🏼 There’s no negativity, just love, accountability and most importantly, JESUS! 🙏🏼🫶🏻🙌🏼

  • @hallegibson
    @hallegibson 2 роки тому +5

    This is so helpful! I’ve been finding it really hard to be motivated in the different facets of my life and every time I would watch those “that girl” morning routines I would always feel discouraged because the routines felt so overwhelming and purpose-less. This video shed so much light on the biblical why behind the what and you literally pinpointing the scriptures behind physical and spiritual disciplines was so helpful - thanks so much!

  • @ellahise727
    @ellahise727 Рік тому +1

    As a Christian teen girl I came across this channel and it has truly been a blessing. You've inspired me to grow in my relationship with God. Thank you. God Bless❤

  • @momentswiththesmiths3862
    @momentswiththesmiths3862 2 роки тому +19

    I'm 14 and i'm glad i found this.

  • @victorial8764
    @victorial8764 Рік тому +2

    This is the sweetest video. I love that you are sharing your faith so well to others. You are a beautiful example and one of my favorite channels and I’m older than you but you really inspire me so much to live on fire again. ❤

  • @CanadianBatmanNerd
    @CanadianBatmanNerd Рік тому +4

    Finding Godly friends is actually THE HARDEST thing you’ve mentioned to do. Finding Christian friends with similar experiences and goals is harder than it should be. I don’t know if it’s my position and where I live, or what… but I haven’t been able to find solid believers who make good friends since I was 18 😅

  • @kihara4244
    @kihara4244 Рік тому

    This is so true and healthy for young people trying to find themselves and trying to get to know them...KNOW GOD,GOD MADE YOU,GOD GAVE U LIFE, If u love your creater u will love u.First work on your relationship with god then u will be on the right path already and finding yourself will be so much easier...Just try to be a christian i promise you will not regret it!

  • @미묘-f3n
    @미묘-f3n Рік тому +8

    Hello! I am a 15-year-old girl who is attending a Christian school in Korea. Your video touched me! I am also trying to live more diligently, but it was hard because I couldn't, but thanks to your video, I was able to live with God's power. Thank you! Ashley 💗🥹

  • @AnnaNoelani
    @AnnaNoelani 2 роки тому +5

    Love to see it! Every video i watch is focused on ourselves you’re one of the very few who stresses the importance of God. God bless you for that. We need more people like you

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +1

      i am so glad you are here anna! i felt the very same way about those videos not bringing peace.

  • @roxiereign
    @roxiereign Рік тому +2

    6:33 just completely changed my entire mindset towards food/eating habits. I never thought of it like this before, but you're so right!!

  • @liyanlamyla
    @liyanlamyla 2 роки тому +4

    thank you for this, I've watched my fair share of "that girl" videos and I always wished I came across one that was for the Lord and not for our vanity as well as not having it go hand with their new age practices. it was refreshing and so encouraging to watch this and really bring Jesus into our daily routine. God bless you and thank you

  • @NorexaDesilva
    @NorexaDesilva 3 місяці тому +1

    Heyyy Ashley I am norexa😊
    Girl I literally love u..❤ u changed my whole life... my life was a quiet mess and I started to watch ur vedios and it made me wait for another vedio of yours... actually I wanted to let u know u changed my life so much and its a good change... thank u and God bless u tc ilysm❤❤❤

  • @emilyhawk481
    @emilyhawk481 2 роки тому +3

    Amen! "Find yourself" through God! That's the only way to do it

  • @gloriachristina6421
    @gloriachristina6421 Рік тому +2

    Omg.
    Finally I got this video.
    Praise the Lord.
    We are daughters of God.
    Amen 🔥

  • @rileygoddard845
    @rileygoddard845 Рік тому +9

    I am kind of late on commenting but I came across this video and I am going to try so hard to better myself as a creation of christ.❤️ Thank you so much.

  • @chrysanthemum5151
    @chrysanthemum5151 Рік тому +1

    Even her dog feels connected to god, so sweet and may jesus bless u❤✝️✝️✝️

  • @alexishilton6243
    @alexishilton6243 2 роки тому +3

    I really enjoyed this video especially the part when you talked about you trying to find yourself in your own way and it not working then you came to God and learned who He created you to be! I went through the same thing before i re-dedicted my life to God and decided to be fully committed to living for Him. Anyways love this video!!! God bless :)

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +1

      i am so so glad this video inspired you. you are so loved and valued here!

