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  • @policouple-
    @policouple-  10 місяців тому +37

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    • @dhanalakshmiselvam8827
      @dhanalakshmiselvam8827 10 місяців тому

      Thank you sis

    • @applecinnamon1371
      @applecinnamon1371 10 місяців тому

      Dear PoliCouple, regarding using the thottil for kunjava.. I would like to share my experience. The thottil is good to use when the baby is young and is kept mostly at home. But when we start to bring the baby out, we had a tough time making her sleep during the trip. Because the baby will expect the same motion as the thotill.
      My mom taught me to use the thottil for my first child. And we had big issues bringing her on outings and trips. She will not sleep and keep crying the whole time due to lack of sleep. Alot of times we will be forced to come back home to put her back in thottil.
      For my second child i refused to used thotill and practiced to pat her to sleep on the cot. And it was always easy to bring her out as she will sleep in any condition outdoors.
      So i kindly request you to practice to put kunjava to sleep on the bed also. Not just thottil

    • @malarmalar4600
      @malarmalar4600 10 місяців тому

      Hat's off brother for ur support to overcome ur wife to normal,love u guys,keep rocking

    • @monishav3173
      @monishav3173 10 місяців тому

      Each month kunjava oda journey upload panunga..

    • @cks7284
      @cks7284 9 місяців тому

      Hi

  • @meenajeyakumar7609
    @meenajeyakumar7609 10 місяців тому +509

    Postpartum depression is the worst depression ever....those who experienced can relate to this

    • @yashithmirthun1857
      @yashithmirthun1857 10 місяців тому +2

      Mee too

    • @manjulapalanisamy408
      @manjulapalanisamy408 10 місяців тому +18

      Mee too. But some family doesn't understand new mom feelings

    • @meenajeyakumar7609
      @meenajeyakumar7609 10 місяців тому +4

      @@manjulapalanisamy408 yes family and husband support is main thing in postpartum

    • @anurekha7726
      @anurekha7726 10 місяців тому +3

      Guess when a woman stays at her parents place to feel safe and your in laws side of family telling she is happily enjoying at her mom's place 😕 A women of our age only will understand what it does to people. POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION IS REAL 😢 NO ESCAPE

    • @user-kj7mz3fl7f
      @user-kj7mz3fl7f 10 місяців тому +2

      Main depression en husband family thaan... ippo en baby ku six months.... en husband family la irunthu oruthar kooda paakka varalla.... all credit goes to my naathinaar Jayanthi.. may God bless her for my depression.... my husband is with her

  • @kathersevi4467
    @kathersevi4467 10 місяців тому +137

    எல்லாருக்கும் அப்படி தான்பா😢😢😢 குழந்தை வளர்ப்பு என்பது அம்மாவின் தியாகம்❤️ தியாகம்னு சொன்ன வழி மட்டும் இல்லை எல்லாத்தையும் நமளுடைய தூக்கம், பசி, எல்லாத்தையும் நம்ம தியாகம் செஞ்சது ஆகணும் 😊 ஆனா அவங்க வளர்ந்து வளர்ந்து வரும் போது நமக்கு ஒரு விஷயமாக இருக்காது ❤️❤️❤️ take it easy❤️ all is well 👍

  • @kathersevi4467
    @kathersevi4467 10 місяців тому +154

    குஞ்சாவே யாருக்கெல்லாம் புடிக்கும் 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @KarthikNatarajan23
      @KarthikNatarajan23 10 місяців тому

      நான் அவனுக்கு வட்ச பெயர் கூட்டா பையன் 🥰🥰

  • @queenrose7486
    @queenrose7486 10 місяців тому +60

    Postpartum depression is real, especially for c-section delivery. I didn't know about it at that time and I struggled a year with it. If you know earlier , you can mentally prepare for it.

  • @susanjoseph7663
    @susanjoseph7663 10 місяців тому +18

    I believe that smile of your baby can take away all the pain. I'm a mother who lost my baby during my delivery, when I came back from hospital, my baby was not been there with me as by baby was already cremated. I even never realised my c-section pain as my mental pain over losing my baby was above it. I too had pain but I never sat there & complain about postpartum depression as I know it will make my closed ones also sad & also this incident occured before posting postpartum depression stories become a trend.
    Till not even a single day in my life that I don't think about by baby angel, I visit the cemetery too & strongly believes that my baby was in heaven. Only when I see all these postpartum depression stories even after having a healthy baby & caring husband, I realise how strongly I faced that situation.
    So whenever all these postpartum depression mothers get depressed, just take your baby in your hand & look at their innocent smiling face & realise how blessed you are as you all got healthy babies. Then thank God for the blessings you had.
    Always count on your blessing, just realise that there are many women who are not able to conceive, lost babies during delivery, got baby with severe congenital diseases, autistic babies, not having supporting husband & family, etc. You all never ever realise the pain these mothers are facing.
    So please count on your blessings & enjoy motherhood...

