Baby and Mommy Attachment Experiment - itsjudyslife

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  • @goosebump91
    @goosebump91 3 роки тому +143

    I was a psychology major and we learned about attachment in college. It's actually a good sign that Leah cried when Judy went away but became calm when Judy came back. It shows that she has secure attachment, the healthiest attachment style :)

    • @goosebump91
      @goosebump91 3 роки тому

      @@fortheloveofplantsandcoffe894 you're totally right 🙂

  • @tinytanegz
    @tinytanegz 3 роки тому +98

    Hi Judy! I'm one of the granddaughters your dad was talking about! I've been watching your vlogs for years and recently found out that we're related! So awesome. Thanks for giving my grandpa a shoutout. Hope to meet you and the fam someday. Much love.

    • @itsJudysLife
      @itsJudysLife  3 роки тому +20

      Hey cuz!! Hope we can connect soon in the near future ☺️

    • @edenmonroe1404
      @edenmonroe1404 3 роки тому

      Orange County Suzara over here!

  • @Aqua-tx9jy
    @Aqua-tx9jy 3 роки тому +69

    Leah's reaction is literally the textbook definition of being securely attached to her parent! That's an awesome thing, it means she most likely will be able to build healthy relationships in the future!

  • @portiawells788
    @portiawells788 3 роки тому +95

    Leah's response to Judy isn't necessarily an "issue" because she displays behaviors of secure attachment when Judy returns (i.e. smiling, contentment). Typically, children at 7+ months recognize one individual as their primary caregiver and will experience distress when that person leaves. Starting at around 9 months is when most children start to develop attachment to multiple caregivers.

  • @hawaiikawaii4381
    @hawaiikawaii4381 3 роки тому +122

    baby leah has every feature ate JB has! Even her voice sounds like it’s going to be like ate JB’s!! So cute

    • @hellenserrano5866
      @hellenserrano5866 3 роки тому +9

      Yeah that raspy voice . So cute 🥰

    • @jaybird1301
      @jaybird1301 3 роки тому

      hawaii kawaii was thinking the same thing.

    • @nessi95
      @nessi95 3 роки тому +1

      Yes! You could hear it in her cry, sounds like JBs voice!

  • @ChristinaTruong1
    @ChristinaTruong1 3 роки тому +211

    I bet Judy had LOTS of fun adding in the thumbs up sound effects 👍👍👍😂

    • @itsJudysLife
      @itsJudysLife  3 роки тому +54

      😒😒🤣

    • @betteryourlife865
      @betteryourlife865 3 роки тому +21

      Yeah her face after 😂

    • @Charmaine._
      @Charmaine._ 3 роки тому +21

      Her face when the camera panned to her after all the thumbs up 😑😒 HAHA. I die

  • @zsofia_nagy
    @zsofia_nagy 3 роки тому +25

    Julianna reading her book and Judy listening endearingly, made me tear up in an instant, such precious moments.

  • @ThatWednesdayPlace
    @ThatWednesdayPlace 3 роки тому +407

    Who remembers when Benji only drank coffee on “coffee Monday” ?😜

  • @coleenarellano3970
    @coleenarellano3970 3 роки тому +145

    Is it only me or also someone else is waiting for the new intro with Leah? 🥰

    • @LY-wl3uf
      @LY-wl3uf 3 роки тому +7

      Yess the intro is *super* outdated anyways lol

    • @Lexi0228_
      @Lexi0228_ 3 роки тому

      Same

    • @richapathak2958
      @richapathak2958 2 роки тому

      Now it's time for Bella to be added 😜

  • @deborahborne4861
    @deborahborne4861 3 роки тому +454

    JB is gonna be a philosopher - "is the tooth tiny or is the bowl so big?" LOL

    • @alissaj8975
      @alissaj8975 3 роки тому +7

      She's sooo darn cute reminds me of my baby girl. I swear these kids are so smart they will save our future 💙

    • @burkies8273
      @burkies8273 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know!!

