You're a very private person, I can only imagine how strongly compelled you were to share this. God bless you abundantly for sharing and opening our eyes in your own words...
I love how you literally live out all that you sing and preach . . “I can be real” …”make Jesus Proud” … there is no disconnect between your message and your actions and I am so inspired to see how you are always willing to yield to God . ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks so much for this minister Victoria. For so long in the church we have taught the need of the wives to submit totally to the leadership of the man but we have not taught the emphasis of the husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church Deliver us from imbalance Lord
I came to a point that I didn’t care anymore if my marriage worked but hearing what you said is a reminder to do it God’s way. Maybe I should speak my role to my husband and likewise. I don’t know if this will help as I have tried so many ways to make it work in my own strength. So, dear Holy Spirit, you have to do something to make it work and honestly my desire is that God will bless Victoria with a beautiful God fearing man to enjoy a beautiful marriage. Yes and Amen.
Regina, don't give up. Your marriage will work, and your husband will come around. Communicate with each other and above all, let's God reign in your 💑 marriage.
That's the issue: "you have been trying to........him"; Stop it! I pray that by now you know: IT'S NOT YOURS TO DO. The only person you can change and let God fix is YOU!. You and Holy Spirit work out "YOU! Do as He tells you, and He Will work it out with your husband, AS HE KNOWS MARRIAGE IS ORDAINED BY GOD....not YOU!.
When I was a teenager I dreaded the idea of marriage because of what I saw around me. Thanks to Jesus, my mindset is changed and I believe that I will have one of the best marriage experiences ever. My future husband (wherever he is) is a man who loves and obeys the HolySpirit…and we will submit to each other under Christ. 🙏🏼 😅
My most loved and admired minister. The first time I heard the Song "YOU ARE THE CONVANANT KEEPING GOD" ,I thought it was an American artist until I discovered. Since I came to China your songs has transformed me. Mostly " The ministration you sang "FOR YOUR GLORY I DIE DAILY" ,CONSECRATE MY HEART ,I WANT TO BE HOLY JUST LIKE YOU. I LOVE YOU MA,YOU ARE A BUNDLE OF WISDOM AND I PLAY YOUR SONG 24HRS IN CHINA.
This is accurate! We understood this when we got married. And it has been a blessed marriage for decades. We can only live at the level of our revelation.
Chris love the church unconditionally, he gave himself for it , I agree with this message 100%. Thank you ma for this. If Everyman can love their wives as Christ loved the church, I don't think we will have divorce the way we see it these days.
I'm in total agreement. I'm not yet married but this is what I keep telling people.. We thank God for His grace upon you.. Thank you❤❤❤🙏🏽🙇🏽♀️🙏🏽🙇🏽♀️🙏🏽🙇🏽♀️
This is so explanatory. If we don't abandon 21, it's much easier to do 22 and the rest. Let's even sit and examine how Christ loves us. He foresaw all the things he'd endure yet he chose us!
This is revolutionary...I'm preparing myself for marriage and just yesterday I was reffered to this scripture when I was asking what's the foundation of marriage is ,but as she rightly said,I skipped the 21, my mind has just been renewed not because of gender equality issues but because this is God's word and I pray my kingdom husband finds this truth before we marry,but if not I will definitely bring this up for bible discussion when we eventually come together.Thank You God's woman
Loving the vulnerability in this episode. Im loving how you show us the humanity behind your brand. Phew we have come a long way as your fans hahaha...from no makeup and now you share such private moments with us. WE LOVE THE GROWTH. Thank you for being brave in telling your truth, your story and wow thank you!
Yes me too..i too was in the no make up, no hair care, no tv, no movies, no community gathering tribe; oh I mean Cult. Super glad I am not just saved, but Delivered🙌Praise the Lord.
This is powerful!!, God really taught you this, I am single but for a long time now God has been teaching me a whole lot about marriage, making me understand the many mistakes made in our society and churches about marriage. I believe God really wants to set marriages right because that is the foundation of the world, if marriages can be saved then the body of Christ will grow and be strengthened better and we will have less negativity in our world
First time hearing someone explain this passage, and honestly this wisdom pierced my heart. Thank you ma. Everything about this video came with the spirit.🔥🔥
Wow thank you soo much for sharing your story, being real and vulnerable. Yes! I pray the Lord brings you a priest in his house; a God fearing man who will love and adore you. God bless you sister Victoria, may your light shine and never be diminished.