  • @sathyakarthick4477
    @sathyakarthick4477 10 місяців тому +25

    You guys are really awesome 😊.... unga feelings and struggles ivlo open share pandringa... enaku marriage aagi 3 yrs aagudhu, baby illa... nan engayum pogama edhume explore panama ,vitulaya baby illa illa nu stress aagituku iruken... after baby kuda ivlo stress iruku therla.. so nan mentally prepared aaganum... indha video really oru awareness maari iruku... tq so much... be happy always bro and sis😊

    • @lavanyarm7530
      @lavanyarm7530 10 місяців тому +5

      Hi sis.... Baby seekiram unka veetuku varuvanka... Krishnar photo vanki veetla vainka.. healthy rendu perum sapdunka stress agathinka

    • @queenrose7486
      @queenrose7486 10 місяців тому +3

      சாமி கும்பிடுங்க மா. Society ய face பண்றதுக்கு கஷ்டமா இருக்கலாம், ஆனா இதுல உங்க தப்பு எதுவும் இல்ல. அப்புறம் ஏன் கவலை. ஆனா வீட்லயே இருந்தா depressed ஆகும். எங்கயாவது வெளிய போங்க, தனியா போங்க. Market போங்க. Park ,lake போங்க. சும்மா கூட street walking போங்க. மத்தவங்க சொல்வதெல்லாம் காதுலே போட்டுக்காதீங்க. மத்தவங்களுக்கு முடிஞ்ச உதவி பண்ணுங்க. உங்க நேரம் வரும்.,பொறுமையா இருங்க. Positive attitude ரொம்ப முக்கியம்.

    • @divyak6321
      @divyak6321 9 місяців тому +2

      U will become a mother someday… but don’t take too much stress for it. Keep ur body healthy and fit. Travel pannunga, explore pannunga, happy ah irunga. Ur baby will need a happy mother. Prepare urself for that. Life is short. Baby is a part of life. Dont miss ur present thinking abt the future.

    • @lavanyarm7530
      @lavanyarm7530 9 місяців тому +1

      @@divyak6321 well said

    • @saigowthami159
      @saigowthami159 6 місяців тому

      Sister don't worry am also facing all things 7 years baby illa baby illanu job pogala now I felt bad because money important zoon now so u all place job ponga pray allgod song kaluga husband amma kita pasuga jolly ippo enjoy pannuga don't miss this time go check up hospital eat healthy food and what ever you want you eat after delivery again u face all so now you enjoy baby coming soon for you don't worry

  • @vishnupriya3157
    @vishnupriya3157 10 місяців тому +35

    My baby is also four and half months old. I can also understand your situation. Postpartum depression is real. My parents are the reason to overcome it.

  • @selvameeraparameswaran4339
    @selvameeraparameswaran4339 10 місяців тому +6

    Breast milk supply illama formula milk feed panra mother ku irukra pain ah vida vera ethuvum periya pain ila.

  • @delhisanthikitchen
    @delhisanthikitchen 10 місяців тому +6

    சூப்பர் தம்பி இந்த மாதிரி கணவர் கிடைக்கிறது ரொம்ப கஷ்டம் அழகான குடும்பத்துக்கு வாழ்த்துக்கள்

  • @sujathajegathesan9437
    @sujathajegathesan9437 10 місяців тому +15

    நானும் இதை அல்லாம் கடந்து வந்திருக்கிறேன்😊 நீங்கள் உங்கள் அம்மா கூடா இருந்தும் இப்படி கவலை அடைந்திருக்கிறீர்கள்😢 நான் வெளிநாட்டில் இருப்பதால் கணவர் உதவி மட்டுமே எனக்கும் நல்ல கணவர் கிடைத்தபடியால் அந்தக் குறை தெரியவில்லை😊 உங்க ளுக்கும் நல்ல கணவர் கிடைத்திருக்கிறார் கடவுளுக்கு நன்றி சொல்லுங்கோ Mini Don't Feel❤

    • @priyat256
      @priyat256 10 місяців тому

      Same thing sister.. I don't have parents.. two c section.. no help from my husband and anyone . I alone managed everything.. even we r seperate family.. when my baby was three months old my husband will get leave for 15 days in office... he took that leave and he went to mother's home and he stayed there for 28 days.. i alone managed two kids.. I was crying a lot and at night 3 i will wash baby clothes.. happa i suffered a lot lot.. but till now my husband didn't understand and didn't stand for me..

  • @athirasasi8161
    @athirasasi8161 10 місяців тому +75

    I took around 1 yr to overcome this phase. More power to you❤

  • @vidhyalaxmi9641
    @vidhyalaxmi9641 10 місяців тому +4

    Ennoda kastatha nenachi naa azha maatten.. apdi romba kastama irundha enga amma ennai epdi valathirupanga nu nenachi paatha azhugai ellam varadhu.. ippo namaku irukura vasadhi la konjam kooda avangaluku kedaiyadhu.. enga amma ennai valathadhu olai kudisaila.. avangaluku A/C illai.. yen fan kooda sariya suththaadhu.. bed illai.. mazhai vandha veettukkulla ozhugum.. palli, karappaanbochi, thel, silandhi, erumbu, vandu, bacha, pooran nu endha poochi venumalum easy ya vandhudum.. so enga amma ennai avanga nenjulaye dhan potutu thoonguvangalam.. next day avangala paathuka avangaluku ammavum illai.. maamiyar dhan irundhanga.. but avanga dhan periya villi.. ipdi ellam irundha soolal laiyum endha kovathaiyum en Mela kaattama verum anbaiyum paasathaiyum mattum kaatti valatha enga amma va nenachippen.. enaku endha depression um varadhu..

  • @sruthiramachandran9235
    @sruthiramachandran9235 10 місяців тому +35

    My postpartum was hell each and everything u told I can relate to it. Only people who have been into it will understand how much it affects our mental health people who support us also won't understand the feeling completely most of the time they think we are just doing what all the other mother's are doing and exaggerating our emotions. And if you are breastfeeding exclusively you need to do it every 2 - 3 hours once, which would maximum take 20 min per feed. which means you are literally half of the day with your baby alone shut inside a room. What makes things worst is staying in your in - laws home if they are not understanding it will be a nightmare.