    • @februaryboy91
      @februaryboy91 3 роки тому +1

      Julianne kills me omg 😂

  • @Sweetjenny720
    @Sweetjenny720 3 роки тому +47

    I think it's wonderful for kids who are attached/clingy to their mommy! It's a special bond that no one can replace! ❤❤ My children are too, if only, they stay clingy forever! Lol

    • @jennymontilla9352
      @jennymontilla9352 3 роки тому +5

      Exactly one day they are not going to need mommy and we are going to miss our clingy babies.

    • @mizhersheehsrehzim1009
      @mizhersheehsrehzim1009 3 роки тому +2

      Love it except when i had to go to work and drop him off his day care 😬

  • @dacutestdimples
    @dacutestdimples 3 роки тому +48

    JB's book 🥺🥺 ❤️ Hoping you put that up somewhere when she's over reading it! She did such a great job on her drawings 🥰

    • @itsJudysLife
      @itsJudysLife  3 роки тому +9

      She’s a great writer ☺️

    • @jenniferandthings
      @jenniferandthings 3 роки тому +2

      @@itsJudysLife if she wants to be an author when she is older she will be a great one

  • @ireneSag
    @ireneSag 3 роки тому +68

    Judy, just a friendly heads-up, you may want to save the special toys for them. I gave away so many star wars toys, etc. that were popular back in the day. My son is now 47 , and he wishes I would have saved them😭 Now you know I may be your oldest follower .
    🙋🌺

  • @twinklysoul
    @twinklysoul 3 роки тому +11

    Im sure Leah's gonna grow up to be daddy's girl just like her sisters too.. the girls are blessed to have such loving parents who shower them with lots of love & affection & also discipline them when needed not all of us grow up the way they do

  • @SusanW324
    @SusanW324 3 роки тому +8

    So proud of JB!!!! I even called my daughter in the room..saying look JB wrote a book, look at the cover! We are so proud ♥️♥️♥️

  • @Lvu24
    @Lvu24 3 роки тому

    I enjoy seeing the sisters interact over the cutest things.....I've seen them grow through Itsjudys life. 🙋‍♀️ Proud follower for more than 10yrs. Awesomeness

  • @JS-vd1dy
    @JS-vd1dy 3 роки тому +351

    Judy: “Even I don’t use tripods”.
    Benji somewhere: “💀”

    • @itsJudysLife
      @itsJudysLife  3 роки тому +42

      Truth 🤣

    • @adriannehall5462
      @adriannehall5462 3 роки тому +1

      I cracked up when she said that.

    • @carmiolsen9834
      @carmiolsen9834 3 роки тому +1

      @@itsJudysLifeI Love Kbear...dunno why 😍... It isnt her cuteness..bcs..Leahs age is supposed to be d cutest..but its still KEIRA, for me, whos my most loved♥️...i do love jb miya leah too n ma n pa n benjie n U too, judy... just be a FAIR mom to them n good karma will come ur way🙏...Promise ?

    • @missliz85
      @missliz85 3 роки тому

      🤣

  • @f8th4lyf2
    @f8th4lyf2 3 роки тому +2

    I was having breakfast and drinking coffee. I nearly spit out my coffee to laugh when Benjie was showing off his muscles in the kitchen. So fun to watch.

  • @ChocoBabiChan
    @ChocoBabiChan 3 роки тому +91

    Judy, you should take JB's book to Office Depot to get lamenated.

  • @RR-js5yx
    @RR-js5yx 3 роки тому +180

    Benji, impressed with his arms: are my wings coming out?
    Judy: yeah, makes me want some chicken wings!
    😂😂

  • @camsxo7936
    @camsxo7936 3 роки тому +42

    Judy’s laugh when she finally figures out how to use the shoes for the peloton

  • @stephaniewilliams1110
    @stephaniewilliams1110 3 роки тому +9

    Judy’s unimpressed, “wow,” at 11:36 is such a mood lol especially when you’re a mom around kids all day. “mommy, look!” Is prob a phrase Judy hears 50 times a day 😂

  • @lopez_rey3641
    @lopez_rey3641 3 роки тому +193

    In Spanish there’s a Mexican term, “mamitis”, that means they’re attached to mom lol