I was truly blessed by this message! Thank you so much for opening up and sharing this with us. I actually grew up in the church but became atheist for about 10 years in my teens and early 20s and this is one scripture that always sat sideways in my spirit. NOT because I didn't agree with God's word, but because I always felt it was not balanced or was missing something. I've probably studied this scripture for hours and never saw what was right in front of my eyes! Thank you for making yourself available to be a vessel of blessing to many 🙏🏻 God bless you and your work
Thank you so much for sharing this moment of vulnerability, sis. Victoria. Every Christian marriage counselor or marriage pastor should watch this. The narrative has been wrong for far too long.
The emphasis has always been on vs 22. I didn't even know 21 existed until I read it myself. With the way it was talked about, oh dear, they made vs. 22 look like an impossible task and like a 'slaves to master' kind of relationship. Whereas '... as unto God...' there's the 'friendship' and 'sonship' aspect of submission.
@@blessingwealth same here...until I read it. That's when I saw that if I don't read my Bible, I will be tossed by human and cultural doctrine disguised as biblical. Mercy!!!
I absolutely loved: "If we don't start to teach scripture by the help of the Holy Spirit, we will keep causing problems; we will keep teaching from culture; from religion; not from Christ!" Truth in it's purest! That's what I have been teaching those that I can. Especially that we all need to understand that it's a must to have the Holy Spirit within you. Without which you are doing marriage according to "ideas & expertise" about it, and not God's way, which is the "way, the truth and the life!" As Min. Victoria Orenze put it: "The perfect way." Thank you for sharing this! ❤️
Wow submission means preferring him to me and he preferring me. Father Lord I receive the right God sent man that would love me just as Christ loved the Church in Jesus name, Amen.
Yeah very true. But it takes two. Well I've learnt this from older people who have been married for a very long time. Marriage is never perfect as it takes two humans. As humans we're naturally flawed but when both parties put in the work to make things right between each other and looking to Christ as the final authority that's where you flourish and it's even backed by the bible.
The Holy spirit gave me this revelation last month even when I didn't know about this scripture... This is a confirmation of the Holy Spirit. God bless you.
Sister Victoria, can I tell you how much of a blessing you are to the body of Christ? That God in His awesome power and Omniscience would have you address thus topic is nothing short of Amazing. Truly the Holy Spirit guides us into all truth. It was only yesterday that my daughter and I was address this subject matter. She asked why can’t I have sex before marriage and I in the best way I could explained. Then she said I want to get an understanding of marriage because I want to do it right (by God) I don’t want it to be fleeting. Again I tried my best to explain based on The Word and I did not quote that particular scripture in Ephesians, but I was able to speak about Gid being the head of the marriage and the importance of submission. I even made reference to time in Genesis when it was intended to be a partnership and and companionship until after that beguiling of Eve by the devil, that disobedience by Eve when God now said your husband shall rule over you. But that today you would come along and neatly package this message with such clarity ( some people are just better orators 😊😇) is confirmation, , a reinforcement and simply a blessing. What are the odds? It tells me the Holy Spirit is alive and at work always. Much blessings to you and may your oil never run dry.
Thanks and BLESS you for sharing! I at age 64 only married a brief time desire a Kingdom marriage prayerfully. My daughter - product of the marriage and my son before it out of wedlock went through what followed from the broken home. I desire your prayers for me at age 64 for true Ephesians 5:21 -Gods perfect only for me, my 2 now grown children to FIND me for God's Purpose. AMEN! My ex remarried years ago, recent few years ago was killed in a car crash. I never married again since the divorce before my daughter was born. Desire God's one - HIS WAY now in life. Thank You for your prayers - Believe for my PURPOSE is not too late, Nothing is impossible for my Father's one to walk together with me for God's perfect idea for The LORD - AMEN
I hope some shallow minded and egostic men who upholds culture above the word of God will hear this and have a rethink. I believe no one should see this message from a feministic point of view. The word of God supercedes all other thoughts. God bless you so much ma.
Oh Mummy, thank you so much. A lot has been revolving around me settling down. There are lot of issues, anger from the other party and sometimes am I’m blown out too. He believes a man is the head and cannot be challenged in any way. I really want to get out of this relationship, and stay for the Lord until he speaks concerning this matter. Oh that God will grant us an understanding of His word. God bless you Ma🙏
This is so helpful thank you. Nowadays they make it sound like only woman should submit. Thank u for making this scripture much clearer. No matter how submissive wives may be husbands turn to forget their role as husbands in most cases and that's how marriages break. Christ showed us all, the way on how this journey of life goes including marriages yet we still dont get it and until then we will continue to suffer. I hate how they only want woman to be submissive. Thank you woman of God, u are a blessing continue to feed us the true word of God. Thank you holy spirit🙏
Great insights......it's about time men are thought about their roles in godly marriages,it is always what the woman is supposed to do , forgetting that it takes two make it work. It's time that the church teaches both gender.God bless you woman of God
God bless you sis. I researched so much about you today after listening to your statements in Ghana. May the holy spirit continue to comfort you in Jesus name.