    • @lavanyarm7530
      @lavanyarm7530 10 місяців тому +1

      Yes, after 15 days I started doing my household work....

    • @abinayam9499
      @abinayam9499 9 місяців тому +1

      After 5 days of c section i started washing baby clothes and all other work😢

  • @deepahari2678
    @deepahari2678 10 місяців тому +35

    It's very normal to undergo postpartum depression after delivery...its important that our family members should be very supportive in this stage....Mini checchi u r very lucky to have that support from Pradeep Anna....Hats off to u Anna...only then a wife can be out of this very soon...otherwise it wouldn't b easy. Aran kutty u r so cute as always chellam❤😂

  • @vidhyalaxmi9641
    @vidhyalaxmi9641 10 місяців тому +1

    Idhellam varam pa.. enaku rendu baby.. rendume c-section.. first baby girl baby, very high risk baby, pre-term baby.. and delivery mudinji enga veetuku dhan vandhom.. but amma veedu pakkathulaye dhan irundhuchu in the same street.. but Ange Edam paththaadhu.. so enga veettukke vandhuttom.. but amma nalla paathuppaanga.. maamiyarum kooda vandhu irundhanga.. enga maamiyarum oru amma maadhiri dhan enakku.. avanga veetla ella velaiyum paathuduvanga.. baby dress ellam thovaichiduvanga.. enga amma vandhu samachi kondu vandhuduvanga.. baby ya thodaichi paal kudukurathuku rombave help pannuvanga.. ennaiyum nalla paathuppaanga.. enakkum milk adhigama surakkum.. milk leak aagi fever vandhudum.. spinal headache varum.. ammavum maamiyarum day time la maathi maathi nalla paathupanga.. so, naa night la avangala expect panna maatten.. avangalum night la thoongala na, next day avangalum depress aagiduvanga.. so, night rendu perume nalla thoongiduvanga.. naa dhan baby ya full ah take care pannippen.. pre-term baby.. so Ava azhudha kooda sound kekadhu.. so, baby thoongitu irundhalum naa night full ah thoongama mulichikittu dhan iruppen.. adhanalaye enaku adhigapadiyana niyabaga maradhi vara aarambichadhu.. idhai ellam naa casual ah cross panni vandhutten.. en maamiyar enkooda 1month dhan irundhanga.. then avanga veetuku poitanga.. monthly once vandhu 1week irupanga.. avlo dhan adhuku apram ellame naane paathuka aarambichitten.. baby ku 5months aanadhuku apram naane kulippaattavum aarambichitten.. 1st baby 1.3yrs aagum bodhu 2nd baby yum conceive aayitten.. 2nd boy baby.. avanukum c-section dhan.. but avan azhudha nalla saththama azhuvaan.. so, Avan time la night baby thoongittan na naanum thoongiduven.. ipdi dhan ennoda postpartum pochu..

  • @kavipriya6801
    @kavipriya6801 10 місяців тому +28

    Huge respect to both of u🎉Stay strong dears ❤ postpartum stage😢 was hectic but u peoples will be the example for others

  • @sabanabegam8624
    @sabanabegam8624 10 місяців тому +6

    Ongalukachu parents kooda irukanga naraya peruku yarume iruka matanga help panna adhallam evlo kastam

  • @Jonislifestyle
    @Jonislifestyle 10 місяців тому +9

    My husband is not supportive u are very blessed to have ur husband

  • @vijayalakshmiviji2355
    @vijayalakshmiviji2355 10 місяців тому +6

    Enakum apdi than achi enaku three babys 1st2st girl babys 3rd tha boy.en paiyan poranthappa enaku suthama breast milk eh varala appo na daiyum aluven yarume support kedaiyathu amma appa yarume illa husband veetla than irunthen na alugurappo ellarume enaku etho aiduchu paithiyam pudichiruchu pola apdilam pesa arambichitanga na athula irunthu velila varathuke romba kasta patten epo neenga sollum pothu enaku ennoda life la nadanthu ellam nabagam vanthuruchi😢😢😢

  • @babyshajita0978
    @babyshajita0978 10 місяців тому +10

    Postpartum depression is common to everyone... why this much cry mini.. when we see your newborn face ... all flow away...only the child smile only remains in ur 💜❤️💚💛❤️

  • @niroshaanjali8702
    @niroshaanjali8702 10 місяців тому +26

    lucky to have this kind of husband ...
    But thinking of my husband he made me to get depressed 100 times better than postpartum depression on my first delivery....
    I get tears even after 6 years ...
    But now he is getting good punishment for what he has done...
    Any women will never forget this particular period...
    Husband and in laws will play superior negative role during this period...

    • @raji5134
      @raji5134 10 місяців тому +1

      Same here. I can relate with you sis

    • @raji5134
      @raji5134 10 місяців тому +1

      I can relate. Same here. By seeing my kid face I came across

    • @keerthikab5272
      @keerthikab5272 10 місяців тому +1

      Exactly a woman will never forget how she was treated during her pregnancy and her post delivery period..i can relate it too.. my post partum became worst bcoz of my inlaws.. i had sleepless nights , crying.. etc.. May God bless them for all that..

  • @bharathi.J
    @bharathi.J 10 місяців тому +9

    God bless you both ....an kutty paiyan❤

  • @PadmavathiSridharan
    @PadmavathiSridharan 10 місяців тому +20

    Postpartum will extend upto 1 to 1 and a half year but not at a peak.. Dont worry..