    • @puggylover934
      @puggylover934 3 роки тому +9

      HAHAHA i love that word

    • @Bri_thesimp
      @Bri_thesimp 3 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣

    • @eralek2012
      @eralek2012 3 роки тому +1

      We use that term in Puerto Rico as well! 🤣😍

    • @gd3098
      @gd3098 3 роки тому

      Omg yess😂My sister has mamitis and she’s like 3🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @Lvu24
      @Lvu24 3 роки тому

      In Puerto Rico we say the same but we add: "tiene mamitis aguditis"

  • @GingerChung2014
    @GingerChung2014 3 роки тому +40

    Benji Leah is crying for Judy because her food supply is walking away. She loves you too 😊

  • @myxed21UP
    @myxed21UP 3 роки тому +3

    JB that’s such a beautiful cover! I hope you publish your own book someday ❤️ I’d love to read it

  • @Ria_n_Brian_93
    @Ria_n_Brian_93 3 роки тому +3

    Leah loves her Mommy and is very attached. But those moments won’t last long. She’s growing up so fast 😌 Judy, you are truly blessed❣️You and Benji have four amazing, caring, and loving girls. There will be a time when your girls will return the same Iove and care you always and continue to give them. 💞🙏🏼

  • @misscriss80
    @misscriss80 3 роки тому +81

    Poor Benji, trying to flex and fish for compliments and Judy says: "makes me want some chicken wings." Lmbo💀🤣🤣
    P.s. I'm amazed at how intelligent and creative JB is! You guys are such great parents!!!

  • @cindelynabigale8264
    @cindelynabigale8264 3 роки тому +1

    11:38 💖💖💖💖 I’ve been watching you since you and Benji were living in the apartment together and after all these years, your Dad still calls it “blog” 🤣

  • @tiakolovos575
    @tiakolovos575 3 роки тому

    You guys are such great parents. I love your laid back approach to your parenting although I'm sure it does get stressful. Laughing when the baby is crying is a good sign you're good! You know what I mean! I admire you guy and I think the world needs more Travis babies!

  • @dyuthiprasad
    @dyuthiprasad 3 роки тому +5

    I love how clingy she is ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Mothers and daughters share the best bond or connection and it's definitely cherished forever 😘😘😘 Love from India

  • @natashaoneluv3776
    @natashaoneluv3776 3 роки тому +2

    Well done on your book jb what a big accomplishment you go girl 💯👍👏💖🤩

  • @tcharming1
    @tcharming1 3 роки тому +5

    wow juliana can really draw for her age! very proud of your book JB!

  • @thetallgiirl
    @thetallgiirl 3 роки тому +3

    I can’t with Leah and her big girl chair😍she’s not leaning forward and hurting herself!Yay!

  • @Barchafel
    @Barchafel 3 роки тому +1

    Leah is one happy baby. She knows she has the best family in the world that's why she's like that. Just enjoy it for now🤗🤗🤗🤗she's gonna grow so fast

  • @Halaaaj
    @Halaaaj 3 роки тому +32

    Jb: “”Miya’s wanted that for her whole life”.
    Me: “she’s only 6”.
    Lmao 😂😂😂

  • @moreadventure3627
    @moreadventure3627 3 роки тому +4

    momma and poppa are the sweetest. God bless your family. love

  • @juxm3nhim
    @juxm3nhim 3 роки тому

    I’m a mother of 8 and those are the moments!! 6 girls and 2 boys!! I love watching you guys your family is growing! I’ve been watching you two since you guys got married!!

  • @viviansoto2489
    @viviansoto2489 3 роки тому +7

    Ohhh My Goodness... I couldn't help but to bust out laughing, when you fake punched Benji in da face (wit sound effects)!!! 😂😂😂

  • @monicaingram6163
    @monicaingram6163 3 роки тому +3

    Greetings from Cali! I just want to say I love, love your channel. Is my new favorite!

  • @GraceMinnickSLAMS
    @GraceMinnickSLAMS 3 роки тому +43

    Lol so clingy 😂 she knows how to play you

    • @Violet.18
      @Violet.18 3 роки тому +6

      5:26 Leah's crying bc her grandpa called her Miya

  • @33rumieru
    @33rumieru 3 роки тому +2

    I love you JB and i am so proud of you 🤗 the book you wrote about pets are so precious!