The table no longer exists… Minister Orenze has destroyed it, with precision and humility. Unfortunately, the “wives must submit” message has created a culture of entitlement that would take a lot to dismantle. So help us God.
Excellent exposition of scripture. You got to right on the head my sister. This kind of teaching on marriage is not heard in the church like this these days. Marriage is beautiful indeed. God bless you!
I love you so much Ma. Thank you immensely for this holy gist! I love that you choose to honor God and His word regardless of your personal experience or that of others. That’s what it means to be subjects in God’s kingdom. I celebrate you Ma. It has always amazed me that people fail to see that Jesus gave it all before we knew or loved him! He sacrificed his life for sinners. It is as we came to understand, see and embrace His love and Lordship that we began to align to his ways. Husbands have more to do because they are directly compared to Christ and to do it Christ way will invariably bring the submission that is so overtly emphasized! None of us submitted to Christ until His love was preached and shown to us! Today, I choose God’s way and will in submission because I think of His love for me and all he has invested in me and I tell my soul; “To commit this sin is not worth it! God’s love and investment in my life cannot be taken for granted! We can’t do this! He loves us so much, we can’t go against Him! He loves us so much, we can’t break His commandments! He loves us so much, we can’t afford to hurt him because of this temporary pleasure…” That is it! It’s the love and the investment of God in and upon our lives that constrains us! But when you demand submission without that kind of love of Christ, it’s trying to the it the other way round and it just doesn’t work because that wasn’t the template of Christ! Demonstrating unconditional love is a harbinger of Sibmission! Like Hosea and his prostitute of a wife, that’s how God loves us, he keeps coming to us even when we turn our backs on Him! How many men understand this? How many men are willing to love like this? Yet that is what Ephesians is telling husbands to do! Paul is invariably saying; “Even when you see she doesn’t deserve the love, love her because that’s what Christ did for us! Even when she does contrary to what you want, correct her, chastise her if need be but love her still! Love her not for what she can do or will do but because by The Help of The Holy Spirit, you love her unconditionally!” This is the ‘call’ of anyone who wants to be husband!😀 And it’s a huge call! 😄😄😄😄😄😄 And then wives, just as we will say Yes to the Lord in all things, knowing He loves us and has our good at heart always, we submit to our husbands trusting that he has our good at heart always as directed by The Holy Spirit. None of the roles can be accomplished in the flesh, it takes The Help of The Holy Spirit if we ask for it!
Thank you ma for this eye opening teaching of the scripture. Many men are tearing their marriage apart with emphasis on Eph 5:22 neglecting the fact that the roles are mutual.
A man that submits to God would automatically submit to the wife. A wife that submits to God would automatically submit to God. Holy Spirit helps both parties to submit to one another.
Not entirely true; "we must both work at it with the help of Holy Spirit; nothing is automatic. Further, we also must truly understand Father's purpose for His union between Male and Female.....to be a God-pleasing representation of Jesus and His bride and to fulfill the commandment to be fruit and multiply and have dominion over every lower form of life (animal) and destroy the works of the devil (and our flesh) first and foremost in our own bloodlines (parental and maternal)!
Victoria is simply GOALS! I yearn to expel such glory and grace from God. You just talking about marriage mama and I feel like speaking in tongues. God give me grace to reach her wisdom, understanding and peace, in Jesus’ name.🙌🏽🙏🏽
Sister Victoria God bless you so much for this solid balanced teaching . It’s the most profound balanced teaching on marriage I have heard !!! Submission Is Coequal And Coequal To God !!! True Love submits to God first and to one another as a being created in the image of God If one truly submit to God in love he will submit to the wife in love, if one truly submit to God in love she will submit to your husband for the Mighty Spirit of God lives in both of you The responsibility of the man as Christlike servant leader is higher than woman . Jesus gave his all in humiliation , suffering , prefers the wife above himself to give His all for her What woman won’t submit to husband that will die for her, prefer her , care for her tenderly love more than himself? We preachers and men have to be liberated from male chauvinistic Culture and religion to make marriage a true semblance of Christ and His Beautiful Bride We are citizens of heaven, we no longer belong to this earth our lifestyle and marriage and everything concerning us must be governed by the law of God the Bible You are a beautiful godly woman inside and out you walk in Christlikeness your passion for Christ is admirable I pray the Lord bless you with a true man of God to love you truly with the love of Christ and to expand His kingdom and a gift of His restorative miracle to you. I’m praying for you , your ministry has been such a blessing to me . Shalom !!!
