Introverts Are SO ATTRACTIVE!
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- Опубліковано 15 чер 2024
- Introverts! It could be that you're an introvert or you're interested in introverted people yourself. Today we're going to be discussing what makes introverts so attractive and desirable to women. Introverts and extroverts both have their upsides and downsides. There are plenty of women who find this type of guy attractive, the shy guy, more reserved and less out-going in general.
Are you an introvert or are you curious on what makes introverts attractive? In today's video I'm going to tell you why girls find introverts so incredibly attractive. Carl Jung, a psychologist actually coined the terms extroverted and introverted, and they describe personality types. Now we all fit into one, but some of us are kind of like a mix of both.
An introvert is often more inward turning or more focused on internal thoughts, feelings and moods rather than seeking that external stimulation. Introverts are often judged as shy and sometimes it's thought that they are not actually popular with the ladies. While it's true that a very extroverted lady may go, obviously, for another very extroverted man. Plenty of ladies find introverted men very attractive. Introverts have plenty going for them and we are about to find out what it is that ladies love.
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0:00 Intro
1:00 Why introverts are attractive
1:08 They are mysterious
2:08 Easy to be around
2:48 They can dream
3:36 They are great listeners
4:06 They are intrinsically motivated
4:46 They are observant
5:22 Mindful of what they say
6:12 Creative out of the box thinkers
6:56 They are studious and smart
7:25 Interesting & intellectual
8:12 They do well under pressure
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Nice cute emoji. 👏
Very handsome guys usually do needs gorgeous looking woman;; stud service dates get stale; great ex coworker said he got tried of being a stud ;service date it get stale ; another greatlooking coworker had to bring his girlfriend over ; let his woman coworkersknow he is taken ; stud service date get stale;; woman wanting for few dates
This is a very powerful quote that I love to live by. "Wise men speak because they have something to say, fools speak because they have to say something" - Plato
@slayer..👍👍remind me tomorrow because I read it on a Friday night brother🦅
That's definitely my favorite.
"an opportunity to speak, doesn't give you the privilege to be heard" - I read it from one of my dad's books a long time ago and this has become my filter to always carefully think and curate the things you have to say especially in person.
@@paulquick8806 Lol no problem man. Stay safe.
@@dimpledimple5545 I haven't heard that one before but that is also a profound statement. :)
As a shy quiet boring introvert I can assure you that in my 53 years of experience women are NOT interested in us!
the best comment in the whole comment section
@@ShowMeYoBoob hi kitty.. And i still chose to be selective in my tastes to woman companionship or my single malt to my stocks working in stock market at experience par excellence. 😌🖖 Happy if the woman got traits of loyalty in her character.. And i must add.. An extrovert woman falls for an introvert guy! 😄
Ah yes, life in the friend zone. I can relate.
I can't understand how can a 53 year old guy say something like this and not be ashamed. If that was true for you why didn't you make a change. Why did you allow urself to be weak. Man's 53 walking around with the mindset of a shy teenage boy. Some people never really grow up I guess, despite their age
@@arsenmalaj8757 what do u mean why didnt he make a change introversion is not a choice. Minds with above average IQ tend to be introverted by nature while average IQ minds are extroverted and by being shy he probably means he is not expressive which is a symptom of depression. If his personality type is not what women are looking for it doesn't mean he is weak. What shall he do to appear "strong"? grab women by the hair telling them "come here b*tch, you like it deep don't you" (just some of my awful humor at the end :D)
Introvert here. Thank you for this video. Already very happy in a relationship with a woman who loves me for me, but it's great you're putting out videos for other introverts who can use a bit of a boost to their confidence.
Being an introvert may be mysterious to an outsider, but "chicks" quickly become disinterested. "Trust" me.
I am very sure that the person who helped me attract my ex after the separation can also help you. ...
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Gorgeous looking woman usually have a boyfriend/ bang guy: so ignored woman techniques totally:: works for married men; gay men ;; guys who have a partner: they got other goals in life: great looking guys usually don't needs sexual intercouse l dates
Why would I trust you
Women are complicated. They’ll get bored with not knowing about you. But if you tell them a lot of you, they still leave.