  • @d8bn
    @d8bn 3 роки тому +1

    Love seeing the girls, and mama and papa visiting. Also - that book Julianna drew - wow, so creative! I'm a thousand years older than her and she draws better than me. I'm inspired to take drawing classes because it looks fun and I really should draw like the adult I am.

  • @usomexmartin220
    @usomexmartin220 3 роки тому +7

    What if there was an Emergency? or a Earthquake? LOL🤦🏽‍♀️ Benji🙄🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @jessicaherrera404
    @jessicaherrera404 3 роки тому +38

    “That’s kinda dangerous what if theirs an emergency or earthquake” lmao 😂😂

  • @marriedlife2083
    @marriedlife2083 3 роки тому +3

    Judy, where did you get the mask you were wearing at Walmart??? I LOVE your family vlogs! Many Blessings 🙏🏽

  • @sh3lieMa3
    @sh3lieMa3 3 роки тому +4

    I love how Judy is so consistent with the thumbs up sounds in every video 👍🏼

  • @sonakshimakin5748
    @sonakshimakin5748 3 роки тому

    I just keep on watching reruns of when the twins were small so basically all vlogs from 2016!!!!!! So grateful for those as it makes my day, love you’ll Travis Fam ❣️

  • @priyankapatra255
    @priyankapatra255 3 роки тому +1

    Juliana's book ♥️
    She always amazes me with her incredible talent and personality !

  • @Geeloveesu
    @Geeloveesu 3 роки тому +4

    Hey, Judy. I would suggest to watch the set up videos again. Seems the seat needs to be raised a little more, your legs seem to be at too much of an angle. The handle bar needs to be at about the same level of the seat 🤗

  • @luvinlife225
    @luvinlife225 3 роки тому +6

    Gah, Leah is just beautiful! Both of my kids was attached to me. Not gonna lie.... I loved it! 💓

  • @MilkyCollective
    @MilkyCollective 3 роки тому +10

    Judy, I'm so proud of the girls for wearing their masks! Serves as a good example to my little nieces! lol

  • @ireneSag
    @ireneSag 3 роки тому +3

    I liked the message from your dad to relatives....Awesome🤗

  • @lex5235
    @lex5235 3 роки тому

    Benji tickling you made me laugh out loud literally. Something so small but you can just see your love for eachother 🥰

  • @unicornzalltheway8064
    @unicornzalltheway8064 3 роки тому

    Leah's smile just makes my day !! She is just shoooo cute ! As were the baby bears at this age xoxo

  • @suecrespy
    @suecrespy 3 роки тому +1

    Judy's sound effects ALWAYS on point! Love it!

  • @missellabella1602
    @missellabella1602 3 роки тому +17

    Can you please print out Judy's face and have Benji "wear" it? I'd like to see if Leah notices. XD

  • @itssandy4194
    @itssandy4194 3 роки тому +1

    Judy is killing it on the pelaton. You go mama!!!

  • @KruellaDeMillz
    @KruellaDeMillz 3 роки тому +13

    Hey Judy...If you share grandparents, you're first cousins; if you share great-grandparents, you're second cousins and so on. Your first cousin's children are your first cousins once removed; your second cousin's children are your second cousins once removed and so on. I learned this about four years ago and now I tell anybody who'll listen. 😬💕

    • @diannesironic5025
      @diannesironic5025 3 роки тому

      Keisha Yvette you first cousin's children are you second nephews/nieces

    • @KruellaDeMillz
      @KruellaDeMillz 3 роки тому

      @@diannesironic5025 Your sibling's children are your nieces and nephews 😉

    • @diannesironic5025
      @diannesironic5025 3 роки тому

      @@KruellaDeMillz if you read my comment I said your “ second “ niece/nephews. Your first are from your siblings being first generation and second comes from your cousins. Oh and 😉!!!