  • @deepikaselvi537
    @deepikaselvi537 10 місяців тому +5

    Enaku romba athigama irunthuchi sis bt ennoda hus purijikavela romba naal achi neraiya insecure ah feel pannuva depression la veliya romba kasta patta bt ennoda purijika overa thitta arambichitaru ..ithanale paal illama poiduchi...nane try Pani tha veliya vantha depression la irunthu ippo enoda papaku 1yr 8 month..

  • @sangeethamuruga610
    @sangeethamuruga610 10 місяців тому +11

    Yes...naan 2 babies handle panniruken... without family support... husband nyt shift ponaprm thaniya ipa kuda 2 babies paathukren..1 st baby 4 years 2 nd baby 2 months

    • @ramamoorthyv4791
      @ramamoorthyv4791 10 місяців тому +2

      Me also...1 st baby 4 yrs...2nd baby 35 days now...Husband working at another place... without any support

    • @mounasowmi2196
      @mounasowmi2196 10 місяців тому +1

      Enakum same situation but ellame oru nal marum rendu pillaigalum sendhu vilaiyaduvaga dance aduvaga seta panuvaga adhaiyellam nama pakanumna idhaiyellam nama kadandhu varanum

  • @pinkeyr5555
    @pinkeyr5555 10 місяців тому +6

    Cute couple ❤️
    Understanding person's❤️

  • @harinishasudhakar388
    @harinishasudhakar388 10 місяців тому +6

    You both are lucky to have each. God bless you guys. Love from Malu girl and Tamil payan. Yes I am malayali and my husband is tamil like you. Take care ❤

  • @priyasaravanan968
    @priyasaravanan968 10 місяців тому +1

    Ama sis apaditha enakum irunthuchi.ni8 fulla thottil atura velaitha .naum ipaditha aluvan.hus enaku oorla illa velinatula irunthanga.intha video pathutu Ella husbendum support pannaum,purinjikanum . thankyou anna

  • @MekalaPrabhu-sf3ms
    @MekalaPrabhu-sf3ms 10 місяців тому +8

    Super da thampi well done❤❤❤❤❤papu kutti❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @mylittlechampks1207
    @mylittlechampks1207 10 місяців тому +10

    Hi mam u r blessed to have supportive husband...

  • @kayuvk2961
    @kayuvk2961 10 місяців тому +12

    Enaku baby poranthu 4 month akuthu enakum ithey situation than Akka baby smile aa patha approm happy akirum🥰

  • @sunekatwins8947
    @sunekatwins8947 10 місяців тому +5

    Supportive husband nd mom r very important n this time...u r lucky....i really experienced worst postpartum dipression...i over come only by mom nd my twin sister who helped to give milk for my baby....they r my god..... Even wn I'm in hospital lack of milk supply my twin sis feed my baby....im thankful for my sis forever....😢

  • @bagyalakshmi3531
    @bagyalakshmi3531 10 місяців тому +6

    Antha mllik smell oru oru ammakum rompa pudichu anupavikanum mole kidaikatha varam❤❤❤

  • @tittut2391
    @tittut2391 10 місяців тому +14

    Now my kids are grown well but now different challenges and tension... every stage la every challenge ..you can overcome all situations .. we don't have any support but now i think back how we overcome .in our society they care well as for first baby and for my 2 nd baby no one was with me ... baby gap is one n half its so hard time but busy with ith feeding both babies alone .. my mom is not alive and my mamiyar also did not come for my second baby.. but overcame that situation..

  • @paramasivamnatarajan1345
    @paramasivamnatarajan1345 10 місяців тому +9

    Good parenting! Congrats 👏

  • @abinaya4591
    @abinaya4591 10 місяців тому +2

    En husband kuda ungala mathiri than anna rompa supportive ah irruppanga na baby poranthu one month liya mama kuda vantan ipo vara enneyavum babyavm avanga nala pathukuranga

  • @arthiarumugam7972
    @arthiarumugam7972 10 місяців тому +2

    Exactly I face this all en baby poranthu 3month em amma veetla irunthan ipo inlaw veetuku vantan ipo en baby cooking householding work ellam na mattum than pakura enakunu oru 5mins kooda time kedaikathu but ithu ellamum en kolanthaikaganu naney ena samathanam panipa but sum time romba suppressed agum

  • @SnehaV-un1up
    @SnehaV-un1up 10 місяців тому +2

    Enaku rompa kevalamana life😢 c section la koduma amma appa matum tha support ❤ husband nu oruthan weast mamiyar sontha aaya. Avangale kodumapatuthuranga husband support konjam kuta illa. Bommai pola oru life neenga evlo luky akka❤🎉🎉 husband matum nallapathukita world la vera happy ethum erukathu

  • @kavisudan1440
    @kavisudan1440 10 місяців тому +2

    இது கிடைக்க எவ்ளோ பேர் காத்திருக்காங்க இதுவும் ஒரு சுகமான விஷயம் தான் ஹாப்பியா இருங்க

  • @SeethaGopalakrishna
    @SeethaGopalakrishna 10 місяців тому +9

    ஒரு மன நல மருத்துவராக உங்கள் வீடியோ எல்லொர்ருக்கும் உபயோகமாக இருக்கும் என்று சொல்கிறேன்.நல்ல காரியம்.கணவர் சப்போட் கண்டிப்பாக தேவை.நாளை மன நல நாள்.வாழ்க நீங்களும் உன்ஙள் குழந்தையும்

  • @AFJanani
    @AFJanani 10 місяців тому +8

    Correct sister 🥺 same I too faced the c -sec problem and postpartum depression 😔 It is hard days after delivery.