I'm glad I found this video. Because between being an introvert and being curious on what makes introverts attractive, I'm actually both of those things
I highly doubt you have any women beating down your door or dms lol
@@capo4ever334 うるさい。あなたはとても迷惑です。そして、あなたの意見は私には何の意味もありません、単純です。
if women, calling you weird instead of mysterious leave them or ignore them
Women attracted to introverted men!? Since when!? As an introverted man I can quite categorically state this is NOT the case. Unless you are outgoing you are invisible to women, sometimes worse. As for the rest of the video, that's bang on.
Introverted men think a lot but they can be very outspoken then recede back into their shell thus confusing people thinking what happened there they are a enigma a puzzle a challenge 😁
As for it being easier to be in a relationship with ...it depends. I honestly need my own space, it's not necessarily bc I don't like the person, it's just at times, I need to recharge my battery, our energy regenerates from being by ourselves. And alot of girls dont necessarily understand that. So they take it the wrong way
exactly. i felt the same way before. Most men didnt understand my need to be alone. I think that's why im only attracted to overly quiet men since they dont bother me at all. lol.
@@dimpledimple5545 That's right. It's really interesting how we tend me be a lot different from other ppl. But good to know we're not alone either.
Thx for sharing
@@dimpledimple5545 but don’t you want to cuddle and feel love for you partner? Especially if you dating a Hispanic guy , they tend to be very affectionate with their girlfriends. But also give them their space from time to time
@@theworldisimmense i love to cuddle and i am equally affectionate (in private). But as someone introverted and almost reclusive, i need to be alone for a while. Sometimes i withdraw for days when i get too overwhelmed of my worries. But as an introvert, it means i hardly go out of the house. So you can go to work and come home and id still be there. Lol.
I don’t know how you know so much about this subject but Thank you 🙏 I’m 46 been in a destructive relationship for the past 19 years happily divorced now and I met a 20 year old young woman.Everything you said to do I did everything you said to watch for I did. She just told me she loves me and I’m in heaven I’m so happy 😀 Thanks to you ❤️
If women want this. Why don’t they get it themselves? It helps an introverted guy a lot when the girl starts conversations
Women just can't handle rejection, you thought guys couldn't handle rejection sheeesh!
Women kind of fear to take the first step.. especially if you don't validate her
There is an disadvantage in being introvert , too nobody talks about it . Keep in between introverts and extroverts so it’s balanced .
Dude, it's not a choice.
@@MrSorror exactly
Many times the "truths" set forth in videos like this are just plain wrong, but in this case I think you have done a good job of accurately understanding and describing an introvert. At least, speaking for my introverted self, most of what you said rings true. But, like many of the others who have posted their thoughts below, it has NEVER been my experience that women in general were drawn to me (Maybe the occasional introverted woman.) They tend to derive calmness from an introverted man, and he brings something to the relationship that she needs. Extraverted women are almost guaranteed to find introverted men BOOooorinnnng!
I agree women like the loud mouth alpha. Until they don't.And that's usually after he screwed their best friend. I have no use for women like that. They are all cosmetic and nothing more. Their mind is as deep as their own skin. Try to have a real conversation with them. Que deer in the headlights))
I'm am introvert and have aspergers, that's never got me a long term relationship yet... ;) step up then ladies
I also have aspergers and most girls run a mile. Its a lonely life for some of us
Although the "attraction" may be there, the initiative won't be. Most introverted males will still be expected to actually initiate because of societal norms, since.ply because most women, whether they are attracted or not, simply will not initiate and instead will still turn to a more extroverted male.
I’m an introvert and I’m okay with it.
I am definitely introverted and I can attest to the fact that there is not an abundance of woman. There are high quality woman that will be attracted, however. Extroverts may have the quantity, but introverts attract the quality. So glad to have recently met a high value woman who loves and respects me. Thank you for your videos!