    • @KruellaDeMillz
      @KruellaDeMillz 3 роки тому

      @@diannesironic5025 okay whatever you say ✌🏾

    • @diannesironic5025
      @diannesironic5025 3 роки тому

      @@KruellaDeMillz aww thank you

  • @kubraterzi3410
    @kubraterzi3410 3 роки тому +18

    I wonder does Judy hear sound effects while she vlogging. They always crack me up

  • @NathanDuabanTheSonicEnthusiast
    @NathanDuabanTheSonicEnthusiast 3 роки тому +2

    That book JB made looks awesome

  • @crystaljohnston9928
    @crystaljohnston9928 3 роки тому

    I really enjoyed this vlog all of your videos I love of course . Your girls are so cute and so sweet such a beautiful family ❤️

  • @juneau827
    @juneau827 3 роки тому

    Congrats on your first novel Julianna! The front cover looks beautiful!

  • @normaanhalt144
    @normaanhalt144 3 роки тому

    Leah fits perfectly into her mommies body. Judy in blessed to have another child. I'm a empty nester. Love your vlog.

  • @katabrams5566
    @katabrams5566 3 роки тому

    JB! Your book looks amazing! Keep writing! You could be an author AND an illustrator!

  • @thejojotamayo8837
    @thejojotamayo8837 3 роки тому +23

    Judy: Honey it worked this whole time!
    benji: You mean you just didn't know what you're doing?
    ugh husbands. thanks for pointing it out!!

  • @castvisuals
    @castvisuals 3 роки тому +17

    I feel like Leah was just born last week but it's been months already!

  • @mzsada
    @mzsada 3 роки тому

    Wow! JB is SUCH an artist, I love her book, she’s so creative! Great job, JB!

  • @andrelambert5015
    @andrelambert5015 3 роки тому +2

    Question: Judy were did you get your mask that you wore in Wal-Mart it looks comfortable?

  • @Svreeree_8
    @Svreeree_8 3 роки тому +2

    I can definitely relate to having such a huge family; especially all over the world. I can’t even keep up with the family tree and who they are to me 🥲

  • @vannessagonzalez8123
    @vannessagonzalez8123 3 роки тому +5

    Benji: "look at what the peloton does to you"🤣🤣🤣

  • @angelazenarosa3374
    @angelazenarosa3374 3 роки тому +3

    Ate JB is growing up so fast!! 🤍

  • @stephannielyman7704
    @stephannielyman7704 3 роки тому

    Benji cracks me up . Such a Dad . You are such a cute couple 😊👍

  • @lovellec3938
    @lovellec3938 3 роки тому +2

    Good morning Benji and Judy, love your vlogs and your family😁😊

  • @TotesOfFun
    @TotesOfFun 3 роки тому +4

    My daughter has that cute rice cooker toy and it’s the cutest! It makes cold steam comes out instead of hot steam ( kid friendly). 😁

  • @shantawinzer1214
    @shantawinzer1214 3 роки тому +1

    It’s so nice to see Judy excited about her bike. Happy Saturday 😀💗

  • @mavelinnunez9221
    @mavelinnunez9221 3 роки тому

    Omg Judy u kill me with those sound effects!!! 🤣🤣🤣😂😂 especially the one's when u pretended to punch Benji. Ya r hilarious xoxo thank u for always making my day n making me laugh. Love u guys 😘😘😘🥰💙💙

  • @mizhersheehsrehzim1009
    @mizhersheehsrehzim1009 3 роки тому +2

    Leahs so cute when she cries for her momma 😄

  • @faithiekim
    @faithiekim 3 роки тому +7

    HAHAH
    The girls: "Mommy look!" --> "3-2-1" *cheers*
    Judy: "~ wOw ~"
    HAHAHHAH 🤣🤣

  • @mcrobsessed247
    @mcrobsessed247 3 роки тому +5

    I think baby Leah is extra attached to Judy bc of what happened at the very beginning. Leah just having been born is very instinctively connected to Judy when she was taken away so suddenly right after birth. Because of this, Leah will always be protective of Judy & will always be looking out for her. She'll be mommy's little protector. It's their spiritual connection. 💞

  • @meganleonard9350
    @meganleonard9350 3 роки тому +6

    Judy not so secretly loving this 😂

  • @viancaflores7747
    @viancaflores7747 3 роки тому +1

    WHY DID I JUST GET REALLY EXCITED WHEN YOU SAID CHULA VISTA?! I live in Chula Vista🤗😁

  • @hogenikz07
    @hogenikz07 3 роки тому

    Ate JB, I can't wait for your book to be published! i hope you do the illustrations too!