I'm so encouraged hearing from my favorite female Minister. Thanks for the courage to share your story with us, it's encouraging. Key: It takes two", so help me God.
Wow?! This message was directly from HOLY SPIRIT through you Woman of God. I've never heard it explained that way. The onus has always been placed on wives to submit 'for the marriage to work' but never on both parties playing their roles. Thank you for allowing yourself to be used by HOLY SPIRIT to correct and save marriages in this generation.
God bless you Maa! Absolute truth! May we divide the scripture by the scripture with the help of the Holy Spirit and not culture or our feelings. Amen to your heart desires Maa❤️
God has many faces, He's not one way traffic. We thank God for that revelation ma'am. I have always felt that in this thing called marriage, men have the bigger part. Yes we do have the part as well, but men have the biggest. That's why the devil attacks them most.
Ahh mama thank God you left o. I stumbled upon this your video again and I know that it will be making sense now to the body of Christ. Love you ma and I respect your courage❤️.
Very very important words used we must teach on marriage and relationship according to The Holy Spirit interpretation of the scriptures, not my own likings or thought's...absolutely 💯
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Me definitely
@@JOYDJAKWAH great taste 🥰
You have a good eye for deco.God bless your hussle
I love it too!
Absolutely
You're a very private person, I can only imagine how strongly compelled you were to share this.
God bless you abundantly for sharing and opening our eyes in your own words...
Submission is Humility ; Humility is discipline ; Discipline is Self-control ; and self-control is of the spirit.
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I love how you literally live out all that you sing and preach . . “I can be real” …”make Jesus Proud” … there is no disconnect between your message and your actions and I am so inspired to see how you are always willing to yield to God . ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Let’s do it the God’s way ! Marriage is beautiful.. thank you so much sis Victoria for this
Yes. She's awesome.
She is a true woman of God and real role model I like her passion for Jesus
Thanks so much for this minister Victoria.
For so long in the church we have taught the need of the wives to submit totally to the leadership of the man but we have not taught the emphasis of the husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church
Deliver us from imbalance Lord
Thank you Min Victoria. I am getting married in April and this message is a blessing to my soul. Will definitely share it with my fiancée
I came to a point that I didn’t care anymore if my marriage worked but hearing what you said is a reminder to do it God’s way. Maybe I should speak my role to my husband and likewise. I don’t know if this will help as I have tried so many ways to make it work in my own strength. So, dear Holy Spirit, you have to do something to make it work and honestly my desire is that God will bless Victoria with a beautiful God fearing man to enjoy a beautiful marriage. Yes and Amen.
Amen 🙏 😭
Regina, don't give up. Your marriage will work, and your husband will come around. Communicate with each other and above all, let's God reign in your 💑 marriage.
That's the issue: "you have been trying to........him"; Stop it!
I pray that by now you know: IT'S NOT YOURS TO DO. The only person you can change and let God fix is YOU!. You and Holy Spirit work out "YOU! Do as He tells you, and He Will work it out with your husband, AS HE KNOWS MARRIAGE IS ORDAINED BY GOD....not YOU!.
Amen and God bless you
Amen.
Marriage is beautiful. I will have a beautiful marriage. My partner and I will love and honour each other as the Holy Spirit helps us.
AMEN
Amen
Amen!
Amen! And me as well.
When I was a teenager I dreaded the idea of marriage because of what I saw around me.
Thanks to Jesus, my mindset is changed and I believe that I will have one of the best marriage experiences ever. My future husband (wherever he is) is a man who loves and obeys the HolySpirit…and we will submit to each other under Christ.
🙏🏼 😅
All the best
My most loved and admired minister. The first time I heard the Song "YOU ARE THE CONVANANT KEEPING GOD" ,I thought it was an American artist until I discovered. Since I came to China your songs has transformed me. Mostly " The ministration you sang "FOR YOUR GLORY I DIE DAILY" ,CONSECRATE MY HEART ,I WANT TO BE HOLY JUST LIKE YOU. I LOVE YOU MA,YOU ARE A BUNDLE OF WISDOM AND I PLAY YOUR SONG 24HRS IN CHINA.