  • @chitrachitra5843
    @chitrachitra5843 10 місяців тому +16

    I have two sons...three to four year Same feeling😢..mentally I am very struggled without my parents support... Now growing and move on... It will be alright.... ❤be strong...

  • @amuthaguru1453
    @amuthaguru1453 9 місяців тому +2

    Proud of you brother 😊 i face this post partem depression on my first kid ... when i feel sad , angry , restless . Some times think to die . My delivery also c section... no one care about me and understand my problem... no one give moral support 😢 i feel fully depressed 😢 but now i carry my level best . My daughter 2 yrs old now happy to live. But postmartem is my very douffest period ..

  • @thansij8940
    @thansij8940 10 місяців тому +2

    Personal apdinra words ye dictionary la erunthu eni thukkira vendiyathutha bedroom la erunthu baby confirm anathu apart anathu labour ward kulla porathunu open to ah ve epa ellarum kattitu erukinga.. athula vera aluthu ulagathuke nanga kastathula erukomnu katta vendiyathu.. ethu ungaluku. Mattum ila personal things share panrenu suthitu eruka ellarkumtha😢

  • @pavimythili96
    @pavimythili96 10 місяців тому +1

    Don't worry sister..Anna lam super ah ungaluku help panranga romba kuduthu vechavanga ninga ..cute couple...en paiyanuku 3 yrs agudhu inum evlo depression iruku velila varala seriya thukam Ila guide Pana yarum Ila evlo kashtam patachu ..ipo konjam ok .. always unga videos patha good feeling happy to see you ...unga papa romba cute ..

    • @raji5134
      @raji5134 10 місяців тому

      Yes. Enuku andha. Mari oru vazhakai amayale. Mini lam very lucky

  • @kavisudan1440
    @kavisudan1440 10 місяців тому

    Engaluku twin baby. Appa எங்களை நெனைச்சு paarunga. சுகமான kashtam. அப்பறம் நெனைச்சு parka happya erukum

  • @jamesmelitaemili435
    @jamesmelitaemili435 10 місяців тому +1

    Super couple ippadiye happy ah erunga
    Konjam nalaiki kastam, kunjava perusa aita Jolly ah erukalam God bless you dears

  • @hijabithamizhachi3262
    @hijabithamizhachi3262 10 місяців тому +1

    Atlast someone spoke to openly....First 3 months is the worst time where we may even feel like yenda pulla pethomnu....but it's nature we can't help it...

  • @kathersevi4467
    @kathersevi4467 10 місяців тому +6

    எனக்கும் அப்படித்தான் பஸ்ட் பேபி பிறக்கும்போது எல்லாரும் கூட இருந்தாங்க அதனால எனக்கு ஒன்னும் தெரியல 😮 இரண்டாவது குழந்தை பிறக்கும் போது ரொம்ப கஷ்டமா இருந்துச்சு யாருமே இல்ல கூட,பெரிய குழந்தையும் பாக்கணும் சின்ன குழந்தையும் பாக்கணும் அவளும் அழுவா, இவனும் அழுவான், ரொம்ப டிப்ரஷன் ஆகி என்னோட பெரிய குழந்தை போட்டோ அடி அடின்னு அடிக்கவே🥺 ஆனா என்னுடைய கணவன் ரொம்ப சப்போட்டா இருந்தங்காட்டி எப்படி ரெண்டு குழந்தை இப்ப நான் பெருசா ஆயிட்டாங்க 🤲🥰சரியாயிடும் 👍👍👍 ஒரு குழந்தைக்கு நீங்க இப்படி சொல்றீங்க இன்னும் இரண்டாவது பேபி எல்லாம் நினைச்சு பார்க்க முடியுமா உங்களுக்கு 😢😢😢😁 இப்படித்தான் நம்ம அம்மா அப்பா, நம்மளே வளர்த்து இருப்பாங்க 🤲

    • @kavisnekasnekamithran366
      @kavisnekasnekamithran366 10 місяців тому

      ஆமா சிஸ்டர் எங்க வீட்லயும் இப்படித்தான்

  • @fathimuszohra4652
    @fathimuszohra4652 10 місяців тому +1

    Postpartum depression more pain full then pregnancy pain no one will support us we have to come out after my c section no one is there to support me including my mother after c section i have to take care of my baby AND i have to cook lunch break fast baby will not sleep at night my mother still she don't care of me my baby is one year still i have postpartum depression sometimes my husband support me only God can solve it

  • @kasthurilogivlog5623
    @kasthurilogivlog5623 10 місяців тому +6

    ❤❤ love you poli couples ❤

  • @battitamilan3930
    @battitamilan3930 10 місяців тому +7

    Don't worry ❤️❤️

  • @narenwelchallyn6283
    @narenwelchallyn6283 10 місяців тому

    True bro . Every Man should help their wife in housekeeping and cooking whenever possible..