  • @coconut5754
    @coconut5754 Рік тому +2

    This is such a inspirational video, I have been Christian my whole life and my parents are pastors and I have always wanted to be that girl, but I saw this vid and you reminded me that we don’t have to be like everyone else

  • @nomcookies93
    @nomcookies93 2 роки тому +7

    Miss you on Tiktok but I’m loving the longer content! Love that you do everything for His glory. Definitely one of my goals!

  • @mariaisraelainelopes4646
    @mariaisraelainelopes4646 Рік тому +1

    You know, when you pray to God and your prayers are answered, then your channel Ashley is the answer to my prayers, thank you, and keep posting videos and inspiring more people to be better in Christ Jesus!

  • @Calamardo1223
    @Calamardo1223 Рік тому +7

    to be a real christian girl doesn't mean to be the best version of ourself, we have to be close to God and meet him with prayer, worship and trying not to sin. We need to read the bible to know how is a real christian. 'Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2

  • @charmed_2023
    @charmed_2023 6 місяців тому +1

    Recently I've been wanting to come closer to to God because my school is a Christian school and that is just made me want to become closer to god I wished your video and it helped me want to even more and I realised garden Jesus are amazing people and I should follow them

  • @sarobidy7343
    @sarobidy7343 Рік тому +7

    I just scrolled through youtube and found this video. Thank you so much for this, for your channel and for your way to inspire us to be the best christian version of ourselves by making these kind of trending videos!! God bless you ❤

  • @alannanoelle_
    @alannanoelle_ Рік тому +1

    i love you!! this is so amazing, in a world where people are so closed off to religion because it's not the stereotypical "cool girl" or "that girl" thing, i so appreciate you promoting it. i'm trying to build my relationship with God and it's influences like this that make the task that much easier by knowing i'm not alone in my faith on the internet. God is so good 💗

  • @xoniyat
    @xoniyat 2 роки тому +5

    when you said people are "finding themselves" with quotations i laughed because a lot of people do not want to hear that part. a lot of us leave God in last place and it will show! love this entire video and you!

  • @amazinggracemcleod7764
    @amazinggracemcleod7764 2 місяці тому

    I'm using all of it!!! Thank you Ashley for your videos, it helps so many people to know that a happy, healthy lifestyle is really possible!

  • @danielaquinteros2880
    @danielaquinteros2880 Рік тому +12

    I'm Catholic and this video is so inspiring ❤ thanks

  • @tired_squirb
    @tired_squirb 2 місяці тому

    i could write an entire book on this tbh, but i just wanted to quickly say as a warning to anyone who's been in my place that this lifestyle and mentality was extremely destructive to me when i found it and applied it to my life at the age of around 16. this could just be my experience, but in denying myself and "focusing only on God" i ended up with no sense of self at all and ended up depressed among other difficulties. The crux of the problem in this mentality is that it assumes you are doing something wrong and can fix your mind by fixing your behavior. That means any anxiety you have is wrong and bad and also is your fault because you can control it. as a neurodivergent that is very toxic because it neglects both my basic needs and any right to knowing myself. Thankfully, God told me actually to focus more on myself and that has been so healing.

  • @shalafilm119
    @shalafilm119 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for this video! I love it so much it inspires me to continue bettering my life through Christ. You are such an inspiration, I don’t find much girls involving God in their leveling up process yet instead they rely on themselves. I think that the moment we realize that we aren’t strong without him is the moment we invite him into our life and the moment we start to see change and grow as individuals. ❤️

    • @ashleyhetherington_
      @ashleyhetherington_  2 роки тому +1

      i am so so glad you are here! He WILL always be strong for us.

  • @Vlogsbyjayyyy
    @Vlogsbyjayyyy 7 місяців тому

    I am excited to implement prayer walks with the Lord and also journaling to him! Amen!❤️

  • @nemock
    @nemock Рік тому +5

    You don’t see most that girl videos showing women, praying and reading the Bible, most likely because one of the things Jesus instructed through the gospels was not to be showy and self righteous and pray in front of people for attention.

  • @heatherdoty486
    @heatherdoty486 Рік тому +1

    Convicted at 57 seconds in 😂 I appreciate this video! Telling me things I need to hear!