I'm sure you and your weird mustache are just dripping in women
@@capo4ever334 so you judged him by his pic but didn’t even read the first sentence. I’m sure your dripping in women
I'm curious, can you hold eye contact with attractive girls confidently? Just being introvert it won't give you everything. It's a combination of everything.
Its been 6 months since I have seen my crush and I just told her co-worker that, "I have loved her all along, " in the style of Nickelback and I pretty sure she will hear about it...!
Wow! Just wow. You've read me like an open book. It seems I'm a 100% natural :) I just hope I'll find a woman who value such characteristics, before I get too old. Maybe it's just me, but I think we lack self confidence and are not so much for hanging out, hence less opportunities to find the woman of our dreams :(
Introvert here. Yes I can be very shy at times. Sometimes it's hard for me to talk to a girl I like. Lots of things in this video sound very familiar to me. Thanks for the videos!! Much appreciated!!
Yeah, I can talk to anyone but once I like a girl. It’s hard for me to talk to them
thanks for boosting my confidence.
40 + year old introverted shy man here, turned down by every girl I asked out, I will die a virgin. Women think that introverts/ shy guys creepy, and go for the loud extroverts.
maybe you are just physically unattractive/poor/not smart/boring/unkind and asking out not right women?
We don’t have such a thing as “Introverted”/“Extroverted”, we have people with the higher tendency to either being more introverted or extroverted! i’m more of a introvert but when i’m with someone whom i love and trust i’m absolutely open and extroverted!
True. I'm the most quiet, shy, anti-social person until I'm around my mom or dad
Warning : don't get on my ass, I don't consider myself an introvert nor do I claim that I can put someone in this category ; there is a reason why psychology requires studying.
Intro : props for quoting Jung ; red flag : a lot of people think that they are introverts but they're not, they're just socially awkward people who struggle to fit in (which isn't a bad thing at all, nor does mean that they are lazy pieces of shit, just that they're gonna find themselves and their people if given time and opportunities).
Mysterious factor : bad example. Mystery generally leads to misconceptions which lead to problems in a long term relationship like wrongly founded expectations, etc...
Easy to be around : yes, but no. They can go with the flow, or decide to not go at all, dismissing something as non appealing to them.
Dream : valid if the said introvert is a functioning one. A big if, but whatever.
Great listener : Tends to be true, generally speaking. Score.
Motivated : same as dream factor, if the introvert is depressed, damaged, or whatever else, they can just give up and brood for as long as they don't get help (any kind of help). tldr : works for a functioning introvert.
Observant : part of the archetype, score.
Mindful with their words : same here, kinda part of the archetype, score. Side note : this can turn into a problem because if the introvert feel like what they are gonna say is not gonna be heard, they are probably gonna shut the fuck up.
Creativity : a huge inside world is a prerequisite for an introvert, so yeah, kinda true. What they are gonna make out this inside world is another matter. Still, score.
Studious and smart : no. Huge no. Being smart is being able to solve a problem and they are a fucking shit tons of problems that introverts really struggle with. A more or less good example : practical thinking about how to deal with two extremely emotive persons arguing with each other (think about a lot of anger, shouting or worse, physical threats).
On the studious part : yeah, if they are interested, they're most probably gonna invest themselves (again, if they're functioning).
Interesting and intellectual : generally speaking, true, cause they tend to have a lot of different topics which they are interested about, good for a versatile conversation.
Pressure: the fact that someone is not panicking doesn't mean that they are gonna find a good solution, so... er.
TLDR : yeah, maybe that those traits are attractive, doesn't mean that they're gonna lead to a healthy relationship.
PS : I speak english like a daft cunt so get all the way out my back about that. Or don't, and help me learn by pointing out my mistakes without being a daft cunt yourself, thanks ;) !
I don’t know what i am.. i just work my ass off every day from early morning till evening. And if i come home i take a shower i eat and i fall a sleep.. i’m also not thinking about future or deep thinking or talking about complex things that life may offers me.. i have my house my car and my job. So i’m settled. Maybe i’m just simple.