  • @Laura_dreams_
    @Laura_dreams_ 10 місяців тому +1

    Sis yar ethu sonnalum kandukka vendam, nenga super 💯💯💯super family

  • @the_dancing_engineer
    @the_dancing_engineer 10 місяців тому +1

    M glad someone spoke about this.. totally relatable

  • @ranjithakarthikeyankarthik1981
    @ranjithakarthikeyankarthik1981 10 місяців тому +12

    Lovely couple and i really impressed 💯 don't worry and all is well... each and every moment is once in life should have to be happy by mingle with that whatever is bad or stress.... trust between urs and love will always hold u... keep smiling mini, dont waste ur tears.... ❤

  • @jeevithamurali5887
    @jeevithamurali5887 10 місяців тому +1

    True story of mother 😢 enaku la support ku yarume ila single ah paapa en bby ya ipo 4th month still n8 nd day thaniya nane tha pathukura i know ur feeling well... Naa newborn la irunthu stiching pain, ivana kaila full ah 5hours continuous ah pathuta... Yaru ipo vara en feelings ah understand panala😢😢😢

    • @ashkarna1227
      @ashkarna1227 10 місяців тому

      Same me to but me on 10 th day la irundhu thaniyatha paarhukta

  • @SuganyaDevaraj-dr9it
    @SuganyaDevaraj-dr9it 10 місяців тому

    Ella ladies um amma aayita ithellam anubavichutha aaganum.. ithellam kadasila paatha nalla memorise aa irukum..ithukellam aluvaangala mini.. take it easy ma.. ladies delivery pain aa thaangum pothu.. ithellam life la paathu than varanum.. don't cry ma..🥰🥰🥰.. kastapattadha kolandha varum..ok va.. maximum Ella kolandhayum amma mela tha romba paasama irukum..adhu amma padra kastathukagatha...❤❤❤

  • @poojaradhakrishnan836
    @poojaradhakrishnan836 10 місяців тому +2

    Akka eppavum bra use Pannunga. Bra ku inside nursing pads ( available at amazon ) vechikonga . Smell varadhu. Bath 2 times daily .....3 months ku apram diapers dhaaraalama use pannalam . Thambiku night time la matum diaper use pannalam. Depression konjam kuraiyum. Be happy and enjoy every stages of life ❤

  • @tittut2391
    @tittut2391 10 місяців тому +4

    Everyone have that problem sleeplessness etc ... kastam than but ipo most of the trending this term postpartum depression .. dont see that term in Google or social media
    I gone through but post partum but that time is not famous ... generally they say kastam alone ..
    Postpartum pathi neenga padicha than mindset la ayyoo depression
    Nothing to worry small hormone changes .. now a days men are supporting in caring babies.. ao u can overcome in our amma and my day men won't support..my husband but i am only taken care my babies in night time and day .. my husband job also tough job ..kastam than but every stage of baby is different challenges.. dont careuch about that term dear you are blessed with caring husband... everyone is magnifying that ... recently its trending from Western dear
    No worries ok if u want cry out it will reduce stress..

  • @Anjusreeju1
    @Anjusreeju1 10 місяців тому +2

    we are waited so long for marriage but family not interested so we married without their consent immediately got pregnant .. During my pregnancy I was alone no one to help but there is no worries
    we have to take care of ourselves.before one day delivery my monther arrived next da admitted hospital . on 32 th day she left again
    even we thought at least she came for delivery . Happy ❤
    i was prepared to take this responsibility my husband supported me well. we also have some imotional moments
    now also I think postpartum is lifelong

  • @kamatchisankar8768
    @kamatchisankar8768 10 місяців тому

    Enaku dec 27-2022 la girl baby porandhuchi en baby ah apola erundhu eppo varaikum infact Today varaikum en baby ah parthukarathu, sapadu oottarathu, kulipatrathu, powder podurathu, diaper change panrathunu ellame en husband tha panuvan..... God oru silar ku tha life la endha mathiri life partner ah kuduparu

  • @Burmadollsjourney
    @Burmadollsjourney 10 місяців тому

    எனக்கு உங்களின் மன வேதனை புரிகிறது ., இப்போது என் குழந்தைக்கு மூன்று மாதங்கள் ஆகிறது.

  • @MAHALAKSHMI-mz8pn
    @MAHALAKSHMI-mz8pn 10 місяців тому +2

    Time will pass even I had postpartum depression my baby still cry to carry all the time😢😊some positivity leading me

  • @hizamhamtha4441
    @hizamhamtha4441 10 місяців тому

    Hi Anna and Akka Good Family Good Video Eppovum Nenga Ipadi Happy a Irukanum Iraivan Tunai Purivan

  • @raghavimurugan4022
    @raghavimurugan4022 10 місяців тому

    I respect your feelings. But relate to my situation. Delivery annaiku en mamaiyar vetla govt hospital ah pakuromnu soli ennayum en husband yum velila thorathitanga. Enaku Amma kidayathu. Govt hospital la gent ah allow panamatanga. Paka al ilama 3 days ah nan ulla pata kashtam enaku than theriyum. Enaku sapadu kuduka al ila. First 1 week baby ku milk ae varala. En kuzhanthaiku sapadu ilama. Discharge agi 20 days la nanum husband I'm Bangalore vanthom. Enakaga en husband 3 days ah road la thoongunanga nan hospital la irukum pothu. Bangalore vanthathum en husband ku 1 week fever. Delivery agi 21 the day la irunthu ipo varaikum veetu vela elamey nan mattum than pathukuren. En husband ku field work. Niraya months thoongama sapdama kudumbathoda throgam en kulanthaiku milk kidukama mudilanu kutra unarchi ithu elathalayum nan romba stress agi atha solavey mudila enala. I am sorry. Stay happy and blessed.