  • @graceleeanneflynn9751
    @graceleeanneflynn9751 Рік тому +5

    This is such good content! I love this ❤️ So empowering, biblically grounded, positive & engaging with our generation. You rock girl! I was blessed by this ❤️

  • @bugaboo1625
    @bugaboo1625 Рік тому

    I really love your videos! I'm 20 years old and I've just given myself to the Lord. And it's truly not easy. I went 2 decades without thinking of God, let alone putting him first. And sometimes I forget about Him, especially if I'm struggling with something. I get sucked up in my own emotions and thoughts that I forget I'm being guided and watched over and that I'm certainly not in it alone. Your videos inspire me to really take priority over my relationship with God and even understanding myself, who I am and want to be... Thank you for spreading these messages!

  • @nivekaperera
    @nivekaperera 2 роки тому +8

    Girl you are such an inspiration!!!!

  • @damarisalondra3245
    @damarisalondra3245 Рік тому +1

    I'm so happy for discovery your channel. 🥺💕🙏

  • @ceemeedw2699
    @ceemeedw2699 Рік тому +6

    Ashley I love this! You are in every way woken. Thank you for sharing such life and truth 💯❤️

  • @Juliana.moraes
    @Juliana.moraes 6 місяців тому

    Oh my God, I found your channel today, what incredible work you do! I've already subscribed and ended up on Instagram and discovered your book. May God bless you. Thank you for talking about God in such a natural and realistic way that helps so many girls and women. You truly are an example. Congratulations, sister, may God continue to bless you and protect you from the desires of this world-our human nature

  • @taliw7736
    @taliw7736 2 роки тому +5

    Lovely thanks for sharing a biblical view about being your best self

  • @rhemahill7083
    @rhemahill7083 Рік тому

    When It comes to spending time with those who can draw you closer to God. I’ve been calling that a “ social cleanse” in my daily life I work with other people who aren’t all going to believe in the same things as I do and won’t have a walk with the Lord. I go to a church young adult group every Thursday night. Helps to encourage me to keep walking with the Lord. And it’s so refreshing being able to fellowship with young people who are hungry for God and have a desire to follow Him and do what He calls us to do.

  • @shesashlynn1555
    @shesashlynn1555 2 роки тому +7

    this is sooooo amazing!!!! 🥺💗 definitely needed to see this!!!!

  • @Itzanna_edits27
    @Itzanna_edits27 Рік тому

    This is probably my favorite video ever! This gave me comfort, I guess. I try to find myself and I try to incorporate God into it, but some days I can't. With my schedule being full almost every day, when I have free time I just want to get on my phone and do mindless things. I try to do things off my phone but then I figure out I can't do it anymore because I have a small attention span (because of my phone). I'm glad to say I watched this video all the way through with little distractions (checking my phone at the most 3 times). This video helped me figure out that I need to read the Bible instead of going on to my phone in the mornings. Give 10 minutes of my morning to God through prayer and just worshiping Him. I just want to thank you for this, because now, I know I don't have to be like the rest of the world. I can be what God wants me to be. I always knew that, but now I certainly *know* it.

  • @annekarudge5047
    @annekarudge5047 2 роки тому +8

    These are great tips!! Thank you for another amazing video, Ashley!💕

  • @paytonabrown
    @paytonabrown 2 роки тому +5

    I could've sworn you made this video already last week

  • @carlaestarellas9695
    @carlaestarellas9695 Рік тому +2

    Even tho I’m not a christian I like watching this videos because I like to see how happiness looks like to other people
    Love your video and kisses from Spain 💕

  • @lifeofCierra
    @lifeofCierra Рік тому +2

    SO BLESSED BY THIS ! thanks be to God for your firm stance sister !!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @neptxnetips
    @neptxnetips Рік тому +1

    This is the first video I've seen of your content and I immediately subscribed

  • @Pessoaaleatoria20
    @Pessoaaleatoria20 Рік тому +6

    Você é uma grande inspiração ❤️🙌🇧🇷

  • @TechOutAdam
    @TechOutAdam Рік тому

    I love Christian women so much because I feel zero anxiety, stress, guilt, confusion or worry. I know what I'm getting. This was a great video.

  • @sarahizabelcm
    @sarahizabelcm 2 роки тому +7

    Conheci o seu conteúdo hoje no Instagram e estou amando! Que Deus continue te abençoando! Love from Brazil! 💓

  • @rachelfernandez6623
    @rachelfernandez6623 Рік тому +1

    I've been Surrendering my life to Jesus Christ. Letting go of my addictions such as Impulsive buying of clothes, greedy, lust, pride, kpop idols and secular music. i also been reading the bible for 2 months and my Life is really Changing.