These ministrations are my favorite
Thank you for not bashing marriage just because you had a negative experience.
"We can only fix it when you're alive" that strikes hard.
Help me LORD to love my wife as you loved the church
I’m not married yet, but this is indeed an eye opening message that gives me a different perspective on marriage.
Exactly my thoughts. 👍
This is accurate! We understood this when we got married. And it has been a blessed marriage for decades. We can only live at the level of our revelation.
Amen. Glory to God for a blessed marriage.
@@gilbertkyeadee5856 Yes, all glory to God. Without Him, it wouldn’t be possible for us.
Chris love the church unconditionally, he gave himself for it , I agree with this message 100%.
Thank you ma for this. If Everyman can love their wives as Christ loved the church, I don't think we will have divorce the way we see it these days.
I'm in total agreement. I'm not yet married but this is what I keep telling people.. We thank God for His grace upon you.. Thank you❤❤❤🙏🏽🙇🏽♀️🙏🏽🙇🏽♀️🙏🏽🙇🏽♀️
You Said it the RIGHT WAY...a woman can Submit and not Love ..But a man cannot Love without Submission. Submission is a subsidiary of Love!
You didn't submit to God before showing you His love. Let your love and your prayers win her.
Very true
And that's it. Marriage is so beautiful when we prefer and respect one another. I am a living witnese
This is so explanatory. If we don't abandon 21, it's much easier to do 22 and the rest.
Let's even sit and examine how Christ loves us. He foresaw all the things he'd endure yet he chose us!
This is revolutionary...I'm preparing myself for marriage and just yesterday I was reffered to this scripture when I was asking what's the foundation of marriage is ,but as she rightly said,I skipped the 21, my mind has just been renewed not because of gender equality issues but because this is God's word and I pray my kingdom husband finds this truth before we marry,but if not I will definitely bring this up for bible discussion when we eventually come together.Thank You God's woman
Marriage is truly beautiful, and when God is ready I am open to it
Loving the vulnerability in this episode. Im loving how you show us the humanity behind your brand. Phew we have come a long way as your fans hahaha...from no makeup and now you share such private moments with us. WE LOVE THE GROWTH. Thank you for being brave in telling your truth, your story and wow thank you!
No make up how?
Yes me too..i too was in the no make up, no hair care, no tv, no movies, no community gathering tribe; oh I mean Cult. Super glad I am not just saved, but Delivered🙌Praise the Lord.
This is powerful!!, God really taught you this, I am single but for a long time now God has been teaching me a whole lot about marriage, making me understand the many mistakes made in our society and churches about marriage.
I believe God really wants to set marriages right because that is the foundation of the world, if marriages can be saved then the body of Christ will grow and be strengthened better and we will have less negativity in our world
First time hearing someone explain this passage, and honestly this wisdom pierced my heart. Thank you ma. Everything about this video came with the spirit.🔥🔥
Wow thank you soo much for sharing your story, being real and vulnerable. Yes! I pray the Lord brings you a priest in his house; a God fearing man who will love and adore you. God bless you sister Victoria, may your light shine and never be diminished.
Amen
Amen and Amen to this..
I was truly blessed by this message! Thank you so much for opening up and sharing this with us. I actually grew up in the church but became atheist for about 10 years in my teens and early 20s and this is one scripture that always sat sideways in my spirit. NOT because I didn't agree with God's word, but because I always felt it was not balanced or was missing something. I've probably studied this scripture for hours and never saw what was right in front of my eyes! Thank you for making yourself available to be a vessel of blessing to many 🙏🏻 God bless you and your work
No matter what the marriage God made is beautiful and perfect. We must learn to first prefer one another before assigning roles.
Thanks!
Thank you so much for sharing this moment of vulnerability, sis. Victoria.
Every Christian marriage counselor or marriage pastor should watch this. The narrative has been wrong for far too long.
Your comment is so true. Hmmm
The emphasis has always been on vs 22. I didn't even know 21 existed until I read it myself.
With the way it was talked about, oh dear, they made vs. 22 look like an impossible task and like a 'slaves to master' kind of relationship. Whereas '... as unto God...' there's the 'friendship' and 'sonship' aspect of submission.
@@blessingwealth same here...until I read it. That's when I saw that if I don't read my Bible, I will be tossed by human and cultural doctrine disguised as biblical. Mercy!!!
I absolutely loved: "If we don't start to teach scripture by the help of the Holy Spirit, we will keep causing problems; we will keep teaching from culture; from religion; not from Christ!"