  • @sumeshswaminathan4390
    @sumeshswaminathan4390 10 місяців тому +1

    Good information minimol... Pradeep bro... 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @sseema9563
    @sseema9563 10 місяців тому +1

    100% true... Roompa kastam

  • @entertain_all_time
    @entertain_all_time 10 місяців тому

    En amma avanga experience share panaga.. enga family la 20 members.. veetula ladies en paati, periyaamma, amma nd chithi only 4 ladies.. yelame gents and children.. paati lam romba koduma pani irukanga.. en appa support illa.. en ammama veetuliyum support illa... Naanga 3 daughter 3 abortion aagi iruku amma ku.. she will literally cry when she told her story 😢.. ipo girls lam konjam lucky i think

  • @poongodi_editz3936
    @poongodi_editz3936 10 місяців тому

    Baby porathu 15days achie ennala overcome pana mudiyala roba kasta pata ..etha epadi overcome pandrathunu theriyala 😔.......etha overcome pana epo song listening, drawing, communication to others panietu irruka.....but irruthalum some times my mind going to depression...😔😔 Epotha puriyuthu ennoda Amma evlou kasta paiturupaga nu....I love you...I am sorry ma ....

  • @KathijaIbrahim-xk4wd
    @KathijaIbrahim-xk4wd 10 місяців тому +1

    Unmai akka nigga sonnathella ennaku nadathathu nanu romba kasta patte

  • @ArchanaRS-kb9qy
    @ArchanaRS-kb9qy 10 місяців тому +4

    I took 3yrs to overcome the postpartum...the worst feeling ever😢

    • @abdurrahmanfaris2001
      @abdurrahmanfaris2001 10 місяців тому

      Can you please tell me, what is postpartum? I'm really don't know

  • @blushnbites4801
    @blushnbites4801 10 місяців тому +4

    U r lucky to have husband like him

  • @DeeneswarDeeneswar
    @DeeneswarDeeneswar 10 місяців тому

    Eanaku 2 years la girl baby erukanga ippo second boy baby poranthu 2 months aaguthu eanaku kuda baby paathuka yarumay illa 2 babyum naaney tha thaniya pathukura husband chinna chinna help pannuvanga erunthalum eathoo manasuku kastama eruku enga 2 family la erunthu baby ya paaka kuda varala ennoda husband ku Amma appa rendu pearumay illa avaru chinna vayasa erukum poothey avunga Amma erathutanga avunga appa 3 years munnadi earathutaru naanga rendu pearum mattum tha manage pannitu erukom romba dipression aaguthu but babys face paakum poothu avangalukaga enna veana pannalam nu thonum appadiye manasa theathikuva😢😊

  • @sudharamanantham4845
    @sudharamanantham4845 10 місяців тому +1

    Super be happy always ❤🤗

  • @seethalakshmi30
    @seethalakshmi30 10 місяців тому +1

    Sister I also c-section en baby ku ipo 7th month.. en baby ku 2 months irukum podhu en husband ku accident aagiruchi leg fracture.... Paduththa padukkaiya tha irunthangaa... We are in luv marage... Apo en situation epdi irukum... U r blessed unga mom unga hus support irukanga. Enaku ellamea en husband tha...... Fulla Hospital... Aprm essential things vanganum nalummm pappava vatchitu poven... Ennota kastam la ungaluku puriyumaanu theriyala.. edhuku na solramnaaa purinjupinga... I mis my husband.. ipo konjam cure aaguranga...

    • @raghavirangaraj
      @raghavirangaraj 10 місяців тому +1

      Time will heal everything dr take care❤

  • @user-ew9on1rr8v
    @user-ew9on1rr8v 10 місяців тому +10

    Dont worry Akka Anna ungala safe ahh padhu irukangala☺so cute Aran kutty❤

  • @1889shalu
    @1889shalu 10 місяців тому +7

    I'm going through it now. My son is 20 days old and I couldn't produce enough milk for him and he doesn't latch at all. I had to feed him with formula milk and it was really really hard for me to accept that I couldn't feed him with my own milk and I have cried many times and always feel like failure 😭😭😭

    • @padmavathib8659
      @padmavathib8659 10 місяців тому +2

      Don't worry dear . It's common for some people to have that naturally.. there are some medicines and food for producing milk.. please try it ..otherwise it's okay..

    • @Stunningoffer2024
      @Stunningoffer2024 10 місяців тому +1

      Have u tried lactare tablet and galact granules powder. For me only these 2 worked after a heavy struggle . This was prescribed by doctor. Now my kid is 4 yrs

    • @keerthikab5272
      @keerthikab5272 10 місяців тому +1

      Sister, i am also a new mom.. my baby is 6months now.. stress is the major reason for lack of milk supply.. even if u eat a lot of healthy food, it will not help if you're stressed.. relax panunga.. positive ah iruka try panunga.. trust yourself, ungalala mudiyum.. yena , nanum neenga solra athe naatkala kadanthu vanthuruken.. i had lack of milk at the initial stages, but i dint give up.. i motivated myself .. and i have successfully completed 6 months of exclusive breastfeed till date.. nama santhosham nama kaila than iruku sister.. ungalala mudiyum nu nambunga.. kandipa mudiyum..

    • @HappyMorning003
      @HappyMorning003 10 місяців тому +1

      Kids will grow give your best . nothing wrong in combination feeding .don't take too much pressure .just make sure you find the right formula which suits your kid .and try to switch amoung feeds bf and FF . sterilize the bottle really well use food graded feeding bottles

    • @HappyMorning003
      @HappyMorning003 10 місяців тому +2

      There is no proverbs which says bf are gonna be scientist and FF are not gonna graduate.every mom is a mom do what you feel is good for your kid .