  • @eleo_b
    @eleo_b 3 роки тому +18

    But then, there’s also those “Daddy comes home” videos with over excited babies jumping around and smashing their faces against windows”.

  • @Victoriarealtor
    @Victoriarealtor 3 роки тому +11

    Judy: “HONEY! It worked this whole time!”
    Benji: “what do you mean? You didn’t know what you were doing?”
    Judy: “YEAH!! 😅”
    💕💕💕

  • @lrcnnpllgr
    @lrcnnpllgr 3 роки тому

    Judy you should publish JB’s books. It will keep her motivated and will enjoy her passion even more.

  • @wmjohnson2007
    @wmjohnson2007 3 роки тому +1

    Man I love Judy😩 “why u trippin?” 🤣🤣❤️

  • @kimzarichanski9229
    @kimzarichanski9229 3 роки тому

    Judys’ parents are the cutestttt

  • @chricacelife903
    @chricacelife903 3 роки тому

    I am mesmerised by Leahs cuteness!!!🧸🍼😍

  • @GingerChung2014
    @GingerChung2014 3 роки тому +4

    Benji’s face when Judy said looking at him said it made her crave chicken wings 🤣🤣🤣

  • @AndreaRam
    @AndreaRam 3 роки тому +10

    Benji: shows Judy his muscles
    Judy: mmm I want some chicken wings
    HAHAHAH LOL I love you guys

  • @kyramioso
    @kyramioso 3 роки тому +1

    Oh my goodness Leah is so cute and reminds me of what my mom told me when I was older. When I was a baby I had to have her in my sights at all times and as long as my mom was within eye shot I was content 😂Now as an adult my mom and I are best friends and super close so I hope the same for you and your girls Judy ❤️

  • @cristyinDE
    @cristyinDE 3 роки тому

    Ate Judy, I suggest you get thay book reprinted or laminated. I would love to have that book! Made with love❤

  • @daro2662
    @daro2662 3 роки тому +1

    The shoes are going to help so much! Your making me miss my spin classes 😭

  • @ChuchesMind
    @ChuchesMind 3 роки тому +1

    It's so funny the way Leah cries everytime you dad Tries to carry her lool

  • @schmelersusann7927
    @schmelersusann7927 3 роки тому +1

    23:22 🌟🌟🌟 Poor Benji, trying to flex and fish for compliments and Judy says: "makes me want some chicken wings." Lmbo💀🤣🤣
    P.s. I'm amazed at how intelligent and creative JB is! You guys are such great parents!!!

  • @kylenealbao7832
    @kylenealbao7832 3 роки тому +2

    Total way off subject but @judyslife & @benjiman I ordered the exact same spoons that said “Japanese tableware” but found they were made in China?! Have you heard anything of the finish they painted them with? Thoughts I’m so torn I want to use my spoons 😂🤣

  • @edenmonroe1404
    @edenmonroe1404 3 роки тому

    Are you a Suzara or have Suzaras in your family??? OMG, I’m a Suzara! I’ve been watching you since your three barrel waver tutorial WAY back when. Supporting you and the family from Orange County, CA

  • @zoecj7608
    @zoecj7608 2 роки тому

    12:37 Wow! Great job, Ate JB! So talented 🥰 God bless 🙏

  • @d8bn
    @d8bn 3 роки тому +2

    ...on Judy's shoes - Benji: "What if there is an emergency earthquake?" . The vision of that, you can't get out of your shoes, just sittin' there stuck. LOL (as long as its not a bad earthquake).

  • @kong_v95
    @kong_v95 3 роки тому +9

    Judy: makes me want some chicken wings.
    Me: Chicken wings, chicken wings
    hotdog and baloney chicken and macaroni chillin wit mah homies