Truth in it's purest! That's what I have been teaching those that I can. Especially that we all need to understand that it's a must to have the Holy Spirit within you. Without which you are doing marriage according to "ideas & expertise" about it, and not God's way, which is the "way, the truth and the life!"
As Min. Victoria Orenze put it: "The perfect way."
Thank you for sharing this! ❤️
Wow submission means preferring him to me and he preferring me. Father Lord I receive the right God sent man that would love me just as Christ loved the Church in Jesus name, Amen.
“If we don’t start teaching the scriptures by the Spirit…”
Yesss Ma! God bless you paaaaa
Too much is expected from wives without paying attention to the caveat! I sincerely appreciate that you could share this❤️
Yeah very true. But it takes two. Well I've learnt this from older people who have been married for a very long time. Marriage is never perfect as it takes two humans. As humans we're naturally flawed but when both parties put in the work to make things right between each other and looking to Christ as the final authority that's where you flourish and it's even backed by the bible.
May this message bring light and understanding to all that listen. Amenn! ❤️
Not the one coloured with culture & religion....absolutely 💯 💥
the first time I listen to her I realise the sincerity in her voice GOD BLESS YOU WOG... MARRIAGE IS INDEED BEAUTIFUL N MAY YOU FIND THE ONE
The Holy spirit gave me this revelation last month even when I didn't know about this scripture... This is a confirmation of the Holy Spirit. God bless you.
Sister Victoria, can I tell you how much of a blessing you are to the body of Christ? That God in His awesome power and Omniscience would have you address thus topic is nothing short of Amazing. Truly the Holy Spirit guides us into all truth. It was only yesterday that my daughter and I was address this subject matter. She asked why can’t I have sex before marriage and I in the best way I could explained. Then she said I want to get an understanding of marriage because I want to do it right (by God) I don’t want it to be fleeting. Again I tried my best to explain based on The Word and I did not quote that particular scripture in Ephesians, but I was able to speak about Gid being the head of the marriage and the importance of submission. I even made reference to time in Genesis when it was intended to be a partnership and and companionship until after that beguiling of Eve by the devil, that disobedience by Eve when God now said your husband shall rule over you. But that today you would come along and neatly package this message with such clarity ( some people are just better orators 😊😇) is confirmation, , a reinforcement and simply a blessing. What are the odds? It tells me the Holy Spirit is alive and at work always. Much blessings to you and may your oil never run dry.
Holy Matrimony for the Kingdom of God🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯❤❤❤
This literally came into my mind when I was reading the Bible this morning. I noticed that Abraham did everything Sarah asked him to do.
Thanks and BLESS you for sharing! I at age 64 only married a brief time desire a Kingdom marriage prayerfully. My daughter - product of the marriage and my son before it out of wedlock went through what followed from the broken home. I desire your prayers for me at age 64 for true Ephesians 5:21 -Gods perfect only for me, my 2 now grown children to FIND me for God's Purpose. AMEN! My ex remarried years ago, recent few years ago was killed in a car crash. I never married again since the divorce before my daughter was born. Desire God's one - HIS WAY now in life. Thank You for your prayers - Believe for my PURPOSE is not too late, Nothing is impossible for my Father's one to walk together with me for God's perfect idea for The LORD - AMEN
I hope some shallow minded and egostic men who upholds culture above the word of God will hear this and have a rethink. I believe no one should see this message from a feministic point of view. The word of God supercedes all other thoughts. God bless you so much ma.
Upholding the Word of God regardless of your experience.. Lord help me to walk in this truth.
Oh Mummy, thank you so much. A lot has been revolving around me settling down. There are lot of issues, anger from the other party and sometimes am I’m blown out too. He believes a man is the head and cannot be challenged in any way.
I really want to get out of this relationship, and stay for the Lord until he speaks concerning this matter.
Oh that God will grant us an understanding of His word. God bless you Ma🙏
Have loved you before, but my love for you just skyrocketed. Thank you for the transparency. The Lord’s hand will continue to lift you higher ❤️
Thank you MaMa for this power message, I pray i will not be the hearer only but also a doer of his holy words Amen.
In one sentence, I say God bless you in all Ramifications Woman of God … 🙏
Finally !! Thanks ma, someone finally teaches this , the way i see it
This kind of wisdom can only be given by the holy spirit, God bless you woman of God.