Thanks for another great video
Thank you for your advice on this video it really reminds me of what i am doing
Shy guy + shy girls = human extinction
Hahaha, absolutely true!!@
haha but no
Excellent 👍. Great video 😎👍
Needed this!
Nice video. It's great to hear about the ways how introverts are attractive to women.
I Really Wish I Had Learned/Known So Many Of The Things You've Covered In Your Videos 25 Years Ago.
Maybe I could've avoided at least Some of the Biggest Regrets & Traumatic Failures of my life.
Hopefully, A Lot of the younger guys & girls will enjoy the benefits of the knowledge you impart and avoid what I could not.
Thnx mam for ur advise...❤️
Incredible insights. Thanks
Glad it was helpful!
Introvert not shy. Not all quiet people are introverts the same as not all people who are sociable are extroverts. I have only dated and crushing on stoic and overly quiet men. and they're honestly worth it. I'm an introvert myself (but often mistaken as an extrovert). I could say the relationship is pretty chill. I guess that's why the relationship lasts longer than most and arguments are rare and no one needs to raise their voice to make a point. You only "fight" about serious things. otherwise, you just let go of petty things since arguments are draining. you dont have to keep them entertained and you can just be alone together. i mean, if you like the peace and quiet.
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Introverts have great personality traits but they are being considered as boring people (including myself)
Who Cares how the outside world perceives us, what Matters Is our inner peace
haven't seen the tattoo until today, that's a nice detail.
Old shy one, not that much nowadays.....
Greetings princess Anna, different from training, and practicing not to do, or say anything bad, or negitive, we also hate to be on the side of apologizing, or asking for forgiveness, so our duty is to just practice, and train to become,.what we are, what we know ,or even think ok.
Yeah, I am a introvert but women don't find me attractive. Probably because I'm an average guy and no woman wants an average guy. Whether they are a extrovert or a introvert they want a high status guy.
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Strongly agree.
How far do you go in Jung’s work? I’ve got quite a few of his books
The power of maturity 🙌
An ambivert is mix of both.
I enjoy all your videos you’re a smart woman
I can listen to this girl 24/7 without feeling the need to blink my eyes or even to breathe❤💯
SMH
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Hmmm... 🤔 Most serial killers are also introverts. 🤪🤣🤣
True, mature men are silent and words that come out of their mouth is Gold. They are emotionally stable not trying to take over the conversation forcefully which is attractive to many.
You described me I’m like that
Not every introvert is same 😂😂
I’m an introverted guy & this girl started talking to me a little bit. So I gotta talk to her when I have school tomorrow. But sometimes I don’t feel like talking so that stops me from doing it. But I’ll try my best to approach her.
Like everything in life there are pluses and minuses being introvert. But that is how I was created. Yes, there are definitely girls attracted to the introvert and it's usually the most beautiful girls in the room. I have experienced it. Yes, I would sit alone, and girls would come up to me and chat. It's the extrovert girls that are interested in me. Yes, I am very creative. Yes, top in athletics & had top grades in school. I am self-taught musician (you can see my electronic music videos). But being an introvert has its drawbacks. I know if I was more aggressive and was able to go up to a girl that I was interested in, there would be a better likelihood in meeting the right one.
In relationships we are very unlucky 😢
While I was in college, In was largely ignored by girls, mainly because I was the "silent type", not the fun, party type. But after college, older women hit on me quite a bit! And I didn't even pursue them!
Really; college or university life plenty fish 🐟 in the ocean:: usually guys got nice/ career pretty woman start to want you
Greetings empress Anna, has I said many times, gives nature the almighty the praises, and credit ok, but its like in our brain, the words, vocals, letters, numbers,sentences ,questions and answers,right there in place ,and order, so when we get that chance to use them it's easy, so we give praises to nature ok.
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So, what should I do as an introverted guy, who just happens to be super ugly (believe me, I've had women tell me to my face just how ugly i am.)... I've got no chance
This is like saying men with blonde hair are attractive or men with dark hair are attractive. Introversion/Extraversion aren't relevant to attraction per se, but some individuals may express a preference.