  • @krishmitha4055
    @krishmitha4055 10 місяців тому

    Enaku enga amma veetula en husband sandai podu kuditu vanthutanga enakum c section than 16 days la en paiyana thokitu vanthen en mamiyaar enna pathukave ila naane than velai pathen samayal washing vesual washing ellame naan than pathen but enaku no depression am happy en paiyan mugatha pathute irupen athuve ennaku marituchu I am happy ipo en paiyanuku 2 1/2 year naanetha pathukiten ana neenga amma kita irunthu ipdi soli it's ok

  • @revathiselva6586
    @revathiselva6586 10 місяців тому

    Enakum indha depression erunthuchu but enga yaathu kuttya pagum pothu antha feele vera .

  • @Jenijeni.
    @Jenijeni. 10 місяців тому

    Same than athellam ninaichcha aluka than varum 😢

  • @rekhatnair9776
    @rekhatnair9776 10 місяців тому +10

    Kannuneer vittalum kasu kittum..pls don't cry infront of camera..enna venalum sollunge..bt azhathinge..take it easy

  • @sugan6818
    @sugan6818 10 місяців тому

    Mine baby also 4 and half months , neenga solra yella feelings um nanum gothrough pannen , be happy with ur prince 😊

  • @rosebuds5583
    @rosebuds5583 10 місяців тому +1

    Enkum baby porathu 4 mnth aaguthu..same feeling...starting la rmba depression ah iruchu...ethuku aluga varuthune theriyathu...ore thinking ah ve irukum...

    • @jenovamary901
      @jenovamary901 10 місяців тому

      Same Sis nanum anupuvichen romba kastama irukum romba alluven Sis nanum

  • @user-jo5vv7ht2d
    @user-jo5vv7ht2d 10 місяців тому +1

    Enakum c sec tha....ennoda amma mattum tha enakuda irunthanga...ennoda hus vera Foreign pa...romba depression la irunthen....epdi naa recover aavena nu yosichitu iruben

  • @suganyagladis4738
    @suganyagladis4738 10 місяців тому

    Kunjava may 20 nu nenaikuren...en papa may 29... Nanum romba depressed aagiten...indha madri support ila...aludhalum kandukamatanga...yarukumae puryathu...veliya vanthutome sis oru valiya...

  • @MM-ye6yl
    @MM-ye6yl 10 місяців тому

    Naan mattum than ennoda baby ya thaniya pathukitten pa, no depression, infact baby bathing, dress washing ellamey naan than panniketen, yarumey help ku panna mudiyala, ithu life la oru part avlo than, itha poi over ra solla vendam, new moms ku ithu konjam payama irukum

  • @mohamedafraz2676
    @mohamedafraz2676 10 місяців тому

    Hi Anna Akka eppdi irukiga 😊video eppa than ka paathen after delivery Anna support ugaluku super ka😍

  • @cinikingseeni3905
    @cinikingseeni3905 10 місяців тому

    U are so lucky akka...me also c sec with girl baby...from the starting of mi delivery time to now she is 4 month old...mi husband did not cares me...operation panitu vantha dayla irunthu till now en husband yepti iruka stitches yepti iruku nalla irukiyanu ketathu illa...avlo aaluven...even yen da vaaluromnu irukum....

  • @balkeesbalkees4206
    @balkeesbalkees4206 10 місяців тому +1

    Ne adhu parayunnu njan twens kuttikale nokunnu

  • @indhusuresh3171
    @indhusuresh3171 10 місяців тому

    Mm unmaithan pa romba kastama patran nanum pa

  • @sirajshiraj5685
    @sirajshiraj5685 6 місяців тому

    Same feeling enkum 1 bby irukkaga 3 yr ippo athe feeling TN ippa varakum sinna sinnatha irukkum apdi TN

  • @sabanabegam8624
    @sabanabegam8624 10 місяців тому +3

    Baby illama kasta padro neenga ipdi aluguringa😮

  • @meenakshins7943
    @meenakshins7943 10 місяців тому +14

    Hai ,chechi njanum palakkad kariya,enikum delivery kazhinj 3 mnth aayi..triplets aanu enik..ongalk milk leak akarth dipressed aanamathiri,enak 3 babies in nicu for 2months 3perkum milk pathaama romba depressed aanen ,even though giving formila ippovum apdi than..athe mari one day nit thoonga mudiyama cried a lot..hubby ,amma and my bro tha babiesa pathikittanga

  • @pandisb9412
    @pandisb9412 10 місяців тому

    Really akka na romba kasdapatten enkuda enga amma illa avanga sami kitta podanga na romba papa porantha pothu kasdapatten

  • @jiashinisg8083
    @jiashinisg8083 10 місяців тому

    Wonderful video sister super brother congratulations brother and sister God bless you your family ❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @priyadharshini127
    @priyadharshini127 10 місяців тому +1

    Akka nanum ungala mathari tha sis yanaku oru oru time la payatham pudikaramathari eruku 😭😥😥😥

  • @Goutham_fish_farming_
    @Goutham_fish_farming_ 10 місяців тому

    Njan Attappadiyanu thamadam
    Ningalude viedios ellam kanarundu
    Kunjavayeyum ningaleyum valare ishttanu
    Njan sajila

  • @archanaarchu4596
    @archanaarchu4596 9 місяців тому

    The real postpartum depression is giving birth to baby without mother support and preparing food by ourselves without any help compared to that situation you are very lucky so please come back and be happy.