This is so helpful thank you. Nowadays they make it sound like only woman should submit. Thank u for making this scripture much clearer. No matter how submissive wives may be husbands turn to forget their role as husbands in most cases and that's how marriages break. Christ showed us all, the way on how this journey of life goes including marriages yet we still dont get it and until then we will continue to suffer. I hate how they only want woman to be submissive. Thank you woman of God, u are a blessing continue to feed us the true word of God. Thank you holy spirit🙏
Great insights......it's about time men are thought about their roles in godly marriages,it is always what the woman is supposed to do , forgetting that it takes two make it work. It's time that the church teaches both gender.God bless you woman of God
God bless you sis. I researched so much about you today after listening to your statements in Ghana. May the holy spirit continue to comfort you in Jesus name.
I have never heard this kind of wisdom when it comes to marital counsel. Wow
Nothing is sweeter than the truth.
Thank you Mama Victoria for this.
I love you
The table no longer exists… Minister Orenze has destroyed it, with precision and humility. Unfortunately, the “wives must submit” message has created a culture of entitlement that would take a lot to dismantle. So help us God.
Thank you woman of God, thank you for standing for truth…
We are blessed to have you in this generation…
I can’t stop listening.God surely loves me 😊
You are a blessing to the body of Christ.
Thank you for sharing this truth
My marriage Will work
By the help of the Holy Spirit
In Jesus name Amen
I am ready to follow the word
Excellent exposition of scripture. You got to right on the head my sister. This kind of teaching on marriage is not heard in the church like this these days. Marriage is beautiful indeed. God bless you!
Thanks for the powerful Teaching. My eyes is more open.
I love you so much Ma. Thank you immensely for this holy gist!
I love that you choose to honor God and His word regardless of your personal experience or that of others. That’s what it means to be subjects in God’s kingdom. I celebrate you Ma.
It has always amazed me that people fail to see that Jesus gave it all before we knew or loved him! He sacrificed his life for sinners. It is as we came to understand, see and embrace His love and Lordship that we began to align to his ways. Husbands have more to do because they are directly compared to Christ and to do it Christ way will invariably bring the submission that is so overtly emphasized! None of us submitted to Christ until His love was preached and shown to us!
Today, I choose God’s way and will in submission because I think of His love for me and all he has invested in me and I tell my soul; “To commit this sin is not worth it! God’s love and investment in my life cannot be taken for granted! We can’t do this! He loves us so much, we can’t go against Him! He loves us so much, we can’t break His commandments! He loves us so much, we can’t afford to hurt him because of this temporary pleasure…”
That is it!
It’s the love and the investment of God in and upon our lives that constrains us!
But when you demand submission without that kind of love of Christ, it’s trying to the it the other way round and it just doesn’t work because that wasn’t the template of Christ!
Demonstrating unconditional love is a harbinger of Sibmission! Like Hosea and his prostitute of a wife, that’s how God loves us, he keeps coming to us even when we turn our backs on Him!
How many men understand this?
How many men are willing to love like this?
Yet that is what Ephesians is telling husbands to do!
Paul is invariably saying; “Even when you see she doesn’t deserve the love, love her because that’s what Christ did for us! Even when she does contrary to what you want, correct her, chastise her if need be but love her still! Love her not for what she can do or will do but because by The Help of The Holy Spirit, you love her unconditionally!”
This is the ‘call’ of anyone who wants to be husband!😀 And it’s a huge call!
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And then wives, just as we will say Yes to the Lord in all things, knowing He loves us and has our good at heart always, we submit to our husbands trusting that he has our good at heart always as directed by The Holy Spirit.
None of the roles can be accomplished in the flesh, it takes The Help of The Holy Spirit if we ask for it!
Dear Tiara, 👏 👏, we obey and honour God in all our dealings. Our women and men especially will be like Christ in Jesus name.
Wow! Thanks for this extra.
Waouh. This was great to read.
Thankyou !
Indeed it was!
Speechless........ God bless u mama🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
This is beautiful!!! Thank you so much ma'am for obeying God and sharing
I pray the right person will locate you by the mercies of God. Amen🙏
Thank you ma for this eye opening teaching of the scripture. Many men are tearing their marriage apart with emphasis on Eph 5:22 neglecting the fact that the roles are mutual.
A man that submits to God would automatically submit to the wife.
A wife that submits to God would automatically submit to God.
Holy Spirit helps both parties to submit to one another.
Amen 🙏🏾 👍🏽😊
Not entirely true; "we must both work at it with the help of Holy Spirit; nothing is automatic. Further, we also must truly understand Father's purpose for His union between Male and Female.....to be a God-pleasing representation of Jesus and His bride and to fulfill the commandment to be fruit and multiply and have dominion over every lower form of life (animal) and destroy the works of the devil (and our flesh) first and foremost in our own bloodlines (parental and maternal)!