A friend's baby sister is an introvert. While she doesn't talk to mutual friends we had (he passed away unfortunately), she is pretty close to me. Irony is she is very attractive.
At 01:48, when she says "Introverts prefer to keep things on the inside, because it is just who they are..." she is correct! But too extend why they truly prefer to keep things in the shadows, is because they genuinely do not care about their own thoughts and feelings. In other words, they get bored from talking about themselves, while to someone else, they may find them interesting. An introvert isn't interested in themselves. Thus, they come off neutral or indifferent.
I love writing and creating tales for things like D&D, but I have no ambition for the workplace
I'm actually scared after watching this, maybe I need to find a way to interact with ladies I might have an interest in
Introverts may be attractive but majority of them lack of confidence...and women hate it.
What is the tattoo? :)
Introvert here also a shy person 🤣
I am all these in spades, but, apart from a few exceptions, have not really found women to be attracted to me. I wonder if European women find introverted intellectual types more attractive than American women do. I'm American, but when I lived in Switzerland, I seemed to be more attractive to European women than I ever was to American women here in the US.
American culture has idealized extroversion for quite some time. Not so much in other cultures. So, I think what your experience has suggested is real.
Its the novelty of foreigners, likewise European guys are attractive to US girls in the US.
Hope you all have a great weekend! :)
I’m focused more on internal thoughts.
Being a introvert has never helped me
Doesn't it help you while thinking complicated science stuff huh
@@meIanchoIia ouch you are right but not science sheet metal I got the jobs that needed thought on how to do it and be with in tolerance
@@meIanchoIia P.S. I ment with girls
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I really never thought I can be attractive in eyes of girls being introvert 😂. Thanks sweetie 😚😀
For those of you who are wondering how can being an introvert makes you hot, read this - introversion is a personality type and your personality plays an important role in making you hot.
Sitting day after day with Netflix sounds so good if only i have Netflix.
Lol this only applies to the chad looking introverts.
Yeah that's why all the ladies are jumping my bones while I sit quietly over here in the corner.
What some people don’t get is that there is a difference between introverts or extroverts and shy or confident
Yes I am introvert 😌🙌
I am both literally
I would say 80% of the video Is not true.
Btw i am an introvert
And remember folks (introverts and extraverts.) Being a "NiCe GuY" means you're not actually a nice guy. Just be a good person and understand that girls don't owe you sex just for being able to sit there and "listen" to them.
Love this video.
Your videos make me feel like maybe I'm not a complete waste of life.
-Said no one ever.
Proud introvert
How do you (as an introvert) tell if a girl is an introvert. Also, do/are introverts attract each other? Or do Intro’s attracts Extro’s? As an introvert yourself. Which personality out of the two do you think is the best fit for you?
I'm all of these things just very shy 😔😝🙆
And I'm always the first to break eye contact 🥵
The first step is recognizing a problem. Now to watch videos on why it's important to keep eye contact and start to consciously implementing it. It's been a game changer for me, especially for seduction
Thanks!!!! That's why women love me so!!!!
See I enjoy being completely recluse from away from people I'll rather be in my own world. I have no friends and no neutral friends. I'm like a dark angel I get uncomfortable if people are around me. That's why I like self isolation strong I am alone will remain that way until i die.
Women alway like me because im a keep to myself kind of person they want to find out things about me because i dont talk alot but i get the girls😎
This is true only if you are already good looking
It's sad that I had to look up what Introvert means well now I know what it is that would make me and introvert 🤘🏻😂🤘🏻
I thought I was an introvert, however listening to this I'm now not so sure
which parts make you think "maybe not?" (just nosy)
She is talking about Sigma Males.
Yes, i think you got it!
"OH BROTHER!" I'M ALL,OF THE ABOVE.
I saw interviews and woman they said that they prefer extroverts I dont believe that woman like the mysterious man in real life. Woman are attracted in noise and drama.
Videos like this make me laugh so hard keep um coming
I don’t fully buy what she just said this can be the case for some introverts not all
I'm an introvert and shy does that count !!!
Me as an introvert after watching this video: " I'm a hero 😎"