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The verse is qouted out of context dear
God bless you for this light ma. Sadly, some men don't want to hear this, but truth is truth. If we must love like Christ, we must submit like Christ.
Profound message ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🇳🇦
Marriage is beautiful and in all this God expects us to apply the godly principles. If you don't love God, how will you love your spouse
Victoria is simply GOALS! I yearn to expel such glory and grace from God. You just talking about marriage mama and I feel like speaking in tongues.
God give me grace to reach her wisdom, understanding and peace, in Jesus’ name.🙌🏽🙏🏽
I am divorced and agree marriage is and will always be beautiful. In spite of our experience.
Great woman 👍
Thank you. A whole new light!
thank so much, GOD REALLY USE YOU TO MINISTER TO ME
Excellent doctrine. Let him/her who has ears listen to what the spirit is saying 👂👂👂
You're very correct ma..i strongly agree with you... More grace and anointing upon you in Jesus Name. AMEN
Sister Victoria God bless you so much for this solid balanced teaching . It’s the most profound balanced teaching on marriage I have heard
!!! Submission Is Coequal And Coequal To God !!!
True Love submits to God first and to one another as a being created in the image of God
If one truly submit to God in love he will submit to the wife in love, if one truly submit to God in love she will submit to your husband for the Mighty Spirit of God lives in both of you
The responsibility of the man as Christlike servant leader is higher than woman . Jesus gave his all in humiliation , suffering , prefers the wife above himself to give His all for her
What woman won’t submit to husband that will die for her, prefer her , care for her tenderly love more than himself?
We preachers and men have to be liberated from male chauvinistic Culture and religion to make marriage a true semblance of Christ and His Beautiful Bride
We are citizens of heaven, we no longer belong to this earth our lifestyle and marriage and everything concerning us must be governed by the law of God the Bible
You are a beautiful godly woman inside and out you walk in Christlikeness your passion for Christ is admirable I pray the Lord bless you with a true man of God to love you truly with the love of Christ and to expand His kingdom and a gift of His restorative miracle to you. I’m praying for you , your ministry has been such a blessing to me . Shalom !!!
Well said sir and Amen to the prayers
Amen, sir!
Thank You so much woman of God for pastoring us.
Thank you Holy Spirit
Same thing the Holy Spirit ministered to me yesterday
God bless and keep you ma🙏
God bless you Maaa
I'm so encouraged hearing from my favorite female Minister. Thanks for the courage to share your story with us, it's encouraging. Key: It takes two", so help me God.
Wow?! This message was directly from HOLY SPIRIT through you Woman of God. I've never heard it explained that way. The onus has always been placed on wives to submit 'for the marriage to work' but never on both parties playing their roles. Thank you for allowing yourself to be used by HOLY SPIRIT to correct and save marriages in this generation.
This message right here should be listened to by all Nigerians churches worldwide.
God bless you Maa! Absolute truth! May we divide the scripture by the scripture with the help of the Holy Spirit and not culture or our feelings.
Amen to your heart desires Maa❤️
I totally agree with you Woman of GOD
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This is a powerful revelation. I am a widower and I have been blessed by this Holy Ghost inspired sermon.
God bless You Minister Victoria Orenze.
This is indeed Holy Gist.
GREAT GREAT MESSAGE. I APPRECIATE YOU
God has many faces, He's not one way traffic. We thank God for that revelation ma'am. I have always felt that in this thing called marriage, men have the bigger part. Yes we do have the part as well, but men have the biggest. That's why the devil attacks them most.
Ahh mama thank God you left o. I stumbled upon this your video again and I know that it will be making sense now to the body of Christ. Love you ma and I respect your courage❤️.
I love you Pst Victoria and I pray God will bless you with the best groom that he sees fit for you woman of God.
Haleluya marriage is beutiful when done Gods way
God bless you so much Mama.
Marriage is a beautiful thing regardless of any experience. Thank you
This is worship..I celebrate you Ma'am Victoria. I learn from you everyday. You changed my attitude in worship
Took so long.. I’m glad Holy Jist is back however… Thank you
I just love you WoG
Victoria God bless you📣
God bless you for sharing.
Very very important words used we must teach on marriage and relationship according to The Holy Spirit interpretation of the scriptures, not my own likings or thought's...absolutely 💯
I love you ma, I honour you ma. More Wisdom ma.